Would someone with tattoos be able to join - Ask Laura?

[@lolwut6635]

Tattoos can be very personal and meaningful to those who have them, so I think it's not very fair to call it a fad, especially because it's been around for a very very long time. There's no shame in being old with tattoos.

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

Cope!

[@allnamesaretaken]

I agree with this, tattoos have been around for centuries, much longer than Christianity though to be fair, i have seen some tattoos that make you question a persons sanity like pepa pig smoking a joint on your wrist which does give a good laugh or a Chinese symbol on an ankle that has no actual meaning.

[@k_j_n1242]

​@@californiaslastgasp6847Bore off 🥱😴🤫

[@shelbycurtis8885]

I mean ,I'll just be a cool grandma with tattoos.

[@nursetobee.]

True also there are already lots of old people with tattoos .

[@kat-cx5ir]

Same girl! We're gonna look ace.

[@suzystone244]

Me too.

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

You will neither be a grandmother nor cool.

[@shelbycurtis8885]

@@californiaslastgasp6847 I mean my son thinks I'm cool soooooo,and are you sure about that because like I'm already a parent. So who's to say my kid (s) won't have children weirdo. For real tho who trolls on KZbin,don't u have hobbies?

[@ekaterini2957]

I am an Eastern Orthodox Christian, and I just wanted to say I appreciate your answer about Catholics joining. We are all awaiting the day we can be one Church again, as we are all part of the body of Christ. Love and just hope for blessings for you all, from Texas.

[@splashpit]

Tattoos have been a fad for millions of years so I think there is some life in it yet .

[@pollyrg97]

Millions of years is probably a stretch, given that homo sapiens hasn't been around that long, but definitely many thousands of years.

[@splashpit]

Polly RG hello homosapians have been on earth for over 6 million years .

[@hannahj8099]

Linda Lemoni modern humans as we see them today are estimated to be around 300,000 however earlier humans are estimated to be between 5-7 million years back. Likely link to chimpanzees our closest relatives who are though to be 6-8million years old I think.

[@kjeracarroll450]

I think she meant some of the tattoo fads, not tattoos in themselves.

[@ReluctantPost]

Wow, I guess I must be millions of years old, then, because tattoos were much less common when I was young. They were much more particular to some in the military (enlisted, esp.), bikers, and inmates (current or former)--definitely not a general fad like they are now. They have been around a long time, but not as decoration in Christian or Jewish culture originally. Try to even find the word "tattoo" used in England or the US a couple of centuries and more ago--it's a relatively recent development in this culture.

[@jillianlea9690]

of all the things in life , it would be shallow to worry about a tattoo and appearance when elderly ...more like thank god grandma is still with is

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

Grandma is less likely to be with us if she has tattoos. A study showed that people who get tattoos are impulsive.

[@markbates6610]

I'm covered in tattoos, I'm 42 and only found the lord after a long life of mayhem and abuse. It's been around three yrs of servitude and I feel my tattoos are a constant reminder of my life before being saved. Therefore they are not a necessarily a blot on my faith but a reminder of the lack of it.

[@LazyMissDaisy12]

It's amazing how many people clicked on this video knowing fully well it was going to be about this person's way of life and opinions on things found it necessary to leave comments berating her for the way she chose to live life and her views of life. That's pretty hypocritical in my book. Why is it okay for people to live however they want to until it goes against what you believe?

[@Vintagebeliever]

Exactly!

[@ngumlovered7566]

Right?!!!

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

They are copeposting. They know that tattoos are permanent and the mere thought of being excluded for that makes them literally shake.

[@georgeLUVharrison]

Tattoos have been around forever. Tattoos can be touched up and refreshed. So I'm sure I'd love to sit down with the older people who have tattoos cause it's a peice of their time and super interesting

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

Cope!

[@augustalavenderblue7353]

"But we *are* anabaptists, so..." as a Catholic that made me laugh idk why

[@dominusdei1850]

Why? Anabaptism is just using your logic, better.

[@suestoons]

I appreciate your willingness to share your life, community and time with us. I'm in Canada and am familiar with Hutterites, are there similarities? We have a Saskatoon Orchard on our farm and during the 10 years that we ran a U-pick, we had the Hutterites come out to pick a lot. We even became a trusted destination and the picking team of late-teens, early-twenties young ladies were allowed to come to our place by themselves. We spent many many hours and days sharing our lifestyles out in the orchard. It's time I cherish.

[@josjesuscreepers3684]

I love learning about different people's ways of life. Learning from others if fascinating. I wish you all the joy and happiness. God bless

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Thank you so much!

[@louisecooper2580]

@@LaurafromtheBruderhof are you allowed a personal Bible and or daily devotional book

[@travelingtravelor]

Tattoos have been around a lot longer than any “fad”.

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

Being around =/= being popular.

[@emmib1388]

yes, they have been around -- but at one time, it was not popular for everyone to get one -- however today, it seems, more and more have them.

[@chrystalnicole9461]

I love my tattoos, with out without a fad :) Happy to be a dragon wearing grandma :)

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

lol

[@nursetobee.]

@@LaurafromtheBruderhof maybe you should be more accepting of that and educate yourself on the history of tattoos :).

[@marinarichardson821]

@@nursetobee. not everyone has to be accepting of everything. she could just not like tattoos. i don't like them either. they look cheap and classless to me.

[@nursetobee.]

@@marinarichardson821 you don't have to like them but respect would be nice

[@marinarichardson821]

@@nursetobee. i think you confuse respect with agreement. i don't have to accept them, neither does laura. our opinions are just that. your offence does not affect that.

