Why we’re leaving the United States FOREVER (in our 50s!)

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My wife and I are in our 50s and we've decided it's time to leave the US, a country that has given us a lot over many years but with which we feel done.
The reasons are many, and not necessarily what people think. Most folks assume it's for political reasons and sure, there are things we dislike about the US in that regard, but there's more to the story. Much more.
Watch on and let me know what you think!
Do you relate to our reasons? Have you pondered leaving the US yourself?
Leave a comment! Would love to hear from you.
(A huge thank you to my beautiful family for making this video possible. You mean everything to me. 😊)
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[@nathanieldrew]

You did such a great job with this. Very proud!!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you. You’re the best. :)

[@LeonCouch]

@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT By the way, Nathaniel, I ran into your videos just today and appreciated them very much. You both are doing nice jobs and contributing to the growth of positive ideas for our society and individuals.

[@truthalonetriumphs6572]

You guys are trying to find peace and fulfillment outside. With dopamine hits. It won't last. It's called suffering.

[@LeonCouch]

@@truthalonetriumphs6572 please explain what you're trying to say more deeply.

[@truthalonetriumphs6572]

@@LeonCouch Dissatisfaction is an internal quality, and it will be there no matter how much you change the setting. It can be masked by activity and short term pleasures, but that's not a permanent fix. Instead of working on the outside world (setting) which can be a lot of work and very wasteful, it would be much more productive to work on the inside. We learn and teach a lot of techniques but we hardly learn how our body and mind works. How it's restless and suffers constantly and needs band-aids. The act of realizing this/ watching this reduces the restlessness of the mind and the current setting comes alive in all its splendor. This is the only true progress. Other things are just rearranging the deck chairs on a rocky boat. The boat is rocking and that's the realization.

[@BellyrubsMan]

I am not leaving the USA, the USA is leaving me. Toxic political divisions, crime, an obsession with material items, gun violence even in the schools. This is no longer the USA I grew up in. Thank you so much for putting it in a way I struggle to share with my friends. I wish you great joy and happiness and look forward to following your journey.

[@PraveenSriram]

The USA 🇺🇸 has lost its soul

[@climeaware4814]

I should have left USA and CANADA. Canada is turning into the little step sister "predatory capatalim" of the united States.

[@acooksla]

Yup

[@sylviacarreon9268]

I have been here for 33 years and me and my Husband are seriously thinking of throwing in the towel 😏and moving / retiring in Europe(Germany )

[@BellyrubsMan]

@@sylviacarreon9268 I would not look at it as burning a bridge but rather expanding your reach. I will still come back to the USA periodically as perhaps you will also. It is not a matter of either/or but rather choosing the best that both have to offer. I wish you the best of luck in life's journey.

[@billbirkett7166]

The trade-off of living in (most of) the U.S. is social isolation and rampant materialism, in exchange for better economic opportunities. Not every one can justify the trade-off, not every one can deal with the superficiality of the friendships, the lack of walkable areas, and the fast pace of life.

[@NigarButterfly]

True

[@gotmemories]

You nailed my life in a paragraph!

[@beckypetersen2680]

From the appearance of their home - didn't look like they had a lack of walkable areas but very possibly superficiality of friendships - but the biggest is that their kids went to Europe. I noticed they didn't choose to go to Argentina or South America. I wonder if that is an option.

[@billbirkett7166]

@@beckypetersen2680 I'm more speaking to the generally poor walking and cycling infrastructure of most American cities. In Mississippi, for instance, it is generally considered superfluous to build a little sidewalk next to a big roaring 4 lane highway in the middle of the city. It's not all American cities built like this but that's just a recent example I saw.

[@beckypetersen2680]

@@billbirkett7166 oh for sure. It is downright dangerous to walk in our town in central FL away from certain paths. There are no sidewalks or places to ride bikes. No disagreement there for sure!

[@italythroughmyeyes]

What a great video! I just moved to my homeland of Italy at 70. I was living in the Midwest but had a burning desire to be home. I was just 4 when the family moved to NYC. I am very happy I sold everything came to Italy with only 10 bags❣️

[@climeaware4814]

congrats!

[@awpetersen5909]

Wow

[@snowygirl131]

Very courageous! Good for you! Buona fortuna!

[@lynnmicucci7086]

I would love to do the same but no way to do that if your not a citizen of the country and dont have a income coming in.

[@joyfuldolphin1]

You are an inspiration! You are never to old to realize and capitalize on your dreams! Have a wonderful beautiful lif e in Italy! Congradulations!

[@moonseun2197]

I am in my late 50s, and I have already signed the contract to sell my house in Florida, saying good bye to my 38 years of life in US. It feels amazing to close out a chapter and starting a new adventure!

[@climeaware4814]

Where you going ?

[@hellouu]

This sounds like an exciting leap. Good luck!

[@lionofjudah4114]

Moon seun where are u moving to. . Bless.

[@beyondthestars4299]

Where u going bro

[@liftme225]

denounce citizenship too.

[@Lea-rb9nc]

I don't believe you will have a single regret. I sold my house in California and moved to the south of France (by myself). The experiences have been amazing. Despite being born in America, I never took root. For me, France fit like a glove. Also, you have that magical incentive of having all of Europe so close for weekends and more. Best wishes.

[@DynamicBailey]

I so want to do what you’ve done. I keep hearing the French countryside calling to me. My husband isn’t really on board but I keep working on him. At this point, there’s really no place to go here in the US that hasn’t been overrun by transplants from other states and countries and it’s only getting worse. I hope one day I can do what you’ve managed to do. Although I don’t speak a word of French.

[@Lea-rb9nc]

@@juliad368 For most, that seems to be true. I just came from having coffee with my dear friend Rolande. She says my heart is French. There was no culture shock, everything here was as I had been searching for. France fit like a glove. She states she is my sister and I agree. My village is everything I could have hoped for. I am grateful to France for all she has given me. I am most fortunate.

[@greenknitter]

@@DynamicBailey You complain about being "overrun" by people from other countries yet feel entitled to move to France? Lol the irony.

[@donpeace894]

@@DynamicBailey yes you are a hypocrite

[@nox8730]

@@DynamicBailey I am french, so let's go straight to the point. Even one year later. This is necessary. France is swarmed by migrants. Probably more than ANY country in Europe. They come from every continent, hundreds of countries. It is to the point that us french can't take it anymore and 80% of us want to stop it. Most of us are against immigration, not against the migrants themselves, because we have a culture and 2 millenias of History to protect. This is a mission. This is why we are equally swarmed by tourists (more than any country in the world). And so, even in our countryside, you will find americans, africans, asians... more and more so. One of my friend is with a brazilian woman and his ex was a columbian. Migrants really come from absolutely everywhere. It is full of "transplants" anywhere you look. I live in the center of a little town in SW France, near the castle of King Henri IV. Under my windows, most of the time, the languages i hear are foreign. I can't even always tell from where, but arabic (a lot), african dialects, indian dialects, spanish, english, dutch,... dialects from everywhere, more than french (and this is VERY annoying). Despite the fact that you can't ever be french if you are not fluent in french. From our perspective you will merely be one more of those migrants. We don't mind "transplants" from anywhere, whether asia or africa, or america... but only as long as they assimilate and help us protect our heritage, instead of trying to change France to fit the country they left, which happens way too much. And which annoys us to the point and anger and resentment. Most migrants come from french speaking countries on various continents. Mostly Africa though. Meaning that if you don't speak french, you will be an outlier, for the worse, even amongst migrants. To be honest, we would take an african migrant speaking french any time over an american one not willing to learn. An American who won't learn french will hate it here. What is more, in France, people are french or they are not. There is no in-between. You would be a full blown foreigner, but this black person may be a full blown french. Let's not forget, too, that the french regions in South America, Africa, South Pacific, Oceania Or the Caribbeans have historically always had non-cacausian populations. Obviously, i am proud of counting them as fellow french people and quite a few of our black heroes, like Marie-José Pérec, come from there (and not from immigration). For example, the captain of our women rugby team is from a french region called "Wallis et Futuna", far east of Australia. And so doesn't look "european" but is a full blown french who never migrated to France. Others, in the men team, are from New Caledonia or Polynesia, which are both Pacific french regions, too. They are definitley not "transplants", but you would be. And so obviously, there is no BS like "african french" here. So, be careful when using weird references like "overrun by transplants". Even a far right potential voter like me can't stand racist a**holes. Insult a french, you will insult all of us, and being french or not is not a matter of skin color. I am not saying you are like that, but learn how we do things in France before carelessly saying that your place is "overrun by transplants". Because you may be misunderstood. So, now that i said all this. Is this really the place you want to move to? Are you willing to adapt? Do you understand that you will probably have neighbourgs coming straight from an african country and that you being an american won't get you a better treatment than them? That calling them "transplants" would see you prosecuted and punished for slandering? Potentially expelled? Ask yourself the right questions, and carefully consider what it is that you really know about France.

