“Wife Loses 100 Pounds & Then Cheats”

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Breakbeat Media

Breakbeat Media

Күн бұрын

On this episode of Trappin Anonymous we sit down with a special guest that can represent the story of so many, a loving wife who’s stepped out on her marriage. This story is the roller coaster that ensues when infidelity finds its way into a home.
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@breakbeatmedia
@breakbeatmedia 3 ай бұрын
Please follow @trappinanonymous on Instagram and DM if you have a story that needs to be told.
@ityler6320
@ityler6320 2 ай бұрын
I don’t have a social media can you give me your email
@audrahashleycannon
@audrahashleycannon Ай бұрын
So I was molested at 9 by my aunt my mothers sister that she trusted to help out and move her in on several occasions I’m 45 now since 9 she turned me out on drugs, prostitution failing class and my life ain’t been the same since want to tell what happened been happening thru now 😢 where do I start live in Lancaster ca every guy I try to date believe they own me my trust issues are screwed up I would skip classes ditch to roam the streets meeting men getting raped I have a fortune to tell currently been involved with weird older creepy old men from 69 -85 for directions would love to release the pressure 😢
@audrahashleycannon
@audrahashleycannon Ай бұрын
I have a story
@ktube4848
@ktube4848 11 ай бұрын
She didn't want her husband in the first place, she settled for him because she couldn't get the guy she wanted because of the weight.
@macadon041
@macadon041 7 ай бұрын
Facts
@mikeeley01
@mikeeley01 5 ай бұрын
EXACTLY!!!!
@mikeeley01
@mikeeley01 5 ай бұрын
Exactly!!
@KlassyKoo
@KlassyKoo 4 ай бұрын
How do you know that ? She may not have even worked at the job she met the dude at when she was 300+ pounds, she could have gotten the job after the fact for all you know, please state where you’re getting your proof or facts.
@juniorjoseph973
@juniorjoseph973 3 ай бұрын
Fact
@kizzyharding6597
@kizzyharding6597 10 ай бұрын
His wife watching this interview like "she fumbled the bag so I caught it"😂🤣 I'm happy that she has accepted and taken accountability.
@crocodiletears9096
@crocodiletears9096 Жыл бұрын
If your husband was your best friend. I’d hate to see how she’d treat her enemy.
@a100percentReal
@a100percentReal 11 ай бұрын
🎯 😆😆😆
@jasoncamphor3027
@jasoncamphor3027 11 ай бұрын
Exactly
@shelocsher2396
@shelocsher2396 13 күн бұрын
Right. She could’ve left that part out of it. Because, clearly he was not
@ogronnieb4245
@ogronnieb4245 6 ай бұрын
Shouts Out To Her For Holding Herself Accountable … Most Humans Dont
@demetreusross5150
@demetreusross5150 2 күн бұрын
After the fact 😂😂😂😂
@williamj.dovejr.8613
@williamj.dovejr.8613 Жыл бұрын
There was a CEO that got rid of people who were cheating with other workers, no matter what... he said, " If your own spouse can't trust you, why should I? " More companies should do that.
@symand3789
@symand3789 Жыл бұрын
How many legal penalties did that CEO pay?
@williamj.dovejr.8613
@williamj.dovejr.8613 Жыл бұрын
@@symand3789Zero...but he also said if he had to, he would not care because it was important to cut the cancer out before it spread and killed company morale.
@bumboclate171
@bumboclate171 Жыл бұрын
@@symand3789 ever company have some sort of ethics conduct. And fraternization. especially married that’s already adultery
@poneverything
@poneverything Жыл бұрын
Sounds nice.. until labor relations enters the chat..
@MelvinFranklinJunior
@MelvinFranklinJunior Жыл бұрын
It’s called a “morality clause”, and they are more common that you think.
@StraightFromDC
@StraightFromDC Жыл бұрын
The fact she felt betrayed because her side dude lied to her is beyond wild 😭
@DezGrowSpot
@DezGrowSpot Жыл бұрын
Not really. It because she thought they were in a relationship, and the dude was just smashing. He just played her emotions
@Vissybabii
@Vissybabii Жыл бұрын
​@DezGrowSpot no. She admitted she knew what it was, but she lied to herself to not feel wrong.
@hillybill
@hillybill Жыл бұрын
That's a woman's train of thought for you 😒
@darklordbruce6593
@darklordbruce6593 Жыл бұрын
That part took me out 😂.
@darklordbruce6593
@darklordbruce6593 Жыл бұрын
​@@DezGrowSpotfacts.
@stlyphil
@stlyphil Жыл бұрын
“I get to watch him with his new wife and his new life flourish with out me” I love that for you 🥹❤
@lolabunny18
@lolabunny18 Ай бұрын
All manure don’t allow your garden to flourish. She was the issue. I too love this for her 🫠🥰
@GratefulDaughter1
@GratefulDaughter1 10 ай бұрын
What she failed to realize is her husband loved her while she was at a larger size meaning he loved her unconditionally. The man you attracted after losing weight wouldn't have looked your way. Being desired more by YOUR HUSBAND was the key!
@HeyitsBri_
@HeyitsBri_ 6 ай бұрын
The thing about that is her husband loved what she perceived as the lowest version of herself. When she lost the weight and became the higher version of herself she left him behind with her old self
@realrighteoustv
@realrighteoustv 3 ай бұрын
....this truth hasn't come to her yet unfortunately
@raysanele4538
@raysanele4538 Ай бұрын
“For better or for worse” she forgot her vows.
@NLMamaluv
@NLMamaluv Ай бұрын
The thing is she fail to realize none she took full accountability. She just told her story & gave advice
@HeyBloss
@HeyBloss Жыл бұрын
I’ll share my story with weight loss. I had the sleeve too, I went from 288 to 160. When you go from being a larger woman to a small woman you are treated differently. It’s a mixture of being desirable to the masses and you gaining confidence, dressing better and more. I gained a lot of attention. The difference between her and I is I didn’t let that go to my head. Some people seek attention, love, and validation. I didn’t. I think what made me not get big headed when it came to men was me realizing “this man wouldn’t want the old me, this seem more physical than mental” men I’ve known for YEARS who saw the bigger me didn’t want me. But now that I’m smaller they are all over me. I’m good, I hold grudges and remember the past. Lol attention is a drug…
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
One thing I realized is revenge is a dish best served cold. Sometimes “get back” will keep you in such a place of protection that nobody can penetrate
@lovejoyful606
@lovejoyful606 Жыл бұрын
I get it!
@Muybonitacoco22
@Muybonitacoco22 Жыл бұрын
Because you have Sense!!!!!!
@breakbeatmedia
@breakbeatmedia Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@TheBookOfSammy
@TheBookOfSammy Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely correct on all your points and it shows your character as a human being to not allow false confidence and conceit to ruin your foundation and principles.
@glyzx
@glyzx Жыл бұрын
Imagine loving your wife unconditionally…through her worse times…and she improved herself only to give her best to another man…what a horrible human being….
@altonza
@altonza Жыл бұрын
Ouch 🎯
@2intriguing1
@2intriguing1 Жыл бұрын
I'm sure your mother can say the same, what have you built? Owned? How many kids do you have with child support orders. I'm glad I left yall dusty ass bandits alone 20yrs ago. I'm sure you've done worse yet you're still breathing. She's forgiven and human unlike you
@Sigma2HisAlpha
@Sigma2HisAlpha Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@daninwangabia6270
@daninwangabia6270 Жыл бұрын
Oh that's common with most women
@luvingmewholeunapologetica3640
@luvingmewholeunapologetica3640 Жыл бұрын
I totally understand how she have felt when it come to losing that amount off weight, but to turn your back on your family is just crazy! I’ve personally experienced being more desired after losing 90lbs. However… it opened my eyes to just how shallow men was and completely turned me off. I personally appreciated the man I was with before my weight loss even more.
@danielwhite2629
@danielwhite2629 Жыл бұрын
I got into a relationship with a coworker who was overweight.The other coworkers use to talk crazy about her.She lost weight & turned around & cheated with one of the guys who talked about her.He told me soon as it happened.She said she made a mistake.I just cut her off.
@thebridge5483
@thebridge5483 11 ай бұрын
I was dating this plus size girl I was fine with the way I met her, after a month getting to know I found out she had started a weight loss surgery i wasn’t okay with it but I was willing to overlook it, but she started saying things like ooh I can’t wait till I lose of this weight I’m going to this and that, and the final nail in the coffin was when she told me do I know how many men wants to get with her I knew then and there I had to end it
@SoloOcean
@SoloOcean 10 ай бұрын
😮😮😮
@TheresaofTheWorld
@TheresaofTheWorld 10 ай бұрын
awww, sorry that happened to you.
