Wilmer Valderrama Talks Falling In Love With Demi Lovato | On Air with Ryan Seacrest

Wilmer Valderrama explains how Demi Lovato won his heart, his TV roles past and present, and dishes on his days partying with Ryan.
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[@yanjuogunfiditimi4241]

“We met five years ago and I wanted nothing to do with her.” Yeah, because you were 24 and she was 13.

[@saidabana9742]

This was in 2015 so I think she was 17 but still 100% gross

[@stephanies.5012]

17 and 29

[@prashantnishtala7322]

Where's my candy, you son of a beach?

[@bayanibrahim1418]

Fes 💓

[@pologryph8810]

@@bayanibrahim1418 F. E. S. (Foreign Exchange Student)

[@kimmyymmik]

• Pologryph • only kids have to disclaim what that means 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

[@briannamontgomery3709]

Interesting looking back how he acted like he wanted nothing to do with her, putting the twelve-year age gap on Demi and not him. He also mentions that he fell in love with her at her most vulnerable time, which doesn't sit right knowing she was 17 and he was taking advantage of that.

[@skincareaddicted]

I never got the impression he wanted to date her, she did the pursuing. And I felt like he always had one foot out, like with Lindsay. And it was kinda confirmed when he got married pretty quickly after he and Demi broke up. I also don’t think Demi was ever really physically his type

[@meganh4782]

@@skincareaddicted she was a child bro

[@LisaGallegos]

100000%

[@Desmondenae_]

Yeah he cared so much he dated Mandy, Lindsey, he has a thing for younger girls. That was an act, he didn't care about age.

[@dfire351]

"But Fez..." "I said good day!"

[@leighanneeljaouhari45]

i just watched that scene 2 minutes ago and came here from there

[@jenniferjimenez9893]

Lol I just watched that episode!

[@ourgiftisLOVE]

dfire351 😂😂😂😂😂 We will always know him as Fez!

[@wkandle]

Jennifer Jimenez he says that in at least 15 episodes throughout the series. Probably more

[@kewonhl2259]

dfire351 fez as frankenfurter lol

[@edits2k4evr]

"Oh I see..." When he smiles all I see is little Fez

[@boghyarman2050]

Neon exactlyyy haha

[@mrsp3996]

oh are we all here now?

[@ymenekse]

FEZ FINALLY FOUND HIS GIRL!!!

[@eusoulivretos8571]

HAHA finally!

[@irosencrantz882]

I honestly would be so happy to see Wilmer do his 70s Show character on NCIS, even if it was on Deleted Scenes.

[@irosencrantz882]

He could go undercover for some operation. Name his character "Dez" but make his mannerisms just like Fez. Maybe do it when Wilmer gets some other work or gets written off the show or something. They need the comic relief since Weatherly is gone.

[@LauraandIsabella]

Who's watching while Dilmer is broken up? :(

[@nicolecostanza8841]

me 💔

[@iLeaveYouWithHugs]

WHAAAT?

[@LauraandIsabella]

+Candace A they broke up like two weeks ago, they announced it on Instagram

[@kiks399]

+Laura and Isabella WHAT?

[@noelleli4187]

How come?!

[@riannajohn5976]

2022: Looking back on this video while Demi is about to release the song ‘29’ this makes me sick. The song explained how she was groomed while only being 17 and he was 29. Honestly I could never say if he truly loved her but either way what he did was wrong and I hope she and anyone that can relate finds closure.

[@jasl9987]

How do you groom an almost adult? Grooming is a term for very young minors. Not almost legal adults.

[@riannajohn5976]

@@jasl9987 she was still under age right or wrong

[@jasl9987]

@@riannajohn5976 but they didn't date until she was 18. She actually pursued him. Anything to be a victim for demi.