[@danross7194]

I totally understand. The last six years in the US have been absolutely nuts and America is losing its soul, it’s values, it’s mind, it’s decency and it’s democracy. You’ve raised a great family with great values. I wish all of you the best of luck. Keep us posted on your travels and the search for intelligent compassionate life elsewhere. We’re thinking about doing the same thing.

[@SmallvilleSP]

I feel like the video that Nathaniel’s dad put out isn’t to say that the US is going in the wrong direction or is losing its old values as much as it is about not being tied down anywhere in the world and yearning for a sense of ever-fulfillment. I have deep ties to America, though I’ve spent less physical time there than in the country I was born in. However, though I’m working to be more in tune with my country of birth, notably with its language, I have always seen myself represented in America’s values, culture, and language, and prefer my American personality to the one that was made here in Europe. And this while remaining critical of America and its obvious problems. Other places have problems too, and all it comes down to sometimes is the angle from which you want to approach your life somewhere. While on the move, there are always aspects of your old life or of an old country that you are going to miss in that place where you have come for newness, though it is something worth overcoming while being a “modern-day nomad”.

[@christybriggs1737]

Belize City is looking good to us.

[@SniperLogic]

@@christybriggs1737 English and same dollar system.

[@user-or6yn8pm3c]

More like 20 years. Started with Bush wanting to spread "Democracy" and forgetting America itself.

[@inazarolaciregui]

I love this so im following! Waiting for updates on your move, guys! So exciting!

[@carlesinseattle7660]

Well said! I moved to Europe 5 years ago and never looked back to Portland. It was a lot work to sell all real estate and get rid of most material possessions but well worth it. I feel healthy, relaxed and safe.

[@seaofsolace]

Now I understand why Nathaniel is such an eloquent young man, a great storyteller with a brilliant mind!! He learned it from his dad!! 💗

[@shaunnasworkshop]

So it WAS Nathaniel. Best KZbin crossover ever.

[@tammieupton6257]

Yes Sea of Solace I was thinking something similar but don't forget Mom is pretty awesome too!🤗

[@alexsilva-vn7jc]

I'm sorry, clueless person here: who is Nathaniel?

[@seaofsolace]

@@alexsilva-vn7jc Nathaniel Drew. He has a very succesful KZbin channel.

[@shaunnasworkshop]

@alex silva Their son Nathaniel Drew has had his own channel on KZbin for years. Search for his name and check him out. 😃

[@jplumey1]

I’ve been stuck and thinking of selling my cute beach cottage on the California coast…. Your video really helped me decide. I’ve been yearning to be near my “favorite people” too. Im 58 and scared to change, but more afraid to be stuck & wait to die (alone & away from my sons & their young family). I was encouraged! Thank you!

[@youarehere1251]

Airbnb and use that income for your traveling.

[@StrongKickMan]

Go for it. All of Europe speaks English well.

[@katniss4670]

If you decide to sell your beach cottage , I may be interested.

[@lesliemonaghan5853]

Beach Cottage? I’m interested.

[@robertpena798]

I'm looking for a beach cottage if you decide to sell.👍

[@pkocylowski]

Came across your video totally by accident but wanted to hear what your reasons are. My wife and I have been in the USA for over 13 years (we are currently 32 and 31). We have a beautiful daughter, beautiful dog, beautiful house and a rental property. In general, we have a beautiful life. However, we went to Poland for vacation with our 10 month old daughter couple of weeks ago and everything has changed in our minds. We want to go back to our home country. A lot of our friends went back and they don't regret it. I feel like as a human, my home country has much more to offer especially for our daughter. I think that USA is not the same as it used to. I love America and will be forever thankful for what if had offered me because I wouldn't be able to achieve the same if I started from scratch in my home country many years ago. I am just happy it is not only me and that there are others (like you and your family) that talk about it out loud. Thank you for this video and best of luck! :)

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Please be careful with that idea. A quick visit back to Poland isn't sufficient to understand what you'd be giving up. You have a kid and a good life here. Make longer visits and really think about it. You are in your prime moneymaking years.

[@jp47906]

I had lived 15 years in the US , got back to Poland and regret big time, I miss every single day of my american life; first of all air quality is unbearable and you get it from the get go, quality of food, restaurants, customer service etc.

[@maggie8586]

Hi Przemek, I'm curious what you guys ended up doing. I'm born and raised in Warsaw, lived in Canada since the early 90's, 25 of them in Vancouver. I've loved Vancouver for two solid decades, but just like you you, after a visit to Poland and a few other cities in Europe in 2019 something "switched" and I can't switch it back. Adding to that is the fact that Vancouver has deteriorated in terms of exorbitant cost of living, drug issues, housing affordability, etc. I know people who live in Poland still shit on it, and there are many good reasons for that (current government being numero uno), but I also think they are blind to just how far the Polish society has come. The difference between my 2009 and 2019 visit was unbelievable in terms of societal progress. I also got smacked in the face by the things that we miss in North America, many of them named in the above video - ways of relating, food, beauty, history, architecture....something intangible that you just cannot find in concrete/glass cities here. Plus, the proximity of variety in terms of countries and culture. It's something I have not been able to shake, and after 3yrs of driving myself crazy and going back and forth, I've quit my job, and I'm ready to get rid of everything and try to explore more of my native continent while working remotely. I'm worried that it's a gigantic mistake and that I will end up missing all the stability and comforts, on the other hand I feel like if I don't at least take the leap, I will wither away like a leaf on a branch. If worse comes to worst, one can always return, am I right?

[@pkocylowski]

​@@maggie8586 Hi Maggie! We are still in the US and haven't decided yet. We are still going to build a house in PL and we're going to start that process this year. My wife isn't 100% sure but it is a work in progress. I am personally ready to make the move and change our life for "better". I agree 100% with all that you have said. However, we need to get out of our comfort zone if we want to keep moving. We might regret our decision or we might not. There is only one way to find out! ;-) We have a rental property that we are not going to sell so if we ever move to PL and come to conclusion that it was not the right decision, it should be easy to come back and we will not necessarily have to start from scratch.

[@davidnebadze5891]

@@maggie8586 wow. same happened to me, we went to trip poland( I am from Georgia) after poland Cyprus and some other countries and since than I can't stay is usa anymore.

[@caciliawhy5195]

Wherever you go, there you are. Not much changes when you change places. Find the place that suits you best but don't expect things to be much different because you are still you. Moving to be close to family is a great reason to move. Good luck!

