You deserve what you're going through. You would rather become good tomorrow than be good today

[@michaela4427]

"You suffer rightly today because you choose to be good tomorrow." There are different translations, but I like this one.

[@poetsrear]

There's a buddhist idea that "If you suffer correctly, you will suffer less in total"

[@Dojicat007]

That holds a very different meaning than the one in the title ...

[@Just2old4thisshit]

@@Dojicat007 I don't see the difference. Can you elaborate?

[@ousontmeslunettes9891]

"rightly" is the key word here

[@Purification1-c8d]

Action is always better than inaction disguised as "waiting the right moment".

[@guy12327]

Very true.

[@BygoneT]

lol, lmao even. It really is true that if you go far enough in the world you'll find someone truly believing the wrong to be right. "Just do something"

[@wulf67]

The highest virtue does nothing. Yet, nothing needs to be done. The lowest virtue does everything. Yet, much remains to be done. The sage acts by doing nothing When nothing is done, nothing is left undone. - Lao-Tzu

[@EgotisticalObserver]

Action towards what though? I’m kind to people when given the opportunity, I call out injustice when I get the opportunity, I do more than most in my position. Sure I’m not really taking actions towards like getting rich but idrc about that. I’m not obligated to do anything for anyone, there’s nothing wrong with living for myself, and yet I still care for others, enough that I’m one of the few really honest people I know. I know I CAN do more, and I likely will as I continue to grow. I’m only 24, I do believe that there is such a thing as the right moment. Yes I do procrastinate on some things more than I probably should, but I’m continuing to get better at that and I accomplish all the things I NEED to. I get this video is supposed to be for the purpose of motivating people but I think it also comes across as a tad judgemental. I don’t owe anyone anything, if anything most people owe me an apology for their disgusting behavior

[@Purification1-c8d]

@@EgotisticalObserver Taking action towards whatever you want to do. Personnally, I take action for money, instructing myself etc.

[@anshpradhan1954]

No complex vocabulary, no weird sentence structuring, just pure thoughts aimed for everyone who stumbles across the video, this is pure humbleness from him ya know, great message btw

[@tessarae9127]

Awwww yeah 😎

[@treeforged9097]

He is literally telling everyone what they should and should not care about. That is the least humble thing anyone could ever do. Fancy words and lack of them have nothing to do with humility. Marcus Aurelias did not speak English, you can find translations of his meditations that have all kinds of "complex vocabulary". The translator determines the words not the author.

[@Szunidubi]

I always find it fascinating that, despite all the technological developments like electricity and, more recently, AI, thoughts from 2000 years ago are still just as valid and useful as they were when they were written.

[@malconsak]

Because that's the human experience internally. It will always stay the same till the end of time, because our thoughts and emotions never change.

[@ExlCostava]

We will live the same life from now until the end of times. Humans are human.

[@mementomori3698]

I can calculate the motion of heavenly bodies, but not the madness of people. -Isaac Newton

[@JurijPopotnig]

Life is new for everyone and technology will never make life as such better or safe humanity in any way. I find it hard to apply tipps of a Roman emperor in my commoner life. Talking about not getting mad over things you can‘t change as a Roman emperor….😂 come on. People not able to change anything doing what a Roman emperor said…😂😂😂😂😂…kind of really dumbed down slaves trying to be dumbed down stoic slaves.

[@brain189]

Machines have nothing to do w our subconcious,concious cognitive soulfilled selves so why woulf you be surprised, humanity is humanity

[@flyingfeathers_]

"I don't know about the next time. This one time, I'm saying no." - this is so calming. The pain in the present moment is all I'll ever have to endure because it's all I can ever experience. The future remains uncertain and the past is unreachable. Thank you, I think you just changed my life.

[@abby4899]

wow, so profound

[@BasharHassan-iz2mw]

Same. Absolutely astonishing..it's so simple and clear.

[@BasharHassan-iz2mw]

Same. Absolutely astonishing..it's so simple and clear.

