Portugal did not work out for us.

Get 15% off using the code BTS15 when you buy my new course Collaborative Trip Planning on BrightTrip: www.brighttrip.com/courses/co...
All animations by my son Sky: / @skymography
Our amazing travel agent G can be reached here: www.milesaddict.com
Oftentimes in life, things don't turn out as planned. We have ideas of how things should go, but the Universe will intervene, and instead take us down a different path, as if that's the experience we were meant to have.
Are there always lessons in that to be learned? Who really knows, but it's definitely a different version than what we had in mind.
Which is exactly what happened to us, as we traveled to the US to submit our Portuguese visas and then to Mexico to spend a couple of months awaiting the processing.
Boy, did things end up differently than we ever imagined!
Not only the experience itself of traveling through so many cities, but the fact that we came to realize that Portugal wasn't the right fit for us.
What followed will surprise you...
Find me here on Instagram: / be.neaththesurface
All items below are Amazon affiliate links. This means I receive a small commission if you make a purchase when clicking on anything below, at no additional cost to you (that is, no change in price):
Camera equipment:
Main camera: amzn.to/43BmTiw
Secondary camera: amzn.to/3x2SWf9
All-in-one lens: amzn.to/3xisYV0
35mm F1.4 lens: amzn.to/49rFVJT
16mm F1.4 lens: amzn.to/49gkrQ3
Tripod: amzn.to/3IWrUJi
Motorized slider: amzn.to/3PFk8ag
Lighting equipment:
Soft lights: amzn.to/3VBCHzR
Versatile stands: amzn.to/4audBaw
Video light: amzn.to/49faKRP
Softbox: amzn.to/4abZNlg
C stand: amzn.to/3VBC615
Our dog carrier: amzn.to/4ctT5Zn
#portugal #europe #travel #portugaltravel #europetravel #europeantravel #mexico #mexicotravel #mexicantravel #portuguese #movingtoeurope #france #movingtofrance #worldtravel #worldtraveler #travelingtheworld #traveltheworld #traveling #globetrekker #worldexploration #visaprocessing #frenchliving #francetravel #exploringfrance #exploringeurope #movingabroad

[@nathanieldrew]

This was so well done - I’m really enjoying these updates (it’s different than hearing the stories over FaceTime or drinks). I’m pumped that the Drew Crew is reuniting…. 😉

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you so much. 🙏 Drinks in some lovely spot somewhere in Paris always ranks high up there though. 😉

[@tatiana.lifeinglow]

These updates are precious! Also from the astrological perspective...

[@carlosr192]

The spiritual truth is...what you really really really want something the universe don't give us that. Don't ask me why...we need enter in a mental vibe like ''that's OK I'm not neeeeed perfection''. I don't neeeeeeed money etc. We have to calm.

[@truthalonetriumphs6572]

The video was whiny :(

[@tatiana.lifeinglow]

​@@carlosr192 I think that there is time for a change, some serious transformation and that becomes the priority for some people at a certain life stage. and to get motivation to put it into life people hang on some kind of dream but it is not always possible to predict how things will turn out. The only way imo that helps is meditation, astrology (including natal, locational astrology, timing and horary, electional in some cases), some ways of connecting to the higher wisdom (possibly divination of some sort, shamanic journeying etc), and healing practices, therapy, coaching, self development to help the transformation go smoother and for self integration... deep meaningful conversations, meaningful or fun work and rejuvinating hobbies. Add to that mundane (world) events and the overall situation in the world, and it is obvious that one has to be ready to face the uknown one way or another and act further in those circumstances.

[@getsmartpaul]

I guess I missed how "Portugal did not work out for us" ? This video talked about the trip to Mexico and getting a passport. Can someone clarify for me ? Thanks ! Update: wait until next episode “How France 🇫🇷 did not work out for us.”

[@angelique2653]

As an older person, who has travelled extensively, may I make a few observations? I think your "Must Have" list for country, location, property, lifestyle is very contradictory. You want the perfect house, in a quiet location near to a buzzing city, but dont want to meet other tourists?? Crazy! You book flights, hotels before you have your visas in your hand? Crazy! Your expectations are too high, setting yourselves up for let downs. Of course you should have your standards, but there is no paradise on this Earth..I feel nowhere in Europe will meet your perfect U.S. standards. You just need to be more flexible. To truly appreciate what European culture, history, architecture, slower pace of life offers. Be more open minded. Less fixated on your Must Have List. The Universe is trying to tell you this. You are lovely people. I wish you Good Luck....💚💙💜

[@volleyballchatter]

Exacto. I doubt France will meet their expectations either. There's no perfect place.

[@caymanchristopher7014]

Are they trust fund babies? I am getting that vibe.

[@randykoger4646]

@@caymanchristopher7014 yeah me too. Buckets of money to throw at any situation and see where it sticks. Their videos while interesting, are not tellingly based in reality for most people.

[@magdaseguin]

Couldnt agree more...I am Belgian and my fiancé is French living our best life in Paris France after living in other foreign countries. My fiancé and I see Portugal the perfect country to open a second business after having done all the investigations so we can live in both countries as we choose with France as our base

[@worklaughplay]

Bingo. Contradictory, chaotic, incompatible. The guy in the video said it best. “Boo hoo”. Hope they find their fit.

[@timothywilliams1359]

Ah, the problems of affluenza... I don't have anywhere near enough money to do these kinds of travels. But I do have enough to live in the calm countryside, and to visit my grandchildren almost whenever I want.

[@johnhepbean4346]

I spent most of my life wanting to move to another country, eventually it dawned on me, the visitor experience and the citizen experience are two different things. No matter where you go, behind it all, it is really just a bunch of people trying to scratch out a living. Paradise on earth is a figment of the imagination. Click click click there's no place like home.

[@aniazurek7258]

John, couldn’t agree more! We often think that moving and relocating will change our lives for the better. (… and sometimes it does) However, problems and challenges are everywhere. They just look different. All about choosing your “hard”.

[@mapratt]

Miss Dorothy was absolutely going through my mind...

[@shraddashradda]

Ohhh you are right on with that…tourist/citizen worlds apart. No place like home 🌈🦋🌈

[@tstieber]

Yeah, we see this all the time with people leaving California and then being disappointed by places like Austin or Nashville, more realizing they were happier where they were before.

[@coolbreeze5683]

Definitely! If you're truly happy, you will feel that anywhere you go. A place can't make you feel true happiness. Yes, being on a beautiful beach or in the mountains might give you a dopamine boost but that's what vacations are for.

[@aqeelaliani]

Wow! A 16 min video without single reason why Portugal didn't work for them!

[@jegl1012]

I know...maybe the title of this video needs to be changed

[@sherlyveeraragavan7700]

They said it’s too touristy and too many people. Grasses are always greener on the other side.

