12 URGENT WARNING SIGNS She'll CHEAT On You SOON!

[@Barodil]

I do not comment a lot on YT but damn... This list had me questioning if you were spying on me and my Ex - did you? 😂 A few months have past since THE THING happened, and I am glad it's over, but what's more important - 90% of your points are bulls eye hits regarding the behaviour of my former girlfriend. Guys this is not made up, it's real so be aware and take action... Having to experience this taught me a lot. Do stand up for yourselves and do not let a women treat you badly. You deserve better! And yes it hurts letting people go, but do not waste your time with someone who's emotionally torturing you... That stuff is WAY worse! Btw. Thanks for the great content. It helps to slowly build up my self-esteem and glue together the shattered pieces still flying around in my head.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for a wonderful, heartfelt (and received) comment! You will get there..remember, you are the prize! Are you doing my WakeUP2Luv program? It helps you find the right pieces and glue them together a lot faster. Details if curious: members.wingmam.com/get-women/

[@lumpy19722323]

Well said! Im freshly out of a relationship that were constantly setting off red flags. I cant say forsure she was cheating....but when everything in your body is telling you somethings amiss you need to listen to that. Im at work, id send texts they go unanswered for hours, she would consistantly be late picking me up from work( I work afternoons)... texts all hours of the day and night, history and location always turned off....2 other phones which are always tucked away but are in use... She let me know the password to her phone but would always be logged out of all social media and has me blocked on all platforms... holding her phone in such away for me not to see.. hanging out a her male "friend"s place while im working. She would drop me off at work and wouldent have her make up on or hair done yet would pick me up from work and be done to the 9s.... Would never offer up any info on what she had been doing or where she was and if I asked I would ne made to feel like I was doing something. Like I said...I cant prove she was up to know good but considering her past and her need for attention...well if it looks walks and quacks like a duck...

[@thamostgangsta12]

Yes, keeping yourself in that situation as a man can put the woman at risk as well as your mental state. Cheating is ugly and neither one of your lives are worth a failing relationship. Sometimes the signs are there and people ignore them.

[@zandig666]

We r the dummy to keep inviting it back in through your door I remember 1 that would ask r u sure u want me over? Sure enough she meant her and Dr jeckle as well 🤪🤪🤪🤪

[@lloydkline1518]

Lots of woman one night stand rule isn" ,t cheating before marriages, or during marriage,, sex is about spending an hour plus with somebody alone,, whe very pretty , do i want to spend zn hour ahour alone with her,

[@MrGabrielJude]

Men be relieved if she cheats on you for 2 reasons: 1) she’s finally found the happiness she craves, and 2) she’s become his problem and not yours.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@jamesjhonson4568]

Never thought of it that way.

[@bretl8130]

life is short .. not worth wasting your time ...

[@akdelta38]

Good video, Thank you Covert NPD's are the worst! Not all narcs cheat and not all cheaters are narcs but You didn't lose the love of your life, you lost a parasite that was draining your life. Narcissists are not soulmates; they are predators in disguise, and understanding this is crucial to your healing. The person you see at the end of the relationship is who they really are.

[@freeman37]

Pro tip: if you feel it in your gut, she probably already is cheating. Disrespect is the biggest sign

[@YourWingmam]

Always important to listen to your intuition

[@DavidWilliams-pb6he]

You are correct!

[@zackgallagher3613]

Making me think

[@francismotionless393]

My ex used to go out with her "male friends!" To dinner in public. She would get mad when I asked her who she was texting, when it was at 1 or 2 am. She also started working out, and saying "she needs to lose weight!". Which she was beautiful

[@jk-kr8jt]

@@francismotionless393 that sucks. She was already getting her back blown out. Always trust your gut. And either way she is be disrespectful. Launch her.

[@gw6496]

When they do cheat the first time , never ever take them back!!! They will repeat that act.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@paulfool8728]

That act will never stop I experienced it !

[@jeremyarroyo360]

💯

[@donaldmackerer9032]

I have heard that a lot there must be something to it.

[@rubentello9792]

Yes ,she will, 32yrs of cheating and won't stop. Just getting better at lying, deceiving, more sneaky, planning to cheat better. Don't talk to me ir answer any questions so I won't catch her lying. No communication at all , just silence so I won't catch her lying

[@Aaron-fj5oh]

Signs she’s cheating, you’re watching this video 😂

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@fucitynot3]

Lmfao

[@zacharycrago2753]

Or you're a woman brushing up on your skills lol

[@NRGVAMPYRICGYPSIE]

GOTTEM

[@ccavila323]

No way 😔

[@freeman37]

Sometimes she will project her cheating on the guy, saying that "you're cheating" or "you don't pay attention to her like you used to". That's her projecting her own behaviour like a defense mechanism.

[@YourWingmam]

You're absolutely right!

[@MrScootmcg]

Projection or any other false accusations fantasies are always a red flag. If they involve accusations that you are cheating then yes its almost certain she's already doing it.

[@mercedes-amgforlife3237]

My x wife did this to me constantly. 6 months into our marriage I caught her on a dating app trying to find a new husband. The whole 7 year marriage she accused me of cheating, and when my divorce started I got into her social media to find "sexy" pics and all kinds of guys commenting on them including my friend of 21 years. She used that "you don't pay attention to me anymore" excuse as well. She also would put a pass lock on her phone, but if I did so she would go nuts. Also she began erasing all her call logs before I got home from work. I did cheat back after 4 years, as I got tired of being accused of something I wasn't doing, and thought "what the hell I should if I'm getting accused 24/7." Even though we're divorced now I still don't trust her at all, and probably never will even though she wants to "date". Even now she keeps me locked out of her personal life, but asks what I'm doing all the time.

[@lloydkline1518]

It the one night stand rule, woman do not consider one night stand stuff as cheating,,,,

[@rawheadnick1914]

Been there...

[@jeffwalker1322]

Men and women can’t be “ just “ friends. If she is spending time alone with him whether you know it or not, she IS cheating. True story

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@___spiritofadventure___]

Not true. Men and women can be friends of course. Most people are simply not attracted to most people sexually.

[@dailykaizen8313]

Men and women cannot be purely platinic friends. One or the other or both are lying.

