Secret Service Agent: How To Outsmart Everybody & Get What You Want In Life | Evy Poumpouras

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On Today's Episode:
When you hear about influence, maybe you think of influential people or you immediately think of social media influencers. Have you considered, however, your own influence? To varying degrees we all have some level of influence over someone or something. You probably have more influence than you take credit for and acknowledge. So, how are you using your influential power and do you know when and how to activate it and get the most out of it?
Evy Poumpouras, a former secret service agent, is sharing her own strategies of influence so that you can find creative ways to connect with people and stop getting steamrolled over. Having influence and knowing how to activate that influence is another ingredient for becoming unstoppable. In the first episode of this series, we talked about confidence, in the next episode Evy and Lisa took a deep dive into the skills you need to start using your voice. In this episode it’s time to add another layer and look at how to effectively off balance people’s perception of you and better adjust and navigate to the people and situations all around.
You can use these strategies to get people to say yes, stay in the forefront of their mind, and connect in a more authentic way.
Influential Terms:
Priming: exposure to one stimulus influences how a person responds
Reciprocity: exchange of something between two or more people where something is given
Stereotype: widely held and oversimplified idea of a particular type of person or thing
Common Ground: opinions or interests shared by two or more people
If you didn’t catch it the 1st time:
1st Episode of Unstoppable, Be Confident As Hell: • Enter Your Badass Era!...
2nd Episode of Unstoppable, Use Your Voice: • #1 Interrogation Exper...
SHOW NOTES:
Priming | Tips for priming people you need to influence [0:57]
Pink Is Life | How to influence Evy into wearing pink on set [12:32]
Do Something for Them | Evy explains the idea of reciprocity [14:35]
Branding | The way you see yourself vs. the way others see you [24:08]
Swag Bag | Lisa reveals what’s inside Women Of Impact’s Swag Bag [31:27]
Common Ground | How to find common ground or create it [33:28]
Influence in Action | Evy shows how all these strategies work [48:32]
QUOTES:
“This is not about manipulating people, this is about setting you up so that you understand people, understand behavior and put them in a space where they feel comfortable and feel connected to you.” Evy Poumpouras [6:34]
“As long as you’re not manipulating or as long as You just don’t want this stuff to come off as disingenuous when you use influence techniques” Evy Poumpouras [41:35]
“We are resistant to things we don’t understand, we are negative towards things we don’t know, and we really want to break down those barriers and find the threads that connect us.” Evy Poumpouras [46:25]
“If you can just simplify people and find ways to connect and find that human element [...] how can I make you feel good about being with me and because I do that now I’ve influenced you to want to have a relationship with me.” Evy Poumpouras [48:12]
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@kibibishaw1194
@kibibishaw1194 3 жыл бұрын
I could watch for hours these Two Friends talking together…
@lisafrench7087
@lisafrench7087 3 жыл бұрын
I do watch for hours! A part of my morning routine. I love their souls!
@Bestisyet2Be
@Bestisyet2Be 3 жыл бұрын
Me too!! Ever since I watched their first interview, I got hooked on them!!! Love Love these two women in power, helping other women redeem themselves after so much hurt, pain, heartaches, betrayals, and all the negative and toxic waste a damaged human being comes and dump on you. “I will redeem myself from this one “ I am a new woman, because look at what I am injecting to my brain so I too, be “UNSTOPPABLE”♥️💕♥️Love you ladies! Keep up these great videos for the greater good 😌
@kibibishaw1194
@kibibishaw1194 3 жыл бұрын
@@lisafrench7087 SAME! Today’s episode was too much fun!
@kibibishaw1194
@kibibishaw1194 3 жыл бұрын
@@Bestisyet2Be well said, Sister ❣️💖 #Unstoppable 🥰
@ChristianaSenibo
@ChristianaSenibo 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful interview
@enchanteddryad6500
@enchanteddryad6500 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes what helps me in different situations is to '' audition for the role ''. I struggle with confidence and triggers all the time, but when I '' get into character '' it's so much easier. When someone is mean/judgemental/rude, I don't care as much because they are projecting onto a canvas, not the real me. The authentic me, is for private intimate moments. I don't need everyone to see the inner parts of my soul. They don't deserve that deepness out of nowhere, they wouldn't know how to deal with it and feel overwhelmed by what's going on inside. I used to be '' authentic'' all the time and it was a disaster. I really think how we present ourselves is a choice, and only when we feel safe and in the right space should we show the layers. The world is a cold, hard place so I'm going to dress for the occasion in my big coat, I don't want to expose myself to harsh conditions!
