The main response/criticism seems to be "some women are uncomfortable around men, and need a women's class to get them comfortable enough with martial arts to try a co-ed class." Would it ALSO be legitimate to have a men's only class for the men that are uncomfortable around women? If your answer is "yes," then we probably just have a value disagreement. If your answer is "no," then I question whether you're using consistent logic.
@michaelujkimАй бұрын
Your point is good if men and women were equally victims of violence. When a woman is uncomfortable with a man, it’s because of safety, when a man is uncomfortable, it’s because of social awkwardness.
@smallone2351Ай бұрын
@@michaelujkim I can't help but notice that you made a lot of assumptions without providing any evidence
@ArmchairViolenceАй бұрын
@@michaelujkim It's a structured business with a dozen witnesses at all times and likely even security cameras. Anyone that's too afraid to interact with men in that kind of professional environment has deep psychological issues that need to be addressed with a trained professional LONG before they are ready to step foot in a martial arts gym. I've worked with a woman that would have literal panic attacks during training, because of past trauma. She could work with men. I've worked with women that have been attacked and raped. They could work with men. Why? Because a martial arts gym is basically the LAST place they're likely to be attacked. Also, the reasons men want to avoid women in martial arts (which I've heard too many of) ALSO relate to safety. They refuse to roll with women because "one word from her and you spend years in prison." And I would tell them the same thing I would tell women that are afraid of "safety issues": Your concerns are not statistically justifiable, this is a ridiculous context in which to be concerned about them, and irrational fear towards an entire demographic is often just a thin veneer disguising deep-rooted bigotry.
@Ayce47Ай бұрын
As a man, i'm on the "yes" side of the argument. I really don't feel comfortable, in equal value, because a) I'm not used to touching women outside family, without a sexual/flirting scenario. b) I don't like lowering my power that much, and having to actually mitigate my size and weight. I'm there to engage only tougher opponents, and would be willing to pay extra for that. Aside from moral and social values, if there is something wrong with my mindset, I'd appreciate your feedback. I also don't mind discussing the social/moral stance, I'm from eastern europe btw.
@XKenny77Ай бұрын
In a very Muslim area, a men-only class might be reasonable, as Muslim men and women are unlikely to want to train with the other.
@ReDuVernayАй бұрын
Here's the thing, before my BJJ gym started women's only classes, I was the ONLY woman actively training at that gym, but NOW, every single woman who signed up for the women's only class also takes the co-ed class. It just gives women an entry point they're more comfortable with and gets women trying jiu jitsu that wouldn't have tested it out otherwise. Also worth noting: All the dudes at my gym have always been super welcoming and great training partners, they're just dudes and women who don't know them yet would get intimidated by the idea of training with them
@AjfmaizyАй бұрын
Yeah this video misses the point i think. Doesn't actually understand what's going on here.
@JudoP_slingingАй бұрын
It's well argued but this would be my criticism as well. I don't think its uncommon or unreasonable for a woman to be intimidated by a bunch of men who fight a lot, e.g. what about women who have suffered violence from men previously (of course the reality is that most of the time the fear is misplaced and most gyms are full of good guys). Purely as an entrypoint I can see it working well and could get women hooked and eventually going to all the mixed classes. I would agree though that just training 100% women classes for an extended period is a bit of a shame for all involved.
@AjfmaizyАй бұрын
@@JudoP_slinging I don't think it's well argued, sadly.
@ArmchairViolenceАй бұрын
Would it be legitimate to have men's only classes to pull in the men that are intimidated by/uncomfortable around women?
@ReDuVernayАй бұрын
@@ArmchairViolence I literally couldn't care less of there was a men's only class once a week just like the women's class is. I don't want to train with people against their will.
@efesdeadАй бұрын
waited 2 months for him to spit facts again
@fran9023Ай бұрын
Same
@markstriker925Ай бұрын
He was cooking here.
@thac0twenty377Ай бұрын
facts here? lol
@magicien233Ай бұрын
A lot of women wouldn't feel comfortable joining a gym if they were going to be joining a class that is most likely 90% + male. However if there is a woman only class they are far more likely to join. Suboptimal training is still much better than no training. Also if they join for a woman's class there is a decent chance they will get comfortable enough to join the mixed classes.
@user-vm5zh9uy8nАй бұрын
I’d posit that suboptimal self defense training can give people a false sense of confidence about their abilities which is arguably worse.
@MrCmon113Ай бұрын
@@user-vm5zh9uy8nImo "false" confidence is good. Most people aren't naturally aggressive enough or bluff enough. Thinking you're tougher than you are is an advantage.
@user-vm5zh9uy8nАй бұрын
@@MrCmon113 Except when reality comes crashing down upon being struck and you realize you’re up shit creek without a paddle. Thats how folks get killed. Overconfidence is slow and insidious.
@tarettime9392Ай бұрын
@@user-vm5zh9uy8nhave you ever seen that video of a chihuahua chasing off a bear? False confidence against a would be attacker is better than no confidence because if you act as though you are not someone who should be considered as a victim you’re less likely to become one. And if someone tries to make you one anyways the result is the same in both situations. But as a lot of people (mainly women) have pointed out a lot of women start training coed after starting in women’s only classes. It’s a lot safer and more comfortable for them to join a women’s only class to see what the vibe is like and see if this is a place they feel safe or if this is a boys club where they’re going to get harassed. Despite what the reality may be. Men who train combat sports don’t have the best reputation for acting reasonably and respectfully
@phuongvu527Ай бұрын
Omg, this is the first time I've seen a nice argument from KZbin where both sides provided good points. I think "false confidence" can be situationally helpful or harmful, depending on who they encounter.
@bricks1001Ай бұрын
Love this guy. I actually left the Gracie self defence cult after watching this guy.
@cesaralvesdemoraes3187Ай бұрын
Did you use to train at a gracie gym and left it? Or just changed the approach to training?
@crisalcantara7671Ай бұрын
doesn't matter what you do in life jsut always ask yourslefe why you are doing it , what is the goal , for fun fine , to be come a better fighter or to stay in shape also fine , just don't do it just because .
@GabrielMazzei01Ай бұрын
and ultimately what did you did? changed dojo? or left martial arts?
@valygomuАй бұрын
Most people started Martial art for self defense,I started Martial art because I thought the Tekken characters were cool. We are not the same
@thac0twenty377Ай бұрын
they are cool.
@BiggityBoggity8095Ай бұрын
I thought Brody looked sick when he ate a kamehameha like it was nothing and then grabbed Goku’s face and threw him through multiple buildings. I made the decision that I was going to do that irl.
@kikiatmosudirdjo5453Ай бұрын
This is so interesting to me. I happen to be a part of one of the most competitive and successful college women’s wrestling club teams in the country. (We are only a club because our college won’t make us varsity yet as women’s wrestling is an emerging sport) We have girls going to the Olympics right now! And one of the main things we credit with our success is that we have at least two practices a week integrated with our college’s D1 men’s team!! I think that having some practices for just our team makes a lot of sense as it helps us build up a cohesive team and individual identity, but for sure mixing genders can be very beneficial for the actual wrestling when used well!!
@ArmchairViolenceАй бұрын
@@kikiatmosudirdjo5453 Having practices that build team cohesion make sense mainly because you are all quite elite, and your team DOES have the resources needed to get better. Having an internationally competitive women's program with multiple world class practitioners is an accomplishment that VERY few combat sport clubs, classes, or gyms can claim. Also, where do you train?? Because that team sounds awesome. Elite women's wrestling programs are like unicorns!
@Eremite651Ай бұрын
Good luck at the Olympics!
@crisalcantara7671Ай бұрын
aslong as the men are respectfull it's oke but i do understand that some women don't like men so i getbwhy they want only female spaces , even men complainn about those instagram jokers in the gym acusing men etc and ruining the gym but i just stay away from stuff that anoys me , far away .