[@americanwoman445]

Yes, all countries have their own problems, it's all a honeymoon phase in the beginning.

[@donpeace894]

Yes I'll stick with usa

[@joiab11]

I disagree. You change so much when you leave your comfort zone. More confidence, maybe you learn a new language, you get to re-invent yourself

[@barbarahurwitz9018]

I did the opposite - sort of. I lived in the US until I was almost 70 (where I lived happily in the other Portland (Maine.). I realized that my life would just continue and nothing would be different. I came to Israel 12 and half years ago. I learned another language and built a new live. I live in Netanya and it’s a rare day that I don’t see the see. It’s also a rare day that I don’t have conversation with someone from what I would consider an exotic/ interesting country. Yesterday: Tunisia and Algeria. Every day there’s something new to experience. I feel so blessed

[@watchesnews9187]

Libyan Jewish food there is one reason I want to visit Netanya.

[@suzannederringer1607]

I lived in Portland and on Peaks Island for a couple of years. It was beautiful but... stagnant. Glad I was there (always loved sailing the Downeast coast when younger) but glad I left.

[@exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198]

You learnt a new language at 70. Thats do awesome, very encouraging

[@AyushSharma-xg7td]

I have a serious question: are people leaving the US? Are baby boomers leaving? OR are millennials with remote-tech-job leaving? What do you see around you?

[@eugenejohnson1332]

As an American expat for several decades I entertain no doubt that your awakening will bear fruits far beyond your present reasons for leaving the US. Congratulations on your second video and above all for ‘seeing’ the light.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you my friend. Can’t wait to see what the future brings. Where are you living now?

[@jltrvls7443]

I came across your channel after recently discovering your son Nathaniel Drew’s inspirational KZbin channel. My husband and I watched the episode where he interviews you both about leaving the United States… and, at the end of the video, I found myself crying. Because this ache and longing and desire to move abroad from the US to Europe is SO strong within both my husband and I… our hearts and souls. Logistics and practicalities and fear and doubt can consume, but both of these videos inspire me to actually do something about this dream. Thank you for sharing and for inspiring others to find that which ignites a feeling within them… I long for a place with culture. Where people have passion for life. Where different languages are spoken. Dreams are not meant to be just dreams.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Could not agree more. I hope you can make it happen!! Sending you guys all my love. ❤️

[@martypoll]

Not getting stuck in life was a big factor in my moving out of the US. You would think that achieving the comforts in life would motivate you to sit back and enjoy your accomplishments. In fact it seemed like settling and a normalization of boredom. Moving to Thailand, at age 60, was an exciting and welcome new start in life.

[@jaymo8206]

Ive been an expat in Thailand for 19 years. We cant stand this culture, shitty education, coups, ignorant locals, corruption, xenophobia and other Thai bs. We've decided to also leave. Good luck dealing with Thainess, we've had enough.

[@shalom9277]

Guys, well done! I leaved my country Russia when I was 23. Since then I used to live in another 5 countries, now in Israel. All this is amazing experience which made me understand - I dont belong to any country, my country is whole Earth 🌍. If u r opened positive person - you will find communication everywhere

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Nice realization 😊

[@arleneaufdermauer8208]

So glad that I found someone who feels the same as me!

[@andreak4280]

Great comment as to the whole world being your country and not belonging to 1… I feel the same! 👍🏼on point 🎯💯% and i have not even had the amount of travel / living in different places as you have.

[@Eirliss]

а какая страна все-таки больше всего понравилась для жизни?

[@jameshepburn4631]

@Shalom. Believe me, since we Americans found out you left we've been singing hallelujah. If you post your address we'll be sending thank you cards and fanmail. Just pleeeease don't come back.

[@rodart1945]

I am 58 years old and cried watching this video. I connected to the presentation and felt I was related to you as many videos I don't. This felt very authentic. I am ready to start my journey. Will keep watching your videos. Thanks to Covid 19 I realized how stuck and comfortable my life was....time to get out of my comfort zone. Thank you again for this amazing video. Do more!!!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Wow, your words really touched me, Rod. So happy that it came across that way for you. Wishing you all the very best. And yes, much more coming real soon! Many stories remain to be told. 😁

[@SuperSoraya50]

I will be 62 this month, and I wasted so much time procrastinating whether staying or leaving. People are so materialist, and consumed by work to pay for all their stuff, house, cars, ...I miss France, Italy, Spain, Europe. I had a better life other there. Do it, change is good!!!

[@EstherLilyW]

I was researching areas I want to live next. I'm tired of living in my apartment, but financially I'm stuck ..or am I? I want to have a tea house/lunch place and a big garden...anywhere in the world where passers by can come in and dine and enjoy my garden. France was one place Portugal is another...now if I could only get there from here....

[@muditchopra9999]

If you want to know real meaning of life travel down to India I'll show you everything

[@nancycathey1401]

@@SuperSoraya50 - make a active change, you’re wasting precious time!

[@goodvibrations4864]

Thank you. My wife and I were literally just talking about leaving the U.S. Strange that this popped in my feed... Good luck to you and you family. I will be praying for God's grace to lead us all.

[@stevozrepto5558]

Because your phone is listening to your conversations d opey 😄😄😉😉😉🎃🎃

[@AfterSchoolEnglish]

What you describe is what’s called being a “third culture kid,” which my husband and I are also, and I relate 100% to not feeling deeply connected to anywhere, too. And my husband and I also share the same interest in exploring and seeing more of the world, living anywhere, etc. It’s very natural when you have multiple nations and cultures of upbringing!

[@libbyzucker1832]

Loved the video. My husband and I moved to Spain in February in our 60s. Our reasons were more political in nature. We have been married for 39 years and now feel like we're newlyweds starting out a life together with a choice of el menu del dia everyday. Undertaking new adventures keeps one young. Be well & safe travels.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Sounds lovely!!

[@AyushSharma-xg7td]

I have a serious question: are people leaving the US? Are baby boomers leaving? OR are millennials with remote-tech-job leaving? What do you see around you?

[@Lily4444]

@@AyushSharma-xg7td both

[@jenajoyce5443]

Such a beautiful way to put it all into words. We have been living in Portugal on and off for 10 years now and the longer we are here, the more foreign we feel when we visit America.

[@milly8151]

I really appreciated this video. However, as a black person of African decent I find it difficult to relate and visualize myself doing something similar- especially being able to travel with such ease and be able to just settle in to places in Europe. I few years ago I attempted the same and was met with racism, discrimination. I was dismissed as a migrant looking to come to Europe to mooch off of the land. These experiences you share are amazing but are sometimes super unattainable as a person of African decent. I ended up moving to Kenya. And even here you can see the stark discrepancies in the way Europeans and other white people are treated in comparison to Africans. Perhaps I’m just venting because it would be great to just go out and seek adventure without the fear of being seen as a burden or the boogie man to others. I love who I am. But I hate the way I’m treated because of it sometimes.

[@mendamend]

Hi Milly, which European country did you settle in

[@timpullen4941]

@@mendamend she said Kenya which is not in Europe.

[@timpullen4941]

I'm a white African who was born in Africa. I moved to Europe and it's really interesting looking European but feeling that I don't really fit culturally. I'm seen as different or quirky. I miss Africa every day.

[@PraveenSriram]

We are all humans and this is one planet. You should feel free to settle wherever you choose on this planet. Don't care about the naysayers or the haters. Their lives probably suck!