@relaxwithme__
@relaxwithme__ 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you sharing your perspective. I never looked at it like that.☺️
@hulagirldeedee
@hulagirldeedee 3 жыл бұрын
I love this! I need to practice your method. I really like that idea of keeping my authentic self safe.
@coreyanderson7424
@coreyanderson7424 3 жыл бұрын
I think you have a good point. I am very authentic, too, by nature. But if I must, I will be much quieter in more ways than one.
@coreyanderson7424
@coreyanderson7424 3 жыл бұрын
@@hulagirldeedee Me too, I was reading that comment, and I thought, wow, good point.
@alessandraalchemia3863
@alessandraalchemia3863 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate this! Very true and I’m not going to think of which situations I need to be more cautious of! Thanks so much
@Requiem4Tuesday
@Requiem4Tuesday 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE I am over 50 and when I started to listen to these two and afterwards, I was able to handle my triggers better, family members and know when to walk away.
@lisabilyeu8103
@lisabilyeu8103 3 жыл бұрын
OMG I love this so much!!!! ❤️💪
@marie-antalessy6352
@marie-antalessy6352 3 жыл бұрын
These two are the inspiration and support system that all women should know. Thank you both. You've helped me so much and we've never met.❤️
@carrino15
@carrino15 3 жыл бұрын
Yes they are so complementary and boosting each other, it is beautiful to look at
@ChristianaSenibo
@ChristianaSenibo 3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree. They’re doing a fantastic job!
@jeanwagner1977
@jeanwagner1977 2 жыл бұрын
Don't worry I personalized service you
@rubybellisima6385
@rubybellisima6385 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE ‼️💖💪🏼 “You want people to respect you the person, not your status.” I absolutely love this!
@lova368
@lova368 3 жыл бұрын
This is deep
@chelseyl880
@chelseyl880 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE - “it’s not about manipulation, it’s about connection”. 🧠 💜 ✌️ 😘
@patriciarenshaw8047
@patriciarenshaw8047 6 ай бұрын
But these suggestions make it easier to influence people. It is just plain smart. Would yoi try to get something through to people when they are hungry or in a bad mood? No! She is quite an I fluency and helpful to all of us that choose to listen.
@OnyxxRose
@OnyxxRose 3 жыл бұрын
Priming people 101 (to create less resistance with people) •welcome people warmly -provide food/tea •create an open environment -open windows -open space -open books IM UNSTOPPABLE
@LisaBilyeu
@LisaBilyeu 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! You’ve won a 30-minute group call with Lisa and Evy! Please email womenofimpact@impacttheory.com with the subject line “I Am Unstoppable Winner” and we will follow up with more details on how to claim your prize. *Important Note*: You have until Wednesday, November 24th at 5pm PT to respond or we will choose a new winner. Again congratulations!
@MamaRavenOracleofChaos
@MamaRavenOracleofChaos 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE. The confidence between you two makes me cry. The support between you two is so beautiful. Strong women supporting strong women. Raising each other up with love and Genuine compassion.
@yes7855
@yes7855 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE My favorite was the idea that you can’t just “be yourself” all the time. Such a pressure to be that in the self-growth community, and I do think you CAN choose to be intentional about how you present yourself.
@ellam9332
@ellam9332 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for bringing Evy back. She is great, another valuable lesson.
@ChristianaSenibo
@ChristianaSenibo 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful conversation right there!
@yeswevalidate1590
@yeswevalidate1590 3 жыл бұрын
Reciprocity was definitely something I needed to hear, I give WAY too much! My husband says I am too good of a friend to my friends, and I guess this is evident because I just took a friend on vacation to Cancun. I don't know that she would do the same but now I know that I use generosity to get people to like me. The time stamp is quite convenient so we can go back to that spot and listen again and to further know whats coming up! This show is remarkable!! Love these 2 Dynamic Greek Girls!!! I AM UNSTOPPABLE!
@ChristianaSenibo
@ChristianaSenibo 3 жыл бұрын
So good that you can identify what you need to work on. That’s half the job done. Now you can begin to take steps towards giving and receiving love without the need to use generosity. Well done 👏🏾
@marymcmahon4363
@marymcmahon4363 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE I love when they talk about getting past "that's not fair" because the fairness of people's perception of me doesn't matter, what matters is what is my goal, how do I want to present myself. How people see me may not be fair but I can't change what they think, it's just what is, try focusing on the version of me I can mold and highlight, and act with authority.
@KathrynBGro
@KathrynBGro 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE!!! Nothing centers me more than these ladies. If I listen enough, confidence spills out of me and I see the effects of creating a future I want.