[@mom4christ191]

Thank you so much for sharing this. I too felt called to cover a few years ago and have found so much peace and joy in it. It has really helped me to humble myself, especially in a world of looks and outward appearances mean so much, which sadly is even in the church. We are called to be set apart, different, unusual, spotless, and blamelesss, not look and act like the world around us. I was called out publicly for it in church which was so embarrassing, but I didn't let it faze me because you don't know what you don't know. I grew up in the church and had never known anyone to cover and never heard teaching on it, so I can see how people simply don't understand it. In my research I studied 1 Cor 11 for months and months. Especailly looking into the meanings in Greek. The word for covering in 1 Corthians 11:4, 5,6,7, 13, is the word, katakalýptō, from katá, "down, and kalýptō, "to cover"-cover down, to make appropriate (complete), i.e. to wear a veil. It is the same word used for the veil that separated the Holy of holies from the priests. It is clearly taking about a peice of fabric. But vrs 15 does NOT use the same word for covering. Vrs 15. "but if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For her hair is given to her for a covering." This is a different word for "cover"= "peribolaion," that which is thrown around or a mantel that can be thrown around (As in when a women tosses or throws her hair around) which can be very alluring to men. This is where we get the saying, "Let your hair down." Up until only the last generation woman covered in Church. It was only during the sexual revolution that Chriatin women in North America stopped covering their heads. ALL of our grandmothers would have covered in church. This is why the Hutterites, Mennonites, Amish, orthodox churches, and messiniac Jews (Jews who beleive in Jesus) etc still cover their hair. Also, here's some verses in the OT about head covering. Hope these help if anyone is interested. Isaiah 47:1-2. Come down and sit in the dust, O virgin daughter of Babylon; sit on the ground without a throne, O daughter of the Chaldeans! For you shall no more be called tender and delicate. Take the millstones and grind flour, "put off your veil", strip off your robe, uncover your legs, pass through the rivers. (So as we can see, even virgins were to keep their heads covered and save their hair for their husbands. Otherwise it is like they are showing all their nakedness). Numbers 5:18. Then the priest shall stand the woman before the LORD, "uncover the woman’s head," and put the offering for remembering in her hands, which is the grain offering of jealousy. And the priest shall have in his hand the bitter water that brings a curse. Also Genesis 20:16 says in the Hebrew Then to Sarah he said, “Behold, I have given your brother a thousand pieces of silver; indeed this is "a covering for her eyes" (to put back on her wedding covering) you before all who are with you and before everybody.” Thus she was rebuked. From what I understand In Genesis 24:65. Rebekah covers herself because the bridal price has already been paid. 2 vrs later we see Isaac take Rebekah bright away into his tent. There was no wedding ceremony. Her covering herself was an outward show of her marriage to Isaac. Since they were married he was allowed to take her right away into his tent and "uncover" her. We are not supposed to be like the world. So thank you for sharing. 1 Corinthians 11:1-18 Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ. Now I commend you because you remember me in everything and maintain the traditions even as I delivered them to you. But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a woman is the man and the head of Christ is God. Every man who prays or prophesies with his head unveiled dishonors his head, but every woman who prays or prophesies with her head unveiled dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven. For if a woman will not cover her head, then she should cut her hair short. But since it is disgraceful for a wife to cut off her hair or shave her head, let her veil her head. For a man ought not to cover or veil his head, since he is the image and glory of God, but woman is the glory of man. For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man. That is why a woman ought to have a symbol of authority on her head, because of the angels. Nevertheless, in the Lord woman is not independent of man nor man of woman; for as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman. And all things are from God. Judge for yourselves: is it proper for a woman to pray to God with her head unveiled? Does not nature itself teach you that if a man wears long hair it is a disgrace for him, but if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For her hair is given to her for a covering. If anyone is inclined to be contentious, we have no such practice, nor do the churches of God. (Paul says they have no practice of arguing about this. This is what the churches of God do. Period!)

[@Thewitchescookery]

What an insightful video! I discovered your channel a couple of weeks ago and while we have very different lifestyles / believes, I just love to learn about this 💚 many blessings from Germany

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@daisychan6571]

I would absolutely love to see some sort of "day in the life" or even some of the recipes you cook. I've visited a Bruderhof and loved it! Thank you for your insights!

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Great idea!!

[@daisychan6571]

@@LaurafromtheBruderhof Thank you! I hope you and your family are keeping safe & well during this time!

[@juanitadudley4788]

If violence is not even allowed in self-defense, what about in defending someone else who is defenseless? Would someone be obligated to allow a child to be kidnapped if the kid could not be rescued by nonviolent means? If an elderly person was being attacked, could someone jump in and fight the attacker if they won't stop?

[@sarahbaylere3692]

How killing inocent animals and non-violence could possibly go hand to hand?

[@hattyburrow716]

If you kill to eat, it is not an act of wanton violence and more humane than a slaughterhouse

[@korinnab.2318]

Animals are for eating

[@paullhc]

Korinna Beckenbauer No they are not. There, fixed it for you. You are welcome.

[@korinnab.2318]

@@paullhc nope. We eat them, that's it.

[@paullhc]

@@korinnab.2318 Nope, you do. Many of us have lived our entire lives without eating meat. We are healthy, we leave animals healthy, and we are helping save our planet from the huge environmental damage caused by the meat industry. You simply don't care about these things, that's it.

[@rainbowflower8388]

I really like your kindness, Laura. As someone who very much believes in God and everything about Him, I'm very happy that you aren't a very judgemental person. In my experience in the Church, I have seen a lot of judgement. You seem very kind and accepting to people. I really appreciate that. Thank you for this channel and your loveliness ❤️

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Thank you!

[@Spillers72]

We got married in a Baptist church and the pastor mentioned that a Christian marriage should be open to children. We got married later and have health issues. Luckily though, we had 1 son when we were both 41 almost 42. We're now 50 and he's 8.