@miguelladinodevera614Ай бұрын
Women's freestyle wrestling and women's judo will eventually produce the next female grapplers in catch as catch can, Jujitsu, and MMA. In 10 or so years there's gonna be a Kayla Harrison-esque Olympic gold medalist who goes into BJJ, catch and/or MMA who can dominate.
@NarguhlАй бұрын
I'd really prefere training a "twinks only" class.
@arthurveo3500Ай бұрын
I dunno man... sean O'malley would woop my ass
@alexkehoepwjАй бұрын
Based and red pilled
@maho9139Ай бұрын
submission via chicken chokw
@KoroeatspotatesАй бұрын
Based
@crxw4Ай бұрын
thigh highs and skirts are MANDATORY.
@iustwanttotalkАй бұрын
Our (Mixed) Taekwondo club is lead by a female instructor, and we have a lot of female members that come to our club rather than a one closer to them because they believe any issues they have are more likely to be taken seriously by the lead instructor. (A culture or knowledge issue with other gyms that needs to improve) Our lead instructor is in full agreement that all training should be mixed genders and weights to learn how to deal with people of all sizes and types. (I am a middle/heavy male and train with, giant guys and younger sub 5 ft women and feel it would be disrespectful not to take either arrangement seriously) The only Female only element we have is that now and again she will host a 1 or 2 lesson long women's only first introductory class to help those who may be overly nervous and maybe have had some bad experiences in the past. This is just to help ease their concerns in an environment where they may feel safer raising any perceived issues in conversation before integrating right after. She also did this as a one on one class with a trans women who was not sure if she would be welcome. They then joined the main class later that week and are now a valued member of our club. This is the only way I have seen the separation being useful, but only because it is extremely temporary. EDIT NOTE: A lot of comments that have said similar things ask if this would work for nervous men too and I don't see why it wouldn't. (It has just never come up) I assume most worries would be around how certain corners of the internet told them that they are going to get sent to jail if they are in any way physical with a female partner. (They need to get over this or they would not be welcome) If some guy was truly nervous about joining a mixed class I or another male Instructor (As this sort of person may not want to initially discuss their worry with the lead instructor) would happily run a similar thing with them to let them try out and air their concerns where they feel safe before integrating. but they would have to integrate immediately after this. (If you did it once or twice for them that would only be 2-4h of potentially thousands of hours of total mixed training)
@richardmcallister460Ай бұрын
I always look forward to your insights and your uploads! Actually, following some earlier videos of yours - particularly your analysis of the Gracie self defense subsystem - I already added "don't go to women's-only self defense classes" to my General Guidelines for Picking a Self Defense Spot. This significantly expands on the rationale. I also, tearfully, hung up my karambit.
@apc9714Ай бұрын
I think its important for gyms to start slow and be beginner friendly. The one I go to (MMA) have a couple women that train, compete and win more than almost all men there, and they happly train with everyone. But at the beggining is super hard for everyone, a d twice as much for women, that have no one of their streght/sex that can guide them and end up leaving, ensuring the next one is in the same position. I think the best thing for women is to train with men and women, but its paramount to start slow and in a very controlled environment.
@MrRickulusАй бұрын
HE BROUGHT BACK THE OUTRO SONG!!!!!! You have made my day! 😂🎉
@preacherman9018Ай бұрын
I've taught women's self defense courses to lots who would never join a gym full of scary guys in their prime that they are afraid might hurt them. By that introduction to martial arts, some developed confidence to move forward and actually basics to fight off druggies or stand against date rape. The ladies, young, old and in-between should get the Combat Advantage over the bad guys.. With your philosophy, you limit your classes to only those young gals who start as children or have a bold personality that has no guy hang-ups or fears. Guess who needs it most? Those who have been assaulted and really need help.
@nathanielfarrugia18 күн бұрын
His point, if I may, is that the end result in terms of skills learnt from a women only class is lower than a mixed class. Thus, a woman training to fight off druggies and rapists will not be as successful in a women's only class. However I agree with you that a women's only class is a good entry point. I think there should be a realistic limit of progression offered in the women's only classes, such as up to the first 3 belts for example. If you want to progress further than you need to step into the mixed.
@preacherman901818 күн бұрын
@@nathanielfarrugia Yes I agree. There are some women, special needs as well as children who need there own class up to a point and others who should continue with grown men eventually. My students goals may have been different than my goals or his goals. As a teacher, I want to tap into the students motivation, encourage, teach to the potential and see small consistent improvements.
@PolynyceАй бұрын
As a black man, I personally self segregate myself and I dont care who gets offended. To me there's only two types of people, those who fully understand the hype of the original Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles movie, and everyone else
@InferiorIndividualАй бұрын
Based
@goncaloalmeida7029Ай бұрын
In my self defence class when we get new people in (men or women), we set them up with the "right" sparring partners during their first month. By "right", I mean partners that have full control of their power and will never hurt the new person. And usually when the new person is a woman, we set them up with other women we have. That is usually enough for them to feel confortable.
@Banished-rx4olАй бұрын
My man always stay spitting facts thought I will say a few trial classes to get comfortable wouldn’t hurt. The real issue is guys who go hogwild and I should know I was one of them as I spent 4 years wrestling so I always approached rolls like I did wrestling with too much intensity regardless of who I’m going against especially because I’m 230lbs. I got lectured a few times when I roll with older, smaller, and female people the same as I would a heavyweight my size. I was young then but I’ve learned now
@locky7443Ай бұрын
Wants to talk about a controversial topic of women's gyms, "I know what will make this better, lets add race relations" :) On a serious note I like the video was a new perspective on some of these ideas. One thing I will say is I can see the value of a women's only class as a gateway to mixed classes. Essentially bumping the comfort/challenge ratio in favour of comfort to get people in the door and enjoying training before you ramp it up, kinda like what a beginners class is ment to do. However most women's only classes I see give no incentive to moved to mixed which is a problem.
@ArmchairViolenceАй бұрын
@@locky7443 Me: *Sees argument on gender dynamics* "Hmmm, not controversial enough. 🤔
@LunaireTDАй бұрын
@@ArmchairViolence A genius play, distract from the gender relations with the racial relations. This leaves only the sane people talking about the actual topic of the video.
@WydionWytcher-o9Ай бұрын
@@ArmchairViolencewhat gender dynamics men are simply stronger physically Now your empowerment and other bs do it but not at dragging men down its like telling a adult a freaking toddler is equal Women have hard life guess What Men have hard life too But we dont complain about it to the world women get beat by guys Men do too i have seen half of my class get beat and beat other schools or groups people and they were brutal not literal 10 guys to 30 guys sometimes so stop this victim bs in the country i live in physical punishment is still in practise Men would be best with big sticks from teacher whereas as girls will get a warning So stfu
@GaryNacАй бұрын
This was a pretty good video but I still think that a major problem with women's self defense or martial arts school is that so many of them seem gimmicky obsessed with marketing and many of them don't even seem to genuinely care about doing or figuring out what's effective in a self defense scenario or a ring but I think that this is a point that the very mcdojo and gimmicky nature of many womens self defense or martial arts school is something that many people have already spent plenty of time touching upon.
@YichengLiАй бұрын
My old gym had an extra women's only class in addition to the normal classes, and it seemed to work out fine. Most of them also trained with the normal mixed gender classes.
@emperortime4380Ай бұрын
Literally my first thought when I clicked on this video was “why would you train to defend yourself from women?” I have only ever encountered one instructor that outright banned women from class, and he was an Aikido guy my friend trained under. If anyone is supposed to benefit from the “redirect power gentle technique” system, wouldn’t it be women?
@MrCmon113Ай бұрын
Realistically, I'd want to defend myself against some drunk dude while I'm drunk myself. But I don't think training drunk all the time is necessary to get there.
