10 Signs You Need To Walk Away And Let Her Go

[@YourWingmam]

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[@AlanThomas-hp3fn]

First, sign. your paths crossed. The other signs don't matter. Run Forest run.

[@steffanoswald7917]

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[@timothyumeme1521]

@@YourWingmam thanks alot...

[@neilmahar7107]

This is the exact reason I started watching this because of a friend's suicide because of his marriage unraveling. Thank you, I can't bring back my friend, but I can at least understand.

[@YourWingmam]

My heart goes out to you and all those affected by such a tragedy. :( 🫂

[@matthewschwartz6607]

Oh my god, he committed suicide over a divorce?

[@ronmexico8383]

Yes. He was probably going to lose his house, half his 401k, have to pay alimony. Live out of a shaq while the ex lives in the big house. Watch his ex move in her loser new bf to the house he used to live in and paid for. that’s divorce

[@histreasure3189]

😢

[@FlashGordon-g9n]

@@matthewschwartz6607it happens more then you think .ll

[@LyleStomp-sj2ve]

This video pointed out so many red flags in my failed marriage! A year after she kicked me out to “find herself” I realized it’s the best thing that could have happened!!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@3DPrintingFreak]

I afraid I'm in the start of this situation (women midlifecrisis)

[@andyhinds542]

The last minute says everything really. "If you've done everything at your end...". That's the point where you start to lose your sense of self to that toxic person.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@faulltw]

My wife asked me to temporarily leave so she could find herself as well, but only ended up finding another guy. I made the move was permanent

[@hurricaneaquatics]

@@faulltw anytime a woman says "I need space" or "I need time to find myself" she's 100% cheating on you already.

[@faulltw]

@@hurricaneaquatics Agreed

[@yorkshireboy3886]

I walked away from my last relationship. It was hard.. even though you know it's the best thing to do. I still miss her and I wish her well, but I know in my heart it was never going to work. It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Fab video Anna as always, God bless 🙏🐈

[@YourWingmam]

That took a lot of courage to do, good for you! :)

[@x-man5056]

"It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." It is true, don't miss the "dance".

[@LauraSchendel-ko1qk]

I love the saying “Second marriages teach us something. It’s not that now we know what we want, it’s that now we know what we DON’T want!”The first experience brings great wisdom! LOL!

[@ThroughHe]

Same for me. I had to leave my ex-girlfriend. She was gorgeous. It was really hard. But she was making me miserable.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

​@@LauraSchendel-ko1qkSamuel Johnson said - Second marriages are the triumph of hope over experience.

[@mypov4343]

It takes courage to let go. You will feel better after doing it if it was the right decision! Thanks Wingmam!

[@YourWingmam]

Absolutely true! Maybe not right away (for some) but there will be a sense of relief. :)

[@maxmag981]

Deixa a pessoa ir embora: 1 - Não se comunicam, fazem tratativa do silêncio 2 - Não comemora as coisas com você empolgada ou feliz 3 - Não se sentir apreciado/admirado, necessidades não atendidas - Devemos expressar nossas necessidades - O óbvio precisa ser dito 4 - Ela não elogia seus esforços, não diz obrigada, não agradece, em vez disso oferece ingratição, crítica, indiferença 5 - Esforços dos dois lados, não um só fazer tudo, não é recíproca. 6 - Objetivos de vida diferentes 7 - Desonestidade constante, mentiras, segredos (traz insegurança) 8 - Desrespeito constante (faz piada, deboche, sem admiração) - Não gosto que fale assim comigo - É só uma brincadeira (ela negou, ela vai fazer mais) 9 - Manipulação emocional (fazer você se sentir mal por uma viagem) 10 - Padrões tóxicos de comportamentos (tem que ficar pisando em ovos) 11 - Essa pessoa faz você se sentir mal, miserável, ruim, mal, tentando resolver tudo na paz, no respeito, mas mesmo assim não se sente bem de verdade. É melhor se sentir sozinho, do que estar com alguém que te faz se sentir sozinho

[@mikeh5431]

I have walked away from two relationships to preserve my sanity and it was two of the best decisions of my life! So don’t be afraid to do it!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@WildMidwest1]

Walking away is a skill that takes practice. I walked away from two relationships in the past year. With the last woman I made a written pros / cons list on my computer and updated it monthly. As the ‘cons’ side of the list grew longer than the ‘pros’ side (removing false assumptions and adding new data) my decision became clear. I still miss both women but my intellect knows I did what was necessary. Freeing up space for someone more compatible is the essential skill we men learn over time. I suspect for women it’s instinctual and they move on faster, but many of us guys struggle with knowing what’s right. A written list really helped.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@TheFriendlyPsychopath.]