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

That's amazing. Thanks for sharing.

[@ModernWtchTrials]

Thank you for taking time to share with us it’s so appreciated.

[@ccddle]

Ah yes... The millennia long tattoo fad.

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

Who had tattoos 1000 years ago?

[@ccddle]

@@californiaslastgasp6847 I highly suggest you research it simply because it is really interesting. But, to answer your question... Ötzi (found on the border of Austria/Italy died circa 3300 BCE and his tattoos are thought to be linked to acupuncture treatments). Egyptian mummies believed to be priestesses (they were only able to find these using infrared light as the resins used during the mummification process caused the plant matter used as ink to fade significantly). South American mummies. The Princess of Ukok (found near the border of China and died circa 500 BCE) and other mummies found in the same area as her. I should have said a millennia plus but whatever.

[@ccddle]

I should add that just because mummies have been found with them doesn't mean that tattoos were the norm in their culture... It also does not mean that it wasn't the norm. Mummies with tattoos are rare to find just as, from what I've read, mummies are rare and that could be due to a lot of different factors other than the preference that culture had on tattoos. It is hard to say. Sure, in our culture tattoos may be becoming increasingly popular but I think the fact that there is evidence of body modification in the form of tattoos going as far back as Ötzi and probably farther than that minimizes the idea that tattoos are a fad. They've always been a part of human civilization. And I'm positive that just like our culture has different feelings about tattoos, people back then might have felt the same as well. But that is of course a personal opinion... In my mind, tattoos are in line with the probable widespread use of psychedelics. It's a complicated conversation on something that, to me, is extremely interesting but is difficult to prove or disprove. Archaeology isn't perfect, either. I mean look at the debate on pre-Clovis civilizations and how they got to the Americas.

[@mahliee]

maybe by fad she meant what the tattoo depicts rather than the tattoo itself. for example, getting a tattoo of a popular tv show character or something like that

[@kjeracarroll450]

I am enjoying learning about you guys!! My husband’s family (grandparents and great-grandparents) lived in a group similar to you guys here in the states!! I think it is amazing that you guys are able to carry it on! Their group dissolved.

[@kjeracarroll450]

Love your video and your personality!!

[@MeliMary]

What happens if the woman can't have children? How would y'all view her?

[@Tesjhkyayy]

I guess then it's the will of God and it's totally fine if they can't have any. But for the most marriages it is just a natural consequence and the will of God to become parents.

[@judowrestlerka]

"Fad" of tattoos? . They are ancient. They have been and always be. So......if that answers YOUR question.

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

No. People would go their entire lives without seeing tattoos except on sailors and ex-cons.

[@judowrestlerka]

@@californiaslastgasp6847 that literally had NOTHING to do with the premise or the rebuttal. But thank you for presenting a random fact of a time long past.

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

@@judowrestlerka Your implication by mentioning that they are ancient is that they were as popular and accepted as they are now. That would be false.

[@judowrestlerka]

@@californiaslastgasp6847 its not MY implication. I never implied that they were anything other than ancient, have always been part or human culture and will always be a part. "Popular" was never a word I used. ...YOU read into it and placed implications in my thoughts that were never there in its plain English.

[@judowrestlerka]

@@californiaslastgasp6847 I dont even know how you got that I was implying ANYTHING other than what I wrote.

[@HildaWalker-cm5hm]

So super that you're doing these cool questions.

[@hollandgreen7555]

I have heard a couple of Catholics ask questions about living in community. There is a Catholic community called Little Portion Hermitage-Brothers and Sisters of Charity in Berryville AR. There are families and celibate people. I think there is another in Costa Rica. It was started by a country singer. John Talbot I think.

[@carriedesmond8756]

Girl, you crack me up! I am binge watching your videos, and I can't stop laughing. You have such an honest goofy personality 🤣

[@gabriellederr4408]

I’ve always wanted to come visit the Community but I have tattoos on my body and face and I wasn’t sure if it would be offensive I always felt bad calling my heart in that direction at least to come visit and see what it’s about

[@lukearts2954]

I really hope you are still reading comments here. We watched this video and in the answer to the question about the head coverings, you refer to an older video with the explanation about them, and that you would put a link to that video in the description. Unfortunately, we weren't able to find that link in the description. We checked out your playlist and we couldn't find any video about the head coverings or clothing tradition in there either. Perhaps a small oversight or maybe you forgot that you promised that link? Either way, would it be possible to still add that link and/or put it here in answer to this question? Thank you very much!

[@betyfra9354]

Hi Laura! Would a remarried couple be able to join the community?

[@Petra44YT]

Lol, "unless they are in a place that ought to be covered." ;-) Good point.

[@JamieArcangel]

She looks like a blond Jennifer Garner 😊

[@ThePatatonga]

Hi Laura, warm regards from Northern Germany 😀 I really do enjoy your humor 😄👍🏼 1:33 !! And you have such a good mother, one video you introduced her and her comment about Jesus touched my heart. I enjoy that work you do by vlogging. God bless 🌹

[@AnneS508]

I have a hard time understanding why a peace-loving community would not Embrace vegetarianism or veganism and would support hunting. Does compassion only extended to human beings and not to the other creatures that share our planet and are just as capable of suffering fear and pain?

[@suzylovesmambo]

Humans are hunter-gatherers by our nature. Do other animals hesitate to hunt because of the suffering of their prey? Hunting can be a compassionate, moral choice (and is especially superior to factory farming).

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

I totally respect people who are vegan or vegetarian as a matter of conscience. I don't share that conviction but I do believe reverence for life extends to plant and animal life as well.

