Wife Blames Intruder for Shotgun-Assisted Separation from Husband | Jennifer Nibbe Case Analysis

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Ohhh yes. The ol’ “he broke in and shot my husband but left me alive” story. Works every time.

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Look up how the Haitian president was killed. Not a single scratch of struggle on his wife

[@jackedkerouac4414]

"Non-shotgun related methods available to end her marriage" was poetry in motion.

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Not to collect the $250,000 insurance. They were in debt. Finances, not relationship failure, is usually the motive.

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[@KoolT]

I swear a lady who shot my uncle and killed him only got 5 years and year's she had already shot her x husband. Drunks.

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[@philricke8372]

Jim's mom, Karen, is my mom's cousin. This was an agonizing time for my mom's side of the the family and a week after Jennifer was arrested my dad died of cancer. That was a really sucky time.

[@tinareaume7484]

I am so sorry this happened to your family. Deepest condolences.

[@mamabeartrue420]

My condolences. 🕊️🙏

[@manewland1]

Your final summation makes it clear that their marriage was a recipe for disaster; thanks, as always, Dr. Grande!

[@lostandfound5145]

“Shotgun Assisted Separation” is one of the funniest things I’ve seen you write Doc 😂 love it! Keep up the awesome work!

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Hahaha yeah so funny how he makes fun of murders. Hilarious

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@@hillbillyheadcam1729 I know, right? Research shows that “gallows humor” is associated with better stress response and less violent behavior. I love that he can make horrible things more palatable by incorporating humor so we don’t all go insane from the constant horror present in our reality and existential dread. I’m glad you can appreciate my perspective.

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[@jangell1320]

I can honestly relate to Jim. I too have been accused of excessive groping. As a result, I’m banned from the produce sections of several area grocery stores.

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[@kathypappas6867]

Why don't people just get divorced ? I don't get it . Even if there's insurance money involved that won't last forever , not to mention being caught and spending life in jail .

[@TILLEYJS]

Drug addict.... Short term thinker.

[@Moodboard39]

Divorce cost money .

[@millylove1252]

She wrote about her affair but not about her husbands abuse and sexuall deviance towards her. Infact she said he was a good man in her diary. she was just flat out lying and it worked on the jury.

[@melvinlovejones9722]

A "shotgun-assisted" separation? That's one heck of a separation!

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In True Lies, Arnold used a gun on his wife - "consider that a divorce" was the line he used.

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​@riogrande5761 He said something very similar in Total Recall too! 😆

[@tomswift3835]

"They both had a lack of empathy, and focused only on their own desires." So, why would the deceased bother to pay for life insurance? By definition, his life insurance policy can't benefit him; it can only benefit someone else.

[@srsusansummers3070]

So happy to see another upload. Never give anyone a shotgun and train them how to use it. Bad move for the husband.

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[@bobczz3919]

If it's not a shotgun, then it's a knife or an ax. I think I would rather go out with a shotgun blast...LOL

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And he deadpans hilarious puns on the perps names or actions 😂

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@@DivinelyGuidedFem the one sentence with all the P words in this one killed me 💀 😆

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​@@pollsfriendAlliteration. It's called alliteration.

[@johnfyten3392]

Big mistake with the shotgun gift there Jim

[@mamaduck9370]

Murder of an abuser is still murder. There were definitely other strategies available to this murderer. Thanks for the analysis.

[@skiak004]

Curious what the son had to say since he was present during the shooting.

[@MEL2theJ]

I too was curious about the son's account

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That is one of the best deadpan humor titles I have read. "Shotgun assisted separation" 😄

[@riogrande5761]

These "kill the spouse/partner when the perp is having an affair seem to pop up pretty often, and yet they never seem to learn from all the cases that came before them. History keeps repeating itself and many never learn from it, and doom themselves to repeat, as the old saying goes about history.

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It's because when you commit adultery, you open yourself up to some bad demons...which lead you to do things you woulda never done before

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@@Mint-kj9kwI was just going to say the same thing! The spiritual realm is even more “real” than this one since it’s eternal and everything here is only temporary.