You do knowmthat vaginas are ubiquitous AF right? They're literally EVERYWHERE!

[@faulltw]

That is a great idea. Hopefully you placed that list where they could see it after you left.

[@Rebellpanzer]

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[@0TheLastLoneWolf]

​@@faulltw nah. Kinda irrelevant. Why make their life easier when they couldn't care less about yours.

[@DMuvvy]

My boyfriend and I of 7 years broke up 4 months ago. I’ve been non stop on you tube trying to find something that will help me feel better. THIS video was the very thing! I could definitely see that I brought some of these behaviors to the table and that he did too. But there’s a very big difference between us and that is I seemed to be the one way more willing to look at it as what am I contributing or not contributing to this relationship. I felt I credibly frustrated in these past years! Your number one reason hit me like a ton of bricks. Emotionally drained is what I’ve been for years without the verbiage to discribe that. Exhausted for what seemed like no reason. I have not felt that for months now. Thank you so much for this video. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@DivineZeroResin]

Each and every sign reflects my marriage. I‘m glad that we parted ways two years ago.

[@michaeljohnson6019]

Good stuff. Men especially need to take this kind of information to heart. to protect themselves and their future.

[@YourWingmam]

Have an open heart but take your brain with you, yep!

[@marguskiis7711]

According the video partnerships lasting longer than ca 7 years are almost impossible.

[@draltamimi]

Simply, that was my ex wife.. 14 years of hell.. Thank God I walked out..

[@YourWingmam]

Good for you for having the strength to do that!

[@johnhartsock1891]

If she provided you with good head, it wasn't a totally miserable 14 years brother

[@davnelruss]

I can definitely relate to this advice, especially when it comes to how hard it is to walk away, even when you see the signs. In the past, I stayed in a relationship far too long because of my fear of abandonment. When I finally left, it felt like I had been orbiting a dying planet, and breaking free flung me into the abyss of space, with no sense of direction or even which way was up. At least with the dead planet, I knew where I stood. But sometimes we have to face that uncertainty in order to eventually find something better. This advice is a great reminder of that.

[@WildMidwest1]

Flying into space versus orbiting a dead planet is a terrific way of describing breakups. I am going to remember that one.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

[@randallscott4787]

After my third marriage, I finally met the woman I was meant to be with. She was 10 yrs on me but by God she is awesome. Thanks Anna you are my wingman. 😊

[@TheFriendlyPsychopath.]

Have you met her work husband yet?

[@Jim-wu2nf]

Ignore ignore ignore, lack of communication, yes thats correct! Non supportive, unappreciated, yes you are absolutely correct I have lived this situation many times. Women today are self absorbed and narcissistic for sure. Everytime my heart gets broken I wonder if I should pursue another relationship? Nah I think I'm done.

[@YourWingmam]

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best ❤️ 🙏🏼

[@Ak_agent47]

Let women suffer way to narccistic

[@seangarvey3875]

Several years ago, I was on a date with a woman in downtown Toronto. She had been prattling on and on about how she’s a strong, independent black woman. And then we came to one of the Firkin restaurants, and she turns to me and says why don’t you take me out here? I turned to her and said you were a strong independent woman take yourself out. I walked away and never spoke to her again. If a woman is not helping you get to what your purpose is walk away from her. She will be a liability.

[@savvyguy1353]

@@seangarvey3875 that’s hilarious and well played by you Sir. I know all of the Firkins as a former Toronto guy. She wants your time and money investment while berating you. Total loser.

[@seangarvey3875]

@@savvyguy1353 exactly bro. This was down on Marine Parade Dr near the lake. Toronto girls are so entitled 😂

[@savvyguy1353]

@@seangarvey3875 always. Will add if Indian/info carribean Toronto girl do not run. Sprinttttt

[@rustyscrapper]

Women think if they claim to be strong and independent, and then act needy and desperate while claiming they are strong and independent, that's what men want. We want weak needy women who have attachment anxiety, and are also in denial.

