WHY YOUR BABY DADDY HATES YOU!

[@tayymarie3524]

I think it should be one where they hate you bc you moved on and doing your own thing. My baby daddy is disrespectful no matter how nice I am.

[@Camillyahreal]

Hunny story of my life you not alone

[@denniseugene1033]

U moved on and u made it impossible for him to see his child because every man u put in your life u try to make them take care of your kid and u left and soon as he move on u on the bs now

[@Camillyahreal]

@@denniseugene1033 that sounds like some shit that happen to you

[@dennisslack6446]

@@Camillyahreal it did , y'all do it all the time , I don't get it

[@Camillyahreal]

@@dennisslack6446 well I you better get legal rights Cause I don’t play baby momma games I love my son to much I ain’t gatta like his daddy men gatta stop making excuses and get the system involve I ain’t never did goofy shit like that

[@21kaylanicole]

Mine hates me because of child support. He’s never helped, never offered to help and continues to makes more kids. I don’t even care if he hates me, oh well.

[@marciachristina9513]

Same here and jus the fact he cant control me or hurt me 😂😂 but oh well

[@ARighteousLife]

He thought that i would suffer when he left. He thought i wouldn't make it all by myself with his 6 month old. But girl let me tell you!!! He is shocked 'cause my life has gotten even better since he left. He is upset about that

[@honestmama623]

QUEEN😊

[@algram8541]

U sure he mad 😂

[@ms.leahsoadorable4248]

He dont care

[@shawanawatt9555]

Same

[@ARighteousLife]

Update* after 2 years he came back wanting a 2nd a chance with tears in his eye. He knew he messed up. Never let anyone tear you down! Move on and glow up!! That's the best revenge 😊

[@tiffanycorbin8079]

I don't do neither one of these things. He hates me with a passion because I went no contact. For those who want to try to come at me the kids have cell phones they are seventeen and sixteen . So what is his problem?

[@dadozygaming]

Going no contact can be pretty devastating for some people. It's understandable if you don't want to speak to him. You're both adults and you have the freedom of association. However, going no contact is likely to have permanent impact on the relationship. We have freedom, but it doesn't mean freedom from consequences. For example, if one of your kids decided to block you for a few years, you would probably be pretty devastated, especially if you don't even know where they are or if they are still alive. People shouldn't block others unless either the person is being so toxic that you have no other choice, or you already weighed the consequences and you are willing to risk permanent damage to the relationship. Perhaps you don't want anything to do with him and you're okay with him hating you. If you don't want him to hate you, perhaps you could apologize about blocking him, even if he was in the wrong. Perhaps he will soften up and apologize for doing the things that caused you to block him in the first place, and then you guys could take it up from there.

[@Dime.Society]

@@dadozygaming ok..... your advice is gold. the only thing is , im dealing with a narcissist. in every aspect. an were were married.

[@chrisgarcia1487]

He still has feelings for you, its no reason why he is so angry.

[@sharonj.9597]

Of course you don't have to answer but is there a reason you want no contact? I understand if he is violent but if that's the case he might not need contact with the children either. To your defense, I agree, 16 and 17 year olds with cell phones DON'T need to involve either parent that point. The only contact you two would need at this point is about financial support til 18, maybe birthdays, graduations, marriages, grandkids one day, and death! 😁

[@juanthedon300]

I’m a proud Dad of 4 children. I bought every bottle,pampers,car seat,stroller.bed,power wheel.and paid mortgages,rent,light bills,gas bills,and whatever?. I still can’t see my kids?!🤦🏾🤷🏾‍♂️😢😢😢😢

[@denfolo5224]

Family Court? I am a huge proponent of fathers playing their roles.

[@Age_Of_Aquarius84]

Take her to court sir, fight for access. Keep your receipts too, and don't give up.

[@daniellecobb6001]

you lying. ain't no wayyyyyyy a woman doesn't appreciate that. maybe you don't want to see them?

[@sharonj.9597]

@@daniellecobb6001 I don't know this gentleman but I can personally tell you that @juanthedon ain't lying due to a similar situation. My husband Facetimes his child everyday sometimes a couple times per day. She may or may not answer. When she does it's with attitude. While the child and he are talking, if I walk by or she hears my voice she disconnects WHILE they are talking. If he is scheduled to pick the child up and they get into it for some reason she threatens to not LET him pick him up. If the child is here with US she THINKS she has the power to just come and pick the child up just because she is the mother. She forgets (like a lot of us women) that it took 2 people to make a baby. My husband NO longer argues back and forth with her--only says "okay" or nothing until she realizes it's a one-sided argument. He always ASKS what day/s are good for pick up and/or drop off? What does the child need? What holidays, weekend, doctor's appt, etc... works around her schedule. I've even picked up or dropped the child off to school, her job, and their home without hesitation. She's even asked for things OUTSIDE of her child's needs and we would both help her. I genuinely liked her and how we were raising the child. All 3 of us were co-parenting and friendly until I just got tired of the mood swings and disrespect from her as it relates to how she treats my husband and our marriage and told her I couldn't anymore. I accepted her apology for her outburst time after time but finally said we can be cordial for the child's sake but nothing more. Since then, she's been even more disrespectful but we take the high road. I stayed out of their interactions as it pertained to the child then and now. My husband asks for my input when necessary. I realized my place as a stepmom but she didn't accept her place as just her child's mother. She wanted to stay involved in our lives, which by the way, was a totally bad choice on all our parts. Things were smooth--until they weren't. We have never had to have anything court ordered all these years. She's had and still has that opportunity to do so and so do we, but at this point, I think we're just used to her threats and don't take her serious. The other piece is that deep down she knows it's to her advantage to NOT have a court order because we would stick to the stipulations which wouldn't be to her advantage when she's acting a donkey. Sorry this was so long. I wish things were different and she could be a happier person for her child's sake. Still praying. Happy New Year everyone!

[@HearMeOutco]

I hate that for men like you y’all deserve way better

[@rebecamartinez691]

He picked his lovelife over his child

[@ethanschiltz7305]

33 single father. If you call the police, when it wasn't necessary or overly dramatic, he hates you. If you take legal action, force separate him from his children, he hates you. If you are not reasonable with parenting time, he hates you. If you cheated on him previously in the relationship, and he took you back followed by any of the above behavior, falsifying or lying in affidavits, if he is a mentally healthy man not only does he hate you, but considers you dangerous, cluster-b, and should not or will not ever speak to you again. Abandon hope, you deserve every ounce of hate for your ridiculous, controlling, and abusive behavior.

