Women Rate Guys 1-10 (What Makes Men More/Less Attractive?)

In this video, women give men a rating 1-10 based on an initial number given along with a statement about him. Example: He's a 10, BUT.....he's not subscribed to the Courtney Ryan KZbin channel? He's a 0 ;)
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[@Crashtechs]

You should do this same video with men “she’s a 10 but” I’d be interested to see the questions and answers

[@ericv5435]

can't because men's preferences are discrimination

[@Crashtechs]

@@ericv5435 and women aren’t ? This whole video is discriminatory, having preferences, standards and the whole dating process is discriminatory.

[@succmywood]

@@adon3510 for her to be a 10, she has to be young,very attractive,respectful & untouched which is very rare nowadays😂

[@Qdawwg]

The thing is for men the number wouldn’t change. It would be like she’s still a 10 but I wouldn't date her because xyz

[@DudeGuy82]

@@adon3510 you clearly don’t think highly of yourself do you? A 9/10 that goes to EDM shows is automatically a 4/5 to me. Have some standards.

[@saintkevinofficial]

One thing we as Men need to learn is that Women always aim to say the "RIGHT" thing. Most Women are agreeable so they aren't going to say things that will cause a backlash or confrontation. What they say and what they feel doesn't align. They would give a nice guy a 10 just to seem like "good people" even though in real life, they're indifferent to those types of Men.

[@raptortown]

Agree so much with this. If you ever ask a woman for what kind of man she wants, look at her past relationship. They usually don't aline with what they actually want. I don't really trust these kinds of videos since we can see there faces. Rather if they weren't in front of a camera we could very well have complete 180 different answers.

[@MrZona93]

True

[@Coyote-wm5op]

This is 💯 they often give playbook answers. One girl even gave one of them away over divorce. She said “if they say we didn’t get along” was the reason he got a divorce then that’s a red flag because in marriage you’re supposed to work things out. That’s often what women say for why their relationship failed. It’s also what my cheating ex told me why her marriage failed and what she tells other ppl for why our relationship failed. It’s a risk-averse answer that sounds better than the real answer.

[@alkisg362]

The "chivalry" thing had me laughing, the "nice guy syndrome" is real and makes men go straight to friendzone or being used emotionally. Being respectful is the best, but no need to open every door and drag every chair unless you truly feel like doing it. Also, not every person deserves this kind of treatment from the get go, they have to earn it, I'll open the doors and drag the chairs for my grandma who is awesome xD

[@raptortown]

@@alkisg362 I wonder how they would feel if a man ask for girl to be more "feminine " would they get mad? Most want to be a strong, proud, independent, women.

[@sme-talks]

Hold on a second, did the $400k minimum salary girl say material things don't matter to her? Do you now see the BIG disconnect and why young men are fed up with dating? Thanks for the video Courtney!

[@herzeleid9525]

I think the whole “what women say, and what women really feel are two different things” is clearly on display here.

[@yzer]

Glad someone else caught that. I did a double take on that one

[@yzer]

A rich 7 also now becomes a 2 for her because of work/life balance. No overtime needed for $400k/yr.

[@lifesedgeart9303]

@@yzer yeah no OT for 400k a year lmao. I want that job too

[@Adamlee.23]

Dim 😅

[@winstonsmith7801]

Women , children and animals are given unconditional Love. Men are loved on what they can provide. That's the message I got from these women.

[@philla8916]

we men build everything in the world and woman act like they are the ones who did it

[@arbiter8246]

You mean from Chris Rock?

[@charlesd3024]

It’s awful , makes the world feel empty knowing women are just looking for a provider .

[@jorgekech]

@@charlesd3024 yes it's sad but it's something biological

[@BRBallin1]

Somebody gotta do the hard work to make the world go round and women and children don’t have the same abilities that grown men do

[@f.avilla6383]

Im a 37 year old guy in California, every time i hear a girl saying "you need to have your own place" ....does not have her own place.... the only times ive been with a woman that has her own home or apartment, i date them for a while and slowly find out ....their parents are supporting her, or she is a trust-fund baby, or she inherited the home.....i hate these double-standards.

[@masterkraft4746]

absolutely bro :) been there, done that

[@catholicfemininity2126]

It's different for men and women. Women staying in the home is not as bad compared to a man staying home, because men and women are different.

[@dumkaisachakal6341]

bro they live in the cars their parents gave them, but want their man to have it all. These broke females need to get humbled quick fast and in a hurry

[@blazinbad4204]

@@catholicfemininity2126 you’re just fueling the double standard, you’re part of the problem

[@mikeg3439]

Is this Flipper? Who briefly worked with me and Blake over near Dodger Stadium?

[@mlekoxd2469]

24 yo. girl demands a guy her age to live on his own (WITHOUT roommates) 😂😂 she literally made me crack up, some women are truly detached from reality

[@brocklanders3616]

Right! That's the thing. Women don't care if he's a drug dealer or it's daddy's money. The will always stand by the finish line waiting for the winner. No different than Tinder. He must be over 6ft, built, big D, and a handsome face etc... Then, if and when they get pounded out by Chad and he ghosts. Now all men a-holes and players. When in reality, only about 1% have either the capability to bang several hot women at once.

[@avatr7109]

All I see is all these women watch Porno

[@realpuffnugget6532]

get your bread up little boy

[@kurisukami]

shes 23, she said she will turn 24 haha. but lets be honest, she dresses like 30 lmao, so im not surprised

[@mlekoxd2469]

@@kurisukami she looks and sounds like she 30.i wonder if she has got as much to offer as she demands from a guy

[@jericoba]

Courtney - would it be possible to invite women over 30 for this kind of sessions? I appreciate those you have but it's nice to hear perspectives from older ones too. Being 24 or 34 year old woman is a big difference for how you view things.

[@enlightenmentseeker1689]

THIS! Average women high standards usually balances around the 30 mark

[@Gavs_rc_hobbies]

Yeah those in their early to mid 20's don't seem to have a grasp on reality

[@zerpblerd5966]

these girls mostly strike me as teenager-mentality!~ hence girls not woemn

[@tyrionlannister521]

Agreed. I'd do these interviews.

[@therealjoemonroe]

How about women in their 40's? I bet the answers would change drastically.

[@sercastamere9853]

Ashley seems to be the only sensible one. She has proper standards and doesn't let losers get a pass, but she also understands real life 👌🏻

[@jaan08011]

bruh same. I was kinda diggin her ngl not just because shes attractive but her ideals felt compatible with mine.

[@RR-et6zp]

high body count

[@Kyosti5000]

She's lovely.

[@StudyingManually]

Well, I would be mad at her if she critizised that I am a childish 22-year old man.

[@lannystanfield7565]

Lina is pretty reasonable

[@alphamindmale]

It's funny how women realize that if a man has to call himself an alpha male then he's not, yet they still feel the need to verbalize that they're a "strong independent woman" 🤦🏼‍♂️

[@ezpzjayzaar]

Every woman claims to be "a Goddess" and that is praised, yet if a man calls himself an alpha he's a jerk.

