Why Silence Makes Your Ex Come Back?

[@hushpuppies872]

I want to just go away on my own and start a new life. Not because I am expecting anything to change but just for me to heal. I wish I could do that.

[@lolobaf]

some advice,because I went through that : clean your house spick and span,dress elegantly,do a lot of haircare, skincare, go and walk in nature, accept all invitations,be the "yes" person for a while, do a lot of walking, eat healthy,block your ex everywhere, see positive people, don't even mention your ex, you will eventually move on, and feel free

[@Aunt-z8b]

Silence is gold

[@nigelaomine6880]

"and ducktape is silver"😭

[@julieanncorral2180]

No contact can give me work on myself in my own way.. Not expecting them to reach out.

[@jacquelinedeku6058]

Silence is a very powerful tool

[@dark_paradise27]

Maybe ex will come back maybe not but one is sure they will respect you as person as someone strong who is not depend on anyones attention.

[@annaschadewald1576]

It's been 2 months he came back were talking again we both apologized

[@crissyandersson4888]

Better to move on and wait for the right man!!!

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

It's hard to move on sometimes and with the right actions it's possible to get someone you love back.

[@zerihunchekol3860]

The first thing you should be silent after breakup is to help you move on.

[@madhumitaverma3712]

💯💯

[@Mondivaplus265]

Over the years i have learnt to be silent.never fight back.blocked no more calls following up.

[@akinyimauryn]

I left him.....I don't regret it and I don't want him Back. I had Enough.

[@ellenamontana1352]

His voice is so soothing.

[@xx-rc1ni]

The silence is deafening but it is also speaking volumes.... I'm done. It's me time. Happy .However he is, is not my affair 👍

[@pearlratchford7835]

He Ghosted me went back to his ex had a baby what I'm I suppose to do with that ?? Ghost him back and focus on myself Love myself I come first I've learned a valuable Lesson. SELF LOVE is the best Love 😊

[@petevonstettina8627]

I don't know that I have it in me anymore. Sometimes the only winning move is NOT to play

[@barbaraandrews5]

Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.

[@sweetangel4761]

Both sides as a human will choose silence, then what????? Who is going to beg?

[@kittyflier8338]

Great video. I followed your advice three years ago and never had any contact with my ex ever again. Now she has a one-year-old child.😅

[@coucousalut4899]

Indortunately, you are one of the exceptions…but Life is not finished yet…

[@katemadalina]

😂

[@midnightcrave4169]

I have given the silent treatment for 10 months.. It's a little harder to have zero communication because we have children together, so... I don't know what else to do... He knows I look after myself... I've gone on holiday and posted and everything else...

[@dedelove2812]

That doesn't work on guys that sleep around. All guys don't want commitment. They want lot of bed warmers.

[@Hanr-e3o]

Not true, it works on everybody, they just good at playing the game.

[@jocelfabella1948]

Silence is Golden

[@shirozie]

What if he is seeing someone, after 4 1/2 years he walked out.. my silence has worked to some extent cos now he does not know anything going on in my life. I miss him dearly and pray for a miracle

[@shuwisaimudzimbabwe6962]

true silence really works

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for watching, Shuwisai. Coach Alex

[@amyroseabdul9059]

Hahaha, i did this almost 1 week and he start to calling me and texting me with lots of love🤣😍 Now he is mine💪🏻👌🏻🤣

[@johnmelton3676]

You take her, she has known where I've been for 22 years,

[@ginamendez6995]

It’s so true go no contact it’s been a month I’m not calling or texting being silent with him

[@Zainabunyaruai]

Me too.

[@servantservantofallah1860]

Woow...I think all of this can happen when he is not in a new relationship....No .contact and silence take most of them away... The best way is to move on Which is difficult... But surely what did not kill you will surely makes you strong.......

[@berthaleonardbihondo1141]

Thought of that too...kinda no room for him to feel anything if he is in a relationship. My case for instance he broke up with me since i wasnt ready to start a family. But he broke up at the same time some few days before break up we had plans of starting a family now! So now he has another woman who he claims she is pregnant

[@ritwikachatterjee5792]

Scrapped it yesterday night. Total silence now!!