[@gabarbanlawya172]

@@___spiritofadventure___ 🤥

[@aoisora9003]

"hes just a friend/coworker" Ha never gets old 😆

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@roberttroxell4006]

The most reliable sign for me has been the women becoming increasingly critical of me. This could include little “digs” at my intelligence or perceived manliness. As the criticisms mount, I know she is on her way out. With one girlfriend, I went from “perfect” at the beginning to ending up without any redeeming qualities.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@Xenophanes198]

Sounds like a covert narcissist. You dodged a bullet there my guy

[@kellygreenii]

Biggest thing is that she starts acting wierd…and you have no other explanation as to why. Unless your are dealing with a narcissist or a psychopath, the stress and the guilt will have her conscience start to eat away at her. It’ll come out in the form of new, weird behaviors.

[@silkroad1201]

If my girl cancelled plans with me to hang out with another dude, that's not a sign or a red flag, that's the end of the relationship

[@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor]

Then she will just say she's going with a friend who is a girl. Women are like children, you can expect them to try to hide what they are doing.

[@PrimalKingTV]

One sign is if she has cheated on a previous partner before you.

[@YourWingmam]

Excellent addition! Especially if she doesn't regret it and blames him!!

[@PrimalKingTV]

@@YourWingmam 💯👏👏

[@tamuman93]

Cheaters always gonna cheat. Stay away from them.

[@michaelburgoyne328]

yes

[@yoitzjustnightbot6721]

Or they cheated on someone with you 😂

[@E3fieldservices7144]

Never be too attached to a woman that you can't drop her when she crosses the line and absolutely never take her back

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@TrollingHistory]

Said a guy who has no kids. No shared responsibility. Mortgage. Old dog. Car payments 100% intertwined world. It's alot harder then. But it can always be done you just have to walk away and let her and her new boyfriend have it all. You have nothing. Sleep easy knowing new guy is raising your kids. Sleeping on your side of the bed. With his underwear in your drawers. Don't worry about the dog he had that put to sleep week 2. After wifey walked him everyday for weeks to new guys mums house. But sure. What you said.

[@E3fieldservices7144]

@As-if If-as I had all that and kicked her out of my house and took the kids and the dog she never seen it coming too busy with her new man

[@PeterShaw-ne1yq]

@as-ifif-as3081 Romantic liaisons are a core risk nowadays! You have not much comeback when the romance flops belly up - your belly usually; women are like 🐈 's and land on their feet 🫤

[@broadkast477]

Code to live by.

[@sandyshore2712]

Cheating is a complicated behaviour and usually doesn't work out well. If you feel like cheating, end the relationship.

[@YourWingmam]

Agreed!

[@timjohnson1199]

Cheating is a (I would think) a lot of work. If you're so motivated to cheat there's some big problems. And, cheating takes a lot of energy and probably money.

[@eddaimes2247]

only from a human perspective

[@Johnny.1965]

Cheating is no accident, it's a pre planned act...

[@Jerry-yb7po]

​@@timjohnson1199it usually costs you money ....

[@yegotyp4084]

The trickiest thing- we don’t want to believe in the worst. I experienced most of the red flags with my ex girlfriend. I dismissed my gut feelings thoug, because I didn’t want to believe in harsh truth. Thank you Anna.

[@YourWingmam]

You are not alone! Men aren't given enough credit for intuition. Listen to your gut! :)

[@kayasper6081]

My ex had a very close friend. She always stressed that there absolutely was nothing romantic going on. Although it didn't feel well, I took her word serious and didn't want to limit her social life. I just trusted in her because I want to be trusted too when I say something. However, it turned out that they had sex several times during all those years. Hard to understand for an honest person.

[@YourWingmam]

That's the thing, when you're a good person you don't expect it from them. Sorry that happened to you! :(

[@tamuman93]

Brother, they had sex several times every week over those years. And no doubt there were times they had sex several times in a day numerous times on top of that. When a cheater gets caught, their fall back is that “it only happened once…” or “it only happened a few times….”. Don’t believe those lies

[@DNAisWookieUSER]

exact same hjappened to me . thi list is so true

[@kayasper6081]

@wanker2us wally Yes. I am one of those silly man who are too faithful and always try to find a solution together. But this went too far, so I divorced her. I would never ever cheat or betray nor my friends nor my wife, and don't expect them to do that me either. Now I am with another woman and we're very happy🤗

[@dano9421]

@@kayasper6081 that is why you are a wanker

[@trentk268]

Once you feel it, she's doing it.

[@korypo303]

True.

[@roadrunner776]

@@trentk268 not true 💯

[@MSc96-bv8ku]

No, some man are insecure

[@danielscuiry2847]

The woman who did this to me was practically open about it. I even caught her in a blatant lie. I only wish I’d ended it right there than letting it drag on. Lesson learned I hope.

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@actmyage2149]

On male-female friendships: when my wife was alive, I learned that it made sense not to get close to other women. It's too risky -- don't allow chemistry to form. Since being single, I have female friends, but it is because I know I have no interest in them beyond friendship. Your list: horrible, but absolutely on point. I've seen this before. I hope everyone else watching takes this to heart. These symptoms are a call to action if you hope to preserve/fix/restore the relationship. Valuable video. Hoping you're well. Been upping the prayers a bit lately; just felt appropriate. God bless you! -- Russ P PS/Is that Stuffy caught behind the plant? Looks uncomfortable, if it is!

[@YourWingmam]

Anyone who's experienced these signs will feel gut punched for sure! Thank you for the extra prayers, needed... pray for Canada!! Cat hiding: may need to learn a trick or two from kitty! Eep. God bless!

[@estherchang4174]

Being happy couple are most dangerous to the seduces from hunters .

[@deviousj5868]

No need to try to fix it. Cut your losses if she's doing this there's nothing to fix. It's over. I personally never open my "heart" to others because personally to me "love" doesn't exist. Its a concept I cannot grasp.