[@jenlikedadrink1]

Perfectly said!!!!

[@Nisiainthespirit]

Some men are dramatic too

[@lynneacevedo6641]

I cheated after 8 months of no sex..... Do I fall in that?

[@dadozygaming]

@@lynneacevedo6641 I'm a dude who had no sex with my wife since our baby was conceived, and now the baby is 1 year old. That's 19 months of no sex. Of course, I could cheat, but it would be immature and harmful to the baby, my current and future relationship, and myself. There are some things more important than sex and is worth waiting for. For example, if you could hold off sex for 8 months and get $500 million US dollars, would you choose having sex or choose $500 million US dollars? I would choose the money. Simiarly, I choose to stay in the marriage because my wife is a wonderful person and the main reason she cannot have sex is because she is so busy with the baby. I also have my hands full with work and the baby so neither of us has much time. Time will pass and the baby will grow up with two healthy parents, so that's a win in my books. Would YOU marry a person who is admittedly a cheater and is unapologetic about it? Maybe, but you would have trust issue, because you know if they could cheat on whoever they swore lifelong fidelity to, that same person could cheat on you. My rule is if someone wants to cheat, the mature thing to do would be to break up before cheating. It's like the basic things in life. If you earn a million dollars in income, you pay taxes. If you want to have sex with someone else behind someone's back, break up before you do.

[@djmitty1]

Preach brother fuck them 4 life

[@NeHhNei]

Yes, if your able to communicate with one another and child support can be avoided by all means. I wouldn’t knock women that do go that route. Child support does not have to be permanent. You are able lift it and allow mediation. Once your able to communicate with one another. Child support is always viewed negatively. It only gets bad when one party is neglecting payments. Child support just reassures that both parties are participating in the care of the child.

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

Once you go down the child support route, there is no going back. Child support is used as a weapon against the father in the black community. A father could have been paying and taking care of his child the entire time and then suddenly the mother loses her temper about something and puts him on child support including BACK CHILD SUPPORT for the entirety of the babies life. Most black Men on child support came into the system this way and for this reason. That alone is grounds for hate for life.

[@chrisgarcia1487]

@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229 That is definitely not always the case. If a man has been taking care his child he should have proof. If its not receipts there are text messages, or emails. Even pictures or better bringing a witness to court. There are always ways to show a judge that you have been active. If a judge sees that there is no way a mother can dispute that.

[@Israel85324]

@@luckydalton1656 💯

[@Nolaboy17]

Why should someone who takes care of their children be forced by a court system who doesn't have the best interest of raising his child? Why do we have to prove to someone else who has absolutely nothing to do with our lives make decisions that we can make as two adults who made children.​@@chrisgarcia1487

[@sydneyreid5748]

My daughter is 6. We have been co Parenting just fine but now he got married within 5 months of dating the new girl.I have been silent and supportive from afar. WHY DOES HE STILL HATE ME AND MAKE IT HARD TO CO PARENT ON PURPOSE. he’s married why is he so angry. Ugh there is no help on here :( feels like I’m all alone. (I get no child support) I’m not crazy or spiteful. I don’t get it

[@algram8541]

Maybe he didn’t want the baby?

[@lakeenyam]

@@algram8541That’s not an excuse

[@alejandraruiz5037]

He hates me to and he got married to this girl he only knew for 3 months . And all he does is text me trying to control me.

[@jimhya2588]

Young high-school girls should read this comment section and I guarantee you they will rethink their decision on procreating out-of-wedlock

[@sigmasiren7]

Shit, I’m 32 w/ no kids & these comments make me not want kids at all.

[@takelamargarita1366]

I kept my kids because I'm pro life...my kids father never wanted to use protection and when we slipped up I chose to keep the kids however this is a good video but never again will I have unprotected sex without a ring 💍

[@PriscillaYoshida]

Tonight I thought I would fall asleep to the sound of your voice as I bond with you over baby daddy drama. He still for the birds even in my dreams 😇

[@peternorthrup6274]

He hates you because he's finally realizing that your not a typical black woman. You have a court ordered child support. You are making him do what he is supposed to be doing. Please help other women of color with what it takes to get that court order. It's real simple. Tell all of us how it's done.

[@algram8541]

What if he didn’t want a child. So a woman is fine with abortion but a man can’t huh. Double standard truth is a lot of broken homes come from a woman trapping a man with an unwanted pregnancy

[@carleneovo6228]

Me and baby daddy met at 17 and 18 and did it all the way wrong, just jumped straight into it and things happened so quickly we just didn’t work out, now I’m 21 in December and finally realising we weren’t meant for each other. I’m grateful my baby daddy is mature but he sat me down and told me he wants to start seeing other people, which hurts because I still want to be with him. I told him I want him to be happy and for him to do what he feels he needs to do as he’s so young. I’m 5 months pregnant now doing my research on all the ways NOT to fuck up this co-parenting relationship for our son, he’s been there all the way and been supportive all the way up til this date I want us to be able to communicate and feel comfortable enough to be around each other so our son grows up with a dad. I’m swallowing back a lot of feelings and holding back a lot of tears for the sake of peace and a healthy upbringing for our child. ❤️💔❤️💔

[@dadozygaming]

I'm so sorry for your situation. The way I see is that people should be responsible for the choices they make, which means that yes, you are responsible for your choice, but so is he. It is absolutely essential for people to not have kids unless they are committed to staying together. If anything, you need to teach your kid this important lesson. You do not want your kid to make the same mistake. Also, I don't believe people are "meant for each other". I believe two people who are very incompatible can still make it work. With a baby, it would be even harder to find someone who is "meant for you", so I believe your best chance is with your baby's daddy. How are your baby daddy's parents? Are they good parents? If so, maybe you could trust them to intervene. Your baby's daddy needs to understand that his freedom to see other people is nice, but his baby's freedom to be in a healthy stable family is so much more important than his freedom right now. He had his chance, and he choose to have unprotected sex to have a baby. It wasn't that he wasn't free. He was free, and he made a choice. Now he needs to do the right thing. He could do the wrong thing, but his baby is going to suffer, and no amount of fancy co-parenting will substitute it.