[@mamooni]

The answer is implicit. They enjoyed more France.

[@gunnshell]

They seem like those travelers that complain all the time. Complain about the food, people, noise, where they came from etc…. We’ve all met those types of people and know how things will eventually end up.

[@FinanceBB]

Americans what did you expect? They could just stay in America...

[@katniss4670]

There is no perfect place . Wherever you go , you take yourself with you .

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Very true.

[@janetchristian]

Exactly!

[@simonledoux8519]

@@janetchristian Well put! Although some places can bring out the joy and creativity in you that was hidden or stifled where you had that job, boring routine, and same old, same old!

[@bigmacdaddy1234]

New Jersey is perfect.

[@devildoge9623]

Boom!

[@bertzethof2021]

I feel your pain. When we retired in Canada, we went through the process of moving to Mexico and spent almost three years there in different cities before realizing it wasn't the place for us. We had even adopted two stray dogs thinking we were going to stay in Mexico. Ultimately, we returned to Canada, sold our home, and applied for a visa to Portugal, not ever having visited the country. We have now been in Portugal for a year and bought a house near Tomar, not far from Coimbra. So far it feels like a good fit for us and the dogs are still with us. Our journey to date, which started in 2018, has taken four years. We have experienced a lot of uncertainty and frustration, but the future looks promising.

[@fernandaheck4819]

The best part: the dogs are still with you👏👏👏👏

[@kitbram2033]

Glad to hear you did not go back to Canada! I visited my folks in Cascais decades ago. They were with the embassy in Lisbon. I absolutely Loved Portugal. The only odd thing was how the little workmen would stop and stare any time a woman walked by. Including the old widows in their black and grey woolens.

[@helenavilhena5804]

@@kitbram2033 That was 60 years ago? 😊

[@kristygraves320]

Interesting! Where in Mexico did you go?

[@cosi77]

How calming to see, that there are a few folks who use their second half of life to not really settle with whatever is expected or safe, or familiar. But going through uncertainty and even frustration, taking a journey to better understand one's own needs and aspirations in this stage of life. Because I think society has taught us a linear way of how you should lead your life to fit the category "successful" and it is so manifested in outer prestige. Instead here you guys are in search of who you have become and testing out what serves you now and how you want to Design and spent your remaining life. I really find this invaluable. Thank you for sharing!

[@AndNowIWrite]

My husband and I moved from the US to Portugal in 2019. We refitted a van in 2021 and spent the past year traveling through France, Germany, Austria, Belgium, Luxembourg, Germany, Spain, and Italy. We loved each country for different reasons, but Portugal is our place!

[@ktrimbach5771]

What? No East European states or Balkans? For shame. JK. If you found your spot in Portugal, then “good atcha” (I think that’ the aussie correct slang.) 😁

[@bekind3063]

Obrigada ❤

[@333Hedgehogs]

And we love intelligent and respectful people like you living in our country 😃

[@suryakumari2487]

Happy to hear finally you settled in Portugal But how were your experiences living in US From India I am commenting For the last 10 to 20 years we are witnessing a large number of Indians moving to America for study and jobs Immigration on this earth is a continuous movement 🤝

[@suryakumari2487]

@@ktrimbach5771 Atcha is an Indian word and it means OK or very good From India with affection 🤝🙏

[@marissat9953]

The timing of this video is perfect. Thank you for showing the real side of moving to another country and just life in general. Many times people on KZbin and social media make everything "pretty". Its deceiving. You and your wife's tenacity is very uplifting! I'm looking forward to your next chapter in France!

[@wcucat93]

I agree! It’s a great reality check. Still want to move though.

[@marissat9953]

@@wcucat93 I hear you! I still want to move too!

[@janetchristian]

It is not the real side. It is only the real side if you have unreasonable expectations, focus on all the negative, and are unwilling to adapt. We moved to Spain and love it here. Our experience is night and day to this couples' experience (and expectations).

[@beverleyhirst9380]

The energy of the world right now is very heavy. Things are not as we expect them to be. Sending blessings for some peace and quiet in your journey.

[@michellethomas9356]

This is so true. I am a therapist and that heaviness is in almost every client now. Have been doing this for over 20 years and it never felt like this before.

[@stop_and_smell_the_roses]

I agree. Is there a government in this world that didn't go out of their way to suck the living soul (and finances) out of people? Fear mongering and joy sucking seemed to be the creedo. No wonder these folks are exhausted.

[@cinziam457]

@@michellethomas9356 So interesting to read this as I feel it, too.

[@MeadowDay]

Peace is pretty elusive these days…hope you all find it 🥰

[@jeanne553]

Never expect a foreign visa application to go smoothly.

[@maryanneevans8812]

Lol, right? 😅

[@willswomble7274]

Moan, moan, moan. Ever tried getting into the USA?

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

Mine was smooth

[@jacquelineleubin5004]

We moved from Switzerland to Hungary and we are happier than we ever was before. Such a beautiful country and people!

[@robertkerr9527]

What canton did you move from? We live in the Emmental.

[@jackiecordova7291]

I moved to Switzerland couple of months ago from the U.S because I have family in Switzerland I feel very happy I love my country Switzerland 🇨🇭 🇨🇭🇨🇭

[@robertkerr9527]

@@jackiecordova7291 I've lived in 2 other countries under much more difficult conditions. But living here in Switzerland is the most difficult place we've ever lived. The cultural pressures and cost if living are both very high. It has its pluses and minuses and is not for everyone.

[@jackiecordova7291]

@@robertkerr9527 thank you for replying yes I know it's very expensive but incomes are high I can efort to buy everything I am grateful to have a country like Switzerland 🇨🇭🇨🇭 God bless you and stay safe 🙏🙏🙏

[@robertkerr9527]

@@jackiecordova7291 honestly we are extremely grateful for thr health care here. If we lived in the US I truly believe I'd be dead years ago.

[@belenvallejosbarra1400]

I started following your channel because of your son Nathaniel, his way of telling stories, always made me feel part of his adventures, and every time you and your wife were on his videos, I liked it even more. There's such a beautiful spark whenever you are together. Since I started to follow your journey of finding that place of belonging... I've cried, laugh. I've got excited, inspired, worried and even felt proud. Because you both are what courage and perseverance looks like (: Les deseo lo mejor hoy, mañana y siempre. Hopefully one day your adventures take you guys to Chile ♥

[@BOULDERGEEK]

Well, Belen, even if they don't, my wife and I changed our travel and global living plans from France and Portugal to South America, in 2023. We are finally prioritizing visiting Torres del Paine and the parks of Patagonia Sur. I have happily motorcycled 25,000 km of Chile, Argentina, Bolivia, Peru and Ecuador. We are excited to visit your vibrant and amazing country once again!