[@riannajohn5976]

@@jasl9987 At the end of the day you can’t say anything about her trying to be a victim because neither one of us personally know her. I understand having an opinion but it’s just the matter of you don’t know what really happened and in her song that she has talked about numerous times and even if you really listened to the song you would understand where me and a bunch of other people are coming from. You have your opinion I have mine let’s just leave it as that because arguing is pointless. I was simply stating my opinion not to bash anyone or offend anyone but you commenting says a lot on your take of getting groomed and having the knowledge of knowing what it feels like. Have a good day.

[@GoldenBoy-et6of]

@@riannajohn5976 than you cant say demi is a victim either, what is wrong with you people, you dont get to say shes a victum but than say you dont want anyone to talk about how she could be lying because you dont agree with that. How do you find out the truth if you refuse to hear anything but that she is a victim when she isnt and never has been

[@thecruzlife6246]

Who is watching this today after hearing Demi’s new song, “29”? Because, damn. The songs definitely about him.

[@bellat4484]

Haha I can also see the changes in the comments, comments from 4-7 years ago are positive toward Wilmer and their relationship and how they would love for them to get back together and comments from this year are like “so disgusting“ “how could he” “gr0@mer “ etc.

[@Leonicles]

I'm f'n 30 and a kid barely out of high school looks like...a kid. We see who you are Wilmer

[@js4560]

The fact that they were friends for 5 years (as he describes it, which makes her 12 years old, and him 24) is actually really disgusting. And then having him date her 5 years later… (when she was still a child) and acting as if he didn’t want anything to do with her and that she kept chasing him. Playing as if he “gave in” to her… Dude. That makes me actually so mad

[@celestek.2395]

Any attempt at an “explanation” turns my stomach. Call it what it is, he’s a pedo. Should have spent time in prison like the rest of them. He’s protected, and he knows it.

[@topselenator5208]

1:40 "I wanted nothing to do with her" yeah... and that's why he was calling her princess on twitter and constantly twitting her stuff when she was 17 and he was 29. Can't believe he had the nerve to go on interviews and play this whole "nice guy" persona and act like she was the only one aproaching him. When he clearly groomed her and took advantage of her.

[@sk9rib2blz]

I mean Demi said this too. She said in multiple interviews that she would chase him and he would keep turning her down. Even became an ambassador for something she didn’t care about because they were shooting the promo for it at his house.

[@Ninitschga]

A 17 year old girl (!) chased this back then 29 year old?! Sure. What a disgusting human being. He screwed her up so bad. She was going through so much at the time, so vulnerable and he just took advantage. All Demi wanted was to be loved and have somebody by her side to be there for her… Poor thing.

[@rainl9119]

Absolutely disgusting. Demi was literally a child. To blame an inappropriate relationship on a child who supposedly chased after you... as an adult 12 years their elder, it is your job to say no.

[@wil3117]

She is not a child get the f out

[@jasl9987]

I mean....she was 17 turning 18. Lol. Thats a legal adult.

[@rainl9119]

@@jasl9987 she was 17. That's a child. 18 is technically an adult, but grooming is abuse.

[@jasl9987]

@@rainl9119 they met when she was 17....she pursued him, even she admitted that for years. Then they officially dated when she was 18. But now all of a sudden he was a predator and she was groomed?! Lol Either way.... grooming certainly doesn't occur at 17 years old months away from being a legal adult.

[@fionaWhatever]

@@jasl9987 doesn't matter if she thinks she pursued him or not - as someone 12 years older, it was his responsibility to say no. if you're 29 and attracted to 17 year olds, you have serious problems. no matter how much a 17 year old comes onto you, there's absolutely zero reason to reciprocate that.

[@solaira3154]

Some of these comments aged BADLY

[@ranim3611]

i think i need a wilmer tooo

[@Moon_xxxx]

demisoldways Every girl needs a Wilmer.

[@miresly777777]

I hope one day they get back together. They seriously belong together!

[@smellycat264]

miresly777777 yeah. :(

[@DomCTBG]

Probably broke up because he's out of her league. :(

[@miresly777777]

DomCTBG league you say..... The only league I believe in are those made for teams in baseball⚾. I am in a very nice position in life, and I'll have you know if I fell in love with a guy deeply and then found out he was homeless my love for him wouldn't change. If you measure people by status, clothes, materialism you need a new way of thinking dear one. We come into this world naked and we leave it without any material things. But the experiences, the love you take with you. Let that sink in. Good luck and God bless. And if they were truly meant to be love will find a way.