[@faulltw]

@@rustyscrapper I don't mind that as long as they spread their legs and leave when I am done. ;) My apologizes for the crudeness, but my point for those who missed it is you don't have to marry them.

[@sicisskitzo4359]

My ex did name calling, yelling, and would always threaten to leave over arguments. And it was always via text. It’s been hard to move on, but everyday gets a little easier. I’m better off not having someone like her in my life

[@YourWingmam]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@sicisskitzo4359]

@@YourWingmam thank you, it’s getting better

[@ajunteburns6894]

@@sicisskitzo4359 yeah my ex-girlfriend from 3 1/2 years ago was like that as well if you've tried to resolve things and if she hasn't changed showing that she wants the relationship to work then do like I did and just ghost her. If you cut all contacts with her she's going to want to respond to you and she's going to seek you out but it is within your best interest to never respond and move on with your life and let God heal your heart and get therapy if need be delete all pictures and conversations

[@clintonnagy1662]

I'll admit I would threaten to end the relationship after arguments because she would devalue me & I couldn't see any reason why she wanted to stay with me especially if she was unhappy? She would criticise my job, hobbies, skills, & talents. After being gas lit, blame shifted, and guilt tripped I would tell her " to move on... & find someone who caters to her needs better then I do." She would ask why it has to be that way? She was looking to keep me on the back burner while she would search for her new supply. I've been down this road so many times. I know where it leads.

[@sicisskitzo4359]

@@clintonnagy1662 good thing you’re out of that now, I hope

[@flaviovms]

Avoidant attachment is something not enough discussed

[@YourWingmam]

Absolutely

[@SteelFanther]

I'm not the kind of guy to walk away from responsibility ... I run ... * Moscow, Russia

[@pennred9505]

“Soul Sucking Loss of Joy” I’m quite familiar with that feeling and it’s exactly why I finally called it quits after 20 years ... I had enough.

[@heyyou9693]

20 years is where I am. The last 5 or 6 has been very up and down. A lot down.

[@BloodySoup74]

@@heyyou9693 I'm at 30. Same

[@tomposti6361]

20 years here and divorced now. My soul is empty and I have a hard time filling the bucket of joy again.

[@BloodySoup74]

I'm having "the talk" with her tonight. Wish me luck. I Just have to remember that once you spill your feelings they will use that against you at some point. That's when it's time to move on. Hate to say it. Wish me luck

[@heyyou9693]

@BloodySoup74 trust me brother, I'm at the point where I'm ready to move on. Had the talk, she said it's my problem. I am interested in someone else and I'm 98.5% positive she is interested in me. As soon as I can, I'm going to give her my number. So, I wish you the best.

[@jzeff6250]

Thank you Miss Anna. You perfectly described my incredibly toxic 30 yr marriage. I did everything I could, attended counseling, had accountability partners and I was treated exactly as you describe in each of these steps. With your examples only now do I see all of the red flags so clearly....

[@YourWingmam]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith ❤️ 🙏🏼

[@daleb5967]

@@jzeff6250marriage counseling usually increases a woman's disrespect for the man tenfold because he submits to the counseling and is therefore humbled and begging and simping. It's the biggest treatment con by the woman and hc provider/ Dr... Some men may say it helped but in most cases it's just concessions and a asset timer countdown.

[@daleb5967]

@@jzeff6250 I want to add a generalized comment here since I don't know where to best put it, but..........some women will not divorce a man they hate because if there's assets involved, in trusts or not, they can threaten divorce while they divest assets of the estate including as much as the husband's share as possible, .....behind his back or in plain sight. Please be aware and vigilant.

[@timd-s1p]

@jzeff6250 30 years??? You waited way to f-ing long.

[@antoerickson4152]

The relationships are harder Anna and when we recognize some of these signs then we must walk away and let her go before it's too late. You haven't made a video and discussed about "unrequited love". I think maybe you didn't considered the "unrequited love" as love in the first place. I think maybe it's connected to infatuation, obsession, or limerance. You helped me a lot dear Anna and you helped me to realise that I need a girl who is compatible with my lifestyle and my life choices. You are a great woman Anna and you always look so good and funny and I'm very happy.