[@belenvallejosbarra1400]

​@@BOULDERGEEK That sounds amazing! I haven't had the chance of going that far to the south of Chile, I live in the northern part of the country, right in the middle of the Atacama Desert, in the city of Copiapó. My brother loves to ride motorcycles, he and his friends always go to up to the dunes, there's also long coastal routes to go motorcycling in the area... I bet everything will turn out fantastic in this new adventure of you both ♥and if you happen to visit the north, I'll be more than happy to meet you guys (:

[@y.v.g.b.4306]

Do you have a link to Nathaniel's videos?

[@youareinbarbados2578]

Nice video. From a person who is Italian but lived 10 years in USA from 24 to 34 yrs old and then moved back home to Italy bc I was homesick , I must say, getting used to other cultures is so, so hard. Cultural shock is the first thing that hits you even if you are not aware of that.

[@noellewood2213]

I’m an American who’s been living and working in France for 4 years. Expect everything to be slow and expect tons of paperwork. Good luck!

[@pmhlachambre3364]

Does the paperwork 'present itself' -- or are you having to constantly 'chase' it?

[@noellewood2213]

@@pmhlachambre3364 you will have constant paperwork. The visa is only the beginning. Make sure you have a reciprocal license otherwise you will have to take driver's education all over again. Good luck, pack your patience

[@ceha9517]

They will hate it. And just imagine that the french do not speak english well. I am hyped. 😂

[@noellewood2213]

@@ceha9517 the bureaucracy in France is super intense and takes up half my life. English is hard to come by outside of Paris. And Paris is super expensive. A million euro budget is necessary. I live in the deep countryside and no one speaks English. Not easy

[@diniemadsen4778]

Plus, the French don’t like the Americans a lot, I lived there from the Netherlands and even I have family there, I didn’t feel happy there.

[@goingwalkaboutnow]

My husband and I have done the same thing as you two. We went to Baja for six months, 3 in La Paz and 3 in a very small town Barriles. I have a channel, Going Walkabout if you want to view our adventures. We are older then you two, I’m 63 and my husband is 68, so far , we are really glad we sold everything and decided to travel with no set agenda. We have noticed that we need to spend at least 3 months in a place, otherwise the packing and unpacking gets a bit difficult. We are currently back in the US, getting passports renewed and working on permanent residency in Mexico. I love what you are doing. You and your son have such a wonderful gift for being philosophical. Viva la france.

[@GLifestyle50]

We sold our house last year in Virginia and move to Portugal, after 8 months we came to the conclusion that it was not what we were looking for. We love Portugal and we intend to come back more often to visit. We went to Brazil and Mexico. We are back in the united states. Just to conclude I speak portuguese and spanish, language was not the problem. Was a great experience 😊

[@mda1501]

2.5 years in Italy. Although magnificent, it is not my home in the USA.

[@agithehun]

May I ask you what you were looking for?

[@minaa.1984]

Why wasn’t it what you were looking for?

[@stefpix]

It would be useful if you would express what did not work out, the reasons why. Positive and negatives. It would make comments more useful and constructive. Others it is just your own feeling and it may be very different for others.

[@---Avalon---Sky---]

🌹I've been to Portugal, France Italy, Mexico Canada, Spain, and all the rest. May I suggest the most affordable friendly and safe English speaking city of Dumagete, or Valencia, in the Philippines. A house near the beach 🏖️ can be yours for 600 dollars a month, many expats there, Cebu is nice to. The beaches at Boracay and Palawan spectacular . Cost of living is affordable, and you will feel safe, There are 7600 Islands. Makati has excellent healthcare, at a fraction of usual costs. The dollar has never been stronger, and I can assure you out of the 194 countries on earth, the people there are among the friendliest you will ever encounter. 🙏👍🌺🏝️🇵🇭👍🌅🇺🇸😎

[@claudiadgusmao]

I'm not sure how you can "be done" with a country in only 2 months. I don't think that even in a small country like Portugal you could visit and experience living in all the different regions, to see if any of them would fit you or to even know the country. Wishing you all the best!

[@christinecamley]

There are many contradictory demands from this couple, an entitled attitude, unreasonable complaints about noise and irritations (it's noisy in all large European cities) and with very little research it's easy to find how different Tulum is now from many years ago - there is huge construction and development. There is nothing easy about huge moves like this. I predict France will bring yet more complaints and I don't think they can speak French which will make it more difficult.

[@333Hedgehogs]

@@christinecamley exactly! Entitled, arrogant and ignorant. We are very welcoming in Portugal, maybe a little too much but we despise people like this couple who have 0 knowledge and culture.

[@333Hedgehogs]

Glad they’re gone 😂

[@dougscott188]

I would think their son being in Paris figures into the equation.

[@tatiana.lifeinglow]

sometimes there is just a feeling you do not belong there, that it cannot be the home, there can be an urge to move somewhere else.

[@dryroasted5599]

While I think this whole episode should be titled, #First world problems, Your videography is superb, especially the shots of Mexico. Thanks for sharing.

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

I totally agree

[@artscience9981]

I can relate to this greatly. Some years ago I moved from the U.S. to Vancouver Canada, which had been one of my dream locations. I stuck it out for three years, but was never really happy there, and was dissatisfied with the work options available to me. Vancouver is a beautiful and cosmopolitan place, and I met some really nice people, but my final conclusion was the things that matter most are good relationships with friends and family, as well as meaningful work. I found I was much happier back in the U.S.

[@malloryjines5050]

Yep, the grass is not always greener. Our country is huge! There is possibly a state here where you would feel at home.

[@j0hnegan]

So many Americans moved to Canada after 9/11. Only find out that Canada is not America North.

[@suryakumari2487]

Yes This is called the definition of experience Happiness coming back in pursuit

[@suryakumari2487]

When you have good friends and family Then the place which you are living is real home

[@tatiana.lifeinglow]

interesting, I can relate to what you are saying, even though not sure if US would work better for me. I've lived in Vancouver for over 13 years, a couple of times had a very acute desire to move out of it, but I have my close family here, which is very important to me, have a lot of good friends here too, would miss biking near the ocean for sure and the social dancing scene is great here. Yet Vancouver got even more expensive through years, it is really hard to live here, let alone buy some property. Architecture is so mediocre as well )). Life got me appreciate Canada and Vancouver a lot though.

[@lmgtulsa]

I have eagerly been waiting for a new vid from you guys and am thrilled you are doing well. What a life! It’s better to KNOW something isn’t for you, like Portugal, then to for ever wonder about the “what if?”. I love France. The whole of France has so much to offer. I can’t wait to see your up coming adventures. Take care!

[@BOULDERGEEK]

As a solo American male, I got laid off from my job in technology a few years back. Instead of waiting around my home, desperately job searching for dwindling morsels of prosperity in America, I moved to the French Alps to bicycle, cook, learn French and discover gastronomy. It was an exquisite four months. Fat Americans, refusing to learn three or four phrases in French, travelling from one McDonald's to the next, have given France a poor reputation in the non-European world I would love to live there, should the finances and timing allow. Paris, however, would not be on my list. Valloire/LaGrave, Lyon, Provence, Bordeaux would all be immensely satisfying.