[@alexguild]

I'm being counseling/helping people in relationships for many years and I find this list very accurate and helpful for people.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@mushinkandoshu1588]

One real warning sign is when she stops being concerned that her family likes and accepts you. When she no longer cares about how they relate to you then you can be very certain that she is no longer interested in you. She has someone else in mind.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@brambledemon1232]

All good points. This is why you need a prenuptial agreement. No alimony. No division of retirement income and pensions. Protect yourself. This is especially true if you live in no fault states, and make sure that you get a lawyer to negotiate it. My ex wife’s affair was the absolute best thing that happened to me, because it freed me up to start living again and it allowed me to break free from a toxic person. In my second marriage, if she cheats, I walk away free and clear. She gets nothing. The single dumbest thing a man can do is marry a woman without a prenuptial agreement.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@18wheeler76]

wrong,this is why you dont get married at all.what is the point of making a contract with the government that says she gets everything in the divorce ? and what is the point of going into huge debt for a 1 night party that no one cares about 1 second after its over ?

[@brambledemon1232]

@@18wheeler76 There’s a whole slew of benefits that come from being married over not being married to someone that you’re sharing your life with. Pensions. Healthcare. Survivorship benefits. End of life care. You’re assuming that the relationship will fail. Even if my marriage failed, what I’ve gotten thus far exceeds what I would’ve gotten had I stayed single.

[@brambledemon1232]

@John Stevenson go look at the numbers. In virtually every metric there is, married men beat out single guys. Economics. Health. Happiness. Married men live longer.

[@mittis64]

@@brambledemon1232 its not longevity its the quality of live that counts.

[@dwocelot6913]

By the time you think your woman is considering cheating on you, she already has

[@YourWingmam]

Often that is true! Watch for early subtle signs. Cheating doesn't usually happen overnight for women.

[@JorgePalomera-hd4lk]

@@YourWingmam I need your advice

[@calebcunningham4106]

I don't want to come across as insecure, controlling, or unreasonably jealous, so it's difficult to know when to address something that bothers me and when to just make a mental note of it or just overlook it. The accumulation of these red flags is a good indicator of a cheater but it's still very painful and often irreparable by the time you discover infidelity. The best solution is to avoid situations as much as possible where you might be tempted to cheat or where it might look suspicious.

[@YourWingmam]

I feel you it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@AndresCMas]

See if she does it 3 times, then have a talk about it

[@lexluther1642]

as someone who recently filed for divorce and did marriage counseling for 2 years... both counselors we went to agreed that friends of the opposite sex are inappropriate in a marriage. Its not controlling... its exactly how you should feel.

[@enri74cv]

People who cheat will do it no matter what you say or do. It's just a matter of time..

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@roborovski008]

Discovered this video too late but it's so 100% true, found her cheating and she's the one that dumped me. never did I feel so down in my life. Gladly I'm starting to move on slowly but surely.

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@michaelvandeginste3497]

Instead of cheating, my ex dumped me so that she could run straight to the new guy free of guilt. Before that, though, several of the red flags were present that I didn't heed until it was too late. She talked about him a lot, hung out with him on campus after class, bombarded me with a bunch of new problems she had with our relationship and then set me up to fail something so as to make that the last straw, so to speak. I guess I'm only sharing this to warn others if they see things similar to this.

[@YourWingmam]

Unfortunately, this is happening out there. Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@bbc20231]

Thanks bro

[@ScrimaGames1]

Dumping and moving on right away with other guys IS cheating. That's worth mentioning.

[@jeffmann4201]

You are spot on, Anna. Sadly, I have experienced all of these red flags with a very serious ex girlfriend. Another one not mentioned is when we three would be out for dinner and she and he would share food from the same fork or fingers. I was correct in thinking something was up and asked her about it only to be told I had bad judgement. I consider that to be psychological abuse. The answer for me was to end the relationship and define -for me- what love is in my mind. If you have to “sell” your partner on love and loyalty, you don’t have either. I’m jumping around too much, time to stop.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@bbc20231]

Thank you for this. If you have to explain too much it’s not the one.

[@Jerry-yb7po]

What were the 3 of you doing out to dinner?

[@thebestofj.fraley]

I've been cheated on by a couple of women. I'm not going to go through that again. IF, and I do mean IF I ever get into another relationship and I start seeing the same signs as I did before, if its my house, she would be ousted. If its her house, I out the door making tracks. I honestly doubt I will ever be in a relationship again because I have serious trust issues and its not something I can just get over. When it happens, its a complete betrayal of trust and I am broken because of women.

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@f.r.ashley1317]

Same here bro, I’ll never fully trust again.

[@thebestofj.fraley]

@wanker2us wally I don't have a problem with being alone. I save money and so far I've returned to college to upgrade my degrees. If I were with a woman, I would not be able to afford college and probably wouldn't have enough money for TP.

[@blackporscheroadster-yw8hb]

Don't let vacuous superficial women define you. Go your own way and do you own thing. Plenty of porn on the interweb.

[@seven7upndown241]

i hear all you who share your stories, like these things happened to a close friend or relative or maybe me. it is an honor t share your pain and betrayal my man of the things i see especially married women who put themselves in situation and allow to be manipulated to feel loved and excited like they are young girls. Only God can discipline them at this point.

[@willd3rbeast]

You are spot on with all of these red flags.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad the video was helpful!

[@frankwhite1928]

One hundred percent agree Anna .. DO NOT CHEAT! Make it perfectly clear to her once you become exclusive that cheating is a deal breaker and define it. For me it's any relationship with another man that keeps secret or lies about. The same rules apply to YOU. There's no getting away with cheating, if you stay in a relationship with some who cheated on you or you cheated on ... it never goes away EVER!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@tcfc85]

1. partners dont have friends of the opposite sex 2. both parties should have full access to each other phones and social media passwords 3. both should share locations 24/7 4. one doesnt go out without the other. there u go. pretty simple.

[@Majorhavoktv]

Not so much nowadays, but I do appreciate how it should be.

[@michaelhaney3388]

Thank you for this tip. Cheated for sure. I confronted the guy and he ran. She ran also. This happened many years ago.

[@YourWingmam]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@gglehteswhtemnAdChrstns]

6 mins in , “leave first, do not cheat”! Well this opens up to the most common form of cheating such as; “let’s take a small break so we can bind ourselves again”. She then pummels some guy for 2/3 weeks, then she wants to get back, she turns up at your foot step and says “let’s get back together, you are the one”!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@wachaushenzi]

If you take her back then, please paste this on forehead.. 🤡

[@casual9982]

@@wachaushenzi lol seriously though

[@PeterShaw-ne1yq]

She might be harbouring some undisclosed travelling companions 😮

[@JamesOnen]

Assume that no matter what you do, she will cheat anyway. Just operate accordingly. She's not yours, its just your turn. Do not get married. Live happy!

