This happens to you when you chase women who don't like you.

[@Justjina]

Am a woman and I can state emphatically that when we don't love you, we use you. We spend your money, we waste your time, we give you wrong impressions, just so that we can keep draining you.

[@ReaktnChill]

That's messed up. Men, go for woman who are really interested.

[@olajidelawal2924]

Thank you,for this conversation, I was once a prey thank yoi

[@Jessebray129]

Thank you sheeeesh

[@mykester796]

Then don’t get mad when you get burned back, either figuratively or literally 🔥😈

[@foodmens]

But why though? Why be so wicked?

[@joesillamanrs7189]

This is critical advice. Do not chase them!!! I’ve been there, it’s not worth it

[@pierramunuku]

I always say it's pretty simple: if a woman is uninterested, move on. That's all. Never chase or convince anyone to like you. A person either likes you or not, focus on those who do.

[@elinamkwakutsey4045]

Please Thank You

[@Chunkie_Bwoy]

true true

[@jamesmaina8328]

u r wise bro

[@johannes6760]

In the old days people would grow in desire for eachother. They would grow in attraction to eachother. In the old days before internet.

[@josepholdham1159]

"Never fight with a pig in the mud." That's a fantastic analogy Jessica, I wish that someone like you had been around when I was a teenager

[@ocheroronald1628]

Thank you Jessica. My girlfriend shocked me when she said she wants us to be friends after two years. I'm so emotional and I can't believe. I have decided to move on and focus on myself and dreams. I have decided to cut contact with her and be silent. Thank you for your help 🙏🏼

[@mrquick6775]

She found somebody else! Most modern day women do this quite a bit! Just go on with your life and never look back, the trick is finding a woman that YOU’RE attracted to that likes you more than you like her. I say this because the object is not to play games, but to find a woman with the highest interest level possible! By doing that, you are making sure that she likes you for you and not for the wrong reasons! 😊 Peace and blessings’

[@tomtomjustsayit8514]

I have been there in my early days of dating, I dressed nice, great smile, smell good, somehow charismatic, but my problem was that I was too nice. Being nice is the absolute worst thing a man can do, to be honest be a savage.

[@DJTravTV]

THIS video is speaking volumes to me because I was literally thinking if I was trying to hard for a girl I’ve been chasing for the past 6 months. Both my mother and best friend told me the exact same things you are. I’m going to keep my distance from her and not peruse her any further

[@thankgod105]

Beautiful... Give her distance, she'll come running back to you.

[@kerrykelly2119]

Thanks you so much for your educative ideas

[@josespinola3853]

The bitch has someone else in mind. Move on buddy

[@nnoromvictor1033]

Lol I chased a girl for 1 year bro

[@thankgod105]

@@nnoromvictor1033 Have you won world gold medal?🤣

[@tony_gordon]

Much love from kenya ❤️🇰🇪

[@Berthasglobe]

This is highly truth and can only be said here, no matter how much effort you put in relation it the person is not into it nothing will put them inn, great job always Jesi 👏🏽😊

[@walterkn4248]

Every upload on this channel is a great learning experience, thanks Jessy.

[@Chunkie_Bwoy]

thenks jessie 🙏

[@bietdeszimel9047]

She's speaking like she's reading a novel respect to ur work it's absolutely great

[@chuk4292]

i learnt this lesson the hard way. they just waste your time and resources until you have nothing left to give out freely and she bails completely with a bang of clear disrespect .

[@michaelnwosu1587]

This actually helped me thank you. I was struggling with this recently, and already decided to give up on her before watching this video but it just reassured me that I was making the correct decision.

[@living_craft]

This one really hit hard..thank you Jessica. I will take the advice.

[@aaronmoforo4691]

You are an inspiration to alot of men on the 🌎

[@JessicaOS]

Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

[@givenmashimbye4158]

I Real Personal Do Appreciate You Jess For The Wonderful Wisdom And Advice Are You Giving To Us , May The Lord Living Creator Be With You . Thank You Once And More

[@amosogaji8953]

Hats off to the estimable Jessica. I take notes whenever I watch your videos. Many thanks.

[@mosaton]

I had this one girl who said, "People have called me two-faced." BOY OH BOY I should have believed her. Remember, believe people when they tell you who they are, the FIRST time!

[@happyukereti6123]

You're very correct, Jessica. That's exactly what I'm going through right now. I always play the Mr. Nice guy, and that has made me dirty myself the more. But guess what, a word is enough for the wise.

[@carlosdlonga6507]

6:02 i agree, the irony is that she complained that her ex didnt care about her and barely communicate with her, so imagine how frustrating is the situation.. Anyway i agree so far your feedback

[@samuelwebster2769]

Thank you Jessica, She was attracted we kissed the first few dates... Then she was aloof short texts that took awhile to reply to.. But we had a good time together.. I'm a nice but she friend zoned me.. So walked away it's been two months no contact.. I am hurting and it's taking time to get over her.. I am sad because I've struggled with insecurities all my life because of learning difficulties that's held me back in every aspect of life ..