[@valerie.]

so like emphasizing being in the present?

[@gigi_27]

❤

[@themarshmallowconnoisseur41]

The Olympics are everyday guys.🏋️‍♀️ The small battles matter. The small wins matter. Keep going. 👏

[@arlflors6273]

Thank you so much

[@Subbed111]

Thank you

[@PrajwolW]

Thank you. Same to you.

[@jendrumm]

“We only have a little will power, everything else is habit.”🥇

[@saku.544]

this title triggered me 😂 let's see what this is about

[@user-hr1hf4kb4i]

Fr

[@JohannDiaz-d4l]

“you get what you get & you don’t get upset”

[@neasahayes6044]

Same

[@tiwiogunye]

RIGHT. I was like don't fucking say that sir.

[@Raofearth312]

😂😂😂😂😂 me too fr

[@margerdei]

Your goals begin now, not tomorrow. I must stop procrastinating. Thank you for reminding me.

[@blossoming_of_lotus_flower]

“This one present moment is all there is.”

[@bl1506]

This just happened to me ! I stood up to my supervisor after constant verbal abuse and told him off , to never speak down to me or disrespect me again. He apologized but it’s too late. . I left him and moved on

[@Sporacle]

Ive spoken to a psychotherapist every week for the last 18 or so months and you have done more for me and my wellbeing in the last 2 weeks, for free, than any other singular source I've ever encountered. Thank you again for being a concise, coherent conduit toward inner strength.

[@ashley-ti3hi]

keep pushing life is good

[@Oscar.Vasquezzz]

You are the conduit, friend

[@Tanya1q44]

Sometimes psychotherapy is subtle, with no instant or obvious results. Maybe these 18 months taught you to reflect better and only because of it you can get the idea behind this video. Don’t devalue bro’s work))) And yes, of course, there are times when the psychotherapist is shit 😄😄

[@BygoneT]

Yeah maybe if you were honest and direct you'd get the same from him/her. If you want harsh advice just tell them.

[@stonwall9065]

We can all commune with the Divine. Have you thought about God recently?

[@Atëris87]

I don't have many friends, I can barely count them on one hand, and online I might have few people who check on me regularly, but there are some type of people that I'd like to be friends with and love to keep, however I can't find them, this channel kind of made me feel like I'm listening to a friend I yearn to have some intellectual conversations with and hear what he has to say.. I think that's the beauty of youtube, when you look for the good, it will find you! today is also my birthday and I feel happy that I get to hear something good and yes I'm just treating it like any other day :)

[@LisaKelly-k8s]

Happy birthday! It’s your special day! And I really like your thoughts. You’d be a valuable, good person to have as a friend.

[@Atëris87]

@@LisaKelly-k8s Thank you Lisa, you are incredibly kind :)

[@megyerizsuzsadora]

Happy birthday! 🤗

[@Atëris87]

@@megyerizsuzsadora thank you 🙏♥️

[@JessicaBilodeau]

When you put the phone down though, where's the good people?? All I see is people sucking me dry.

[@francisbaranski]

The guy from 2k ago can describe and point out your BS on paper, and deliver to you through time. Think how crazy it is.

[@norwegianhero]

One moment, one energy.

[@toonnaobi-okoye2949]

Jesus?

[@michellesoria5110]

@@toonnaobi-okoye2949 not Jesus it’s the philosopher who said the quote presented in the title of this video

[@toonnaobi-okoye2949]

@@michellesoria5110 I was pointing out that Jesus fits that commenter's description as well

[@bunnywavyxx9524]

humans are fundamentally dealing with the same internal problems they always have

[@kamendimitri5624]

Thank you. 10 minutes into the video, I paused the video and finally called someone I had postponed to call for a long time.

[@withmessagesofvirtueiamunt2380]

You just made my mind go 🤯 “The greatest addiction a man can have is saying NO”

[@VeraBousiou]

Yes, our lives can be determined by our "nos" rather than anything else, cause how else can we navigate so many illusions, intrusions, prejudices...Only by processing each one of them at a time and see them for what they are and responding no can only lead us to what truly resonates.