[@conradk]

When I was young, we'd visit Mexico - the extreme grime, grit, poverty, watching where we went, who we spoke to, only eating well-prepared food. I loved it. Mexico is dynamic, colorful, filthy and dangerous, amazing people, culture, food and music. I am so glad my parents did not shelter me, only showing me the wealthy version of the world. I have as well shared with my children how hard people live, and how lucky we are.

[@pearlperlitavenegas2023]

You didn't have to leave the USA to experience what you did in 🇲🇽 plenty of dangerous,poor, grimy places in the 🇺🇲 too bad you're too sheltered to visit these hoods

[@globetrotterawakening1896]

@@pearlperlitavenegas2023 USA has 1 mass murder a day in 2018. Dangerous??? USA is one of the most dangerous country in the world. I am stressed when I am returning there.

[@user-zh6om8ti5m]

Mexico is a pretty diverse country; no wonder there's this saying about Mexico having 32 Mexicos in it. So you should visit soon again to understand it's not entirely a poor country just for a "boogeyman" lesson 😅

[@stevesteve6322]

Home is where the ❤️ is and no one has a greater hold on our hearts than our children. Thank you for sharing your journey. I'm super sensitive to noise too, it's really a quality of life issue. Could never live where it was noisy if I could help it.

[@an67481]

Me too. But I dontneed to travel to Mexico for months to figure it is noisy... if only you meet any mexican natives, you know this already. It's like saying India is chaos. Of course. You should know that intuitively before landing 😬🙄🤔

[@lwheat3]

I so love this channel. People in the 40/50 plus group need to see these types of journeys

[@annanajduch5201]

I'm 48 and wondering why you feel we need to see such journeys. Why?

[@holmes592]

I had anxiety just listening to your story. Take a deep breath and release it to the universe.

[@AdrianneZamandra]

I’m French and it warms my heart that you guys feel drawn to my country, I really can’t wait to see it through your eyes. All the steps taken so far have lead you there, I wish you guys the best for what’s yet to come 😊 PS: Josh, your story telling skills keep improving every time, keep up the great work, I’m a big fan!

[@beetlespacexdragon7815]

The format requires them to become disillusioned with France after several months. They’ll publish “content” about how shocked they were by French bureaucracy (who knew?), noise,etc. They’ll then return to to US wiser for their wandering.

[@AdrianneZamandra]

@@beetlespacexdragon7815 I wouldn’t be so pessimistic. If that’s what end up happening, then so be it.

[@beetlespacexdragon7815]

@@AdrianneZamandra perhaps you’re right. I would love to see a ‘happily ever after’ video where the travelers find France to be their ‘forever home.’ This format of entertainment requires the travelers to become suddenly discontent with their surroundings, producing new content showing them off to another destination after France disappoints them in certain ways.

[@alexam1848]

La France n'est plus la France,même en tant que touriste je ne vois plus l'intérêt.

[@aurelieb.6552]

C'est certain qu'ils vont detester. 😆 Deux princesses en cavale.

[@k.h.7575]

I love your honesty, and the sharing of your proces with us. What an adventure! Can't wait to see what happens next 😍 Enjoy the journey!

[@Starfish2145]

One of my American friends has lived in Paris for the last 20 years. She runs a yoga studio there. Her husband is Italian. Even after all that time, the French still have not accepted them. Parisians are snotty

[@janebaker966]

An awful lot of Parisiens are not even french.

[@revitalbergershloman8188]

Well..Life in France is not as easy, very different being a tourist and being there long term. If in Paris it is by far a lot more expensive and unless you are retired , the knowledge of language is very much needed . In any case , good luck! Courage et bonne chance !

[@AG-so4gl]

Need to speak French, the French can but won't speak English

[@katjaxxx7353]

Yes. When I talked English they turned their back on me!!!!

[@inconnu4961]

@@katjaxxx7353 DeGaul taught the French to hate & fear the Anglophonie! D' gall of that guy!

[@questforhome]

Thank you so much for this. Earlier this year we sold our home in Arizona to go through the visa process in Mexico, where we thought we would end up making a new home. It only took us a few months to realize that Mexico was not for us-we too experienced “the revenge” many times, were overwhelmed by the sound pollution, and never felt that sense of calm and ease we were looking for in a place to call home. While in Mexico, we figured we just had the country wrong so turned our sights to the D7 Visa in Portugal. We travelled a bit more to Ecuador, Ireland and are now in Portugal, where we have let go of the idea of the D7 and are now just enjoying this as a place to experience for a month. That “letting go” of expectation or outcome was a game-changer. We will be ending our 6 months of travel and “searching for a home” in November and will be spending time back in the desert where we think we might end up after all, this time in New Mexico. Of course, this can always change. On this journey, we have learned a lot, mostly as a result of all the difficulties we’ve experienced, and now have so much more clarity on our shared values than we had before this whole journey. Our lessons have been hard won and while we wouldn’t want to go through all of this again, we are much better for it and will be approaching the next phase with much more openness, less fear, and a clear set of values to guide us.

[@nickbrennan3389]

Yes...letting go of expectations or outcome is a game changer, and being honest with yourself

[@auricgoldfinger8478]

Just bought a small home in north Scottsdale. Quiet, lots of wildlife, great walking, low taxes. Still have a house in Colorado for balance.Come back to Arizona?

[@joemueller9789]

This was an excellent and well-written share. It helped me a great deal, and I agree 100% with what you've shared. After joining friends on a scouting trip to Portugal last month, I fell in love with the calm, serene cafe lifestyle. But I'm now in a cautious, stage of asking myself: (1) was the great lifestyle that I experienced during my stay as a tourist an accurate picture of what daily life would be? Or was it me looking through rose-colored tourist glasses? and (2) can I find the same serenity here in the U.S. that I experienced in PT? So far, the answer to the first question has yet to be confirmed, but the answer to the second question definitely looks like a "no". Hey. To Thine Own Self Be True. Thanks again for your share.

[@malloryjines5050]

Forgive me for saying this, but I dont think the grass is always greener somewhere else. The US is an enormous country. Have you looked at different states here to relocate to?

[@ktrimbach5771]

Sorry. Not Sorry. The US has been getting increasingly degenerate. Anyone who spends any time overseas will see how hated it is. It starts wars against other countries for no reason, meddles in *everyone’s* elections, has deposed numerous regimes - even assassinated leaders they found unacceptable. It’s forcing its increasing sexual depravity onto other countries-first in Europe, then in the developing countries. Congress is now wholly corrupt. America will fall as Babylon is fallen.

