This happens to you when you chase women who don't like you.

[@jeorjitakornu]

Am a woman and I can state emphatically that when we don't love you, we use you. We spend your money, we waste your time, we give you wrong impressions, just so that we can keep draining you.

[@ReaktnChill]

That's messed up. Men, go for woman who are really interested.

[@olajidelawal2924]

Thank you,for this conversation, I was once a prey thank yoi

[@Jessebray129]

Thank you sheeeesh

[@mykester796]

Then don’t get mad when you get burned back, either figuratively or literally 🔥😈

[@pierramunuku]

I always say it's pretty simple: if a woman is uninterested, move on. That's all. Never chase or convince anyone to like you. A person either likes you or not, focus on those who do.

[@elinamkwakutsey4045]

Please Thank You

[@GoldNation_ink]

true true

[@jamesmaina8328]

u r wise bro

[@johannes6760]

In the old days people would grow in desire for eachother. They would grow in attraction to eachother. In the old days before internet.

[@tomtomjustsayit8514]

I have been there in my early days of dating, I dressed nice, great smile, smell good, somehow charismatic, but my problem was that I was too nice. Being nice is the absolute worst thing a man can do, to be honest be a savage.

[@joesillamanrs7189]

This is critical advice. Do not chase them!!! I’ve been there, it’s not worth it

[@ocheroronald1628]

Thank you Jessica. My girlfriend shocked me when she said she wants us to be friends after two years. I'm so emotional and I can't believe. I have decided to move on and focus on myself and dreams. I have decided to cut contact with her and be silent. Thank you for your help 🙏🏼

[@mrquick6775]

She found somebody else! Most modern day women do this quite a bit! Just go on with your life and never look back, the trick is finding a woman that YOU’RE attracted to that likes you more than you like her. I say this because the object is not to play games, but to find a woman with the highest interest level possible! By doing that, you are making sure that she likes you for you and not for the wrong reasons! 😊 Peace and blessings’

[@josepholdham1159]

"Never fight with a pig in the mud." That's a fantastic analogy Jessica, I wish that someone like you had been around when I was a teenager

[@JessicaOS]

Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

[@givenmashimbye4158]

I Real Personal Do Appreciate You Jess For The Wonderful Wisdom And Advice Are You Giving To Us , May The Lord Living Creator Be With You . Thank You Once And More

[@mosaton]

I had this one girl who said, "People have called me two-faced." BOY OH BOY I should have believed her. Remember, believe people when they tell you who they are, the FIRST time!

[@DJTravTV]

THIS video is speaking volumes to me because I was literally thinking if I was trying to hard for a girl I’ve been chasing for the past 6 months. Both my mother and best friend told me the exact same things you are. I’m going to keep my distance from her and not peruse her any further

[@thankgod105]

Beautiful... Give her distance, she'll come running back to you.

[@kerrykelly2119]

Thanks you so much for your educative ideas

[@josespinola3853]

The bitch has someone else in mind. Move on buddy

[@nnoromvictor1033]

Lol I chased a girl for 1 year bro

[@thankgod105]

@@nnoromvictor1033 Have you won world gold medal?🤣

[@tony_gordon]

Much love from kenya ❤️🇰🇪

[@TUXMAN06]

I chase money not broads🍼

[@jamesbedukodjograham5508]

Simple if a woman doesn't like you it is far better to chase another woman. Such Girls will never show make time for you or even give you a nice gift to enjoy. That is why you should wait for you God Given Soul Mate. And my fellow men make sure you fingers are well groomed. That is why they say women are quite difficult.

[@walterkn4248]

Every upload on this channel is a great learning experience, thanks Jessy.

[@michaelnwosu1587]

This actually helped me thank you. I was struggling with this recently, and already decided to give up on her before watching this video but it just reassured me that I was making the correct decision.

[@michaeljewell53]

Thank you Jessica you are so totally accurate with all you say and it's hard to accept the truth sometimes coz it hurts but I really need to save this to favourites list so I can come back and remind myself of important points,you are brilliant at this type of thing💯 please keep videos coming as we need you xx

[@living_craft]

This one really hit hard..thank you Jessica. I will take the advice.