[@YourWingmam]

Choose well, don't take her for granted and you'll have less risk. Marriage in the West is like playing Russian roulette with a half loaded gun!

[@mikebaker7355]

💯 percent facts 🙏

[@adventureswithreggie]

The bonus tip definitely struck a chord with me. That happened almost verbatim. The day before my wife left she blamed me for everything and accused me of cheating, said that she couldn't trust me because of the new job I got that was for us. The couple of weeks leading up to this she was very ugly and accused me of belittling her, trying to make her a house wife, lying to her in order to get her to marry me.

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@jsisk117]

Wow dude the woman I'm with is saying the same things

[@matthewschwartz6607]

Sounds kind of toxic.

[@joshuaburns4242]

@@jsisk117 You posted this 11 months ago, has anything happened?

[@AndresCMas]

@@joshuaburns4242 what about you my guy?

[@realmenez]

The editing is great 🙌🏽 I been cheated on and I didn’t notice the red flags till it was too late. Love can really blind you from the truth 😅 and you’re just spot on with everything 💯

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you! Sorry that happened to you. :(

[@PatrioticAmerican77]

Anna.....your doing a good deed out there by helping out us brothers who have good hearts and good intentions.. You definitely found your calling in life. Don't ever lose focus on what your doing, many thanks.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!

[@blackporscheroadster-yw8hb]

YOU'RE

[@PatrioticAmerican77]

@@blackporscheroadster-yw8hbTry to act all bobby bad a** ok grammar police🚔!YOUR,YOUR,YOUR,YOUR,YOUR,YOUR,YOUR, YOUR, UR, UR, UR, UR, UR, UR, UR, UR

[@hwy27west]

So true, and you nailed it! Sad to say when I was young and dumb, I suspected before I knew, but it was too late. Thank you for your wisdom…

[@YourWingmam]

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@Dustinwhy8]

If you find yourself looking for proof of cheating, or vice versa, it’s already too late. The trust is gone.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@RealLifeFinance]

From Someone who has been cheated on twice by different women in marriage. This list is legit....And those 12 Red Flag behaviors (when caught twice doing same one) are a pattern and need to be addressed ASAP. Take it from me.

[@YourWingmam]

Sorry that happened to you! That sucks, no question. Don't sweep it under the rug, it won't fix itself. Thanks for sharing your experience, please share this video if you think it will save other men from heartache!

[@RealLifeFinance]

@@YourWingmam Your channel not only advises people, it helps many heal. Such as me.

[@scottmurray5600]

@@RealLifeFinance Well said

[@russellmiles2861]

You don’t control another’s sexual behaviour. You can always leave. This was all your problem.

[@johnswofford599]

Thank you for doing this. I lived 11 out of 12 of your signs with my ex-wife when she decided to cheat on me with a married man - total Tyrone. It got really ugly. I hope your advice helps those that may be going through this now.

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@johnswofford599]

@@YourWingmam Thank you so much. It was a long time ago, and I have left it behind. I was just amazed how spot on your advice was.

[@peterwinzeler2935]

Thank you Anna for being honest. That’s all we want(well,not all🙂). I can handle the truth a hell of a lot easier than a lie!

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*When someone starts pulling away emotionally or stops sharing personal thoughts, it’s often a red flag. If she’s not confiding in you like before, it’s time to address it openly and ask her what’s really going on.*

[@dragonlord1689]

I broke up with a ex because I can tell she was going to cheat on me. It started with her getting a call from an old friend everything normal but the friend mentioned that my ex gfs ex bf had gotten sick. This is the same man that for weeks she told me was abusive and she hated him and hey I was so much better. She seemed concerned and I joked well maybe it’s he at least had to miss work her response about the person she “hated” “Oh I hope he didn’t have to miss work!” That made alarms go off in my head why should she even care?? The NEXT day she starts making fun of me for being a goodie two shoes for following the speed limit and being just law abiding. She started saying she wished I was more dangerous. She also stopped packing my lunch, kissing me when I left for work or even waking up when I left to say goodbye. Of course then she told me how “You know I’d to start texting (her ex) again and be friends” I told her no I’m not comfortable with that he was only an hour away and I could already see he had control of her because she got mad when I told her no. She called me insecure and even told me it didn’t matter because she was her own women and I can deal with it! I told her the fuck I didn’t and broke up with her cause I could see how much she WANTED to be with him. I knew he would fuck won’t our relationship and maybe fuck her just as a “I fucked your girl” gloat he was a major asshole the few times I had to interact with him. She tried to reason it with my best friend being a women didn’t matter that we had never dated and she lives STATES away like hours by plane far. And is MARRIED WITH A KID! I’m close with her family we have been friends for years. She said well I could fly her down to my town for a night and say I’m at work (I work overnights) I was amazed by her bullshit and told her yeah cause that’s the same as your ex living an hour away! Who can easily drive here when I’m at work yeah ok! Seeing how much this meant to her I dumped her cause I could see she was obsessed with this guy. Best part her family kicked her out and I let her move in with me 😂 so I kicked her out to and she had to move in with someone else. Like idk if her feelings changed hearing about him or it was a long con and she thought I would just let happen but she gambled wrong 🤣

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@casual9982]

Thanks for sharing this. I'm experiencing similar issues with my current girlfriend and her kids dad. They haven't escalated quite to this point yet...but this sounds too familiar! I'm keeping a close eye on things👀

[@seven7upndown241]

Whaa

[@currymanmrkerryking]

It was around about the same time that she started accusing me of being "cagey" and "protective" over my phone and constantly staring at my phone....that I began to notice....how cagey and protective she had become over her phone and that she was constantly staring at her phone. Then she started leaving the room or getting far away from me to answer her phone every time it rang, behaviour that she hadn't displayed previously. Her accusations of my behaviour (this has never been my behaviour) was what brought her suspicious change in behaviour to my attention and essentially ratted herself out. This is a common one too gentlemen.....seen/heard similar in a lot of other people's relationships since it happened to me.

[@wingslenses1800]

Hi Anna, OMG. This video just fell in my life from a past woman I thought was the one. A married couple friends of mine told me to back away from her. Which I did this is where my comments come from. A book I read also said, if you feel you are being ignored. Back away and never go back... Great video I will certainly see the next video you make. Take Care and have a great week, George.