@looFA_4Ай бұрын
@@MrCmon113 Strawman, not the same thing. Training for sex-specific disadvantages and training to fight while intoxicated are very different. They both involve disadvantages, but they aren't the same disadvantages. There's also the fact that "Women Only" classes and "Women's Self-Defense" classes are not the same thing. It's easy to conflate the two because as mentioned in the video a lot of people get into martial arts for self-defense reasons but "Women Only" classes are normal martial arts classes where the only people participating are women. Whereas "Women's Self-Defense" classes address or most of the time give the illusion of addressing sex-specific disadvantages. If you're a woman whether you train to compete or train for self-defense, ultimately, you're going to have to train with men for the best possible results.
@siegebugАй бұрын
9:56 well you just demonstrated you know more about then you let on. If you're honestly critical about it, you could discuss it if you want to, I'm all ears. Maybe make a separate channel so you can finally discuss philosophy, politics, and Batman.
@alexkehoepwjАй бұрын
That part about womens martial arts tactics being totally different is sooooo true. My gf has tree trunk legs and it makes a huge difference in her strinking and grappling. Its what motivated me to focus on my legs more!
@thac0twenty377Ай бұрын
copy her hips. teaches you to sink your center of balance
@jadakazim262122 күн бұрын
I practice bjj and go to a historically women’s college, and there are noticeable differences between the classes I attend back home and the club there. I’m pretty muscular, but because the co-ed classes I go to are mostly male, I can’t rely on my physical strength nearly as much. Rolling with larger opponents forces me to focus on my technical skills, and I’m a better grappler because of it. Going to all-women’s club was super eye-opening. Granted, the majority of people there were beginners. But, it was so much more difficult for me to improve, because I suddenly felt like I wasn’t being challenged. The club culture was also way different; after we drilled a move only a quarter of the class would actually WANT to roll. I feel like no one there is actually passionate about the sport, and they’re just there to learn “self-defense skills” without actually putting in any of the time or effort that it takes to develop them. Then again, this is just my personal experience, and I’ve been doing martial arts for longer than I can remember, so maybe I’m just not seeing something that beginners are.
@christophervelez1561Ай бұрын
This is one of the most thought provoking martial arts channels!
@juhel5531Ай бұрын
My only experience with women in combat sports is being put up against an aspiring olympic boxer and getting the whooping that made my nose crooked. A woman can't hit you hard enough to KO you with power but the liver, chin and other KO buttons still work. It essentially turned into me turtling up and trying to punish her every time she stopped being defensively responsible. I was in high school back then and the sheer difference in hand speed and footwork allowing her to effortlessly tap me over and over again is what got me to really lock it in during shadowboxing and technique training.
@bloodwynnАй бұрын
Martial artist training full contact with scientific approach to data and research - you are a gem, my friend.
@trevorsamuel1114Ай бұрын
Do you use reddit?
@bloodwynnАй бұрын
@@trevorsamuel1114 No.
@MetalCooking666Ай бұрын
I don’t think it’s the case anymore, but apparently there was once a time when judo guys dominated grappling tournaments simply because the talent pool was so huge, even though it was poorly suited to it compared to bjj.
@Urmomma5f4tАй бұрын
Bjj “grappling rules” favoring bjj players! Who would’ve thought! Let’s see Bjj guys in wrestling rules..or judo rules. The peak BJJ guys lose potentially regional level competitions for most other grappling arts.
@antoniapopescu3691Ай бұрын
Subbed! Ive been binging your videos for a few days now, you are so intelligent, and sensible and thoughtful, im so impressed
@MetalCooking666Ай бұрын
There’s a book called “David and Goliath” by Malcolm Gladwell in which he describes how people who might appear to be underdogs sometimes have hidden advantages precisely because of their underdog status. One example he gives is the popular political issue of wanting to reduce class sizes - people often assume smaller classes are better because it means individual students get more attention from the teacher, but in classes where kids get less attention, they learn (by necessity) to work things out for themselves and to work with other people, which serves them well later in life. I think it’s the same with martial arts - training with a wide variety of people (including different sexes) is good for your development. E.g. I’m fairly tall, so in sparring I usually rely on my reach. However, I sometimes spar people who are taller than me, in which case I try to be more aggressive and work the inside more.
@IlIlllIllIlIIIllАй бұрын
I feel that men's and women's only spaces have value, but not in an institutionalized setting. If you're the type of person who needs to hang with the guys or go out with the girls, you can and should create that gender-exclusive social experience for yourself. But combat gyms are not primarily a social club, and the people are going there to improve themselves as well as see their friends.
@GabrielMazzei01Ай бұрын
I agree... the open, welcoming spaces is the way to go. Different people, different sizes and skills is what make the puzzle more interesting. It helps not only with the fighting, but with way other social and personal skills that are developed in groups with care and goodwill in mind. The killer mentality is absurd and a waste of time. We are there to learn, not to survive a guy with lack of self control. If you can do it soft, you can do it right.
@elsv99Ай бұрын
The one complaint I've heard from women in martial arts is guys not taking them seriously while drilling/sparring. Women want to feel powerful too, but when guys act like they are made of glass they feel insulted. You should have a culture of technical but light sparring. If you can't take it easy on someone much smaller and weaker than you then you might be really really bad at fighting.
@franksibelius8656Ай бұрын
I mean you could just tell your sparring partner to go harder?
@institches2750Ай бұрын
I feel like the opposite complaint is more common? That men actually roll too hard.
@randybowmanАй бұрын
When I first started I went hard on everyone whether I needed to or not. The way I saw it at the time was that I was showing respect to their hard work in training by giving them my all. Needless to say it was not a popular approach.
@nef36Ай бұрын
@@institches2750 Sounds like a "depends on the gym" thing
@MrCmon113Ай бұрын
The first part of your comment doesn't fit with the second. Imo it's better to "not take someone seriously" and go super light. Then they can still ask you to go harder.
@cabacage3593Ай бұрын
Haven’t watched the whole vid. But I already really appreciate the breadth you’ve gone into with discussing Jim Crow and how oppression and segregation can and still impacts a communities and individuals learning.
@hamstermk4Ай бұрын
The way the school I attend runs is there is a directed class, and after the class, there is an optional free sparring time. The directed class has about a 3/2 male / female ratio but most if not all the women leave before or sit out the sparring session. How would you address this?
@ussgordoncaptainАй бұрын
I mostly agree, though women's classes are 90% a marketing gimmick to get more women in the normal classes and less of a real strategy for anything other than maybe 1x/week sort of vibes. One thing also I'll mention is that certain training partners are better for training than others, if you're a 26 year old 5'8 155 pound male at 13% body fat you're probably not going to get much out of training with the 55 year old man. yeah you'll get some but training with people of similar size and age ranges is generally slightly preffered to training with bigger/smaller/older opponents. I've noticed this with my 30 year old 150 pound body trying to beat 200+pound big guy's, I can do it but I'm mostly scrambling like mad and moving around faster than they can see. When I roll with other people my size I'm going to be a lot less mobility oriented and focus more on control and I can do things like do a turkish getup to get them off of me. (at small weight classes the Strength/weight ratio is so comically large that you can flip each other over so easily, when you can leg extend 1.5 times your body weight you can almost flip a guy over with 1 butterlfy hook. In spite of this my favorite training partner is a small girl who is as I like to describe "a nuclear missle" she generates so much force with so little mass, and moves at the speed of a crazy person.
@ArmchairViolenceАй бұрын
@@ussgordoncaptain Things like this depend a lot on your capability set and what you're working on. I'm about 170lbs, but I often like working with guys over 200lbs, because I can practice pressuring and driving forward in ways that would injure other people. And training with smaller people lets me practice high-risk lifts and takedowns that would injure ME if I messed them up on bigger people. Two of my best training partners are: a 40+ purple belt that uses as little energy as possible, and a 320 white belt that is STUNNINGLY athletic. They both help me work on specific skills. If I only trained with one of them, I would have gaping holes in my game.