[@williamtsol636]

Wow ! That's really wrong ! I hope that changes some day ! Thanks for sharing !! 👍

[@BarbaraBCarlson]

I was motivated and read all the comments. This video is so well done and you are so good at communicating things that are often left unsaid. I have been teaching in international and not-international schools overseas these past 6 years. My children are grown and my husband is willing. It was a dream come true for me to be able to live in a foreign country and keep a home base in the US. I want to (super) encourage the commenters who don't think they are educated or equipped enough: You are! I met a young man who shows others how they can be copywriters and digital nomads and earn a living. I'd like to show people how they can be English or other language teachers in foreign countries, because people ask me how to do it. I also want to super encourage people who think their spouse doesn't have the same dream....Anyway, more on that later. Thank you for doing this video. You are an awesome communicator.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, Barbara, for your amazing post and for the encouragement that you’re not only giving others but to me, to continue forward in our journey. All the best to you. Thank you for watching and stay tuned for more!

[@YesTheory]

Such a great video Josh! Can’t wait for more stories from Europe 🤩

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, Thomas! So great to hang out last night. Really enjoyed your energy, and loved seeing your amazing friendship with Nathan. You guys rock. 😊

[@michaelplunkett8059]

Kids. If you had US kids it would make sense.

[@truthbetold9215]

@Krishna Patel if they were not any of the above, would you still criticize them?

[@judylloyd7901]

@Krishna Patel boundary-less, if there is such a word! Lol. I think it's "without boundaries," or, "refuse to respect other people's boundaries." 😁😁😁

[@maryfrench9757]

Totally agree about restaurants here in the States. We’re usually disappointed, often saying we could have made it better at home, even when paying top dollar. Food in Portugal is amazing!

[@astras30]

well.. it's the same in the whole wide world...

[@teemomain8268]

I Couldnt agree with you guys more - Excellent video! America no longer is the same place I once loved and came to admire, To me it is a stress filled headache all around and life is too short for every aspect of your life to live in worry and anxiety. I am just waiting on my Spanish Passport and I am out of here as well once i have all my information squared away. It hurts me to say this but America is not America anymore and i have to get out with my sanity intact.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Good for you to know what you want and take action. 👍 Thanks for the kind words. 😊

[@1957mattes]

Nicely told. Here's a tip from a European truck driver: if you like to travel, consider northern Italy, Austria Tyrol, southern Germany. Personal.... Slovenia. Cheap central and breathtakingly beautiful. Just a few tips😁🤗

[@StevenGrahamHypnotherapist]

I had EXACTLY the same feelings and “itch” to travel and explore the world back in early 2011, so I too sold my house and belongings and moved halfway around the world to live in the Philippines for almost 3 years and then slow-travelled to other places like Cambodia, Thailand, Nicaragua and Mexico for a total of 5 years. Best decision I ever made. Life comes with an expiration date as he said. Will you ignore your passion or fulfill it?

[@Mhel2023]

I for one am fulfilling it. 376 days to go (I have a retirement countdown calendar on my desk lol) and I will be in the Philippines. I was stationed there in the 80's and never forgot about it. When I visited again in 2017 with the intention of checking it out to see if I would consider retiring there, as soon as I exited the airport and entered the world, I knew I made the right choice. Can't wait.

[@StevenGrahamHypnotherapist]

@@Mhel2023 - Good for you! You’ll be back in no time. 😊 🥳

[@sambee4927]

The world and its lusts are passing away. Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in Him. No eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart imagined, what God has prepared for those who love Him.

[@judylloyd7901]

@@sambee4927 True. But "the world" referred to in that verse is not the cosmos, the creation; it's the "world system" controlled by the evil one -- the *values and philosophies* of the present age. We are supposed to enjoy the planet which God created for His glory and pleasure, and our enjoyment.

[@MAR7LO]

@@judylloyd7901 Yes 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@yesseniaduran921]

I feel exactly the same, I don’t identify with one culture and don’t feel like I am rooted in one. Born in Mexico, moved to the USA at 11 years old. Have lived in the east coast, south and now the west, I just can’t call one place HOME. I can finally relate to someone!

[@KyleInOklahoma]

I am also an immigrant from Dublin. I came to Boston at 19 in the late 90s, where i met my wife whose parents came here in the 70s. Although our 9 children are Irish American, like my wife, I will always be Irish. Ireland completes me. But thats ok. Boston suited my way of life as a young soldier. Married with a growing family, I wanted my kids to have an education like i did, one where i learn how to think, not told what to think. Just before i got out of the army, i did really well selling all my stocks in 07 so we bought a ranch in rural Oklahoma. We all enjoy the freedoms here, a part of the country that values our constitution. And if something changes, we have 49 other states to try. So I guess I am also a nomad who found his home in the woods, miles from town, the best working ranch in Cherokee County.😂Best of luck guys. (P.s. If you’re great-grandparent came from Ireland, you are an Irish citizen who can get an Irish passport inside of 15 days. We are dual citizens & each passport has its own benefits)

[@anoodono1841]

I was fascinated with the Drew surname and being Irish myself know there is a strong history f Irish moving and working n Argentina in the 1800s. !

[@minihoney13]

I absolutely love this (but your US home is also a total dream setting to me.)

[@barryusa5]

This is a great video and thanks for sharing. You are missing one important notion. Why are you leaving? what are you missing that you don't have in the US? my answer is simple: your family! very true as I have experienced this twenty years ago. I grew up in Israel and left when I was 25 YO. After living in the US for 15 years, I moved back to Israel where my family lives. I thought I will be able to connect with them, see my nephews and Nieces growing, be part of the family. but I realized that my family has their own family and things are different. You don't move to another continent because the food at the Restuarant is cheaper or tastier. when I moved back to Israel, I was 40 years old. sold my condo in Los Angeles with my possessions and moved from a 1400SF condo to a 700SF apartment in Tel Aviv. I had some friends in Israel and of course my family was beside me, but I felt very lonely. I was hoping to find a Job that equals to the one I had in the US, but the pay in Tel Aviv was almost half of my US salary. Yes, Israel is not a good comparison to Europe but it is rated as one of the top 10 countries in the world's happiest places to live in. happiness-report.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/WHR+22.pdf (see attached report). does it mean everyone is happy there? of course not. I kept in touch with my colleagues and friends in the US. One day , A call came from my former employer in the US, which is a large worldwide corporation, offering me a position should I return to the US. after weighing my options, I decided to return to the US. this was 17 years ago. I lived in LA, Long Beach and decided to retire in Palm Springs, where there is great healthcare, surrounded by great nature, residents my age, an hour away from camping sights, snow in the winter, clubs, restaurants, theater and a vibrant community. When you relocate to a new place, weather its overseas or another state in the US, you need to connect to the community to feel part of it. either attend a local synagogue or a church, join a social activity group that you can relate, such as outdoors, gaming, etc. Money , possessions will not buy you happiness or make you feel part of a community. Integrating to the local culture and embracing the local community will make you feel connected and a place you can call home. Best of luck to you!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thanks for sharing your story, Barry. Wishing you the best!

[@carolej.6067]

@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT WHY DIDNT YOU ANSWER BARRYUSA5 ?

[@sks7438]

Your comment is spot on. Family, community and enjoying the fruits of your labor are important when you are over 50. You work for material things but nothing really matters without your family and good health.

[@chatch909]

Thank you for taking the time to share. Both perspectives are very helpful.

[@swisschalet1658]

barryusa5 did you not get married and have children? If not, why not? Family is what matters in life over all else, period. A life without children is literally unsustainable. I don’t understand why people would choose no children. Is it materialism? Selfishness? Laziness? Bad luck? There’s no house big enough, no car fancy enough, no neighborhood posh enough, to replace family. Then I see these materialistic people decide to “downsize”, “relocate”, “reprioritize”, etc…thinking that will fill the void that having no family has caused…but it is a folly. Even people who HAVE children, have a bad or nonexistent relationship with them…usually because they chased money or career status above the relationship with the child(ren).