[@YourWingmam]

❤ 🙂 Thank you very much, George and take care of yourself as well!

[@geronimo67]

Thanks!

[@YourWingmam]

You’re welcome and thank you so much for supporting my channel! 🙏🥰

[@kittomeow8339]

I now earn every week. You’re such a blessing to this generation, we all love you

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@scottpella7419]

Damn…you described my ex wife to a T!! And I missed them all🤣 10 years later, and I can honestly just laugh about it. Good work here!! Hope it helps someone

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@bernicebasanesjr8650]

this all signs mentioned is absolutely correct,I do have an experience that my ex cheated and decieved me for having an affair of another guy(foreigner) the painful part is that the other guy which she had a relationship send me their conversation as a proof that they have a relationship but my ex denied even have conversation between them...CHEATER IS ALWAYS A CHEATER

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@bernicebasanesjr8650]

thanks mam

[@bbc20231]

Sorry mann

[@drat9625]

If she allows anything that even looks suspicious, if she doesn't have the self respect to avoid the very appearance; dump her. She has no respect for you or your dignity. Never entertain the excuses. If you catch her, she will hate you. If you accuse her, she will hate you. Either way, you lose, and of course it is always your fault. Just dump her and move on with your dignity and pride in tact. And to the guy who is cheating with her, do you really think if she cheats on me, she won't cheat on you to???

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@alexmorgan3435]

So glad I am single. Can't be doing with all that. Life is too short to be dealing with false 2 faced people.

[@YourWingmam]

Not all women cheat. But... there are benefits of staying single: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fXyoaqaBrM97lck

[@8520204]

She said to me: "I'll never give you up. Someone else would snap you up just like that." Two months later she emptied the bank account and was gone.

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@8520204]

@@YourWingmam I forgot to add, 18 months after she left - one week before the divorce was final - I get a letter from her stating: "You're not such a bad guy, I think I'll keep you." Well, I had learned my lesson. I stayed calm and was single for the next 12 years before marrying again.

[@PeterShaw-ne1yq]

Someone else did 🤔

[@guntertorfs6486]

You forgot the Asian Chad : the Chang. This video seems to be along the same line of the video from two weeks ago. You made it so comprehensive it covers almost all possibilities. Great work. Agree with all of it. It's an important subject that needs to be adressed , but don't become too gloomy will ya. ( no you're not there yet ,of course ) The Anna i got to know from your memoir can be melancholic but looks at everything with a ( your ) quirky sense of humor. So endearing. Keep up the good work , lovely lady.

[@robaldridge6505]

thats his cousin, you mean Wang

[@guntertorfs6486]

@@robaldridge6505 OK my bad. Thanks.

[@YourWingmam]

Chang! lol love that! Careful on the gloom: noted! Thanks for reading my quirky memoir!!

[@LutherThompson-rj2hy]

My ex may or may not have left before she actually performed acts, but she definitely decided she was unhappy and must be elsewhere. I learned the hard way that you cannot make someone happy who refuses to be happy, and would rather have someone else and compares you unfavorably to her preferred other.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@matthewlalone3243]

On most of these points, I agree with her. But saying cheating can be prevented? Nope. Once someone wants to cheat, they're going to. There's no stopping that. Cheating starts in the mind first. After that, a person cheats. It might not be physical, but its a start. If you're going to be with someone, always look out for yourself. Always lay the boundaries and ground rules first before dating. That way a woman understands what she's getting into.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@andyhinds542]

I think a lot of these traits also apply to men. Also, yes, I have experienced these behaviours, too. When my ex-fiancée in the mid-90s kept talking about a bloke at Hendon Police college that she was spending a lot of time with who was 18 years older than her.

[@YourWingmam]

True re: men! And yes, the signs are almost always there.

[@Coffeendonuts]

Old women love being piped down by young guys

[@gregmacklin9758]

This may not go over too well, but I noticed people early on (high school) early if someone lacked emotional integrity. And what I've noticed in people is once they cheat no matter what form of cheating, they don't stop . I've heard a few opinions on this topic, and so many people have discussed the reasons why people cheat. And after listening to enough professionals my conclusion is people who cheat on relationships don't need a reason. Just an opportunity. People who cheat are never fulfilled in general. No matter who their with their constantly on the hunt for attention and selfe gratification in someone else's circle. As far as rationalization of these personality traits goes, I don't think you can. Your either an honest person, or your not.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@pedramshawd4800]

Well said. Fully agree 👍

[@rooksman64]

maybe emotional maturity

[@blackporscheroadster-yw8hb]

You're either an honest person, or you're not.

[@lonnieHodge4496]

This is so spot on. My last relationship was exactly all of this.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@concernedandequal1928]

Hey @YourWingman, I really enjoyed the video, it was very informative. I recently got out of a three year relationship and what hurts most is that there was no closure. I'm not 100% positive that she cheated, but there's a good chance that she did. I have that gut feeling. She went out with her friends. Told me she was almost going home but never messaged me again after that for two hours. My first gut feeling was that she had been drinking, so I went looking for her. Once I got near her house, she messaged me saying she was fine. I call her, clearly she's drunk. So I ask her to give me her location so I can go pick her up. SHe refuses to give me her location. I call her again to insist she shouldn't drive and a female friend picks up the phone, and then a guy picks up the phone even though she told me it was just her and her female friends. The whole night she refused to tell me where she is or who she is actually with. Long story short, once we finally met like at 3 am, she yelled at me, cussed at me, accused me of being insecure. When I would call her out on her lies she would break down and cry. I finally told her that I think she was out cheating or at the very least meeting with people she did not want me to see her with. TO make things worse, she got a message from someone on snapchat as we argued and she said "let me just message him back." And I said "who is him?" And she said "I meant them."' She made me look into her eyes as she told me she would never cheat on me. But my gut feeling tells me she was doing something very wrong. Anyway, it's over. The best part about your video is when you tell us guys to listen to our gut feeling. I had a gut feeling she had been drinking and I was right. My gut tells me she was hanging out with another guy. I think I'm right about that too.