[@biblelovergirl]

no they dont

[@robynlovatic6617]

miresly777777 ikr tell me about it

[@beasimo4049]

Back in 2010, I use to hate him cause of his past but now, you can see how adorable he is when he talks about her...THEY ARE A GREAT COUPLE

[@BieberFever1441]

what happen in his past?

[@Joanna096]

he had a reputation of being a playboy..but Wilmer is an incredible men now

[@subzeroj9137]

also he dates way younger women

[@subzeroj9137]

Junebug Sewap tf I never said I hated him someone asked what he did in the past and I answered never did I say I hated him dumbass 😒

[@Paul8820]

+Bea Simó Seems like he really settled down the last few years. I mean he used to party a lot. Dated a lot of young actresses and singers as well.

[@eefjevdx]

He's such a bae, dilmer is otp omg

[@sarahlugo5617]

Ur profile pic 😍👌🏼

[@eefjevdx]

+şάŕάħ “иιαℓℓѕ ρσтαтσ” ħόŕάή haha I love yours as well 😍👌🏻

[@sevensinginggirls5994]

+Eefje 😍👌🏽

[@shruthibaskar1647]

wow! my kind of people: a directioner, a dilmer n Larry shipper!

[@nienketeunissen5603]

ben je Nederlands?

[@unknownperson6444]

I'm so thankful to Wilmer for making Demi happy

[@sbchoudhuryable]

Me too

[@gaypinoy2698]

+# KasprTUBE Also, the drugs she takes ALSO makes her happy.

[@areej5732]

+Gay Pinoy She doesn't take drugs ??

[@muabuon378]

medications for bipolar, she doesn't take drugs -_-

[@trailee3197]

Khanh Nguyen she did! She confirmed it in one of the interviews.

[@heidos7]

The more I watch interviews with him the more I love him, and not just because of Demi, just because of his personality. We don't want people to constantly judge Demi for her past so why would we do the same to Wilmer? He clearly loves her and has been there for her through thick and thin. They are the real deal. Edit: This did not age well

[@ranobang9220]

r

[@maiterodriguez4293]

+Claire McKey totally right

[@kathyzumbado5899]

well this comment didn’t age well 😬

[@batfarts69]

Literally defending a p3d0

[@heidos7]

@@kathyzumbado5899 True that lol

[@nikkim6282]

wow.... totally sweet. he understands what she wants and its beautiful. :)

[@x.x.uwu.x.x]

Who’s here after listening to demis new song 29

[@iustbits]

BUT HIS ACCENT THO

[@maekringces9169]

2020: Wilmer is engaged with someone else now.. 😔

[@liliillliliil23yearsago64]

Damn I didn't know that

[@groovinbot]

Ik I'm crying 😭😭😭😭 but I just really want Demi to be completely happy now ❤️

[@Mihela29]

Demi is also engaged

[@groovinbot]

@@Mihela29 yassss

[@groovinbot]

#dax

[@unomdinromania]

Demi is the luckiest

[@Amy-mw1zl]

And so is Wilmer XD

[@loveheart2016]

They are both lucky

[@CarolSiebra1]

But of course he would say he did not want anything to her; when they met she was underage (she would turn 18 in the year they met, but it was still a minor) and he was much older than she (13 years older). Fact is that he was one of the people who made demi overcome all of her problems and their relationship is SO beautiful. They're so cute together. I wish them all the happiness in the world!!!

[@joelover1170]

They lied. She was 17 when they started dating. He was 29.

[@duphysoup]

Not gonna lie, the age gap was bothersome . But hey he waited until she was 18 lol

[@joseaod15]

A real man supports and champion the leadership of women. Good for him.