[@carleneovo6228]

@@dadozygaming reading this message is slightly making me tear up because I 100% agree with you! That’s why I was so dedicated to allowing him to explore any feelings or romances outside of our relationship because I feel like if I try to force him and shelter him away from that, then he will withdraw, feel suffocated and be unable (or even refuse) to give his best as a father as silly as it sounds but I’d rather be responsible for dealing with my own heartbreak than my son’s knowing from the jump before he was born that his father was feeling like this. I understand the “making it work” part and I feel like this is the only way I can do that really. We have officially broken up and we haven’t been together for a while now. We are both single individuals. My approach in dealing with the breakup is I don’t reach out first - I absolutely stay away, I don’t contact him casually or ring him for a lala chat because I feel like my pride is very strong and once you’ve made it clear I am not your number one priority, then I can’t bring myself to insert myself anywhere I’m not wanted. He is the one who will call and message me about our son, he will ask me if I need anything, he will ask for regular updates on my pregnancy and he has the same app that I follow that tells him what our baby is doing inside me. Our next ultrasound isn’t until September, and right now I’m just using my wages to stock up on essentials for him. I just don’t think it needs to go any deeper than that until he gets here. He’s told me he wants to be there during nights so we discussed him coming to stay over when baby is born and that’s not until October so hopefully my feelings will have subsided enough to reintroduce him into my space like that again. And again, I do agree with you on the incompatible part - maybe meant for each other was strong, I mean like good for each other in a sense and sometimes, in not so many words, we really aren’t. I like the way he handled the situation, he didn’t go behind my back or see any other women before coming to talk to me that I know of and hasn’t given me mixed signals or played with my mind since which I appreciate. I know we shouldn’t have been having unprotected sex and I also take responsibility for that, but the way I see it he assessed the situation and made the choice that no, he wasn’t ready to have a child yet and neither was I but we both knew we had to step up and be good parents because our childhoods completely did NOT go good either and we couldn’t carry on that tradition. I feel like the best way to go about this is to step back from him, realise what’s important and what’s at stake here and remove all feelings on my side so that his parents don’t enter that “baby mama/baby daddy still messing around but he’s got other women and kids on the way” toxic limbo that I went through with my parents and are able to plan, consult, agree and share. I’m going to make sure my son knows how serious having unprotected sex with someone you potentially don’t see a future with is, and not to be stereotypical but men are likely not to see how important it is to absolutely know what you’re doing without a doubt. Age isn’t an excuse, I’ll make sure I stress it to him from as early as possible but I do want to set an example of how to go about it if it was to happen as kids like to make their own mistakes no matter how much you tell them things - they want to see it for themselves. Like I said it really hurts and if I could have it like a normal family, I’d try my best to work it out with him. His parents were even worse when it came to him and so looking at it, I really can’t see any other way other than this.

[@TrulyStupidNewb]

@@carleneovo6228 My deepest sympathies! I admit I do not know anything about your situation, except that it is very difficult. Statistics show that growing up in an unstable family will greatly increase the probability your kids will also grow up in an unstable family. Sadly, a lot of people who grew up in loving, stable families do not know what an amazing gift they have, and they take it for granted. We don't value it unless we don't have it, but when we don't have it, we are likely to perpetuate the cycle. What a tragedy! I read that people who grew up in unstable families often seek to be partners with others who suffered in the same way we suffered. We are subconsiously drawn to that particular pain or are trying to recreate it. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/tech-support/201405/why-your-partner-may-be-your-parent When you mentioned that both your childhood and his childhood were not good, I was reminded of these studies. If you ever happen to find yourself attracted to people who make you suffer the same way as you suffered when you were a child, you have to build a lot of self-awareness to break that cycle. You are still young, which means you might still have time to find yourself to be attracted to more people who will recreate your childhood. I'm not saying that you are like that, but there is a high possibility as research shows. I also admire your strategy to avoid pushing the daddy away and instead let him be the initiator. A relationship isn't truly a relationship if one person doesn't want to be there. He has to WANT to be there in order for the relationship to work, and my hope is that one day he would be willing to make the effort. Being in a relationship isn't easy, especially with a baby. I only had a baby for 1 year, and it's life changing. I never expected how much work is involved in raising a child, and now I begin to understand why it's so important to have a partner who has your back when you need it the most. EDIT: Oh, I posted this on my other account.

[@gennbenn]

I’m currently going through the same thing. We met at 17 had two girls one at 18 and the other at 21. How are you now?

[@sharonj.9597]

@@carleneovo6228 You are a strong and wise young lady. I pray your heart is healing/healed and the "baby" and father are well. God bless you TREMENDOUSLY!

[@cosmoqueen7236]

My BD asked me on a date, but I declined. He has been mad ever since 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@ChishK]

😂

[@Cowboys_by_20]

No kidding

[@tyraempire1983T]

I’m strong believer you have child support order in writing. I don’t do verbal agreements if you make a kid you should provide for you’re kid periodt! Don’t be dummy trying to sign over arrears or child support by all means please get attorney to advocate for you!

[@Nikaplustwo]

@Traci Wesley what does sign arrears mean

[@chrisgarcia1487]

@@Nikaplustwo It means waiving the right to past child support he owes to you. When you have a child support case they usually go back a few years if the father was not paying child support (arrears). You can waive that if you want so its not added to his regular payments. I am going through this right now and refuse! I'm not waiving shit lol.

[@monewilliams6245]

My baby father told me his other bm got him off child support. He has 5 kids 5 different bms I'm mother #2 my son is his 1st son. He out right asked for dna..then it was 1 excuse after the other for the 1st 8 yrs of my son life..then when I finally got tired of begging and crying I got child support. I told him with that dont come around. He wasnt ever trying before anyway. Now I went complete no contact after my son went missing and he didnt try to help find him. Almost like he wanted anything to happen to him. And they say women are bitter and hateful. All I ever did was be tooooo nice and a good mother. U cant be out here doing ya kids wrong and expect god to bless ? Come on..I want that man to work and get money not just for my son but all his kids..if he do good it benifet my son..but he wanna do wrong so bad and hate me when he dont get blessed. It's just irrational

[@algram8541]

I’m strong believer a man shouldn’t have to support a baby He didn’t want! He should have say in abortion like a mother. If he’s expecting to be held responsible for a child financially. He should have equal rights to abort. Is a sexiest one way conversation. A woman who aborts is a deadbeat in that logic then

[@jimhya2588]

Do you ladies ever read the comments section and say damn this is what men have to look forward to when having a baby?

[@chrisgarcia1487]

Be careful who you sleep with and that goes for men and women. Its not just men. Also some times things just don't work out. There are dead beat baby mama's as well. This is just not one sided. It takes 2 mature people to come up with a plan if it does not work to handle their business and co parent.