[@AnneS508]

@@LaurafromtheBruderhof if you do believe reverence for life extends to plants and animals, then why do you continue to eat animals? Certainly, we need to eat, but eating plants, the least likely to suffer, makes far more sense. Also, so many more plants are killed to feed animals to feed people than if plants are the direct food source. All around, the compassionate choice is veganism, and then vegetarianism.

[@AnneS508]

Other animals do not hesitate to hurt because they are acting purely on instinct. Humans have the cognitive and spiritual capacity to ask moral questions. Research shows that we can eat a very healthy diet without consuming animals. Why not make a choice that does not involve suffering and pain? If we can eat well AND be compassionate, surely that is the better choice.

[@harmonicaveronica]

Are there romantic relationships outside of marriage? For instance, if two people loved each other and wanted to give each other the long term emotional support that comes with marriage but were not open to being gifted with children, I assume they wouldn't get married (and I'm guessing wouldn't live together?). But would they present themselves as a couple and be viewed as such by the community at large? In a similar vein, are there any same-sex couples? If not, what does a young person who finds themselves exclusively attracted to the same gender typically choose? I imagine they would either remain single within the community or they would choose to leave/not join as an adult

[@lindsey4178]

I love your way of life and as an adult I've always wanted a life more like yours. I love God and have been striving to live the way he wants me to. The more I study the Bible (which I have quite a bit) the more I think the life u lead isn't exactly "necessary" for salvation but definitely more in line with God's wishes. I was hoping you could answer a few questions about your community and the path that people outside your community should take. I'm a single mother with 3 kids ages 5, 9, and 15. I was officially saved about 4 years ago (although I knew God as a teen and believe he has had me in waiting while I struggled with my life). I really have SO many questions but I'll start with this...how would your elders suggest someone in my position proceed? I've struggled with how to completely change our lives toward God without shocking my children into being turned against God since we have lived a fairly secular life up until a few years ago. I am not planning on suddenly joining a community like yours but I'm curious about how you would advise someone in my position if they were to want to live the life you are. Thank u so much. I really appreciate how candid you are and hope God blesses you. You radiate love in the way you talk about your life.

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Hi Lindsey great to hear from you. To answer your question I think it's about taking little steps of faith one at a time and trusting that God will be with you as you try to conform your life to his will. And of course pray which is how we train our minds to turn from our own wills and to God.

[@lmeadow8586]

This is very interesting, thank you for answering questions with such grace and openness!

[@paullhc]

We are against all forms of violence .. except against animals, in which case, have your fill. Hypocrisy much.

[@liv8447]

So true

[@Vintagebeliever]

Do you buy meat at the store? Someone had to kill it. Just saying.

[@liv8447]

@@Vintagebeliever If you were asking me with that no worries. I do not pay people to kill animals for me since I am vegan:)

[@fionacooney1360]

What a happy and knowledgeable young woman she is a pleasure to listen to

[@melrosemyself]

Look, it does make me sad that the Bruderof reject people whose lifestyles and identities do not fit a conservative interpretation of the Bible. I personally believe that the Bruderof's position on these individuals and issues is not reflective of Christ's. However, I can't sit here criticizing Laura's commitment to the community and her desire to share her knowledge with all of you. We can disagree with her opinions, but unlike other Christians sects in society, she owns her opinions respectfully. She does not go out into the world preaching them to the harm of those individuals. Laura lives and enjoys a peaceful simplicity based on her Christian convictions with a like-minded community. Honestly, how many times have you wished that the anti-LGBTQ+ Christians would go away and be their own community. So why, when a representative of such a community makes an informational video about it, are you criticizing her? And make no mistake- I pray and hope for a world where peace is no longer reserved for only the non-gay and other conservative religious. Unfortunately, it's not the world that we live in, and what the Bruderof gain in their many sacrifices they also lose. Laura doesn't lie awake at night worrying about her finances or health like the rest of us do, and her decision to separate herself from the world means that she has little concern for the people who are lying awake at night with those worries because she's not seeing them on the news every day. I face that harsh reality every day at the expense of my peace, yet running away from those worries seems selfish to me. We need people in this world with ambitions to make a difference and a mission to help those who are struggling with an all too relatable struggle. I absolutely respect Laura in prioritizing her happiness and peace, even as I might reject her lifestyle because I believe that my fulfillment must come in the trenches.

[@lau6438]

Their choice. You arent entitled to it, if they dont approve you.

[@Baboonfromdatoon]

What is Christ's position?

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

It’s their community. Don’t whine like a bitch. Start your own.

[@mrs.garcia6978]

you criticized commenters then turned around and did the Exact. Thing. you criticized them for 😂 Oh ppl crack me up!

[@emilywynsma5159]

Hi Laura! How would it work if someone wanted to join with student loans? (For example, from medical school)? Thanks for doing these! So fun and interesting!

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Good question! I'll think about this and answer in a video.

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

I am sure that they will take the debt burden so long as you are giving your doctor’s salary to them.

[@lizeldred5484]

are people who are transgender allowed to join as there preferred gender

[@Peachsnowcone]

I can't speak for them but we all know the answer is no lmao

[@Tser]

I'm guessing no, they are also against same-gender relationships.

[@danielleo6855]

Most likely they could attend and be welcome but not become members ... which, along with attitudes of a few with strong opinions would probably make them feel less welcome

[@annika9348]

my question is why would a transgender person want anything to do with religion? that doesn't add up to me lol

[@danielleo6855]

@@annika9348 its not mutually exclusive, some trans people grew up going to church and still want to be accepted. I'm not defending the lifestyle its just that each person has a unique story.

[@JP2GiannaT]

Catholic here...thank you for recognizing us as fellow Christians.

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Hope you can visit one day!

[@OPeixe]

Wow! You really need to be recognised as a Christian by protestants? I mean how much damage have they done to you?