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[@MrsMathews]

“Shotgun-assisted separation from husband” that’s quite a euphemism right there! 😅

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Literally watched this interrogation not to long ago. It's like you read my mind. I watch something and you post about it lol. Love it

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The cacti sprouted candles. 🌵🕯

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I can see the candle cacti. Cute. Always interesting Thank you Peace

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"Shotgun-assisted separation" - I'm dying here.... 😆😆😆😆

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[@wiseauserious8750]

Do women just automatically get lower sentences than men for the same crime? If a husband shot his wife like that no way would he get a measly 15 years

[@abigaild7304]

I forget the name of this famous piece of literature but it's late 1800s US and about a woman being acquitted for likely killing her husband because everyone knows a woman isn't capable. I think that prejudice definitely still carries over more than a century later.

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I'm sure it's possible there is some disparity there. But men have also received relatively short sentences for murder. There is one I'm thinking of as an example - but damned if I can remember his name right now - murdered his poor wife in their bed using a plastic bag over her head, was only sentenced to eight years, and immediately married his mistress when he was released and now is presumably living happily ever after.

[@Moodboard39]

Bias probably

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Terrible people just don't get a divorce when they're unhappy but that's rarely a choice with narcissists or drug addicts esp. Great points again. Thanks Dr G😊💜❤

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"He's a good man, but I just don't want to be with him anymore". Holy crap, what a quote.

[@TILLEYJS]

Said most modern women today.... Then they turn 40-50.... Realize they should've stayed with their husbands.

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

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[@Moodboard39]

​@@TILLEYJSlol than the present husbands leave her for another 😂😂😂

[@GodsIsrael]

Shotgun assisted separation🙈 It's the children left behind that i always think of.A massive life altering experience😢

[@silent_pete]

The bedroom crime scene with "Always remember to kiss me goodnight" painted on the wall above really got me.

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Kiss me with 1 1/8oz of buckshot

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Thought this was about Matt Stewart. Please cover that case!! No one has been charged but an old podcast really narrows it down… so close to home

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I appreciate Dr. Grande's balanced analysis, especially how he navigates the complex debate between murder and manslaughter in this case. It's chilling to think how addiction and personal motives can distort one's sense of right and wrong.

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Show me on the doll, where did he intruder?

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"It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia" ❓

[@Fuchs1978]

In cases like this, I always think about the criminal's family, especially about his/her parents. Where were they? Did they maintain a close relationship with their son/daughter prior to the crime? It seems that these murderers have little to none ties to the family they grew up in... Maybe this is a contributing factor in their mess.

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Good question. My thoughts exactly. Her early life and parenting should hold clues.

[@tinareaume7484]

It almost seems like he might have been looking for a way out of this world and he set her up to assist in his death. Of course, we'll never know what he was thinking but she may have persuaded him to buy life insurance and a shotgun and he stupidly did both, or he realized he was gravely ill and decided to use her to end it all. Either way, it would make a great novel.

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That Chapter is doing the life insurance dance on this one.

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That dance is a treat for sure 😄

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I just want to know how Jim got hiv

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😂 don't give the wife a shotgun as a present

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She didn't intend to kill him. She was trying to shoot the viruses. 🦠🦠🦠

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Hi Dr Grande - can you do a video titled “Getting what you vote for” based on the horrific incident recently in NY where people with luxury beliefs collide with reality. This is a serious problem and I’d be kern to see your comments on the psychology of people in this cult (the female refused to even identify the man who stabbed her boyfriend to death).

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If you're referring to Ryan Carson, where'd you hear the part about his girlfriend?

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"luxury beliefs" 👍 I'd say 'dangerous delusions' in the case you are referring to.

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Truest wordsmith on most of KZbin. Bravo Dr❤”

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This was an interesting case. Thanks for covering this!

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People have so much faith in others not to read their diaries.

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Who needs a scope for a shotgun? 🤣

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There is a definite bias in sentencing between men & women.

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To the point of absurd and gross misjustice. That children's author is a prime example. She deserves dp.

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Why do I feel like Jennifer's family is the standard for what American families are going through right now. I feel like we're going to see a LOT more of these family murdering family incidents.

[@Moodboard39]

Is always white families lol facts .

[@mario-qi3yw]

I don’t understand why people don’t just get divorced and not have affairs. I love the cactus candles.😊

[@markallen2984]

The idea that her husband had hepatitis and HIV but that she did not test positive for either condition kind of undermines her claim that he wanted sex all the time.

[@wendywoopers1924]

I thought the same thing but I guess both those are more commonly spread through needle sharing and not sex. One out of every 1,250 will get it through vaginal sex. So I guess she dodged the bullet.. 🤔

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True, But when your affair partner is cleaner than your own husband, that says A LOT. 😂

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@@kevinspacey5325maybe he wasn’t . I don’t think she cared .