[@rahmaperis6336]

4 years I have been silent on my ex husband and just the other day I called to check him coz of Corona shit,his voice was shaking babe come home please &am well.😊

[@esthermunkondya1251]

This is very true I was quiet on my ex for months and suddenly he called

[@kyomugishaphionah2149]

But no contact it's hard because I HV tried it, but I get attempted to text him. However sometimes I Text him and he ignores me. But currently I admitted to give up on him. though every day he is always on my mind. But I will be fine

[@bankaiknoyak6539]

Yes I believe the power of silence .....

[@gandaako782]

Even he just say that we dont had a chance. Because he dont want me anymore..

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out. Please take a look at this article, it will be helpful to you. www.withmyexagain.com/blog/is-my-relationship-over-forever/ Coach Alex

[@pauldhedouville653]

She just texted me earlier today after 9 days of NC and said she had found my passport. Asked me if I want to go over or she could bring it to me. Also, asked how I am doing. I replied and kept it very brief saying I will go over and that I am okay and hope she is too.

[@kethavathmanjula7388]

I lost my love last few months so please please please pray for me his come back

[@pudgie011]

Silence is good but if he came back would not take him back because if he loved you he wouldn't of left in the first place! Single now and maybe one day a real man will love me!

[@ZenaNaigwe-xj3kc]

Wow. Silence is gold.

[@dellaknocke4669]

We're on a break right now. Have known each other for 6 yrs. We are both in our 70's so I don't have alot time to wait. I hope he calls.

[@graysgurney-em4vq]

Damn. Hope it's good

[@PhindileMnisi-f4w]

Tanks a lot coach we are now together coz of your advices it works for me

[@emilycos3690]

So true Silence good ideas.

[@kianar1320]

I told him that I will never take him back so I doubt he will try to again in the future

[@nailpolishinhale]

I told this numerous times to my ex he still tries!! For years now. But I don't love him anymore because he cheated on me at the beginning. If they really want you nothing you say will stop them

[@sorayacroton1399]

You are very good Alex. You really do know what you are talking about. Soraya x

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you, Soraya! Coach Alex

[@feliciacarrington1976]

Good information but, I will never want him back, I left for a reason.

[@monicavalencia9425]

What if he is confused and a coward? Will no contact still work? Will he still come back to me?

[@daisywidya8070]

My ex finally unblocked me in wa. After 4 month. And after pray everyday. I hopefully this is good sign for us.

[@GoldenAngel-]

Not only exs can be anyone

[@devi511]

My ex came back and expected physical contact but I want him to be committed to me so I didn't go ahead in that expectation. So he said if we both are away from first marriage by divorce then v can think about future like that. But right now I want him with me and tell he is there for me.

[@arshaddoole8758]

this channel saved me

[@jenaaquino4609]

Silence really it works

[@cassandramanye7373]

My boyfriend broke up with me over the weekend,He didn’t tell me why but he just came to say it will be for the best.Just yesterday,I missed one call from him but he hasn’t called again and I haven’t called back either. I want him back but I don’t know what to do

[@mariopereira9928]

Silence can be very noise.

[@elldantehellectronics7226]

Thanks sir for the advice it worked and we are now together

[@andreannlamco2975]

Hi my name is andreann please advice me whag to do if my ex wont contact me anymore.. I admit that i did something to her..i talk to her badly and doubting that she have another girlfriend.. She verh mad at me in the situation i give to her.. We dont have any problem to our relationship..the problem is me because i always jealous and doubt her every single time..i always look at my phone if she message or not or call me.. But shes online only.. But never message me.. I know i hurt her so mucn.. What will i do sir? Im very paranoid now because i dont know where she is..

[@saimashapi3819]

Lol I love ur accent..no contact rule 4days in ...so done. God has a plan for all of us & if dey walk away..let them go. Thank u for this video..needed to remember doing the right thing.

[@amsarahadil6864]

I dont think so, cuz shes talking to someone now 😔

[@kitfeng1833]

She ditched me for an ugly tomboy, OMG, i begged i cried. I am picking up myself now. i hate myself for doing that last yr.