[@katobenjamin9419]

I had moved on from my girlfriend who ended the relationship with me earlier this year, it was a painful experience. We spent time not talking no nothing until of recent when she came saying that she might have made a mistake. Truth is I do live her, am working but am far away from her. And yes we are now in a long distance relationship, but I don't know why I always get tho extreme paranoia, am always suspicious, I live in fear that maybe its all fake that she's just pathetic. Why is it that ? What should be my reaction because am protecting myself I dont want to get hurt anymore

[@jonathankoran7518]

I'm really grateful for your works, I've been learning a lot from your videos and it has helped me to know more about relationships. thank you once again

[@carlosdlonga6507]

6:02 i agree, the irony is that she complained that her ex didnt care about her and barely communicate with her, so imagine how frustrating is the situation.. Anyway i agree so far your feedback

[@bietdeszimel9047]

She's speaking like she's reading a novel respect to ur work it's absolutely great

[@brunobrym2424]

I think am the nicest guy and need to change 🤔😂

[@Berthasglobe]

This is highly truth and can only be said here, no matter how much effort you put in relation it the person is not into it nothing will put them inn, great job always Jesi 👏🏽😊

[@eleazarvoxpop2899]

In this current Ghana? even if dey don't like you, dey will accept the date and ignore u after...😂😂😂😂

[@ezrabasil654]

They'll just come to eat

[@JohnM...]

You can have chemistry, without her 'seeing you THAT way' = friendship 🤢🤮

[@aezean5618]

I chased her and eventually married her. But I still find myself chasing her even today. I wish I had seen this video 12 yrs ago. Reason, I am a “nice guy.” What’s the name of the song on the background?

[@championzbeat]

Why can't I get other girls attention. But I'm in a relationship

[@thyeocroft205]

The road to million subscriber club... GH Prenuim youtuber

[@emmanuelakan5945]

I will never chase women I love who is fully available.

[@sl8094]

man i feel like im listening to a pastor speak about me...lol..so accurate.

[@aaronmoforo4691]

You are an inspiration to alot of men on the 🌎

[@slybright1997]

I know mine won't be different from the rest but I will say thank you so much, you don't know how much you have contributed to my life

[@amosogaji8953]

Hats off to the estimable Jessica. I take notes whenever I watch your videos. Many thanks.

[@primetestimonychannel5557]

Herrrrr Jesica when I see you in cap and jeans and don on your Tom boy stuff I go crazy cos you're just like my kid sister. I like you tooo moch.

[@osimu20]

Where have you been Jesica.. I have been looking for your videos..

[@JessicaOS]

Right here

[@HassanJalloh-er6om]

Jessica hello, just an Advice Twin Beautiful Angel, chasing who doesn't noticed u Jessica, so Interesting, missing u much, what up Dearest Jessica hope ur not breaking Desire,..

[@Jessebray129]

All i atrract is private eyes undercovers honeytraps...😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@tossmc]

♫ ♪ ♫ Thank you Jessica, .... you're on point and i love and appreciate your videos, especially this one, because we guys have "acts of desperation" that we either ignore or aren't very aware of. You're so right, thank you. ... oh and you're soo cute too.

[@misheckchitala3100]

You are the best May God bless you, for helping us through your teaching’s 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@kofidaysta6376]

No disrespect Jessy but money would solve 90% of all this. And definitely, Women will chase you...

[@samuelwebster2769]

Thank you Jessica, She was attracted we kissed the first few dates... Then she was aloof short texts that took awhile to reply to.. But we had a good time together.. I'm a nice but she friend zoned me.. So walked away it's been two months no contact.. I am hurting and it's taking time to get over her.. I am sad because I've struggled with insecurities all my life because of learning difficulties that's held me back in every aspect of life ..

[@derwoodhamburger]

Love and respect are 2 different things. You can like someone and not respect them, you can respect someone but not like them. A woman can't love you unless she respects you. As a man, you should seek respect, not love. Respect must come first. While you can't force her to love you, you can force her to respect you. Whether she likes it or not. The art of the deal is be willing to lose her, walk away and mean it

[@happyukereti6123]

You're very correct, Jessica. That's exactly what I'm going through right now. I always play the Mr. Nice guy, and that has made me dirty myself the more. But guess what, a word is enough for the wise.

[@nelsongoncalves5379]

The best coach ever love it I was in this situation before, happens to me, I think I’m not the only one, but life teaches me, now I know went to 🛑 stop, and go, Jessica you are the best thank you always

[@verondalytle7858]

You and your videos are AWESOME!!!!! Thank you for you and them,,, carry on.

[@Jessebray129]

See hispanic women treat you for you black women you damn near gotta be mossad with a billion dollars

[@ekisaherbert4098]

My girlfriend is so affectionate to me when we are in private but she barely shows affection in Public, Not even a Hug! pls advise me thanks

[@kimwilliams5165]

Your girl, as long as she acknowledges you in public as her bf, may just be reserved or conservative. The question is, was she more affectionate toward her ex? Keep in mind it could be an issue of culture, family, past rumors, or religion. Is the issue for you a lack of affection, or feeling like she is presenting as single in public, do you fear a lack of commitment?