[@nobody8328]

Condoms are a thing

[@tinawindham6958]

Maybe he got sex all the time from somewhere else…

[@allydea]

I try baffled by how easily some people decide to kill other people.

[@aarondavis8943]

At first, this case seemed open and shut. But then the defendant came up the idea of lying. Then, the case became open and shut. The state made a stupid deal. She almost certainly would have been found guilty. And I don't believe a thing she says about being abused. She's not a battered woman. She's just an evil woman.

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Having intimate relations with a partner that has a S transmitted disease would be an assault on my person…

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I have a request? Can you do a pod cast on the brutal murder of the advocate " poet" good human - Ryan Carson. Ryan Carson's murder is mind boggling.

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I find your analysis of this topic (and many others) to be entertaining & amusing 😂 (in addition to being informative) 😉.

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Thanks

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T.G. has so many videos it would be nice if he could categorize or index them. Maybe playlists such as missing persons ( my favorite) , con artists, murders , etc. He also has a standing invitation to Bullhead City.

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Would love to see a video on 8 yr old Chad Choice murder from Tyler, texas. The killer went above and beyond to continue victimizing the family. Want to hear your analysis of the murderer’s behavior

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It is interesting how two people can live in the same home and try to live separate lives. I also find it interesting that people don't explore more of the incredible amount of options to counter boredom. When we were younger, we would do things like engage in traditions or experience popular culture all the time.

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“Non-shotgun related methods available…”☠️😂

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[@bluecheese4877]

At this stage, I’m guessing the mysterious intruder was never found

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I knew I was staying up for a reason 😊

[@Rune221]

@DrGrande Could you do an analysis on the Kevin Davis case? I would love to hear your opinion on this disturbing case

[@douglaswatters7303]

How did he have hiv and hepatitis while Jennifer did not? That is odd.

[@hardrays]

because she put it there. nurse privilege.

[@gemmagilmore-darbey175]

According to the World Health Organisation, the chances of getting it through normal intercourse is only 0.08%. If his exposure was very recent, as Dr Grande speculated, there was a very small window for her to have contracted it and even then the chances were small. Despite the claims of another commenter that she infected him deliberately as a means of defense, this seems extremely unlikely given that the HIV factor was only discovered at the autopsy, not mentioned by the defendant. I think also he may have noticed being stabbed by a needle. Also, she worked at a basic GP practice not an AIDS clinic. Only 12 people per 100000 in the US have AIDS and though it can live in non-lab conditions for some days, it’s ability to transmit is almost completely destroyed so the likelihood of her having the opportunity to infect her husband in this matter seems infinitesimal.

[@FolloweroftheWAY777]

This one is interesting all around. The deception on both sides.

[@melbournestreetdrummermsd3202]

Very unusual to have a telescopic sight mounted on a shotgun, is a short-range firearm the recoil would have the scope inches into the eye socket. Thanks Doctor always for the video

[@michaelmcclown5593]

Looking from afar it seems many American's see death a solution to many of life's problems, both on a personal and societal level.

[@johnny10grasp3]

Where are you from?

[@hardrays]

theres a lot of folks over here that descend from nuts that got ran out of europe a hundred or so years ago. a melting pot of scum. and it has staying power - it persists because of heredity.

[@michaelmcclown5593]

@@johnny10grasp3 Afar.

[@johnny10grasp3]

@@michaelmcclown5593 America isn't the only country with a high murder rate. Country's afar have high murder rates as well. I see you have no backbone to stand up for your country so just keep criticizing others from afar please. We don't want you here.

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

Yes. Agreed.

[@marycampeau9378]

"non-shotgun related methods"... divorce is easier than prison

[@javierromero6858]

Non shotgun related methods 😂😂 Is incredible the amount of stressors individuals put on themselves. I’m always amazed how some people think about murder before divorce. I imagine divorce is the main method used to end marriages by a large margin, but there are still people out there like this lady.

[@hp7093]

Scary what folks are capable of..,,,

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Hello Dr.Grand🏁e.

[@tod3msn]

Yet again, another case of why people just don’t get a divorce instead of embarking on this tragic path. I wish this was the only pathetic story of this type but it’s the exact opposite. Caveat-the crime is reprehensible but there is a right not to self incriminate. Do not speak to the police without first consulting with an attorney.