[@Arguewityamama]

I’m doing it right now and grateful I never became a bm and waited to be a wife… rather deal with the stress of making my husband happy first before bringing a child into drama and not even being with their dad

[@Thegoldenchild2020]

Being a mother is the worst thing ever

[@lynnharris9454]

Finally somebody else said it!!!!🙌🏽💯

[@SlayinTruth]

Talk that real

[@xxennon0244]

Be a BABYMOTHER is the worst thing.

[@aleciiairby3457]

This video helped me realize I need to work on myself

[@amia.4444]

At the end of the day if you don’t want kids you should use protection, or use birthcontrol ! She’s making excuses for men like the world always do ……… as grown adults stop laying down unprotected point blank and real men and women take care of their responsibilities cause as a woman /mother “don’t be ready “but us women/mothers do what we gotta do at the end of the day “

[@OhThatsFallon]

Hi Amia! Thanks for watching! If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

[@metr08]

THIS!! I understand the overall point she’s trying to make but I 100% agree with you. We make WAY too many excuses for grown men at the expense of women and children.

[@OhThatsFallon]

@@metr08 you think so? I disagree Keana. I feel like historically, we've given bad mothering and suspect womanhood a pass for far too long. Women are coddled by the government, especially when they have children. The child support systems are specifically in place to reprimand fathers and favor mothers. Although men are a responsible party in creating life, there are far to few women who are willing to hold themselves accountable when co-creating with deadbeat, irresponsible, uneducated, unmotivated, and negligent fathers. If a woman has laid down to create another life with a man who has exhibited one or all of these qualities, the law of attraction says, that she too must be cut from that same cloth. We sometimes like to flex our power as women in the wrong spaces. Choosing who you allow into the most sacred space God has given us with discernment, is the ultimate flex.

[@metr08]

@@OhThatsFallon I agree with bad mothering and suspect womanhood not being acceptable either. However, legally, men have a financial obligation, at the very least, for children that they’ve created. Their feelings about being a father are irrelevant in that regard. That’s universal AND physical law. They are not absolved of responsibility and women are not responsible for the actions of men.

[@samanthachildress1091]

@@metr08thank you, I agree 100%

[@algram8541]

Holy crap. She actually brings up how a man feels. Damn u a REAL ONE!! Thank u for showing a man’s feelings! But what if he didn’t want the baby? What if he told her before hand he doesn’t want a baby. She’s newly pregnant and he says abortion ? I think it’s foul a woman can terminate a baby but a man can’t do the same.

[@jb510bizz4]

32 single father. They don’t understand and they usually don’t care BECAUSE they don’t understand. Those who do avoid those People by ANY means.

[@JustCallMeJass]

I think this video is geared towards the women who want their baby daddy, because he trapped me! 😂

[@kobeibryant4356]

I find it funny how nobody speaks on women that’s like this I got custody of my child and my baby mom had left the entire state. Let’s break it down she angry asf and she cheated and I left and been begging for years to co-parent she refuses. I’ve officially have cut all contact e-mail and my son phone off to her. Know why? Because even tho she is 3 states away has a dude and all. She still finds a way to blame me for everything why she don’t see the child why she won’t call the child but can contact the father to send threats and point blame at me for everything she do. It’s some confusing SHII. But women aren’t perfect men just don’t complain like women do. Shout out to the single fathers out here salute

[@brucejackson7126]

If you knew your man had ptsd and you left him he hates

[@dadozygaming]

It's really hard to live with someone with depression or ptsd. Some people try to keep the relationship but end up feeling trapped, especially if the depression or ptsd is crippling. It's a difficult situation for sure. I admire people who stay by their partner during bad times. Some people stay with their partner even when their partner develops alzheimer's or parkinson's. I couldn't imagine how they could handle the situation. It takes true love to be with someone after their mind has gone, and they have my utmost respect.

[@aalihayaallums6542]

My kids dad has me feeling extremely crazy when it comes to his new relationship and new children I felt like I was a bitter baby mama but all I do is try to communicate with him about our child she wants to be intimately involved with that situation when I already have a volatile situation with the father it’s gotten to the point where they both came to my house and both assaulted me mind you his girlfriend is completely welcome to come to every pick up drop off Exchange we have she has expressed multiple times how much she dislikes me and does not trust me so I allow her to come to every interaction me and my child’s father have

[@OhThatsFallon]

Hey boo....thanks for sharing. Somethings telling me I'm not getting the whole story LOL. I know that's kind of hard to do here but I would definitely spend some time sorting through everything so you can gain some clarity as to how you got to where you are with your BD. Go back and watch my video "How To Make Peace With Your BD".

[@MaesRemedy]

Put God Almighty in the mix and watch Him work. Read Psalm 35 take it to the spirit.

[@yoyobarb]

My child’s father hates me and I am the one who said I didn’t want the kid, but he guilt tripped me and told me he would hate me forever, has been disrespectful for years and threatening on the regular basis.. he even told me I wasn’t a problematic baby mom and I am not. But he still hates me 🤷🏽‍♀️. I don’t understand when he is the one who wanted our child. He moved away when she was 2 and never came back for a birthday, but he did take her for the summers.

[@sharonj.9597]

As a former girlfriend/baby mama/stepmama myself, I know how my husband's ex feels/felt and I have always taken it into consideration even when she was not deserving of my sympathy. I told my husband he was part responsible for what is going on with how his ex is acting. However, he has changed TREMENDOUSLY and she is still bitter and not accepting of her position as just the child's mother and he's not in her life as the significant other or best friend or whatever. I stay out of it as best I can because HE needed to fix it and she needs to heal and accept her position and stop blaming me/us at this point.

[@missylane4949]

You can't be serious!!! Like, you reaaaallyyyyy can't be serious. So if a man already has kids & don't want anymore, how come he refuses to wear a condom? How come he doesn't express that from day one? If a guy knows he can't raise another one, why even take that risk? How bout I suggested to my baby daddy let's use condoms and he didn't want to. That's MY fault? Or how bout when I got pregnant the 1st time, I asked him 3 times if he wanted me to have an abortion he sat in my face and said no but 6months later, tells me he really didn't want this baby. Are you serious. So who really trapped who. You pick me females really blow me

[@OhThatsFallon]

I get it. What men say and what they do are 2 different things. Often times they can be completely negligent in being responsible with their penis. That can be TOTALLY frustrating. I think you very clearly defined the position of your baby daddy's faults and transgressions. Since you felt compelled to share, would you mind also sharing, what your faults were in these situations? I'll wait LoL 🙃

[@missylane4949]

@@OhThatsFallon I sure can. Let's see. I could of got on birth control or simply not even had sex in the 1st place. Let's start with the 1st one. After he told me he didn't want to use condoms, I secretly made an appointment for birth control. Because I requested the IUD, it was a bit of a wait for that specific type of BC so I had to wait a good month or so.. in the process, I ended up getting pregnant because after 6 months of pulling out, I guess he got tired of it, didn't pull out and I got pregnant. My whole point is, I know I am equally as responsible just as he is. But yet, I'm the only one who has to deal with the consequences while society has made it acceptable for men to walk away. Any more questions ?