[@rustyblonchjr8660]

people verbalize things about themselves all the time like on a dating app or on a date or just in daily life

[@butcho7492]

I've never heard a man call himself an alpha male in my entire life. Lol.

[@drip369]

No such thing as a strong&independent woman. No person is truly independent, we're born dependent and will always rely on tools made by people and methods taught by people, and men are physically mentally and sometimes emotionally stronger. So when a woman says strong&independent I shake my head laughing "whaaaaat"

[@jcnba28]

You can thank modern feminism for that.

[@ORflycaster]

I wasn't surprised to hear that these girls were very anti-social media for men, but I'd love to hear how many followers THEY each have. I hate to be cynical, but I smell a double standard, and I'd love to hear their justifications, and if they're willing to close SM accounts while dating a man.

[@ericv5435]

women in general are a walking double standard

[@Qdawwg]

Because these types of girls need/enjoy the outside validation from socials and the confidence they portray is fake alot of times

[@johnnyboy3357]

Exactly, female double standard, you said it, right on, spot on, because these ladies want to bury a 2/10 guy with oral judgment but these same ladies don't have the initiative of taking out the life of a failed guy by gunshot to end the guys misery of shame and depression

[@raptortown]

This 👆

[@shennehs_rey2584]

Yeah, I was wondering the same thing

[@kv8824]

Growing up in an Asian household, I find it normal living at home with my parents at 28. I contribute fairly to the mortgage payment and have a close-knit family tie. Same goes for my fiance, she lives with her parents as well being 27. In addition to mortgage, we run other errands for folks and help them whenever they need a hand right away. We are both making decent money but we find it non-sense moving out just to gain little more privacy while having half of our normal monthly saving/investment go to renting category. We are getting married soon and will likely live with them for some more times to save up before we can buy our own house somewhere in Bay area. With all honesty, if you don’t just stay at your parents place and contribute nothing in return, you shouldn’t feel ashamed or compelled to move out (unless your folks kick you out lol) just to feel independent, you can practice that everywhere, in pretty much any setting. If someone asks, I’ll proudly say that yes, I still live in my parents home with my family happily at 28!

[@lorimart747]

There are many cultures where that is normal. I would not have a problem with that Unless I really knew he was just taking advantage of their kindness....

[@tattoodrdoke]

Trust me your sensible and winning at life. Might be worth also considering investments and buying property to rent whilst at home.

[@thatsjustmytake]

Before I married my wife, I told her some requirements for me to take that step. One of them that in my culture, we don't kick the kids out when they turn 18. They can stay with us until they are ready to move out. So I don't have a problem with my kids staying home. I stayed at home until I moved out to get married at 22. And my mom was crying and didn't want me to move out.

[@tattoodrdoke]

@That's just My take I have to agree with you. I think if your kids aren't taking life seriously and their freeloading that is different however if they are sorting themselves out saving a bit on the side in preparation for their future if parents can afford it then support them. No need to pay someone else's mortgage for them. I think some of these people have a weird idea of success and winning at life. It's not a sprint to independence. It's a slower race with decent plans. Also adults children who live with their parents longer when they could choose to leave often have better relationships with their parents.

[@BRBallin1]

Asian parents get into their child’s business a bit too much and I felt like I had to move out to realize who I truly am and what I value should not be influenced by their thought process. They’re coming from a bias of seeing things as middle aged folks who are well settled. They don’t know what 20 somethings should value in life

[@johnnytate69]

1) Marriage is IPO for women 2) Divorce is cashing out. 3) Children produces passive income for women enforced by the government

[@sindhucherian9802]

Please…..40% of women are the bread runners of their family. Excluding the ultra rich and bad parents, single mothers use that money for taking care of their child. This isn’t the 1970’s anymore, meet single mothers and grow up.

[@sirmrs6952]

Men gotta come with this same energy when dating women. Hold them to their own standards.

[@evidence-basedhealthuk5271]

Haha If I started acting like most modern shallow women do bullying, body shaming and publically humiliating people as they do, usually for things they can't even help about your body, you would be cancelled within the first 5 seconds. I might try even one single day acting like your average nasty penis size shaming, height obsessed entitled shallow women, just going around deeming this person of no value based on their penis size, and calling this person a loser for what they can't help about their body blah blah blah Yeah that won't go down well with the white knight pansies and the feminist body positive woke hypocrites.

[@HolyDrugLord]

Are u a woman speaking for men or are u an actual Man? “Men gotta come with this same energy”, huh? Wtf? U as a man want to act as if you’re a woman? Why the fuck would u ever even think u should be anything other than a man? U think men should act like women? Did u even think about what the hell u are saying or you’re way too into these fresh & fit internet guys that u think becoming womanly is the thing that’s gonna fix your inability to have a girl that ‘desires’ u?

[@lillekenatnek195]

@@rcmichellepittman1565 what do you bring to the table in a relationship

[@davidbolha]

Definitely. Men should shit test & adopt some female hypergamy mechanisms. 😏

[@herzeleid9525]

True but you guys be phucking everything that moves. Pick one.

[@energyzer_bunny1913]

I promise you they're very few 24 year old's living on their own without roommates in California. The same girl that said she wanted a 24 year old to live on his own without roommates also said she likes to spend money. And that same man has to have a work/life balance?! That's not how it works.

[@MoPoppins]

There’s no nobility or pride to be had in making one’s landlord/slumlord rich. Even while living @ home w/ parents, if they help out and do all the things they’d do if they had their own place, it’s pretty much the same thing. Save your money for something that’ll give you an ROI! ----------------------- ADDENDUM: This is coming from an almost 48 yr old woman. Character & work ethic invested towards things people are willing to pay for will produce money, for the entrepreneurial set-just provide solutions to life’s problems, and there’s your wealth-creator, if you don’t want to work for someone. Keep in mind that this sampling of women don’t represent “all” women. If you’re a “typical” guy who wants a “typical” woman, then maybe the responses from this video will be useful & instructive. If you know that the money will come, eventually, because you understand the potential of your long-range visions, ignore these women-they’re too conventional for you.

[@armandotapia5579]

plus she looks way older than 24 lol

[@richardthomas598]

Who said anything about California? Ryan lives in Cleveland, and did one set of street interviews in Miami 🙄

[@TheSuperappelflap]

trust me, even if they meet a guy who has that in his twenties, theyd still turn down a relationship because they wanna ride the CC. this entire video is cap

[@infinitedurr]

Agreed. And, I think that's probably the point They _want to_ be filtering out most guys

[@magictransistorradio4933]

I started my own business at age 29. So I moved back with my parents for a few years. I moved out when I was 34. If I didn't, it would have been much harder to get my business off the ground and pay my bills.