[@jdtravels5140]

The happiest and most fulfilling 15 years of my adult life were overseas. I lived and worked in far flung regions of the world, Europe, Middle East, Southeast Asia, Southwest Asia, and North Africa. Then came 30 years of marriage. Wanderlust has been building for years. I’ve now decided to go back to my roots and minimalist lifestyle. This time I have financial security and no money worries for the rest of my days. Can’t wait to get back out in the world and start a slow travel/adventure life.

[@docholiday7758]

Going minimalist is so liberating. The fewer "things" I own, the happier I am. Slow travel is the best form of travel.

[@DaneReidVoiceOver]

I'm looking to move to Portugal as well. I've heard great things about it. The US has a absurd obsession with guns and violence that I can no longer ignore. It's barbaric.

[@remowilliams7569]

So right. That is the one of the saddest things about living in this once great country.

[@angelicaamores5731]

Evil will find guns, educate your children. The fear of God is the begging of Wisdom.

[@DaneReidVoiceOver]

@@angelicaamores5731 in America, the guns find the evil. No sane person wants to continue participating in this insanity. Keep thinking what most Americans do while 50k people a year die by gunfire. The rest of the educated world is NOT suffering from this dilemma.

[@angelicaamores5731]

Dana Reid, The guns are lifeless and evil is very alive these days! The same guns can be use against evil if you have to protect yourself and your family. Like I said before, educate the youth!

[@DaneReidVoiceOver]

@@angelicaamores5731 With all due respect, you care more about phony protecting yourself then protecting society as a whole. You've invented this fake solution to ease your mind that guns aren't a problem in America. Well all you have to do is educate the youth. That's not gonna help when the youth are being hunted down in school or when old people who raised their children are slaughtered in a grocery store. The solution is that you stop giving people the tools to commit these crimes so easily. Nowhere else has this problem. Europe doesn't have it. Australia and Canada literally laugh at us. I saw a tv commercial aimed at Americans for their ridiculous obsession of guns while in Sydney. So spare me the the second amendment American talking points. The proof is in the pudding. Very few people are trained well enough to protect themselves against real threats. You're kidding yourself. Going to a gun range and firing at a target standing still that isn't shooting back at you is not training

[@carolyn2249]

I found you through your inspiring son Nate, and I've never been so excited about a new channel! As someone in her 50's who is extremely drawn to the idea of moving to Europe, but afraid to leave my comfortable life in California, I'm sure I have a lot to learn from you and your wife's experiences. Hoping all goes great for you, and can't wait to follow along on your journey!

[@Ski7440]

There is life beyond the borders of the United States … as a Brit and having lived in US , it’s seems I suppose that it’s so enormous that other parts of the world , especially Europe seems so tiny and insignificant …Europe is wonderful and huge …. Italy , France , The Alps, Switzerland, and Austria … wonderful !!!

[@soaruk3697]

Canada is bigger than the US.........

[@curiousone6129]

Well, go ahead and bounce around in Europe. No doubt we'll see your US entry request once the despots threaten Europe again. Maybe we'll consider letting you back in, but maybe not....

[@lisajohnson9124]

@@curiousone6129 so much hate in your comment. One of the reasons that the US is no longer loved by everyone.

[@curiousone6129]

@@lisajohnson9124 you are mistaking anger for hate. I hate no one. I do get angry when people feel entitled to take advantage of the freedoms, privileges, and bounty that my fore fathers fought and died for, without thankfulness, or with resentment. Ignorant people criticize our system, yet are glad to eat the fruits of our system, give nothing back and complain they didn't get enough. If you think the US isn't popular anymore because we finally willing to call out greedy free loaders, you are very short sighted. Who do countries being victimized run to for help when despots and tyrants rise? Who pays the cost of not only our own military protection, but pays the freight for countries too small or too poor to protect themselves? Who answers that call? Who defeats the enemy, then tries to educate them and rebuild their Country? Who rises to help when natural disasters happen around the globe? The US helps all countries where needed. Yes, and when all that is forgotten time after time, and critics rise from the woodwork to criticise us, it makes me angry. Not because I think we are perfect, but because we try so darn hard to continue to be the best place on earth. A critic has the easiest job in the world, because no person or country is without fault. But show me a better way. When the next need arises, the very people who were most willing to dismiss our contributions, will be the very ones with their hands out again, trying to come here or return here. Wouldn't you you feel exploited and angry? You don't need to grovel, but you shouldn't spit in our hand. You speculate why the US isn't as popular now. I believe the core reason is envy. If you don't like how we do things, don't come here, and don't turn to us the next time you are threatened.

[@sharilove6222]

@@curiousone6129 dude....no one envies the USA except third world countries....the USA won't even be a democracy after the 2024 elections....Trump or Desantis will almost certainly win as republicans in power now and getting elected in 2022 are in the middle of a slow moving coup since their last coup attempt failed.....as at least half of Americans have lost their minds and obviously hate our constitution and are perfectly happy to live under a dictatorship as long as a WHITE, hateful, spiteful, racist, homophobic bully runs the country..... .all this "USA is the best country in the world" is bull (unless you think being number 1 in the world to be gunned down by an AR15 makes a country "the best") and will mean absolutely zip when elections cease to exist and there is no longer free media/news. The USA will be exactly like Russia or Belarus...no elections and tv stations with state run propaganda 24/7..... and like the Russian people we will have enough fools and morons who believe the absurdities and conspiracies to keep the dictator in power and fleecing those moronic R voters....you think the US will be great with a dictator and a few oligarchs? LOL...go ask the the people of Belarus and Russia how that is working out for them.....You are exactly the type of person we are moving away from. Enjoy your Putin style dictatorship that the USA will become after 2024....but don't say you were not warned. We personally will not live under a dictatorship and are bailing on the USA. Please please please do not move to Portugal. We do not need your hate and negativity in our new wonderful home country. Keep your hate in America as it implodes in on itself.

[@Awholekit]

I thought portugal had the best people in europe....at night I noticed the whole neighborhood comes out and socializes, something special about that imo.

[@melescobar6107]

What a beautiful video! You put into words everything i feel. My husband and i are leaving Australia next year for all of the reasons you mentioned. We wish you well x

[@michellenokken2597]

Videos like yours inspire me from sitting on the fence to actually experiencing what is on the other side.

[@Ginger11111]

Seeing this was fate. I turned 50 last year, last kid moved out and I quit my job in February, just couldn’t do it one more day, put the house up for sale in April, taking everything I have and looking for a new start, new place. I’m glad to see something like this. Every single person I know says what if you are making a mistake? I say what if I’m not?

[@ROBERTTIMCO]

Feel the same way, my wife and I have lived in Japan for 8 years, and 15 years in New Zealand Canada (since 2007). We are done as well, sold our log house in the Monashee Mountains in British Columbia Canada we are moving to the beach in Rocha Uruguay August 2022. The good the bad and the ugly you are correct, take the dive I have never felt I belonged anywhere I am 65 and retired years ago. Strangers in a new place have a great life. Simple quiet relaxed less political less everything.

[@AnandA2155]

How good is Canada? I’m thinking of moving to Toronto.