[@IshikaShanai]

I'm honestly glad y'all documented this journey. I've been dealing with an extremely challenging year as well and while I'm your son's age, it's nice seeing that folks my parents age try new things and see where these experiments take them. It reaffirms that while life's challenges are numerous, it's how we choose to handle them that make all the difference.

[@helgaincanada]

I love hearing about your adventures! I moved to a new city alone at age 60. Love following others who are expanding their life. Glad you are sharing your story. 💕

[@sheli4795]

I've been considering retiring overseas, too. Care to share which city you moved to?

[@pattiderosamusic3292]

I did it just a few years younger. Living in Florence for over 7 years now and I love it!

[@helgaincanada]

@@sheli4795 I changed cities in Canada I still need to work.

[@lvc23]

I plan to live in Italy part time by sometime next year, looking for a small place south of Italia.

[@trishashaw1688]

Wow, that's a big move on your own, inspiring.

[@Angora573]

I really enjoy watching your videos so much. I am in my 60s now but when young I dreamed of moving to the US, I am in the UK. I did eventually move there and stayed for ten years but never really settled, I missed the UK so much, I had also lived in Greece for a year in my 30s which I loved but didn't settle for life, obviously. For me my greatest lesson has been to just enjoy the experiences of being in foreign countries but to understand that England is home and where the majority of my family lives. I haven't stopped travelling but just for a few weeks at most at a time. I will live out my days here, at home, happily. Much love and luck to you as you continue your journey x

[@dianakurland2500]

You are a great storyteller. Now about Mexico; I lived there, in Mexico City, 2018-2021 and was never sick even once. I’ve been in Portland a year and a half to live near family but will return to Mexico, to stay, in 2023 as a permanent resident and can’t wait!

[@sarawarrener2193]

Life is always an adventure. If you don’t try and experience you may always question your decisions. Look forward to following along your journey in France☺️

[@LidiaExplores]

It's so important to document those struggles. Sometimes we feel like we should have it all figured out. Your openness to trying new things and being okay with them not working out is refreshing. I am in the process of traveling around for a year or so to figure out where I want to ultimately settle. It's been an interesting journey to say the least. Cheers from South Korea. Looking forward to your next video!

[@tatiana.lifeinglow]

yes Lidia, I agree it is precious to have such videos , both helps you to process what is happening, viewers to get a POV on the journey and experience, and also refreshing to have that level of doc style storytelling, which many people can relate fast to.

[@andrewomar9887]

Its so awesome to see people over 45 backpacking the world instead of moving to a retirement village. Its amazing!

[@patriciavandevelde5469]

I m 61 and still travelling the world!

[@marietaylor5174]

Unfortunately, many do not have enough funds to travel the world.

[@suebowman7258]

@@marietaylor5174 Well Said!

[@Okiejayjay]

That’s funny, move to a retirement home “over 45”? If you can move well enough it never needs to stop.

[@Thomassina1]

Living abroad, while rewarding, is not easy. I've traveled a fair bit, lived abroad, and found that to succeed, one needs to leave behind home country expectations. That means adapting - to local customs and to accept change. Don't fight it or you will be miserable..

[@jmb1101]

As part of the travel industry, I want to thank you for acknowledging your great travel advisor!

[@Julietnboyd1]

Your honesty makes these videos so authentic and enjoyable. Thank you and best of luck with this new chapter! Exciting!

[@isabella.c.a.]

I think it's just hard to adjust to new ways of life in other countries. The problem is often our expectations based on what we are used to. No place is perfect. The question is more what can you take and can one place feel like home despite its flaws... As your son mentioned in one of his videos, there are also tons of issues in France as well... I am French and don't like some of the issues but I guess I am used to them and know what to expect. Good luck to you! Hope you find your little corner of paradise. PS: I know for most people living outside of France, Paris is all there is but... why not trying another city like Lille (close to Bruxelles, the UK and Paris) or another great region like Normandy? Paris is noisy, busy, and many construction works everywhere (esp. with all the preps for the 2024 Olympic games)... noise doesn't seem to be your ideal thing, understandably, I am the same on that.

[@hugocast]

Cue in 3 months the next video “Paris is not for us, Hola Buenos Aires” 😅 Jk, Good luck on your journey 😊

[@engpds]

The question I have is: if you were willing to leave the US, explore, feel discomfort, why not giving Portugal many more months or years? Why not learning more about living options, cities, and how problems get sorted? Culture shock doesn't get solved by bouncing or pivoting. Why not embracing the slowness of Portugal? A fantastic place to dive into and adapt, with time.

[@nanchu81]

With my husband, we absolutely love your content, the narrative and the way you convey words to tell your story and all the thinngs you are going through - the good, the bad and the ugly. Honest content is hard to find ... thanks for sharing your journey with speed bumps and all! Somos argentinos actualmente viviendo en Nueva Zelanda... gracias por compartir con tanta honestidad, el contenido que publican está resonando fuertemente en nosotros :)

[@ShauninParadise]

Nice video. You guys may speak Spanish, but you really don't understand Mexico. Going to Tulum is like going to Disneyland for peace and quiet. I live in the most beautiful state in Mexico, Nayarit. If you're Mexican and reading this you may have had a chuckle bc Nayarit is a humble and mostly poor state... as that's just fine with us! Viva Mexico!

[@user-zh6om8ti5m]

Hermano Shaun, ya eres mexicano 👏👏

[@nemekSI]

*Love that you guys are so transparent! So many times it seems like people magically have everything work out exactly how they want all the time, Excited to see where your journey takes yall next!*

[@thevagabondonwheels4918]

Nice to see an update from you two. Couple of suggestions: 1. Have you considered Lyon? It is a fairly short high speed train ride to Paris, is large enough to still be the "big city", arguably has even better food than Paris and real estate is significantly less expensive. It is also well-placed for getting to Geneva (hour and a half drive) as well as the lovely town of Annecy and also puts you within easier travel distance of Italy and Spain as well. 2. Look to see if Oregon reciprocates on driver's licenses with France. A handful of states do, including mine (Virginia). Getting a DL in another country can be a massive pain in the butt so just being able to swap your U.S. DL for a French one would be wonderful.

[@margietucker1719]

I agree...I would choose Lyon over Paris.

[@aracelireynoso7625]

Truly inspiring. I love how you and your wife have bravely ventured out of your comfort zones. You truly have a gift of expressing your journey in a thoughtful and inspiring manner. I wish you and your beautiful wife much happiness as you follow your dreams.

[@ceha9517]

Where is this inspiring? Just bragging all day. 🙄

[@janetchristian]

But they didn't. They took their comfort zone with them and were disappointed when everything didn't fit into that zone.