[@chrisssmith92]

I moved back home at 27 right before getting my first six figure job and it’s crazy how ONE YEAR can change the entire outlook of your life when you spend that year working on yourself and saving money

[@ignacioibanez6138]

Your channel is very interesting for social anthropology on American Woman and shows how many issues this society is struggle with

[@dojoswitzer]

I didn’t hear anybody ask if the guy living with his parents was caring for elderly parents. Even young people can have parents with health issues.

[@AaronToThe]

This one should be pinned

[@s.beccari4678]

I also thought it was telling that nobody asked about the 2 kids " does he have custody and/or a good relationship with them..." Just based the changes on their own willingness to step-parent

[@ShmoofWB]

Thank you. Taking care of my parents and keeping them healthy and happy is so high up on my priority list. When the day comes that I move on somewhere else, they will be either in my house or right next door so I can take care of them.

[@Macheako]

They don’t care dude 😂😂 you’d be wise to stop caring too ❤️

[@gabrielstroup]

Thanks for pointing this out; I’m in my late 20’s but the only person around to take care of my grandma, so any woman who’s interested in me needs to be understanding about my choice to live with my elderly, diabetic and illiterate grandma

[@JacobSmith-rh2sr]

Lina is 24. Maybe a 5 (average) and likely also lives with her parents. So she would probably rate herself as a 2. See how this works people lol. Peyton and Ashley are solid and then you have Mansi who is the one has the most warping with her scores yikes. Guys what matters is that your confident and know your worth. If you are happy with yourself other people will see that and gravitate towards you naturally. Stay away from girls like Mansi and you'll find genuine girls like Peyton

[@danishahmed1029]

All of them r the vid ngl .......

[@slightlyfavored4528]

And she looks like 30+, total gаrbage. It's stuрid to make any demands in her position. Unlike Stella, would definitely smash.

[@supernotnatural]

There is literally BBC story about a homeless guy who talked to a girl on the park, married to her and started to go college to fix his life. LOL.

[@jordanxlongoria]

She’s definitely a solid 2

[@JacobSmith-rh2sr]

@@jordanxlongoria nah man that's too harsh. Middle of 10 is 5 making 5 plain Jane. She's average. But this is exactly what Wheatie waffles, Courtney Ryan, and Alexander Grace talk about... Hypocritical women who over value themselves yet would never be attracted to their reflection in guy form lmao

[@NinjaKiller999]

Great episode Courtney, specially the first question as im 24 years old and living with my mom so first question was relevant. Cant wait for another 1.

[@sevensolaris]

Love these types of videos. Keep 'em coming.

[@Niek1001]

The answers of the women who love the fact a guy doesn''t have social media tells you a lot about how women see social media in general. They like how he has "no options" and "doesn't value likes" because those are the things SHE likes to have for herself. If you would ask any of them if they would delete their social media for a guy, I'm sure none of them would.

[@MrCjchamp2001]

Yet there they are on multiple social media platforms. Talk out their asses

[@mynamesNev]

They don’t like competition

[@marcusvinicius7510]

You’re absolutely right.

[@tyronejames4187]

Nah. I think it's because it gives off that he's not into petty stuff and he's focused on more important things, and she's curious on what that thing, career is. However, that doesn't mean she's like that. Which is why they can care about likes, but we probably shouldn't. Yes, it's a double standard.

[@robretrograde8626]

Yup!

[@michaelwardle7633]

“He doesn’t have social media.” “12! He isn’t looking for anything, there’s no other options out there…” I like how she sounds EXACTLY like a controlling manosphere weirdo.

[@AdamNickProd]

He's a 10, BUT.....he's not subscribed to the Courtney Ryan KZbin channel? He's a 9000

[@AdamNickProd]

29:32 if ur a 6 and gentelman ur a BIG 0 in the friendzone don't fall in the trap

[@michaelwardle7633]

Speaking of weirdos…

[@Sagefrakrobatik]

let's see what happens when I start cold approach girls, letting them know I deleted all my social media

[@firesage6257]

@@AdamNickProd a super Saiyan 👍🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@miker5631]

Of all the young women you interview, Ashley is extremely grounded and level-headed. Very impressive for a 23 year old. She has great values and perspective.

[@gertjandokter9205]

I quit social media 6 years ago. I've never heard - nor by girls or even female friends - having no social media is a big plus for a man! Thanks for the compliment!

[@drip369]

It's a red flag to her for him not having social media? You know it used to be for networking and now it is for displaying a fake life so I guess that makes sense for women to think that is an issue because most women are plastic in person and online, which is why a lot of people value your channel, courtney, because you are authentic

[@Hoodie0505]

Yea man I don’t have social media and my life is definitely better without it.

[@johngonzalez4298]

I only have LinkedIn and KZbin as my social media. I have never had anything else that is social media related. I prefer it that way

[@KyleBear1]

I don’t mind when someone has social media at my age (24). I just don’t like when they constantly post and look for validation from others. I have IG and Snap still and will occasionally post on my story, but that’s about it. But if you’re posting or on social media all the time it’s a major 🚩

[@ThenameisOskar]

A girl would be gaining alot of point if she told me she has no social media (without lying). I'm someone who doesnt really use social media and people think I lie when I say that lol...

[@josepartida1711]

yeah i thought that was such a ridiculous way of thinking on that chick's part

[@steveh5641]

That whole "he is a gentlement, he is a 10" portion was BS. Let's be honest, most of the guys that are a 5-6 and would treat them that way, these girls wouldn't even give him a second glance in the first place.

[@rustyblonchjr8660]

are you saying this is universal

[@kirkules330]

There’s truth to this. With dating apps being the new norm for how people meet each other, a guy that is a 5 or a 6 is dead on arrival regardless of whether or not he’s a gentleman.

[@rustyblonchjr8660]

@@kirkules330 yeah I would assume there's some truth to a lot of things but you can't call it bullshit unless what your saying is universal or unless you got some proof that they're bullshiting

[@kirkules330]

@@rustyblonchjr8660 I don’t understand what point you’re trying to make here. Universal suggests that 100 percent of all people in a group act in an identical way to one another and obviously that’s not the case for anything that exists on this planet. I feel like you’re being pedantic for the sake of being pedantic.

[@HectorArcadius]

Amen. Spot on.

[@rafiechowdhury5963]

This is great content! The social media revelation is interesting, I’m not big at all on social media and I always felt like it made me look like a loser.. Guess not :)

[@addy8511]

Courtney, you have a remarkably good disposition for this kind of helpful advice. May I suggest that If you would bracket various age groups, it would likely elicit some quite different value assessments and therefore be more instructive to a larger audience. It may also prove to be very helpful to what is becoming an increasingly problematic divide between the understanding of (and empathy between) the two sexes who actually desire lasting adult relationships. There are so MANY lonely people, and I suspect that may be entirely unnecessary. You’re fantastic! Best luck to you all.

[@lifted_above]

"He's an 8 and he's immature." As a middle aged person viewing this video, I didn't find any of the ladies interviewed as mature, in fact, quite immature. Their rationale with many things is quite relativistic, lacking foundational values, and judgements based in fickle emotions.