@marquise7200
@marquise7200 8 ай бұрын
You gotta think a lot of big people dealing with internal issues. It’s some that’s extremely happy being big so I don’t wanna say all but yeah a lot of us have adddictive personalities too. We literally wear our addiction on our sleeves.
@mermaidbabe2122
@mermaidbabe2122 8 ай бұрын
She’s a fool sorry you had to go through that 🤦🏾‍♀️
@MojoJayDet
@MojoJayDet 7 ай бұрын
The fact she grabbed her 1 year old baby just in case he was mad putting her child in harms way and laughed about it shows how bad of a person she is, she spewing out all the hate she felt when she was overweight to other people and only she matter nobody else, wow!
@BonnieHansen-w6l
@BonnieHansen-w6l 2 ай бұрын
She was willing to leave her kids with the father so of course she'll use the baby as a shield. Sad. Hope her children never see this.
@sun--shine3296
@sun--shine3296 Ай бұрын
@@BonnieHansen-w6lthey will find it and see her for what she is. The internet is always forever. Nothing leaves when it goes up
@SheSoIndigo
@SheSoIndigo Ай бұрын
This!!! 🎉❤💯🤦🏻‍♀️
@sashanoel167
@sashanoel167 Ай бұрын
​@user-li7lt4xq2t I didn't get the impression that she grabbed the baby for the purpose of using as a shield. She was already holding the baby when they were discussing her infidelity... sad all the same. She is being accountable for her actions and not blaming anyone but herself. 💌
@nellybelly3751
@nellybelly3751 Жыл бұрын
This is why you can’t be in a relationship with someone when you’re not happy with yourself no matter how much a person loves you it will never be enough until you love yourself you bleed on people who didn’t cut you. No judgment
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
Listennnnnnn
@monicacalais1039
@monicacalais1039 Жыл бұрын
Truth! 💯
@kie-kiecurvaceous2311
@kie-kiecurvaceous2311 Жыл бұрын
I was just thinking the same thing!
@lupin3rd22x7
@lupin3rd22x7 Жыл бұрын
An absolute fact low-self esteem is a HUGE red flag 🚩 for me 🚫🙅🏾‍♂️
@phillipedwards2500
@phillipedwards2500 Жыл бұрын
What are u talking about it was the husband that settled for a 400 pound woman ... her didn't like her ever u see he moved on amd got married .. he didn't want that fat girl lol
@arthurjones2454
@arthurjones2454 Жыл бұрын
She said she knew it was real when she got the divorce papers but honestly she knew it was real when her lil boyfriend gave her a reality check. She was honest in the story but it really sounds like she didn’t love her husband until she realized he wasn’t coming back
@phillipedwards2500
@phillipedwards2500 Жыл бұрын
Nawll the husband had to settle for her and I believe she knew he settled for her a fat lazy women... that got surgery became delusional and is now back fat
@fayeola6616
@fayeola6616 Жыл бұрын
I agree . She didn’t value what he brought to the table . She thought he was weak and deep down didn’t think he had the balls to leave . I appreciate her brutal honesty in the interview … as hard as it was to hear .
@kmombo8610
@kmombo8610 Жыл бұрын
@@fayeola6616she was disrespectful too she got pregnant by that other man. Meaning it was unprotected sex and if she knew he had a girlfriend then what made her think she was the only one? She could’ve gave him something.
@TheForkOnTheLeftist
@TheForkOnTheLeftist Жыл бұрын
she never loved anyone but herself tbh. she was mad she lost her meal ticket and that no one will care about her and her kid moving forward
@lockjaw3388
@lockjaw3388 Жыл бұрын
​@@kmombo8610 Thankyou bro 💯
@knowone4267
@knowone4267 Жыл бұрын
She had love and purposely threw it away. This amount of betrayal is sickening. This man loved her unconditionally and she treated him like trash. She tells the story so nonchalantly because she never truly and equally cared for her ex. Somehow she attempts to make herself the victim of the 'other man'. She's the worst kind of woman.
@ian_ford
@ian_ford Жыл бұрын
Kevin Samuels talked about this ad nauseum. That women wreck their own homes exactly like this. And these women are raising out girls and boys because women largely get custody. She's going to indirectly or directly teach her children to likewise be irresponsible with their emotional control.
@daninwangabia6270
@daninwangabia6270 Жыл бұрын
I noticed that nonchalant attitude during the interview. Gave me the shivers. She's a covert narcissists
@smallstye
@smallstye Жыл бұрын
I just went through this........ This is the worst kind of woman but she will forever live with the guilt of being trashy. Nothing like a trashy woman no man will ever truly respect her. Shame when this kind of woman is raising a teenage girl showing her these ways and have the new male friend buying the daughter things as well.... sickening but I keep them all in prayer I dont hate her God will deal with her
@chrisbranch231
@chrisbranch231 Жыл бұрын
​@@daninwangabia6270straight evil 👿 but honest
@chrisbranch231
@chrisbranch231 Жыл бұрын
​@@ian_fordand that's a problem
@nompumelolo
@nompumelolo 11 ай бұрын
"The wise woman builds her house, But the foolish pulls it down with her hands." -Proverbs 14:1 ❤
@Ms.B4real
@Ms.B4real 6 ай бұрын
Bingo!
@Proficient80wayz
@Proficient80wayz 3 ай бұрын
Hello
@Nika-u4p
@Nika-u4p 2 ай бұрын
Amen yess
@heartlessrobinson919
@heartlessrobinson919 Ай бұрын
That's cold I like that
@traceydumase
@traceydumase Ай бұрын
That part!
@cheveychevelle7976
@cheveychevelle7976 Жыл бұрын
When she said “he couldn’t have married the -130 her,her full delusion was revealed! Girl you crashed out over the 1st man who gawked over you!
@Animebinge
@Animebinge 7 ай бұрын
Yup 😂😂 it’s sad and sick. Now she fat again
@The.Nelliana
@The.Nelliana Ай бұрын
Seriously, that part had me screaming “girl be for real!”.. the delusion was real with this one
@RasLyons954
@RasLyons954 Жыл бұрын
Him being remarried is the silver lining of this horror story
@swainbenn1233
@swainbenn1233 10 ай бұрын
And the fact that he didn't lost faith in love and marriage ,is incredible
@sheambitious29lachelle17
@sheambitious29lachelle17 10 ай бұрын
happy for him
@marquise7200
@marquise7200 8 ай бұрын
He was the catch.
@LifeIsNotorious
@LifeIsNotorious 2 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for him too. He deserved better. Some people are only meant to be in your life temporarily and unfortunately some of them are spouses like this woman. I hope his new marriage last a lifetime.
@yourriderdie8472
@yourriderdie8472 Ай бұрын
I’m happy for him & happy she gets to witness it
@kadeidjalove4760
@kadeidjalove4760 Жыл бұрын
Everytime I watch a video, I can’t help but credit how great of an interviewer he is! He’s very strategic with his responses and how he uses his words. I absolutely love it
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
It’s comments like yours that keep me so focused on my craft. Thank you
@breakbeatmedia
@breakbeatmedia Жыл бұрын
🖤🖤
@garymartinez1460
@garymartinez1460 Жыл бұрын
Great minds think alike my sister. This brother should start interviewing more often. There compassion in his questions. No condemnation.🙏🏽🌎🇪🇨
@MarieTheGreat
@MarieTheGreat Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing!! He's an excellent interviewer!
@lanisewashington695
@lanisewashington695 Жыл бұрын
I concur! I love how he jumps in and how he asks questions that the audience is thinking about! It’s like watching a movie and the “who did it” scene happens. And he always throws in moral compass questions for the straight laced ppl like myself because I just wanna know why you did something.
@kay22100
@kay22100 10 ай бұрын
The devil really had a hold on her. My goodness. I’m glad she shared this because it’s a warning to other women. I don’t even have male friends outside of my husband! Don’t hold long convos with guys. None of that. Anyone is capable of what she did so it’s important to keep you guard up and guard yourself/marriage
@reginabyrd8903
@reginabyrd8903 10 ай бұрын
Correct
@tru_kru_bahbee24
@tru_kru_bahbee24 10 ай бұрын
Yes! Alot like the Tyler Perry 'Temptation' movie. Glad no one got physically harmed or infected with disease.. i hope her husband finds a partner that truly loves him
@ShineGutta
@ShineGutta 5 ай бұрын
The devil didn’t have anything to do with that, she made choices. Those choices bore fruit.
@ShimmySha
@ShimmySha 4 ай бұрын
@@ShineGuttalmao 😂
@LifeIsNotorious
@LifeIsNotorious 2 ай бұрын
Amen 💯
@ridgewood6176
@ridgewood6176 Жыл бұрын
The fact that she said she hated coming home while she had child let alone a husband says alot
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
Don’t think the child was part of that thought process
@JamesASharp
@JamesASharp Жыл бұрын
She's a woman. DUH!!
