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[@nitrofairywing1541]

I saw the original video and I think it was very sweet, she said she wasn't an expert but she was learning, I think the fact that she is even attempting and trying to learn how to do her daughter's hair is wonderful❤️

[@Forevagabby]

Yesssss

[@breannibrown]

I think it’s sweet of her to do her little girl’s hair I have to talk about this on my Twitter 😎😎

[@keturah7749]

I love the video

[@juicymama609]

I saw this video also and I was so glad to see her take the time to learn how to do her black daughter's hair I've always felt that if a white person is gonna raise black daughter or any ethnicity learn about them and there culture

[@motivatedme480]

There is nothing wrong with it. It's just a mother learning and appreciating her daughter's hair. It is a beautiful thing.

[@babyzazaa]

Beautiful *

[@ItsMeKrys]

Yes I completely agree. My uncle(black) has been married to my aunt in law (caucasian) for over 20 years and my 2 little girl cousins have 2 very different textures but not straight. She found braiding their hair when they were younger was easiest and healthiest. At first she did not know how to do cornrows(before youtube was a popular tutorial site) she only did single braids. My other older cousin did her daughters hair in cornrows as my aunt watched. When it was take down time my aunt said she slowly unraveled the braids to learn. Point of the story is she learned cornrows and many other protective styles for my cousins. She found the right products that worked for them and everything. 💖

[@manicvkeilover]

pink girl uh okay? Whatever that salty comment is supposed to mean

[@123bellaa4]

there*

[@caniyahhh1873]

Right I agree

[@lucozade8007]

It was heartwarming to see the effort she’s put into doing her daughters hair rather than perm it ❤️

[@TheeMademoiselle]

It was 😪

[@elishawilson9456]

Lucozade.

[@PatriciaPageMosaicArtsCrafts]

Omg off topic but I love lukozade❤❤❤❤🙄

[@randomuser3441]

Patricia Page Mosaic Arts & Crafts big facts. 😍

[@gingerbrew517]

White women don't perm their children's hair if it's that texture or ANY texture because it's full of chemicals .....black women do this more so and u know THIS!! Stop trying to change the narrative

[@cocoatea6696]

No this White Woman DIDNT. Just come up in here and put it down like a Black Hair PRO! Im giving Credit where Credit is DUE. She did that thang. And whoever she watched or whoever showed her. She paid attention to them. And she spoke Very Respectful of baby girls hair. And you can tell she meant it. You go White Lady of black children with ALL NATURAL hair. ! 👋👋 Good Job.

[@notky848]

PeriOD. Momma walked up in there and owned it.

[@cian2898]

I really don’t think it’s for “us” I think it was for people whose children have similar texture whether bio,step, adopted or whatever.. because tighter curls can be overwhelming for those who don’t know how to work with it

[@PhilomeneDeukoJean]

she literally said people who are inexperienced, so idky ppl trynna find different words for what she said, ppl be so mad, but for WHAT?

[@brownstudios5379]

yeah I was just about to say that, I saw that video a little while ago and thought it was so wholesome

[@elisejackson2854]

i mean there are tons of black moms who don't know how to do their kids' hair as well so pretty much anyone i think.

[@JB-hp1yb]

I agree I think it was for anyone because some black moms don’t know how to either. It will help adults with theirs as well. I seen this a while back...she is also so organized!

[@cienu]

Made ya to 1k ;)

[@ultimatekunochi6577]

Thank you for not blindly discriminating against her just because she’s white. She’s a caring mother who’s trying to beautify her daughter

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Yea I admire her for that!

[@yessicarosales9078]

@@reginakc lol same

[@willeshachatae9533]

@@TheeMademoiselle but the title is misleading

[@inactiveandsavedforarchive9312]

@@TheeMademoiselle the title makes her seem bad tho. I know it probably isn't your intention, but on first glance it does.

[@davinauche3195]

Thee Mademoiselle we love you sus ❤️❤️❤️❤️speaking facts simultaneously being respectful ❤️

[@mayaali1899]

My white friend family adopted her black little sister and she learned how to do braids and care for her sisters her and so adorable.

[@randomuser3441]

Got you to 666. Yw.

[@chicagoliightsx]

@@randomuser3441 got her to 984 lol

[@gabriellapeebles1660]

I’m sorry but there’s a lot of black moms who don’t even care for their daughters/sons natural hair. We all know that girl with the messed up edges, (front and back) burnt off hair, or with completely damaged hair all together. Give this woman her props and take notes 💯

[@nyanzarojas8776]

Gabriella’s Perspective that’s not a common thing though.