[@jamesjameson5650]

just pulled my little book of Marcus Aurelius Meditations - Living, Dying and the Good Life - down from the shelf and dusted it off, probably been there for 20 years or more.......often thought,' Must get into that book one day.....' Hmmm 🙏

[@YourAverageYoutubeCommentor]

this is the right moment! read it!

[@veryrandomperson5739]

Put this video on watch later for a long time out of fear, today i have conquered it, and gained more wisdom.

[@Gabriel_Silva520]

This is true self love. Absolutely stunning. Love yourself so much in a way that you become so good for yourself and in return you'll become a good person for society. But first, stop harming yourself. Love yourself. Be strict with your virtues. Marcus Aurelius was a pure genius. "Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one."

[@NiJill]

Truth never gets old.

[@gursharankaur5796]

Absolutely! All we have is our present moment, Be who we want to be NOW, and staying consistent.

[@miroslavbazitov183]

Consistency and now are oxymorons. Consistency implies past.

[@monke6669]

​@@miroslavbazitov183 You made me think and I reckon you are damn right.

[@JessicaBilodeau]

I've been too honest.

[@seanoflaherty6678]

​@@miroslavbazitov183 The past only ever occured during the present moment

[@Vahellll__]

I love the fact how calm you are, And more than that, it’s interesting that you choose every word you express wisely and sensibly. Keep that mindset up, it will take you to the top. Appreciate you

[@niloukashfi6096]

"This present moment" thank you I feel it as a possibility and its freeing.

[@Sid5588]

"The tranquility that comes when you stop caring what they say. Or think, or do. Only what you do." We all in a way crave for those ‘micro-dopamine’ and the lack of it frustrates us, so we put off those tasks, yeah I guess Stoicism is the real key to more happier life, achieving tranquility. Also great video buddy Cheers!

[@webbit1518]

Your speaking demeanor is authentic,which makes you more enjoyable and engaging to watch.

[@senaodk5077]

The title gave me a reality check. I am so grateful for it, thank you.

[@behindthesmile1276]

Well damn. I guess this popped up when it needed to be. Good luck to the road ahead everyone

[@toni8131]

''we build habit by applying the little willpower we have in the present''

[@rycraft7893]

Everything is behaviour, reaction and response, and is just happening, keep leaving, keep going instead analysing, NOW is everything; very inspiring , thank you

[@eshark08]

Your letters of Seneca video was the first video I watched. Now im adding your content to my homeschooling materials. Thank you for what you are doing.

[@santacruzman8483]

You messages keep getting better and better. A notable accomplishment. Your output continues to resonate. I express my gratitude.

[@estelleamodia]

I've been dieting on and off for years now but have only gained more weight. Thank you for this inspiring and motivating video. Your lack of fancy or big words make it even better.

[@Youwish34]

Look up eating for your blood type. Nutrition is very complex and interesting.

[@HaiteLibbies]

walking is nice. do it everyday ❤ longer and longer as you get stronger

[@internetscavanger6746]

I like to say that "Everyday's a New Year, and I want to Grow Up" when it comes to doing my assignments and small hobbies/projects (low-entry tasks). You could call me a Sith Lord, but it's worked ever since the beginning of my college years!

[@joaq9790]

Thank you! I have heard this so many times and only but only now, I understand it!