@navontaeloggins7357
@navontaeloggins7357 Жыл бұрын
@@TrappinAnonymous the child was definitely apart of it. She was neglecting her duties to her man AND child. She literally said she was ready to leave them both.
@traceydean2803
@traceydean2803 11 ай бұрын
@@TrappinAnonymousyea that child is definitely in the equation. Due to her selfish desires and wants, her child can’t have both parents in the home on a daily basis.
@andrebundles1037
@andrebundles1037 11 ай бұрын
Facts smh
@krich5694
@krich5694 Жыл бұрын
I hope and pray that the ex husband has fully healed from this betrayal and is in a loving and caring relationship with a woman that he deserves
@Allspadez
@Allspadez Жыл бұрын
In the current relationship climate I highly doubt it. Such degenerate behavior from his big ass wife and he had a child with this loser. A MGTOW lifestyle is the only answer for a man such as himself.
@southernkeyz1
@southernkeyz1 Жыл бұрын
He won’t recover..this is how toxic men are bred….he’s turns toxic and then he brings that toxicity to a woman and the cycle continues.
@kibiego
@kibiego Жыл бұрын
Unlikely.. people don't forget betrayal. But.. hopefully he's in a better place
@TheForkOnTheLeftist
@TheForkOnTheLeftist Жыл бұрын
yup a dude that lets this happen to him often never recovers. it's a defense mechanism@@kibiego
@SirWickMusic
@SirWickMusic Жыл бұрын
I think he did. Men heal quicker
@AtlChevi
@AtlChevi Жыл бұрын
It wasn't the weight loss to blame it was the mindset. This was the person she always were. She is an addict, similar to drug addicts. It was just dormant. Her first addiction was food then after the surgery it was attention and sex. When you have those surgeries you are supposed to go through therapy too. I guarantee she skipped that part.
@tpayne12no
@tpayne12no Жыл бұрын
I love your comment because it actually explains the root of the issue. Her weight loss only revealed the person that she actually was, not one that was created.
@johnh3641
@johnh3641 11 ай бұрын
This!!!
@tnizzii
@tnizzii 11 ай бұрын
Completely missed it.
@JamesPain1203
@JamesPain1203 10 ай бұрын
Great observation
@iwillargue
@iwillargue 10 ай бұрын
Super facts!
@ruelmaxwell5749
@ruelmaxwell5749 11 ай бұрын
There’s a lot to unpack in this interview. This woman settled for her husband he wasn’t the it for her he was her backup. With weight loss the men that she was really attracted to started paying her attention and she no longer wanted her husband. This is a real lesson
@backchattvsports2905
@backchattvsports2905 10 ай бұрын
Exactly
@LouisianaGoon337
@LouisianaGoon337 9 ай бұрын
That is crazy
@Brookintellect
@Brookintellect 9 ай бұрын
Nah, you can say that for most people. Her options changed, so she changed with them
@felicity817
@felicity817 8 ай бұрын
Fact!!
@hamhockjenkins
@hamhockjenkins 8 ай бұрын
@@Brookintellectsounds like y’all saying the same thing.
@chemmieee
@chemmieee 11 ай бұрын
So let me get this straight….he didn’t emotionally neglect her,he didn’t physically neglect her ,he ain’t emotionally cheat or physically cheat,he wasn’t beating on her ,he was a good man and she chose to cheat on him? Just because she felt fine again? And looked good again??? Please somebody tell me if I heard this correctly because omg that poor man😭😭😭
@LouisianaGoon337
@LouisianaGoon337 9 ай бұрын
Believe it or not alot of women think this way
@stillsolid5785
@stillsolid5785 9 ай бұрын
Sounds about right SMH
@Nollymovies263
@Nollymovies263 8 ай бұрын
Woman loves chaos believe me, if you don’t give it to them, especially when you are a guy who is too loving treating her right all the time always available believe me 70% of the time they will cheat on you. Why (familiarity) which deems you monotonous ( boring).
@erriaelizabeth6382
@erriaelizabeth6382 7 ай бұрын
Yeah !! Bc ain’t no way
@ericascarberry4951
@ericascarberry4951 6 ай бұрын
Not only that she got pregnant and didn’t even know which dude was the dad !! Insane, then aborted the baby … she’s a mess
@FF-fd4tm
@FF-fd4tm 11 ай бұрын
I just recently dropped 40lbs and counting, I’m also in the nursing program. My man stuck by me when I was 280lbs! I got really sick and he went with me to the hospital. The dr said she’s FAT and need to loose weight. My hubby cooked for me healthy delicious meals and restored my health. I don’t care about attention. I don’t care about the money I will be making. I will always remember the man that took on me and my two kids from a previous marriage. Unless he steps out on me, I can never!!
@tbee1575
@tbee1575 Жыл бұрын
Girl, bye. You weren’t his friend. That is not what friends do to each other. Drop that “he was my best friend” thing.
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
Damn
@youngodyssey16
@youngodyssey16 Жыл бұрын
It’s sad how so many women are cheering her on..like this is the same behavior that they want to date wt men over lol knowing damn well that they pick aint shhh in the 1st place
@IamBigDess
@IamBigDess Жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@denisejohnson1893
@denisejohnson1893 Жыл бұрын
That's her truth!
@idkkk.u.rn.
@idkkk.u.rn. Жыл бұрын
Sometimes you don't realize a good thing until its gone. When she lost him she realized she lost a good thing, which was her best friend.
@corneisharatcliffe8053
@corneisharatcliffe8053 5 ай бұрын
I absolutely love the honesty, I see alot ppl in the comments downing this woman, not saying its right at all, men do this all the time ONLY difference the woman doesn't leave. Understand she knows she made a mistake maybe telling her truth is healing for her. I can all most bet, not one person "well sum you have", tell your most embarrassing confession for the world to critique you. Sum of us get lessons late in life, she happens to be a late one 🤷 maybe her watching him be happy is her karma
@ObjectivelyBias
@ObjectivelyBias Жыл бұрын
She lied, cheated, got divorced, and took his child to another state. A sorry woman.
@gyasiwilliams5102
@gyasiwilliams5102 11 ай бұрын
Damn
@ObjectivelyBias
@ObjectivelyBias 11 ай бұрын
@@gyasiwilliams5102 A true case study
@jonathanberry8255
@jonathanberry8255 11 ай бұрын
I was just saying this!
@ObjectivelyBias
@ObjectivelyBias 11 ай бұрын
@@jonathanberry8255 And she showed no remorse
@tiffanyjay20
@tiffanyjay20 11 ай бұрын
She had to go to a new state because everyone in her own state probably already knew of her, or already had her already. She wouldn’t have been able to date and stay where she was
@MrJreed1000
@MrJreed1000 Жыл бұрын
she traded a lifetime with a great man who treated her like a queen...for 18 months of being a sidechick...and a jumpoff 😅 i cant with women anymore😂
@cryptoglenn
@cryptoglenn Жыл бұрын
These women are lost as fuck
@music3n1ent
@music3n1ent Жыл бұрын
I FEEL YA BRO, SO IN OTHER WORDS WHEN A LADY IS BOARD SHE CAN STEP OUT, SHE SAID DUDE WAS EVERTHING BUT SOMTHING WAS MISSING, YOU CAN HAVE 99 GREAT POINTS BUT THAT 1 POINT CAN BE A EXCUSE FOR HER TIPPING OUT..
@whisper2284
@whisper2284 Жыл бұрын
@@music3n1entbruh, this is universal. It isn’t specific to any gender. Humans are lazy and will take the easy fix. Talk to your mate before the marriage. Learn how to effectively communicate.
@LadieK718
@LadieK718 Жыл бұрын
100 percent agree. Nonsense
@retrogaming4u865
@retrogaming4u865 Жыл бұрын
Women Like to be Cuddled Like Wounded Little Birds And Escape all forms of Accountability Then Turn Around And Somehow Make It About Her So Now She's The Victim ? That's Wild My G ! She Had a Man That Treated her So Good even Despite her Obesity Yet She Felt That's The Keyword Felt Undesirable & Bored and Wanted To Spice Things up With a Bum *** Nigga And Turned around and single handedly Wrecked a Happy Home In search for Validation And Adventure Only for Dude To Turn around and Peel Out Like It Ain't Nobody's Bussiness Dude Said Peace And Bounced Now She Is left Alone SMH These Modern Chicks are for The Streets
@EarlSWWarren
@EarlSWWarren Жыл бұрын
She NEVER wanted the Man that she had…she took what was available to her😢😢. A man can’t stand up to the cunning and manipulation that’s within a woman
@ThrillSmith
@ThrillSmith Жыл бұрын
SOOOOO true. After not being a FAT ass she went looking for someone slimmer and better.