[@JP2GiannaT]

@@OPeixe No, I don't "NEED" to be. It's just nice when it happens.

[@sinwithsebastian]

I love living in comunity was raised christan and would call myself spiritual - Does Bruderhof accept Gay people?

[@seheabol]

I saw something on their site that explicitly stated the family is a father, a mother and children. I am gay and believe that’s 110% their prerogative. As much as I have a right to create a gay organization, they have a right to be part of an organization that is based on the traditional family unit.

[@sinwithsebastian]

seheabol I don’t quite see your point, as they explicitly welcome single people ? So where is the family unit? What’s with a couple who can’t get children? God created us the way we are, the way we are is right come on besides I would like to have an official answer not somebody’s opinion, but thank you for taking the time

[@thetatheta7933]

Sin with Sebastian probably safe to assume that they don’t have openly gay people in the community. Christian groups that do support gays usually don’t mention mothers/fathers but say stuff like ‘we welcome all in Christ’s image, celebrating diversity etc etc’ like the Community of Christ

[@amberliles2561]

Am also curious about this💕

[@pollyrg97]

At a guess, it may be fine as long as you're willing to commit to remaining single and celibate. How fine you consider that to be would be a question only you can answer.

[@beatyea5711]

I love my dragon tattoos....definitely not a fad and definitely not for everyone. I like how she answers questions directly. It is a bit funny how the same example of being old with tattoos is often used as though it's going to be embarrassing-implied that tattooed skin ages quicker. if you take care of your skin, tattoos stay beautiful. I like her channel and respect her beliefs.

[@gigijordan8960]

I am sad in learning about the hunting practice. I believe that having to kill for food can be avoided with all the substitutes that the Lord have given us. I do understand the biblical references of mankind having Dominion over all creatures yet, as of today, is it really necessary? Yet, I do respect all opinions, and no cruelty is involved. As for tattoos, mine reflects important moments in my life, including having the Lord in my life. I am very comfortable with them. I do understand your point. It was good to "visit" with you, and as always, you are beautiful inside and out.

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Thank you

[@AnneS508]

Totally agree. There is no need to kill now to live, as there once was perhaps. in fact, vegetarian and vegan diet have been found to be healthier. Why cause suffering and pain when there is no need to? Does the bruderhof have any vegetarians or vegans? How does that work with shared meal preparation and eating.

[@yvonnes7874]

I agree with Gigi. I have also been wondering how non-violence and not being a plant-based community can go together. Genesis 1:29 "Then God said, “Behold, I have given you every seed-bearing plant on the face of all the earth, and every tree whose fruit contains seed. They will be yours for food." If the Garden Eden was God's original choice before sin, AND it's practical in today's culture, why is it not reflected in the way of living at the Bruderhof? Having dominion over all creatures can also be interpreted in having to take good care of them. You shall not kill does not exclude animals either. I read a post on the Bruderhof website from 2016 that claimed that plants have feelings, too. Let's say that's true and equal to the feelings and sufferings to animals. A plant-based diet would kill MANY less plants as well, as the animals are fed with plants. Thus, overall, a plant-based diet means less suffering and less violence.

[@gigijordan8960]

@@yvonnes7874 indeed my dear, I was wondering the same thing...thank you for your comment. Take care...

[@J8n3eyr3]

Ethical hunting keeps animals (and the humans who might hit them) from dying in road accidents.

[@anjagray4867]

Head covering is mentioned in Paul's writings in the bible. In 1.Corinthians 11:13-16

[@terrieannschmearer]

If someone wanted to join the Bruderhof and doesn't eat meat, eggs or dairy would there be vegetable dishes at meals they could partake from?

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Yes we grow our own vegetables

[@XoTayTayAnn13]

your beliefs and opinions on tattoos interest me. I’ve always seen tattoos as a display of art, and i believe art should be permanent.

[@christineconroy6409]

I am so glad I stumbled across your KZbin Channel. I love learning about your community. I only wish I had found something like this community in my early life. It would have saved a life time of sorrow. I believe you are living the way Jesus intended, God bless you.

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Thank you Christine

[@Myladyinred999]

So you wouldn't allow someone to join if they wanted to get married but didn't want kids and weren't open to them? I would have loved for you to state this very directly to avoid any misunderstandings

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

I'm not good with hypotheticals like this sorry

[@emmib1388]

when a person joins the group, they agree to the statement of faith and lifestyle of the community ....so, the person joining would decide if this is for them BEFORE they join -- that is why they don't allow someone to show up and join -- you participate in the community before you join so that you can make a clear decision. it is not as if the community allows/doesn't allow -- the individual decides if they want to join the community -- and when they do -- they agree to the lifestyle. If they don't agree -- they can break their vow that they made and leave.

[@jacquesmains7453]

My, what a wonderful representative of the Lord you are! Very intelligent and bubbly, and a joy to listen to! And all these Q&A-videos are really interesting. Thank you for sharing!

[@davegordon8870]

If someone is legally disabled can they join? Does the community respect the physical and mental vulnerabilities of such members?

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Yes absolutely.

[@BlackCatNinja]

If someone were to attack you and/or your community then how would you defend yourselves if you're against self-defence? I'm against violence too but I think there are times when it is justified (e.g - for self defence or survival purposes)

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

I'd try to stay obedient to Jesus who said turn the other cheek and love your enemies and didn't resist arrest, torture, an execution.