[@YourWingmam]

Always important to listen to your intuition

[@alanherook4171]

I love your Down to Earth answers and questions without all the fluff involved

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@bartrobertson8444]

I was in an open relationship ,but she never told me

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@Poraqui]

True story here. I was doing the long distance thing with someone. She was 3 hours away. Over the phone we were always lovy doby so I was satisfied on how things were going. At a given time it was my time to go see her and make the trip. I was as always very welcomed when she saw me and then we proceeded to get to her home. When she was laying her things down on the dresser like keys and cellphone I've noticed she put the phone with the screen down. In that moment I asked her about that and she said it was unintentional hehe. So I asked her if I could see her phone while offering my unlocked phone for her to browse too. She didn't wanna do it so then and there I dumped her and made in that very same day the 3hour trip back. Nothing feels better than self respect.

[@Naejonah]

Your a G bro

[@blackporscheroadster-yw8hb]

@@Naejonah You're

[@kvs7876]

My girl , for now, has been talking to an older ex who is wealthy but married. No character or integrity on both of them.

[@YourWingmam]

Why are you with her?

[@paulg2132]

Yes, Anna, you nailed the traits/symptoms. I will spare you the details. On the flipside, I have had and do have great platonic relationships with women friends.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@michaelmoore1331]

I recall how I responded to offers to cheat (When I was married). I would respond, "It occurs to me that if I were the sort of man to cheat on my wife, I would not be the sort you are seeking."

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@Dbo61999]

I think the hardest thing to do is trust a woman when she says trust me. Or says she’s not lying but she is. How can you disprove these words without legit following them around or going through their phones? Even today’s apps make it 100X easier to cheat. Just feels like the easiest time in human history for a man to be insecure, especially younger generations.

[@YourWingmam]

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation but the focus should be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@rubentello9792]

Very true, dont trust her. We are supposed to trust but cant.

[@bobdillon1138]

Its a sign of the times but i would expect most woman today will cheat on you sooner or later if the opportunity presents and she thinks she is not likely to get caught out.

[@marus3953]

She's right, these are signs I see from people sharing about their SO cheating.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@justinjackson4073]

I have several female friends who've been close friends like brother and sister for year and years and years. We've never crossed the line that way and won't because our friendship is more important than risking the possibility of ruining things by sleeping together.

[@joanchonescamilla4541]

Bullshit,you don't plan that shit ,or maybe your friends are ugly ,if you say they're not then you prove my point...

[@justinjackson4073]

@@joanchonescamilla4541 or maybe I went to school together and lived across the street since we was 12 and 13 and I was with my first wife at 15 and spent pretty much a whole 3 yrs from 12 to 15 in a high security juvenile psychiatric institution with 9 months of the 3 yrs spent at Department of corrections juvenile facility. One who lived across the street older brother was in there with me. She ain't ugly. My blood sister is beautiful don't mean I wanna fuck her neither! My two other long time female friends I trust 💯 are two of my brothers wives who passed several years back and still very much loved and missed. We all enjoy talking about both em. One of them is my roommate. Her and her boyfriend. She didn't even date or want to date after he passed. Destroyed her cause it was unexpected and less than two weeks quick. We were together daily for the next couple years and come stay several days with me and my girlfriend at the time. The other one works a lot and drops the kids off with me Uncle Justin who they love because they can get away with more from mom because Uncle Justin was there and my fault for letting them. Lil shits! Lol It's cool having a little company from bro's kids I was at the hospital with bro when all 3 were born and love them to death! Neither one of em are ugly neither but there's two things maybe you don't understand so I'll explain. If you are a real brother and been brother's for more than enough years it goes without question we got that love and loyalty and the highest respect for each other it doesn't end if they pass away and I personally believe if you would mess with a bro's wife even if he's passed away or gone for 30yrs in prison you had it on your mind while he was alive. Both bro's married to these same two women like 17 and 23 years so they were sisters long before husbands passed. I got the upmost respect for and 💯 loyal to both. I see nothing hard to believe about that but some just can't be a friend only and enjoy how it feels when you or your female friends gotta worry bout some lame perv doing shit I can't fucking believe and beyond disrespectful. It doesn't happen again and pretty much exactly why we all hang together. My ex tried setting me up got me arrested and charged facing 8 to 15 state and whatever feds were gonna do. My roommate is who fucking come got the gun my ex said I was highly intoxicated and threatening to kill her and her 3 boys with who'd been living with me the prior 3 months and broke up with with ex for right at 4 months. I kept the boys cause she kept fucking up her living arrangements and no place for the boys. We had talked about and looked into getting started on the adoption process and ask the two youngest 6 and 8 if they would want to do that or think about and whatever answer they have nothing changes between me and them and raised em like my own almost 4 yrs their dad will never be allowed around them ever again and that's how the court felt too and he doesn't care anyway. Few other females in my life done foul shit as well and I don't trust most women which doesn't mean I don't know there are some very good women out there. I'm saying I can't tell em apart to well and don't even want to change how things are now. It's peaceful and all 5 of us including roommate's boyfriend are on a level that none of us wants shit from each other, completely comfortable with each other and not one of us has anything bad to say about any of us. They will punish a bitch for trying to do bad shit to me and apparently I have no say in that decision because how I feel bout hitting women and I was told they don't interfere if us men got to fighting and us men are to stay out of theirs when I'd be doing the exact same thing if someone done them bad or hurt em.. Couldn't disagree cause a couple times they got what happened out and with it being the two telling us and done to them if anything isn't 💯 FACTS it's because they don't want us in trouble or going to prison over them so I could see them leaving something out and not willing to risk our freedom. I can understand why and not mad about it. All I really need is just enough legitimate reason that is true. I believe every word they say on a situation as serious as they are at times. Thru all the years and every situation I was involved in I was pretty much either with em when something happens, called to deal with an issue or talked to about an issue to get my thoughts on it and not once have I heard them exaggerate or story changed when it's serious shit. They talk shit and crack on folks for fun too but absolutely trusted by me, the boyfriend of roommate plus roommate's daughter and her husband when they are around. We are for all our concerns a tight knit family and sadly lost a few that can't begin to be replaced or ever stop being missed and kept alive in our memories and conversations. Now just because we see someone pretty, beautiful or even very attractive and as a man doesn't mean we want to have sex with everyone one we see. If you do you should probably talk to someone because I have a hard enough time thinking bout one woman who I'm with and intense desire for I can't think about anything else. Lol I know some women who are stunningly beautiful and straight up evil bitches and ain't allowed around my house period! I've dated a couple girls who some might call a 4 or 5 but both became 8 or 9s after you meet and get to know them. Amazing, genuine not one damn thing to not like about them. Still stay in touch with both and my fault both relationship's got ended how they did and not because in any way we wanted to break up or had hurt the other at all. I got locked up and gonna be a minute before I get out and I wouldn't let her wait putting her life on hold for me for yrs and pretty much expect getting even more time. That ain't fair to her at all but she was definitely gonna hang if left up to her. The other one I wasn't given a choice and told to mine and my dad's face right after beating a case they tried using to get rid of me for good that I better leave the state don't come back because they will put me under the prison next time. Sheriff and Prosecutor both and 💯 a legit meant every word direct threat to my face. My dad is well respected CFO at Smith and Nephew a big medical company. He also went to school with folks who know stuff cause they are high up in places to and told to my dad by a few that threat was on my life and better believe I ain't safe and the cops hate me that much because I am right and beat em in court. I don't even risk going to visit and they come here instead to visit.