[@queenbabyy5080]

Exactly and she did a great job

[@Latifa-dx2qb]

@@nyanzarojas8776 WDYM it is very common for us black little girls to have damaged hair. As we got older we realized that some of our momma's couldn't manage and deal with our hair.

[@lauryn5701]

Nyanza Rojas Do you not see how many black children have perms or relaxers in their hair? Do you not see how many black children have damaged hair? It’s an extremely common thing in the black community. Mothers care much more about the look rather than the health of their children’s hair.

[@MiaLacheyy]

Nyanza Rojas It actually is a very common believe it or not every girl that I went to school with had some messed up hair because they were just covered up with weave and I’m talking this would be in grade school this was before I even got the high school and middle school not to mention I was adopted myself and my mom didn’t even touch my hair she only threw a relaxer in it and called it a day and my hair is already fine so throwing a relaxer and it made it even more fine and I didn’t know what to do with my hair because in my previous foster home my grandmother would always do my hair every morning before I went to school and I was not allowed to put my hands in my hair and so when I was adopted I thought the same thing was going to happen but it didn’t so the hairstyle I found was to put my hair in a ponytail because my adoptive sister put her hair in a ponytail so I decided to do the same and because my hair was really fine it broke off and my edges went first and after my edges my hair was just all chopped up and uneven and then more and more relaxers and after a relaxer straightening so my hair was really damaged all because my mom did not really take care of my hair the way she should have and she still doesn’t even take care of her hair the way she still has iamb actually natural now and I’m trying to get her there but she still stuck on putting a relaxing and her hair and straightening her hair afterwards so don’t say this is a common because it very much is common

[@konniej.1995]

Idk sis. This seems a bit messy and race-baiting. I actually watched this video myself (before coming across your video). She seems like she genuinely wants to learn/teach her baby how to manage her hair. As long as the child, well-cared for and exposed to her culture as well as the mother’s, this alright with me. This woman is actually taking classes and all, on how to care for her Black Girl’s hair. SN: If you aren’t trying to be messy than you should change your title. All love.

[@tiffanyjoy4578]

She won't, she knows it'll get views.

[@summera8801]

I agree I was confused with the thumbnail cuz the mom looks like she wants to show other moms who don’t know how to take care of their child’s hair how to

[@queenbabyy5080]

Exactly when I originally watched the video it was very heartwarming but when I saw this thumbnail I was like there's no reason to do that. I get she was tryna get views but this ain't the way. She made it look like the women didn't kno wht she was doing.

[@kikiwilliams4747]

Read her pinned comment. It tells her feelings about the video. The description is that way maybe to garner views for the original video. And this is also why people need to stop going off of the caption alone. You'll be arguing for no reason in the comments.

[@lauryn5701]

Kiki Williams the title was obviously used to garner views. That’s why people don’t like it because it’s extremely misleading and she knows that.

[@nuggetsnicole4851]

Adoption isn't like picking shoes, there isn't a book you "shop" from. Whatever color the kids and parents, as long as there is love and care I'm cool with it.

[@strwrs3m64]

Stephanie Griffin exactly. There’s a channel called Holden it Down. And the mom is from Connecticut and adopted her two siblings through foster care who happen to be white. She got some hate on the adoption videos from mostly black people which was ridiculous.

[@zrosenus4289]

Beautifully put!

[@lady5239ful]

Adoption is like picking shoes. I was adopted

[@adaezenjoku7527]

@@strwrs3m64 i think you mean teo children right? Not siblings

[@hees0009]

@@adaezenjoku7527 no, her kids actually are biologically related half-siblings as well as full adopted siblings.

[@iosgaming2824]

Love seeing the mixture of children in there. Black and white children in a beautiful house full of beautiful children and a good mom.

[@jodielouise7376]

IOS GAMING! And you know what it is beautiful but for some people this is there worst nightmare for some people this is an abomination and makes them sick we need to change this big time

[@iosgaming2824]

Jodie Louise what’s wrong with this and why is it a nightmare?

[@jodielouise7376]

IOS GAMING! I don’t think it’s a night mare lol I think it’s beautiful I said there’s some people In this world that do find it sickening and we need to change that

[@iosgaming2824]

Jodie Louise oh I misread what you said I thought you were crazy.

[@jodielouise7376]

IOS GAMING! No SIR no colonel sanders over hrrerrr 🤣🤣

[@BlackBeauty2023]

When she said that she couldn't find much videos, I think she was talking about when her oldest girls were lil. Times has most definitely changed since then.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Makes sense

[@phoenixrising55555]

There really isn’t a lot of videos on how to do 4C hair like the little girl’s hair though , so she was accurate . Mixed people and people who don’t have 4C hair have taken over the black hair community

[@BlackBeauty2023]

@@phoenixrising55555 very true. I see KZbinrs with my hair type (3c-4a) claiming to be 4c. People need to keep it real because it makes it harder for people who are trying to learn their own hair type. For a while I was very confused on what hair type I had because so many videos were misleading.