[@Michele-kn9kv]

This is so awesome!! My dad, who was British emigrated to Canada in the 70's then after 40 years when he was in his 60's uprooted and returned to England. I just came across your channel and this was a fantastic first video to watch. All the best with your new adventures ✨️ 🙏🏻❤️

[@anothercheryladventure9387]

Thank you for showing that living and exploring is not just for the young. I’m in my 50s and trying to do the same thing myself alone and it’s not easy. I’ll be watching and subscribed. Thank you for taking us alone with you. Much Love 💗 💕💗💕💗💕

[@clk5002]

It's interesting to hear about how different people view their own & other countries & cultures I once worked for a delivery company in the North of Scotland ,while a bit lost one day on the Isle of Skye I stopped at the nearest cottage I could see which looked like it was in the middle of nowhere & was surprised when an elderly American man answered the door. At first I thought oh well he's another tourist ,but he then went on to tell me he now lived there but it took him nearly all his life to realise where he now belongs & where he felt should have been born in the first place .

[@Edith1517]

Love this.

[@kp8381]

I feel that way about Scotland as well.

[@deborahlewandowski3206]

I feel that way about England, specifically the the English countryside... I love all things British .. I also love Bermuda which is a British overseas territory.. I'm 66 and am trying to figure out how I can move out of the US and be where I feel I truly belong...

[@tobyo99]

Whenever I'm in Spain I feel like I belong there. Like I should have been born there. Like the man you met....

[@deborahlewandowski3206]

I'm adopted so I really don't know anything about my heritage, but I believe that somewhere in my ancestry there's either British, Scottish or Irish... I feel drawn to all things from that part of the world and one more thing: I love the sound of bagpipes...they stir something deep inside me and bring tears to my eyes.. that's got to mean something...

[@weisun3768]

I am in my 50s. What went through in my mind cannot be better said by you. Portugal is on my short retirement list too. I am thinking of Spain, Portugal and Italy. I am glad to bump into your channel. What you said resonates with me so much! thank you.

[@kaidoherty3267]

Great video! I'm 53 and my husband and I are wishing for this as well. I can't wait to see where life takes you. Keep us posted.

[@nokaoi1]

I've been enjoying your sons videos for years now. I am thrilled with your choice! I too am an empty nester and will be joining you on the nomads trail. Well done and I am eager to see where you both go from here.

[@j.n.sloane]

You have expressed it so eloquently. We moved to Northern Spain for very similar reasons. We loved Northern Portugal, too. Coimbra and Barcelos were favorites. Such kind people and the food is, indeed, amazing. Good luck on your new adventures. Saludos desde Asturias. Buena suerte.

[@mariadelcarmendelamorena5146]

Hello-- I too was impressed with this video. It is poetic and expresses precisely what I am feeling, the conflict of leaving a comfortable life for an uncertain future. I am thinking seriously of moving to Oviedo, Asturias, or somewhere in Northern Spain. I am currently living in one of the coolest places to live in USA, Austin, Texas. Still, I feel out of place. And life is getting stupid expensive and politically dizzying. Lot's of reasons-- some external, but many are personal. Mentally I am there, I would leave tomorrow. But the logistics are more difficult. So I keep wondering... May I ask if you have any regrets? I know it's complicated, but I am just wondering if you have any insights. Thanks ps-- I should mention I am a Dual Citizen: USA and Spanish.

[@j.n.sloane]

@@mariadelcarmendelamorena5146, I have no regrets. Asturianos are really admirable people. We love everything about living here. Have you been here? The Spanish in Asturias is a little different and you'll run into unfamiliar Asturianu words like xarda (caballa in Castellano), especially in the countryside. Oviedo would be a very good choice because of the connectivity and great quality of life, very few tourists and very low crime. We have lived here almost two years and have not needed a car because the public and private transport options are so convenient. The temperatures are much cooler than Austin but the winters are not hard. Internet is good. There is a LOT of music from Jazz to traditional bagpipes to classical. Because of the university, there is a multicultural and vibrant vibe. Lots of public art. Lots of public green spaces. So many nature trails. BOOKSTORES everywhere. My husband and I came on a non-lucrative visa during the start of COVID, which did complicate things. The Spanish are a lot more observant of safety precautions and conscientious because they respect each other and the health system, which is really great. We rent an apartment for flexibility. The laws for renters are very fair and protect their rights. The most useful site for finding property is Idealista. We had our belongings shipped via U-Crate (very reasonable and simple). Any other questions, I'm happy to answer. NO regrets.

[@AyushSharma-xg7td]

I have a serious question: are people leaving the US? Are baby boomers leaving? OR are millennials with remote-tech-job leaving? What do you see around you?

[@mendamend]

Where in the US did you move from, and do you have a social media presence? I'm thinking of moving to Asturias too 🤔

[@j.n.sloane]

@@AyushSharma-xg7td, there are very few Americans in Asturias, fewer than 500, so I have no information on this. I'm sorry not to be helpful. I believe the majority of Americans are choosing Madrid.

[@annewilliams741]

I lived in Portugal for 3 years and I loved it! The Portuguese are very nice and kind. I agree with you regarding the restaurants and food that surpasses the US. We knew many ex-pats who had chosen Portugal as a great retirement location.

[@anneb972]

Great attitude and positive energy . Portugal is truly a beautiful country . Welcome.

[@lakelili]

This is probably one of the best written, well spoken, well reasoned explanations I have heard in very long time. I look forward to future videos. Thank you.

[@bradcarter8174]

Excellent video sir. May you be blessed on your journey. I too am nomadic at heart. Until my recent diagnosis of cancer, I would have been doing the exact same thing. Live life to its fullest, enjoy your family and spouse while you can. You are an inspiration to many, I hope your travels are safe no matter where you go. 👍

[@ashleys9798]

I’m in Iceland right now and I met a waiter from Portugal who was selling his country to me and giving me all the reasons I should move there. What a delightful conversation. I love Europe but not seeing family for months or years is difficult.

[@aloyvelezc5243]

Please watch the Icelandic vlogger "Finsnow"......it might just help you

[@ashleys9798]

@@aloyvelezc5243 help me with what?

[@AyushSharma-xg7td]

I have a serious question: are people leaving the US? Are baby boomers leaving? OR are millennials with remote-tech-job leaving? What do you see around you?

[@ashleys9798]

@@AyushSharma-xg7td most people aren’t leaving the USA but there are more retired ex -pats than before. High paying technology jobs keep young people here. It’s not easy leaving the US to work in another country.

[@general5273]

Wonderful thoughtful, inspirational video. We can relate to all you've mentioned. Thank you for sharing.

[@lilyakopyan6153]

30+ years in US and with all good things that happen during these years I never felt fully integrated into the culture. I just discovered your channel and can't wait to see more. You are very magnetic.

[@happysunangel1]

I can completely relate. I came to the US when I was 13. I’ve lived in the US for 3 decades but it doesn’t feel like home but then neither does Dominican Republic where I was born. I hope one day I find a place that finally feels like home. A place where I can be accepted for me regardless of my race and ethnicity.

[@commonsense9755]

So sad. You have been in this great country for that long and never learn to love it, honor it or at least to be grateful to it?

[@lcollection9349]

That "place", friend - is in Jesus Christ. Have a great life!

[@Ploiesti2001]

@@lcollection9349 - Yes, my conclusion after a lot of decades on this earth.

[@SuperTruetunes]

🇨🇦 Canada 🍁

[@ValiantfortheTruthManuela]

@@lcollection9349 amen

[@redwoods7370]

My parents moved from California to Cascais, Portugal when I was in high school in the 1970’s. It was awesome. Lovely people. Great food. (Barbecued fresh caught sardines were fantastic.) Open markets with brick ovens where they bake fresh bread for sale. Beautiful, mellow country. All the very best to you.

[@deeabee96]

I was just in Cascais and Lisbon. Have to agree! Absolutely beautiful. I’m considering moving there.

[@Oneshot8242]

Did you have to mention the bbq sardines? Its a little to midnight here in Denmark, getting ready for bed, and now I'm salivating like crazy thinking about my visits to Portugal. Oh God, the seafood cuisine!