[@OhThatsFallon]

@@missylane4949 Thanks for sharing that! I hate to break it to you baby, but this world is FULL of double standards. Some of them literally make my skin crawl. LoL. However, instead of constantly going against the tide, it can be to our benefit as women to understand our power and leverage it accordingly. As I said, my position is not to dismiss men for their shortcomings. Hopefully, there is a platform that exists that calls men down to the floor for their indiscretions and lack of judgement. However on MY page, my mission is to assist young women with self development, healing, and ACCOUNTABILITY. We can point fingers all day long but it wont change our circumstance. Only we can do that. I hope things get better for you. You sound very intelligent!

[@missylane4949]

@@OhThatsFallon Doesn't seem like that from your tone & the words you use when you talk. Also, I am VERY accountable. I stand on every thing I say and do like a grown woman. I know I played a part in this & could of made better choices. But since I didn't, I make sure I raise my kids & try to be the best mother I could be. I don't run from my problems. It's funny how you say more women need to be held accountable and we need to take responsibility. But yet, we as women are the ones who step up to plate even when we may not want to, we put our big panties on and do the best we can to take care of the children we help make. So I honestly see here that your full of crap. Numbers don't lie and the statistics show there are more deadbeat men then women. Yes, before you can go there, I know there are women out there who don't take care of their kids but it doesn't come close to the amount of men who abandon their kids. So your argument is invalid and makes no sense🤷‍♀️ have a great day

[@lesliewilliams9838]

Facts

[@Road2TheW]

29 single father watched some of youre vids I’m curious on ya perspective of if ya baby momma wants you back..dope content queen

[@queldavis4898]

If that’s your baby’s mama then that’s your first wife. Fix it. Show u handle your shit and finish. Unless she crazy or you crazy then good luck. Had to be something for y’all to make the baby

[@Nikaplustwo]

@@queldavis4898 this couldn’t be any more far from the truth lol where you come up with this

[@honestmama623]

Im so done with this man fr. Left me for a younger girl when I was 7 months preggy, I've moved on and move state. He's so bitter and bullying me on their family side and sending me messages like threats pf not giving stipend or something

[@AM-xe4iq]

Your bd hates you in a nutshell because you are not the one, but he got you pregnant anyway probably by accident and now he’s hemmed up with you on a level he never wanted to be. He’s powerless in a sense now for a lot of years and he didn’t want that with you.

[@Zawadi_jean]

Then he should of thought about that

[@AM-xe4iq]

@@Zawadi_jean Facts. They never do though.

[@chloelageaux769]

Honestly, I don't understand the logic behind this. Sexual education is explained in elementary maybe middle school?! There is absolutely NO reason for ppl to be engaging in unprotected sex then act confused when a pregnancy occurs! The whole "Trapped" situation is TIRED! Both parties knew exactly what could happen so that crap needs to stop, especially if the woman never said that she was on birth control. Even if she was, the only way to not get pregnant is to "NOT HAVE SEX!" Both parties need to exercise SELF CONTROL! The only thing that a woman can do is present temptation and opportunity! If you aren't married Don't have sex because it's unfair for the child to be used as collateral damage because you have a woman that doesn't want to abort her child and a man that doesn't want to take responsibility! Ladies! STOP BEING INCUBATORS AND BREEDING MARES for men that won't marry you but will put your life at risk with unprotected sex and pregnancy! Men stop being so driven by a pretty face and nice body when you cleary aren't going marry her first! Looks fade but character doesn't!

[@jeanghrey]

Amen all day!!!!!

[@sigmasiren7]

Agreed. Too many birth control options for ppl to not be taking advantage of them.

[@dorianbridgers7214]

I agree

[@tamerabaker9417]

I don’t want the child support

[@shanmarie2424]

Mines hate because I chose myself after 13years of bullshit .

[@awesomeaarmon8056]

I got a baby mama . Idk what she wants . I literally thought that wanting to be there for mt daughter was enough. She dont understand that we can't be together, that we jus dont mesh . And also feel like if u wanted some thT bad instead of trying to be mean about it . She should figure out what can she do to make it better.

[@OhThatsFallon]

Well big UP's for your taking care of your daughter...daughters NEED daddy's more than your probably know! There are some women that even through your best and most honest efforts, they can't see beyond their own trauma, baggage and insecurities. I'm sure she can spell out all your wrong doings but it may be crickets when it's time to tak about hers. If you're taking care of your daughter and she's still treating you bad, she may want you still. And if you don't want her...keep making that perfectly CLEAR!

[@missperle7890]

So this is where my life has led me

[@kandiceluvux3]

Broke up over 5 months he’s given me $0 told him he isn’t providing he said I don’t need anything working 70 hours a a week just to provide

[@kyokushabashine7193]

You are literally talking to me. am still gatherig courge to accept that am alone .just a baby maama

[@mzchocolitt4091]

Mine hate me because I chose to be single vs being with him. The hate so bad he wont do anything for his kids. IF he does anything every few years he chooses something unnecessary some bs to gain likes from his kids. And says I dont have to do what YOU want me to do. “No dumb, dumb I was trying to get you to do what your children need you to do.” So purposely he wont provide a necessity and wont put money in my hand. So child support is chasing him now since he’s trying to make it harder for me.

[@raisingjojo6428]

Im a new subscriber and im HOOKED!!!😄 LBS YOU SO REAL

[@mjennifergia]

I have a question for the women who have purposely trapped a man with a pregnancy. How do you do something like that? Do you regret it and have remorse after a while? (Without regretting your kids of course). I just dont understand how someone can force someone to have a child. I genuinely want to know

[@jucyjay8398]

Maybe she does not hate you. She just has a better life with out you

[@OhThatsFallon]

Who cares?!!!! It's not about "her" it's about her child. That the problem!