[@TVwriter23]

@@phoenixrising55555 It was in 06/07

[@aliciahill7482]

Yes and there are a lot of terms we dont use. So watching videos often does not come from a truly beginner perspective.

[@reneasimpson9891]

To those who have spoken ill about this woman. She's not teaching us how to do natural hair. She's vlogging her journey in learning to care for her children's hair. In many of her videos she makes it very clear she's not an expert. For what I've seen, those kids are loved and well cared for. I'm trying to understand the problem. You all would dog her if she didn't learn and now you're dogging because she is invested in caring for their hair. Please make it make sense.

[@KaiKinapela]

This! I also get bummed when people try to dog her for the video comment. Her oldest daughter is 9 years old and there are plenty of videos about doing natural hair now but 8 or so years ago youtube was a very different place than youtube today.

[@FedUpPrincess09]

Yes! She adopted them and shares wut she's learned to help other foster/adoptive parents who need help and don't know where to start

[@iosgaming2824]

“Regular momma from around the block” 😂 and the terms she uses is cute too. “Baby girl” I be out sometimes some of the ways these moms interact with me is pretty sweet and shows me there a good mom. Like a few days ago I was walking and this black mom said “how are you doing sweetie” when I walked by and I greeted her back and said I’m doing good and she told me have a good day and stay safe and all that with the quarantine going on. I wish there were more parents out like that

[@renolove3218]

I’m half Filipino half Puerto Rican ,and I was adopted at the age of 3 by a white American family. At first my adopted mom didn’t know how to deal with my curly hair but decide to learn as I grew up! I’m very grateful for my mom and my family😊.Growing up they encourage me to learn about where I came from. When I was 13 my mom and I took a trip to the Philippines where I got to meet my grandparents and my cousins! I appreciate my family for everything they’ve done for me. Not one day of my life did they make me feel excluded because of our skin color! I’m so happy that I have a family that cares and supports me no matter what 😊

[@kerringtonthompson8981]

that is an amazing story and background of where you came from.

[@briancagordon2308]

Wow great testimony. Mommas of any kind are just amazing are they 🤗🤗

[@ashleysartattack5600]

That’s beautiful!

[@donnafreeman1571]

That's awesome 💓

[@montanahickman8797]

that’s beautiful this is how all people that adopt children from different races should do

[@carmeld45]

I see this Mom admiring and appreciating her child's hair, unlike many of us who talk down to and complain about our child's hair.

[@capricorn2723]

It says alot about us honestly

[@heatherk8895]

carmeld45 101 but remember society was the one who taught our mums to hate our hairs and then it got passed down generations to generations. My mother did the same. But I think it’s more of a western thing in Africa they don’t value hair like us my cousins hair was past her shoulders all natural no relaxers. She woke up one morning and shaved it off I was like 😮 and replied it will grow it’s just hair. I could never

[@capricorn2723]

@@heatherk8895 and those mums need to wake up and rise above society

[@Micheleoneandonly]

She has had these children since infants. 10 years ago there wasn't nearly as many hair videos out there. I believe her saying it wasn't easy for her to learn. And one video would not be enough. She had to do her research and tons of practice.

[@Micheleoneandonly]

And now she is trying to pay it forward for someone else.

[@Berryations]

I think she maybe meant she couldn’t find a video specified for adoptive or foster parents who have no idea how to do African American hair or appreciate it from a different perspective.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Possibly

[@Eternalkanji]

Are you a boy Laura?

[@jacobinaikaku2450]

And she said at the beginning, which means it could be years ago,

[@TVwriter23]

@Fires And Flowers IDK about that there were many blk women doing natural hair tutorials in 06/07

[@TVwriter23]

@Fires And Flowers So was I in 05. Same with Putfile when it was out

[@Trxndymeee]

My mom could never do my hair when I was younger..I was her first and only child so she wasn’t sure how to manage my thick hair..for that reason i was FORCED to use heat and chemicals on my hair at a young age to make my hair easier to manage..this mother did a great job! I wish youtube was more prevalent when I was younger so my mom could watch videos like this to kinda have an idea on how to manage my hair. This mom did a great job! ❤️

[@mileahharvey7552]

That’s heartwarming

[@Latifa-dx2qb]

Agreed I was my mom's first and only girl she doesn't know how to do hair as well. I try to do my hair myself.