@realtalk675
@realtalk675 3 жыл бұрын
The reason i follow Lisa honestly is because she gives me genuine vibes, openminded. She is truly herself and she is not scared to be vulnerable. Not many people are like that on youtube. She is a business woman but also a great human being. 🌹🙏🏼 respect
@MayThereBeWorldPeace
@MayThereBeWorldPeace 3 жыл бұрын
I recently needed a meeting with upper management of a hospital. I agreed to meet but this time in a location of my choice, not at the one staff's office as usual. I plainly told them I need to remove that aura of me going to the principal's office as if I have been a bad girl. I am not the one who answers to them. They need to answer to me as a client. They did accommodate my request and though I am so angry with them still, and so much is still unresolved, I felt much more empowered by this simple request.
@Kaleighc
@Kaleighc 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE! Evy mentioned the term “overly cooperative” and her explanation was what I really needed to hear! I’m so glad Lisa opened up about her story leading to that discussion! It helped tremendously! Thanks for all the insight and motivation!
@growwiththeflow.
@growwiththeflow. 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE‼️ “Planting a seed- Priming with understanding of where I was coming from.” Love this! Playfully shows the courage and vulnerability it takes to share a desired outcome with another, to discuss possible co-creation. Respect you ladies, would love the opportunity to have an awesome conversation of badassery women empowerment!
@cyriapaul1799
@cyriapaul1799 3 жыл бұрын
I just LOVE this new concept. It's like watching a Netflix movie. You just can't get enough. I must say Evy and Lisa are a VERY interesting and entertaining combination because of some opposite personality traits. Keep them coming divas.
@kimerjo
@kimerjo 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE: I love how you guys get into the nuances of different situations. How one person can offer a drink to be nice and make a connection, and it'd be perceived as having authority in that space, and another person can do the same thing and be perceived as just the servent. i fell i struggle with this line as well.
@deeTheG8T
@deeTheG8T 3 жыл бұрын
The way she described branding sheesh, she dropped so many gems.
@J43862
@J43862 3 жыл бұрын
I love her ❤️ I love how articulate she is and how well she puts things into perspective
@mauraronda1265
@mauraronda1265 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. She is calm and collective and has great teachings😀
@daralizumab
@daralizumab 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE!!!! 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 Amazing takeaway was not to be "overly cooperative!!! I am always overly cooperative because I think it will make life easier for me but I have found it makes life harder at times when people think they don't need to respect or listen to you! I would definitely rather be kind than just "nice/polite"! Another great takeaway was the respect doesn't come from status and the moment you need to ask for respect you already lost it! So powerful and it shows it doesn't matter who you are and what you have done to get respect!
@kirbyd0g
@kirbyd0g 3 жыл бұрын
Evey's eyes say, "this girl has a lot to learn." The look has kindness too.
@stephaniebaldwin39
@stephaniebaldwin39 2 жыл бұрын
Agree
@jeanwagner1977
@jeanwagner1977 2 жыл бұрын
I love Opera. ♪
@mahoganysoulll
@mahoganysoulll 7 ай бұрын
Lisa?
@rosesicurello7712
@rosesicurello7712 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE! Priming while done subtle and in good faith is not manipulative. People who Prime and want to manipulate the situation or have bad intentions it will blow up at some point. Priming can be used to help you and bring a relationship closer and in good faith it is a wonderful thing.
@Itsmzgabz
@Itsmzgabz 3 жыл бұрын
The very first episode made me fall in love with you two! It was life changing actually! I'm excited for these series!
@ChristianaSenibo
@ChristianaSenibo 3 жыл бұрын
It was and is absolutely beautiful conversations
@Rotthound
@Rotthound 3 жыл бұрын
Wow Lisa I’m so glad you got Evy to give that feedback on the niceness factor- I learned a Ton in 2 seconds about how I do the exact same thing and how I resist learning by saying it’s not fair- it is what is is lol 😂 I laughed in complete understanding and an aha moment ps. 💕 pink should be power it can be done!
@tch4874
@tch4874 3 жыл бұрын
This is the most in depth talk I've seen in while, anywhere.. I'm listening & I'm hearing. Thank you so much for putting this out for us all. ❤
@ChristianaSenibo
@ChristianaSenibo 3 жыл бұрын
Such great content
@emithomas2990
@emithomas2990 3 жыл бұрын
You two together is such a dream team! This is so inspiring, and honestly helps so much. Thank you for everything you two do, and for being badass role models for modern day women
@RippleDrop.
@RippleDrop. 3 жыл бұрын
An honest friend is gold. Fully bravely as they are, not occasionally. You end up accumulating sh*t momentum if no one points it out.
@Ruby-if4jf
@Ruby-if4jf 3 ай бұрын
💯 Thank you. I've always demanded silently others deal with me. I refused to change myself in any way- and though I was honest, ethical, generous, my businesses failed.