@stupidrules1000
@stupidrules1000 Жыл бұрын
That is real. She thought that she was settling the whole time. So when she haf options, she stepped out. Classic, fuck around and find out. She fucked around and found out that she wasn't shit, and her husband is actually the desireable one.
@reek1111
@reek1111 Жыл бұрын
That’s true but I def don’t put up with none of that bs
@Manlikeflexzy
@Manlikeflexzy Жыл бұрын
This is the absolute truth.
@darklordbruce6593
@darklordbruce6593 Жыл бұрын
​@@stupidrules1000👍🏽💯
@mayes070384
@mayes070384 4 ай бұрын
The level of pride in her voice is crazy!!
@deemunson2919
@deemunson2919 Жыл бұрын
Crazy that she calls the dating pool trash as if she's not part of the problem. What good man in his right mind would want a single mother who destroyed her marriage to a good man and aborted her child because she was afraid her husband wasn't the father?
@altonza
@altonza Жыл бұрын
Damn😮
@Sigma2HisAlpha
@Sigma2HisAlpha Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@lyfeofbill2764
@lyfeofbill2764 Жыл бұрын
Good lord! When you read it, it sounds 100 time worse lol.
@freeagentbeats6170
@freeagentbeats6170 Жыл бұрын
Exactly and any man that would have trust issues I know I would do why bother
@NOCDIB
@NOCDIB Жыл бұрын
Women NEVER see themselves as the problem. The most toxic chick will tell you that everyone else is toxic and she's the normal one.
@Olusegun10
@Olusegun10 Жыл бұрын
I was her husband. Not literally of course. But I lived through the horrors of betrayal, the tragedy of my broken family, the loss of time with my son, the shame of having to carry the moniker " Divorced" added to my name for the rest of my life, the sadness of people thinking I was the guilty party in our divorce (Because I refused to talk about what happened), etc, all because my ex felt she needed some "excitement", even though I took care of our family and was supportive of her and her widowed Mum. Of Course, I had to take a level of accountability though, and I look a hard look into the mirror to see what I could've done better as a husband. This tragedy was a gift though. I divorced her, deepened my relationship with Christ, became red-pilled, travelled across South America, and South East Asia where I ultimately met the love of my life, a precious woman of God who is my best friend, and true helper in every sense of the word. Thank God for Romans 8:28. Thank God for Christ who gives new beginnings. Thank God who gives beauty for ashes.
@jessebaseal6577
@jessebaseal6577 Жыл бұрын
Wow mehn I'm sorry you had to go through the horrors. (What do you mean by not literally though, at the very start?)
@ryanmcdaniels5014
@ryanmcdaniels5014 Жыл бұрын
Red pill and passport bro 😎 you won my G
@Sigma2HisAlpha
@Sigma2HisAlpha Жыл бұрын
What a wonderful comment. God bless you and your family
@Sigma2HisAlpha
@Sigma2HisAlpha Жыл бұрын
@@jessebaseal6577basically saying what she did to her ex is almost exactly what was done to him.
@tray6441
@tray6441 Жыл бұрын
You rose from the ashes and took flight phoenix style🔥. Congratulations to you and may God bless you with more testimonies bro🤝🏾
@jutanareece9380
@jutanareece9380 11 ай бұрын
She’s definitely honest. I can respect her honesty
@lordshango4184
@lordshango4184 11 ай бұрын
Do you call this “honest??” I don’t know what you’re looking at, but try telling the people she hurt, betrayed and insulted by her actions that she was being “honest.” Disgusting!!
@dalmeshasloss7765
@dalmeshasloss7765 5 ай бұрын
​@@lordshango4184I mean yes. Short terms, being honest is telling the truth and accepting accountability for your actions.. good or bad. Thats what she did.
@lordshango4184
@lordshango4184 5 ай бұрын
@@dalmeshasloss7765, I don’t know where you see/hear honesty, truth and accountability. I don’t know where you see/hear regret, humility and/or taking responsibility. There’s a huge difference between recounting a wrong you did and genuinely being remorseful, penitent and contrite! You bet she’d still be in that adulterous relationship if she hadn’t been dumped by her equally morally bankrupt paramour!! How you think her untruthful “confession” is a virtue, honesty or accountability makes me wonder where our world is heading! Her only regret was being dumped by the person she cheated with. Think again.
@mayes070384
@mayes070384 4 ай бұрын
she's promoting a book
@willbejoyce5936
@willbejoyce5936 3 ай бұрын
You’re 💯 right
@mrs.cinnamoneverett7906
@mrs.cinnamoneverett7906 Жыл бұрын
I lost over 100 pounds. I’m very fortunate to have my husband. He loved me at my heaviest, always made me feel special, and love me the same today. I love my husband’s soul and spirit. No amount of weight loss would ever change that. Keep God at the head of your marriage and in every aspect of your life. The Lord Will be done in Jesus name! Amen.
@jehum.5374
@jehum.5374 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 💞🙏
@JayStubbs2016
@JayStubbs2016 Жыл бұрын
This is great, I hope you always maintain that thought process
@jasonturner4452
@jasonturner4452 Жыл бұрын
🙏
@JamesASharp
@JamesASharp Жыл бұрын
You better not be lying.
@moniqueknox1363
@moniqueknox1363 11 ай бұрын
Amen
@daninwangabia6270
@daninwangabia6270 Жыл бұрын
This interview confirmed everything I've always said about cheating married women: 1. They'll NEVER tell you the whole truth when caught. 2. There's usually more than one sex partner other than the one they are caught with. If he didn't ask her about other lovers, she would NEVER have mentioned it. Trust me, there's more scandalous details than she let out. Still I applaud her for taking some measure of responsibility.
@karamelaniekayemarci2183
@karamelaniekayemarci2183 Жыл бұрын
i wanna know what the side dude looks like, was he in shape?
@franknitti1190
@franknitti1190 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@munix9351
@munix9351 Жыл бұрын
🙄🙄🙄
@franknitti1190
@franknitti1190 Жыл бұрын
@@munix9351 She’s definitely trash
@adaezeonuigbo1448
@adaezeonuigbo1448 Жыл бұрын
😏😏😏
@altovisemiller9900
@altovisemiller9900 10 ай бұрын
She talked about how he is a gem of a man and how she was so lucky to have him! He showed her Agape love. Then she says, "But I wasn't being fulfilled in the marriage...smh Im so glad he remarried, and i hope he's getting the unconditional love he deserves!"❤
@perrykeshahwalker5321
@perrykeshahwalker5321 Жыл бұрын
The one thing I do agree with her on is that marriage takes a whole lot of work. This September 8th, my wife and I celebrated 27yrs of marriage and let me tell you, we put in the work and it has been worth it. Till this day we have never cheated on each other. Thank God for that.
@Nonofyobusiness
@Nonofyobusiness Жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@Jnicks01
@Jnicks01 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the example sir
@dewayneperry8395
@dewayneperry8395 Жыл бұрын
R u sure?
@perrykeshahwalker5321
@perrykeshahwalker5321 Жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY!
@jonydory622
@jonydory622 Жыл бұрын
Love it ❤️
@alangomez5248
@alangomez5248 Жыл бұрын
You see how calmly she says. He was mine sorry honey He was mine. Very hard to believe that she has moved on from that situation
@one_ice_cold_chiq
@one_ice_cold_chiq 7 ай бұрын
Thank you!! I said that the whole time, she STILL wants him! In her mind, at least it would have been "worth it".
@IMTinaMarieJ
@IMTinaMarieJ 5 ай бұрын
I was looking for this comment cause I thought same. She still sound delusional
@foondesignsceo73
@foondesignsceo73 Жыл бұрын
All these comments, and not ONE woman sympathized with the Husband or mentioned him at all. I just hear "she held herself accountable." Now that's crazy! She just had an AMAZING guy. Selfishness is inside and factors makes it materialize, and with her the attention brought hers to the surface. DOPE page and Interview Sir! DEFINITELY Subscribed.
@missmaxinethompson7407
@missmaxinethompson7407 Жыл бұрын
I agree and I definitely feel it for the husband. It's got me reflecting on how a good person always seems to be attracted to bad!!
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
Respect. N nobody pity’s men. We know this.
@foondesignsceo73
@foondesignsceo73 Жыл бұрын
@@TrappinAnonymous Indeed, Salute brotha!
@robertmciver2013
@robertmciver2013 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. It seems like the women are more so cheering her for being honest and open. Like that not point at all. Also did you catch end when she said they co parent but she move to another state with her daughter? I'm sorry, but I am Damm, you cheat on and get to keep my child moving to another state
@rastafari9447
@rastafari9447 Жыл бұрын
Not one woman smh
@MrsBalfour2U
@MrsBalfour2U 9 ай бұрын
I admire her honesty! She could have made excuses. She just explained exactly what happened!!