[@ashleyk8406]

You’re really pretty

[@Trxndymeee]

Ashley Kleinvehn omg wow, Thank you 💕

[@julianacheriza1575]

I always straighten my hair so it doesn’t hurt when I comb it

[@jazmyne5186]

"she's hurting the kid" ...sometimes it hurts to get your hair done. the kid looked fine. relax

[@princess_terra5670]

jazmyne where did she said that if u could put a time stamp that would help pls

[@thatvampigoddess6582]

@@princess_terra5670 she didn't but she did mention that in the comments of that video people were saying that from the looks of it the kid looks fine it's just sped up and looks like it's harsher than it actually is, people who are saying that knows it they just like playing dumb to justify the hate.

[@saturnthegawd]

Pain is beauty. 👏🏻🙂

[@youcannotspeaktomeanyhow]

@@saturnthegawd it doesn't have to be. In terms of hair, pulling and tugging can actually break it. You can do the exact same thing without hurting your hair.

[@saturnthegawd]

you CANNOT speak to me anyhow ! Its a saying 🤷🏻‍♀️ and with small kids who don’t sit still, or even me - a VERY tenderheaded adult. It hurts to do my hair 🤷🏻‍♀️ it hurts my 2 yr old to braid his hair sometimes. Which takes HOURS because he gets a full head of box braids, or corns 🙆🏻‍♀️ (hes biracial) so ya, it just hurts sometimes.

[@carsonnhim7729]

her daughter has been with her since she was a infant. So her daughters hair is healthy bc all the love and work she puts into it. Nothing but respect

[@shanika8]

I actually like her channel she's trying and lesrning and getting to know black hair and loves the culture

[@kailamoore5331]

Shanika Stephenson I mean non-blacks can have “black hair” as well. It’s just very rare.

[@makaylalovelace3769]

Kaila Moore Non black people can not have Afro textured hair

[@kailamoore5331]

Makayla Lovelace yes, they can. Just like how there are blacks with naturally straight hair.

[@luvriy_]

Kaila Moore they cannot have type 4 hair if they can send me some proof

[@makaylalovelace3769]

Kaila Moore Sis, it’s not possible 💀

[@lydia3529]

You say it's refreshing to see how white people learn but your title says something else smh🤦🏾‍♀️

[@AgnesM]

That’s how clickbait works lol 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@haliaaa]

@@AgnesM so she doesn’t trust her commentary enough that she needs clickbait to have people clicking?

[@AgnesM]

@@haliaaa it’s not that deep

[@imogenmoonlight]

@@haliaaa basically

[@F00717]

As a black girl who grew up with a white mom and suffered from perms since age 6, I’m glad the lady made the video to teach other non-black moms how to care for black hair!!! It’s much needed 🙏🏾

[@chelseaalexus1839]

The title is misleading. Please change it she did a very good job 🥺❤️

[@ladyraven3418]

Yeah. Checked the comments section before playing the video, and glad that I did.

[@caramelspeaks3034]

This video of Christy gior popped up in my feed. Im glad she is embracing her adopted black daughter's hair and not perming, cutting it off or leaving it neglected.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Facts

[@Asianpears]

She ain’t showing us how to do hair.. she is showing other nonblack moms how to take care of their mixed children hair.., stop da bull shyt!!! Always have something negative to say..,

[@iyekakay4757]

She is just teaching other white mothers who have black adopted kids or mixed kids how to handle their hair I don’t understand why some of you guys get offended sometimes

[@aaliyonnahrobertson5099]

fr

[@bossedupmeech6625]

exactly! this is why we always look mad and bitter what the heck kind of problem can anyone have with her trying to do what's best for her daughter

[@zaybreecollections5870]

@Narly waves who gaf let her do what she want don’t gotta give any credit tf u mean

[@Sofia-cj9ss]

@Narly waves you are just mad that the white mom knows how to do her babygirl's hair, maybe she said in one video tho, or she probably saw a hundred of videos a long ago geez she can't say in every video who taught her lol is literally unnecessary

[@therealfinnaspring8585]

@Narly waves she watched hundreds of videos and it taking classes oh sure lets go give credit to every video on a topic ever get over yourself

[@bibbybankz2427]

I'm adopted by two LOVING AND AMAZING WHITE parents, yes there are "challenges" but TBH I legit look around and I know that I'm crazy blessed.

[@audreyf9092]

NOAH BODIES Sameee

[@iosgaming2824]

I haven’t finished the video yet but I just wanna say I love that this woman adopted a black child and is taking the initiative of just making sure she looks good and I can assume she makes her child feel loved so that’s good to know as well.