[@annewilliams741]

My girlfriend had the exact same experience as you have. She even lived in Cascais. I knew her when I was living there in Oeiras. Thanks.

[@ladonnabatterson9245]

Perfectly said! Thank you so much for this video.

[@charlymarten747]

Loving this, thank you for sharing and excited for your adventures and journey ahead! 💛🙏

[@kaiwan]

This is so inspiring!

[@sandrabedard7848]

Good for you. My husband and I left USA last year in our 60's. We never look back and was the best decision we could have done. We sold everything and are extremely happy with our lifestyle now 😁.

[@user-kh3mo9sk2f]

Did you guys quit the us citizenship or just move out to another country ? Because I'm thinking the same thing. Just want to get some ideas

[@sandrabedard7848]

@@user-kh3mo9sk2f we did not give up citizenship in USA. We have Dual residency with USA and Costa Rica.

[@user-kh3mo9sk2f]

@@sandrabedard7848 thanks for replying. You gave me some guidance. After you live aboard, do you still have file tax each year in US ? I need to know how to do if I live oversea

[@sandrabedard7848]

@@user-kh3mo9sk2f yes if you have taxable income. Everyone is different with their income. You are welcome 😊. You keep an address in the place you come from. 😉

[@user-kh3mo9sk2f]

@@sandrabedard7848 thank you so much for explain in details. Now I know how to plan the future

[@alexislong3692]

THANK YOU for sharing your experience 😊

[@SouthFloridaIsHome]

Thanks again for sharing, and making such an impact for me and my family. We needed to hear your story, as we are going through many changes.

[@lmaynez5489]

Oh my God, I'm so glad I found your channel! As a single Mom, I just want to give my little girl the best quality of life, and like you, I no longer feel we can get that from the United States. Thank you for making it clear. I wish you and your beautiful family the very best in your journey. Can't wait to see what is next for you and your loved ones.

[@MidaliaLebron]

I was in tears the entire time I watched this. I really love your warm and kind demeanor. I'm in the exact same place right now except I don't have savings and I live alone. I yearn to travel and get to know other cultures so badly but I know one day it will be possible. Until then I will continue to love others and to explore the beauty around me that only awakened eyes can see and be grateful for that. Thank you for this and God bless you. I'm right behind you. ❤

[@watchesnews9187]

A lot of us don't push ourselves because of fear. Just do it or research how to do things. I have that problem often, yet sometimes you have to investigate. I know Portugal is not that expensive because years ago I watched a program on Italian pensioners living in Portugal. Another time I saw a show where Italians went to Croatia to get their teeth done. You never know what can happen until you try. I went to Peru just before covid happened. So nice. I hadn't been in decades. I have family and friends there. If I weren't married, I would probably move from the US even though I have lived here all my life. Too expensive, dangerous, and not as stimulating for me as other places.

[@Mateo-et3wl]

Why in the world would you cry while watching this? Maybe get off youtube and invest in your life

[@MrBikkyLover]

@@Mateo-et3wl you seem nice

[@rvdareyet7201]

That’s why we relocated to Ecuador.

[@MidaliaLebron]

@@Mateo-et3wl because people like you exist in the world. That's why I cry.

[@TheDissayaLand]

Loved listening to you. Enjoy every moment!

[@jonathanbirkwood3244]

A big part of what makes you feel connected to a culture is the people. How they make you feel, how they treat you, their attitudes, etc, etc. You can come from a different culture and appreciate everything another culture has to offer but if the people treat you like an outsider then it's hard to feel fully connected.

[@americanwoman445]

They're not looking for connection, sounds like it's about money, more bang for your buck..

[@lisah1692]

So true, you explained accurately how most black Americans feel in the United States. Thank you

[@theodorakatsoulogiannakis6038]

I’m glad you made this video! I am moving to Greece after living in the US for many years! The hardest part has been letting go of my stuff! Thank goodness I am towards the end of that part. Starting to get excited, will be moving in less then two weeks! I always thought I would stay in the US until at least retirement age but it seems God and the Universe had other plans for me! Good luck to you on your move!

[@sharilove6222]

How exciting.... good luck with your move.

[@AyushSharma-xg7td]

I have a serious question: are people leaving the US? Are baby boomers leaving? OR are millennials with remote-tech-job leaving? What do you see around you?

[@maddscientist3170]

@@AyushSharma-xg7td Both generations are leaving

[@TheRichie213]

United States is too expensive and people are so edgy. People want to fight you over anything. If you don't work 40-80 hours a week you're considered lazy. It's a big competition with everyone against each other.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Expensive indeed, especially compared to some European countries. There is definitely a lot of turmoil in the US at the moment putting people on edge. And the amount of overworking is a little bit insane, especially again if you compare to the European way. Anyhow, you either hang in there with that system or you get out!

[@kdavis450]

Shoot, if I don't work 50-60 hours a week, I can barely make it. And I have a decent job at a hospital

[@stephaniepersin4145]

You do have the opportunity to get away from cities and suburbs and leave the rat race. Many places/states are affordable in rural areas. I don’t get the need to move 1000s of miles away from your homeland no matter where it is.

[@letsdomath1750]

@@stephaniepersin4145 It's different for many who have lived in different countries when they were younger. There's no strong attachment to a homeland because you're not bound by a single culture.

[@esperanzauniversal3402]

Wow! What a beautiful sharing! God Bless You, and all your family. Your adventures are grand, and abundant, and will continue to be. Perhaps the Universe is your family, that’s what I find. Muchas felicidades! 🙏🏾💜🦅

[@ShenyL]

It’s very inspiring to hear your stories!

[@rodrigomoraisdemoura7944]

Incredibly happy for you guys, for having selected Portugal as your next home. I am portuguese and I feel obviously proud of your choice! Always feel welcome here :)))

[@AyushSharma-xg7td]

I have a serious question: are people leaving the US? Are baby boomers leaving? OR are millennials with remote-tech-job leaving? What do you see around you?

[@rodrigomoraisdemoura7944]

@@AyushSharma-xg7td around me in Portugal?

[@LisaReisRealtor]

@@AyushSharma-xg7td there are several Facebook groups for 50+ expats moving to Portugal. My local Portugues bank tells me everyday…at least 2 dozen people of all ages and nationalities come in to open up an account and are looking to buy a house in Portgual.

[@FlyingElectra]

I am French and love Portugal. The people, the architecture and the food. Amazing country ! Thousands of French people have moved there mostly to retire. So it’s a little bit becoming a victim of its success. But it’s such an amazing country. Have fun 🤩

[@jacqdanieles]

@@AyushSharma-xg7td《《《 troll bot

[@HeavenlyLights]

Inspirational. 9:16 “If you want change in your life, you have to go after it.” 9:45 “Expose yourself to situations that stimulate you.”

[@rominab.2824]

Wow AMAZING video. You speak in such a way it reaches the soul. Thank you for this video. I hope you make more, you’re amazing.

[@IndianJu]

Fantastic video; fantastic life-affirming attitude… very valuable thoughts & discussion indeed. Thanks for putting your lives out here… there’s much to be gained from following your journey & I will keep watching your interesting & well-made videos. 🙏

[@eunhinged4764]

I believe there are two groups of people: those who are most happy living in the same place they were born, raised, educated, lived, etc. for the rest of their life, until they die, and those (like me) who are forever vagabonds, we're most comfortable living out of a suitcase, holding few posessions (though we value them very well!) and require, like fuel, the constant challenge, mystery, awe of living in a place that may at times make us feel stressed, lonely, frustrated but still intrigued and in awe. GO FOR IT!