[@worshipwhilewewait]

REAL Love = recisprosity

[@YourWingmam]

Unrequited love can often be limerence but not always. If you really know someone, flaws and all, you can love them and not be loved back by them. However, either way the protocol is the same as limerence. Review that video for details. Glad you enjoy my videos and thank you for the compliment!

[@antoerickson4152]

@@YourWingmam Thank you very much Anna.

[@FlashGordon-g9n]

Both need to keep watering the grass to keep it healthy and green …

[@paulwright7631]

Guys you will always be under appreciated.. this is not going to change .

[@YourWingmam]

Kindly don’t say that, there are a lot of good women out there!

[@paulwright7631]

@ haven’t met one yet

[@AlwaysMisunderstood]

I'd absolutely LOVE to know what it's like to date a healthy, emotionally mature woman like Anna. You seem very real. Thanks for all your wise words 🙏🏻

[@YourWingmam]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Knowing when to walk away can be tough, but these signs make it easier to identify toxic situations. Great insights that everyone should consider!*

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@spot997]

I appreciate it so much that you recognize exactly two genera. Good work.

[@melkerner]

Lack of physical affection.

[@YourWingmam]

Yes, good addition!

[@sputnikone6281]

@@YourWingmam It is the number one criteria for a lasting relationship not an addition, if you did not know that then you need to give up giving others advice

[@silversurfer4441]

@sputnikone6281 You're projecting. Some people are fine not having any physical intimacy at all, and yet, they can still respect and love one another.

[@sputnikone6281]

@@silversurfer4441 I am not projecting, what you are talking about is not a normal relationship between a heterosexual man and woman but some sort of platonic ideal or even a relationship between the impotent.

[@RobertNorth-pc6nz]

​@@silversurfer4441 No. Lack of affection cuts to the core of spending your lives together. You can't spend your lives together always apart.

[@carguy1312]

Holy crap. 10/10… never thought that would be a bad thing.

[@x-man5056]

It's like an inventory of my last marriage. I needed this video in 2000. All of them are good reasons to go. I waited way to long.

[@YourWingmam]

You’re free now, big hug 🫂

[@x-man5056]

@@YourWingmam TY Anna. I really am doing OK. Not looking back. I'm way better off alone than with her. And my current opportunities are growing all the time, I am optimistic about my romance future. No settling. No need to. And much love and gratitude for you.❤

[@CraigFactsareFacts]

@@x-man5056 Keep putting that peanut butter on your rooster when your dog walks into the room.

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

This video is yet more confirmation that I want to remain single. I wish I knew how to work out how to get plenty of NSA action.

[@x-man5056]

@@DavidZ4-gg3dm Search bar at top of page.

[@agxec2932]

Anna well done again 👏 Gems 💎 of wisdom Your points don't only apply to personal relationships - but also apply to work relationships/career, friendships or social life interaction in general.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for watching and yes, you're right! :))

[@MarioPerez-nz8tt]

Totally going through this right now. My 2-year relationship has been tumultuous to say the least. Yet we keep going back to each other! I know I have had my parts in this toxic relationship, but I am sure that I did not do or say many of the things I have been accused of. Week in and week out it has been nothing but patterns of arguing back and forth with me choosing to always want to feel as though I needed to run away. Leaving this relationship or trying top always leave has taken a toll on me mentally and emotionally. I have some healing to do...

[@YourWingmam]

Healing is definitely key, and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏

[@kingnomad3176]

Thank you for clarifying “partner” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 A+++

[@awartank]

Best comments and advises. Short, concise and straightforward, unlike many channels

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

[@MikeIver-y3e]

Perfect score! 10 out of 10. Makes my “I’m done” decision of a month ago even more solid. I feel bad for any “next guy”, but oh well.

[@YourWingmam]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@MikeIver-y3e]

Thank you (wing)mam, I appreciate the encouragement. Keep on keeping it real. It really helps. God bless you. Until He returns, stand fast!

[@kovstube]

Anna, thank you! I love your podcasts and I always feel you are helping me with your advice. ❤

[@GingerDaddy444]

I've watched about 6 of these breakups signs videos and yours was hands down the best! Thank you. Actually made me tear up, the way you described the disrespect😭

[@RavenousSpectre]

I went through all of those in my last relationship...glad i got out of it a couple months ago

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@RavenousSpectre]

@@YourWingmam Amen sister I appreciate it. God has control of my love life now because I'm not good at it. Haha!