[@misheckchitala3100]

You are the best May God bless you, for helping us through your teaching’s 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@michaeljewell53]

Thank you Jessica you are so totally accurate with all you say and it's hard to accept the truth sometimes coz it hurts but I really need to save this to favourites list so I can come back and remind myself of important points,you are brilliant at this type of thing💯 please keep videos coming as we need you xx

[@slybright1997]

I know mine won't be different from the rest but I will say thank you so much, you don't know how much you have contributed to my life

[@radiocontrolcardevelopment7329]

Jessica I love you, when I hear you talking, you are smart, confident, you have a great pronunciation and seem well educated. Dream woman!

[@morrismwenda9138]

*I love Jess ❤️❤️* *Very True Jess I would rather chase money than women* *If she don't like you stop chasing and move on*

[@weluvmusick]

You are so right this was very helpful 😅

[@StanslousDizombah]

Thank you Jessica for this one

[@Mohamedalijama143]

Couldn't agree more dear Jessica!

[@verondalytle7858]

You and your videos are AWESOME!!!!! Thank you for you and them,,, carry on.

[@Kenshi-Himrua]

I would say that you are correctly right about me. Listening to this I got smarter about my crush hope things goes well.

[@jonathankoran7518]

I'm really grateful for your works, I've been learning a lot from your videos and it has helped me to know more about relationships. thank you once again

[@nelsongoncalves5379]

The best coach ever love it I was in this situation before, happens to me, I think I’m not the only one, but life teaches me, now I know went to 🛑 stop, and go, Jessica you are the best thank you always

[@sl8094]

thanks Jess...my eyes have been opened since following you.Been looking for a genuine African dating specialist for so long.Funny enough i am going through the same situation today.😅 This video is god sent.100

[@touchtzman6601]

Much love Jessica thanks ❤️

[@michealparish4950]

I love your works Jenny, you’re so amazing!

[@bartholomewemeka67]

Thank you so much Jessica, you are doing more than enough to change lives and behavior for good. Keep up the good work!

[@osimu20]

Where have you been Jesica.. I have been looking for your videos..

[@JessicaOS]

Right here

[@yws4645]

This is the video I needed. Thank you.

[@gibsonbarine9113]

Thanks so much,this is absolutely the truth

[@donaldlee4098]

I just seen her on video. We have never talked to each other face to face. She knows it over. I'm in America, she's in Philippines

[@michaelg7456]

Another great one! but Jess ... I'm a nice guy! One saying says, nice guys finish last. Another saying says, the last shall become first! 😀✈️🧳🗺️🇺🇸🇳🇬

[@gotebohr1123]

Awesome Jessica..I love this

[@eddielester3589]

Great advice....!!...

[@brunobrym2424]

I think am the nicest guy and need to change 🤔😂

[@Andrew-vw4vl]

True, If it’s not 50/50 it it’s a turn off for me

[@hightopfad]

I so needed this! A thousand thank you! And blessings for you ❤️

[@ht2769]

Great woman.Thank you Jessica

[@mhlengimbokazi4106]

Thoroughly and straight forward

[@patriotz4eva975]

Thanks jessy❤

[@emmanuelchukwu8331]

Great Advice

[@Yomi474]

i was actually going through this kind of situation right now, but watching this video right now changes my orientation, thanks Jessica

[@jamesbedukodjograham5508]

Thank you Jessica OS. Plus since sex is part of life and you should advice the young about STDs in our part of the globe.

[@jamesbedukodjograham5508]

Simple if a woman doesn't like you it is far better to chase another woman. Such Girls will never show make time for you or even give you a nice gift to enjoy. That is why you should wait for you God Given Soul Mate. And my fellow men make sure you fingers are well groomed. That is why they say women are quite difficult.

[@dumezcaz5083]

We love that phrase {Never fight with muddy pigs}✔👍....

[@uls9687]

Thank you.

[@emmanuelakan5945]

I will never chase women I love who is fully available.