[@sashamassey8385]

Same. I've seen quite a few white people treat their adopted and mixed kids like pets. All their hair is dry and never braided. This is a great thing to see.

[@Qannable]

I subscribed to her a couple weeks ago and I like her. I'm glad she's actually taking time to learn her black daughter's hair instead of pressing and perming it to make it easier on herself.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Me toooo

[@dollyreid4777]

Dude she has had 8 years practise .

[@spacebar9733]

@@dollyreid4777 yeah, and once she had one month of practice... Your point?

[@leathehuman]

she’s actually taking care of her black daughter , it doesn’t matter what race , she is TAKING CARE of her daughter .

[@jpeezzy3]

I love that she understands what hair means to black girls/ women. When she said it’s our identity I wanted to give her a high five 🤗 And she’s trying so be easy on her.

[@amack9303]

Yeah that was a comment made by a viewer.

[@thelofithot777]

We definitely love when mothers take the time to learn about their ethnic children ❤️❤️

[@sagedilaire5866]

No she’s just trying to do her daughters her that’s good idky ppl hating and she does it good soo

[@TheeMademoiselle]

People are just trash

[@ariehorton396]

Right and obviously shes doing a good job look how long her daughters hair is and how well kept it is there's black women who can't even do their daughter's hair

[@crystal-shinesarmy9570]

And remember a lot of people have to see a Caucasian loving on a melonated child and taking care of they hair to hear it. Due to all the brainwashing lots of black folks won't listen unless it come from a white person. It's sad bit true

[@max-bl6fi]

@Narly waves she constantly says she's not an expert, and also aims her videos towards whute mums.

[@actuallytaz8193]

I’m biracial, growing up when I stayed with my birthmom she kept my hair in a ponytail that was braided and I wore headbands. When I got older that was the only hairstyle I knew how to do. I was adopted by A Caucasian lady once I got into highschool, Who has a biracial son so she genuinely thought that she could do my hair also. She said that she used to be a cosmetologist, and she knows how to take care of hair and i need to switch it up. Moving in with her my hair is about a 3C curl pattern. Her combing out my hair with literally the thinnest comb, didn’t attempt to put Any form of moisture for detangling etc. etc. she eventually gave up bc my hair was “too thick to manage” she told me I’m having a lifestyle change by now attending a predominantly white school which I’ve never really attended. Saying I need to look like the other girls, straight hair. I’ve never ever got a perm and never really had my hair flatironed only at weddings and special occasions. until that day. She permed, flatironed and dyed my hair. Which I noticed almost immediately I had damage... curl pattern was at a 3a by then. After I graduated my hair was so damaged and brittle I made the decision to shave my head, yes it was a bold choice but as my hair began to grow back I took the time out of my day everyday to learn and understand my hair type. My hair is now to my shoulders and is at its healthiest.

[@greensgrains4053]

Congrats

[@actuallytaz8193]

GREENs & GRAINS thnx 🖤

[@abbyhodgins2267]

How you gon have a biracial kid and completely disregard another... Ik hair types aren’t the same, but like... she shouldn’t have tried to white wash you for her benefit. I’m so sorry you had to go thru that, but I’m glad you’re learning your hair and it’s growing back healthy 💗

[@actuallytaz8193]

Abby Hodgins thnx and yea her son had a more thin loose curl pattern as of mine was very thick with a bit tighter curls

[@abbyhodgins2267]

ActuallyTaz smhhh. I don’t think ppl should adopt if they’re not ready to adopt that child’s culture, past, and all their needs... but I hope everything else was okay with your adoptive family

[@lemongirl4307]

My mom first put straightner in my hair when I was 7. She said she couldn't handle it anymore, Now I'm 23 and I have been a natural for 3 years. It's been hard loving my hair but I'm trying, my mom doesn't support me going natural so yeah no support there but hey it's on my head and I want to take care of it. Ps. My mom is black so seeing this white lady trying to learn how to take care of her black daughters hair kinda makes me feel sad and happy at the same time.

[@Jelly-hq7ug]

Wow I'm so sorry. I've been permed for 10 years and now I'm transitioning ( tryiiinggg) back. My mom supports me 100 percent. Her hair was permed for decades but she went back natural after having cancer. These videos or the internet even didn't exist in her era. I wish you success with your beautiful haie❤

[@jinx724]

My mom was fostered by a Spanish family because she is half spanish and they took her in and taught her spanish a little but when she got a new foster agent (I don't remember what they're called) they looked at her and moved her to a black family and they didn't treat her the same as their bio daughter they cared but not as much and they stopped her from speaking Spanish at all. So my mom lost her Cuban heritage and wasn't able to pass it on to me

[@smilingbasil1421]

😔

[@bribolden7957]

The girl looks cute it is what it is 🤷🏾

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Trueee

[@chelsea-ry4qv]

She's doing an amazing job, I saw this video before, and it made my day. She seems very nice and stated that she was not a professional numerous times. Idk why people still 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@catrinaandrade9814]

Trust me there are a lot of black mothers that don’t know how to care for their daughter’s hair. They get so frustrated that they end up perming it. My own mother use to prep doing my hair like she was about to go to war 😭. Race has nothing to do with with it. I appreciate this mother.