[@marguskiis7711]

You will stay alone if you are looking for the total perfection.

[@ricargon.x]

All these signs you mentioned were present in my marriage. I had to leave her because of the number one sign you mentioned. There was no joy, love, or anything that represented peace. I could write a book about what I experienced and use your 10 signs as a table of contents. The hardest thing to do was leave her alone, but time exposed what her intentions truly were. This video allows me to see my new path in a different light. I still love her, but it's hard to believe that she can't reciprocate that love back. I love the examples you give, because I was able to relate to each and every one of them. Thank you for sharing these signs.

[@hankmclain2546]

I recently broke it off with my lady friend and I can't believe I said yes to almost every bullet point on this video....Thanks it makes sense now!!😢

[@theshih-tzudad4068]

I left a relationship, due to drama. It seemed she was always in some kind of drama. Her little clues of mistrust because of past relationships. A sharp anger she had also become a factor. Just going to visit with her, started making my nerves on edge to the point I was tired all the time and feeling itchy all over. It felt like ants crawling all over me. I had to get out of the relationship all together. We dated 6 months. It took a lot of thought to get out of the relationship as I did not want to cause drama, or hurt feelings. There was emotional manipulation involved. It was not my idea of a good relationship at all.

[@YourWingmam]

Sounds awful! Thank you for sharing your experience.

[@enigma6639]

Thank You , Your presentation helped me put some things into perspective .

[@woodsail40]

The young people are so blessed to have so much helpful information to help them with healthy relationships. Older people had to learn when traveling life's road, sometimes without shock absorbers. Yesteryears, there was a saying: you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. Today, it is challenging to lead anyone to the water where they can get a good drink of wisdom from good coaches. Great job, Anna, you're making a difference in helping people find the smoother road that leads to a successful life.

[@thewaywardtrio]

You rock. Thank you for your consistently enlightening and useful information 🏁

[@YourWingmam]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@jrsimeon02]

Took your advice, lack of good communication was causing problems and being strung along was like slowly pulling off a bandaid, so I'm moving on. Disappointing, but a relief.

[@YourWingmam]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@KenSmith-l3y]

Anna...as always, you're getting a thumbs up for this video because the information is invaluable and just because you are such a kind and thoughtful person, who is doing such a great job on your channel. Thanks for sharing your personal experiences, that is an added bonus.

[@YourWingmam]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@SAVANNAHHENRI]

I've started watching a few of these types of videos. She is the best I've watched so far, she's clear and easier to understand with content that's real and has value. Many thanks

[@YourWingmam]

Wow, thank you! Welcome aboard!

[@mohammedabudonia6146]

Time to pull the plug Adding to this Over demands for possessions Comparing herself to other couples who have money Asking to leave all the time It’s meant to be, I have decided to let go cuz I have a life journey and not waste it on her. I was alone when I started from a scratch and she ain’t willing to stand with me in hard times. Closing this chapter and continuing with what I have started

[@cgschow1971]

Self-Preserving. Hit the nail dead on with that one. At what point do you realize that your selflessness to your partner is eating away at your quality of life. I left a long term relationship because my needs weren't met. I remember the words, "selfish, self-centered, all about you", being thrown about during the breakup. Those are harsh words. Self preservation is it.

[@sburns2421]

Relationships are like snowflakes, no two are alike but if you want advice from YT comments....if you find yourself being compelled to compromise your integrity, trading advancement of your life or career for their current wants or needs with no reciprocation, effectively being given the choice of your happiness or hers constantly (and if she is not happy you can date Mr. Hand)...it won't get any better.

[@TotallyAnnoyedDoodle]

Excellent video. The best relationship to have and keep would be this list of ten things in reverse! Thank you for keeping it real.

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️ 🙏🏼

[@Keith405]

Just when I thought you couldn't get any prettier you always do❤

[@audioelitist3677]

As I age, it's the opposite for me. I look into the mirror, and say.... "my goodness... just when I thought it couldn't get worse..." I decided, it's a losing battle, and try to be graceful about it, but day after day, I'm becoming more of an "inner beauty" kind of guy.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for a thoughtful compliment! 💞 Grace for the win lol

[@Omar_Zazzle]

@@YourWingmam I am 62 and I look in the mirror and I am not great looking but compared to other guys my age I am grateful.