[@francisconovellino2371]

“Attachment to an outcome can create tension and drama” palabras que identifican como llevo sintiéndome estos últimos 8 años desde que mi esposa y yo nos mudamos a Europa. Glad to see that you made it after all the struggle, looking forward to see more of your adventures

[@aprilm1866]

Y Ahora como les va? Estan arrepentidos?

[@MichaelGiordano777]

I just scratched Portugal and Mexico off my bucket list for retirement. And I have been to various States in Mexico several times in my life. Visting as a tourist is a whole different story than becoming an expat there. My wife thanks you! Staying in our Florida home. At least for now. I can be in the Caribbean and most of Mexico in a couple of hours or less. It's a good base in retirement. Salud!

[@brockreynolds870]

Plenty of warm places that are still property of the United states. Puerto Rico, Hawaii, Guam, North Mariana, American Samoa, and Marshall Islands.

[@chuckwavra8832]

Attachment, worrying, doing crazy things, making mistakes - yup, that's been my world for the past month... not beating myself up over it, they are just lessons learned, let it go and put it in the hands of the universe - yes! all of this. You helped me with this video - thank you! Best wishes for you 🙏

[@jkmiller46]

I love your honesty. We just visited Mexico. We had a very different experience. Life is meant to be lived!

[@paranihiaanaru4414]

Mmm maybe ... but I thought everyone knew Mexico City is noisy, even people like me who have only been to Baja

[@natalyaa4928]

I watch your videos for inspiration and reality check. In a week we are moving from Seattle to Finland and I try to be open minded enough to embrace the adventure. Your personality reminds me of myself and I can see how the stress and self induced anxiety can drive you crazy, but it is part of every adventure - things don't always go as they are planned. Keep on drinking, loving your wife and exploring the world out here because your book of life is very interesting to "read'

[@christinegivens9048]

I moved from Atlanta to UK 12 years ago. I know the feelings you’re expressing. But the best thing that I ever did was have zero expectations. Then everything is an adventure. I’ve been sick all over the world too. I’ve learnt not to eat vege, ice, water in all forms. Ha And when I say sick… gawd. I mean sick. But you learn right? Nice to share your experiences. 😀

[@hagakuru]

See you're adapting and assimilating quite well... using "learnt" instead of learned. LOL

[@ProdavackaDivu]

@@hagakuru I grew up in the US and have always used learnt, slept, spelt, etc 🤔

[@margietucker1719]

@@ProdavackaDivu Here in the US--"slept" is actually a correct spelling--as there is no such word as "sleeped" to indicate past tense. However, "learnt" and "spelt" are incorrect spellings--and you would have never learned that in any English grammar class. Perfectly fine for a person to use their own personal preferences--as long as it is understood that it is nevertheless, grammatically incorrect.

[@marietaylor5174]

I've always kept in the back of my mind what I heard a travel experts say: do not eat anything that hasn't gone through heat, and only drink bottled water.

[@timothysmcnamara5925]

The name of this channel should be "First World Problems".

[@strongjohn10956]

Thank you for this series of videos. As someone who has given serious consideration to moving overseas, your experiences have really been an incredible eye-opener. Your frankness in sharing your problems and feelings is such a foil for all the "living in (fill in the blank) is wonderful" stuff that's out there. Again, thank you so very much. Hope France works out wonderfully for you.

[@myprettypsych]

I really appreciate this perspective. I left the US almost two years ago and have been in Costa Rica ever since. I do love this country, but I know it is not where I am going to stay. I am planning to leave within the next few months. But it is super interesting to hear how people constantly put down someone who decides the new country is not for them. There is the inevitable "have no expectations" or "you need to adapt to the culture", etc. There is some truth in those, but there is also truth in that there are things that may not jive with you personally. And you need to determine what things are a must/must not and which ones you can be flexible about. And those are different for every person. What may seem inconsequential to some, is not to others. Best of luck to you.

[@hansonel]

What a journey! As someone planning to move from the US to Europe thank you for showing a realistic portrayal of the long (and often anxiety inducing) process of moving to another country. Lot's of lessons and wisdom here (being overly attached to an outcome for example) for those trying to do the same.

[@Ploiesti2001]

Nah...there is only one open secret to either visiting/holidaying or looking for settling somewhere foreign : no expectations ! The less you dream ahead and the more open minded you set off, the better you are prepared for surprises because, in effect, that's what leaving your own place is, expecting the unexpected. All my first holidays abroad were a huge disappointment because I always wore my rise-tinted glasses but as soon as I took them off, I started to enjoy every single one of them. In the case of settling in, my disappointment would have been a few times higher because of the additional stress. I spent a week in Porto and did a day trip to Guimarães, I was ecstatic, on the other hand, had I gone there to settle in, I'm sure I would have been disappointed by a totally different way of doing things.

[@todrapayne]

Thank you for addressing noise pollution and the longing for a quiet, peaceful place. That has been our biggest challenge as we've traveled AND even now (temporarily) living in LA. Also we've been longing to apply for residency in France. We lived there for 3 months and loved it. Everyone is telling us to go to Portugal because it's easier. But we feel the same as you. France has our hearts. We're going to apply in the New Year. So excited.

[@paula.rocha.p]

I think you have no idea of what you want. If every place you go is so bad why don't you stay in the US ?

[@mboyce8853]

Everyone who is considering the expat lifestyle should watch your videos--you have a lot of insight and wisdom to offer. Also, my compliments on your photography and videography!

[@akhilmontu]

The noise problem can only be rectified by going back to suburbs of Portland only!!

[@LisaCulton]

🤣

[@adrianag6969]

I loved this video and all the others. I knew from the beginning that France was the place for you. I felt it. But... as you said, you had to enrich your life with the "other" experiences. I will continue the journey with you and your family through these videos. Can't hardly wait...your new friend from Argentina as well, living in the USA. Good Luck!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Haha, thanks! ❤️

[@mda1501]

To me, Italy has had the best of all Europe. Great people, beautiful architecture, mountains, rolling hills, history, cost-effective housing, decent security, areas to escape noise, lakes and of course, a never-ending changing coastline.

[@neiyuemo1501]

Italia is a possibilty for me......Thanks for all of your reasons.....did you settle in a big city? medium sized or small town?

[@SangheiliSpecOp]

It's always been my dream to live in Italy. I am working to make it possible

[@lmay1466]

Sicily

[@elomoagu]

True! 😊 It 's always a good experience to go there. I am learning Italian to discuss with local people. Maybe when I will be old I could go there

[@tomh2121]

It’s very Southern Europe. It’s very different from Northern Europe.

[@samstlm]

Can't wait for an update. I realize this is a journey, sometimes joyful and sometime frustrating. You will find your way and I am rooting for you.

[@Print229]

I like this because you are so honest! I can't wait to see your journey in France! Much love from another Portland (Oregon). ❤️

[@seaofsolace]

It feels like you guys have been unsually unlucky throughout this experience!! My god, I am exhausted for you guys! I hope everything goes smoothly from now on. Wishing you the best! 💙 And France, thats so cool! Cant wait to explore it with you. My first language is French, donc je vous dis: bisous et à la prochaine!