@demonderpz7937Ай бұрын
I’m getting sincerely annoyed with how little traction your videos get. I’ve been sharing with all of my friends (even though none of us are in martial arts or combat sports, or even anything athletic) because the information you provide consistently makes rational sense and can be utilized in far more than just marrial arts. Understanding how to create specific cultures capable of overcoming specific resistances or other cultures can be implemented in a commune, in any business, in a community of any kind, and is socially applicable regardless of context. Comprehending violence (necessary or not) can assist anyone in at least understanding the rationale and exactly how to pick it apart if ever necessary. It also displays forms of problem solving beyond just barbarically mauling people
@kaoskronostyche9939Ай бұрын
Hello Mr Violence. Great to see you again. You have some skill - you kept me fully engaged for 37 minutes on a topic I care nothing about. The only thing I have to say is I have seen too many fit but untrained men destroy female black belts and mma fighters. Usually they put up with the flailing, get tired of it, land one good body blow and the woman is down. So what does that mean for female martial art practitioners? I dunno.
@ArmchairViolenceАй бұрын
@@kaoskronostyche9939 It means that men have a lot of physical advantages over the average woman. Women can still become great martial artists and still lose to men, for the same reason that I could currently beat up Chuck Norris: I have physical advantages, even if he's way more skilled than me.
@kaoskronostyche9939Ай бұрын
@@ArmchairViolence Thank you for the reply. As usual your reasoning is impeccable and your conclusions are correct. I appreciate the additional context. I really enjoy your work. Always insightful. Cheers!
@goncaloalmeida7029Ай бұрын
@@ArmchairViolence Chuck Norris doesn't get beat up. He beats the world down.
@daroom9854Ай бұрын
i used to do wrestling, im also a comp winning strongwoman i weigh about 90kgs. Ive beaten plenty of men in my wrestling classes, part of the reason why i quit is because of the culture and how men get very upset when a woman beats him.
@kaoskronostyche9939Ай бұрын
@@daroom9854 Very artful way of insulting men. Well done. I quit women twenty years ago ... because ....
@adriansibucao5162Ай бұрын
Is this a reupload? I remembered you discussing this in a previous video? Stilm will watch again, thanks for the video.
@afightersdreamАй бұрын
There's a video about firas not training with women. Maybe you're thinking about that one.
@justinfreeman4614Ай бұрын
To his point around 33:30 ... I've been the sole white guy at two gyms - one hispanic and the other black dominated. They would use some slurs and and make references to me being white. However, it was clearly always made in jest or good natured so it never really bothered me. I consider it an interesting and novel experience.
@ArmchairViolenceАй бұрын
That kind of stuff can really depend on how much goodwill you've built up with each other
@aydenburch4349Ай бұрын
Yay I'm early on my favorite martial arts KZbinr
@buckcherry2564Ай бұрын
Mah boy sneaking in ACTUAL for-reals CRT into his ninja class. 5-stars, would learn from you again.
@bw5020Ай бұрын
I saw that and was pleasantly surprised
@drewnutАй бұрын
I think the book was called 'when violence is the answer' where the author discussed how most adults enroll in martial arts after a violent encounter which in my opinion would make women's only classes mostly an unhealthy therapy where people relive the trauma through role play scenarios and leave class with a false belief that they'll be ready next time while not developing the skills to be ready next time.
@garywingrove6546Ай бұрын
Let’s hear more about these openings you didn’t know you had getting exploited
@jacksonhamlett6490Ай бұрын
I really enjoyed your video, and largely agree with you. I do disagree on a few small points though. For one, you said that martial arts learning is not a direct knowledge transfer from instructor to student. But for beginners that’s exactly what it is. It’s not about learning moves, it’s about learning how to move. Once you’ve mastered the fundamentals of how to move (basic footwork, how to throw a punch, how to turn your hip over in a kick, framing, shrimping, etc) then it becomes experience based learning like you were talking about, but still mixed with direct knowledge transfer from instructor to student. Once you have reached the black belt level in most traditional martial arts/blue belt level in BJJ it becomes almost purely experience based learning like you were talking about. So I don’t totally disagree with you on that, I just think it’s a little more complex than you make it out to be. As far as your example with the gym, women’s only spaces are necessary. Some women, no matter how pleasant the gym culture is, will never be comfortable in that setting around men, and if they’re not comfortable they won’t go. Kind of like the saying the best carry gun for you is the best one you’ll actually carry. I also believe there should be a separate class for women for the same reason. No matter how good the martial arts class is and how positive the culture, they simply won’t be comfortable training with men. While you did address this, I still believe they have the right to learn to defend themselves even if it does handicap their training, that’s their choice. For that very reason I rarely ask to roll with female partners without having first gotten to know them for a bit. I never deny a woman a roll, but I don’t ask them to roll until I feel like they’re comfortable with me. I don’t know if that’s a problem with me or with society, or if that’s the way it should be. Sparring on the other hand I feel much freer to ask a female training partner to work with me as there is less close physical contact. That being said I really liked your input and really enjoyed your video, and agreed with most of what you said.
@GabrielMazzei01Ай бұрын
Still I think that not be able to overcome certain degree of discomfort (i say discomfort not disrespect) then you will not be able to succeed in a real combat. Only creates a false sense of security. To really develop your skill you need a lot more than learning the moves, without drilling and sparring, there is not real transfer. To be able to adquire a new technique, you have to learn to use it with some degree of resistance, or you will not integrate it. And as he said, if you aren't confortable interacting with the other half of the population, the problem is in you. And you need therapy, not a dojo.
@askir547427 күн бұрын
I don't agree with your point on beginners, an ecological dynamics framework can suggest that a better way to improved as a beginner is by reducing variability by constraints. They should train like more advance martial artists, but with less variability
@collemwillst1810Ай бұрын
I do Muay Thai and am a 38 year old 100 kg male heavyweight. Our gym has more women than average, and I personally prefer sparring and drilling with female partners, and least like it with men under like 25 to 28 years of age. They haven't grown out of trying to prove how tough, cool or competent they are, and generally carry the most anger of any group I regularly interact with in training. Every. Single. Woman. I sparred or drilled with so far sees it the same way I do - we're partners, not opponents, learning together.
@pulsefidelityАй бұрын
Bro, women and martial arts aside, this was a great speech. and if you were a presidential candidate I would vote for you.