[@Lady_Ima2]

I choose the most peaceful moment of my day to watch your content. I love to absorb and feel every single word. Thank you

[@DishikaTrivedi]

We are a series of choices that we are making with every single passing moment. Some with intention, some with pure innate intuition. These may be unknown to our conscious minds but are so deeply influenced by our values, beliefs & our aspirations for the future we seek. Hence, in every moment we are presented with a fair choice of making better choices, until the wiser choosing becomes an effortless nature. Videos like these prove to be such powerful influences for presenting us with ideas to be making those ‘better’ choices upon. ❤

[@kaylah9043]

I honestly cannot believe how things we put out into the universe come right back to us. I came to the realization that I am deserving of everything happening to me in my life just over a week ago. Before, I would find all sorts of reasons to justify why things were playing out the way they were in my life, in total denial of the real reason change was not happening, that reason being...me. Everything you said here is completely true. I listened with my eyes closed as if mediating and absorb every word. Thank you for being real. I am so grateful I have found your channel.

[@ArleneFranco-c7l]

The reality we live today is the result of past thoughts. Todays thoughts become our future reality.

[@ericadarby3622]

A friend of mine sent me the book meditations while i was in jail last year. Theres a very compelling and respectable quality about the way he views the human mind along with how he viewed his close relationships and being a leader. He definitely wasnt perfect as a ruler but to me he is almost the perfect standard being met for using his time wisely and learning from his mistakes. Unapologetic of his human nature all the while. Your videos are interesting, you have a comforting voice that makes it easy to stay engaged. Thanks for making these. Also you are fine af. So theres that.

[@Red_spiider_lily]

Great perspective. I always had this repetitive pattern were I tell myself to not do something but break my promise , I get tired because of how undisciplined I'm . Now I'm gonna try to focus on the moment that I'm in like my life depends on it .

[@hyosays]

And it does depend

[@Gamekillerz2000]

Your videos are unbelievably valuable to us. Thank you for sharing this!

[@jasonblake3976]

It is scary how...the things I'm going through and this video pops up like some very explicit sign. I appreciate your content and thoughts that are put forward in a realistic, straightforward way that allows us to face a brutal truth but also instils hope. Subscribed :)

[@syj2612]

This is the third time I’ve watched this video. It is so important to keep our word to ourselves. As humans we must evolve which often makes us uncomfortable initially. But once we can get past that initial discomfort is when we thrive. Thank you for your ever so insightful videos. I am so grateful for them during this particular journey in my life.

[@SItgix]

lol same for me, i actually set out to watch it every day for 1 week maybe even a month. i want to internalize it into a habit. And completely agree with you. I think what's so frustrating is that we know all these truths or "meditations" somehow deep internally, but often subconsciously or consciously ignore them. wish you all the best for your journey!

[@syj2612]

@@SItgix I wish the same for you! Thank you for sharing. ☺️

[@WendyKat211]

Wow! Marcus Aurelius has been coming to me for months! Your video is my confirmation to read his work. Thank you!

[@marymartinawogan7910]

Delighted I found this channel -its common sense and wisdom in a world of mostly bs. Thank you ❤

[@shysweetbunnygirl]

You just saved my life.

[@ZariaG720]

🎯 Mine too

[@Bellka42]

You are so wise, so calm, it’s so interesting to hear your reflections. Motivational. Bravo! ❤️

[@rebekahoj]

your words have helped call me back home today and i am very grateful.

[@silasreef5926]

"You deserve what you're going through. You would rather become good tomorrow than be good today" Damn it hurt so much. I took it personally

[@BlueMoon-vf9lc]

Wild, for the past few days I’ve been feeling like I’ve allowed myself to relax in various areas of life when I know more action should be taken. You’re absolutely right, it takes just a shift in mindset to look at something that as a whole seems insurmountable and to break it down into the small task of doing what you can this moment. Good reminder 👍 Seems like common sense but common sense isn’t really all that common, is it 😅

[@jCrItCh5]

This is the most absolute reality check I have ever heard... God Bless You Brother... And Thank You...

[@asmaahadir3883]

Your words are just absolutely incredible. Much love from Morocco

[@backtoshellac6459]

I was going to skip my nightly workout and settled into bed just as this video popped up in my feed. I'm changing now, its time to feel the burn

[@lengezz]

Another deep cut. Wow. Grateful for your channel.