[@ibomusicalvoyage6163]

Stephen Harper, the former Prime Minister of Canada, wrote a book in which he states there are two types of people "Anywhere" and "Somewhere." Somewhere people are negatively affected by change whereas Anywhere people can simply pick up an move with the times. He accounts for the populist movement by saying that Anywhere people get angry when factories close up due to Globalisation, whereas Somewhere people simply move to where jobs are (including different countries.)

[@eunhinged4764]

@@ibomusicalvoyage6163 Whoa. Canada? Hi! USA! This is interesting indeed. I've held this belief for decades. Anti-materialism? IDK? Gimme a bed, bath, clothes, microwave and I'm good. I'm fine. Cheers!

[@Ploiesti2001]

Possessions are holding us down - we need to clear as much as we possibly can, as often as we can.

[@MegaSickcat]

I've never felt like an american. I've always felt a kinship to the UK especially London. But unlike you two I am in no position financially to even entertain the thought of moving. I enjoyed your video and I wish you the best of luck in your new adventure.

[@reklovjj]

Same here and gosh the US were my dream 30 years ago! I love the US yet never really felt American as my boys do…They’ll never feel Europeans either… strange indeed

[@fleurdavril1465]

Maybe one day you will...keep hope😉

[@acedia4453]

Lived in Birmingham for a while. I can tell you that the amount of outright animosity for brown people there eclipses what I face anywhere in the U.S. Here, they at least try to play it off.

[@reklovjj]

@@acedia4453 nah it’s not about racism man….

[@MegaSickcat]

@@fleurdavril1465 Honestly it's not going to happen. For as I can remember, I never got into that whole 'america the great' BS. I still don't. Sadly america was born in violence and it will surely be its demise. There's so many things wrong and I cannot even fathom it ever being 'fixed'.

[@findingbeautyinlife-withtr4381]

WOW!! You just explained exactly how I’m stuck in life!! Thank You for your insight & sharing this journey with us. I’m inspired now more than ever to make a move to the UK (closer to Europe) from Australia so we can explore this world of ours! It’s been a dream, but as our kids are getting older you’ve shown it can be a reality!

[@p.t.9709]

Loved seeing your responses to the dining experiences.

[@rogerjohnson898]

Truly inspiring! I left London 7 yrs ago, after being blessed with an incredible job for 22 years since grad school as I know there's more to life than a good job, steady pay & surrounded with "safe & familiar" environments with family & many friends but the past 7 yrs living by faith and following God's prompting to new adventures have been much more fulfilling, gratifying & growing experience than all the yrs before, in many ways! I've only been to Portugal once but definitely love to revisit in the near future. Praying God's richest blessings upon u guys!!!

[@mkoschara]

I am so glad that you had such a great time in Portugal. My wife and I left and are living in Costa Rica. It's over three years now and we have no regrets. Thanks for making this video :)

[@pattypiselli4402]

You and your family are so loving and refreshing to see. ❤️

[@katelanxner278]

Wonderful insight, visually, etc. I agree. from a fellow nomad. I made another change for 3 years when I was 62-65. I need to get back to Europe in a big way. I see now how Nathaniel got his "way with words." Excellent and I look forward to more.

[@VideoSchoolOnline]

KZbin sent me here probably because I watch Nathaniel’s videos. Excited to follow your journey! Ps. Your fairytale house is gorgeous!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Awesome, and thank you Phil! ❤️

[@EpicAdventureCouple]

Hello Phil, follow us on our world journey we’re just retired and loving it. Bermuda, Bahamas then Iceland and round it out with Hawaii 🏝🤔🤷‍♂️

[@SunRabbit]

Go for it. I lived in the US for 27 years and gave up on it in 1991. Moved to eastern Europe and that was the best move I ever made, especially from a financial standpoint. After having travelled the World I can't see myself living anywhere else but here.

[@gabrielalmeida6085]

what country in eastern Europe?

[@SunRabbit]

@@gabrielalmeida6085 Czech Republic

[@gabrielalmeida6085]

@@SunRabbit must be an amazing country, I want to visit someday :D

[@AyushSharma-xg7td]

I have a serious question: are people leaving the US? Are baby boomers leaving? OR are millennials with remote-tech-job leaving? What do you see around you?

[@SunRabbit]

@@AyushSharma-xg7td Actually, both young and old have left. The only common denominator seems to be that all the people leaving the US for Czech Republic are better off than the average. Most of the immigrants to CZ are Americans but I know a couple of Englishmen, Germans, Israelis, Russians, Greeks, and people from various African countries. Their dominant reason is a desire for more freedom, better medical care, and (much) lower taxes. I recently spoke to someone in the US about ObamaCare because I had no idea what that is/was and from what he described, that's exactly what we all have over here.

[@lisamartinez9245]

I saw your son’s video and I love that you all did this. My hubby and I (in our 50s with 6 sons - most of whom are out of the home) have lived like nomads for a while. Thank you for being brave and knowing that “security” isn’t everything.

[@mamabearv81]

Beautiful video! Very refreshing. All the best in Portugal! Will be following your journey here and looking forward to seeing more.

[@waiyee4410]

What’s refreshing idea and the vision for life! More importantly, the love of each family member is the motivation for moving on to new challenges. Love every second of the video, the honesty, the feeling and the courage, all so inspiring. Can’t wait for your regular updates on your new journey. Bless your family for a long love story with each other. 👍👍

[@sarabea4817]

Such an awesome, creative, free-thinking family. Can't wait to see your journey!

[@SheriHeller]

Thank you for this powerful chronicle of your journey. My husband and I are 60 and moving from NYC to Montreal Canada. Not as intense as what you’re grappling with, but the challenges and the spiritual lessons you convey very much parallel our process. We are finally at the finish line and watching your story has enhanced our inspiration. We are so thrilled to embark on this new stage in our lives. Wishing you great adventures… God Bless!

[@roymaddocks3184]

welcome to Canada, Sheri

[@jwang9988]

Great job!!! This is by far the best motivational retire early and travel abroad video I've seen so far. Thanks!

[@LosPeregrinosdeCamino]

My wife and I goes to Europe almost every year and I feel the same way. Our hearts still say Portugal or Spain. Only time will tell

[@ororodrf4150]

Thank you, Sir...you've spoken what I've been feeling for a while now. Safe journeys to you and your wife. ☺️

[@katepadget-koh6910]

We are going through a similar process but in HK. Thanks for your generosity in sharing this journey!

[@shannonsample7352]

My husband showed me this video yesterday. Knowing there is a like-minded community out there is just what we need. We feel very isolated here in rural Oklahoma (physically and socially). We are looking forward to your next video.

[@jorgegustavoortiz7717]

Congratulations on your decision. I'm looking forward to to retire in a couple of years and move to France to learn French, and I am 60. Live is not supposed to stop ever, but evolve and change. The more often the changes the better. Living in the same place for ever, specially if it is out of fear is not living at all... Taking a leap of faith is what is...

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Nicely put!

[@lindylou7853]

France - been there. Done that. Came home.

[@SuperSoraya50]

Where in France are you going to move to? I am from Marseille, and my favorite place is Provence! Bonne chance !

[@jorgegustavoortiz7717]

@@SuperSoraya50 most likely towards the south. Montpelier, Toulouse, or any other place in the south.

[@SuperSoraya50]

@@jorgegustavoortiz7717 I was born in Sète which is a small town next to Montpellier ! If you need some french lessons I can help you!

[@markohuber2325]

omg i love your voice.... what a beautiful storytelling.. love it... welcome to europe - let your heart be the pilot of your journey

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thanks you Marko! Such kind words. Where in Europe are you?

[@renataxavier8121]

You are such a good story teller! Nice family, nice videos here. Thanks

[@4444marla]

Well said, Good luck. Enjoy the moment, it is all we have.