[@lainaballls]

I love this mom’s mindset so much! I love my momma, but she used to yank my head, scream at me, and both her and my dad would get mad when I cried because it hurt (I’m not only tender headed my whole body is extremely sensitive to pain and touch in general) and I hated it, so now I’m older and was never taught to take care of my natural hair so guess whattt, it’s permed. 😤

[@vociferonheraldofthewinter2284]

I'm pain-sensitive too, honey. I understand.

[@lainaballls]

Small update: I went natural all on my own! Crochet braids to grow out my hair are a dream!

[@vociferonheraldofthewinter2284]

@@lainaballls I'm so happy for you! That's goals!

[@lainaballls]

@@vociferonheraldofthewinter2284 Thank you! ❤️

[@da2sin]

I loved it. This woman did her daughter's hair better than Many mothers I know

[@sephoraw9444]

The title of the video is misleading. It makes her look bad. If you wouldnt mind plz consider changing it

[@scarletcandy6391]

Clickbait, it’s gets people to click on the video

[@dorcaswg5726]

I think she’s an amazing adoptive mother for doing this for her daughters it shows how much she cares.

[@bubba_banks]

Lol she was trying to help out people who don't know how to take care of their foster or adopted children

[@TheeMademoiselle]

I know. Makes more sense to watch before you comment 😌.

[@oreos960]

@@TheeMademoiselle No thats because in the beginning when she said she didnt see videos like the one's she making you said how there are hundreds. But the lady was referring about videos from a foster or adoptive mom's perspective specifically.

[@tiffanyjoy4578]

@@TheeMademoiselle title is pretty click bait.

[@rushiaj1222]

Kudos to mama for not giving up and actually caring about her kids hair. I see some moms out here dressed nice, hair & nails done and they kids look busted. Extra kudos for stepping out her comfort zone 😍

[@DesertSister]

I have major respect for her. It's not easy jumping into the black haircare world and she did so and is flourishing.

[@nancyjada9406]

I personally want to adopted many children when I'm older. I'll adopt children from various backgrounds and ages, especially teens, since they're usually overlooked. I'm going to go to uni soon and major in nursing, and I'm on my way to knowing 7 languages, so that I can accomodate those different backgrounds.

[@dollynina8992]

Good on you👏👏All the best of luck💖

[@spacebar9733]

GIRL ARE YOU ME?? I wanna adopt like 4 kids if possible, preferably siblings. And I'm planning to start my nursing journey next year.

[@southerngemini6401]

I actually love this video and subscribed after seeing how much she loved her daughter

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Same!

[@shyanedejesus75]

Southern Gemini girl same ! I love christy !

[@starobviously4956]

Same

[@virginiek.5018]

i think it was amazing that this woman really took the time to learn and posts video "tutorials" to help other women out in the same situation as her. i am not adopted, but my mother is white and when she had me ( im half african) im glad she took the time to get advice from her black friends and my dads siblings to learn how to manage and take care of my hair. i feel like a lot of adopted black kids could've been able to avoid having damaged hair if they had a parent care for their hair just like this woman has been doing!

[@emilyrose9315]

I’m a mixed kid (dad-black mom-white) and I’m proud to say my mom tried her best every time she did my hair. My dad made me try a relaxer once and he put it in and we never did it again. My dad also made me start learning how to box braid my own hair and we stood in the bathroom with my mom trying to braid my hair. I’m glad I had parents who embraced my hair☺️💙

[@merlynledoux4109]

personally i’ve been adopted by a white mom. always got my hair done and made sure i was happy in that regards but after awhile i got old enough to decide on my own. grateful for her maintaining my hair and caring about me.

[@regcla6667]

C'moooon, that title tho, I was ready to fight😂

[@Salonecutie1000]

I watched her videos and I love her. I love the amount of research she put into it. She knows how important her daughter's crown is

[@cassidy600]

I really admire this lady for learning about how her daughter's hair works and how to style it cause a lot of parents don't do that. And I also like the way that you didn't scrutinize her for being a white woman caring for a black girl's hair cause I feel like the true meaning and intention of the video will go over a lot of people's heads because they'll be to busy waiting for her to mess up to call her out of to find something that she's doing wrong to point it out rather than acknowledge the fact that she's a loving mother who's trying. The fact that she puts in that effort and uses it as an opportunity to bond with her child shows nothing but pure love she has for her. She really is trying her best for a mother of a different race than her child and she's doing a great job.