@RippleDrop.
@RippleDrop. 3 ай бұрын
@Ruby-if4jf Funny this comment was re-raised. I have no idea who and how you are, so don't take this personally necessarily if it does not apply to you. I also just learned honesty without impulse control and *kindness* isn't a productive nor moral way to conduct relationships. There are hardly any hard rules that apply to every situation. If we don't consider others, are kind and withdraw from fast conclusions, we will damage our relationships, including friends. Honestly spewing whatever our minds feed us expressing without filter, isn't honesty I'm talking about. That's just lack of diplomacy, being civilized and decency. There are like non-violent communication ways to express ourselves while owning our emotions. "I honestly feel like this is all your fault" isn't productive nor adult.
@mommaceleste
@mommaceleste Жыл бұрын
All I can say is thank you thank you thank you thank your for all you unapologetic and generousness that both of you show have. Especially Lisa you really really are so honest and ask questions that are so worth listening to and vital. I don't think other hosts would ask in fear of not looking confident and the questions you ask I am just like wow that's a good question and I am always eager to know the answer. I am a mother of three I've been building my small wedding venue for a couple years now while simultaneously going on nine years personal assistant for pretty well known CEO in the cosmetic industry they are great great great don't get me wrong I'm so blessed to have them they are like family they really are but it's just not rewarding . This is exactly what I needed it's like prayers combined with meditation but it's finally showing proof that I am being guided in the right direction. Thank you again. And I respect Evy so much and all the knowledge she has shared it was only right to purchase her book. Thanks again ladies. ♥️♥️♥️♥️
@alyjacobsen
@alyjacobsen 3 жыл бұрын
I can 100% relate to what Evy was talking about with her students. For my management students, I spend the first week of class priming and building rapport so I can lower any resistance they might have towards me or my class. Through this experience and my own research, I've found that the key to influence lies in your soft skills. Your capacity to connect with others and empathize with their situation and perspective. What's tricky (and also exciting) about this is that the way you go about this is entirely unique to you. What works for one person is not going to work for another. You need to experiment with different approaches to see what best aligns with your true self (and professional self). As Evy says people can see bull shit a mile away. Thanks for this video. I AM UNSTOPPABLE!
@sophies8002
@sophies8002 3 жыл бұрын
Loved the section about ‘understanding how others perceive you’! Never thought of that really before, in terms of influencing other x
@sandrarosales8604
@sandrarosales8604 3 жыл бұрын
I'M UNSTOPPABLE! (When I don't have a migraine :/ )For me having a common ground with people was the technique that I liked the most, because I feel that it's like you're putting yourself on the other's person shoe, and like Maya Angelou said: "They may forget your name, but they will never forget how you made them feel"
@SandcastleDesigns
@SandcastleDesigns 3 жыл бұрын
This was fabulous! Thank you two! I AM UNSTOPPABLE! I love the priming part...Lisa also convinced me to start my KZbin channel at the age of 65 and it has been a huge success! What Evy says about people prejudging is dead right on! Thanks again! Renee Weal
@toulagatoula3633
@toulagatoula3633 3 жыл бұрын
Will subscribe to your channel!
@SandcastleDesigns
@SandcastleDesigns 3 жыл бұрын
@@toulagatoula3633 Aww thank you! I design custom handbags. Not sure it would be relevant to you but I appreciate! I love to teach and I coach a bit of growth mindset in there as well. I am a student of Impact Theory University!
@samdasuleiman73
@samdasuleiman73 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE When first I saw this channel my intention was just to improve my English but now am addicted to and can not stop watching it. This channel made me proud who am I and believe myself and realize my potential thanks ladies. you two are amazing and wish u the best.
@jgastonguay
@jgastonguay 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE!! Many of us hear about realtors staging a home to sell, but I’ve never thought about the importance of staging a space for “openness” when meeting. Brilliant!
@shellyvanraden7382
@shellyvanraden7382 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE! 👢💃🏼 Learning so much from this. I think the “overly cooperative” behavior is my influence “handicap”, as well! I’m a helper/humble, like to serve people by nature - and it’s definitely to my detriment. I diminish myself in the process without even knowing it
@ChristianaSenibo
@ChristianaSenibo 3 жыл бұрын
The first step to progress is recognition. Now you know you are over half way in addressing it
@melaniekeeling7462
@melaniekeeling7462 3 жыл бұрын
You're doing great!
@consentparenting
@consentparenting 3 жыл бұрын
I'm UNSTOPPABLE in my mission and this is the kind of energy I bring and love being surrounded by with others who are also on their own mission!