[@vickigonya9432]

Yes, Ive been platonic friends with my ex-husband's best friend since 1989. He's married and I'm friends with his wife as well. Our texts are not flirty. We occasionally eat lunch at a restaurant but only because we are working together. We all 3 remodel houses. There is not now nor has there ever been any interest between us - nothing flirty, inappropriate nor secretive. In fact our conversations are on speaker phone. I don't get involved in their relationship. And I don't involve them in my life. 😊

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@elitewitnesssolutions5572]

This video is so incisive. Not just this but everyone AJ makes. Keep it going you’re doing a great job.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏

[@CochoAntonio]

Anna is so right on this one! I got dumped for the so called "best friend" twice, so guys when you spot these signs act immediately for your own good, you deserve better.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

[@veruc_w]

Contempt... is what I felt.... and then she left me still there hanging around till I gathered the dots and left myself. Our relationship lasted 8,5 years... and for a while I thought shell come and explain, but never did. No closure whatsoever. And even I was left with no good explanation... I needed to accept it that way, and hopefully I will move on.

[@YourWingmam]

🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.

[@alejandro3485]

The male female friendship crap is such a modern day westernized society problem. I left a girl (not a woman) because she had her “day 1” best guy friends. They would call her, text her, check in on her, chit chat on video calls, hang out together, etc. Once you get in a serious relationship and have respect for your partner you make the sacrifice and cut out friends of the opposite sex. There are rare occasions that this may work with all parties but a majority of people are not and should not tolerate opposite sex close friendships. A shoulder to cry on can become a d1ck to ride on. When I was in my teens and 20s I had my “bestie” female friends. When I got older and started getting serious with someone I lost them ALL because I decided to become an adult. It’s disrespectful to be with someone and constantly be communicating and interacting with someone of the opposite sex that isn’t your partner. Men, don’t put up with females that have these bestie guy friends. Leave them and let the guy friends take care of them.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@michaelsix9684]

good advice

[@j.p.5373]

Absolutely true bro !!

[@johnnyboy3357]

Its the power of media to corrupt unsuspecting people, if its portrayed in media that opposite genders can become besties, expect ignorant people to follow suit, opposite genders besties i believe was popularized only in recent generations, decades ago it reeks with malice, why is media doing it, there is a reason why at this point in civilization morality is being torn apart, its a corrupt cycle in any civilization

[@everypetravideoever8065]

She hid her phone from me and they Text her a 1:30 in the morning.

[@YourWingmam]

🙏 I hope she reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

[@everypetravideoever8065]

Thanks

[@gregorycarlson6632]

I’ve been dealing with this kind of thing for many years on a professional level and share some thoughts and observations. There is a sequence here 1.) Infatuation or “crush” then becomes 2.) Emotional Affair, then becomes 3.) Physical affair. But, it ALWAYS begins with infatuation. One way to tell if your partner is infatuated with someone is the way they get ready when they are going to be in presence of that person. This is most easily observed in women. She “goes the extra mile” in looking good. A bit more attention to hair, makeup, outfit, etc. I liken it to how she gets ready for a first date.🤔 Guys, if you see this in your partner you have a problem on your hands! If the other person is equally infatuated, you have a huge problem on your hands! You need to confront it immediately. It’s important that she knows you’re noticing this. Guys, watch out when you’re with a couple you socialize with. That’s where it very often begins. This was a great video with very helpful insights.👍

[@handsome_Xpress]

You’re part of the 1% of women that don’t deny the truth… thank you 🙏🏽

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️

[@davids.8496]

B I N G O! Anna, you nailed those signs. Those are spot on what happened in my relationship. How do you know these things....please don’t tell me you cheated to gain this knowledge? Unfortunately for me, I did not have Anna’s videos back when they would have been really really helpful to me....but I got them now. Know the signs! Look for the RED FLAGS. Remember the 5 D’s of relationships: Dodge, Duck, Dip, Dive and Dodge!

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry that happened to you! I've gathered my intel from study, observation, coaching and personal experience to help others avoid heartache. Red flags: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ

[@rickeustace7343]

Wow, Pardon the pun, BANG on................I wish I saw this last year. Your video's are great and thank you for your wisdom.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@mickeybonejelly]

A very interesting video I recommend anyone who suspects there is a problem in their relationship watch this and take note. Hi Anna, you are bang on with all these signs, I had this happen to me many years ago and literally as you were saying them I was thinking yeah she did this ,she did that. At the time I had a feeling something wasn't right but couldn't prove it and confronted her but she denied it was happening. I thought I was going crazy!! In the end I broke our relationship up, she finally realized he was just using her and came back to me.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@davidsherman7868]

When I realized the girlfriend, who was living with me, was cheating on me, and the guy she cheated with, she literally acted like I hadn't just arrived at my home( apartment) from work. Totally ignored me while speaking to her. The guy let me in. He was kind of a friend I played league pool with. And there was another, female friend that night. It was very sudden. Almost completely out of left field. I had suspected, but no clear signs, until that night.