@sivolock259Ай бұрын
TL;DR: Protected training spaces for underrepresented demographics are good because they expose people who might not otherwise be interested to combat sports, and some percentage of those extra people will continue to go on and train in "regular" classes, even if that number is small. Also, it can be easier to make friends, and making friends motivates people to stick to training a difficult and sometimes physically painful skill to reach those long-term rewards. I don't think it's "good" to exclusively train with people from your own demographic, but only because the way you get better is training with anyone, from any background, as often as you can! Obviously, restricting your own training opportunities makes it harder to maximize growth and improvement as an individual practitioner. However, I think it's important to consider that demographically restricted training spaces can make the difference between someone getting their foot in the door and someone never picking up training AT ALL. Sure, some folks might not move out of that protected training space, but is that so bad if they are having fun and enjoying it for other reasons than maximizing improvement? If it gets them out of the door to train at all, they are certainly better off than if they had never started. Plus, making it accessible and exposing it to more people means that some percentage of people who may only have been interested in cardio kickboxing or a social hangout space in a protected setting suddenly find out that fighting is super fun and stick with it, who would otherwise have never considered themselves a fighter. Obviously that percentage may be small, but that's true of any skill or field. It doesn't need to be a high conversion percentage to funnel more people into it - "it's just a numbers game" after all! If implemented successfully, these types of things can create a pipeline to bring more interest and awareness of combat sports and martial arts more generally. In a more sporting context rather than a self-defense context, most competitions are (for better or for worse, although that's a whole other question) gender segregated. In that context, it makes a TON of sense to train primarily against the types of competitors you would face (same gender and weight division). Obviously not denying the value of training against people bigger/smaller or different gender, and there is a ton to learn from all training partners, but I can understand someone focusing on training with the type of people they would actually be competing against. Tons of people are into sport/competition BJJ who have minimal or zero interest "practical" self-defense or application, and I don't think that's any less valid of a way of engaging with combat sports and martial arts. Are there are lot of instructors exploiting the interest in women's martial arts/self-defense to make money teaching shoddy classes? Absolutely. But if they are hampering the development of those students, or students are not encouraged to explore integrated classes at the same gym or elsewhere, I think that's more an issue of the specific gym/instructor/class than the concept of women's classes in and of itself. I think lots of men who claim they are EXCLUSIVELY interested in self-improvement and skill acquisition underestimate the importance of the gym community and training buddies in getting themselves to class. Human beings have so much neurological programing to be socially motivated! You don't have to be best friends with the people you train with, but I have also made lots of close friendships in my training journey and I'd be a liar if I said it didn't keep me going through those tough training days where I wanted to give up or not go to class or spend my time doing literally anything other than getting ragdolled around on the mat or leg kicked for hours (lol). Obviously, women and men can (and should) be friends with each other! But it can definitely be an initial barrier, especially in a brand-new gym where you don't know anyone, learning a brand-new skill, participating in a very physically vulnerable activity together. I had a sort of "opposite" gender experience going to yoga classes that were majority women and feeling VERY out of place, and it was super hard for me to overcome that and make friends with people and it could easily have made me quit. Anecdotally, I feel like I benefited a lot from finding queer focused martial arts training spaces to practice in. Having more in common socially made training more fun, and because it was fun I trained more and improved. There were a lot of beginners, but there was also a TON of killers in open mat, so there was a wide range of skill levels to train with (not unlike any other good gym/training space!). I think it would be hard to go from beginner to high level practitioner training EXCLUSIVELY in these types of spaces (for the simple reason that to really improve you just need to maximize hours and training reps, and at the moment there aren't enough of those types of protected training spaces that are accessible on a regular basis to constitute your entire training "diet" out of). But as a supplement to "regular" training, and to find other practitioners to hang out with outside of class and geek out together about fighting? Awesome, and I think there should be more of them!
@jimpim6454Ай бұрын
Nobody is reading that lol
@sivolock259Ай бұрын
@@jimpim6454 that’s okay. I enjoyed writing it and I forgive you.
@TheSteakSammich9 күн бұрын
@@jimpim6454I read it 😅
@drakunauger3324Ай бұрын
I'm taking a summer course and one class talked about women athletes. While I didn't arrive to the same answer as you did, I did believe in that results would be better if they were allowed on the same playing fields, or the sport would develop more because of it
@Cthylla417Ай бұрын
Really appreciate this video!!
@TheKryptokatАй бұрын
32:50 My gym is a fight gym taught by a former Glory world champion. I am a middle aged hobbyist. The beginner class is full of 20 year old hot heads and middle aged women. The middle aged men get chewed up and spit out by the younger dudes but they go easy on or avoid the middle aged women so they proliferate and prosper.
@GO-GO_SO-SOАй бұрын
I will show this video to people that say diversity is not a strength or is actually a bad thing.
@tom-ib5mtАй бұрын
Yeah, but women's only gyms are a good way for women to be comfortable with someone being physically close to them. In a non intimate way with another woman. After they get used to that rolling with a man might not be as big of a deal. It's a good starting point. For having people physically touch you ,
@matthewsoares2824Ай бұрын
But what about the host of homophobic men that might feel more “comfortable” being physically touched, in a non-intimate way by women before letting another dude roll around on top of them?
@ryanbaker5931Ай бұрын
From the pure martial arts effectiveness standpoint, I agree with every point. But from an economics of a gym perspective, I can see why gym owners open the women only classes. It's less profitable in the long term for the reasons you outlined but in the shorter term, it provides more revenue.
@TheVenerableMr.TАй бұрын
This was good stuff. Personally only went as deep as, "who do you want to defend against", and ,"what is your reason for wanting to do martial arts"? I've categorized the desire to do martial arts into 3 big categories: Self defense Fitness Something to do If I'm understanding your perspective, you are focused on item 1. If so, i completely agree with...well, all of the points you made. However, it's the other two categories I mentioned that I think partially gave rise to women's only classes. If I'm looking for a place to keep up my fitness, I don't need co-ed if the instructor is knowledgable. Basically, as you alluded to already, the class needs to fit the audience. If i was training to survive in the wilderness, it would be stupid of me to know how to combat everything but bears. All in all, good video, and interesting conmections to segregation.
@pangopod2969Ай бұрын
Do you have a thing for ice creams ? 😂
@3851035Ай бұрын
Love the Lumpy Space Princess voice, that got me lol.
@chriwa6830Ай бұрын
I always very much admire your logical approach. Here as well, except I can’t quite include lessons/intensive 1:1 training with a teacher or high level student. Those are incredibly productive but the group could not be smaller. Or would you consider them „diverse“ due to their range of skills?
@ArmchairViolenceАй бұрын
Private lessons are productive because you're focusing entirely on your own training instead of letting your partner work or catering to the lowest common denominator in a class. However, what you learn from that private lesson still has to be practiced on a wider range of people to actually get good at it. Someone who ONLY goes to private lessons (with the 1 instructor) will likely have a skill ceiling that they wouldn't have in larger classes.
@LiterallyTheG.O.A.TАй бұрын
Mans is always spitting facts👏🏾
@petrairene27 күн бұрын
The problem is, if you as a woman come into a class as a beginner, where only guys who are much stronger than you are train. I tried getting into HEMA longsword fighting as a woman in my late 30ies and stopped because the sparring was just giving me no opportunity to learn. All the potential opponents were much stronger, fitter and faster than me (they seemed to cope better with the protective equipment) so trying a technique on them never really got me a success. So after a while I quit. I would have needed sparring partners at my strength level to help me over the beginner stage. Plus, some of the older teenager students there visibly didn't even want to spar with an "older woman", which made me feel rather awkward.
@yuanxiaoxu5754Ай бұрын
Hmm. I have mixed feelings about this one. In coed classes I frequently notice instructors treating men more attentively/seriously. As a woman, you often need to "prove" that you are serious about a sport before getting the same amount of attention male students automatically get. At the same time, women's only class doesn't necessarily fix the problem, because I've also been to women's only class where the male instructor talks down to us like we are babies😂
@StuartAnderson-xl4boАй бұрын
Women should never be deludedto believe they can defend themselves against certain moves to protect themselves it's dangerous women should defend themselves with weapons shouting and lethal force that's facts there are no martial arts that will work more than 2% of the time
@janstumbergerАй бұрын
This seems more like a gym culture problem and not inherent to coed classes ...
@djimrleАй бұрын
In my experience as a guy, you also need to prove yourself the same as a women does. It is just usually more visible when the only girl in class is not taken seriously. For example, the instructors in my kickboxing class (which was coed) only took the top 5 guys and one girl seriously since they were competitors. The rest of the people who come to class needed to prove themselves (by coming to all the classes training hard etc.). Once you were in, you were given more time by the instructors. I know that is not really fair since we all pay the same for the classes, but my point is that is not a gendered issue (in my opinion). It is more pronounced with girls i have to admit. It might be because all the instructors were male and from a time when there werent that many girls in kickboxing. Also i am 100% sure that your experience is valid too since some man really do not take women in martial arts seriously, and that sucks...
@institches2750Ай бұрын
@@djimrleI second this. I've been on several teams where the coaches were focused on their champions, male or female. Even under female coaches. If you were untrained, or even second string, you were on your own.
@ArmchairViolenceАй бұрын
@@djimrle Totally agree that men and women will often get ignored. Especially in competition focused gyms, because the instructor only pays attention to the people that have the 'x-factor.' This is one of those situations where we'd have to read minds to make a ruling. It's POSSIBLE that the coach discarded her because she was a woman. But it's also possible that the coach discarded her because she didn't meet some unspoken standard. And only the coach knows which it is.