@andiim5540
@andiim5540 3 жыл бұрын
You go girl! Feel your energy fron here! You are definitely UNSTOPPABLE AND POWERFUL! Own it queen! Much love and good vibes 🙌
@johannahpellascio5543
@johannahpellascio5543 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE. I love the discussion about generosity, reciprocity, and equity. We all have a desire for equity, and by being willing to be generous we can appeal to the other party to reciprocate. Sometimes sharing real generosity is a big risk/vulnerability too, it puts you in the position of being “one down” to start, but it’s also an interesting way to take control of the situation because you’ve already played your cards, so if someone wants to reciprocate or not that can color the entire interaction. I’m definitely going to be using some of these methods in my trauma coaching sessions to help others feel more at ease!
@savii3101
@savii3101 3 жыл бұрын
“I”m unstoppable” My best takeaway from the program was finding common grounds even having nothing in common with someone even over a drink like Pepsi. I thought that was quite a powerful skill to establish trust with someone so they listen and co-operate with you. Wicked episode Thank you both Lots of love Savi x
@Q_Lashai
@Q_Lashai 3 жыл бұрын
I am unstoppable!!! I'm learning how to communicate better, to stop being a people pleaser, to understand that everyone is still human at the end of the day. I'm grateful to have found this channel!
@sharone9230
@sharone9230 3 жыл бұрын
I am UNSTOPPABLE. I relate to your comments on Authority. As someone who is the same height as Evy, I have learned to carry and conduct myself as if I am in command and demand respect and authority. It's all in how you carry yourself and speak to others. I also like your comments on being overly polite. I've had to work on this and I have found my balance. I also like that Evy touched on Branding. I know what I need to do to feel confident, whether it's at my job or going for my much treasured runs or bike rides. If I'm viewed as being confident, fit, athletic, hardworking, then that's my authentic self. I have worked hard in my professional and personal life to be the person I've always dreamed about. I simply set my mind to who I wanted to be and visualized it until it came to fruition.
@LisaBilyeu
@LisaBilyeu 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! You’ve won a 30-minute group call with Lisa and Evy! Please email womenofimpact@impacttheory.com with the subject line “I Am Unstoppable Winner” and we will follow up with more details on how to claim your prize. *Important Note*: You have until Wednesday, November 24th at 5pm PT to respond or we will choose a new winner. Again congratulations!
@triciamedora9274
@triciamedora9274 3 жыл бұрын
Lisa, you bring tears to my eyes. You have changed the way I will use the word grateful. Learning people have to earn my trust and appreciation. You are an amazing example of strength and honesty. Thank you!!
@alexbecerra2142
@alexbecerra2142 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE!!! Every time I watch an Evy and Lisa episode, I learn something that I would of never thought made a significant difference. For example, speaking fast demonstrates that I don't believe what I have to say matters or I'm not worthy of other people's time. I do this and I'm working on that. Thank you 💙
@Lisa-vr9go
@Lisa-vr9go 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE!!! I am in a new chapter in life. Their words are music to my ears- brings me hope and inspiration!
@dianamontoya996
@dianamontoya996 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE! You two are so amazing. Love from Colombia. We should all learn this to better communicate and have healthier relationships. Thank you for sharing!!
@LisaBilyeu
@LisaBilyeu 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! You’ve won a 30-minute group call with Lisa and Evy! Please email womenofimpact@impacttheory.com with the subject line “I Am Unstoppable Winner” and we will follow up with more details on how to claim your prize. *Important Note*: You have until Wednesday, November 24th at 5pm PT to respond or we will choose a new winner. Again congratulations!
@dianamontoya996
@dianamontoya996 3 жыл бұрын
@@LisaBilyeu OMG OMG 😱😱😱😱😱 No waaaaaay! Never thought I would win! Thank you! Don't even know what to say! Much love to both of you! 🌸🌼💮💕💕💕
@Tribeofthecosmic
@Tribeofthecosmic 3 жыл бұрын
I am UNSTOPPABLE!! Thank you for teaching someone who never used to set boundaries with people. Ive learned being nice is overrated. And i dont have to be a doormat to be liked or loved!!! Ty queens!! 👑 👑💝
@NWats-ik6ou
@NWats-ik6ou 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE. I love the part about you not being fake but tapping into a different part of yourself. Also knowing how people see you, how you come across.
@shanalucille
@shanalucille 3 жыл бұрын
I loved learning about the internal and external branding…. How you see you and how others see you. I also appreciated the positive intentions and focus on being genuine AND strategic. Love this energy between you two! Great book Evy; I listened to it and bought a hard copy. Lisa, so much gratitude for this container!