[@Keith405]

@@YourWingmam Your welcome. Goodnight 🌃

[@nukelaloosh4795]

🤣

[@GrandMalCsur-x1t]

Just walked away from a girl I was dating because of her anxiety, neediness, sabotaging verbal behaviour, and disrespect for my priorities (kids and career). She needed to be centre of universe.

[@YourWingmam]

I pray that you receive the girl who is truly best for you, the girl God has for you ❤ 🙏

[@dmedford5]

@@GrandMalCsur-x1t in this situation now bro…I don’t know if I can keep going

[@Bubba-hl6wb]

Thanks kiddo. I’ve been tiptoeing around this beautiful lady for weeks now. I’m frustrated confused exhausted . Time to walk away.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@MrSaxonsaxon]

No woman no cry.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙏

[@PNY15458]

My sister just filed for a divorce from her husband of almost 26 years because of most of these, especially #1! She seems like a happier person already and she just dropped the bomb eight days ago.

[@YourWingmam]

🙏🏼

[@3chunter307]

@@PNY15458 happiness is temperary feeling

[@Aethelgeat]

#10 seems to be a big one, as if you can't communicate, then you can't work out several of the others. I admit I was letting the sunk cost fallacy be an excuse as well as avoiding the drama (fight) of a break up, as it became increasingly difficult to ignore that I was happier by myself. It's not that she tried to deflect the discussion, but that it seems that whenever I brought up that I was not happy with some of the things we did, it seemed to immediately become defending myself for not acknowledging all the effort and work she said she was putting in. Directly to #3. There was a point that I no longer believed there was hope, a chance to work together to something better and accepted that this was what our relationship was going to be day after day. I just said I was leaving and left.

[@davidivey-entrepreneur]

I experienced most of these 'signs' but I'm a little dense and put up with it for 30 years. Actually, I just didn't want to get divorced no matter what... and in the end, I'm divorced anyway. Instead of being miserable for so many years, I should have ended it decades ago, but hindsight is 20/20.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience hopefully it will help others learn from it I appreciate that ❤️

[@davidivey-entrepreneur]

@@YourWingmam And... I appreciate your videos and your very down-to-earth personality. Keep up the great work.

[@64maxpower]

Not sometimes,I'd say more times than not it's better to be single alone than miserable together

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing I appreciate that ❤️ 🙏🏼

[@montereyspike]

Voluntarily celibate here. And am truly enjoying the pure peace and lack of chaos in MY LIFE. I answer to my dog, and my to my dog, alone. LOL. Thank you for your video though, wish that there were more of your gender like you (intelligent, sensible, epathetic, etc) out there.

[@rayjuice17]

Thank you again for this very helpful vid wingmam!💙

[@YourWingmam]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@carloselcoro785]

This was so On point.... Was with a woman for five years. The first two years were amazing Once she got her residency. The gloves came off and true intentions were revealed. Men women will do these steps to a T

[@carloselcoro785]

One more thing. This is for the Men Trust your feelings and NO your not crazy... No matter how many times she tells you.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@AnthonySanders-r4q]

Thank you very much for the insights over the 62 years I’ve had on this rock. Those were basically true as a little boy as a young man and as an adult the one thing you mentioned that saves, everything is good communication skills, and everyone speaks a different language.

[@daniyarartykov8109]

Thank you for the video! What I need right now ❤

[@seba3o1]

10/10. Literally. And the funny thing is, while I finally broke up being fed up, she found another guy in few days, and blames me for that. It’s paranoia…

[@KS-yb1wq]

Holy moly, Emma must be a flat out smoke show for Jake to miss these signs. Anna great content. Thankfully, my girl wasn't even close to the top ten (or me, I hope).

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback 🙏🏼

[@mandomanny2529]

This was on point with what I'm going through now. I have been trying to make things work with my girlfriend, but maybe it's time to let her go.