@peacefulpotato1836Ай бұрын
Do you read any economics books and if so who are your favorite economists
@GoryusАй бұрын
Was...was that sound of a million dreams? What have you done?!
@korpzmarcelfranca6825Ай бұрын
Hey Jake! Good content as always. I Just watched your videos about karambit and knife fighting, and i really think tou should give "limb disabling" a deeper analysis, because a big thrust or even cut in the inicial part of inner forearm would cut the tendons that attach the hand/fingers to the forearm muscles, disabling the hand, and despite a disabled hand not ending the fight, It gives you a HUGE disadvantage. Imagine Strike or grapple without one or both grips? And also the chance of them dropping the knife? I think the main strategy for knife fighting would be fighting for destroying the opponents forearm tendons in a fencing stance, and then end the fight using that folsom prison style. Love your channel
@ArmchairViolenceАй бұрын
I think the fact that you have to fully sever specific tendons on the inside of the most nimble part of the human body and NOT have actually won the fight yet tells you that there are probably better strategies. Show me a video of someone winning by starting with a limb disable, and I'll show you 100 where someone wins by not targeting the limbs at all. Is it impossible to disable a limb? No. But it IS the knife fighting strategy that is LEAST likely to work, and has the LOWEST return on investment.
@King_WhiteWolfАй бұрын
@@ArmchairViolence To add to Jakes point, perhaps these techniques could serve a useful purpose in specific scenarios by specific people, but the level of skill, familiarity and experience necessary to truly integrate them into a wider skill set - and to successfully pull them off reliably and accurately (in life-or-death self-defense scenarios where missing your skill check could very well result in literal permadeath irl) - is a prerequisite that few people in the world will ever even be able to fulfill; for a niche skill that even fewer are likely to gamble their proverbial gonads on to spend years developing mastery over. And even if they could do that, I suppose a bigger question to ask first is, would they even _choose_ to do so? Over methods that might more efficiently accomplish the same outcome, with potentially much less risk, and are probably easier to learn and integrate? I'm not trying to be a total debbie-downer or argumentative, nor am I just jaded/cynical to more "niche" forms of self-defense. I am not trying to simply dismiss outright all forms of knife-based self-defense or things like that, and at the end of the day I'm no expert on anything anyways. I just think that when we're considering the prioritization of skill-sets from the standpoint of teaching them to as many people as possible to advocate for and practice their own self-defense - simplicity is king. The simpler something is, the easier it is to teach, the easier it is for more people to pick up and try to develop towards mastery, and the more accessible it is to a broader category of people.
@korpzmarcelfranca6825Ай бұрын
@@ArmchairViolence sometimes i think some strategies arent used Just because nobody thinks of it. For an example, semiautomatic firearms exist since 1830s, but they were fully spread Just 120 years later. And also the oblique kick, one of the most devasting weapons and distance managers a striker can use, just began being used after Jon Jones, and today Just a few ufc fighters use it, so thats what i think, i find the Idea logical and a test for It would be good.
@ArmchairViolenceАй бұрын
@@korpzmarcelfranca6825 Technological innovations, like machine guns, need technological maturity. And man-portable semi-automatic firearms weren't sufficiently mature for quite a while. Even something as popular and innovative as the M-1 Garand lacked a removable magazine. A feature that is viewed as almost essential today. For techniques, there has to be a capability gap that they are able to adequately fill. Oblique kicks weren't popular before Jon Jones, but they still represent a niche tool that only makes up a TINY minority of kicks. They weren't popular before because we needed people to fully explore the niche areas where oblique kicks could possibly be useful. And that didn't happen until the sport of MMA was very well explored, and all of the more vital capabilities were taken care of. If humanity develops advanced and functional curriculums and strategies for knife fighting (the stuff that currently exists is either REALLY dumb or extremely basic), then I could totally see limb targeting becoming an accepted move. But only as a potential answer to a very niche problem. A problem that we haven't even encountered yet, because we don't know enough about knife fighting. I could see it existing as a niche tool for highly unusual and specific problems. But, as a general strategy, all evidence points towards it being a bad plan.
@heresjonny666Ай бұрын
@@ArmchairViolence I would contend (weakly) that there's an argument to be had for targetting limbs being the nearest target that you can engage from the safest distance and so having validity there. This argument breaks down if they charge you down because moving backwards is always slower than moving forward.
@bw5020Ай бұрын
I didnt expect him tomuse Jim Crow as a parallel. Alsomdidnt expect him to hit from a logistical pov. I dig it
@sarahkonig3478Ай бұрын
While it is necessary to work through discomfort in order to learn, certain base level of comfort is necessary in order to facilitate learning. Due to systemic discrimination, socialization that leads to greater insecurities regarding one's own body, and possible micro-aggressions in the gym, a women may experience a higher level of discomfort than a man in the same training environment, that might hinder progress in the early stages of learning.
@CGOCPFTFАй бұрын
I don't give a single ounce of shit about "inclusion" which is something I could be criticized for in its own right. But I think "women only" self-defense/martial arts classes are stupid because if you're trying to teach women how to defend themselves they need to train WITH MEN. It doesn't make a whole lot of sense to train women to fight only women. Self-Defense is not sex specific thing and if training with the men in the gym will make you a better fighter anyway that's what you should prioritize, being better at self-defense or being better at fighting. I guess somebody could claim that its very frustrating to spar people who are naturally bigger and stronger (not always, there are some absolutely killer ladies that would murder me in a fight before I could think to do anything about it), but that's what makes you better over time and fighting is frustrating by nature.
@nickramas9507Ай бұрын
As always: Awesome! I love your videos sooo much.
@utomocalvinАй бұрын
My bjj gym has a woman's class 1 day a week. Some of the women were upsold to normal class after they get comfortable with bjj. I think it provide a non-intimidating starting point like when you start learning to swim in the kiddie pool before moving to olympic deep pool or the ocean.
@newsoftheday420Ай бұрын
I think someone needs to read some Thomas Sowell books
@AC57001Ай бұрын
i get what you mean but at the same time i know many women who feel physically scared of men and would never put themselves in a perceived vulnerable position like sparring with men. i think women's self defence classes can be a great entry point for them to build more confidence and get over their fears to eventually participate in open classes the type of traumatised/scared women who would be too scared to join a class with men would also be the people who imo could benefit most from learning to fight. i think women's only classes have real value there i'm not advocating for gender segregation, just an option for women's, ideally a beginner course which i think would be very valuable. worst case scenario they don't join the mixed classes and don't develop as fighters, but they still gain a decent understanding of violence and are disillusioned from dangerous fads often peddled as women's self defence. best case scenario is a large demographic of women wanting to learn to fight to defend themselves from men but too scared to "jump in the deep end" get an introduction so they feel less helpless and vulnerable when they eventually join mixed classes
@KN-op3etАй бұрын
This is a very good point -- you need to transition those with any kind of fears/traumas.
@AC57001Ай бұрын
@@KN-op3etthanks man appreciate it. i think it's important to note because i personally know women in my life who have communicated this to me
@cabacage3593Ай бұрын
@@AC57001 yeah 100% agree with you on this.
@Cipher_PaulАй бұрын
Young children are afraid of water and yet they can't learn how to swim without going in it. That's the same here. If they're afraid of men daily, what do they expect will happen if one tries to attack them after they've only ever gone to women only martial arts gym? If they get to mixed martial arts gym, them they get the chance to confront that fear in a completely safe environment which prepares them for real life.