[@Julianxmejia]

I feel like I’ve been heard… thank you ma’am.

[@audani]

This video is so needed!!!

[@ericsiek4379]

I'm a man and I enjoyed this very much. Good conversation.

[@DaveonWilliams-b1n]

Also im very intuitive .. like it’s up there

[@fatimahbutler2521]

In my case he blamed me for everything we were not in a relationship so I asked him to sign over his parental rights now he’s mad at that lol

[@rhonnieminnie]

i wish i had this last year :) eventhough my ex left me 8 months ago, i just found out how toxic/ jealous/ bitter his baby really is. this would have helped me navigate that in the relationship. my ex and i had a great relationship for 8 months. i even told my therapist everything that happened in the relationship and he said he teaches those healthy skills in couples therapy. now my ex and baby mama had a 10 year toxic trauma bond relationship. she baby trapped when he was in college, and he left her during her pregnancy. they were both equally toxic to each other. and he was very transparent about how bad he was to her. so its not like me taking sides, i know what he did. with me, we actually had a much better relationship. he still end up leaving out the blue with very illogical reasons. he hasnt said a word to me since. i actually agreed and supported his goals, but yet he found a reason to hate me. so i have been spending the last 8 months in therapy and healing, and finally got the courage to pay him to get my stuff back. the baby mama responded. she is more pressed about me getting my stuff back than i am. she called me petty and told me to heal. but sis, he left me and still didnt pick you. why are you mad that i am doing the final step to get my personal belongings back? but it is 100% on him for not having boundaries with her, and telling her all our business all the time. of course she is jealous, we had a "luxury" lifestyle that she could never afford, and i was getting the relationship she was too immature to have. him and i never got into fights bc i have healthy communication skills and dont flash on everybody for everything. im kind and considerate and dont try to make everything about myself. but he should not have invited her into our relationship. when she tried to get a man, that dude left bc he said she was too close to her baby daddy. i really do appreciate him now for leaving me bc he would have let her terrorize me, like he has let her terrorized his whole family and they dont mess with her. this was helpful, thank you!

[@Arguewityamama]

Sounds like he was a narcissist triangulating u both

[@rhonnieminnie]

@PaidTroll i fully believe the word narcissist gets thrown around way too much and generally in the wrong context. When looking at the criteria in the DSM V luckily, he wasn't the narcissist, baby mama is 💁🏾‍♀️. He is an avoidant.

[@Camillyahreal]

Ok I told him I still love and care about him .. but I just want us to get along for our son I’m always the one throwing up the white flag 🏳 then he says he doesn’t feel i love him .. listen I’m not a jealous women in regards of him dating I’m a spiritual women and I’m about energy so when one minute he cool with me then he doing shady shit I’m like dude are you over me or nah this is emotionally tiring I jUst want us to get along it affects my so his 10 and is noticing and asking questions I’m transparent with my child I may be at time to transparent I told my son his father doesn’t like me 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️😭I grew up in a two parent home but it wasn’t perfect at all😪

[@denniseugene1033]

You left him !!! So why do it matter if he move on or not ... U left him for another niga . Stop it

[@Camillyahreal]

@@denniseugene1033 you giving me narc ass energy I’m single, when you want better you leave the worst alone! Stop 🛑 you’re trolling 😈it’s amateur behavior 🤫

[@denniseugene1033]

@@Camillyahreal it don't make you a narc because you tell people the truth , you left the person you was post to marry , that's no one fault but yours , a narc always feel like they can do better no matter what situation they in ... The moment you put your feelings above your kids feelings is where you messed up .. so you stop trollin and tell the hole truth no part of it

[@Camillyahreal]

@@denniseugene1033 yeh ok you have no idea 🤷🏽‍♀️ what a narc is but I’m curious to know which one are you? That’s not a question for you! one of the best things I did was leave Troll 😈 alone I’m good 🙂

[@saikoa2129]

Son needs to be with his father at this age..... You emotionally damaging your son by talking negatively about his father to him...... he's a reflection of him regardless of how you feel. Everything isn't meant for a child to hear..... And you wondering why ya bd is shady at times🤔🤔🤔🤔 son's who have relationship with their dads tend to feel more comfortable sharing how they feel.

[@Alexandriaofchicago]

None of this applies but he still hates me he doesn't help expects me to take care of everything and wants his kids one day a week he hates me befuase he couldn't cheat in peace and still missing and wishes he was sleeping with me I said nah 😊

[@RobinTaylorMusic]

My boyfriend’s BM baby trapped him. Lied about her fertility, said she wasn’t able to get pregnant because of working on a weed farm 🧐 Also her bf before him tried getting her pregnant and was unsuccessful. They only dated for a few months, a few days before he was trying to break up with her she asked if he wanted kids and he said not yet he wanted to be married first and she broke down crying. Two days later he’s breaking up with her and she’s all of a sudden pregnant.. the timing of the announcement 🤔 And I think she resents him because the pregnancy didn’t produce a proposal. Why would he propose when the relationship wasn’t working out to begin with? Then she cheated on him as soon as she gave birth and had their child call the next guy “Daddy.” The audacity of this girl. And now that I’ve been here for two years, I find out she’s been talking shit about me from the beginning. I’ve always kept it cordial but part of me really doesn’t like her because she lied to him and didn’t even think of him in this situation. He’s at fault too but let’s be honest like you said if you didn’t want to be pregnant you’d be on birth control. Which she got on RIGHT after giving birth.. so she knew about birth control before but waited til having her child first. And me who’s here to build a life with this man, I miss out on that first child experience and so does he. She only gives him 6 weeks a year. He’s missed out on so much with his first daughter because she was selfish. Anyway, we’ll see how it goes.

[@MommyGirls]

Not your business

[@sigmasiren7]

Men trap themselves when they refuse to use condoms.

[@RubiPearl560]

That has nothing to do with you. If she’s emotional I guarantee he’s feeding her the deets on you

[@bdjonx]

You are too emotionally invested in his business with his baby mama. Sit in your position and focus on something else. Let him handle it.