[@PraveenSriram]

I’m 38 going on 39 years old and live with my parents and am not ashamed of it

[@lifted_above]

@@PraveenSriram Without any context, I've nothing to say honestly.

[@PraveenSriram]

@@lifted_above definitely makes sense. Thank you though for briefly commenting 😀

[@Bluzian74]

Absolutely! Female chauvinism 101. Entitled spoiled brats living in some alternate reality. They'll eventually hit the wall at 40, and then still blame white males for their inadequacies and indiscretions. To be sure.

[@brocklanders3616]

Don't sweat it brother! As long as your working towards a goal in mind, you will win in the end.

[@angmori172]

You should have followed up on the 2 kids with "He's an 8 but says he doesn't wanna raise someone else's kids" I bet we'd have had us some delicious hypocrisy then.

[@Fuzzy.Wuzzy45]

😂😂😂

[@joaquin67]

Well yeah, that makes sense. These ratings are based on the individual person. Your expectations change when you're in a different situation in life. Or at least they should change.

[@ronmuniz2775]

Nice!

[@NikolettaMuhari]

but these women are really young, I don't think they have children yet so they would give a different answer than if they are in that situation

[@angmori172]

@@NikolettaMuhari that only means they lack self-knowledge and foresight

[@johnlombardo7816]

im so glad this came up.. 11:00 or so, the video games thing.. currently i play video games, about this much, but do not have a female in the mix, albeit not for the complete lack of trying, i was talking to a girl who just wanted to be friends, and there was another girl who i tried talking to more and she said i wasnt what she was looking for... so in my free time, during the week when i get home from work i like to unwind to video games.. if i had a woman though, id likely never play and would spend as much time as we could together, cuddling, or going out etc.. so i get what they are saying, if this time is taking up their time and its like hey babe im busy playing video games all night.. is that what this is really geared towards? would love to have this elaborated a bit more. otherwise great video thanks! ok.. 13:32 this is what i mean, i agree then, if this is the case, then i too would drop my own rating 5 points regardless of what i was prior.. thats not right..and likely he just wasnt interested in her that much, hence they arent together anymore.. balance as you said is key, and when you are actively trying not to learn more about the other person or at least spend time with them is counter productive.. so yeah, got it :)

[@plamendimitrov9097]

I never heard about ranking people 1-10 before moving to USA. I also did not know that there is dating and exclusive dating. I thought that you should only be seeing one person at the time. So much to learn :)

[@jakegreifenhagen3938]

Don't learn this shit. It's not good for you. Both of these things are terrible ways to think about dating.

[@Iivingroomforest]

That’s because North Americans only know how to count to 10

[@runningcommentary2125]

I absolutely and utterly despise this 1-10 ranking system. It infuriates me when I overhear people using it. You can't numerically grade someone's appearance like it's a test score , let alone every other aspect of who they are.

[@cpetrizzi]

So what I'm hearing...to find a woman, a guy needs to... Have his own place, Drive a Porsche 911 worth at least $200k, Have at least 50k followers OR no social media, Never married, No kids, Have all guy friends, Never play video games, and just listen to her talk.

[@anthony9013]

Not really. Just need good looks and game

[@28worior]

The last two turn me off

[@ruleaus7664]

Did you watch the video? The girls said video games aren't a problem in moderation. Four hours a day is way too much.

[@carlosgarcia-jz3dq]

that's what they say they want, I could also create a wish list of demands.

[@windandcloudshadow158]

@@anthony9013 Money beats good looks and game any day.

[@ericv5435]

he's a 6 but he's a gentleman. what the women say: 10 what they actually mean: 2

[@Black-ICE92]

Facts lol

[@rustyblonchjr8660]

@@Black-ICE92 is there any proof that's facts

[@MrCjchamp2001]

@@rustyblonchjr8660 yea the 2 women he asked out in the past 6 years were like that

[@moleahy6880]

I wish all men would stop believing that being a gentleman has any real value any more. If it ever did outside of fiction.

[@rustyblonchjr8660]

@@moleahy6880 the thing that's stumping me is you saying it has no value like it seems like your saying this is universal no women values a gentleman which I'm just like where's the proof for this how could you possibly know this unless you can read minds

[@tastybrownie7448]

Hey Courtney, can you do a video on guys who put decals/stickers on their laptop covers? Maybe tell us what types of stickers to put on our laptops? I put my school mascot on my laptop, the apple logo sticker even though it is a Lenovo, the name of the Air Force base I work at, etc. I am middle aged though. I'm not sure if it makes me look immature or if it is ok to do that.

[@emperormouse5487]

Ashley (the second one) is absolutely perfect. Perfect personality, rationality, super cute, and just seems like an incredibly well put together person. Seems like a huge family girl which is important to me too. Mansi- didn’t vibe with her at all. Everyone else seemed pretty cookie cutter- didn’t really get a a good sense of their personality.

[@StudyingManually]

Sure, but Ashley should treat me nicely if I initiated a conversation with her! I am 22 and a bit childish. I dislike that women do not like funny guys.

[@Churlz]

​@@StudyingManuallyWomen like funny guys. Maybe you're not as funny as you think you are. Plus, you kinda sound like an incel, stop that.

[@ericv5435]

women: women in front of a phone screen 24/7 is normal but video games for 4 hours is too much.

[@WitchOnABroomstick]

ill game till i die

[@akhsdenlew1861]

hypocricy at it's finest. And then they pretend like it's not about the video games, but about the hours... Like 4 hours is too much. What if i was 4 hours working out at the gym or playing football with the boys? I bet she wouldn't mind it then.

[@divinityai]

As a game developer I loudly laughed.

[@superbob24]

4 hours are rookie numbers.

[@psygnozis]

Bro, if you want som sex, obey the rules, no games!

[@rsouchereau]

“A red flag if he doesn’t have social media.” My god, delusional 😂😂😂

[@johngonzalez4298]

If a person doesn't have social media, it's says that the person is not high maintenance which is good

[@ozzycortes]

Delusional is always real with Women.

[@MarylandGuy-ey3st]

I think it’s about social proof/social status

[@blurrcs15]

Yeah! Are women seriously not going to go out with a guy just because they DON’T have social media? I don’t have social media and yet I don’t judge a girl just because of their internet connections with people.

[@SystematicMechanic]

@@blurrcs15 It's the opposite. They rated guys higher on the 1- 10 scale for not having social media.

[@dicoypowell3908]

Good work Courtney. I love these types of videos. The question about the guy that has mostly female friends, the ladies are answering true because they want competition. Also ladies think about it the other way around, when you have a good amount males friends. And if guys bring it up, we are called insecure. Something to think about from both sides.

[@CraigCatapano]

Great video Courtney, keep up the great topics. I'm 57 and divorced a long time. I don't think their answers are very relevant to a man over 50. Then again, if I was in my 20's, I wouldn't "need" dating advice. Lol

[@sofypi7493]

idk why living with parents is such a big deal, maybe i's an american thing, here in italy the usual age people get married is at 30 for man and 32 for women, finding job even if u studied in a super good university with top marks is very hard because people don't want to hire but try to make u work for free by "paying" u with experience (they mean an all rounder slave) so if u manage to find a job and in the same/close place where your parents live is more advantageous to stay with your parents focus on your career and save the money to then spend them in actually buying your own house. obviously the vast majority of people would prefer living by themself but looking at it in long term living with your parents it's more convenient

[@sumairshirazi]

ikr my brother is 31 and still lives with the parents and there happy to have him.

[@3rnew269]

well yeah, romania as well. I think most of the countries from Europe are this way. They are from US so maybe they can still have a decent life after paying the rent/mortgage but not where we are from when you earn 500E and the rent is 200E (200 at best), yeah good luck.

[@KyleBear1]

I see both sides. I’ve personally just moved out and I’m 24. I spent all my years in college and first two years of my career staying at home and saved money. I’m now in a 2X2 apartment with my friend, so that helps. I’d never judge a girl my age if she still lives at home (being responsible and saving), but I’d say around 27-30 is when it would be a turn off.

[@lt3746]

A ton of cultures have it that way, and plus if you have older parents you kind of have to. My dad is 60 while I am 19, so it’s pretty likely that I won’t move out or won’t move terribly far since I’ll have to help take care of him.

[@jordanxlongoria]

It’s just an American thing. In America they think you should be kicked out and live on your own once you turn 18/19

[@DivineFrag]

"He's an 8, because I call myself an alpha female" I literally bust out laughing, that was a perfect response.

[@raptortown]

I hate when anyone gives themselves a title. Arrogance

[@MrCjchamp2001]

An alpha female wouldn’t rate people. They don’t judge based on nothing.

[@Onmysheet]

Biggest egos colliding

[@SystematicMechanic]

What is an alpha female exactly?

[@lifted_above]

@@SystematicMechanic It's an illusion created by Communists, a tool to destroy the USA family, that's what it is.

[@NVJN]

This is all so interesting, thank you so much for these videos.

[@pineapple3832]

As depressing as these videos are for me as a guy(41, single, much less than 6 fig income) these new video series where courtney has real women answer questions and say their thoughts are super important for me and other guys to hear so thankyou courtney as always your videos are the best. They are pretty much the only relationship or dating videos i watch. Also can you do a series with older single women? Thanks ❤

[@taylorb4119]

You can't please these women. They're living on another planet.

[@antoinecharlesdegaulle580]

😂😂

[@paulcolin9071]

Agree

[@CC-9333_Thorn]

*you* can’t. Don’t lay your inadequacies on others.

[@Bluzian74]

Absolutely!!!!

[@kevinb8881]

AGREED!!! THEY'RE ALL ALIENS, LOL!!!

[@rforget23]

As a 28 year old that lives at home because of a breakup during the apartment searching process, I appreciate Stella and Ashley's answers. I still could've moved out after the split, but I never would've been able to get ahead financially so I had to put my frustration to the side and accept that a better future is worth more than having my own living space right now. The other answers were incredibly shallow and judgmental and I wouldn't give people like that an ounce of energy.

[@raptortown]

Good for you man. I move out just this year as a 27 (about to be 28) it better in the long to think of yourself first. Girls can wait

[@rforget23]

@@raptortown That’s awesome man, I’m super happy for you! Appreciate your support and you’re right, self-improvement makes everything else fall into place.

[@Onmysheet]

There's nothing wrong living at home. It may matter if you're 50 but apart from that.

[@ripetika1743]

I'm 26 and still live at home because I am saving money for a house. Why would I waste my money on rent when I could just save up, build my credit and get a house and pay the same amount every month on a mortgage instead?

[@Onmysheet]

@@ripetika1743 Andrew Tate would disagree with you on that? lol

[@someone-jh2lf]

this was fun to watch until the end.. "hes a 6 but hes a gentleman." this was me for the longest time and it has only put me in the friend zone with every girl i wanted to persure a relationship with.

[@NateGoddard]

Big difference between being a gentleman and being a "nice guy". Check out the book No More Mr. Nice Guy to learn the difference.

[@samuelntim-addae2843]

Ultimately you have to keep your standards consistent and have the same standards for others as you have for yourself. You should not downgrade a person for qualities you personally have.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Agreed!

[@JacobSmith-rh2sr]

@@CourtneyRyan I'll be in the male version of this video of you want ! @jsmittywhorunsdacity

[@raptortown]

Agree. Now let see those girls social media accounts when it comes to followers and the amount of time they spend on there phone daily. You know, to keep it consistent.

[@cammackk]

This is a rare scenario but it would have been worth asking with the first question " he's an 8 and still lives with his parents BUT he pays the majority to all the bills? " Would be interested if that changes the score at all.

[@jjdiaz5304]

Funny. That’s the scenario I’m going through right now.

[@franciscogarza4921]

At that point it’s more like his parents live with him

[@butcho7492]

Good point. I just saw John Rich on TV the other day. He bought his grandparents a house and lives with them. I'm sure he does fine with the ladies.

[@vikingnorsefitness5727]

Not to mention, many people lost their jobs (even folk with Ph.D) because of the SCAMDEMIC. Many went bankrupt or homeless even. Are their heads in the sand?

[@psygnozis]

Do you pay all of your bills or 70%? If you are below 50% no sex for you

[@reginaldwelkin]

What's interesting, I was living with my parents as an adult, but it was because they moved in with me during the pandemic. Even though social media is cherry-picked and tends to show only one's best side, friends and family post other things and make it easier to vet a person...but so does meeting friends and family.

[@RobertA-hq3vz]

This is nonsense. They say that a 6 is an 8 because he's frugal. But in reality these girls would not date a 6. They'd admire him for being frugal but would not date him. They would date an 8 even if he wasn't frugal. How people say they would behave and how they actually behave are often not the same thing.

[@shennehs_rey2584]

Mansi said if a guy has more than 10 followers he's not on the "roster," but I just took a quick glance at her page and she has well over that. Isn't it important to hold yourself to the same standards? Also, the living at home thing is definitely relative, I lived in Western Europe for a bit and it was very common for people in their late 20s and early 30s to still live at home

[@joeb3949]

Nah they don’t care lol they want us men held to a particular standard while they do whatever they want. Just avoid these types.

[@IndyMotoRider]

These women don't live in Europe.

[@jgkc2530]

Also the double standard of her having a “roster” but if you have over 10 followers then you lose value because that means you might have your own “roster” 💀🤣

[@michaelrespicio5683]

Couldn't have said it better. It's also common in my culture for people to live with relatives. My aunt has lived alongside my parents even when my brother and I were kids. I don't see anything wrong with this sort of living situation of living with relatives or even siblings

[@michaelrespicio5683]

@@IndyMotoRider Doesn't mean we can't be open-minded and accepting how things are in other cultures. Just like other countries, the US is a melding pot of numerous cultures. The problem is that many Americans don't know $hit about other countries like where they're located, let alone anything about the culture, nor do Americans even seem to care. In the event of meeting someone from abroad, this knowledge becomes useful to not only simplify mutual understanding and respect, but also to broaden the dating pool instead of limiting oneself to those of the same cultural group. Adding to the OP's comment, in my culture, it's normal for relatives to share a living space as we tend to have large families and we realize that, due to an ever increasing human population, there are not enough spaces for everyone to be living alone. Eventually we'll need to start sharing because houses and apartments don't just appear out of nowhere

[@uaigneach34]

How many 24 year olds can afford to move out when rent in most large cities is 2k+ for one bedroom and most jobs without a degree pays less than 20/hour. Forget about going to school, having a car, buying food, children. Be born rich or be single

[@SystematicMechanic]

Live out side the big cities.

[@uaigneach34]

@@SystematicMechanic I have my own house, but for people under 30 it doesn't make sense.

[@jayfromaz]

I've seen both of these he is a 10 videos. Very informative. You are doing a great job.

[@rollingwithmoore]

I still live at home in my 30s, but I’m working on myself and the best part about it is I don’t have to explain why I’m still living at home. Just know I’m working on myself and my goals

[@BlindPeatch]

I am so glad I stumbled upon this video. These responses are truly scary and reinforce my extreme hesitation to engage in dating or seek a relationship at the moment. There seems to be zero effort for compromise, no intention of understanding other people's hobbies, no intention of learning something new from a potential partner, and an extremely narcissistic, materialistic, and shallow behavior from these young women. However, it would have been educational to also have the perspective of more mature, grown up, well established women (professionals in their early 30s perhaps).

[@masterkraft4746]

you are right, they are absolutely delusional because they are only on their 20's. Life starts hitting harder in a few years and they will start changing their views as well :D

[@yzer]

@@masterkraft4746 love to hear them answer the work/balance question again after Corporate America stops on their dreams

[@ana-maria448]

No wonder you are still single. Frustrated?! Let the women express their opiniona as men do. They have the right to want what they want as men express they want.

[@user-dy2zy8rd2t]

Is why I never got into a relationship.And,at nearly 68 years old,still refuse to. It's all B.S.

[@aldinmujan1469]

Lesson here is stop giving a fk what they think. Your validation is to come internally, what some floozy thinks of you shouldn't matter if your self improvement game is persistent and consistent

[@redcobra1246]

Agree. It's sad but these days the best thing a man can do is to stay away from dating and use that time and money for self improvement. Way better spent

[@avatr7109]

For real Fk dating n shit.... Spend money on Dogs and Cats or feed some poor Strays and you'll be blessed _Instead of spending on Betches_

[@Viewable11]

Most underrated comment of the year.

[@max051472]

💯

[@osmanltorunlar8739]

But what you, don’t get is that most guys have low self-esteem too and they will date anyone just to feel important (social status, of having a girlfriend).

[@theaspiecoach5934]

So every girl should be excited to delete all her socials for literally EVERY reason they gave for him. If he asks her to delete she should be beyond ecstatic

[@yannick6607]

True !!!

[@westinsmith1457]

I think the most interesting and important item that raises any man’s value is to be a gentleman!!!

[@SimonTBam]

Where I live the average house price is equivalent to about half a million dollars, you do not find many people under 35 or even 40 with their own house. lol

[@darth_revan_27]

I was 23 right after college and moved back in with my mom, but it was mainly because my dad had passed away of a heart attack the year before. I wanted to be there for her and I also wanted a familiar space to grieve. I got an engineering job right after college too and I used the money saved from living at home to get a head start on paying off my student loans. I only lived at home for 20 months. By that time my mom had met someone else and they had been dating (they're happily married now). Like the girls were saying, it really depends on the reasons you're living at home. I was willing to pay rent but my mom said I only had to pay half the utilities and groceries. Also I definitely felt the need for my own space once she started dating someone else.

[@BigV24]

Sorry to hear about you dad but glad everything worked out. Any normal person would understand/empathize with this sort of situation.

[@PraveenSriram]

I’m really sorry about your dad. It would be exponentially hard on my life if I lost my dad but life would eventually go on so I make him proud 🥲

[@pokemonboy4699]

I am sorry to hear that. And living with your parents at 23 is completely normal. It's normal to live with your parents when you are young. Most people move out at 27 or after 27, so it's 100% acceptable to live with parents during your early and mid 20s. It's the norm. Who cares what anyone says

[@Archminister69]

Thanks ladies for your insight, I don’t understand why alot of guys are hating in the comments

[@Kenny-ep2nf]

the response I liked the most was from Ashley as it was a genuinely valid thing to want

[@HuntShowdownWL]

It would be also interesting to see same questions asked to women in their 30s and 40s to see the difference in answers, if any.

[@collingray2212]

I agree. Id like to see older people answer these questions.

[@HellGod67]

Surprise surprise, they'll be the same " If he's older than me and doesn't have X he's a loser".

[@rodp1984]

No way the first one is 24. She's 44. bet.

[@RuslanKD]

Yes you should definitely do this with guys!!!

[@_Aurelian_]

What’s a good Christian boy doing watching this??

[@storm2945]

Make a KZbin reaction about this @Ruslan KD

[@raptortown]

Yes, we know. You love to belittle men

[@DimitriCHARLES]

What ? You Ruslan ? 😂😂😂

[@evidence-basedhealthuk5271]

@@storm2945 Lol you'd get cancelled for even doing a reaction video most likely. You're not even allowed to call out this toxic behavior, unless its towards average to below average men of course lol

[@humankirk9196]

Hi Courtney, love your content. Just a comment on this video: it would be nice to give different scenarios both on the negative and the positive side. Someone could be living with his parents to take care of an aging parent, or may be the homeowner with a room or floor or a back house for his parents. Yes these are scenarios of people I know.

[@Sinrise]

I really question the honesty in most of these women's answers. In my 47 years on this planet most women I've seen SAY they love all these virtuous traits and don't really care about money (the 9 who thinks he can sleep with other women) but when the chips are down it really does come down to resources. I'd really like to hear actual candid answers instead of what it seems like: women answering most questions with what they think they are supposed to say.

[@mickydee6550]

What people say to hypothetical situations and what they do in life are often quite different. However, the follow up questions and responses were interesting and quite revealing. Good job Courtney!

[@javiercastro8466]

About the early 1990s, Barbara Walters did something similar to this on a ABC news program, but the ratings that short men encounter with women. Many women were unfathomably odd, in that because one guy was presented as a convict, but was tall, he was rated high, but a short doctor was rated low.

[@buddsidewinder7778]

i remember , your right. these women are seeing all these theoretical men as 6 foot tall. if your 5 foot 7 many 5 foot 8 your out with these women

[@jshepard152]

Most would take a tall murderer over a short humanitarian.

[@Viewable11]

You should read the self experiment _"Modern Women Will Hook-Up With Child Molesters and Nazis As Long as they’re Good Looking"_

[@ROCKETS2965]

"Materialistic things don't matter to me." "His Porsche takes him from a 5 to an 8."

[@Myrslokstok]

5k followers are the same but 100k is +1 😂 You know they inow nothing about mechurements, $, % or LOGIC!

[@mikeg3439]

Nice to hear from a number of relatively intelligent and thoughtful young women. The internet, all too often guys are shown videos of young women who sound and act like they are unintelligent. Girls should be aware that no social media can sometimes mean a Sigma. Not always, but sometimes. Sigma's can be high value, depending.

[@Nitrotix1]

What if your parents live with you? Or if you simply have a family home. If you're from a culture of caring/living with the family by choice, it's normal and not a sign of dependency. Split families and 'retirement homes' are a very western and modern concept. Context is important, as many of the women stated.

[@aubnuwelja]

Yup

[@nicolemazurkiewicz5377]

Living with parents is bad. No matter where. Unless you're an indian or paki. Which you wont meet any of these girls anyway

[@zerpblerd5966]

eroding community and family (which is where community starts) is the intention of the domesticating aristocracy that uses authoritarian systems (religion, school, gov't, medical) to make people dependent up on the nanny state rather than sovereign and autonomous among themselves

[@xTYBOx]

Ok, here's what I find insanely ironic. If a guy spends 4 hours doing something he enjoys it's an issue, but if she spends 4 hours a day on her looks, which she definitely doesn't enjoy doing but feels compelled to do then that's fine. I can't make that compute.

[@raptortown]

I would like to see how many hours do these girls spend on there phones? Or see there social media accounts when it comes to followers. Can't help but smell hypocrisy 😒

[@miguelarevalo9027]

I agree. Even to the girl thats nosy knowing how the dude divorced from his wife is a big red flag. That's nobody business to know.

[@DrgnTmrSirGawain]

Great point. I think that goes a lot into transgenerational and contemporary gender role confusions and dilemmas. Very interesting stuff indeed. Lots of variables, culture, life experiences, personality, upbringing, compatibility, quality of communication, mental health, maturity, etc. Feeling happy that you know your partner knows that you know they know you are happy is really priceless. hahaha

[@michaelrespicio5683]

Agree. With regards to gaming, admittedly I do it but it's just one of my hobbies. Let's consider the fact that there are numerous gamer girls on youtube and twitch. It's not just guys doing it, and just because none of these women are gamers doesn't mean others are not. Let's also consider how large the market is and how many companies spend lots of time and hard work for us consumers to enjoy the game. There are people whose jobs literally are to play test games to report errors, helping to fine tune the final product

[@karazu121]

Spending 4 hours a day on your looks usually implies exercise, skincare, productive stuff that makes you healthier. Playing videogames 4 hours a day is too much and all you do is sit on your ass for 4 hours, come on, I like videogames but I limit my playtime to two hours a day max, it is not comparable at all.

[@TheChamp1971]

Lol to their reaction at 18:27, "He's a 7 and he calls himself an Alpha Male."..... That IMMEDIATELY rules out RICH COOPER. LMAO!!

[@itsmini6175]

I’m 26 and live at home. Saving money and helping around the house is always nice.

[@Myrslokstok]

You must think the oposite. Think what would be bad and negate it, that is usually what they like!

[@gabrielrcortina]

One thing to ask myself is "If I found a person that's exactly like me, would I like myself?" What I got from this video is that women want a responsible, honest, and decicated guy that cares for himself and others. They basically want a well balanced cup of Joe, and not a watered down cup of Gabe.

[@williamwallace410]

Yes, that’s indeed what they say... problem is most women don’t live based on their logic, they are fully guided by their emotions.

[@gabrielrcortina]

@@williamwallace410 I kinda need more emotional intelligence for myself so... Idk. I'll have to get myself a well balanced girl.

[@avatr7109]

These women just want a James Bond.... These numbskulls don't even know real life...but have 65000 expectations from others Real women are way different.

[@taxtrustsestates]

Almost all of these criteria and shallow. No wonder dating is impossible today.

[@puas7463]

Cool, interesting video. It depends on biases a lot, but these girls seemed pretty honest

[@ApplesandDragons]

Their answers to the video game question were interesting to me as a former gamer. I play 1-2 hours a week now, but to an ordinary single guy 4 hours of gaming every night is a short to moderate amount of game time. It's short enough to fit into a sustainable routine for a typical employed and self-supported man. I agree that gaming should bring his score down, but not as far as most of them are saying. Minus one point probably. The women expressed a concern that games will take his attention away from her, but in large part too much gaming is just a side effect of being single, and that will mostly or entirely go away as soon as he's no longer single.

[@ericv5435]

the girl that said she's an alpha female is an instant 1 because of that cringe

[@Kirbystare1992]

Most girls don’t call out their own hypocrisy so I’ll give her a point for that lol

[@splugereport]

It's fascinating seeing 20-somethings, I.e. young people, and their theory of mind (or lack thereof). Not one of the people thought maybe the guy was taking care of his parents. They all just think it's a money thing or a job thing. It's adorable.

[@ianarmstrong7494]

Yeah I started taking care of my Mom at 19. The amount of people who assumed I was freeloading was crazy. Not to mention, giving me unwarranted advice, about saving money. Like I wasn’t running a household and paying medical bills.

[@IndyMotoRider]

Because there's so many 20 something guys taking care of their parents. 93 people have liked the dumbest comment I've seen today. Adorable.

[@avatr7109]

I laugh at these videos... The most simple thing in life is not to give a Fock and do your own thing. Instead spend the money on feeding Stray animals... you'll be blessed and you wouldn't even realise it

[@Jon0387]

Yep that was me, I spent my entire 20’s financially supporting my mother and raising my brother and sister. It took up almost all my money, so even though I had a high paying job in software I was broke and mostly stayed home.

[@nuskyahmad6375]

@@Jon0387 family before whores man,even if u die alone

[@DC-wp6oj]

In reality they’ll put up with anything as long as they find him physicaly/mentally attractive or he is able to make himself attractive.

[@HibiTeamQueso]

I definetely agree on the social media thing. It's just way too toxic. The less you use it, the better.

[@StereoAnthony]

When my ex wasn't working, she was sitting on the couch either scrolling through her phone, or watching tv. No motivation to get outside, no interest in being active, no interest in developing any hobbies or outside interests,and having little to no problem with being like that. I have never been with anyone like that before, and was surprised how quickly I lost interest in her because of that.

[@phinsmagic]

That’s every chick

[@fluktuition]

@@phinsmagic Like for real. Where are the women with hobbies ?

[@evidence-basedhealthuk5271]

@@fluktuition Lol women with hobbies hahaha Most modern womens hobbies are sleeping around at nightclubs and penis size shaming men to their friends the next day. These women don't have hobbies or interests, out with penis size and sleeping with "alpha chads".

[@basedviet]

This video is great proof that the human brain doesn’t fully develop till 25

[@rustyblonchjr8660]

so do you think if they were 25 they wouldn't have said what they said

[@basedviet]

@@rustyblonchjr8660 some would have more perspective by then, some wouldn’t

[@fox1actual]

Women will easily mess with a man who has a wife at home than mess with a man who takes care of his mom at home. Think about that.

[@user-kw2sp3gq4d]

So when a guy has 100k followers on social media gets extra points, and when a guy does not have social media, still gets high points? Ahhh women.

[@jtr82369]

He’s a 7 but divorced… Without knowing the actual context, you shouldn’t hold that against any man. Women file 80%+ of divorces so he doesn’t really have a choice in the matter 🤷‍♂️ What really matters in this situation is how he recovered & does he still allow that past event to affect him in the present/future

[@beaubiden3244]

Dang, is it up to 80 percent now?

[@bendover7841]

But it makes sense because if a guy goes through divorce once, he's usually smart enough not to get married again. He's not an easy prey, so his value goes down.

[@MrCjchamp2001]

90% of the men in these comment sections let the past affect them

[@Kirbystare1992]

@@MrCjchamp2001 if it’s divorce specifically then that’s a justified reason. If most men lose in divorce why get married again?

[@jtr82369]

@@MrCjchamp2001 hence the 2nd paragraph on my comment, a 1st date usually shows if they are recovered or holding on to the past.

[@SparkerBlaze]

I kinda played this game with a friend of mine (girl) which I liked in the past. She is 24, never had a job and has super high standards for men (has a thing for 'bad boys' from bad Netflix TV shows). We discussed a mutual friend and how he always treats his girlfriend very gently. Mind that the dude is 30 years old, never had a gf until now and is not particularly good looking. And that one girl was saying to me that's what she considers a real man. Obviously, she was lying and she knew she was lying but wanted to appear virtuous (like some of the girls in the video) because when I asked her if she would ever date a guy like our mutual friend she simply shut her mouth and started being aggressive.

[@rogerfournier3284]

Women are looking for the "real person: does the man have a heart, believe in a higher power. Now, it's almost impossible to ask a women out. Many women do not trust men, have had bad experience with men in the past, which transience to the next relationship. Many women that are attractive, and know they are attractive "play the well he "looks good, sounds good, has good manners. One wrong move, the women (not all of them) I think I want see that "guy" I see's this in American society now ( a lot of superficial bullshit happens too) Many women play their game, because that's "all they know" "They know nothing else, women like to "play" with men. Many women are superficial, toxic, think that they are the world with their looks, and men "play on it" Some women treat men as "shit" again it's not the women"s fault, it's the way they grew up (upbringing, major for women) If a women was raised with abusive parents, your going to see that in a relationship! (for sure) Alot of men do not being with attractive women, because they use their looks to manipulate you, year their nice to look at. Most women know the men's "tricks" before they do "anything" Alot of women are use their minds to mess with guys minds. It should be Win-win, that's not always the case. Alot of times it's win-lose, lose-win. Alot of women are "in-sensitive" towards men (depends on how they grew up) Many women have this "princess-world" of looking for they "right guy" many women destroy men's presence.

[@telegoire1244]

If being chivalrous can raise a man up to a 10, then why are all the nice guys on the internet single?

[@rudyrodriguez8432]

This is why Fresh and Fit point out why a real guy(s) don't care if a girl works or doesn't. But girls expect guys to always have a job or at the least have money. (Amongst other expectations of a Man)

[@meddyven]

Courtney these are great videos. Keep them coming. It gives alot of perspective on what's important to women. It's encouraging to hear women say money isn't "EVERYTHING", and that a strong confident man, who is chivalrous, kind and knows what he wants matters most!

[@dominoplay3712]

THESE ARE KIDS NOT WOMEN

[@karazu121]

I live with my parents by choice, I have an amazing relationship with them and as a single person there is no reason to live alone and waste money/time, I don't know why is that considered a bad thing because I'm 100% willing to move if I start a serious relationship.

[@johnnythekid4601]

Women want to see that a man can be independent. There will always be assumptions made if a guy is living with mommy and daddy past a certain age regardless of circumstances

[@Sagefrakrobatik]

@@johnnythekid4601 It's mainly a Western thing, in Collectivist culture in the East, the children usually stays with the parents until they get married off

[@94champs]

@@johnnythekid4601 There are men who live at home who are 100 times more responsible than men who live alone. Plus, since when is caring for your elderly parents a "bad thing"?

[@MMAPROFIGHTER]

@@Sagefrakrobatik in most of europe people cant afford to buy a house even if they want to with a normal job

[@michaelautrey6641]

i didnt hear any questions concerning their living conditions. do they live at home and if not do they have roommates?

[@louiehernandez4741]

Who doesn't see the disparity/sexism? For some of these women, who will never be higher than a 5/6, appearance wise, which is so important to us men, they have expectations that they themselves can't meet. They won't accept a man living at home, but most of these women live at home. I'm not bitter as I left to college at 18 and lived on my own since.

[@ticktockyo2]

They spend 10 hours a day on social media but you can’t have a hobby

[@nathanv.4397]

The more physically alluring you are as a man, the more grace your awarded for interpersonal mistakes and hiccups.

[@ayugoslav5554]

The more grace you're awarded for everything in life, dating happens to be the most obvious thing. When dudes will realize that lifting weights and getting plastic surgery will change their lives much more than any 100k college diploma ever will, life will get better for society as a whole

[@CalvinGomes]

I'm a 50 year old man with 6 kids and I lost my wife to cancer after 25 years of marriage. I stumbled on this video and was curious to hear what the younger generation has to say. I was surprised by their standards compared with how some of them dress (this was an interview and they took effort to dress). They want a gentleman who earns lots (or is independent) and is mature and monogamous. These are all very laudable and I get it. I agree this is what they should aim for and men should aim for a high standard. To get those men and keep them though, you have to dress and act like a mature lady and be a woman who will respect their man, even if you disagree with them. If you dress and go to places to be picked up by low value of polygamous men with good looks, then that is all you will get. Also, high body count is a turn off. And I disagree that high value men should be allowed to sleep around...that is a sign of a low value man with low integrity.

[@user-dy2zy8rd2t]

One BIG reason I REFUSE to get caught up in the relationship game--its SO messed-up.

[@Bruddly]

I absolutely love this video, you should do more like these. I would be very curious if you made another video like this with more 'dating profile' oriented questions such as prefering... -cats or dogs -christian or atheist -drinker or non-drinker -smoker or non-smoker -drugs or no drugs -straight or non-straight(bisexual/etc) -tall vs short -glasses or no glasses -deep voice vs high pitched voice -big 'member' vs small 'member' -muscular vs skinny vs fat -full head of hair vs balding -full body hair vs some body hair vs no body hair