[@worldpeace1822]

Nah he is probably going to be unhappy again. They want a never ending holiday and everything that is outside of that holiday experience is a negative point. Yet why do they even want to move if everything is so perfect at „home“?

[@MarianneWilkinson0312]

@@worldpeace1822 I think you are selling these folks short. Being open to exploring something ‘outside the box’ is freedom. Having choices is freedom. They are willing to risk a lot to find a better quality of life. Not once did they say they are looking for a holiday. Just more than they had in Portland. ❤Good for them. Being open and living open hearted!

[@worldpeace1822]

@@MarianneWilkinson0312 sure I’d be happy to be proven wrong. I still have the feeling though that they get it backward as nothing can be 100% always. Going in with a checklist and tick all boxes is not what defines home.

[@erinmh]

​@@worldpeace1822No one is interested in proving you wrong. It's just your opinion.

[@trevsinc]

Anxiety, agony, uneasiness because you received a parcel 2-3 days later than expected 😶

[@janetchristian]

Yeah. People like that never do well trying to live in another country.

[@SPaddy-fb7hy]

Portugal breathes a sigh of relief.

[@duc25xr]

Lol

[@timothywilliams1359]

I feel so bad for their little dog. He looks like he would love to dump these people.

[@aurelieb.6552]

Exactly. So pathetic Knowing they have a family connection with Argentina and they have the gall of going to Mexico, dissing the country and worrying stupid about their poochie pooch not seeing their privilege when million of Mexicans struggle hard..barf.

[@peterkelly8357]

You should get a prize for best comment… a weeks stay with this family, second prize is a months stay.

[@SPaddy-fb7hy]

@@peterkelly8357 Noooooooo

[@missmya1967]

So you went to Mexico City and complained about the noise? It’s one of the largest cities in the world! I found this video was just a lot of whining and complaining. So annoying.

[@SA_.377]

They should go home to the US. I'm sure they'll be happier there. In my view when you are the outsider you either adjust or shut up and politely pack your bags and leave. This applies to jobs, families, neighbourhoods, or countries.

[@SamFournier]

Ahhh, so excited for this new chapter. It’s funny how life throws these curveballs your way but then you realize it’s all part of the process and you end up being grateful for the journey and lessons along the way. So excited you guys are back in France, super curious to see what area of France is calling you. I’m in Provence and I’m truly in love with this area and country.

[@nomadicam]

I mean you kind of covered this around minute 1:30, but y'all are really particular and may not be suited to international living. If you've got really strong ideas about how things should look or be, travel is your best way to be disappointed. I've lived in Europe, Asia for 7 years, and traveled to a bunch of other countries, and I finally learned you just have up let go of how you think it should be, and appreciate what is. Noise, mosquitoes, disappointing food, illness, communication problems, cultural differences, visa and passport delays or issues... I've experienced all of that too, but also had to work (with local bosses and coworkers) in those situations. I think you'll really have to change your mentality if you want to live abroad long term. Portugal, Mexico, France...you'll keep running into the same discomfort no matter which country you go to. That said, your content is wonderful, and your commentary is insightful, and I'm rooting for you!

[@KritikaSpreadLove]

There is so much wisdom in your videos. They bring me to such a place of pondering but also gratefulness to experience the full range of human emotions. You don’t sugar coat the struggles but you present every experience with truth and acceptance that this is what it means to be living. Thank you for your candid and vulnerable storytelling. Always looking forward to the next!

[@lamadeandfound7594]

I am proud to say "I told you so" LOL! I knew when I saw you guys in Paris that it was the place for you! I am so glad that things came full circle and you are now ready to start your life where you belong. Peace & Blessings.

[@NorCalMom]

Called it! Knew you would end up in France! If you like quiet, I suggest you do a little trip over to Germany for a vacation. I’ve always said it would be France for us (and maybe it still will) but our teen exposed us to Germany and we love it. They have quiet hours! And Sunday is quiet day. The ‘rules’ based society there is actually a form of respect for each other, something I know has been lost in the US. I fell hard for the culture.

[@Xmaslightsallyear]

Germany yes! Hard not to admire it.

[@cosi77]

Oh wow...maybe I will come to re-admire this kind of structure, but at the moment it is so stagnant...but I can see the benefits for quiet-loving people =)

[@ruthlyons2370]

What part of Germany? So true about the US. AFter living in Portugal for 3 months and returning back to the US, it was an eye opener to say the least. There is not respect and the violence here is scary. Something we didn't experience in Portugal.

[@NorCalMom]

@@cosi77 We didn't feel like Germany was stagnant at all. It was thriving, crowded and full of life. Shops and museums fully open and lots of action. The people just didn't honk their horns, they spoke quietly on trains and inside restaurants and in apartments, and key to all of this: they were visibly way more relaxed compared to the US.

[@NorCalMom]

@@ruthlyons2370 We are waiting to see what jobs are available for my spouse and we will follow where ever the job is. We just spent a month traveling all throughout Germany, hitting most major cities (except Stuttgart, that's for next time) and we loved all of them. They each had pluses/minuses but compared to the US, it was safe and calm and so very relaxed. I seriously sensed the relaxation as soon as I stepped off the plane in Munich. I was dumbfounded at how stressful I felt back in the US. It was palpable. And I hear you. The first week back in the US felt like an affront, right? I didn't want to let that feeling go but US life snuck back in. Hard to describe, isn't it? Same for you?

[@andreabalderstone4272]

Having just discovered your channel, I am enjoying your adventures and your honesty. Being in my early 50’s myself I would love to move from the UK to Portugal. However we have considered Australia and France in the past. There are so many amazing Countries, it is very often difficult to just pick one spot to live. Thanks for sharing your experiences with us😊

[@cheyennesworld9172]

You guys are wonderful! I'm so grateful that I came across your channel. I'm in the middle of building a new life for myself too. I'm 53 and was widowed 5 years ago. It's been a hard, painful journey through grief. I'm finally in a pretty good space, emotionally. I traveled around quite a bit, trying to decide where to be. Nothing felt right until last year. I wound up buying a home in Florida, which is where my late husband and I vacationed every year... but I'm Canadian so I can only be there for 6 months per year. Now I'm searching for what to do with the other 6 months. I tried Mexico and Portugal. Like you, those places didn't click. I love Europe though so I intend to go back there and see what's what. You two got me interested in Paris. My husband and I were there for just 2 days, years ago, but didn't see much. Now you've got me thinking... perhaps I'll give that city another try. Thank you for your videos. I feel so validated in my wandering... lots of people criticize and think I should just stay in Canada and be status quo. That's not me. I'm more like the two of you. Looking forward to seeing your next video!!

