Why stressful times cause doubts as a fearful avoidant

[@Nicole-yx8ms]

Your vulnerability moves me every time, and you're changing the world (*for the better*) by being authentic and self-loving. Thank you always for sharing yourself, and may peace find every corner of the world. Hugs Paulien🙏

[@tanguy376]

Thank you for your work. I'm currently working on my selflove so I can give unconditional/healthy love. But Fearful avoidance keeps sending me an image of myself that I truly hate... Each time I see one of your videos it helps me to take a step back concerning these feelings. Thank you.

[@morehn]

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[@smiths698]

What a beautiful thing to feel seen and understood. Thank you ❤️

[@treasuretshabalala132]

Recently broke up with my partner, whom I suspect was also a fearful avoidant. Close to the end of our relationship he sounded very absorbed in the stories that were going on in his head, and despite my best efforts to convince him that things weren't exactly the way he saw them, he felt overwhelmed and decided it was best for us to break up. Knowing what he was probably feeling at the time really helped me to get my closure from the relationship. Although he was speaking the compete opposite of what he'd usually say about me and our relationship, I understood what it all meant because I've been there too. Being a fearful avoidant is such an interesting and at times very chaotic experience because you start out believing you're dismissive avoidant until your feelings come completely online and you begin to question whether you're anxiously attached, and then you realise that your attachment style is ultimately disorganised, but that experience has really helped me to tap into the experiences of all the insecure attachment style Individuals I've met. Yes, the stories in our heads feel so real when they happen. Thank you for this great content Pauline.

[@brightprime4900]

This is so helpful. Thank you for your compassion ❤️xx

[@AntonBogdanov1977]

You are totally, 100% correct. I am from Russia and what happened between our former brotherly countries, devastated me and triggered my FA and ROCD in a big way. Thank you for what you are doing, you saving a lot of people's lives here,

[@SaminSays]

i'm noticing this new era of new age healing where they say that these symptoms are coping mechanisms, manifestations of an unaligned belief flaw. which i appreciate because it's less deterministic and more empowering to address

[@coreygeiger81]

Sending you big virtual hugs, love.

[@johnsobieski3642]

I found this to be very helpful and insightful Paulien. Beautifully and clearly explained.

[@amyhoneychurch4911]

You are an angel. Thank you so much for your compassion and helpful videos.

[@paulientimmer-healingthefe9870]

Thank you for being here!

[@bananali2676]

❤️❤️❤️ thank u

[@Alyssa-yo6wv]

Hi, I was wondering if you make a video about how sex can be a little difficult with fearful avoidant?

[@paulientimmer-healingthefe9870]

Yes, i've put it on the list!

[@guadalupehuffman6791]

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