[@Reegan317]

“Trapped with a baby” U are mad madam 😇😇

[@1991Meka]

I met an Italian guy and within the first month he went to jail for 90days. I met a Puerto Rican guy while he was in there. Chemistry was crazy! I even told my Italian bf about him. Right before the Italian came home I cut off all communication with the Puerto Rican. Within a month I told the Italian I was unhappy and was going to see the Puerto rican. He didn't do anything to fix us. And I went I decided to be with the Puerto Rican. However, I was already pregnant. By the Italian. He knew I was now with the other guy and he told me to get rid of the baby. I didn't. He denied the baby so I tested the Puerto Rican just so everyone was clear who was the father because i understand the optics of it all. Italian still didn't care. 5yrs later i FINALLY took him to court to get an official dna test for the Italian. He got his results (you are the father)and now STILL chooses to be disrespectful to be every single time we speak. He's never met my son and gave me an ultimatum of "drop the support case or I will never be involved with the kid" His hate for me is so strong that he can't overcome it for the sake of the child. And it doesn't help that I'm STILL with the Puerto Rican to this day.

[@chrisgarcia1487]

This is so sad that he won't step up

[@OhThatsFallon]

Yikes! 1st of all thanks for sharing lovie. This sounds SPICY! LoL In all seriousness though, I'm so sorry you're dealing with his lack of support. You can't force anyone to handle up on their responsibilities and considering the nature of how you both were involved, I can't say that it sounded super positive or promising between you two. Luckily, you have your Puerto Rican Papi to help take care of you and the baby. Even if the father isn't biological, a strong male influence is paramount! Good Luck babes!

[@smartypants6198]

This is all kinds of fucked up

[@fresh4families]

this is a whole mess. he should support by default as its his child but you are messy af and shouldnt be surprised at his redentment towards you tbh

[@OhThatsFallon]

@@fresh4families WHO'S MESSY LOVE? Please advise, thank you! LoL

[@tieshaaguilera9427]

Everything you saying is wrong.... stop speaking for other women. Some of us don't have that weird shit happening but you definitely can't compare situations. Men don't look at things like that especially most of them. You don't have to screw just to have him checking on his kids. Girl byeeeee!!!

[@OhThatsFallon]

Sorry to hear you didn't resonate with the message...it won't apply to everyone and thats OK! You definitely must've been looking for some type of baby mama content though since you found me ;) In that case, what's your plight love? I see that you have children. How's the relationship with you and your childs father? Are you still together? Are you effectively co-parenting? Does he respect you? Let us know...maybe you can share and help someone. Thanks for watching!

[@tieshaaguilera9427]

Grand rising love. He does check on his children, the one that's not his he definitely steps up with him as well. He and I are still together and even when I need space from him, he comes to get both of them. He doesn't separate them, but the first baby daddy treats his daughters better than his only son which was 5 yrs ago. The current one is on top of things, even if we argue, he still takes my son and doesn't treat him different than his own. Even though we deal with messed up ones, there's that one that will take on that load without us asking, that's why I disagreed and the energy projected is not the same for every man. The energy displayed sound like it was towards all men. I just didn't agree based on your energy. Women do the same thing and some are just bitter that they'll ruin the relationship with their children and the children's father. It goes both ways. No disrespect though, I barely remembered this video and that I even commented.

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

Actually she is 100 percent right. That is exactly how we see it.

[@gasweetestpeach88]

Mine hates me cause I got the people in our business and I had to because he wasn’t doing anything to help support my child and I was tired of the drama and not getting financial support from him so child support me.

[@OhThatsFallon]

Hey Sherri, thank you for watching and sharing. Was he showing up in any other ways outside of financial obligation?

[@gasweetestpeach88]

@@OhThatsFallon In the beginning no he wasn’t. Months after I filed child support he inconsistent which has went on until this year when I decided to end the co parenting and just continue to raise my son on my own.

[@alleynicole2010]

Okay so girl my sons father and I were together 3 years before I got pregnant with my son. The relationship has always been super rocky. Love has always been there, but he’s just hella childish and he’s not giving me and my kids (I have a daughter from a previous relationship) what we need. So long story short, after all that we’ve been through, I finally broke up with him. I’ve never been the type of woman to keep my kids away from either of their fathers. I’m not for that shit. I’m not wit that shit. And I don’t support any woman on that shit okay? Lol so the issue is never our coparent relationship. After breaking up with him, even though it was my decision, I was truly hurt and needed some space to heal myself. I blocked him and I pretty much just went through his grandma to make sure he was able to see and know what was going on with myself. I know that was childish on my part, but for me to absolutely get over the hurt I felt in my heart, that’s what I felt like I needed to do. And I actually feel better, but now he hates me lol. Like he don’t wanna talk to me, he doesn’t want to see me, I tried to smooth shit over and create a dialogue so that we could share our feelings and move on and have a stronger relationship for my son and he is just on some bitter ass shit and I don’t understand how because he was the one messing up which is why I removed myself from the situation.. and now you mad at me? Lol please help me understand!!

[@ethanschiltz7305]

I'd hate you too

[@denniseugene1033]

In 2021 a man that has a baby with a black woman who never had a father in her life and mom and grandma and aunties hate men it's gonna be bad for u

[@dennisblack3328]

You almost messed up your child and father's relationship but

[@dadozygaming]

You didn't want to talk with him so you blocked him. There's nothing wrong with that. You don't need to talk to anybody you don't want to. That's your human right. However, it goes both ways. If he doesn't want to talk to you, that's his human right too. You blocked him first, so he has full reason to not want to have a dialogue with you. After all, you didn't have a dialogue with him. Let's flip it around and see it from his perspective. Let's say he blocked you first, then now he wants to have a dialogue, but you were no longer in the mood. That would be understandable, yes?

[@andro9727]

@@denniseugene1033 yessir

[@kymmicakez6316]

Hmmmm.....🧐🥺🤔...them last few messages was triggering

[@Higfsyourvioihb]

They did trap these men we know they didn't want these babies

[@WhichTheChickenOrTheEgg]

Girl even if a man say he want all that with you, still coupd be just his baby momma bc men lie and everyone can change their mind smh

[@Marquel_Lucas]

You gon make these women beat you up

[@OhThatsFallon]

Nah LoL

[@evejones6105]

My baby daddy keeps saying he doesn’t want me as the mother of he’s kid he’s taking he’s kid off me , then I found out he’s dating my ex mate who slide into he’s dms he claims he didn’t know she was my mate , they wear dating from the prison , the girl sent me messages my kids dad is looking after her from jail my baby was only 3 months old , my kids dad still calls me to visit him he feels no way about all the rubbish he has been doing , I’ve told him to not call me again as I will report to the police as my mental health is to expensive for all he’s rubbish he has stopped calling me now

[@OhThatsFallon]

Hey Eve...thanks for sharing babes!