[@dulcedeleche7134]

Hey what Should i do i did the no contact rule on my ex in 10 Month know he started to contact me we even hang out ones we went out eating we kissed and know his distans after our meeting im going crazy i cant stop thinking about him i would love to meet him again!

[@rhylievelarde2720]

Me and my husband (not yet annulled) broke up last feb 2019, i been no contact with him. Were in a long distance relationship. We talk, he said that he move on and his not mad at me anymore and ask me that he hope that i find someone else, but he refused to see me to talk and told his friends to stop pushing him to see me because he is still mad at me. I dont know what to do anymore. 😭 Help. If he move on like he said why he can't see me to talk? 😭 Is there any chance at all? He still mad at me.

[@meghanmcdonnell196]

My ex fiancé and I are on month 3 of being broken up. I made so many mistakes of begging and telling him I love him and crying to him that I can’t move on. Is it possible to go into no contact after all of that and for him to ever reach out? We last spoke the other day oh good terms catching up about life but I feel as I need to let him come to me. He’s told me within this break up that he will always love me and have a place in his heart for me and that if it’s meant to be it will be. “We don’t know the future”. He continuously says he wants to be friends so I’m just confused and think we need space.

[@OscarMartinez-lo9ec]

I wonder if they come back if you messed up alot i messed up lots of times but i was always there for her and the the minute i losts her i was dying chasing her begging but i wonder i always wonder if she will ever come back i blocked her # because i am honestly tired of hurting myself but either way i wish her the best with whom ever she may be with now .

[@sabrinapetersen5358]

I love the silence and quiet no more lies and acting no more love Bombing no more gaslighting or pretending🎉 no more using my money from my bank account like it was all yours and not mine in the first place! No more Contact with dishonest narcissistic people who i unfortunately used to know! 🎉😂

[@baitakagl1603]

That's right. I support this silence explanation

[@alvarosoria8787]

No body with a self value wants the same again

[@julioortega3340]

Depends on the situation

[@Emmanueliwuoham]

If you ever loved at all? You must be a taster...

[@Emmanueliwuoham]

Again and again, marrying ...a new wife each time something goes wrong?

[@raidi306]

Garbage comment.

[@notcare4882]

Not the same, evolve, an evolve version of you

[@ishabah9042]

I love you Alex you are the best i will surely apply this from Africa....i watch most of your videos and i learned a lot❤

[@greatermpofu1448]

I learn a lot to your videos Coach Alex may God bless you

[@daff3829]

Guys plz pray for me that me and my ex getting back together.. I still welling take the risk and I changing myself just for her..

[@pitokawotsa6259]

Pray for me coz i need her

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out, Pitoka. ⭐ Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching | Schedule A Call With Us 👇: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Coach Adrian

[@thestars2460]

What if iam who block him?? , this consider as no contact too

[@Kiogoracrystal54]

I will stay away from love .

[@vaishalivishwakarma5946]

Hii sir .. I really need your help please help me ... I had one 2 month's relationship ...between that relationship I was talking to one of my friend like a girlfriend ...but that friend was not my boyfriend or crush ...I love my boyfriend alot ...but he saw that chat and he don't trust me anymore and he was thinking I was cheating ...so he stopped loving me ...I want him back in my life what should I do ...what things or techniques I should follow please help me out

[@tercsi1]

Doesn't it depend on the reason for the breakup?

[@harunahappy2651]

Y haven’t I seen this video for long. Thanks for this video that is what am actually doing now. But if I lose him a better one than him is coming.

[@danicamonares5026]

Thank you for sharing this idea Might help

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

You're welcome, Danica! Coach Alex

[@ishansarkarsec-aroll-40cla49]

I am listening from Kolkata in India

[@shamelakhan1801]

Sometime I tell myself I'm not good enough or I'm ugly..because I give my all n it never enough.

[@simplebuhaysekyu1145]

I think its true any matter happens if you silent the people shoud think many question in her / his mind what is your plan what you have now maybe you are happy and of course he or she got jealous,being silince many things can be question in mind ,,,

[@austinkozel2932]

And if they are already talking to someone else?

[@candysantos8908]

My ex does not comebk during my total silence.. He got new after .. Though he said always he was broken hearted due to me.. He found someone new after few months.

[@MrongLee]

My ex lied me he called me at morning and said he will come to meet me at evening but he didn't come and he didn't contact.