[@rayon6367]

Everything you said was true im like that😩

[@Ori9inalL3e]

Thank you ma’am. ❤

[@katobenjamin9419]

I had moved on from my girlfriend who ended the relationship with me earlier this year, it was a painful experience. We spent time not talking no nothing until of recent when she came saying that she might have made a mistake. Truth is I do live her, am working but am far away from her. And yes we are now in a long distance relationship, but I don't know why I always get tho extreme paranoia, am always suspicious, I live in fear that maybe its all fake that she's just pathetic. Why is it that ? What should be my reaction because am protecting myself I dont want to get hurt anymore

[@derwoodhamburger]

Love and respect are 2 different things. You can like someone and not respect them, you can respect someone but not like them. A woman can't love you unless she respects you. As a man, you should seek respect, not love. Respect must come first. While you can't force her to love you, you can force her to respect you. Whether she likes it or not. The art of the deal is be willing to lose her, walk away and mean it

[@eleazarvoxpop2899]

In this current Ghana? even if dey don't like you, dey will accept the date and ignore u after...😂😂😂😂

[@ezrabasil654]

They'll just come to eat

[@sl8094]

man i feel like im listening to a pastor speak about me...lol..so accurate.

[@Afri212]

Thanks very much

[@JohnM...]

You can have chemistry, without her 'seeing you THAT way' = friendship 🤢🤮

[@achysyl]

Bless you more❤❤

[@martinmusokem5765]

Thank you Jessica.

[@solomonojeigbo6882]

I love 💕 you. Thanks again from Naija

[@tossmc]

♫ ♪ ♫ Thank you Jessica, .... you're on point and i love and appreciate your videos, especially this one, because we guys have "acts of desperation" that we either ignore or aren't very aware of. You're so right, thank you. ... oh and you're soo cute too.

[@ngk_dexter]

Thanks so much this video was really useful🖤

[@theoasis5662]

Ma, you just talked directly to me 😀

[@mainaben135]

Good advice

[@kobbyonegh]

I will always look up to you

[@odoyadesmondgeorge3298]

Miss Jessica you are too good 🙌👋😯💕

[@belkea]

GR8 presentation!

[@nathanielaboagye3795]

No 5 is always the case😂. Just bounce bro

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

Hmmmmmm This is mind blowing

[@sahryamba4661]

Never you encouraged or chase a woman who doesn't like you You will be option to her and be chasing rejection

[@tesaidafe]

You are good 👍

[@championzbeat]

Why can't I get other girls attention. But I'm in a relationship

[@nicholashickman8528]

Don't chase a woman that is not interested in you.

[@notetomenwomen]

Greetings family 👪 Watching from Taung Botswana 🇧🇼 Africa 😍 Thank You good people for this 👌

[@donaldlee4098]

Hi Jessica I have never seen her in person neither have I ever been on a date with her where thousands of miles apart I have never given her any money I have never looked at a video of her since the 26th of December which is about ten days we are not communicating at all it's been over since then so I don't know what else is expected of me but there's nothing expected of me. Simply because I've only seen her on video

[@jameskachi8980]

your channel is the best.

[@agyeimaxwell.]

Keep being amazing 😍🤜👏

[@elinamkwakutsey4045]

Please educate me ooo. Why must I be around any woman that treats me like that.

[@aldehorte]

Thanks for your wisdom. Priceless stuff

[@aezean5618]

I chased her and eventually married her. But I still find myself chasing her even today. I wish I had seen this video 12 yrs ago. Reason, I am a “nice guy.” What’s the name of the song on the background?

[@andrearudi3320]

Please can you do a video on, chemistry. how can a guy, me 🤦, if that is what is missing, unknowingly to me. Or if there's any video, of how a guy can have chemistry. Sending this message from Germany. Looking forward to hear from you. Thank you.. you doing a great job.

[@1972miller1]

❤❤❤❤thank you

[@fredrickkiwala6767]

You have just preached to me indirectly,,,, there is one am chancing,,,,,I think I'll dtop

[@larrysorillo]

Hey Jessica so I need your help I have feelings for my best friend and I don't know how to tell her

[@nana1official]

Y'all fellas out there listen to Jessy and stop being simps!! Don't chase no damn gal😍

[@quayestephen9553]

Thanks for this piece @Jessica But please my issue here is forgetting about this girl is very haaard for me. I forget about her 1week later then I am still into her,as in I always feel I must do something right for her to reciprocate the love energy I am giving her. Any help

[@williammutisya6880]

🤜👍Amazing.

[@ernestj.b.danquah873]

Being a nice guy doesn't help at all. If she's not interested, move.

[@meljahic519]

What mean nice??? I Ben told, that I'm too nice, need to be little wild?? How?? please explain what is definition of TOO NICE.. Thank you..

[@ernestj.b.danquah873]

@@meljahic519 Always being there, providing all that she asks, etc

[@cbcarlson5008cc]

Take the loss and walk away , more then one woman in the world , respect yourself

[@aleksmukiibi549]

Am suffering from 1..5..6

[@BritonOlembo]

what do you do if your girlfriends Parents despise your tribe and they are against the relationship

[@khallachhind7358]

Kat9atli bdahk dayra l7ar9ouss f3inik katchabhi lmouhsine yakma kayjik weldek