[@christinalove538]

Girl! well said 100 🙏 🙏 this needed to be said

[@OhThatsFallon]

Thanks for watching Christina!

[@DaveonWilliams-b1n]

Ain’t nobody eating that witchcraft spaghetti

[@Camillyahreal]

I don’t hate him but he told his friend he hate me .. a women words cut deeper then a men in my opinion

[@dadozygaming]

Did you ever tell a friend that you hate him?

[@Camillyahreal]

@@dadozygaming I don’t hate him .. did I answer you’re question

[@dadozygaming]

@@Camillyahreal Yes, and thanks for answering it. It must hurt a lot to learn when he's talking badly about you behind your back.

[@Camillyahreal]

@@dadozygaming no

[@Camillyahreal]

Sis 🗣you don’t even know ... not sure 🤔 if you remember you left me a long nice message on a older page about my Bd having a women I never met around my son now this 🤬have the nerve to tell me he hate me 🤔and like huh why? you heart me hunny the emotional 😭 shit; tryna co parent which is not happening so I digress I just been working on my mental and spiritual self I never cheated always been loyalty when we’ve been broke up for two years and he hate me

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

Who he has around both your child . Hold during his visitation time is his business and none of yours and vice versa.

[@Camillyahreal]

@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229 yiu absolutely right IF MY MYCHILD IS NOT PRESENT WITH HIS FATHER BUR IF THIS INDIVIDUAL IS AROUND MY CHILD I NEED TO MEET THEM WYTAW🤔

[@kymmicakez6316]

Hair is gorgeous

[@nbee6217]

Wow, I love how real you are.

[@HoneyGreenTea390]

Wait... Fallon from college Hill V.I.? OMG girl you know how long I've been watching you. 🧡🧡😫

[@DarylCray-b4i]

I told her years ago i wanna be around to see you suffer!!! Well well well what do you know 😂😂😂

[@queenkayla2502]

Damn spot on girl!

[@csskz5519]

What if my bm hates me 😕

[@gordo_from_douglas_az]

Thank you 👍 great content 👌

[@rodranyeshacolquitt4643]

What about the bd that’s done so shit at all he don’t even speak to me and he lies to my son about coming to see him or spend time with him but he never do he don’t buy shit for birthdays or holidays he has time with be with different females and they kids but won’t make time for his and it’s just sad to see my son with disappointment on his family when he feins for a dad

[@algram8541]

Did he tell u to have an abortion or maybe he doesn’t want a kid with u? U had the Child anyway?

[@GamingWithjay1992]

I don’t hate my baby mama I just don’t like her

[@nakishasd6997]

Thank you for the insight 💚

[@yeseniahernandez7818]

I like your videos I barely realized that I do act crazy no I wonder does he really care about me or

[@BrolyKing801]

I hate my baby mama 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Reegan317]

My deadbeat is a Narcissist

[@tamerabaker9417]

My baby daddy is 25 & I’m 27

[@mauricegoz]

she spoke on it didn’t she 🎙️

[@Umi-n5k]

I’m curious…. Are you a mother??? If not, then I don’t think you should be giving advice because you don’t know what’s truly going on, just your opinion.

[@ThomasMitchell-j6i]

Is cj small my daddy my name thomas auntie my supposed to be my real parent they tolds me my daddy is several different people wow dat not funny they tolds me to take my ass back to mobile with my broke daddy and tjen lies to me and i had several white people theynnot supposed to tells be but my resl parent is dective brian lacey wow idk

[@nickrobin5235]

I subscribed because of this video 100% facts!

[@rhondapope4361]

I love your point of view 😍👍🏿

[@Beautifullysaid]

Lol why females trying to get these guys back weird

[@cliffariel1500]

Drop your email. Want to share a story.

[@sammijoenathan]

Lol this chic is funny!

[@OhThatsFallon]

Thanks! LoL

[@lagemmasims]

ALL FACTS!

[@dadozygaming]

Yes! I love how she emphasized empathy (thinking from someone else's perspective) and personal responsibility, which is ironically more empowering than almost anything. I am impressed she is able to put herself in the shoes of both the woman and the man. It takes great empathy and reasoning to do so.

[@ashlikirk423]

I never looked at it the way that you put it out there. I know that my BD hates me just as I hate him. I know that all it does affect my child... Now that you laid it out like that. I am going to rethink of my ways...as far as how I am acting when it comes to him

[@blackslack5305]

No u aint

[@ashlikirk423]

@@blackslack5305 And you are right....

[@MissCarter747]

🤣

[@Road2TheW]

RUN DEM RESIDUALS !!!!

[@ambergolden6263]

Fallon, do you have any children?

[@OhThatsFallon]

Yes, I have a beautiful daughter!

[@evejones6105]

I’m 40 he’s 26 he hates me like crazy but calls me from prison for me to bring the kid on visits , I told him no I’m not doing as he abused me

[@OhThatsFallon]

Hi Eve...from what it sounds like, you are involved in a very low vibrational energetic tie with your child's father. Additionally, 40 vs. 26 is a huge gap in age, to be frank. Unions such as this are not impossible but will most definitely be met with a myriad of challenges. Especially when both parties are unevolved and without the tools necessary to heal individually and together. For the sake of your child, I would advise counseling and therapy for yourself. How did you even attract someone like this? Do you feel like the 40 year old women that you are, is a true representation of your best self? Questions that need answers babe.

[@kristydavis7894]

Mines hate me because of child support

[@OhThatsFallon]

Why did you put him on child support?

[@kristydavis7894]

@@OhThatsFallon for NCI for day care at the time I didn’t have a choice I wish I Coulda did something different to avoid years of drama

[@OhThatsFallon]

@@kristydavis7894 I got ya babes. Well if you needed the help for your baby, it is what it is! No shame in getting the support you need to ensure your baby is taken care of.

[@wykitawest3736]

Great video and new subscriber.

[@OhThatsFallon]

Welcome to the BM GANG babes!

[@Sl-tg9ff]

You must be the other woman. I can tell you have never been a baby mom

[@watsonchris12]

Must not have not watched the video she said she got pregnant after being on college hill

[@VictoryGranted]

Facts💯😁🔥

[@meggz4060]

👍

[@shadiamonforever21]

Sounds like you’re in the mans side lol

[@OhThatsFallon]

In a lot of cases, I am! LoL :/

[@shadiamonforever21]

Girlll!!! Lol!!

[@NickLouis-f8q]

Lol i like u

[@FlawlessSpit]

You are cute 🥰

[@OhThatsFallon]

Thanks lol