[@r_i_a_m_a_r]

how can anyone NOT fall in love with her? she is an angel

[@Disney65Fan]

Maria Julia Coser heck even i love her.....not romantically just as an inspiration

[@dianarodriguez6915]

And underage at the time while he was basically 30🤢

[@sophieblue1373]

OMG ADORABLE I SHIP DILMER SO MUCH 😍😍

[@moviesforever8805]

17…. 29

[@mariemanson4593]

I honestly could not be more happy to hear how in love they are with each other! It's beautiful! Demi is so lucky, I hope to find it some day :)

[@carbonated_salt9645]

ALL OF THESE COMMENTS AGED SO POORLY ITS HARD TO READ how could our society be so blind

[@myweakest]

Because of the media

[@Alstroemeria74]

WHAT?? He is FEZ?? :O Omg I didn't recognize him!!

[@rach1996]

I’m 27, kids fresh out of high school are kids. We see you Wilmer.

[@beattaugrin1210]

Such a good person!

[@jessicastar433]

Interesting how he’s talking about when he was 18 and how it was so long ago and he was so young…

[@joif.1071]

omg, imagine Wilmer's laugh and Demi's laugh together in the same interview... lol

[@nilimaaakhtar7852]

Demi and Wilmer need to get married already xD

[@MsFreekazoid]

Maybe they'll wait at least until she's finished promoting this new album, which given it hasn't been released yet and she would do a world tour for it, that would probably be a year to 18 month project.

[@nilimaaakhtar7852]

Yea.. I know what you mean. She's said that a wedding could happen but in the near future because of her schedule

[@SwiftieCatLover]

+Nilimaa xD she said during an interview on Ellen and in another interview that if Wilmer proposed that she would definitely say yes.

[@devonc99]

+Subin Kim not anymore

[@SwiftieCatLover]

eh names and stuff well i know that. I commented this nearly 4 months ago.

[@katy9569]

I think when I was a kid I didn’t realize how problematic he was. He always was really supportive of her and fought with her for her recovery, but the dynamic of their relationship wasn’t exactly healthy. I’m glad he’s dating someone in his own age group for once. I think he’s married to her, actually.

[@multipedmoon]

He hasn't changed, his wife is 12 years younger than him..

[@katy9569]

@@multipedmoon But they are both adults

[@Yolii22913]

@@multipedmoon But they are both adults. The problem with Demi was because she was only 17, A MINOR.

[@jeremyayala2947]

@@Yolii22913 she wasn't a minor, she was 18 when they were in a relationship.

[@georgiam4725]

It's cool hearing about the relationship from his perspective ☺

[@f.9451]

who's watching after the breakup? :(

[@danahchaar903]

aww he is so nice and supportive :)

[@anitanewton4419]

Oh I love him so much!

[@aMEXICO2010]

Handy Manny!

[@Amy-mw1zl]

+kevin lasley No, it's fucked XD

[@Amy-mw1zl]

+kevin lasley NO ITS FUCKED

[@Amy-mw1zl]

Norbit BAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA XD

[@goodvibes2941]

HAHAHAHHAA

[@infinitylover9134]

aMEXICO2010 HAHHAHAHAHA MEEE

[@xyxvagervx1144]

Demi's happy because of him and honestly thankful for that

[@justinmetcalfe9948]

His laugh😍☺️

[@dianasakala9141]

😭😭love them together

[@Sing22]

Did Wilmer play as "Uncle Ernesto" as a special guest in "Wizards in Waverly Place"? He just keeps reminding me of him like 😶

[@tominicole6947]

Yea that was him

[@kimberlycadena5055]

His laughhhhh😂💖

[@carolinedring2029]

So who is here after the release of 29…

[@joibenjamin2223]

Uncle Ernesto from Wizards!! 😍😍

[@mariacarlacabrera]

I need another one as Wilmer into my life

[@trailee3197]

I am so glad for Demi that she found someone who supports her and loves her. Especially when she needed it most. 😍😬

[@juan9383]

This comment definitelly DID NOT aged well

[@desppap504]

I am still so sad that they broke up. I mean he loved her everything seemed so natural

[@DanielaGomez-pp1qs]

I'm sooo happy that he makes Demi happy 💗💗💗

[@iris_0404]

I miss them toghether 💗

[@nicchris960]

Finally 29 , funny just like you were at the time . 😘

[@LadyMinor13]

I'm so sad they broke up

[@farahsakhraoui4717]

me too,so much.