@LouisianaGoon337
@LouisianaGoon337 9 ай бұрын
Yeah you would take her side
@Iknowyoumadnow
@Iknowyoumadnow 9 ай бұрын
​@@LouisianaGoon337tha siStAH coDe is skrong 💪🏾
@MrsBalfour2U
@MrsBalfour2U 9 ай бұрын
@@LouisianaGoon337 What side is there to take? She spoke her truth. She didn’t make any excuse about it. How is my comment taking any sides? Deal with whatever hurt you’re feeling & stop projecting under comments.
@MrsBalfour2U
@MrsBalfour2U 9 ай бұрын
@ugoneatchocornbread I’ve been married to a black man for 21 years. I have a great black father, brothers uncles & cousins. My son is a wonderful black young man. There is nothing at all deep rooted except my love for the black men in my life. It seems you have deep rooted hate & are trying hard to project.
@coppertonedone
@coppertonedone 9 ай бұрын
@ugoneatchocornbreadyou’re 🌰 🥜 🔩 😂
@Kscomelli
@Kscomelli Жыл бұрын
"Relationships are greener where you water it." Love this.
@jamarr27
@jamarr27 Жыл бұрын
She was crushed... when she found out that he was married... when she was married the entire time.... how the HELL!!!! This is how stupid some people are. She is so unworthy of trust from anybody, bruh. Jesus .H Christ . She was so willing to throw away her family for betrayal.... her man did right and ditched her fam.
@SoulSearch11110
@SoulSearch11110 11 ай бұрын
What does the H stand for?
@jamarr27
@jamarr27 11 ай бұрын
@@SoulSearch11110 loooool I don't think it stands for anything. I just use it because it sounds a little funny.
@TheOnly_JOB
@TheOnly_JOB Жыл бұрын
That man will never be the same. Regardless how nice he is.
@asdffdsa898
@asdffdsa898 Жыл бұрын
He better learn how to be ruthless
@KNByam
@KNByam Жыл бұрын
No he will not. He's free.
@dennisj3
@dennisj3 Жыл бұрын
I think he'll be fine because of who he is love will always find him. The embarrassment and having to see him happy made her relocate.
@soppres7406
@soppres7406 Жыл бұрын
He will be find because he understands what a lot of people don't...Love is never contingent upon the other person. He loves her still and always will but he also knows that she is not mentally, spiritually, and emotionally ready for love. For too many people love is transactional, a feeling, but real love is energy embodied within the self. People who know love knows I can love you but not be satisfied with your behavior. You can love 1000 people, but accepting the behavior of a 1000 people is different.
@asdffdsa898
@asdffdsa898 Жыл бұрын
@@soppres7406 Love is something a man radiates from himself. In order for a man to be oblivious to a woman who cheats like she did, could not possibly love himself. He remarried so quickly because like many individuals like himself he didn't learn the lesson life was trying to teach him...instead he is doing what he is "supposed" to do. He will either get that same lesson or age out the game. He is goofy af.
@mleedeau
@mleedeau 10 ай бұрын
She is so self aware and honest. I like that she can admit how wrong she was and express regret.
@reginabyrd8903
@reginabyrd8903 10 ай бұрын
Right
@brandonwill2977
@brandonwill2977 9 ай бұрын
Regret!!? Where?? This woman is a horrible person.. you can tell she still wishes the relationship worked
@youugly2037
@youugly2037 9 ай бұрын
Self aware of what
@thomasbrown7199
@thomasbrown7199 9 ай бұрын
Right
@hamshank8892
@hamshank8892 9 ай бұрын
She only have regrets when things didn't go as planned
@1515asdfghjkl
@1515asdfghjkl Жыл бұрын
And so glad her ex found someone that actually appreciates him and treats him with respect. He did deserve so much more respect and so does his daughter.
@chafrajayfra32
@chafrajayfra32 Жыл бұрын
The way she felt about the side guy is how women get caught up with a man and do illegal things for them.
@bmizrahi1782
@bmizrahi1782 11 ай бұрын
Limerence. If you've never heard the term look up the word "limerence". Every teenager starting puberty should be taught about so that they know how to properly navigate those confusing emotions and the illusion.
@indiganoir
@indiganoir Жыл бұрын
I’m being completely honest when I say, if you listen to her closely she is exemplifying everything that is a covert narcissist… the duality, the deep sense of regret but tied with some sort of ‘rationale’. It’s insane but this gave me a sense of peace to know that these people do get their karma.
@alisasmith1951
@alisasmith1951 Жыл бұрын
I completely agree! She never loved him. She just settled and it was all about her a##!
@SherryMoore-ij1qc
@SherryMoore-ij1qc Жыл бұрын
I agree completely
@JamesASharp
@JamesASharp Жыл бұрын
It is what it is.
@daninwangabia6270
@daninwangabia6270 Жыл бұрын
You can say that again. I felt cold chills listening to her talk casually about something that gave smother human being sleepless nights
@anthonymark2516
@anthonymark2516 Жыл бұрын
@@alisasmith1951 You can see the delusion of the modern woman. We can all see she did not deserve him. While she convinced herself he was not enough. This is the curse of hypergamy.
@Jade-yu8mh
@Jade-yu8mh 8 ай бұрын
I’m so happy the ex husband got a happy ending and respected himself! But not only did she cheat on her husband she put another man that didn’t even want her before her CHILD which is so crazy and lame.
@He_So_Krayz
@He_So_Krayz Жыл бұрын
I’ll share my story. Wife got cancer lost her weight, hair, breast and her mind in the process. Did everything to comfort her in the process. Married for 7 years at the time. She goes through treatment and beats cancer. All of features come back, she gets her health back and becomes the woman she was but better than she was after cancer. She then cheats and i find out but i keep silent. I just said we’re getting a divorce and that she has to leave. I get called all kinds of names, and lashed out upon but she eventually leaves with our two kids. For about 6 months everybody falls in line to the new life apart. About 7-8 months into beating cancer in came back but this time she’s alone. It came back more aggressive and she died in a few months. I got my kids back. Due to us not getting the divorce finalized the army gave my family the life insurance policy. All in all staying calm and true to myself karma came back around with a price. I got everything i wanted (my family) but they lost their mom and I’m torn on that aspect but life is good now. No more drama no more stress.
@MrLashai93
@MrLashai93 Жыл бұрын
You kept the covenant. proud.
@Farmacy75234
@Farmacy75234 Жыл бұрын
Cold blooded 😮
@markmansour85
@markmansour85 Жыл бұрын
God is great and is the best of planners
@Mstechgf
@Mstechgf Жыл бұрын
You cold
@colinw7205
@colinw7205 Жыл бұрын
@@Mstechgf So it was fine for his wife to cheat on him after he stood by her through her first run of cancer??? We all should act and be right b/c you never know justice/karma will come back knocking on our door.
@NatHenrickClarke
@NatHenrickClarke Жыл бұрын
Good for her husband, dont allow ppl to treat you any kinda way, hopefully he found someone who respects and honors him, fellas you deserve to be respected!
@Notorious_Conundrum
@Notorious_Conundrum Жыл бұрын
Both the interviewer and the interviewee did well in speaking about this story😮
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that
@breakbeatmedia
@breakbeatmedia Жыл бұрын
Favorite part of the episode?
@landonprice5656
@landonprice5656 Жыл бұрын
Question of do you think he felt betrayed? I didn't take that into consideration. Men love working out with women buy the surgery so swift/massive like you blindsided.
@TheresaofTheWorld
@TheresaofTheWorld 10 ай бұрын
I wanted the interviewer to ask about the baby a bit more. As well as if she still wanted the man. Because both of these thoughts were glaring! I kept waiting for him to ask!
@malcomlittle251
@malcomlittle251 11 ай бұрын
Big credit to her. I hope her story helps others who do not want to ruin their marriage or exclusive relationships they already have. ✌️&Luv
@RiQWitDaBliQ
@RiQWitDaBliQ Жыл бұрын
This is so DISTURBING that , fellas if you find out your being stepped out on don’t ask for a explanation just WALK away and don’t look back…
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
True
@FreeTraderFREEMAN
@FreeTraderFREEMAN Жыл бұрын
💯
@jasoncamphor3027
@jasoncamphor3027 11 ай бұрын
FACTS!!!!!
@gottagetit2943
@gottagetit2943 10 ай бұрын
What do you suggest women do when this happens?
@IMTinaMarieJ
@IMTinaMarieJ 5 ай бұрын
@@gottagetit2943same rule goes for both men and & women
@4theluvoftiffany
@4theluvoftiffany Жыл бұрын
The fact that she “cheated” on her side piece too, means she was sleeping on her husband with multiple people. She was playing with that man life. I love that he’s literally playing with her mental but treating her kindly. Many of us don’t realize how strong a person has to be to do that. Strength isn’t the one who can win a fight but the one who knows how to calm and cool their anger.