[@Cy4nSw4n]

I think out of all your advice, this is the one I struggle with most. I do have my "excuses." But excuses are pointless. Ultimately, postponing yourself only hurts yourself. I don't want to hurt myself anymore...

[@pogostemoncablin4507]

Hi 👋 I wanted to thank you a lot, you've helped me with my constant anxiety. I would run from situations and people, lie on my resume and in interviews, make up extra details telling a story to impress a potential partner, etc. It never dawned on me that this is unnatural. I always thought I was a straightforward person. In reality my actions didn't reflect this at all. This video and your explanation of the quote, brought me tremendous clarity and comfort, to know that all it takes is acting like my ideal self in this present moment and that every other point in time contributes nothing but unnecessary agony to my mind. You're truly awesome and a gift to the KZbin community.

[@rafi7338]

Thanks again for your wisdom. I think this is one places I find worthy spending the time not doing any work.

[@Nyorane]

Incredible, thank you.

[@sanjuktachauhan3340]

Whoever you are, thank you. 🌻

[@EuCarolCoelho]

You're necessary. Thanks!

[@kitni]

the universe must have sent your video to me, and i am more than grateful.

[@LBABYLiN]

Im putting that on my fridge "this moment is all there is" 💜

[@slowsedation]

thank you, you're a gift

[@maramseyam8601]

the last few minutes are always my favorite

[@ovillarejo]

This channel is incredible. A lot of wisdom to be shared and so many expressions to learn in this beautiful language. Greetings from Brazil!

[@JAHmetRAY]

Hey! I keep dealing with a romantic situation that literally cause me suffering and despair. I keep choosing it over and over and today I said no more for the last time. And I found your video validating that for me. 20 seconds of insane courage coupled with your words. I know that I be and be WITH the person I truly desire❤

[@hanne1606]

Thank you ❤

[@CrustaceousB]

The way that you break ideas down into functional real world explanations is just fantastic. Keep up the great work my friend!

[@mg8565]

I was most certainly guided here, and needed this message. Thank you.

[@Foxy64]

Thank you so much for what you do brother , this really resonated me on a deep level as i find myself in this very struggle right now . I heard a quote a couple of years ago that was attributed to Abraham Lincoln , it said , " Discipline is choosing between what you want now , and what you want most " i think it kind of sums up everything you said in this video . Thanks again , i appreciate what you do

[@CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger]

Words are like seeds of thought - you make the most of the present, a guidance to help others become better. When even one person strives, everyone you touch upon, will improve and today, becomes vastly better than yesterday. An eloquent thought for today, as Spring arrives, what will flower, what will bloom…

[@Matt_J95a]

This came to me at a time where I was really suffering. I appreciate your message. You seem like such a soothing soul man. Much love.

[@Englishroserebecca]

Very true. I keep putting off exercising until tomorrow. I keep putting off meditating until tomorrow. It’s not hard, but I make excuses all the time.

[@vanodyssey1659]

If not now.... When....?

[@cosmosrula]

So beautifully put . Best channel ever

[@sabrinaszabo9355]

Inspires us to become better you said, integrity is developed, after all. But we should always strive to be better. It’s a never ending nonlinear path. Circling around itself.

[@LisaBoulders]

Good solid advice. I'm also a Marcus Aurelius devotee.

[@vincentgros]

that's a great quote and video. I have been feeling that in the last weeks, that my work has to be done every waking moment. And that I had all the tools I needed, that I studied long enough to know there was no deeper work than choosing my emotions every single moment of awareness I can grasp, especially going through a normal day with work, activities and people.

[@NettaMonique]

Sir, you are appreciated ty for this

[@caradonnelly7335]

a modern day philosopher, bravo 👏❤❤

[@megan8832]

I have a deep belief that I’m just gonna fail. Even if I start I’m gonna stop at some point. I need to unlearn this belief

[@Snowyness]

Enlightenment never fails to bring solace. Thank you for spreading your insights for us, it has really helped me feel better in difficult times.