[@farahsakhraoui4717]

me too,so much.

[@juan9383]

This didnt aged well

[@jayraphh]

I just hear handy manny, i love him 😂😂

[@RayneDavila]

I'm binge watching that 70s show cuz fez is my life k bye

[@inezojeda89]

They are good for each other.

[@rosaamaya276]

wow way to go Ryan ...obviously there trying to figure out if they started dating when she was under age...... hmmmmmmm.. obviously yes. But Wilmer is not about to say that lol.

[@cece4226]

Haha, yes he wasn't gonna say anything, but we all know what happened.

[@Lidia1805]

I miss demi and Wilmer😢❤

[@jimenagomez6727]

omg im such a big fan of wilmer

[@jacquelineroman5697]

i love wilmer, he just look like my dad... literally they could be brothers!

[@robertagaeta6963]

I'm in love with him and I love Demi AND I LOVE DILMER omg these two are too perfect, really i can't handle their perfection anymore

[@minililycakes3395]

Wilmer's LAUGH tho! xD

[@kayleigh8055]

some of the things he says :') his accent

[@lacynicole455]

They are adorable together. Maybe they’ll get back together one day.

[@noobjuice4754]

Everytime he smiles I see a little fez peeping through. ❤

[@fil949]

I just cant believe that Fez picked up this hottie :D

[@dircebenevides9238]

oh my ..! I love Demi and Wilmer sooo much.. and its so sad that they had ended their 6 years relationship.. i hope nothing but the best for them. Demi and Wilmer are my favorite couple..they are the natural couple❤ GB them

[@ShaniaCosgrave]

He seems like such a genuine, sweet guy.

[@trailee3197]

I miss them!!

[@markbaker330]

GO WILMER!

[@JSandwich13]

17... 29

[@lauraschindler7083]

Wilmer, get back with Demi and rescue her! It's obvious that she has always been in love you. I believe you complete her.

[@Jobros1love1dream4]

bless him and Demi...he's just too good with her

[@tesseivers6737]

"I didn't make it to Joseph's much cuz Monday's were tough" I laughed out loud Ryan is so fuckin funny

[@mollsbot]

This didn't age well

[@natashatrad]

Aww i love them

[@Jennifer-hj4xm]

I've never heard him without his fez accent !!!!!

[@kavang6726]

I love them together. They're so cute! Aw!

[@Drehgab]

I wish they were still together

[@Elibeli19]

god bless this man

[@ammannadasyltie4016]

O GOD HE'S CUITE♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@kamalporter706]

Wilmer is awesome

[@bibialves5624]

finally 29

[@sezimets]

17 would never cross my mind

[@rosagracemiller]

Awww it's sad they broke up but at least they're still great friends!

[@yosef9420]

He said good day!

[@jamilajamila9267]

We still have Hope, we still have hope

[@OwlBard]

I love these comments like ' Well she chased him' ?? She was a vulnerable TEENAGER. Like you guys do realize he eventually said yes as soon as she turned 18? He never had to say yes, but he did. Just stop.

[@lovaticsweetener471]

I LOVE THEM TOGETHER ❤️.

[@junaoneil1202]

The difference between the comments from a year ago and 7:8 years ago is astonishing. How did anyone think this was ever okay?

[@leahallen8420]

That laugh in 2:56 hahaha 😂

[@soapqueen2008]

I love them together

[@maelissmazin1359]

Dilmer forever😍😍😍

[@asc1360]

AmI the only one who thinks of Fez from That 70s Show when he talks lol " i say good day!!"

[@asc1360]

Yea i know he is