[@TuLocalPendejo]

Sis got her babies hair GROWIN😍 yes ma’am

[@shreksspawn2359]

Her: I am thee mademoiselle Me: Liked, subscribed, and swooning on the next word

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Lmaooo thanks love ❤️

[@ShelbieMua]

I think what made is so great is the fact that she was correct about a ton of things. And that she was super kind and humble talking about her daughters race.

[@beautifulmelanatedgoddess2299]

There is nothing wrong with adopting black kids and kids of colour as long as you love them.

[@elizabethjohnson5566]

I was adopted. I'm bi-racial. My adoptive mother is white & adoptive dad is black. M bio mother was white & bio dad black. She learned how to do my hair. She took great care of us & always made sure we knew our culture. Was never taken from us🥰❤

[@thelofithot777]

I saw this video. Loved it. Thought it was beautiful. What I didn’t like was the amount of black women in her comments belittling other black women to uplift this white lady. It was definitely disappointing.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Tf? Belittling who?

[@kia2917]

Thee Mademoiselle they weee saying it’s a shame other black wen don’t step up to do their child’s hair yet critique this woman. But nobody was criticizing her in the first place. And even worse the creator of the video were liking all the comments that were black women putting other black women down. I was rooting for her🤦🏾‍♀️

[@kia2917]

Thee Mademoiselle But these comments were in another more recent video of her doing her daughters hair

[@thelofithot777]

Kia’s Life thank you for explaining

[@mani2372]

Yeah I can’t with the coddling

[@torihampton1953]

Yes this is Christy Gior I love her KZbin channel. She adopted all of her kids

[@jubilantsleep]

She’s an excellent mom. I’m glad she’s teaching others adoptive parents as well.

[@preprethereal1920]

I want to adopt in the future

[@emmitcorbin9129]

I'm a mixed kid (black and white) with 3A hair. My family is complicated. But anyway I never learned to care of my curls and my moms(yes, plural) never cared to learn. Over time my hair became damaged and I lost my curl pattern😑 I learned later on how to fix and take care of my hair though.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Sheeesh

[@riles575]

I'm mixed too (white and jamaican) and I never knew my actual hair type until like middle school and even then my hair was still dry and damaged bc my [white] mom always either slicked my hair up into a tight bun, a braid or 2, or it was straightened. I had to learn to take care of my hair the right way when I started trying to do it myself in middle school. Fast forward to now, I'd say my hair is pretty healthy, not sure what my hair type is though bc my mom says the whole 3a-4c thing isn't how they describe hair in the salon (she's a cosmetologist but as far as ik she only worked with pin straight hair in the salon )

[@yanarosejenkins9497]

Same here, I'm trying to learn now

[@freepalestine1764]

@@riles575 jamaican is a nationality, white is a race....

[@freepalestine1764]

@@riles575 you can be a white jamaican.

[@jayjohnson8403]

"WHYT WOMAN TEACH US HOW TO DO NATURAL HAIR LOL..HM OK" Stop clickbaiting. Especially when you agree with most of what this woman said. She never said she is trying to teach black people. This is a caring mom doing her best in raising her children and learning everyday

[@TheeMademoiselle]

I do what I want. Thanks for watching 👌🏽

[@kikiwilliams4747]

It got you to click on this video tho. Lol.

[@justmydeals]

Watched a few videos on this channel, many titles biased against white people, so that’s clearly a “thing” here.

[@aaliyonnahrobertson5099]

fr this girl this girl probably only care about her self

[@aaliyonnahrobertson5099]

@@justmydeals thank you not all white people are bad

[@sapphirelily514]

I'm subscribed to her and when I first started watching her, I was so amazed and held such respect for her to be able to learn about her daughter's hair. I'm grateful for people like her that are adopting black children to give them an opportunity like any other child and that she's actually put in an effort.

[@kino2818]

As long as she’s being loved and provided for as well as being taught her culture 💝

[@soobindoll9767]

I just love seeing Yvana beautiful smile.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Thanks 🙏🏽 ❤️❤️❤️

[@Jenni.P]

I saw this video and it just warmed my heart so much. You can see there is love in that household 🥰

[@cartersamson7662]

I just watched this video and I loved how she said that her hair is part of her identity.