@Zeek509
@Zeek509 3 жыл бұрын
I love the funny scenes in between the discussion. Lisa: No matter what, is that I DONT. WORK. ON THE WEEKENDS. Evy: She is GOING to work on the weekend. 🤣🤣🤣
@embest425
@embest425 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE! My take away is being over nice or over kind is not good in a professional setting as well as not "being yourself" in a professional setting is good and needed a lot... picking the side of you that comes out based on the circumstance. Love you two!
@elliecraig1520
@elliecraig1520 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE. You all have truly filled me with confidence. I have struggled with anxiety and OCD for as long as I can remember, not having the resources or money growing up to get help, your videos have been my treatment and I can say now that after alot of practice I am finally at a place of peace in my life, and damn is that freeing. You ladies are so inspiring and you have inspired me, a mom of a 1 yr old, to get up and pursue my dreams. I lost 40 pounds after I gained weight from depression and pregnancy, and now I'm working on becoming a personal trainer and working in a Muay Thai gym. I can't say thank you enough for being my inspiration to get off my ass and stop feeling sorry for myself. I loved this video because I truly believe you become what you act like, that is what got me over my anxiety and OCD. I acted as if I didn't have it, and I did whatever I would do if I never had those problems at all, and now I don't fear the things I feared before. I act at peace even when I'm not, and eventually my emotions catch up with my body and it is incredible!
@oh2887
@oh2887 2 жыл бұрын
I can't get over the sage like wisdom being spoken in this video. Its like every statement is a drop the mic moment. You have opened my eyes. God bless you both 🙏💜💙💚
@santbr
@santbr 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely LOVE this collab!! You two are amazing together. I love that you put some practical examples so we could clearly understand how to do it. You are changing lives, thank you Lisa and Evy!
@lisabaer2964
@lisabaer2964 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE! I can be AWARE of how I am being perceived by the people that I encounter in life and choose what facets of my personality will be most effective to reveal in order to achieve my desired outcome. Outstanding ladies! Thank you.
@pursueliving
@pursueliving 2 ай бұрын
Awesome episode!
@jessicaalvarado846
@jessicaalvarado846 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE I appreciate the idea of adaptation and authenticity. People are going to make a perception of you regardless and it can be helpful to influence what people see. I’ve had that same aha moment as Lisa when it comes to understanding you are tapping in to a side of you that is still authentic but you are also adapting to the situation. I want to learn more about this to better connect with others. I’ve experienced firsthand how people’s perception of me is inaccurate to the truth and I couldn’t decipher that until I had self awareness and self understanding. I was out with friends and the majority of them thought I was of Asian decent because of my voice/accent when, in actuality, I’m Hispanic. This was a pivotal moment for me because I used to rely on people’s perception of me to tell me who I was although it can be false.
@freedomflowsred
@freedomflowsred 7 ай бұрын
These videos are so encouraging!! Thank you for all y’alls hard work
@Nohcal
@Nohcal 5 ай бұрын
I enjoy listening to these two ladies talk about relevant topics. It’s great listening for driving,walking or just sitting.
@barbaraschultz1442
@barbaraschultz1442 3 жыл бұрын
Lisa! You are such a Love and so authentic. That’s why we love you!!!!!! 💕💕💕💕💕💕 I don’t do pink either however, friends and family say I’m way to serious and now that I’m older, any color softens my demeanor.
@ThatcrazygirlNunu
@ThatcrazygirlNunu 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE. Really loved the part where they both spoke about priming people especially when theres bad news coming as well as understanding how your being perceived even if its not a reality of who you are. Thank you so much for your educational. Extremely life changing 🙏🏾
@loveme2oo
@loveme2oo 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE ! this is not about manipulation in fact it's a tool to help connect but how can I stop the resistance of knowing that I'm being primed. I think this message relates to negative thoughts of self that could potentially manifest into what is not. The video introduction was everything you lady's are amazing together any room for one more 💯🙏🏿💜
@marnellkent3682
@marnellkent3682 3 жыл бұрын
I love the part about how branding affects the way people perceive and react to me. I've definitely experienced what Lisa described. As a big-time people pleaser I need to work on what my appearance and demeanor projects. Thank you I look forward to meeting you ;)
@phoenixrising8007
@phoenixrising8007 3 жыл бұрын
Coming across as overly polite or overly co operative comes across as excessive people pleasing seen as weakness versus confidence 💥 Genuine connection is built by sharing common ground. Branding is how others see you not how you see yourself💥 Ty for the powerful shares 😎
@fitwithdiana
@fitwithdiana 3 жыл бұрын
YES...THIS! What an incredible value packed, brilliantly funny and inspiring conversation. Connection, respect and staying true to yourself and your values. Thank you Lisa and Evy!! I AM UNSTOPPABLE
@ChristianaSenibo
@ChristianaSenibo 3 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree more 🙂
@treebs9516
@treebs9516 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha Evy's sitting on the couch opposite on the phone to Lisa. Love these two😁
@tom6253
@tom6253 9 ай бұрын
as a bloke i enjoy listening and learning from these 2 chicks great content 👍
@mchelle706
@mchelle706 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE! ❤️ well I now know that I'm shrinking myself with how I brand myself. I need to assert myself more and not try to be smaller to make others feel more comfortable 🌟 you ladies are AMAZING! 🙌💞
@LisaBilyeu
@LisaBilyeu 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! You’ve won a 30-minute group call with Lisa and Evy! Please email womenofimpact@impacttheory.com with the subject line “I Am Unstoppable Winner” and we will follow up with more details on how to claim your prize. *Important Note*: You have until Wednesday, November 24th at 5pm PT to respond or we will choose a new winner. Again congratulations!