@TheForkOnTheLeftist
@TheForkOnTheLeftist Жыл бұрын
I respectfully disagree. I'd say pain is the only true teacher for a woman. treating them nicely or holding it all in like a stonewall does nothing but paint a target on the next sucker
@coolerthancj94
@coolerthancj94 Жыл бұрын
@@TheForkOnTheLeftist As she admits to being a selfish person, having to watch him do just fine, or possibly flourish, without her AND in spite of her betrayal…. while she has to wade in the pissy dating pool….. That seems to have gotten her attention!!!!
@TheForkOnTheLeftist
@TheForkOnTheLeftist Жыл бұрын
@@coolerthancj94 I don't favor soft deterrents. I like to know shit will never happen again. That's just me
@JamesASharp
@JamesASharp Жыл бұрын
Women are consequential learners. It's sad that so many women have to literally destroy their lives, including the lives of others in order to finally "see the light" and change. But most of the time, it's already too late. This adulterous woman's story is not unique at all. She's literally just another statistic.
@Wgz945
@Wgz945 Жыл бұрын
@@coolerthancj94no disrespect but isn’t she a drop in that pissy dating pool?
@tomjones3629
@tomjones3629 Жыл бұрын
She was married and getting ran through. Nothing admirable or fly about it. She has no remorse over her actions
@samw7419
@samw7419 Жыл бұрын
She had the nerve to say the dating pool is garbage. How are you judging people when you are a whole cheater and liar.
@ValE-zn6zf
@ValE-zn6zf 11 ай бұрын
Great interview. I can appreciate her honesty and him for not coming off as judgmental like most interviewers.
@abdulmujeebquick4452
@abdulmujeebquick4452 Жыл бұрын
So… she says she wouldn’t go back because she was unfulfilled then turns around and says she should have fought for her marriage. One of those is a lie. 😂
@lql1094
@lql1094 Жыл бұрын
She was NEVER into her husband. She has the idea of marriage as respect (in the mind) not being necessary.
@hearme4581
@hearme4581 Жыл бұрын
She regrets what her life turned into.
@tpayne12no
@tpayne12no Жыл бұрын
She only regrets how she feels, not how she treated her ex-husband. Her mentality is that of filth, and I don't feel sorry for any repercussions that she experiences.
@Sigma2HisAlpha
@Sigma2HisAlpha Жыл бұрын
Girl. That is called LUST. Nobody falls in love faster than two coworkers already in relationships 🙄People really take their lives as a joke and the lives of others as just a trifle thing.. like nothing to just so easily discard them. It begins in the mind and if anyone wants to leave spouse and children and discard all responsibility, you’ve been duped by the enemy. She needs a deliverance. She is SO full of herself and prideful. Just because folks loose weight don’t mean their heart or soul is also dropping weight that’s necessary. She was obviously not grounded and rooted as a person and certain not in Christ. What a shame man. I feel sorry for her ex husband and child. What a stupid way to throw your life away. This is tragic.
@deonwaller9457
@deonwaller9457 Жыл бұрын
Great way of putting it straight! 💯
@Sigma2HisAlpha
@Sigma2HisAlpha Жыл бұрын
@@deonwaller9457 thank you
@tysmith2138
@tysmith2138 Жыл бұрын
Yelp! Just an insecure woman that had been fat all of her life and wanted to see what it was to be desired by other men when she lost weight! Now she's on KZbin confessing her stupidity! And still looking overweight!
@samw7419
@samw7419 Жыл бұрын
When you mix sex with emotions and self worth this is what you get. Unfortunately alot of women can not separate sex from emotions.
@Jame6999
@Jame6999 Жыл бұрын
It's nothing new . Same story then, now and the future Don't forget people die over these scenarios
@backchattvsports2905
@backchattvsports2905 Жыл бұрын
I love the way she says that she has relocated this means I kinda want to make my ex husband suffer by not being able to see his kid easily even tho he did nothing wrong! She's bitter but acting like everything is cool. She's a terrible person who cheated and lied and didn't even care that she hurt her husband. She was willing to give up her family for a feeling! She even cheated on the side piece with other guys. Stay away from this kind of person trust me she has no real remorse!
@tpayne12no
@tpayne12no Жыл бұрын
She reasons like a child. Her reactions are that of a tall child, not an adult.
@backchattvsports2905
@backchattvsports2905 Жыл бұрын
Exactly just like my own ex girlfriend unfortunately!
@MK-ss7yw
@MK-ss7yw 11 ай бұрын
that's why whenever you deal with black women like this ( Dog her) every chance you get. ✊️
@a100percentReal
@a100percentReal 11 ай бұрын
​@@tpayne12noWomen are grown children.
@FF-fd4tm
@FF-fd4tm 11 ай бұрын
Yeah I low key heard that too. I was thinking why would she take her daughter away from her dad. If anything she should give the daughter to the dad, so the daughter can have a stable home!
@Mudoh415
@Mudoh415 5 ай бұрын
You let him hit it raw. You didn’t have second thoughts. Now you a single mom!
@shaychauntaye7047
@shaychauntaye7047 Жыл бұрын
I am so thankful I learned these hard lessons early. A good man is to be appreciated just as much as a good woman deserves to be appreciated. Cheating is intoxicating because somehow in the twisted brain it’s fun to be sneaky. Once you lose your person all of sudden the side relationship isn’t as fun anymore. Crazy stuff
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
Crazy how that works
@jamesjones9355
@jamesjones9355 Жыл бұрын
​@@TrappinAnonymoushe lied to me but she was lying to her husband
@JamesASharp
@JamesASharp Жыл бұрын
It's always funny how that happens. 😂
@toddmuhammad3827
@toddmuhammad3827 11 ай бұрын
Infidelity is a learned behavior that starts at home.
@Dirtysouth171
@Dirtysouth171 Жыл бұрын
I just realized she was willing to use their daughter as a human shield if the father snapped and went after her. I’m not saying that was her actual intentions, but when you pick your daughter up just in case, that goes to show how selfish she really is.
@tpayne12no
@tpayne12no Жыл бұрын
Oh it was definitely her intention. She ain't shit and she knows it.
@Jbbilll
@Jbbilll 6 ай бұрын
Sick
@LifeIsNotorious
@LifeIsNotorious 2 ай бұрын
She didn’t give a crap about their daughter anyway. She was willing to leave them. She was a lousy cheating wife and a bad mother. She ain’t 💩
@LifeIsNotorious
@LifeIsNotorious 2 ай бұрын
She didn’t give a crap about their daughter anyway. She was willing to leave them. She was a lousy cheating wife and a bad mother. She ain’t sh-
@KingELB
@KingELB Жыл бұрын
Y’all peep when she said she cheated on her side dude because he wasn’t acting right that shows you that she really is not a good women
@Floss2x
@Floss2x Ай бұрын
Yooooo this was the best interview!! I loved every piece of it! Thank you sista girl for your truth ❤
@Juswub80
@Juswub80 Жыл бұрын
If someone isn’t used to getting attention, you definitely don’t wanna be in a relationship with them when they start getting it.
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
Whew
@ashleynicole6210
@ashleynicole6210 Жыл бұрын
Okayy mf don’t know how to act lol
@deontajohnson5537
@deontajohnson5537 Жыл бұрын
Man 💯 real shit
@dazdilinger1151
@dazdilinger1151 Жыл бұрын
So they f0c7 ninjas
@chumbanga
@chumbanga Жыл бұрын
Bingo 👏🏾
@mactherealestateman
@mactherealestateman Жыл бұрын
The difference between love and lust: love lasts a lifetime, and lust lasts 4 a season.
@letscarryit
@letscarryit Жыл бұрын
This is a perfect picture of The deceitfulness of Sin . Sin will always take you where you don’t want to go , and then keep you longer then you want to stay .
@miroshala81
@miroshala81 Ай бұрын
This.
@IamBigDess
@IamBigDess Жыл бұрын
This saddens me because there are women out here begging to be picked like she was by someone who loves them wholesomely for how they already are when they meet them & here she go fucking up for the rest of us 🙄
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
Sheesh
@missmaxinethompson7407
@missmaxinethompson7407 Жыл бұрын
Or been married to an abusive controlling possessive monster and still willing to be faithful until your daughter dies as a result of the abuse/an accident and a part of you dies. THEN you accept that it has to end...
@jaystayyfadedd
@jaystayyfadedd Жыл бұрын
This 🤦🏽‍♀️
@davyunwashington3613
@davyunwashington3613 Жыл бұрын
@@missmaxinethompson7407personal trauma
@MrShakeem20
@MrShakeem20 Жыл бұрын
​@missmaxinethompson7407 ........😐 imma pray.... for whomever is going through that...