[@chrissylater5863]

There's so much logic in everything you say, it's absurd how it's not obvious to us

[@46TheKurde]

This just gold content on youtube for humanity. Thak you for your honest words...

[@ovidiudrobota2182]

You are so right! Complacency, ignorance, and laziness are the true enemies of growth. People love the comfort zone - whatever makes them uncomfortable they avoid. I've been struggling with toxic shame, social anxiety, and feeling painfully self-conscious in social situations. But in the past five years, I did my best to overcome those maladies. What do you recommend for feeling self-conscious? What's your take on that? Any advice would be much appreciated.

[@acceptingtheuniverse]

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[@tfhigginson]

Wise words as always, thank you

[@ShreeNation]

I've been binging your videos for 2 weeks now. Thank you for all you do 🙏

[@Lisa411_]

love the honesty part and this one moment is all there is

[@oeno6301]

In the next three months, my whole life will be completely different as I will be moving to a foreign country for higher education. As someone who is extremely introverted and socially anxious, I am really nervous about the idea of living alone without my family and their support. I have been anxious all the time and its causing me a lot of stress. Hearing you emphasize the importance of living in the present and taking actions according to the moment eased a lot of tension in me. I am letting go the tensions of the future and burdens of the past. What matters in this singular present and the actions I take here. Thank you so much for this comfort

[@crossingtheline4372]

I am in my 60s. Please take full advantage of this upcoming adventure. You will not regret seizing the opportunities that will come your way. Cheers!

[@oeno6301]

@@crossingtheline4372 Thank you for your message. I'll definitely take your advice and make the most of my time there!! I'm really excited for this new chapter of my life :)

[@aicha1031]

I always watch and listen to ur videos I just realized I never said that u look majestic, thanks this was needed

[@AsherIsbrucker]

Lucid and revelatory. This came across my homepage at just the right time, this is something I dearly needed to hear, and I thank you for it. Big fan of your channel and these videos are an antidote to the kind of race-to-the-bottom mass-appeal content that plagues KZbin. Subscribed.

[@rameezmalik2069]

This one moment that is all there is ! Universal truth

[@wesleylloyd3403]

That’s beautiful. Thank you for helping me in a beautiful way

[@SylviSinclair]

I've been watching through your videos over the past few weeks. I really think your channel is going to majorly help thousands of people. Better than therapy for many. Keep it up!

[@cloutiec]

Thank you, this video added value for me tonight.

[@nikeshgupta5040]

Powerful, This will stay with me. Thank you.

[@devanmauch7843]

I already listened to this about three times now and it is incredible to me how I learned something new each time I understand that more and more. I find a similar thing happening with Alan Watts lectures and other philosophical content on KZbin.

[@yildiz9557]

I agree 100% and all the series of challenges I went and still am going through are changing me. One of these things is to become more of practical than a dreamer and shut my heart for the time being and let my decisions even relationship related become head over heart. I can’t let my heart suffer more that he did.

[@aliciadaleni]

Sharing your thoughts & perspective is extremely soothing especially when it’s an accumulation of thoughts of others from the past, books you read, your observations and possibly your ability to listen to others. Now it reaches those who come across this channel & it’s soothing in a weird way, it’s like a pool of thoughts, even those who don’t come across these videos are definitely having similar thoughts no matter the educational background or language barrier thoughts are similar in a way & it’s like a sort of connection that’s nice to know we have.

[@Hegericc]

Man, I really appreciate this video. It is a lot less daunting of a task to frame your mind as "Will I be the kind of person that does x today?", instead of the easy to procrastinate mindset of "I need to become more x" for an ambiguous future. I rarely get a message that truly resonates and actually helps me from one of these sorts of videos, but this perspective really made a difference.

[@BasharHassan-iz2mw]

This is incredible! Life-changing video for me imo. Only now matters..astonishing..thank you man

[@JJG0818]

Loved this vid! Would love to hear your take on anxious attachment! Been struggling with it for years. Thank you in advanced!