@mchelle706
@mchelle706 3 жыл бұрын
@@LisaBilyeu omgoodness!! 🙌🥰❤❤❤🌟🌟🌟
@mchelle706
@mchelle706 3 жыл бұрын
Done! Can't wait! 🙌💖💖
@sassykassie6070
@sassykassie6070 3 жыл бұрын
This video was premiered on my Birthday, just discovered Lisa and Evy today. Yaaayyy!!! Belated birthday gift to myself watching, opening up my horizons ladies. Thank YOU..!
@MsWing-ij9nb
@MsWing-ij9nb 2 жыл бұрын
“You’re drinking Pepsi today.” Love it.
@c.a.sword26
@c.a.sword26 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE! 💪 The segment about understanding how others perceive us vs. how we perceive ourselves was FIRE! 🔥 Currently taking a hard look at how I can mold myself to come across the way I intend in situations with different groups of people, and will work on the art of priming & ways to find and establish common ground. Thanks for the MANY brilliant lessons, Lisa & Evy! 💜
@candacemarie3881
@candacemarie3881 2 жыл бұрын
DREAM TEAM!!!! Absolutely LOVE the dynamic between Lisa and Evy. Sooo much Knowledge, Support & Value coming from the two of you! Please keep the content coming. I LOVE YOU LISA!!! I LOVE YOU EVY!!!!
@haleymccaslin9119
@haleymccaslin9119 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE- fave takeaway was being aware of other peoples’ perception and bringing out the side of ourself that is going to get past road blocks we encounter
@maribellef4476
@maribellef4476 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE! My favorite takeaway is the distinction between influence and manipulation. Practice self awareness and be cognizant of the intent of the action. The intention will color the outcome of the action.
@samanthaelizondo4076
@samanthaelizondo4076 3 жыл бұрын
Hello from Costa Rica! Not everybody is willing to understand people in order to be assertive and influence in a positive way. These advises are very powerful tools and I appreciate these videos so much! Thank you!
@Fluxushaus
@Fluxushaus 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE! Priming, ethos, goal setting, and non verbal language observation!
@thisgiftcalled_life
@thisgiftcalled_life 3 жыл бұрын
Every episode is so interesting and valuable! I have never come across something similar on KZbin. Thank you both Evy and Lisa for sharing! I AM UNSTOPPABLE!
@marzena4086
@marzena4086 3 жыл бұрын
I am unstoppable. At some point on my life I realized that I was continuously giving away ownership of the situations I was in with other people to them. With time, by consciously reminding myself to create balance between my authentic self and what I was willing to share with others, I eventually felt comfortable enough to claim ownership over my reactions, what I was sharing, and in turn, how I would be perceived by others. As women, we are raised and conditioned to be polite and accommodating, not realizing that it often results in us losing ourselves and giving our lives, our voices, and our image away. Thank you for another insightful episode.
@taffylove6193
@taffylove6193 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE! One Takeaway~ Meet people where they are even if it makes you uncomfortable. Drinking the Pepsi, in order to connect with a person to extricate the information you need. Wise Wisdom without force! Thank you Lisa & Evy~
@Faeriefungus
@Faeriefungus Жыл бұрын
Have to love how her storytelling itself also conveys the message her words are giving. Clever
@mstowers1862
@mstowers1862 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE! Its amazing how much I'm able to take away from these videos. Something as simple as speaking slower in business meetings is something that I need to do.
@allybata1
@allybata1 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE , favorite part re: molding yourself and the 2 versions of thy self. Leaning into my version of me and my reality
@hivyfalou1393
@hivyfalou1393 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Lisa, your gift idea is really great, and you know what occurred to me? when your guests reach out for the mug and all of that they'll also remember their feeling of accomplishment, success and why they started in the first place, because you hosted them for their impact and that's what they're gonna remember as well, so I just wanted to say that's really great feeling to bring.