[@user-kx2zv7tg3u]

This mom earned my respect, this knows what she’s doing

[@toudaredeme795]

I completely agree as long as you can love and provide for a kid that can't have this essential rights it should not matter what ethnicity or race you are because every kid deserve to be loved and provided for

[@hz4471]

Christy adopted her three black children at birth! Her two twins are 8 now so 8 years ago there wasn’t too much on KZbin. I’m happy christy learned how to care for her children’s hair.

[@tesslawilson7695]

I applaud her for putting in the work!

[@RaiinbowBarf]

yeah...sulfates are not bad. Especially if you have so much product and oil build up LOL you need them sulfates. As long as you put the moisture right back in youre good. but this woman is doing SUCH an amazing job with her daughter. It makes me SO happy.

[@randomlyme.9415]

Yes I felt like she did a great job trying to care for her daughters hair she’s just gonna get better and more informed

[@aquaizeyquartz]

You did her durty in the title

[@magicblade5585]

My mom is mixed and she regrets ever putting that one relaxer in my hair when I was younger. I am almost 21 and she still apologizes because she knows how hard I've been working on natural hair to get that long length back that I lost as a child. I always tell her that it's okay, everyone makes mistake. It just so happens that her mistake has made me appreciate my natural hair more and more everyday

[@daphne10120]

Completely agree. There are so many babies in the system needing a home. As long as the parents can provide that child love and take the effort to help them keep in touch with their culture, it should not matter who adopts them. The people who always get mad at people adopting children of a different race never have adopted children themselves.

[@juliacarey8748]

I was adopted from Guatemala by a very loving white family. My mom made it a point to learn basic Spanish before she came to bring me home so she could interact with the natives (she is still learnimg to this day.) My family has done everything they can to teach me about my culture. Im beyond blessed.

[@ItsABriMoment]

Glad I’m not alone on the coconut oil thing, it breaks my hair too, but everyone tells me it can’t/shouldn’t.

[@disabledbabe]

I know, even Castor oil broke my edges off too.

[@tanksha5919]

She's not telling you what to do she's telling you what she does

[@alinemulasi3196]

I stopped my sister in law from putting relaxers in my nieces' hair and told her I would do their hair instead!

[@Forevagabby]

I love everything about this video she knows more about my hair than I do😂 go mama👏🏾👏🏾

[@TheeMademoiselle]

😭

[@TiffanyIma]

This baby's hair is long and healthy! I've actually approached white families with black kids who clearly didnt know what to do. Ive had foster parents ask me questions and I always appreciated it. I feel like it is their responsibility to find out what to do.

[@melodilovell4948]

This made my eyes water. The adoration she has for her daughter and her hair. I love that. And the fact that she considered it a bonding moment. All mothers, whether blood-related or maybe not, should treat it as such, as opposed to getting frustrated and taking it out on the kid.

[@YaGirlJhordyn]

She did a dope job! Her hair is in great shape and her mom kept emphasizing how important it is for these beautiful black kids to know that their hair is beautiful naturally and the process of doing it shouldn’t be seen as such a negative thing. I loved this and her message behind it. And I don’t think it’s detrimental as long as they make a constant effort to make sure the child knows about what comes with the experience of being their race, I.e. educating them on their culture, keeping them around people that look like them, etc.

[@farahmidi502]

Yes actually i subcribe to her i think she did great

[@chocolatee6618]

Keep up the good job momma bear 😘 babygirl hair is going to be long and healthy!

[@eyeofeye]

This woman is doing her job beautifully. I love the way she loves her babygirl.

[@Keepitmovin72]

I LOVE HER AND ALL HER LOVE AND EFFORTS!!!!

[@carengarcon201]

It's almost like a love letter to her daughter's natural hair I felt that

[@beverlyhues4558]

I like how she was nice and sweet to the little girl and how she didn’t throw hidden jabs at her. Good job miss 😊 👏🏾

[@Blending_In_The_Crowd]

That little girl is absolutely beautiful! God bless this mama and her family!

[@tam_forreal]

Thank you so much for not giving this negative attention. I commend this parent for trying to properly care for her daughter's natural hair, without chemically manipulating it. We know this could be different in a very bad way.

[@kristencarr5570]

👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 I'm glad I watched the video because the headline reads as though this white woman is trying to tell black people how to do black hair which is false. VERY glad to see some support here. Like it or not, white women do raise black children and I am HAPPAAAAAY to see and hear this Mom taking the time to learn and educate others. Dope!🖤

[@tiffanyp.1784]

She did a great job with her hair. It looks healthy and thick. I’m glad she has learned how to care for her hair. Thanks for sharing

[@mileahharvey7552]

I love how you lift other people’s spirits with your inspirational talks before the actual videos