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@motoman1997]

I don't understand why none sees how simple it is, just don't get into a exclusive committed relationship keep it casual and you'll never get hurt by a manipulative cheating woman. 🙂

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@ruilotz]

Gut feel is sooo real... At first it was just gut feel that i accused her of having an affair with another guy. And she got so angry that i never seen before in our life together and suddenly plays her blame game on me She also exhibited signs of change like taking too much time to fix herself, wearing flattering clothes, often wears perfume, late coming home from work, pwd proofs her phone, girls night out etc. Because of this weird feeling i was able to hack her messenger acct (even though i really dont know how to; maybe the universe just conspired to let me know the truth) and lo and behold what i found out....

[@YourWingmam]

Always important to listen to your intuation. Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

[@highboost1459]

What you are saying here are pretty accurate. This is pure gold.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much!

[@joshuafrench3920]

Yeah. I'm being cheated on for sure .

[@YourWingmam]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@joshuafrench3920]

Thank You. I appreciate your prayers.

[@Bloomcycle]

I dated a woman for 3 years and she told me her ex husband cheated on her. She was the one who left the family of 4 adult kids and one teen boy . Moved away from the town she lived in and met me. In the 3 years we were together and we lived together her kids never contacted her and she never contacted them. He'll what mother doesn't even contact a teen child of them. I'm wondering did SHE cheat on her husband and he kicked her out 🤔

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@Ragnarok691]

I have female friends I would never in a million years sleep with. I never hang out with any of them alone. Ever.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, it really helps when we embrace that ❤

[@ghostbro6376]

I've experienced every single one of the red flags from one person that I was married to. Definitely will never get married again and will definitely end a relationship over anyone of these red flags

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@ghostbro6376]

@@YourWingmam thank you. It's been 3 years now since then and still working on healing but I'm just glad to see there's people out there giving advice and letting people know what some warning signs might look like so that they may be able to get away before they have to deal with the same heartbreaks and mental and emotional damage cheating causes to individuals

[@rooksman64]

a long distance relationship complicates things so much more

[@YourWingmam]

I feel you. it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@gw6496]

Long distance relationship will never work!!

[@rooksman64]

@@gw6496 they will if they don’t stay long distance

[@Solarlube]

ALL of the above! Got me ready for number two and thought totally different girl/woman wrong. It must be me lol

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@michaelshannon9169]

My warning signs (based on experience). 1 - Is she aged 17 - 39? Already (yep, sorry!), red alert, you're in the red zone and unfortunately you are still considered an extra in what she wishes to view her life as some fantasy novel that seeks to be rescued by some foreign exchange student/chad/work colleague. 2 - Is she above a 6.5/10 in looks? Then you can guarantee shes flicking her hair, giggling and fluttering her eyes at one or more guys in the categories mentioned in number 1. 3. Are you together less than 2 yrs. If so you are still just in the 'getting to know each other' phase. Ha-ha... 4. Her social media profile is full of photos accentuating her looks. (Pretty much all girls, hmmmmm) 5. Is she a girly girl? Then this relationship is all about her until she gets bored. 6. Does she excuse/ignore her friends bad/passive aggressive treatment toward you? Then that in fact is how she truly feels about you. 7. Secret Diary = Juicy shit about people, particularly men, none of which involves you. Very much related to number 1. 8. Is she evasive/nervous talking about other guys you might be concerned about? Drop the subject = My extra curricular activities are none of your concern and you're just paranoid. Anyone of these are red alerts. One or more and its a certain outcome she is/will cheat. Happy hunting.

[@michaelshannon9169]

@Websiteguy 2 Absolutely. Men would cheat just as much as women had they the same allure, but they dont until mid-age. 17-39 women hold all the cards in the deck, men have to haggle and negotiate or go without, and women know this. This is the essential dark nature of relationships, so much so that we've had to use a lofty term such as love to gloss over what is in fact a very murky business deal between a randy horn dog and person who needs to feel wanted and special. Men are inclined to believe in womens angelic demeanour due to how well deceptive women can truly be, men have no where near this capacity to deception nor to even detect it, this is why mens mothers and even sisters tend to but in as they know how it really is.

[@YourWingmam]

Sucks that happened to you! Excellent extra tips.. may need to do a follow up video to discuss them, thanks!!

[@williamclayton9566]

Actually, the numbers from the GSS say that 40-45 is the most common age for women to cheat.. I suspect that her body knows that menopause is coming up real quick-like, and she'd better get that las fling in before the lights come on. Read Rollo Tomassi's The Rational Male Preventive Medicine for a more comprehensive analysis of her time/life-line

[@michaelshannon9169]

@@YourWingmam It doesnt suck that it happens so much as not knowing what it is a guy is getting involved with. Much like playing the game Texas Holdem, you know what the stakes are, you know what the highs and lows involve. The issue with relationships is no one tells you its a game, its society's big open secret that what happens between men and women is very much akin to Poker. Forewarned is to be forearmed and this is how both parties should be (which means the relationship would probably not even start).

[@michaelshannon9169]

@@williamclayton9566 40-45 women are probably more likely to admit it as opposed to cheating more is my guess.

[@GaryElam-t8g]

My wife always tells me when she gets a new phone it automatically makes her lock it but never offers the password and I don't ask I think she hiding something

[@goranhegic7587]

You don't have to think bro. You see she does. Been there

[@goodwinaj]

Gut feeling is typically correct 👍

[@YourWingmam]

Always important to listen to your intuition!

[@James-yk9hz]

Man you just named everything my ex-wife was doing and I saw every bit of it I'm glad I prepared and got ready to leave

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@James-yk9hz]

I don't think I'll ever be the same nor do I think I'll ever want to be with another woman I think I'll just stay single

[@mwh3227]

Here is something that you never get over - BETRAYAL! I's a pain that really never goes away! You may survive and sort of forgive the cheater, but you will never get over the betrayal!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@passthegravy7688]

Very true. Don't let the experts tell you that you can heal. That is BS.

[@Voncid]

Thank's Anna, big huge , god bless back at you. I've been there and done that years ago and is part of why I'm a bachelor now.

[@YourWingmam]

Thanks for watching! Big hug!

[@garycordle5295]

Here's something to think about,if she'll cheat with you she'll cheat on you, best advice is listen to your intuition and if she's always to busy and girls night is bs they just do this to get attention by other dudes 👍 Anna.

[@YourWingmam]

Yep. Thanks for watching!

[@yossiallen3316]

I don't agree with the access to the cellphone. At the end of the day, if mine needs access to see who texts me, I don't need to be with her in the first place.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!