Why Narcissistic Abuse Creates a Cycle of Neglect and Self Sabotage

[@spotthenarcissist]

Did you survive this ordeal? What did you do? How did you create distance from the narcissist? This is an interesting discussion. Comment down below.

[@palapalak.8907]

ZERO contact

[@briandrake6881]

So true. Narcs (abuse) can make you "not care" in a bad way and not in a good way.

[@PatriciaDickey-cp7ow]

Exactly what they do and its disgusting af

[@PatriciaDickey-cp7ow]

He took all my wants i want nothing from nobody

[@tinarollins1469]

Me too.

[@tinarollins1469]

Same

[@redfritz3356]

Not everyone is like him.

[@mercedesgomez3406]

Yes, you said it perfectly

[@heatherzarnick4321]

Awwwe my heart guys…

[@zoobidoobi7039]

I am still stuck wondering whether I am such a lazy nasty slob, or if the abuse from first parents and then spouse plays a role in that. One thing is for sure, now in my thirties I still have to build a self care routine for the first time in my life and I'm just talking the small stuff like brushing teeth. Never mind things like saying no, journaling or hobbies.

[@Ana-yt7yi]

It's worth it, it seems almost like learning to live again. They like their supplies to live on breadcrumbs. Take care of ourselves is the antidote of what they did to us: I am important, my well being is important.

[@inira7418]

I'm struggling with self care

[@patrickbooth2329]

Ground hog day . hard to escape . and you realize its happening . get away keep your thoughts strait and clear . keep separating the crazyness from yourself . they dont care keep remembering . they dont care once you keep that thought close you start getting stronger regaining your power . say nothing they dont care . they waste as much of your time as possible with nothing .

[@OfSoulAndSin]

I do blame myself.

[@heatherzarnick4321]

DONT

[@ChristianComedyAndDebateChanne]

Both of my parents are narcissists. 340 days out of 365, they fought. Every day, fighting. Sometimes, my dad was physically abusive. After they divorced and i grew up, they started manipulating me. Always with the criticisms, gas lightning, insults... my father over played his hand but my mother i cut her slack since she has the mind of a 5 year old.

[@cheacuba]

10/10 😔

[@Red-Cloud69]

I love that every representation of a narcissist in this claptrap of a video has been a man. Pound rocks and shove your message.

[@Floridafanatic28]

I despise AI channels.