[@braulio5805]

@@LaurafromtheBruderhof the christian survived thanks to think about it and to leave the marthirhood. The Torah and Hebrew Bible say about to choose the Life instead of the death. God is perfect and Jesu was a man, a person isn't perfect. if the army and the police don't do their job any human been so radical could survive many years. It's also a King of suicide. So extrem and violent agaisnt yourselves. I hope that don't think the same about animals or others lives beens like some extreme religious jainists or others extreme religions and ideologies like some animalista or vegans. If someone from you commuties use the violence to protect his life, children, family, friends or neigbours I hope that you let him to stay with you. It's a little too extreme this point far from a "mental healthy and sense one". And agaisnt the civil laws too. It's like the "extreme muslims like to kill and some extreme christians like to be killed or to die". Crazy both. Sorry

[@connollyd10]

Hello Laura. Thanks for sharing. I hope you are all safe and growing. All the best. Darryl Connolly

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Thank you! You too!

[@jolinaangerstein3855]

Thank you so much for your openness it is really inspiring!

[@lunamaharuni]

I have been looking for something like this for half my life. I would thrive here. Unfortunately I'm married to someone who would never ever want this life style. I think your way of living is very close to living in the Kingdom of God with Jesus Christ . Love love love this way of life.

[@lunamaharuni]

I'll be at your doorstep if my life changes in a significant way.. Haha.

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Would love to meet you one day!

[@lunamaharuni]

@@LaurafromtheBruderhof ❤💙💚❤

[@ralph17p]

Ha. Me too. Unfortunately also a staunch atheist so I think that might be a non-starter.

[@lunamaharuni]

@@ralph17p yeah that's hard when you believe or want something completely different from your mate... 😕 I am going to go visit in the spring. With or without my hubby

[@shaye91nz]

Would you consider helping open up communities in different parts of the world?

[@suzylovesmambo]

Thanks for answering my question! Next one: can people attend church on the Bruderhof without being a member of the Bruderhof?

[@leannecheater9713]

I attended the church service once

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Yeah sure we do have open services from time to time.

[@caraisabelladeborah]

I love your Q and A!!! Love from Singapore

[@nancykay6318]

So if someone attacked a loved one or tried to kidnap your child you would not use a gun to protect your family? Going out looking for problems is different than "problems" coming to you.

[@ralph17p]

Is kidnapping the children of people with no personal possessions a big risk where you are? You might want to consider moving.

[@nancykay6318]

@@ralph17p .... Did I say anything about kidnapping? Do you watch the new's? There is a lot of evil people in this world and innocent people are exposed to it everyday.

[@ralph17p]

@@nancykay6318 You literally did say kidnap, lol. Do you forget what you wrote from one moment to the next? It's right there ^^ if your memory needs refreshing.

[@Jylart]

I have a lot of tattoos! My brother always says that I'll look ridiculous when I'm old! It will be interesting for sure!!

[@sandycottonjones3329]

Jill, I'm old (71) and my tats are old (30+). They look like they did when they were new. So, no worries. Tell your brother to move on. lol

[@Jylart]

@@sandycottonjones3329 Love this comment!!

[@LoopyLemon8]

@@sandycottonjones3329 All the photos I've seen of older people with tattoos always look amazing! It's like the skin is telling a story

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

@@sandycottonjones3329 No, they don’t. Skin wrinkles and sags with age.

[@LilithsOwn303]

You said you were going to post the link about headcovering, but I don't see it anywhere... Plse do

[@brandibomb]

How can you call yourself a peacemaker while still using violence against animals?

[@korinnab.2318]

They kill them to eat them. Animals die all the time and are eaten by other animals and it's no different when humans eat them.

[@lifeisaadventure9948]

This is the kind of outreach effort that’s needed in religious groups

[@Nanakanisurra]

You know, the Bruderhof I think approach living according to Christian principles in a very wholesome and reasonable perspective.

[@pookab5905]

As a Christian l see all faiths that believe in Jesus Christ, God the Father and The Holy Spirit as equal in the sight of God. He loves us all the same . I have friends who are wonderful Christians but Catholic. Thank goodness Jesus accepts all His Children as long as we bel the Bible and accept Him into our Lives as Lord and Saviour. As farcas Tattoos go l have a heart with Forget- me-knots to remind me of my husband's Dementia and His love for me. Regarding marriage , what if you prefer not to have children. Not everyone wants them or can have them. I always sad for those who would want children and cannot. It would bound to feel worse in a Community setting. A constant reminder of loss. I thought the young lady who spoke was very sweet though.

[@mairimccormick5143]

You're just the coolest, and kindest and wish I could be friends with you

[@pjmpjm1000]

I LOVED the video, and I LOVE it! "I mean, we are Anabaptists ..." :)

[@reuelmelville5232]

Hello Laura...I love your videos and your insightful, honest answers- Thank you. I have visited the Bruderhof website and while the women seem pretty uniform in dress and appearance (and I really don't mean that in a disparaging way- I myself come from a community in which dress is regulated)- the men seem to be a lot more diverse...I'd like to ask what the specific requirements are when it comes to dress in the Bruderhof.

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Main thing is simplicity of dress. Men's clothing is a little more flexible I guess but the goal is to keep it simple.

[@melanieprice9176]

Question; How would someone join? Is there something that they have to do to join?

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

If you go to Bruderhof.com it explains it pretty well, and you can email to the contact address there if you have further questions and someone will get back to you. All the best!

[@emilyherselph]

Hi Laura. I'm really enjoying your videos and answers regarding life inside the Bruderhof. As you touched on in this video, not everyone is called to be a parent, though openness to life is one of your communities' beliefs. What if a married couple wants children, but are experiencing infertility? Are they allowed to pursue fertility treatment?

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

That's a personal decision for each couple to discuss with their doctor. But any fertility treatment that involved destruction of an embryo would be something we could not do.

[@PennyJackson123]

How about someone who has a child outside of ever being married. Would that mother and her son/daughter be allowed to join? There are many situations where young females without a Christian upbringing end up making mistakes in their early adulthood, due to not having guidance from parents. Would they be welcomed and taught the right path from scratch even if they have a child from before?