[@beatricechin2748]

Thanks for everything.. Please is it advisable to block him during the no contact ?

[@AzulWillow-fn8kg]

You"re great. Tnx so much for yor advise. You're my idol.

[@tajk2122]

Both will listen your advise , how it will works them sir?

[@PremaElangbam-d1c]

Sir I'm from MANIPUR but I'm very near to you because of your valuable messages to me.I like 👍 it ❤

[@sadamanipoojitha6353]

Hi Alex me n my boy friend had a misunderstandings and small fights I am back of him n depressed now after 2 months he said ne need sometime and also said to wait for sometime...will he come back to me if I gave time and give me suggestions to get him back again👍😢

[@whiteswan8841]

My husband and i married but we are in a long distances relationship.coz im here in Europe and his in US and now he have new lady.he dont call and chat me😭😭😭😭😭please help me🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@audwingreene5003]

what happen s if wife is dating while in speration but she wont give u divorce also getting gifts from the person and tell u no matter she loves y u want her back

[@oceanepereiraleclerc3620]

Hi, help... should i wish happy birthday to my ex who broke up with me 20 days before his bd and 11 days after he left me on read and since then i am trying the no contact rule. Thank you

[@mindymoresrosero]

No, don’t please. Ignore him. No contact rule all the way.

[@demiakande1697]

Thanks powerful message.

[@1989leaxy]

My ex came back after 9 months.. sorry but do people really think the one that got stood behind will wait for you and does not move on? It is almost delusional and I find it almost disrespectful to even think that after this much time I would get back with him

[@chidimma_Amanda]

I and my ex have not been talking since weeks now but yesterday was his birthday and I sent him birthday wishes, I'm thinking I'm wrong by texting him. Am I wrong by wishing him happy birthday? Please reply, how do I make him come back or miss me?

[@grecyserenawilliamz1705]

Advice me. Ma gai blocked me on WhatsApp after me finding out that he has same one besides me. He even didnt apologise to me but he went ahead and blocked me everywhere for him he thinks that l don't know. Please advice me.

[@aqilahluvtvxq]

My ex asked me for a break up. We have been 5 years together. I suspect that he is seeing this girl. What should i do? Is the relationship over? Does the 5 years of being together meant nothing to him. Do I have no chance at all, does this mean he moved on alrdy? Currently in the progress of the no contact rule.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

If you're suspecting your husband is seeing someone else and has moved on... but you still want to get him back please watch this video. It will help how to get him back! kzbin.info/www/bejne/hJy6aGt8ftSjnNE Coach Alex

[@tamilover5048]

Hi, I like blue colour, so my ex will always wear blue colour dress, but now we break up now I am in no contact period now my ex wearing black colour dress to show his angry is it good sign. Please suggest me

[@zlr7338]

She knows that I love her so much...but she left me for someone new.. she fall for the beauty... So I am worried will it work on me... please reply me😔

[@manishankartiwari8444]

Yes yes yes ..it works .silence make her to call me back...yesterday night she called me at night 2:05 Am...i don't react from last 9-10 days ago...but I blocked her number so I can't receive her call...but I am happy with her missed call.....that she have feel till yet for me

[@lachuno1519]

I broke up with my ex but I am the one who is.hurt.I suffered depression, anxiety .He is very mad at me

[@lubabakemal5901]

I really like your explanation it doth make a lots of Suns!!

[@balungilesylvia4406]

Thank u for the encouragement I'm tired of begging him

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for watching. Please take a look at this video to understand why begging is the last thing you want to do. www.withmyexagain.com/blog/begging-an-ex/ Coach Alex

[@shivanir552]

Don't want him back, because within 2 months, he got a new girlfriend. No one can see his face and say that he was in 5 years of relationship before

[@schoolaesthetic]

Such men don't make good husbands. You dodged a bullet sister

[@alexandrabyrne5607]

No contact with my ex for 6 months.. no text no communication.. still have strong feelings cant move on.. why??.. what now?

[@ayssharoshan6799]

Excellent brother thanks for sharing 👍👍👍👍👍💐💐💐

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for watching. I appreciate your kind words! Coach Alex