@williambernabe5615
@williambernabe5615 11 ай бұрын
The sad thing is, I bet The ex-husband is the one that paid for the surgery
@i.r.6397
@i.r.6397 Жыл бұрын
Wow! She's so selfish that she even considered leaving her baby. I hope she falls in love with someone who does the same thing to her, but worse!
@blackshinigami6776
@blackshinigami6776 Жыл бұрын
On God I say the same thing she doesn't deserve any marriage for the rest of her life
@soppres7406
@soppres7406 Жыл бұрын
Why would you want a "selfish" mother to take care of a child? That's how people end up in therapy. The best thing she could have did was allow the father to provide a stable home for the child.
@josephcoatofmanycolors
@josephcoatofmanycolors Жыл бұрын
She will leave a miserable life.
@ciaraexantus5063
@ciaraexantus5063 Жыл бұрын
When she said they don’t make them like him no more I felt that. If you have a great person in your life don’t take them for granted. And let no one dupe you out of your blessing of a great marriage. So many of us often take a great thing and ruin it because the very thing we ask for we don’t know how to appreciate it until it’s gone. Salute to great men and women who are out here honoring one another for real. Her story truly is a cautionary tale and I salute her for having the courage to speak her truth. Oh and like she said the grass is greener where you water it!
@juelzadebisi1898
@juelzadebisi1898 9 ай бұрын
Attention seeking is a major addiction & can be detrimental to a person’s life when not handled properly.
@Jay-uf6wq
@Jay-uf6wq Жыл бұрын
I respect the hell out of her EX!! He handle the situation perfectly cause it had all the ingredients to go left but didn’t because he had his emotions in check. I wishing for his level of mental strength in situations cause just from this interview I can tell she was cocky as hell with it when all of this was going on😅.
@phillipedwards2500
@phillipedwards2500 Жыл бұрын
His emotions were in check because he knew we settled for a fat 400 pound woman that was to lazy to workout and got surgery and became delusional... now she's back fat
@charlesanderson8335
@charlesanderson8335 11 ай бұрын
He had to control his emotion because she was trying to make him go insane
@grovedwayne390
@grovedwayne390 11 ай бұрын
I felt the same way. Hearing this face to face can make a man go Forensic Files for real
@gottagetit2943
@gottagetit2943 10 ай бұрын
@@grovedwayne390some weak ass shit. Kill because you got cheated on? Lol
@whoaNelley122
@whoaNelley122 Жыл бұрын
When you said “it’s interesting how you said you don’t want to step out of your relationship but emotionally you’ve stepped out” JUST WOW Chris ! That was right on the nose. People don’t understand.
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
Lol thank you for noticing
@joannepace-ms5ub
@joannepace-ms5ub Жыл бұрын
Been there, not a good feeling
@ericacaines2529
@ericacaines2529 Жыл бұрын
That's where it all starts; emotional attachments.
@rickydiah4865
@rickydiah4865 Жыл бұрын
listening to this just shows me nobody is safe... and being a good man doesn't make any difference
@azarel7
@azarel7 Жыл бұрын
True
@michaelacheampong2869
@michaelacheampong2869 Жыл бұрын
It doesn't pay, u have to search real hard to find a good woman
@ToLovelyJesus
@ToLovelyJesus 11 ай бұрын
@@michaelacheampong2869 And you won’t find her while defaming all women.
@GoatHolyfield
@GoatHolyfield 7 ай бұрын
Nice guys finish last
@Surrendered517
@Surrendered517 11 ай бұрын
I cringe when I hear people say "work husband" or "work wife." Assigning the title of husband/wife to someone who is NOT your spouse diminishes the title. The sacredness of marriage has changed so much. Lying and cheating, sneaking around, being deceitful always ends messy & your representation takes a major hit!
@LifeIsNotorious
@LifeIsNotorious 2 ай бұрын
Yes I don’t believe in “work spouses” either. It doesn’t sound right. They’re co-workers and that’s all they should be.
@JesusLovesYouSoMuch1
@JesusLovesYouSoMuch1 2 күн бұрын
Right?! It’s soooo cringey and just vile to me.
@josephlowe7064
@josephlowe7064 Жыл бұрын
This is a horrible story. This brother loved her when she was 320 pounds. How do you walk away from that. She was having unprotected sex outside her marriage and she goes and talks to her pastor.
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
Tough story.
@breakbeatmedia
@breakbeatmedia Жыл бұрын
Very tough pill
@rosalindgentry6633
@rosalindgentry6633 Жыл бұрын
I said the same thing. Now it's I wasn't fulfilled in my marriage. You said best friends in my mind that means you can talk about anything. My bad. Yeah
@OliverKoolO
@OliverKoolO Жыл бұрын
This is a cautionary tale for couples, married ppl, and folks succeeding on their fitness journeys. Also Its good to hear kindness shown in adversity. Alot of ppl are not this honestly
@MsEvans-tt9qc
@MsEvans-tt9qc Жыл бұрын
I can really appreciate her being truthful about her story!! She held herself accountable.
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
Which is rare!
@breakbeatmedia
@breakbeatmedia Жыл бұрын
🙌
@youngodyssey16
@youngodyssey16 Жыл бұрын
If that holding yourself accountable after destroying everyone in the home then women have it easy 😂 a man can’t like a pick without it showing your child how much your father don’t respect his mother
@GoldenHunni
@GoldenHunni Жыл бұрын
​@@youngodyssey16Says who? My husband follows lots of instagram models and likes their pics. I didn't like it at first. But I had to check myself. He can look wherever the hell he wants lol. Women are beautiful. That doesn't mean he's being disrespectful or isn't attracted to me. Not all plus sized women are super insecure. I'm FAT AND FINE😂
@youngodyssey16
@youngodyssey16 Жыл бұрын
@@GoldenHunni you just said that it was a problem and it is.. he is showing these women attention.. how do you know that he is liking other women post and why are you not pushing out the same energy? I’m all about equality so if he can do it so can you
@Hairbyabby
@Hairbyabby 11 ай бұрын
This video sent me into so mamy emotions. This is the type of woman that destroy honest men, then send them back into the world hurt and beaten up mentally and emotionally. No wonder some men have trust issues and are emotionally unavailable. She did her "big one"🙄 with this! Disgusting
@gottagetit2943
@gottagetit2943 10 ай бұрын
Lol girl. Yes shes trash but lets not give men too much chile. We’re not about to blame trash ppl for trash ppl
@Iknowyoumadnow
@Iknowyoumadnow 10 ай бұрын
TELL EM boo
@JamesPain1203
@JamesPain1203 10 ай бұрын
That's why most of us are the way we are.
@kattieshack
@kattieshack 9 ай бұрын
Girl wtf. Pickmesha men are already screwed up biologically that's nobodys fault
@LouisianaGoon337
@LouisianaGoon337 9 ай бұрын
She never cared for that she settled because she felt like that's all she could get
@knocc1
@knocc1 Жыл бұрын
Interviewer: "Do you think that he could've married that girl who lost 130lbs?" Her: "Honestly probably not" Interviewer: "Would he had wanted to?" Her: "Oh I look pretty amazing so he probably would've wanted to" A Narcissist at it's finest smh.
@IMnotlyeing
@IMnotlyeing Жыл бұрын
That weight loss went straight to her head and it looks like she gained most of it back.
@Sincere529
@Sincere529 Жыл бұрын
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
@coolerthancj94
@coolerthancj94 Жыл бұрын
Upon further review, I have a though that what he was REALLY trying to ask was “Do you think he could have pulled YOU at your LOWER WEIGHT???” Or rather, “Would he have even had a chance to be romantically, sexually, maritally involved with the YOU that weighed 130 less, if y’all had met later in life?????”
@knocc1
@knocc1 Жыл бұрын
@coolerthancj94 I'm glad you had that epiphany. I knew that's was what he meant from the start. For me, he was pretty clear on the questions he was asking.
@coolerthancj94
@coolerthancj94 Жыл бұрын
@@knocc1 Well, not so much as an epiphany. I am a guy, and I’m guessing you are also. I was driving in heavy traffic when I listened to the interview for the first time, so I missed the nuance in the question. But when I re-listened in a quieter, non-driving environment, my antenna went up. Though she heard the WORDS of the question, her answer, no matter if she picked up the nuance or not, was STILL gonna be “No he would NOT have been able to have me but Yes (…..because I was so great and sexy and fly and the ish….) he absolutely would have wanted me. ”
@TheCommonSenseExpert
@TheCommonSenseExpert Жыл бұрын
This woman is sad and trifling. She's not sorry about what she did. If she was she wouldn't be trying to sell her story and embarrassed this man again on top of the pain she already caused. Then she deleted a child because she was getting raw dog by another man.
@SoulSearch11110
@SoulSearch11110 11 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@diamondjack-cooper5322
@diamondjack-cooper5322 9 ай бұрын
I was so sad when she said I was ready to leave my child with the dad full time and just go get my baby on the weekends! And the side man didn't want her at all! But she got something from him n she never had before! AMEN!