@StuartAnderson-xl4boАй бұрын
Better learning how to use a weapon
@sarahkonig3478Ай бұрын
I agree with a lot of the arguments, if we assume the goal/motivation of training is to effectively learn to fight either for self-defense or in competition. However, there are other motivations for training. In my experience, women more often then men give reasons such as improving mental and/or physical health and having fun as motivation to train. Women's only classes can definitely help achieve those goals. I agree these goals are also possible in co-ed training. Men aren't the problem, some men's and groups of men's behavior is. But we're so far from a perfect world in which gyms with positive, inclusive cultures are easy to find. So in the big picture and the long run, I agree. But for the time being I will continue to teach women-only and queer-only classes as well as co-ed classes. Because so often I see people finding so much joy practicing martial arts that had their reasons for needing a exclusive class as an entry point (systemic discrimination is real). I also strongly disagree with the statement "if you only train with women you can't fight". As a female pro fighter I honestly find this insulting. I have always trained in co-ed spaces and see so many benefits. And I agree, most women-only classes are not geared towards fighters at all. But if you train smart and hard with a variety of highly skilled training partners including folks larger than you and they all happen to be women, of course you'd be prepared to fight (regardless of your gender)! Since I'm a small person, for some (definitely not all) training purposes, I find women-only advanced classes or sparring sessions beneficial, because I find more partners my size. I've also been to exclusive "small fighter sparring sessions" and prefer those and also find those important for smaller men. I hate how other sports are segregated. Training martial arts, I can just be an athlete among athletes respecting each other and my gender doesn't matter as much, which on an individual level feels so freeing and is line with the direction I wish for society.
@Dustrout.Ай бұрын
I just realized that means even tho I'm only youtube certified I'm still a valid martial artist 😅 and before you go insulting or taking out your anger 1.i hope your day gets better 2.i don't have any local training gyms
@TheDOSАй бұрын
The best argument For having a women’s only class in BJJ for beginners I heard from a women BJJ practitioner/trainer. Roughly: Grappling introduces physical intimacy and moves that are unfamiliar to many. Having a women’s only class primarily for beginners, helps them to learn what are normal/acceptable physical interactions in grappling. So the class is for the beginners but trusted advanced practitioners (maybe only women) are encouraged to attend to help this leaning processes. Once the beginners are familiar with normal the physicality for BJJ, then that’s the main purpose achieved. They can then be more confident as they engage with other classes, to distinguish grappling from groping or other inappropriate physical contact. Thus helping women be confident in trusting their instincts if/when they encounter Inappropriate contact when rolling.
@bw5020Ай бұрын
I think he's going on the generally speaking.
@imjustsam1745Ай бұрын
Still the most thoughtful and intelligent martial arts tuber.
@Vidyut_Gore8 күн бұрын
I agree. The most practical training I got from both karate and judo was real experience of sparring with men. What a fucking reality check. (47 year old 5'2" woman) and very useful also, knowing what I can actually pull off against a man, as opposed to viral ideas. Also it helped the men learn how much power is safe for a woman. At least one man later said that he'd have broken his girlfriend when she came at him if not for the sparring experience. Easier to learn with a trained partner than hit an untrained woman and find out the hard way.
@martial_arts_historianАй бұрын
I feel that some of the arguments were a bit of a straw man fallacy. The presentation of the facts seems to basically say that women only classes count as a form of segregation, yet in reality, women only classes are often done to boost inclusivity. It’s usually the first step for many schools in changing their culture to be more inclusive. I agree that women only classes can be of lower quality, but this is non unique. Classes for children, the disabled, and the elderly tend to be of lower quality as well. Yet these classes, much like women only classes, are usually done to include people who would have never trained otherwise. Ideally, mixed classes would be the goal for most people since a variety of good training partners is a great benefit to anyone’s martial arts journey. Yet special classes can be a great way to start. This isn’t a black or white matter. Mixed classes can exist alongside women only classes because everyone’s martial arts journey is going to vary. On another note, this just seems like the martial arts version of a man not happy with why a woman would choose a bear in the woods.
@aidanhammer6968Ай бұрын
Agreed but you could do without the last part.
@MrCmon113Ай бұрын
Classes are already 100% inclusive. Women only classes are not at gyms that otherwise only have male only classes.
@looFA_4Ай бұрын
I can agree with some of what you've said. However, while it is there to promote inclusivity it also has the potential of falling into the self-segregation trap where women get comfortable with their women only classes and don't actually branch out into mixed classes unless pushed to do so, which not all gyms would do, individual goals and beliefs also highly impact whether or not they will do so. Aside from self-segregation it is indeed a form of segregation while it has the intention of promoting inclusivity in martial arts it does so through separation and as a result has the possibility of falling into the traps that systemic separation can present. That's probably the biggest problem with segregation with intent of promoting integration, ensuring that well-intended separation doesn't inadvertently reinforce segregation which is what I think his main point is. On your side note, a woman choosing a bear over a man is absolutely a stupid thing to do. That would be like me not trusting all women because some women cheat, lie and manipulate, obviously they exist but it isn't representative of the whole or even the majority. It also isn't really like the bear thing because Jake's presenting an argument for why he thinks women's only classes are a bad idea (societal) whereas men are just flabbergasted by the stupidity of choosing a random bear over a random man at a random period of time (self-preservation, decision-making and biases). They've got some similarities but not enough to conflate the two. On my side note: Holy moly human society is pretty complex. Aside from a sociological side there's also a business, psychological aspect and probably a few more that all come together. Decision-making on a large-scale sounds like effort. Edit: I think the biggest problem with his argument is conflating "Women's Self-Defense" to "Women Only classes" which while similar are not the same. One's purpose is to "provide women with the skills to defend themselves from a man" whereas the other is simply a martial arts class exclusive to women the art isn't exclusive to them, but the class is.
@bw5020Ай бұрын
How tf did you come to that last part.... Dude was nuanced af
@AugustMeyer-xj8nnАй бұрын
Hey! As you were talking about the self-segregation I was thinking about the Racial Dot Map and how it depicts the stark contrast where you can even find the street that divides where people choose to live. And especially in Detroit. Then, lo and behold, you SHOWED the Racial Dot Map...FROM DETROIT! Nice to see someone else who knows that map exists! (Or existed. I think they took it down now. Or at least I can't find the original link to the data.)
@gw1357Ай бұрын
From one Carolina social scientist to another...well done.
@gw1357Ай бұрын
The purpose of women's only martial arts classes should be to prepare entry level women for integration into standard martial arts classes. This preparation usually takes the form of learning basic fundamentals and adjusting to the experience of contact/violence temporarily free from social pressures and physical disparities of the genders. But in all this you need to differentiate between martial arts schools and martial arts-themed fitness. There are significant implications there.
@tamamalosi7 күн бұрын
Good video. Appreciated the tangential trains of thought. Personally, and from a BJJ POV, I think that Women's-only classes are a waste of an open mat or normal class. Train against what you will be using the sport/martial art on.
@fredeuhrbrand3789Ай бұрын
Thank you for not assuming I'm in the states :-) Great video!
@furiousfellow1583Ай бұрын
in theory I agree with your reasoning, in practice most men don't care about the gym having an only female class (maybe my gym dont have that many wierdos) and those classes have been good to attract new women to the gym that eventually go to regular classes as well
@user-wf5bs9ig5vАй бұрын
What is the second best martial art for self defense?