[@mascarenhas9624]

Whatever you do make friends. People is importan, the rest who care. 💐🌷💐

[@aniazurek7258]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Paris is waiting! You won’t regret it. Go go go!!!

[@marielle2066]

Canada is such a wonderful country with so many different cultures and languages. I lived in 3 provinces and 6 cities and they all have different things to offer.

[@noreenn6976]

“ Life is what happens when you're busy making other plans.” - John Lennon Paris looks amazing, I can't wait to follow along on the rest of your journey. And you'll be near your son, I love it!

[@brightgreenleaves]

This is amazing!!! Thank you for the realness this is helping me with my life decisions. Feel a lot of the sentiments you shared in the end. I too have been moving around from place to place searching for my home and I feel like I am on a wild goose chase. Will work on relaxing into it to enjoy the ride

[@AnotherBadyoga]

I love to hear about your experiences, can’t thank you enough!

[@alejocollao]

This is the most honest and authentic video I've seen about finding the right country for you to live in. I had a similar experience and you made me feel relieved that I am not broken or crazy and you had a similar experience. I am Spanish, and after living 6 years in Italy and Germany, I decided the Netherlands is for me.

[@jahdai7543]

I love Amsterdam 🥰

[@neiyuemo1501]

Why do you like the Netherlands? I've been there but not lived there.....

[@denniszenanywhere]

Would also like to know why you like the Netherlands.

[@JuliaBillen]

I'm moving to the Netherlands in June. Where did you end up in NL? Curious.

[@helgaioannidis9365]

I'm German and I lived in Italy for 8 years and even though I really love Italy and have very good friends there, it just didn't fit me. I've been living in Greece for 18 years now and that's where I belong.

[@bublik8351]

Thank you for sharing your life and thoughts on life with us. It’s so interesting! I wish you the best!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you much. :)

[@joannaszulc8190]

I love following your adventure. Can't wait for the next chapter. All the best in France.

[@cobolsaurus]

Changing countries is difficult. If you are used to living in the USA, you better live in the USA. Every country is different, and you will never live in another country the same way you lived in the USA. I mean, the living standards are always different. And even if you moved to the perfect country where all conditions are ideal, the cultural differences themselves are enough to make the experience completely different. You have to be willing to adapt culturally and in other aspects to live in another country. And it does not have anything to do with moving to a third-world country or Sweden, for instance. Sweden is a very organized country, but the gloomy weather alone might make you feel pretty depressed. So, it is a situation where you have to find a balance between what you left behind vs. the new good things that you are getting from living in that new place. If that is difficult for you, the best option might be to stay in your own country.

[@tamirenno5845]

I cannot wait for your next video. Finally being where your hearts are full. Thank you for including all of us on your journey…I look forward to seeing all that you experience in and around beautiful France.

[@chuckkiezulas9265]

The failure you experience trying to adapt to a foreign country/culture is because you only take, you do not give. If you enhanced another country/culture which I call giving, then they will assimilate you. You will be accepted with open arms. Their culture will open up for you. For example; start a business. Employ local people. Or maybe bring a skill or technology. When you add value, the process is simple.

[@co-creatv6540]

If I were you, I would try a home in Normandie, not too far from a big city, but in a quiet area…with trees and gardens…Enjoy the good aspects from France and avoid administration at all cost…This is coming from a French guy living in the US…

[@cinziam457]

How do you avoid administration?

[@cynthiawagstaff2185]

I love the way you shared this, so gentle and kind, the encouragement and support is wonderful

[@aniazurek7258]

👏🏻✨ sounds like an epic year of change, perspective, ‘gut cleansing’ lol, and resolution to it all. Feeling really happy for you both, and cannot wait to see more!

[@davidsalas5751]

I watched 2 of your videos and the best thing you can do is move back to the states and stay there 🤷🏻‍♂️. If you can’t adapt to other cultures…

[@positivelypositive1324]

Stumbled upon this video. I'm not Portuguese. These people are ridiculously cringe worthy and uninteresting. Extremely non-savvy, entitled, and boring. Complete non story.

[@tinabrickley8157]

Wherever you two live, you are so fortunate to have each other. You both seem like such amazing souls that compliment each other. I wish you both good health and much happiness wherever you make your home.

[@alexandragolovenko3097]

Oh wow what an amazing story! I saw your son's video when he was voicing his reasons for moving to Paris and then some month slater accidentally came to your channel and followed a few videos. Love how you think about your journey, so open minded, yet still very human and realistic. I am excited to follow you on your journey to France, my own personal dream to chase. Wishing you the very best in this quest.

[@bridgetgear8621]

Good video, I appreciate your honesty. And yes it’s difficult to adapt to a new country and find a match. Keep exploring!

[@RJNOISEY]

I stayed in that exact AirBnB in Tulum and the hammering was barely perceptible to me unless we were outside. It literally was the best place we stayed in all of our travels.

[@duc25xr]

To play devil's advocate, construction noise can change day to day, hour to hour. You can't be sure it wasn't WAY louder when they were there

[@maureencrawford2275]

Great work letting the dice roll, feeling the anxiety, breathing through it, and doing the next step.. I like your attitude of stepping through your journey, and changing courses as you are inspired to change. Bravo. you’re a great team! Bon chance a France!

[@curtandoscar]

Your videos are such a total pleasure. So well presented along with the wonderful narrative that tells the thoughts, feelings, frustrations, hopes. fears - all honestly presented. I so admire the taking of big chances like this, seeing and living within different cultures for months at a time. Here's to France working out. (PS: I love your little dog.)

[@marklaedlein6264]

When you said you were fluent in Spanish I asked myself: why did you not try Spain? I love France, but I'm not sure that I would enjoy living there - I hope it works out for you. I commented on your last video: we moved from the US to Portugal about five years ago and it's worked out for us: mild climate, nice people, great food and affordable. We live an hour south of Coimbra; nice University town, but wouldn't want to live there. You're right to move around and check places out and I like your attitude of acknowledging things that you cannot control. It could be that if you checked out more places in Portugal or Spain those countries might have worked for you. Give France a shot and I guess we'll see in another video how that goes. If anyone in the US is reading this and considering Europe: please please spend time in areas you are thinking of moving to - don't rely on the internet: relax expectations and go there yourself, talk to others who have made the move to that *specific place*.

[@iyzabel]

They're looking for calm and quiet, Spain is not those things! 🙂

[@skdoremi6666]

Why wouldn't they enjoy France more than Spain?!!! Like is France that bad compared to Spain????no obviously France is way better than both Spain and Portugal!! Germany and France are the best option in europe

[@bublik8351]

No one can tell what’s the best option for someone else.

[@queva3062]

@@iyzabel dependiendo en qué parte

[@queva3062]

@@skdoremi6666 dont be too sure