[@WorldTravelerCooking]

One thing though is that if there are major long-term stressors, communication will suffer. When looking at lack of communication, it is worth evaluating stress and what can be done about it. But some people keep themselves stressed in order to have power and you aren't going to fix that.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@stephencostello8792]

You really are a wingman for men. Enormous help cracking the code.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@billcore6295]

good advice ❤….. made poor choices in my past and alot of emotional heartache. I lived and endured #4, #2 and #1 for two years before ending a toxic marriage….

[@alexmirocke9129]

Dang. I’ve been holding on for a while but you’ve laid out exactly what’s happening with us. I don’t think I can handle any more cold loveless days

[@YourWingmam]

That sounds incredibly hard. No one should have to feel alone in a relationship. It might help to take a step back and think about what you truly need and deserve. Sometimes, recognizing what isn’t working is the first step toward finding peace and fulfillment, whether that means working through it together or making a tough decision. Stay strong!

[@OsamahMinnis]

Great video! My five year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, but I really miss him.

[@PeguyFaour]

It's tough to let go of someone you care about. I can relate, my 12year relationship also ended, and I struggled to move on. I tried everything to get him back, even seeking help from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me reconnect with him.

[@PeguyFaour]

That's incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I contact one?

[@OsamahMinnis]

His name is Owen Abiola, and he’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in bringing back lost loves.

[@OsamahMinnis]

Owen Abiola has incredible powers, and he can assist you.

[@PeguyFaour]

Thank you for sharing this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and I'm impressed.

[@StephenCope-tc9un]

I found your channel today and I think you have become better looking the old you get

[@YourWingmam]

Welcome aboard, and don't forget to click on the notification bell to be notified whenever I release new content ❤ 🙏

[@WorldTravelerCooking]

Another thing is that honesty requires trust. If you do not trust the other to react in a sane way, it is very hard to be honest. And of course dishonesty further undermines trust.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@mr.goodwrench8273]

Thank you for such a good informative video. I enjoy the content you provide. May God richly bless you.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 😊 thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏🏼

[@shawnmcewen6210]

Thanks to you, I will ALWAYS look out for these.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@Florida_gyrl]

Amen! I tell myself that all the time - it’s much better to be single and waiting than taken and faking!

[@YourWingmam]

Oh, love that!

[@NoreenHoltzen]

Very good advice. Number 1 on the list will also be a direct consequence of the others above it, so if you take care of 2-10 then thankfully 1 won’t usually happen on its own.

[@LongtowerNyc]

When I bought my house I was so excited. When I told her, her response was “ok and what does that have to do with me?”.

[@oleo007]

This video helped me a lot, Soul Sucking Loss of Joy is exactly what happens to my ex-girlfriend, I tried everything to make her happy, but all the things I did were not good, and unfortunately she has a lot of trauma from past relationships like cheating, something I would never do with her. It's been two months since she broke up with me, I feel absurdly sad and with a huge guilt, sometimes I miss her immensely, and unfortunately I miss her a lot.

[@YourWingmam]

🫂

[@CreativEGenrE123]

Wow , Beautiful. Beautifully Explained. Thank You So Much. God Bless You.😊💐🤲🕊️🙏🏻

[@ssv5177]

Always enjoy your videos Anna! Keep it up

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you like them!

[@ItalNico]

My soon to be ex wife hit almost every one of these. I didn't get married until my 40s and spent most of my early years alone so I'm looking forward to returning to that simpler and drama free life. As I learned in my early relationships, being comfortable on your own requires a strength of character that very few people possess. However it can be used against you if you see it as a weakness. I was surprised the first few times I ended relationships and saw how devastated the women became just out of the fear of being alone. But once again, and perhaps for the last time, to quote Del Shannon...it is time to "Walk Away".

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@KB-jl9nl]

Then you can Run around run run Run around

[@DIMON13585]

Great video, especially for young inexperienced lads.

[@DayTwo-w8n]

This video can be a hard truth. But thank you Anna. Bless you in God's name.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙏

[@jamesmurray8669]

thanks for your helpful Advice

[@LiveToFly-Br]

If you need to let it clear to your wife that she needs to appretiate you, you are in big trouble. Very likely you were her second choice, a VERY BAD place to be.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@HEHE-dx9og]

They say broken hearts heal, NO they don`t. When you break a mans heart it will never be the same. 25 year marriage and my wife walked out on me 5 years ago. All she said was she was not happy. I have not been the same sense. I tried dating but can`t commit. Too afraid of getting hurt again. Sex now is just sex, No emotion attached to it. Just a good time and means nothing to me.