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Yes absolutely they would be welcome

[@SpoonsForks]

you need some books for that empty bookshelf!!! :)

[@mixsetup]

My children and I have a rare hereditary disability which we require expensive medicines and medical tests costing from hundreds to thousands of dollars. If someone in your community was disabled and needed expensive medicines and medical tests are there restrictions such as, are they allowed to take medications and the types they are ? Who would pay for it all?

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

We have health insurance.

[@lottatroublemaker6130]

Laura from the Bruderhof - You’re in the UK, right? So you are covered by the NHS, just as all citizens in the UK, right? Do you have private health insurance on top of the national health system? Thanks for clarifying and God Bless❣️ ✝️⚓️💟

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

I'm not in the UK but the members there are covered by the NHS I understand

[@benjaminedwards8133]

What is the Bruderhof stance on homosexuality? Thank you for your openness and willingness to share! My wife and I are having many constructive conversations after watching your videos.

[@benjaminedwards8133]

I am also curious about what ethnicities are accepted as members. Is there an open door policy in that regard, or are there limitations to what races are welcomed in or not. Are there any minorities currently in the community?

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

Probably the same as the Bible’s.

[@braulio5805]

@@benjaminedwards8133 no problems with races. I'm quite sure. They have a community in South Corea and another in Paraguay. People from Corea, Irak, english, german, and so on I guess. Some from moroko and jewish, catholic background. I think to remember that.

[@jasonlovemusic9778]

Hey, I am from UK, and I love the thought of bodahof ways Im also a man that loves avery one and verything and would love to join a bodahof family community, but I am a gay man would this stop me from joining. Ps, hope you and your family are keeping well ❤️❤️

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Hi Jason! Anyone is welcome to visit. You can see how to do that here: www.bruderhof.com/en/visit-us. To your question, our vows as members include a vow of chastity which means abstinence outside of marriage which we believe means a lifelong commitment between one man and one woman. Thanks for asking about the family! We're all doing well and enjoying the summer. All the best. Laura

[@lottatroublemaker6130]

Laura from the Bruderhof - I don’t think he was asking about visiting, but rather about joining as in becoming a member of your community and if being gay would be a hinder for that...

[@alaalpha9940]

@@lottatroublemaker6130 Yes i think she understood that, and very politely answered, that no, as a gay man he would not be allowed to join, but if he made a lifelong commitment to a women in marriage, and did not have sex outside of that commitment, then technically on what she wrote there he would be allowed to join. Although i am not sure if past counts as i do not know much about these things myself. I mean it is against the vows as members, so probably not, or she would of probably said yes. But instead she very politely said no... more or less.

[@lovesanimalshatesrats6339]

Against violence in the case of self defence but it’s a ok to violently murder gods gorgeous, innocent creatures peacefully enjoying their lives?

[@hannahj8099]

I respect your faith and community but with tattoos I’m sure it is isn’t a fad as it has strong links to various faiths across the world and ancient traditions. I am excited to think that if I get to old age then I will have a lot of stories to tell through my tattoos however cringe or outdated by that time 😊 although most of my tattoos thus far are nature based and mostly of mountain scenery as that is where I feel most content and at peace. They are a strong reminded to ground myself and keep going through tough times. So whilst I respect people decisions to not ink their bodies I also do not believe it is a fad or cosmetic thing in all cases.

[@damonopera4760]

Would people of other ethnicities be able to join?

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Yes for certain

[@KKISCRAZYFUL]

I love my tattoos, they my make love myself more because I can literally wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm very happy with the choice I made to put art on my body.

[@naomiklassen475]

I wear a head covering. Are you required to wear a particular style?

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Most people tie on a kerchief.

[@jacksonpowers7218]

Real Christians would understand the true spirituality of tattoos instead of callin it a fad

[@SarymaryQuiteContrary]

Dear sister, I would like to pose the question: How is it that you clearly oppose all and any form of violence, yet when you speak about hunting dear and wildlife there is a smile on your face? Is it not so that these beings are sentient - feel pain as we do, love and are protecting of their young as we are, bleed as we do? Is it not so that God has given these beasts the breath of life as he gave onto us? (As even stated in the bible) So by merely acknowledging the reality as god created it, the killing of animals regardless of the weapons used - is violence. And I believe it furthermore encourages the killings in this world, thus feeding the bloodthirsty demonic entities around us. I clearly see the light and love of our holy father in you, I pray you will make that connection and help us end the killing of innocent sentient beings which hold god's breath of life. Amen, all goodness to you and god bless

[@shelleylee8774]

God gave us animals FOR FOOD. (as even stated in the Bible)

[@SarymaryQuiteContrary]

@@shelleylee8774 incorrect. When going by the bible, there are several statements, some of which oppose one another directly, therefore it is necessary to include context. God allowed for animal consumption only "sparingly" and this was in times where the planet's vegetation was depleted due to the big flood/ice age and so forth, therefore god sacrificed his beloved beasts for the survival of man kind. Animals have the breath of life which god has blessed sentient beings on earth with, we are of God as are the animals. The bible clearly says for us to consume the crops of the land, not the beings that run from us for dear life. The bible condones bloodshed (of any kind) preaches love, compassion and states killing as a sin. When using God's given intellect along with the compassion in our hearts (if still present) it is more than clear that meat consumption is of the devil as it requires murder and bloodshed, plant consumption does not. I pray for this connection to be made. Amen

[@Cindy99765]

@@SarymaryQuiteContrary Would you consider yourself Christian?

[@eirika2001]

Actually sentience is the concept of being self aware Organized thought and all that. Very few species are considered sentient and none of the common food animals are.