@fredeuhrbrand3789Ай бұрын
I find your arguments soild under the assumption that the goal of all martial artists is to get as good as possible. That is not the case though. A huge portion of my motivation to do bjj (as a 35 years old dad) is to have fun with friends fighting hard. Sure I try to get better - I even occasionally compete - but fun, friends and even longevity are bigger factors. The same could be said about some women. Maybe they don't wanna push the boundaries of rolling with men, and let's for a second pretend they choose the women's class knowing full well that their progress is somewhat halted - isn't that fine? I mean - you need an honest instructor, willing to tell them what the do - and do not learn. But we always need that instructor. All that being said. I prefer mix classes. I have just as much fun fighting 'technically' with a women as I do expending all my strength fighting the gym bulks. And as a prim. School teacher I can only encourage the monkey see monkey do - effect of adults insisting to work with all people - it is one of the easiest ways to teach the new generation. Walk the talk. Anyways - great video. Thank you for forcing me/us to think. Cheera
@GourmetBurritoАй бұрын
I feel like this is a really good argument for coed classes with possible warnings for segregating classes based on sex, but there are a few points that I wonder about. At least personally, getting into combats sports wasn't about being able to fight. I just think the sport is fun (did bit of jits and boxing). Like I love to climb, but I'm never going to (or have any desire to attempt to) free solo El Cap. I'm a gym climber. If you're right about people's primary intention being able to fight, then this point is moot and I'm weird. Secondly, I understand your rebuttal against the institutional power thing, but it seems like you are maybe making perfect the enemy of progress. I agree some things that look like progress might actually be stopgaps that perpetuate the existing problems and I'm open to that idea. But spaces explicitly open to minority groups exist because whether we want to admit it or not, members of minority communities have experiences that have taught them (in part through threats to their safety) that other non-named spaces are in fact for the majority group. We might want to say that the co-ed really is co-ed, but it's hard to trust that and it's damn hard to ask people who have good reason not to trust to just trust me bro. I think like women's only classes/times can be helpful to get more people interested in the hobby and as they do, if they really want to improve, I would assume they would then be more likely to dip their toes in the coed times. There could be a crowding out effect, but I'm sure that's not 100% and there are probably factors that influence the outcome to go one way or the other. Finally, I think the point about the problem being the gym culture not integration I agree with. But you can address the larger gym culture while there is a female only class. It's not one or the other. And as the larger gym's culture becomes more healthy and egalitarian, my guess would be that there would be more integration. Yes, people tend to segregate. It feels safer. But the boundaries that we draw are made up by us. It's not always going to be based on sex or race or whatever. Enforcing integration top-down isn't the only strategy that we can employ. We can also present people with experiences where they start to expand the definition of their ingroup (which tends to happen with forced integration as well--minus when things really hit the fan).
@geoffreyfletcher6976Ай бұрын
Good video with a lot of good points discussed.
@shaungreenwood4808Ай бұрын
Yes facts while dancing around the elephant.
@jimpim6454Ай бұрын
Woman can't fight LOL
@zafarhashmi2170Ай бұрын
I used to think like this year ago but I have changed my mind now days. The biggest assumption is women ONLY attend the women only class and nothing else. At my gym this is simple not the case. A better way to think of it the women decide to all train on a Saturday at 12:30, so a much larger than average number of women attend that class. Fo example at my club a regular class might have 3-5 women in it out of 30-40 members. But the women's only class has 20-30 women attending. That is much larger percentage of female training partners. This is no different to having a 40+ class where the old guys and girls train with each other. We are still going to regular class, but it is also nice not to have to go against partners 20-30 years younger than your for every single round.
@user-vm5zh9uy8nАй бұрын
Armchair Violence never misses
@user-ty6lo7eq2lАй бұрын
One little point that I wanna add to this otherwise great video: I see a point in men- and women only gyms when we consider the hypercompetitive scene. If I wanna win a tournament against other men, the hour I could train with a woman is simply better invested in sparring a man equal to my strength and size. Same goes for women: If you wanna learn to fight a similar weight and size woman, fighting a big and tall man is not worthwile. So while I would agree that in a casual or semi-serious situation mixed training is great, for ultracompetitiveness I would always seek out partners more equal to me in strength and size.
@mikeCD62Ай бұрын
I think that a womens only class is likely to provide someone with enough of a taste of martial arts that they can decide whether they care about getting really good. The women that care about getting really good will naturally seek out the necessary challenge of a co ed class. Theres a wrong way to do womens only, but if its used as a launch pad to help women dip their toes in with the understanding that training with men is a long term goal, i think thats a good thing
@nathanielfarrugia18 күн бұрын
There are two issues. 1) some women are uncomfortable around men 2) women only classes do not achieve as good a result in learning how to fight as mixed classes. Having a women only class as an entry point would enable more women to dip their feet and try it out. However, if a gym culture is to be inclusive, it would make sense to "force" further progression in the martial art would require participation in mixed classes for both genders. For women, this is a way to test their skills against physically stronger opponents who they would probably need to defend against in real life anyway. For men, apart from more fighting partners, they also learn to control their strength which is an important quality to have when livung un a civilised world where proportionality in response is important to justify self defense.
@DenshaOtoko2Ай бұрын
Ok how about a women's only martial arts school?
@AlexMurakami-vg8ncАй бұрын
Love how smart you are, like someone finally has a brain🧠🧠🧠
@GabrielMazzei01Ай бұрын
readed fast and i just skiped the part that say "someone", I just readed "Finally has a brain" 🤣🤣🤣
@crazycontraptions1249Ай бұрын
“This isn’t how you learn” _proceeds to lecture audience for 30 fucking minutes fully justifying that this IS how you learn and is just talking for the sake of talking_
@rafaelcarrera9436Ай бұрын
I enjoy this channel but I would be hard pressed to be able to find 1 video where he does not overstate and repeat himself.
@sivolock259Ай бұрын
I don't disagree with the overall point of the racism/segregation, but I do think there's some missing social and economic context than just "human nature" or "people tend to self-segregate" (even if those may ALSO be true) because of redlining and the economics of home ownership during the post-WWII period. Even after the end of formal/legal/institutional segregation in schools, there was not corresponding integration of communities, in large part because of the housing market and racial discrimination from banks and realtors, due to "redlining." White people who qualified for loans, especially during periods of economic growth, were able to invest money into homes that were functionally racially gatekept (either by realtors or by banks refusing loans). White people accumulated more wealth, and also wanted to keep their neighborhoods white to keep property values high, further incentivizing them to gatekeep minorities out of their community. Whereas a minority family who started with a similar level of economic status at the time may often have been unfairly denied a loan for a home, been forced to continue renting, antirationing money that could have gone into a mortgage to buy a home that would have created generational wealth. The disparity in home ownership and generational wealth caused minorities to be exiled into progressively worse and worse neighborhoods, creating defacto segregation even after the end of "institutional" segregation. To make things worse, a lot of public education funding is derived from property taxes, and lo-and-behold: white communities, in neighborhoods with higher value homes, generate a lot more property taxes to create better schools, further driving up property values, with a parallel spiral in the opposite direction in "poor" neighborhood schools. It wasn't just that groups self-select to join different groups - there are just other social forces besides the law that change where people can (and are allowed) to live, and what costs they have to pay to gain access to those spaces. publichealth.berkeley.edu/news-media/research-highlights/50-years-after-being-outlawed-redlining-still-drives-neighborhood-health-inequities projects.fivethirtyeight.com/redlining/
@user-oh1uk9ls8bКүн бұрын
I won’t talk about power structures or call you problematic or whatever I’ll get right to the point and offer my rebuttal. It’s because 1 in 3 women worldwide have experienced sexual assault from a man. 1 in 6 American women have been a victim of sexual assault or attempted sexual assault. This is a fact you can look up. Women's only classes make more sense because they want a space where they won’t be at risk for sexual assault. It’s not about a man or woman’s perspective. It’s about maximizing the safety of women in a recreational space. A men’s only class makes less sense because men aren’t at a high risk for being sexually assaulted by a woman. This may seem like a “double standard” but in a society where different groups face different kinds of discrimination, certain protocol needs to exist. Men and women do not face the same or equal kinds of discrimination. In a space where men and women exist, women are at risk of sexual violence from the opposite sex, men are more at risk of "feeling uncomfortable" or having their ideologies questioned. These do not have the same level of weight. Of course in a perfect world, we should all strive for classes of all recreations to be open and inclusive to everyone. It's definitely something we can works towards NOW even. But we don’t live in that perfect world, and until we do, I think it’s important to honor the decisions of groups who are at high risk of experiencing violence. The only time I could understand this is for practical reasons, like resistance training against an actual man in preparation for the real scenario. But there are women who could fill that role as well.
@keatoinfoАй бұрын
Thanks for covering multiple topics I wanted to cover in a single documentary-length video, lol