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@Elephantintheroom-t9i]

That is why it is imperative that you vet somebody for a few years before getting serious. (Yeah that’s right you heard me-a few years) And at the first signs of her going against your values,… You have to call it out and start lobbing off toes IMMEDIATELY.. do not be afraid of the confrontation.. it’s necessary for your pride and manhood. Because If you let her get away with those subtle shit tests, you are headed down Beta Boulevard

[@manu85345]

Thank you for your work! Most appreciated

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure! Thank you for watching!

[@worshipwhilewewait]

#1 made Us BOTH go "WOW" because it was the very reason We BOTH left our ex's. That AND the previous 9 but being #1 - losing Your Joy - whew. One of the FIRST questions We both asked each other (on Our first REAL date) was "what does 'Happy' look like to You?" No wonder that Date lasted 6 hrs...BIG question that we STILL ask each other.

[@YourWingmam]

Oh, great question to ask each other! Sounds like you found (and are) a keeper-- yay!

[@ajunteburns6894]

Hi AJ, it's AJ. I've Been at peace for 3 1/2 years because of your tips and KevinSamuels, rip. I don't miss being with a toxic woman. I plan on getting back in the dating arena soon. Working on myself.

[@actmyage2149]

Definitely a strong topic today. Thankfully I haven't had a relationship which went down that path (although marrying the daughter of a narcissist had plenty of challenges and nearly ended prematurely). Your analysis seems sound across the board. The point about lack of respect seems especially poignant, as women disrespecting men seems to have risen to the level of a sport on TikTok. These women are (perhaps unwittingly) labeling themselves as unsuitable for a relationship. "Where did all the good men go?" Away from you ma'am! Good job. Praying for you. -- Russ P PS/Snoozing pooches again today. Heading to my daughter's place before more rain comes in to re-install the mower deck I had to partially rebuild this week. Stay beautiful. ;)

[@YourWingmam]

Ah yes, even if someone has a narcissist in the family, they can wreak havoc. There's a thing called "outrage baiting" where content creators intentionally post outrages content to get angry clicks and comments. It often works and makes it look like there are way more narcs out there than there really are. Nonetheless, those folks have some shady values IMHO lol Scratch for the pooches, thank you for your prayers and the compliment, Russ!

[@nachojesus6460]

wingmam is such a cute word. good work!

[@templar1060]

Heck , this is every woman I know

[@YourWingmam]

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@ronlogreco876]

Having watched your videos for five years Anna, I think you fixed my relationship issues. I'm over 50 and I've come to realize (with your help) relationships involving sex are too much work and usually end badly. My solution is to separate the two. I only have sex with women who want sex without a relationship. I expected to have to pay for sex but haven't had to yet. I've discovered that if I share my concept with enough women that some of them want the same thing. Most of them want friendships without sex, a few want sex only and some don't want anything to do with me. I have more female friendships than ever without sex being the end game. If a women from either category wants to cross over I drop her. So far one from the friendship side wanted to cross over so I dropped her but after a few months we resumed our friendship. It seems to be working for me.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@pmartin6086]

What I get from your comment is an unwillingness to address the issues inside of ourselves that attract us to emotionally unavailable people. If we don't do the work, nothing changes.

[@ronlogreco876]

@@YourWingmam I failed to say that I'm happier than ever with my current relationships. Keep in mind I had two failed traditional marriage's and two wonderful children so I don't want a traditional relationship. Shellfish? Maybe

[@64maxpower]

Sharing a scary truth and reacting in a poor way is a huge flag I didn't realize it until you said it

[@YourWingmam]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏🏼

[@64maxpower]

@YourWingmam you can tell now is the time on Sunday evening I process your work after I check to see how you present yourself at 12pm release after going riding

[@mikemuha7537]

Great list.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 😊 thank you!

[@karihamalainen9622]

Cat and 10 signs - this is something I need now.

[@mobilemcsmarty1466]

makes sense, then I can sum up all with one word "respect." 😎

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@EricMoore790]

I can't take the pain of rejection anymore. No dates or relationships for me at this point.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙏