Women's Unrealistic Expectations And Why They Have Them

Women are perfect and powerful and independent and fun and creative and successful and...single.
Why!?! (We think too much of ourselves as a birthright.)
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[@Username-wr7uy]

You're right about the message not getting to the woman. I just commented about that on a older video before I watched this 1. Have you thought about why that is? Any man that's showed 1 of these videos to a woman knows why. Lol. I think you're great and you're right but women actually get offended by these videos. They don't get it and they don't want too. That's why they get pregnant by 3 different felons that have no job.

[@JenniferMoleski]

What if I somehow set up an anonymous share button? Like, you could send it to anyone and there will be a message like, "someone wanted you to see this..." ?

[@Username-wr7uy]

@@JenniferMoleski That's a good idea but it would also take the fun out of sending them. I've sent it all over the place 🤣🤣🤣. I read somewhere a comment of yours that said something to the effect that if a woman doesn't agree with this....then walk away. And it is correct. This gives every guy the chance to tell her " that right there is why you're failing at life 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Keep up the good work. I just found these videos and I loves them.

[@matildamaher2650]

Brian Fassett that’s because truth hurts, so they get offended.

[@jefferynordgulen4436]

@nahkxxx telling wahmon that most guys are less than 6 ft, is too much like doing math. They can't balance a check book either

[@e.l.norton]

@nahkxxx Should just ask them if THEY look like every man's ideal. The answers are hilarious. And, this is coming from a guy who is 6'4" and won't date tall, thin women. I already have a coat rack in my entry way.

[@alainbellemare2168]

men are looking for a peaceful home to come back to , not a second job

[@TKUA11]

Yes, I like the part where she says what is your value to the relationship is

[@artwebb6939]

Hahaha Every once in awhile one of my friends ask me if I'm ever going to marry again Nope, I have a boss at work, I don't need another one at home 😁🤣🤣

[@ShaunHensley]

That’s just the bare minimum.

[@adnomo]

She will get you because she’s studied your every move

[@adnomo]

Art Webb .... wife to husband: “Honey while you maybe low on the totem pole at work, at least you’ll be number two at home”.

[@briar35981]

"Every woman wants a good man, until they find one that requires them to be a better woman......."

[@carly1391]

hey ... i know where you got that .... :-)

[@rain2472]

@@carly1391 Where did it come from Carl?

[@carly1391]

@@rain2472 i used it on another post about a month or so ago .... perhaps he saw it there .... not that i mind at all ... in fact, more of us should use it - frequently !

[@JohnBoulding]

Yes!

[@hydrolito]

Who decides what is better try to show them logic but that doesn't always work and she tries to make you better which is according to her. You need to find someone that will do reasonable compromises. If she always wants her way you better find someone else.

[@Heritagepostfarms]

I met a girl who was late twenties, had a terrible job, single mother, obese, couldnt cook and in debt.....she told me she was out of my league. She honestly believed she was a catch. I laughed so hard. Feminism ruined women.

[@simoncameron4355]

This happened to me more often then not when I was dating. Now I'm in a serious relationship, and to be honest, I'm not sure even now that it is worth the trouble. I love and care about her, but she brings very little (Other then sex), the really funny part is I'm not saying I'm looking around but there isn't anything else out there any better, and there are women who are a lot worse. (Drugs, soul crushing debt, promiscuity)

[@Heritagepostfarms]

@@simoncameron4355 You can do whatever you want, but personally im not going to live my life settling. If I dont get a girl that brings something to the table then I will remain single. Simple as that

[@tremorchristlester4688]

She definitely brought nothing to your plate. Youll survive while she struggles. Women like that are ignorant to reality

[@ronnieam33]

I guess she was in the "Big Leagues"!!

[@SobriusVigilans]

And are called "strong and independent" due Government handouts, positive quotas. Ladies from the 30´s would laugh at a woman that can´t even boil and egg even if her life depends on it. Cheers!

[@disgruntledtoons]

Sex is supposed to be special. But as the guy in the film says, "When everybody's special, nobody is."

[@BobbieSmith46]

Everyone wins a prize?

[@sophieruby9135]

Tell that to teenage boys.

[@stephenmelton2532]

Woman: 20's. Find strangers and give "it" away for a couple drinks. Woman: 30's. Find Mr. Right and expect his lifetime earnings for "it". Men: Seems like an insult.

[@dowyacht]

It’s not just you; ever man knows it’s an insult.

[@Jojo_D_Northstar]

Anne Smith there are men now that don’t want society obligations too, there are men that are happy single too so don’t worry its not just women. For once don’t make it about yourself and realise that diff ppl want. diff things

[@beebobox]

@@annesmith9181 liar :) you'd rather have a man and children now young adults and making plans for your retirement in 20ish years. But you are past the wall so you know your choices are limited at best. How did it go.. fox called the berries were sour when he couldn't reach them.

[@bullballsallday]

"Woman: 20's. Find strangers and give "it" away for a couple drinks." They only give it to the chads for that. Any other guy buys them a drink, they'll just spend 2 - 5 minutes talking to them, depending on how socially stimulating he is. Nonetheless, if he's not attractive enough, she'll move on.

[@CourageAndLuck]

@@annesmith9181 wait another 30 years, when you're old and alone in a nursing home. That will be sad That is, of course, if you don't die from diabetes first ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[@knoxmilstead9849]

Lately, I've never met a woman that didn't have an overblown opinion of herself

[@visaman]

@@ArtofBrandonTruster Change into what though?

[@yummiermussel5331]

@Michael David Where would that be? Theres some pretty free states here with constitutional laws...but im curious which country you would suggest is more free than the US?

[@russellstephan6844]

@George Bush Yes, boundaries... Now, keep in mind those boundaries will need to be patrolled, reinforced, and protected from a never-ending onslaught every hour of everyday for the rest of your life (see the robot women Bill Burr bit). There's a reason 70 year old men in multi-decade relationships look steamrollered. They've tired of the constant patrolling, firefights, and wounds and accepted being a POW.

[@yummiermussel5331]

@Daver G Really?? Well maybe we have different definitions of "freedom" because i like our 2A and not too many countries have that. Palm trees are nice but no right to bear arms just doesnt feel like freedom to me.

[@duderanch18237]

Yup.

[@garysuarez9614]

"Never try to gain the favor of a broken women. You cannot." This is pure, refined gold.

[@scottlopez9822]

So true ... I lived it ... she will break your heart like no other

[@jamesrussell2936]

I find that many men choose the wrong woman and then blame all women, which is foolish. You may be a perfect husband, but if you choose a bad person, then nothing you do will make the relationship work.

[@theblytonian3906]

Absolutely. I'd have to agree with that. Beyond repair or redemption.

[@Heritagepostfarms]

If I could find a woman that makes my life easier, I would wife her up in a second. Every gf I had made my life harder. More drama, more stress, more mess, you name it. Not one made my life easier. Thats sad.

[@JenniferMoleski]

That is sad. I always ask my husband, "why am I here?" The answer is _to make his life easier._ (And better. That's the goal.)

[@Johnrider1234]

@@JenniferMoleski god bless bless bless you.

[@iamactuallyover18]

You don't attract what you want, you attract what you are. Ask yourself if you made your gfs' lives easier bro

[@Heritagepostfarms]

@@iamactuallyover18 yes. 100%.

[@seamusemmons5827]

there is also the abuse men get and suercidal ones that no one talks about

[@krissmiley7519]

I was talking with a 26 year old woman a few days ago and the topic of what she wanted from a man came up , she had a big shopping list , tall, rich, smart, caring, adventurous , good looking , no kids , no drama etc. , I then asked her what she brought to the table ..... there was a pause and her friend spoke up and said " she is the best thing that will ever happen to whoever she gets with" I asked if maybe they could be alittle more specific and they just got quiet

[@Just_a_Lad]

There you go, a huge ego, huge confidence, but no real reason behind that. You just described most modern women. In my country women even have a favorite song called "We are number 1" which does not explain why they are number one. We just have to accept the fact that they are number 1 for no reason.

[@ancientfuture9690]

😂😂😂 Brilliant

[@Awesome_Force]

Yep, the majority of women bring next to nothing to a relationship.

[@joejones9497]

What gets me is when dating sites have a box for her to say stuff about her (to show what you would get) all they write is what they want there too. E.g. I want a man who can make me feel on top of the world...and make laugh... and etc. etc.

[@daquetreed5522]

Joe Jones don’t forget they’re a mother to 4 beautiful kids who are their world 😂

[@theanabolicviking]

We want a partner, not a competitor. We have enough competitors out in the world, we don't want to come home to one!

[@RetiredRhetoricalWarhorse]

@n cw Bullshit. Men compete with everyone in their vicinity. This is hierarchy at work. The placings get reshuffled every day. This battle is constant... No matter at which level you compete... you compete.

[@friesmj]

Amen.

[@wellnesspathforme6236]

Competition is a classic expression of insecurity, which is a classic trait of narcissism. We all need to become experts in narcissism, IMHO. Or else the risk of getting damaged by one is rather high. YT Little Shaman and Surviving Narcissism, and don't miss the comment section. As we are denutrified and toxified over time, pathological narcissism becomes more and more prevalent. The key to identifying them is to known they are stuck in their programming, not that all the programming is necessarily bad. A world class chef might be a narcissist, but you might really like food! The problem arises when you want the narcissist to care about, or at least respect, your feelings, comfort zone, desires, programming. It is NOT going to happen. You can NOT have a relationship with a narcissist, only a CONFORMANCESHIP.

[@sandlotscout6358]

My ex constantly played the one-up game, every single time I tried to talk about my problems her first reaction would be to compare them to hers instead of listening like a good friend.

[@wellnesspathforme6236]

@@sandlotscout6358 It's her world, you are just a squirrel! Baptized into the "serve their obsessive compulsive disorder" club.

[@pilotrserra]

Jennifer, you hit the nail on the head. I’m a 60 year old father and my wife and I have been married for 35 years. My second career is now as a college professor, and my students talk about this topic all the time. So many young men and women are just giving up on marriage and family. It is alarming!! Even my son who is a successful, educated, good looking and logical airline pilot cannot find an educated, sensible partner who wants a family. I wish you the best on changing the culture.

[@stefanielorimer9693]

I have a young adult son on the road to being a doctor... and same. My 18 year old daughter who was brought up non-feminist has been snapped up by a lovely, ambitious, good looking, intelligent young man almost as soon as she hit college. Feeling sorry for our boys. :(

[@pilotrserra]

@@stefanielorimer9693 I really think Jennifer is talking about topics that we only think about. It really is refreshing to know that others feel the same. So Stefanie, do you have another daughter around 20-22? LOL. We have the perfect son...he is a gentleman, athletic, educated, logical, driven and wants a family, no tattoos, no drugs, the typical all-American kid...LOL.

[@themaxster7798]

The culture is gone. The nation will be gone soon. There is no country without a culture.

[@omvegan]

Women curse men who go overseas looking for a partner.

[@juanisaac5172]

Do you think your son can fly for an Asian or Latin American Airline? That would make it easier.

[@TheRealMusic4Life]

YES. So I'm a black man who has listened to a lot of this topic coming from black men and women. This is just further proof that it isn't just a racial issue, it's a societal issue. You're saying the same exact things that I, a black man, has been saying. The biggest take away is that men do not value the same things in women that women value in men! If we start there, so much of the confusion and failure would be alleviated.

[@BJETNT]

I'm with you on that thing it is a culture and a sex thing. definitely not a race thing. I have a lot of friends that are black and they're very thankful for a lot of them because it wouldn't have saved my life and vice versa. Play Advantage the black guys tend to have is they are in general a little more or a lot more confident than the white guys. Women tend to respond to them better. But even guys that used to do real well white or black have been able to tell a massive difference lately. I experienced extreme sexism and stereo types the first time when I went back to school in my mid-30s. The Faculty was entirely female and I got accused of beating up a lady in front of a Coke machine and they literally lied and said that's the no I did it because an employee saw it. Well they suspended me for a weekend college and then the lady started going after the teacher and they realize she was crazy I did not even get an apology or everything taken out of my record. So I just sued them for over a hundred grand and won. When I left the the school the woman that was working the front desk for was the dean of admissions by the end of it. Literally just because I'm blonde hair blue-eyed 230 lb bodybuilder thet just assumed was biggest pig they've ever met. With no proof of any kind they took that lady side and she turned out to be schizophrenic and was just making things up and then had the guts to ask me to write down what happened to me. I'm the first generation in my family that isn't racist beside my mother anyway. My father and all of my relatives are extremely racist and they're from Texas. Sexism and racism is a sign of a stupid uneducated mind as far as I'm concerned. 99% of women must be stupid because the stupid s*** they are doing nowadays Jack blows my mind

[@Brown-from-the-west]

The Cesar Chavez part of the community is doing the same thing.

[@ConcernedResident_GiantStack]

I honestly think it's just a woman thing in general. Women everywhere will overvalue themselves because guys are so horny that they'll jump onto anything early on. But when the woman comes from a poorer society, she will feel intimidated and so appear not to be like "Western girls". Let me give you an example: I lived in China and there were tons of beautiful women willing to give this ESL teacher '(definitely not a high-end job) a chance: lawyers and other professional ladies; even had a young, attractive college girl come onto me (I was mid 30s and I'm no Fabio); thin girls in their late twenties and into their 30s who went to the gym and kept their bodies looking good. BUT, Chinese men in the Tier-1 cities are known to be super picky. As a result, these women turn desperate once they hit 24, but especially after 28. Boy, O, boy do they start throwing themselves at Western men in their 30s. It's not because Chinese women think Western men are better. It's because they couldn't get with a Chinese guy, either they wasted their time or it just didn't happen. So, now, they appear to Western men to be more realistic than those "evil Western women back home" but the truth is they just are ACTING like that because the guys from their home country are extremely picky, sort of like what the lady in the video is telling Western men to do with women in America. But I'll give Chinese girls this: they at least are willing to accept reality and do something about it, unlike most American girls who just put reality off till they can't any longer; I just wish Chinese girls didn't waste themselves on dudes obviously using them, but that's due to the cultural difference and their naivette of Western men.

[@BJETNT]

it's definitely not a racial thing my friend. I'm a blonde haired blue-eyed white boy and have the same problems you do apparently. I will say this I run night clubs and the black guys usually have a lot more guts than the white guys. They tend to do better in the situations just because they're willing to put themselves out there. Obviously they're not all like that and not all white guys are pretty boys that are arrogant like myself lol.But you're right it's definitely a social thing things have changed so much in the last 10 years it's unbelievable. I've working night clubs or strip clubs for the last 28 years and I'm 45 this month. The way things have changed so much is something I never saw coming. All I did was make things worse for both of us male female black and white. Anyway sir Best of luck to you I like your comment

[@TheRealMusic4Life]

@@BJETNT it's wild out here man lol. I ended up marrying a white woman. Still married, together for 10 years this year...but the thing that drew us together was that we were both raised by more traditional parents. And even though we both grew up in church and were still involved, we met at a night club LOL! I urge the younger guys I know to focus on finding a more conservative woman, but it's exceedingly harder to find every day. I definitely feel for the younger guys. The feminism and liberalism has messed up the female nature.

[@jackiek4159]

"Sex is not valuable in a promiscuous culture!" - Preach sister! 💯🙌🏻

[@landonpriest]

Gotta admit, that was profound! And so damn true.

[@TheHigherVoltage]

That's like saying money is not valuable in a rich culture. It's just a platitude.

[@thebspolice792]

@Mike Smith men value sex but only for a short period of time if thats all she has to offer.

[@Shashankmk]

A man always values a poor + pure woman, more than a rich + promiscuous woman.

[@jackiek4159]

@@Shashankmk Love this! 🙌🏻

[@ericguenette799]

I asked my ex what she brings to the table besides a pretty face??? She had no answer!!!

[@JenniferMoleski]

See! It's a powerful question!-- and I don't think because a woman doesn't have an immediate answer doesn't mean that she doesn't have any value. I just think that women don't face that question ever! They don't think about it. Let's get them to! I'm happy you asked her.

[@luizbezerra4373]

Once on Facebook, I saw a friend asking this to a woman who was posting about what she demanded on a boyfriend. Her response? "This is not a bargain or a negotiation. If a man that fits my criteria isn't interested on me, there will be another one that will be."

[@dominijerzboi]

Jennifer Moleski it’s bc women, IMO don’t have to prove their value or worth us men have to prove that on a daily basis thus it’s easy for men to start listing tangibles whereas for women it’s easy street bc they know they only have to compete in the physical/beauty realm which for the most part either comes natural or they are socially groomed to focus on the aspect that will give them the upper hand. This is why women say simpleton things like love, companionship, vision, faithfulness, etc. Bc at the end of the day those descriptors can’t be quantified or qualified. Honestly I feel bad for women today bc their biology pushes them towards pair bonding and family formation but the feminist program from womb to adulthood and sociocultural messages push women to act against their self interest or to only focus on their solipsistic desires with impunity. By the time they have that ah ha moment it’s too late for a lot of them.

[@visaman]

Sex. The answer is sex Alex.

[@frozenkilt]

@@luizbezerra4373 The sad part? She actually might be right. Simpin ain't easy...

[@livingsimpleproperties4132]

"Women ask yourself what you bring to the table"

[@frankmalone236]

And that's where the sound of crickets is heard in a big....open....wide..field...the end😏

[@NYRyder1983]

Other than her beauty.

[@LeoKat2013]

I just sent this to my 19 year old daughter!! You do a great job voicing what I try to say and can't find the words for at times... We have to start teaching our young girls this way earlier, they are brain washed by the fake media and internet. Thank you thank you thank you!!

[@AbcAbc-sp1od]

19 is too late. They need to hear the truth much younger than that.

[@LeoKat2013]

@@AbcAbc-sp1od you assume I was saying I just started telling her this kind of thought process at 19...which is incorrect. Both my daughters, 20 and 17,have been seeing and hearing it their whole life. Because yes at 19, for the majority, it's hard to instill new values. But also there is an age where they are able to start truly understanding what is being said and follow through in everyday life... There's no set age for that, some mature faster and some slower.

[@AbcAbc-sp1od]

@@LeoKat2013 ah, well that's good! It's too bad the rest of their generation hasn't been taught these important life lessons though

[@LeoKat2013]

@@AbcAbc-sp1od yes that is very true!!! And I'll admit my youngest is proving to be a tad more challenging... Just proves how much one's surroundings (for her, school, dance studio, online social media,) impact one's thoughts and values... But i believe as she ages the true way I've raised her will prosper if I keep showing her how to be a classy woman.... The teaching never ends as a mother to her daughters!

[@tommore2388]

@@LeoKat2013 Have you thought about birth order? Even when we raise our daughters in the same environment with the same values, they come out temperamentally and behaviorally different based on their birth order.

[@anamericanman]

Correction, women don't do ANY thinking about what they bring to the table.

[@luizbezerra4373]

They think they are the prize, so they don't need to bring any other than themselves.

[@kaleolenz9949]

Nah. I know a lot of women nowadays that think that what we want in a woman is for her to bring money into the table. They think we should bring that and all a prince in a white horse would bring too, though.

[@Kyle_00]

well, some do actually think about contribution. Most don't.

[@kevin9218]

They either think they don't need to bring anything to the table as long as she's being bent over it, or they think they should bring money, an education, and a full time job like she wants from a man. Problem is, if that's all she brings, it's not worth much, dude already has that covered. Unless he doesn't, in which case she won't respect him and will cheat/leave.

[@cukuceral]

Yes my girlfriend thinks the same way, she is a prize and I need to take care of her😒😒

[@michaelhale8804]

In one of my significant relationships (9 years) she asked me to join her in a couples therapy session with her therapist. I do enjoy growth work and I am no stranger to therapy, so I said yes. It was clear after a few sessions that most of her work was trying to understand and put into words her frustrations and expectations. The following meetings and life in general became focused on me and my lack. One day while in therapy I finally realized I was carrying her malcontent and emphatically questioned “well what the fuck do you bring to this relationship?!” Our therapist wondered aloud “I’ve been waiting for you to ask that.” My partner had no answer. Eventually the unrealistic expectations drove me out of the relationship. The experience has given me language to address similar experiences in relationships since.

[@jenniferanne3002]

Important watching for all women, from millennial social media "goddesses", to the women well past the wall who are never satisfied. Thank you Jennifer for your work, you're an important rational female voice! 🖤

[@zeethefuture8262]

My first relationship was the most toxic I've been in. I had a shit job, she didn't work but made sure to make fun of me. She wanted to go to restaurants several times a week and I was the one to spend money. I could never save any money because I spend on average $210/w on entertaining her. Her bills were covered by parents. Her phone, her travel, her living conditions, all covered. While I had to pay for everyone and her out of my pocket. I was young and very very naive. If this is your relationship, get out. It'll get worse.

[@howardaubrey4500]

Relationships are a great investment for women and a huge gamble for men....

[@stefanielorimer9693]

also a gamble for women. I gambled when I was 18. I'm still here 30 years later. It was ok. I learnt what not to do and passed it on to my children. I gave my life, my industry (I'm the one earning the income) and my mothering to this scenario.... not sure what I got in return.

[@slcainehmierz7681]

it's more russian roulette with one clear chamber

[@joeyboland3406]

@@slcainehmierz7681 IDK man. I'm starting to think all 6 Chambers are loaded

[@slcainehmierz7681]

@@joeyboland3406 Out of my personal expierence i must say the 5/6 loaded is quite realistic but the older you get the lower the chance that you find number 6 and then its not a given that they dont chance over time like we all do. Our worldview chances, our interests, our goals and so on are not fixed at any point and almost all people are still in their education, habits and programming entraped/imprisoned (?) so there is no way to actually be in a position to make a good choice or know who you are and what are your abilities and then you have to make the best choice which you can based on expierence and in modern society it sucks to be a normal guy specially when you are nice. You get used and thrown away and you are mostly a bystander but later you have to pick up those bruned outs and be thankful for it. Not a good deal.

[@countryboyred]

@@stefanielorimer9693 You got a husband in return. And he got a wife. Marriage (and life in general) isn’t all sunshine and roses. Sounds like you did pretty well for yourself all things considered.

[@rickshaw3397]

I shared this video with a woman.... I'm due in court next week....

[@marvlee28]

😄😄

[@ioriflameheart3744]

nice one there :D

[@mukamamuganda5793]

For real

[@jamiesimko]

Hahahahahah!!!

[@ayetadave7033]

HHahaha 😂

[@liamcage7208]

I stumbled across this message and found it very interesting. I am a male in my mid fifties and have been married for 30 years. My wife and I raised two daughters which I think gives me a little bit of perspective on this topic. 1) women should not try to compete with men because; a) men don't find it attractive....ever, b) no one can be a better man than men themselves. Be the best woman you can be and you'll attract quality men who want more from you than just sex. 2) Women value trust and communication very highly in a relationship, news flash, so do men. Men may express themselves differently partly because growing up many boys aren't taught to express their feelings they are taught to suppress them or be seen as weak. That may be old thinking but even today if a man is too free with sharing his thoughts and feelings women (including feminists) see that as needy or they end up in the "friend zone". When a man "learns" to communicate with his girlfriend / wife and it was she who helped him to express himself then that becomes a tight bond. So now a man feels completely emotionally naked which can lead to real intimacy but if he ever receives judgement because of it he will shut down tight. In my opinion these things are the key to relationships.

[@frankmalone236]

Spot on!Thank you for this...

[@seismicvertigo345]

This is perfect.

[@20yrs_oldBlackGuy]

As a male virgin I don't mind a girl who's been playing in the field or not as long as they treat me right, gives me good sex and provides me good experiences. I mean is this too much too ask ? Do I have unrealistic standards ?

[@sophieruby9135]

Oh no, did a girl beat you in a game and it hurt your ego? 😥

[@Agislife1960]

My observation has been, if a girl has ever been hot at one point in her life, no matter how many kids she has or weight she might gain, her expectations are the same as when she was young and hot.

[@charismaticcreature7875]

Oh and what about men? you know, the guy who was buff and hot in his late teens and early 20s. Now he's a 39 year old incel, living in his mom's basement but he still thinks he is Brad Pitt and that he "deserves" a Sports Illustrated Swimsuit model.

[@Agislife1960]

@@charismaticcreature7875 Guys have to be realistic about their status and physical appearance, because girls have the last say on who they sleep with, if the guy doesn't have anything to offer, he does without or settles for less, thats just the nature of the beast.

[@shaunenwright7872]

Charismatic Creature lmao that just sounds like your imagined boogey man than an actual person.

[@michaelstephenvargas8821]

@@charismaticcreature7875 Almost never happens

[@ramjet5192]

When I entered adulthood, worked my way through college and started a career, I was following the "new" rules of our culture: Women can do anything a man can do, sometimes better, and legally were provided a paved road to new opportunities. Great, I thought, more women will be working beside me in my journalism career. The career I chose was like that. We were all capable and doing the same work. As I recall, a couple of women reporters took pregnancy leave and returned part time. That was great, too. We're human. These were colleagues and friends. As I progressed in my career, I moved up a couple of notches, still a reporter and waiting till later to go to large publications as an editor. When that time started to emerge, I applied for those few opportunities in a changing and shrinking industry. I landed a few interviews over about two years, but began to get discouraged. Every position I applied for was filled by a younger woman or minority person. Then came a turning point. The editor of a large urban daily newspaper we all know called me after I'd flown there for an interview. He said he liked me since we'd met several times at conferences, etc., and he liked my work or wouldn't have interviewed me. As a friend of the same age, however, he advised me to get out of that business. Anywhere I was considering going was hiring only women or minorities to make up for many past, unfair decades. In fact, he was applying for some of the same jobs and getting rejected. I shrugged my shoulders and moved on. For the next 12 years, I was a carpenter, including my own business. I earned twice what I was making as a journalist. During that time I had a few LTRs. Two came close to marriage, despite my never wanting kids. I was now dating women whose biological clocks had run out. Again, great. I had money and a vasectomy, she had a career and was too old to have kids. Still...It still wasn't enough money for me to support her, a mortgage and a comfortable lifestyle. So, everything I'd been lead to believe when I was young and starting out was false. Despite what women said and did, they instinctively believed men should work till they drop and be the sole provider. It's been a long ride in this ridiculous junk show. I'm tired, single and that's the only way it can be. Sorry for all the words.

[@paulfischer4302]

Thanks for sharing your experience. I can relate.

[@MrVen127]

sorry to hear that. but thanks for the warning mate.

[@im1who84u]

Just be glad you never got married and had children. It would be even worse for you now. You'd be divorced, divorced raped in court, and paying child support to a shrew of a woman that used to be your "loving" wife who has now poisoned the minds of the children you love, your children, against you.

[@chamboyette853]

You seem like an older person so I was going to ask you a question. Back in the 1980s and1990s, I found women to be less materialistic and having less expectations on men to spend than today which is counterintuitive in light of "feminism". Is that your opinion too?

[@internetw4nk3r74]

Wow... that is heart breaking brother. Somehow I can relate. I have been married for 15 years by now, we both work since that was how i knew her before and I don't really want to take things she seemingly love to do. I've always manage to produce better than her though, until one, i repeat one time i made wrong decision and failed on my career disastrously 2 years ago. From then up until now when I already recover she never looked at me the same way anymore. No more love, no more respect, no more anything. Anything I could do. Anything I could provide. Done. Never able to make her smile more than couple of days. I only hang on this relationship because I feel really bad for my kids, i don't want them to grow fatherless because that is one true recipe for disaster and I simply could not add more failures on top of everything i already had. Only god knows how long and far i can keep my perseverence. My introverted nature does help though, a bit.

[@Suntear1]

Beauty is a passport not citizenship. There is an expiration date. Real value in a partner is health, skills, productive attitude, and endurance when it gets bad.

[@friesmj]

Well put.

[@ACCOUNTANTB]

todays Woman are not interest on these features anymore

[@gh4414]

She makes sense and is funny. There is a lot of channels that try to explain the female sociology in regards to men and how they react with one another in today’s time. However, she doesn’t bash women like so many do, she breaks it down and helps everyone understand what’s already being perceived. Also, taking the male perspective into a count and not speaking for us, just observing from what you seen and experienced as well. Great job, good stuff here.👏

[@philspaghet]

I've come to realize this recently about today's modern society. Men undervalue themselves and women SEVERELY overvalue themselves. I want to be in a good relationship. You have so many overweight young women around my age listing out all these standards for men like "He must be 6+ feet tall, be a millionaire, be a bad boy but have a good personality, MUST have abs and then maybe I'd consider him" meanwhile most guys just want to be in a relationship with a women who genuinely loves them and isn't fat (and even then, many guys are into that). No wonder so many guys are becoming horrible incels these days. We have to stop this promiscuous culture ASAP because at the end of the day, this just hurts everyone. When those young women finally decide to settle down when they become older, it'll be too late. Those guys they rejected will have jobs and families or have completely lost faith in women by that time. It's a sad sight on both ends of the spectrum.

[@thystaff742]

Won't happen till the welfare and handouts is stopped being given away.

[@MasterGhostf]

@@thystaff742 As much as I think welfare is needed, companies haven't been paying money back to society on large. They don't give raises much anymore. Wages have stayed the same. But, it might be a good idea to get rid of welfare sadly.

[@strawberrydragon1]

Because.... "I got 200 men saying about how I am so perfect and attractive on tinder, I must be the princess they say I am, therefore if I really am such value, I can have incredible standards and some prince will come get me!" --like all of them

[@fonsworthhiggenbothim3680]

Yup.

[@omvegan]

No compromise.

[@constitutionalveteran1709]

Met a 35yr old female online. Asked her to meet and have coffee with me. Informed me she was worth more than that. Told her I'd throw in a bagel. Guess that wasn't enough lmao.

[@Atarius]

But carbs can hold you up and get you through a whole day! She should have taken the offer.

[@peripheralparadox4218]

So she has a price? Thought only pros had prices.

[@constitutionalveteran1709]

@@peripheralparadox4218 exactly

[@markfindlay8636]

You're far too generous in my eyes!

[@ActiveAussie2024]

She can't even afford to buy a coffee for herself, or is just too stingy and cheap and entitled to do so. A waste of space, not even worth speaking too.

[@jonathanbachman8794]

I'm 5'3" I've been with my wife for 14 years, was scared to talk to women. My wife was promiscuious before me, her self esteem is way higher now than when I met her and she says she's much happier now. She says she feels safer now.

[@RealitySurvival]

You are a very wise women. Society needs this message more now than ever. Keep up the great work!

[@hairymotter5455]

sorry ladies, you're not worth the trouble anymore

[@Ken-wc7po]

Well said.. 100% true...plus most are fat now 👎

[@Ragnarok540]

Fat can be hot... In the right places.

[@allykid4720]

@@Ragnarok540 and with right drink.

[@Ragnarok540]

@@allykid4720 even sober

[@Reshtarc]

100% FACT.

[@Sirtuta1]

this is the generation of cat ladies, in their early 20's trying to get the superman, finds a decent man then hops to another she thinks its better, then get dumped by him, repeat the process over and over until mid 30's, then she's no longer young and atractive, no man wants her as wife, just want the meat part(since thats what she is), she gets mad and becomes a full fledged feminist, blames everything on men, on her late 40's becomes a cat lady, regrets everything she done in her life while her friends got married with children while her uterus is atrophying, and yet she lectures young women to follow her steps

[@tyfeliz5202]

@@MorganNGoodman let's trade

[@bikefax8177]

You don’t get “head.” Exactly the point with masculine wannabe girls.

[@erickdavis4125]

POWERFUL~

[@sylartick88]

Red Pill Nation

[@nickc3250]

My ex is on this path!

[@ok88warrior]

“Sex is not valuable in a permiscuous culture” well that’s gotta be the smartest thing I’ve ever heard come out of jm’s mouth

[@nordy259]

A girl I went to high school with who became a stripper refused to date men who didn't make a 6 figure income. Surprisingly none of her relationships lasted more then a few weeks. She thought just because those types of men would throw money at her in the club she was worthy of dating them........The reason men like that pay you is so they don't have to put up with you once they got what they wanted.

[@JCAH1]

Men have three inherent advantages over women: 1. Men generally do not have a biological clock 2. Men usually do not mind being alone and we don't need to be constantly talking to somebody 3. Men age like wine, women age like milk

[@ChaoticButterfly]

1. Men may not have a biological clock, but the sperm factory starts to break down about the same time as a woman's does (leading to an increase in some genetic issues) 2. Eh, fair, for the most part. 3. Some and many (particularly those who tan... though that's more like old leather).

[@lisasimpson3832]

Some people age wonderfully, applies to both sexes, and some don't-applies to both sexes. I am lucky enough to be a woman with no biological clock, so I shocked a few guys from the past who thought I'd just settle for them (they were wrong). And I definitely was fine with single life when I had it. My fiance now was the one who pushed for the relationship to begin with, and asked me to marry him without any pestering from me. In fact, he actually brought it up pretty early in the relationship that he was sure he'd found the one he wanted to marry. And now, a little more than 2 years into our relationship, our wedding day is approaching fast.

[@chamboyette853]

@@ChaoticButterfly That is false regarding number 1. Men can be fathers even at 60 or 70 years old. I think the record breaker was in his 90s. For a woman, the record is 57.

[@lhoprovatopervoi2750]

You’re probably the first men (if you’re a man) I hear saying men don’t mind to be alone. Never met one. They always want to find someone. While I know many women being happily alone, even for decades.

[@lisasimpson3832]

@@lhoprovatopervoi2750 Same here. I was happily single for nearly a decade before I met my hottie who I'm about to marry. He was the one who pressured for the relationship and pushed for marriage. I had already made peace with the fact that I might not ever find a spouse and had made peace with it. Kinda trippy that I'm where I am now, I wouldn't have guessed it 5 years ago. And I don't know any men under 60 who don't want a relationship. Even the gay ones I know want a relationship. When I was happily single, I wouldn't have even CONSIDERED making a youtube channel geared toward bashing men, or hating men. That action alone contradicts the idea that these guys are so happy with going their own way. I think they're undercover incels.

[@SunRise-ul7ko]

As a multimillionaire, I've got to much to lose in a divorce. So no way, would I commit to any of my girlfriends.

[@Atarius]

The eternal chase. Women want a successful Man. But a successful man has options like She does, and like She does he executes those options and maintains temporary or uncommitted relationships. I don't know how true your comment is about personal wealth, but the notion rings true. The risk is too high, there's not enough on the table from her end to warrant a possible catastrophic financial failure.

[@UFOSasquatch]

haha me too . all my girlfriends...i just like got tons..

[@willie_mccoy]

I'm a multidollaraire, and I feel the same way.

[@jcstang8952]

Smart. Jeff Bezos' ex wife is now the richest woman in the world, only because of her divorce. Not because of any skills she possesses herself.

[@antoniiocaluso4387]

No "multimillionaire" watches a YT video about how to deal with women. Some of us who are really wealthy would think your fibbing. No need to, friend!

[@rikibarber3201]

Jennifer you're amazing... what a great message. I'm focusing on improving myself at the moment... in a way I'm cleaning the house before I invite someone over.

[@zacharryn]

I bet her husband is a very happy man. That's literally the first time I've said that without sarcasm.

[@superbirden57]

Oh, Jennifer. Giselle has nothing over you.

[@thenazirite3828]

Jennifer is Gorgeous!

[@Hilaire_Balrog]

Von Flosbach she really is. My KZbin crush in fact.🤤

[@StalewindFarto]

Cool chicks are always hot.

[@arioca]

Lol, great joke!

[@ShaunHensley]

This is reason number 1 that women have an inflated sense of self worth. How about you stop blowing rainbows up female a$$

[@javiermgtaoism5702]

A wife is a 2nd job that demands more hours, no breaks, no vacation, no sick days or holidays, no fringe benefits and no pay.

[@texresident7026]

I already know how to be miserable all by myself and at a much cheaper rate than 2 people being miserable together.

[@aceboogie959]

The funny thing is, even here. "woman are taught" it seems to me that women never take responsibility for their actions

[@adrianchatman5734]

This right here.....

[@beac8238]

I use to agree with modern mainstream feminism. This year I realized how toxic that movement is. Generation X male & female dating/marriage channels challenged my views. Thank you for being so honest, direct, & thorough. I’m so glad your video popped up in my feed. I love your personality & the content on here. I hope more people find your channel. I will be sharing it on my social media. The people need it.

[@osiah0949]

" Sex is not valuable in a permiscous culture" Me: FINALLY!!! Someone gets me

[@ManlyMan.]

I'm a single parent of 2 kids - 36, (10/11) full time, I focus on my kids, my worklife and at times, my personal life, which mostly consists of my kids :D - I have been alone with my kids for 5-6 years and honestly, its come to the point where I can't even be arsed to date someone and I am just completely numb towards it, I have even had women be angry at me because I didnt want to spend my time on them, I don't know why honestly, it felt like that they thought that the deserved my time or something, and the feeling that I get when I sometimes to talk to someone new, they learn about my life my "situation" - which is not very common, they still believe that I have to chase them around and find time to do that... I think that your videos hit the spot on a lot of topics that goes around, nicely done.

[@dustsky]

She's on point indeed, but she's preaching to the choir. If she truly wants to help, she and her sisters should be picketing the Hill and advocate for fixing the legal system that enables a huge part of the dysfunction she's talking about in her videos. Lately, I've noticed quite a few 40-some Jennifers popping out of nowhere and telling men just the words they want to hear.

[@petert1692]

When a person thinks they’re entitled to fly first class when they don’t even deserve to fly economy.

[@greyman6353]

Baggage class in some cases

[@Dulce.MacDonald]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@The_Court_Poet]

This is why I like my Christian values. It really stresses the importance of marriage and fidelity. I think that it’s something the world at large is forgetting that family is a unit, an evolutionary imperative.

[@TheHigherVoltage]

@Randy Sporing Loup is right Randy. If you haven't figured that out yet, you haven't been paying attention.

[@rogerdsmith]

I’m a Christian also. However, that doesn’t necessarily fix the hypergamious nature of women. It’s for good reason that there’s a saying, “She’s never really yours, it’s just your turn.”

[@daveware4117]

Haha, even nice christian girls let hypergamy get the best of them. Ive seen it

[@Str8Bidness]

Wow! You hit me right between the eyes with "No man can ever gain the favor of a broken woman." That one statement sums up my entire pairbonding attempts and failures all my life. Too bad I didn't learn that 20 years ago.

[@thomasferkinhoff2385]

I agree, your analysis is spot on. Most guys i know do not pick woman based on her job.

[@basedshogun_8048]

Women hate being asked what they bring to a table, and when they answer it’s usually bs

[@niku10]

Answer Usually is " you get all this" pointing to themselves (body)

[@BJETNT]

Yeah I have some pretty hot girls come onto me because I run a nightclub and I'm a bodybuilder. I'd had them explain why I would be doing good to be with them. And just as a habit I kind of asked why in the world would I settle for you just to see what kind of stupid answer I would get. Every one of them gets offended and I never get a good answer except because I'm worth it. My response is go find somebody else that is dumb enough to believe that. I like a strong confident beautiful female but one that's just Arrogant with delusions of grandeur turns me off horribly I don't care how hot she is

[@basedshogun_8048]

@@BJETNT ever ask a women what she brings to the table and she says some shit like “I am the table”

[@josephberrie9550]

@@niku10 technically thats prostitution

[@ETube37]

They dont realize that men age like Sean Connery, while women age like...Sean Connery.

[@fairydust950]

😂👌

[@rogerdsmith]

Men age like wine, women age like milk……

[@plantmanstudios]

I legit laughed out loud. funny shit man.

[@pizzaperson1]

Roger Smith i found this really untrue. I am in my early 40s and women seem to be very fit and well kept, many men have beer bellies and no more hair and they still behave like 20 years old.

[@rogerdsmith]

Mimi Cracra My comment stands. The wall is undefeated.

[@courtneye4789]

My husband showed me your channel. I agree with almost everything you've put forth, and I'm surprised that this is the first time I'm ever hearing a lot of it verbalized. When I was little, I had a lot of brothers and no one really explained it in a constructive way like this. Thanks for the thoughtful content and I hope there is more to come!

[@alancrandall3863]

As woman take jobs from men through merit or affirmative action, they find it hard to find same or higher status men. The pool of such men gets smaller while the pool of women competing for such men gets bigger. When they hit the age wall, they find the men they seek are now after younger women. This trend will lead to lots of successful, unhappy older lonely cat ladies who blame men for their problems.

[@frazerdark]

Exactly and it's ironic because women can't be damned with a man who can be a house husband or someone who makes less than them

[@saartjeh]

@@frazerdark lol my parents are a ilusion then.

[@carloshortuvia5988]

As many of my friends say: women now are like public restrooms.

[@alecfleming373]

Well, only enough sex happening in them... I mean the public bathroom...

[@carloshortuvia5988]

@@alecfleming373 They mean to say, any one of them helps you to relieve. But you're also right, just a quickie and that's all folks!

[@alecfleming373]

@@carloshortuvia5988 And really, if it's just going to lay there, then what is the point of chasing it? Seriously, like a toilet, at the ready for YOUR shit!!!

[@carloshortuvia5988]

@George Bush We guys learnt in the end; they are doomed to handle as many cats as they can.

[@j.p.7298]

@Carlos - 😂😂😁😁😂😂 I'm gonna steal that one! Thanks!!!

[@FoereaperGaming]

I used to work 80-120 hours a week in the oilfield to provide for my woman and myself. Never again. I barely want a 40 hr a week job now a days. Im doing better finance wise now than I was then.

[@alexx5954]

You got divorced?

[@FoereaperGaming]

@@alexx5954 never married. Father taught me not too.

[@chrisdeleon8673]

Interesting

[@flipflop5195]

I chose not to die by work long time ago lol

[@BJETNT]

Yeah I worked Prudhoe Bay when I was 19 and that's what convinced me to get a masters in nutrition and now I make six figures personal training people in the air-conditioned environment in New Orleans. Plus I'd train all the cheerleaders for the New Orleans Saints. Glad you and I both walked out and don't have to do that anymore. The girl I was seeing when I was up there when I was 19 isn't worth me working at Taco Bell for now and she used to be a Playboy model., is a b**** because so is she

[@edstevens2875]

Jen you provide the best advice for healthy relationships ever to be found on KZbin. It's has been suppressed for so many decades until now. God Bless 🙏😇

[@MarcBrown]

JFC! 100! This has been an important topic for me, for at least a decade, I've researched it so much, have read so much, and I have had many discussions with friends and family. Yet, you've pretty much summed up my exact conclusion in one video. I appreciate you're people intelligence and your logic. I would say they are fewer and fewer people that understand: it's not about being right or wrong, it's about discovering the truth, that's what's truly important. Thanks for being a breath of fresh air.

[@dewey66904]

Here's one for you. I've been single for 19 almost 20 years, I dated a women around 2007 for just a few months. She was educated (Law degree) pretty, fun to hang out with. One day I came home from work and she asked me to walk the dog, I told her I wanted to rest just for a minute and then I would walk the dog. She stomped her foot and demanded me to walk the dog. Long story short I put her on the curb. I haven't dated since. Not even a minute with a women since. That being said, I have a good job, a couple of motorcycles, a boat. I'm fit for a 54 year old. Now I'm happy being single but I do like to go out and have drinks sometimes. Women where I go know what i do and the fun I have and they get pissed when they bring up dating, meeting up for drinks and such and I shoot them down. I just tell them Its too much trouble to date. They tell me I have to put as much in as I want back. Really. anyway. If you have questions feel free to ask........BY THE WAY VIDEOS ARE GREAT!!!

[@dewey66904]

@Jason Patrick You have so much more money.....lol

[@magnificencetv7424]

i'm 27 and i'm starting to become more future-oriented in terms of how i think. i'm still single and never had a relationship. only been close with a few girls but no official relationships. do u think i should give it a shot since i do want children and that's the only thing i desire the most from this life or is being single forever not that bad? another question is how do u deal with sexual needs? cz me myself i've been banging escorts since i was 20 cz i just couldn't hold myself when i was younger. my dick is also starting to lose it's mojo from all the sex i've had lol. like i srsly can't cum with a condom anymore. but i still need to fk something u know. so ye if u could answer these 2 questions it would be great! thanks!

[@landmassproductions]

@Jason Patrick same mate. Motorcycles, music gear and not women. Haha

[@visaman]

So you were living with her?

[@dewey66904]

@@visaman No, she was at my house...

[@LANPOCALYPSE]

The two saying I hate the most are: If Momma Ain’t Happy, Ain’t Nobody Happy Happy wife happy life

[@psiga]

Even before marriage happens, how often have you heard "It's a woman's prerogative to change her mind"? If men were strutting around saying "A man is always entitled to change his mind," narcissism like that would be decried as Toxic Masculinity. But so far we don't get to play the Equality card right back. Funny thing about that.

[@LANPOCALYPSE]

@Phil McKenna LoL

[@ActiveAussie2024]

@Phil McKenna I like that one!

[@AAAugustine]

No wife... BEST life

[@johnmincey4440]

my name is John. my wife Lisa and I moved to colorado springs 3 1/2 years ago...i am not entirely sure how i came across your videos on youtube but i showed them to Lisa and we absolutely love you and your videos...thanks so much for the truth

[@haydenandrews3694]

I sometimes ask that question to women, “what do they bring to the table” and one woman said “pretty” , with a smile. I responded that pretty fades and that all girls can appear pretty nowadays with all the different types of make up out there. So I repeated the question and she got extremely angry.

[@tbilod]

So many of us come from broken homes and as a result we grow up in a man-less home. We don't learn the intricacies and intimacies of the opposite sex. Now it is our turn to find a spouse and settle down and we don't have a clue.

[@allisona7076]

I'm a young woman, and I just rekindled my relationship with my partner of 4 almost 5 years. I'm glad of the progress we've made and continue to grow from. I watch these videos to educate myself on how to be better for my partner, which will better myself, and thus better our family if that's in our future. I feel it's only fair to learn about what a woman can provide for her man.

[@jcstang8952]

So you are a 'woman' but your boyfriend is a 'partner'. I thought you wanted equal treatment or else, you'd call 'him' your 'boy friend'. You are not red pilled at all. Just another engineered NPC. A product of propaganda. A robot. Your relationship isn't going to work out.

[@allisona7076]

@@jcstang8952 Good luck with your future endeavors! :)

[@shaytzafrir]

Pull your weight in the house, cook properly, give him x regularly and be good at it, and never nag him , speak softly and listen too him. and he will gladly provide and be with you.

[@YOUNGCHIEF]

You are doing awesome keep learning and doing same too as a man, what's suppose to be normal has been messed up by silly agendas ... Kudos

[@PoochieCollins]

@@jcstang8952 : your response is unreasonable, considering OP seems pretty reasonable, IMO.

[@charleswiliams1628]

Never done this before,,,,, EVER. Posted a comment. I am listening carefully to the message I believe you are trying to impart. I have viewed just a few of your vids. Your down to earth, uncluttered, straight to the point style /delivery of your message is refreshing. You inject just the right amount of humour. You are careful to qualify your statements so as not to include some who may not fit within the parameters of the point/message. I believe you to be an intelligent and committed individual .An advocate for the bond of a man and woman who decide to take a life together. Who rely on each other and the strengths as individuals, they bring to their lives together. Please keep posting. We are listening. PS. I can't imagine the haters you have attracted. CW

[@westmanwest5843]

I would just like to say thank you for this video. It is so hard being a man who wants to be all that he can be for himself and his family, but can't get what i need out of my relationship. It is frustrating watching videos like this over and over and still seeing things not change with the attitudes of ladies. I want women to hear this message and do something about it. Women are in control of all this. But they don't seem to want to do what is necessary to bring back the old school values of a relationship

[@JediDarkForce]

Because they have very little to offer...

[@ahmadrifai6487]

If she is loyal real fiminine and loves her kids and her man its priceless. Very rare

[@fakshen1973]

I'm trying to think why any guy in his right mind wants to get married these days? No matter what you ascribe as being "good", there's about a 50/50 chance that it goes away and maybe you get some once-in-a-while visitation rights but paying for that kid comes out of every check right off the top like clockwork. You get to pay for two households and get back in line to play the game a second time... what?

[@Indoctrinatedhippie]

Woman here, thanks for the content! Xo

[@rakehell404]

Just found your channel and watched 2 videos: AWESOME! You are intelligent, funny as hell, direct, insightful, and kind of mesmerizing to watch.

[@pilgrim985]

I’m single and happy because I’m a huge introvert but that’s not the only reason... If more women where intelligent like you Jennifer, I would be married. Intelligence and substance is what I’m attracted to but unfortunately it’s seriously lacking in females these days. Love your videos! Thanks!

[@anneb889]

pilgrim985 A lot of men state they don’t care how intelligent a woman is, so you may be rare.

[@ccoodd26]

@@anneb889 , Looks do play a part, but you'd be surprised by how many men are searching for intelligent women as the top priority over looks. Stable intelligent women are enjoyable to talk to and easier to get into a relationship with and marry compared to hot drama types.

[@joemelton3535]

The real kicker is that happiness comes from feeling good about yourself. What you give, not what you get. In a promiscuous environment, you give nothing. You feel like nothing. Self-absorption turns you into your own prison. My parents each did their part and felt good about themselves. They created happiness. What do we have now? Sad.

[@billyg.2677]

Women have that onlyfans mentality now. They see us as fans, spectators.

[@joemelton3535]

@George Bush Well said! What makes us rich is what we give, not what we get. Believing in our emptiness is self-condemnation. Believing in fullness makes it real. So many give only to get, to manipulate. That just makes us hate ourselves and hate our existence.

[@joemelton3535]

@@billyg.2677 So many give us nothing but reason to run. Amazing how few men think so little of themselves that they won't run.

[@ElusivePixel]

Women should start to listen to people like Jennifer, it's refreshing to listen to her.

[@twobrotherscycleanda]

If you want certain qualities in a partner, you better have them yourself.

[@nds6767]

lmao I have asked a girl one time who told me I needed her "I can cook for myself, make my own money, please myself, do everything for me. The question here is, what or why do I need you? Better yet, what can you do for me that I can't already do for myself?" Her response? Radio silence. I knew right then and there the relationship was going to nose dive. yay for independence.

[@buckleymordecai9605]

Perfect!

[@20yrs_oldBlackGuy]

😂

[@loveisthemostpowerfulforce1397]

Lol, she could have at least said "take care of our kids we will have together", she was pathetic.

[@watamutha]

In the end, men just want a woman they find attractive and can hang out with.

[@annafidler9011]

And some of those men just want a woman they find more attractive than the one they already have and can hang out with.

[@joejones9497]

@@annafidler9011 Some women do this too of course.

[@unpopularopinions7781]

@@joejones9497 a lot more , actually

[@goodmaninabadtime117]

The Myth of Male Power by Warren Farrell is a great books folks read it.

[@jackculp9776]

I am not just interested, I think you are the best person out there with the message that we need to hear. We are desperate to have a change before all men and women stop getting married. Thank you for taking on this difficult challenge.

[@Grandmaster_Sub-Zero]

You'd be shockingly surprised how many times I've asked several different women about what they bring to the table. They all gave the same answer: "I AM THE TABLE!"

[@lok6314]

and you should reply : Are we taking about 2nd hand tables? or 3th or 4th or recycled from scrap tables?

[@amydumas573]

LOL what a stupid response

[@sirkayda7205]

"You're not James Hetfield".

[@Jimraynor45]

I don't know, it seems simple to me. Men bring money and status, and women bring their bodies. What more do you want?!

[@lok6314]

@@Jimraynor45 Here is the kicker... What you gonna do when the body /looks changes after 2-15 years...in a bad way.. you gonna drop the girl..all of us will feel morally uncomfortable to do that..even feel maybe superficial..so we stick it out at the great risk of not feeling any attraction anymore...(this is for the men) For the women..what if they meet someone with more money an,d status..will it also be morally correct/superficial to drop the guy. Then if so all answer is yes..then on what do we actually build a relationship...security(girl) vs attraction (guy) you think that's a good premise to create children on.... In your head it seem to be easy..in mine it isn't...too many open roads and very unclear what it is... the real question is..CAN WE BE HONEST.. i lost attraction before because the girl became a bit more overweight...i can assure you it aint fun feeling. But in the end i did the right thing and i got out...i can only imagine..for the people who also want to get out, but have a kid together.. That would make things very complicated and drag the decision, out

[@Chancellor_Jerry]

The more "qualified" a female is, the less attracted I am. I want a lover and future mother, not a copy of myself in Khakis.

[@jacole1234]

You make a lot of good points. My fave was “Ask yourself what you bring to the table.” That’s true no matter which sex you are

[@MrJuand1390]

You girl are spotted on. Thats the femenine energy that the world deserves and needs. please spread the word, I see to many men completely lost

[@russgwilliam5560]

Sundance: "You just keep thinkin' Jennifer - that's what you're good at."

[@BillClinton228]

This is the first video I've seen from Jennifer, and I'm getting crazy lady vibes... the hot/crazy scale is a real thing.

[@Igflwi67ami4]

I’ve thought of it this way: women seek happiness, so the more items on theIr check list a guy fulfills, the more happiness she thinks she will gain. Men on are a different planet. What they hope for is the removal of misery, first and foremost. Everything else they do has this unconscious thought in the back of their minds.

[@WolfHowl71]

I still think you are a unicorn. Spread that unicorn nature to other women. Thanks for the great work!

[@kelvinjones3515]

Thank you for your video, i love that you came up with an idea for a solution. Dont sell yourself short, you are a beautiful woman with a good head on her shoulders. Its hard to propose and idea to solve a problem rather than simply point out the problem. Keep the brain working and keep spreading the message.

[@bungholeshagnasty]

Al Swearengen said it differently, but he expressed a similar sentiment - “… the world abounds in c*** of all kinds, including hers.” It's actually quite profound.

[@Stevo1207]

Ladies, if you’re wondering what men are looking for in a woman than look no further than Jennifer Moleski. The perfect example of what every guy hopes to date. Smart, funny, down to earth and wonderfully normal in the very best of ways. Keep spreading the good word Jen.

[@sophieruby9135]

Only a weak man wants a submissive wife.

[@manfredschmalbach9023]

Problem is, most girls after being schooled by wymin-only in elementary- and high school think of Catherina the Great when it comes to their personal position in society

[@greycristo4521]

Such an intellectual. It's very reflective of her inner structure. She's put herself together well.

[@StringMachine]

Looks like only men are watching this channel, which is somewhat sad if it is true. Jennifer’s got some fair points for both sides to work on.

[@Montyandrew45]

Tbh, I have completely given up on dating. I am almost 30 and have come to realize that I am just not the person women want and I am tired of putting myself out there for them

[@jonathanfarley2023]

I'm also tired of putting myself out there for them.

[@jonathanfarley2023]

@@loupbleu3177 You actually have a great chance to get beautiful women. Whether you have a great chance to find a good woman is unclear, because there may be no good women to get. The website "Return of Kings" has lots of good articles on game. Good luck.

[@Paul020]

@ Jennifer Moleski. Men and women have been taught by various methods to be shallow and vain. An honorable, intelligent feminine woman, who doesn't mind getting her hands dirty on occasion, is a rare gem in today's world. And conversely a man also. So how are children going to be raised to embody virtue ?

[@FITZRANGER]

Lady, you are awesome! This video should be running 24/7 on network television.

[@omowhanre]

This seems random, but I think you would make an amazing HILARIOUS mom. I'm a mom to toddlers and used to be nanny. Trust me, you need a sense of humor to thrive as a mommy. You also are good at breaking complex ideas into a simple cohesive parts.

[@petercamusojr1545]

I once saw a older woman say to younger woman, control your emotions and think about what your doing.

[@JenniferMoleski]

😮

[@petercamusojr1545]

@@JenniferMoleski I have been celibate for 11.5 years now. I do flirt alot, I have been approached by alot of ladies. I have had alot of first dates, a few second dates, only 2 third dates. The one question I always ask is ..."What are we going to talk about when we are not having sex?"

[@petercamusojr1545]

@@JenniferMoleski I don't know what that smiley face means?

[@eknott1000]

Thanks for recreating high-value women for a partnership with high-value hard-working men!

[@ronbradford4266]

Jennifer pretending that she's not a smokeshow is adorable! Also your objectivity and understanding of this subject only adds to your allure.