[@SarymaryQuiteContrary]

@@eirika2001 I am afraid that what you've just pointed out does not align with modern scientific research and consensus. "Common food" animals, though I find this term to be misleading and very disrespectful towards these beings, are very much sentient. Even marine animals such as fish and tiny crabs are highly sentient. Regarding land animals it goes as far as to pigs, which by the age of one year (when they are slaughtered) reach the sentient awareness of a three year old human child. The only way these two "beings" or "persons" (because yes, animals infact have personalities) differ from each other, is appearance and language. God knew what he was doing and he does not intend for us to feed our hungry bellys with the death of another breathing and feeling being, only people being mislead by demonic entities could truly believe that our almighty, loving father is of such cruel, bloodthirsty nature. Amen and blessings

[@missiesmith949]

What about piercings? Unnatural hair colors? It seems like girls don't even have their ears pierced. Or wear any jewelry. Most don't seem to even wear wedding rings.

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

I wear a wedding ring and a membership ring. But no we don't do piercings or much hair related stuff.

[@east_coastt]

East Asian communities and cultures have tattooed dragons for a very long time and dragons hold much cultural significance, it came off as culturally insensitive when you said that

[@saranolling2286]

Hi Laura, I really like your q&a videos, but for me the answers are too short and therefore superficial. Why don’t you take more time to answer them ( if nessesary) and go deeper? For me topics like homosexuality on the bruderhof would be interesting. Or your attitude towards other religions/concepts of living... I have lots of topics and questions but they are not to be answered in 30 seconds... anyway thank you for giving us a glimpse of your life on the bruderhof!

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Thanks Sara. I appreciate the feedback. I'll see what I can do.

[@jackienaiditch7965]

I agree. I think a deeper dive into some of the topics would be interesting. The hot-button issue of homosexuality keeps getting raised in the comments and I think deserves a robust conversation.

[@ricardohernandez-torres7097]

As a Catholic, I found your community very interesting. Why would it be impossible for a Catholic to live there? Every Catholic is a Christian. It’s just very confusing to me why it would be “impossible”. God Bless

[@kristymc6784]

Hey Laura I have a question for you. What at someone came to your place of worship and started shooting their guns and killing the innocent. Then would it be all right to protect especially what's going on in the world today. Be safe be blessed

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Yes it would only be right to try and stop that person. Agree.

[@claraslater3254]

I was wondering if you believe in contraception in your community?

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

They don’t allow fornication.

[@diamarieful]

Re: tattoos - if I'm in a nursing home with my grandchildren visiting and we're talking about all my tatts and having a laugh - well, that sounds like my ideal version of old age.

[@californiaslastgasp6847]

You won’t be a grandmother.

[@diamarieful]

@@californiaslastgasp6847 Hmm, I see you have gone through a number of other pro-tattoo comments and left nasty comments - that's quite a lot of effort to go to! I'm not sure why tattooed people bug you so much, but you don't sound very happy. I hope you can find some peace.

[@kathymyers7279]

Even in self defense. 👌

[@Sidian]

Hi. I've asked this before and you said you'd go into it more in a future video, but that was awhile ago before Covid so you might've forgotten. I'd love to hear more about your experience in England; did you notice any major differences in culture between British people vs Americans in general, or between how the Bruderhof communities operate between the two countries? What did you like and dislike about living here? Thanks.

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

I haven't forgotten! I'll definitely do that soon.

[@hephzibah4675]

Hi! I would like to visit Your community. Is there any hotel to rent a family room? Xx

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

You don't have to rent a room. More info on visiting here: www.bruderhof.com/en/visit-us

[@jenniferpeacock-smith5226]

I can't find the link to the video about the head coverings, I would love to see that one :) ... I love your videos btw, you are such a treasure!

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Thank you! So embarrassed because I thought I made a video about the head covering but turns out I actually didn't. So I'll have to do a proper one now. Meanwhile one of my friends who lives in the Bruderhof in Australia wrote something about it you might find interesting: www.bruderhof.com/en/voices-blog/following-jesus/why-i-love-to-wear-a-head-covering

[@jenniferpeacock-smith5226]

@@LaurafromtheBruderhof Thanks so much :) Please don't feel embarrassed :)

[@stephanzander1087]

Hi Laura, in reference to the person who wanted to know if Catholics could join and still practise, I have found this link to a Catholic community with an ecumenical vocation which I know from Germany, but which also has one of its centres in England. Perhaps you could pass this link on to the person asking you this question: www.chemin-neuf.org.uk/en/. If they are not what this person is looking for, they might still be able to indicate some other communities in their church to join. I do hope this was helpful. Blessings from Stephan

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Thanks Stephan! This looks very interesting.

[@crossingthetrail5630]

Are men allowed to have a mustache?

[@sophiebailey7315]

It does really annoy me that everyone praises this community for being "respectful". I don't see how alienating yourself from the rest of society and then talking like you're an authoritative voice on everything is respectful. I don't see how people who judge others for having abortions, being gay, having sex outside of marriage etc are respectful. Any moment which denies others' rights to live is not respectful. It's not enough to say you should respect someone's "opinion". I don't think you're entitled to an opinion about something which doesn't affect your life in any way. God isn't real and religion sucks. Bye.

[@Melissa0774]

What if a married woman can get pregnant but is a high risk for medical complications if she does? Would the Bruderhof support her decision to have only two kids and then use birth control? Are they ok with birth control for anyone, whether they have kids or not?

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Number of kids people have is a personal decision made prayerfully and yes for sure the mother's health is a big consideration.

[@Melissa0774]

@@LaurafromtheBruderhof Aren't you against birth control, though? Or is that not the case?

[@LaurafromtheBruderhof]

Not against it in principle