@JayStubbs2016
@JayStubbs2016 Жыл бұрын
She’s so blunt and honest in this interview, why not use that bluntness to tell her husband she wasn’t happy…
@terrystouchphotos438
@terrystouchphotos438 Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing and I also was in that same situation with my ex I guess the whole thrill of it all and the fact that no one knows makes it so exciting
@JayStubbs2016
@JayStubbs2016 Жыл бұрын
@@terrystouchphotos438 smh sorry to hear that .. they’ll get what’s coming to them
@ericacaines2529
@ericacaines2529 Жыл бұрын
Her unhappiness 99% chance probably had nothing to do with her husband. It was just her. Time will pass, and she may even drop some more weight, and she'll find she's still not happy. It's such a BS excuse to cheat and then claim it was done because of unhappiness. Happiness and unhappiness are like clouds; they come and go.
@tyronesiasmall8418
@tyronesiasmall8418 Жыл бұрын
She wanted her cake and ice cream too
@user-bh2hx5ew1z
@user-bh2hx5ew1z Жыл бұрын
Women tell everybody expect the person they in a relationship with how they feel
@jefferyferguson779
@jefferyferguson779 11 ай бұрын
Sad...this just brought tears to my eyes.. It take me back to my life as a married man and divorce and all the things that came out
@bbc20231
@bbc20231 11 ай бұрын
Sorry bro 🙏
@gottagetit2943
@gottagetit2943 10 ай бұрын
Yall need therapy lol
@mscatisfine7956
@mscatisfine7956 Жыл бұрын
I feel nothing for this cheater. She's a part of the problem of why us good women can't find a good man!!
@mrquick6775
@mrquick6775 Жыл бұрын
Speak on it!! 👀☝️🧐🤔
@annalove1737
@annalove1737 Жыл бұрын
❤true she fell for the other man and he had a wife and she had the nerves to because he had someone else she felt betrayed lied to when that’s exactly what she doing to her husband 😮❤❤😊
@KNByam
@KNByam Жыл бұрын
Preach sister.
@michelleartis5241
@michelleartis5241 Жыл бұрын
Don't blame her. Blame the women who let men treat them like sh****. So they think they can do it with others.
@Tizzle3rd
@Tizzle3rd Жыл бұрын
​@@michelleartis5241are you serious? Still blaming the man smh
@Experience1945
@Experience1945 Жыл бұрын
Imagine living with a WOMAN for 18MONTHS while she is cheating...Thats NOT HONESTLY...thats THE DEVIL..SHE IS A DEVIL
@grovedwayne390
@grovedwayne390 11 ай бұрын
It would have been Unsolved Mysterious in the house that night 😊
@blacksuccess81
@blacksuccess81 Жыл бұрын
Woman: “He is such an amazing man. They don’t make men like him anymore.” Interviewer: “Would you get back with him if you could” Woman: “Absolutely not. I was unfulfilled.” So many lessons in this video.
@AnimikeeThotah
@AnimikeeThotah Жыл бұрын
Jesus that part made me physically sick
@tray6441
@tray6441 Жыл бұрын
⁠​⁠@@AnimikeeThotahI couldn’t believe what I was hearing, I felt so pained in my soul. Anyway lesson I take from this is don’t be a pushover in marriage…can NEVER be too nice too a woman because look at the outcome..
@lkofie6670
@lkofie6670 Жыл бұрын
YES... I caught on to that too and was puzzled... like WHAT a contradiction. It's because she needs that piece of feeling "unfulfilled" to justify why she started to cheat to begin with.
@christianifechukwu9865
@christianifechukwu9865 Жыл бұрын
Just proves that bending over backwards to make a woman happy is a waste of time. Just do right by God
@Kingdmoney98
@Kingdmoney98 Жыл бұрын
Lol bro was blowin that back out . She couldn’t go back to her husband
@lengaumosotho
@lengaumosotho 9 ай бұрын
This ladies and gentlemen is the human condition with sin. No matter how many times the the good book warns us, we always think the devil has a better plan. All it is, is fleeting, damaging, destructive pleasure.
@jamalh6740
@jamalh6740 Жыл бұрын
Honesty is not sleeping around for 18 months, it's sad to see people applaud 👏 this madness.. honesty is telling him as soon as you decide to give an man your number and hide shit !!!!!!
@KNByam
@KNByam Жыл бұрын
Because they do it or wish they could do it.
@Mariobloomart
@Mariobloomart Жыл бұрын
Don’t let this go over your head, lots of women have done this, she’s just one of the few who accept accountability and tell her truth, trust me, she’s one of maaaaaany!!!!! This is why a man shouldn’t be too nice, I bet if she knew her man was a fireball she wouldn’t have played with that man like that, I bet you!!! And “the dating pool has sewage in it,” chick, you’re one of the fecal matter in that damn pool! The nerve! 😂
@thulanimbatha5458
@thulanimbatha5458 Жыл бұрын
Amen brother!
@altonza
@altonza Жыл бұрын
💩🚽matter😂
@daninwangabia6270
@daninwangabia6270 Жыл бұрын
Cheating women don't care how tough a man is. They want what they want regardless
@Wgz945
@Wgz945 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@michelleartis5241
@michelleartis5241 Жыл бұрын
Thats why a man shouldn't be to nice. Thats bull. Men just need to pick women who appreciate it. Yall always want the real pretty gurls who think about themselves. There are women who can appreciate a man who do good things for them and I am one of them. I wouldn't trade him for the world.
@delmaramos361
@delmaramos361 Жыл бұрын
"The grass is greener where you water it"
@TrappinAnonymous
@TrappinAnonymous Жыл бұрын
Yes
@nate_reatcz
@nate_reatcz 9 ай бұрын
Imagine standing by somebody's side at their worst and then watch them humiliates and cheats on you, the moment they got better 😢
@bullethead238
@bullethead238 Жыл бұрын
She validated everything I've ever heard in all the RP spaces. The way she moved, the way she acted, how she viewed her husband, everything they say about women she just validated. She even validated all the RP recommendations on how men should move once they find out. Her ex maintained emmotional discipline, immediately seperated himself from her, Served her with divorce papers, then focused on himself, and rebuilt his life without her. He did this all while maintaining emotional control. He repaid her disdain & disrespect with indifference. No man should ever share their life with her or with a woman like her. Unfortunately, most women are like her. So most guys will get cheated on, lose half their stuff, or raise someone elses kid. It's not even worth it.
@JayStubbs2016
@JayStubbs2016 Жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly
@kelliepatterson1035
@kelliepatterson1035 Жыл бұрын
So what's the answer? Do dudes want a boyfriend now?
@butterflynicks8834
@butterflynicks8834 Жыл бұрын
@@kelliepatterson1035😅😅😅
@markambelhounsounou5096
@markambelhounsounou5096 Жыл бұрын
@@kelliepatterson1035 what does it have to do with this? stupidity.
@ericacaines2529
@ericacaines2529 Жыл бұрын
Do you know most people?
@townsend256
@townsend256 Жыл бұрын
It's women on her saying they admire her being strong and honest WOW a man saying this would be the devil literally
@robertmciver2013
@robertmciver2013 Жыл бұрын
A man doing this same interview women would destroy him. Especially the part that she was having unprotected sex and pregnant.
@Wgz945
@Wgz945 Жыл бұрын
📠
@piercelangevin7983
@piercelangevin7983 Жыл бұрын
This woman's just sorry things didn't work out with the side dude 😅 what a terrible human being. Telling her husband she cheated just to be able to end up with the side dude...what a delusional, immature, manipulative poor excuse of a woman.
@asarelbenariisrael4132
@asarelbenariisrael4132 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU, oh Gosh MAANN why women not calling this person a piece of shit for what she did, weyyyyy
@piercelangevin7983
@piercelangevin7983 Жыл бұрын
@@asarelbenariisrael4132 If this was a man, the podcaster would've judged him way more 🤷🏼‍♂️ we need to say it how it is...she wrecked her own home. Full stop ! All that for a bit of attention and now she's alone. Pathetic.
@lovelymirtol9142
@lovelymirtol9142 6 ай бұрын
No seriously, I see ppl calling her honest 😂like wow… she is trash.. she was trying to be free and didnt care how she was hurt her child and husband😢
@piercelangevin7983
@piercelangevin7983 6 ай бұрын
@@lovelymirtol9142 totally agree with you
@jds5788
@jds5788 Жыл бұрын
If another man marries you he is a damn fool. I'm glad he's doing great.
@jamelleeddins5919
@jamelleeddins5919 11 ай бұрын
The co workers are telling you they use to mess with dude and you still cheated says a lot that you were willing to let that man have his way with you
@HeresMyBit
@HeresMyBit 2 ай бұрын
No she had already cheated when they told her
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