@analicewws1583
@analicewws1583 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE. I love how Evy seems to know much about compassion and empathy when talking about connection. Some people would interprete this as manipulation but only if they see it superficially. Also love the contrast between these 2 in regards to personality.
@madeleine5313
@madeleine5313 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE. Taken me a long time to get to place of having more confidence in my own capabilities but everyday (as a 44 year old & mother of two) I am learning how to be stronger mentally in a variety of situations. Learning more how to ‘read’ people and learn from my own mistakes and be more mindful of myself and my intentions 💜 Loving these two women and the wisdom they are sharing
@liza8577
@liza8577 3 жыл бұрын
Ok, so I'm late to the party, but I AM UNSTOPPABLE!! I'm not sure how I stumbled across your chanel but I am so very grateful! I love the information about "openness' and creating an open space even by using an open book. My favorite lightbulb moment was " what is my brand, and what do people see"..........wow, what a powerful visual. And for the record......Lisa, your hair is ridiculously gorgeous 💜
@bikuuesaka2008
@bikuuesaka2008 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE!! Every video with Evy reminds me how much strength I have in my intuition. Thank you!
@jnwest2029
@jnwest2029 3 жыл бұрын
I am unstoppable. Professional verses overly kind and compassionate/accommodating is a balance. Amazing advice.
@eozmuzik3476
@eozmuzik3476 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE I loved that you two discussed how to show up with authority and off-balance others perception of you while remaining authentic by tapping into different aspects of yourself. That was incredibly helpful to hear broken down. Thank you so much for making these videos.
@vickybibiris1792
@vickybibiris1792 3 жыл бұрын
I am unstoppable. The advice here is incredible and I’ll be playing it to my team and asking them to train each-other (and me) on what they took away. Genuine, bad asses. Forget how proud I am of you two.. you should be so damn proud of yourselves. Thank you. 🤘🏼♥️
@ChristianaSenibo
@ChristianaSenibo 3 жыл бұрын
We’ll done! That’s how you pay it forward 👏🏾
@MsHipmonkey
@MsHipmonkey 3 жыл бұрын
Love watching Evy as her insight is on another level. Thank you Lisa for introducing her through Woman of Impact. ♥️♥️♥️
@kppp3653
@kppp3653 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE! Undoubtedly, my favourite takeaway was projecting different sides of my personality to influence the way people perceive me. This was really, really powerful.
@bishto26
@bishto26 3 жыл бұрын
I love your videos especially with Evy!! One thing I would really love to see different is the difference in the interview and then the theme song. It’s so loud that it blows out my speakers!! I turn the volume up to hear the interview because I love hearing you two 🤗 Again I just love what you do !!
@RafaelaMiranda-js4mv
@RafaelaMiranda-js4mv 8 күн бұрын
I'm learning so much with you girls. Love the way you're engaging in each topic. Great interviews! 💖💖💖 pink hearts for Evy 😂
@KaliaF41
@KaliaF41 2 жыл бұрын
I watch these videos over and over. Such wonderful lessons and messages. You woman are so incredible abs I can watch you for hours! Can’t get enough! Thank you!
@deedee5825
@deedee5825 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE and more so now that I've seen that last skit. My personality type is more like Evy's meaning I'm not so bubbly and energetic with all the body language Lisa has. I really like seeing both personalities being genuine to themselves while interacting with each other. Sometimes I feel almost wrong for not matching the energy and sometimes that level of energy is overwhelming and I want to get out of the situation as soon as possible. Connecting feels like a huge challenge in these situations but with this episode I'm a bit more open to use the Pepsi thing for example, and connect through those kinds of things so my brain isn't zeroed in on the energy factor. Through the series, Evy is her calm collected self and Lisa remains energetic yet the interaction flows smoothly and no one looks forced into another's personality. That was really the most powerful for me and I'd like to see more on this topic if possible. Thank you for the episodes so far.
@arkinaluna3941
@arkinaluna3941 3 жыл бұрын
Im going to listen to all her evy videos and let it soak in. She gave me what i had been longing for.
@nataliem5974
@nataliem5974 3 жыл бұрын
This conversation is so powerful. Thank you so much for having it publicly.
@ChristianaSenibo
@ChristianaSenibo 3 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree more 🙂
@MehmetcanOzdag
@MehmetcanOzdag Жыл бұрын
The way Lisa smiles and nods ❤ I love you two ❤️🩷
@tiffanylikestodance4452
@tiffanylikestodance4452 3 жыл бұрын
I AM UNSTOPPABLE. I really appreciated the conversation around the different versions of your “brand” and over cooperation.
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