[@donaldlee4098]

Hi Jessica I have never seen her in person neither have I ever been on a date with her where thousands of miles apart I have never given her any money I have never looked at a video of her since the 26th of December which is about ten days we are not communicating at all it's been over since then so I don't know what else is expected of me but there's nothing expected of me. Simply because I've only seen her on video

[@ernestj.b.danquah873]

Being a nice guy doesn't help at all. If she's not interested, move.

[@meljahic519]

What mean nice??? I Ben told, that I'm too nice, need to be little wild?? How?? please explain what is definition of TOO NICE.. Thank you..

[@ernestj.b.danquah873]

@@meljahic519 Always being there, providing all that she asks, etc

[@chuk4292]

i learnt this lesson the hard way. they just waste your time and resources until you have nothing left to give out freely and she bails completely with a bang of clear disrespect .

[@sl8094]

thanks Jess...my eyes have been opened since following you.Been looking for a genuine African dating specialist for so long.Funny enough i am going through the same situation today.😅 This video is god sent.100

[@dumezcaz5083]

We love that phrase {Never fight with muddy pigs}✔👍....

[@michealparish4950]

I love your works Jenny, you’re so amazing!

[@marvinking9874]

I don't go after woman I work on my golds

[@nathanielaboagye3795]

No 5 is always the case😂. Just bounce bro

[@weluvmusick]

You are so right this was very helpful 😅

[@mogausephewu3442]

Before meeting Jes vl9g I think I didn't value myself that much but noe I'm on fully steroid when it comes to self love respect and worth I tolerate no nonsense I am turning into a man I always wished to N oh can you please cover out the one with modern reality of young men watching porn how it affects them

[@GoldNation_ink]

thenks jessie 🙏

[@lstevens5592]

In other words stop trying to live in Heaven with the devl. It’s not possible.

[@touchtzman6601]

Much love Jessica thanks ❤️

[@rayon6367]

Everything you said was true im like that😩

[@TheMateriaalkunde]

Go and learn to dance in couples.. This is the place to meet women and have a choice.

[@khallachhind7358]

Kat9atli bdahk dayra l7ar9ouss f3inik katchabhi lmouhsine yakma kayjik weldek

[@thyeocroft205]

Lol... Do comments really follow ur guidelines?

[@thehealthbodyfitness]

Sounds Like This Girl I use Talk To 2019 we hookup few times it’s was one sided I was doing all the the work at that time she was sleeping on floor at her very small room I brought her a bed to sleep on she she lied about being pregnant she wanted 500 dollars for the abortion I didn’t give nothing told me she couldn’t sleep on it because of the springs in the bed chase her for year on an off but 2021 I then reach out to her ask her she then told me we Never Date then Blocked Me some how i guess she unblocked me on ig I Never Looked Back I Moved On it was Tuff I Did Liked Her A lot A lot to point were I was stressing over her it was insane I’ve Learned But All that to say I Moved On Her Lost she will Never Get Another Chance will With Me Again that’s what it was I was trying to convince myself so hard to win her over But I’ve Learned that’s Not it Chasing Women Never Chase Move On Forward an Never Look Back

[@patrigejonhera7619]

If l don't chase women should l wait for her to come to me pls help

[@anasb.8681]

Sorry, we don't chase women anymore. It is not worth it.

[@ht2769]

Great woman.Thank you Jessica

[@nicholashickman8528]

Don't chase a woman that is not interested in you.

[@radiocontrolcardevelopment7329]

Jessica I love you, when I hear you talking, you are smart, confident, you have a great pronunciation and seem well educated. Dream woman!

[@nana1official]

Y'all fellas out there listen to Jessy and stop being simps!! Don't chase no damn gal😍

[@StanslousDizombah]

Thank you Jessica for this one

[@ridonngandu8290]

Pay attention to those who pay attention to you.

[@andrearudi3320]

Please can you do a video on, chemistry. how can a guy, me 🤦, if that is what is missing, unknowingly to me. Or if there's any video, of how a guy can have chemistry. Sending this message from Germany. Looking forward to hear from you. Thank you.. you doing a great job.

[@ngk_dexter]

Thanks so much this video was really useful🖤

[@yws4645]

This is the video I needed. Thank you.

[@agyeimaxwell.]

Keep being amazing 😍🤜👏

[@tefokgafela4993]

How can I put this, anyway thanks Jessica, am your biggest fan hey, . Botswana 🇧🇼

[@quayestephen9553]

Thanks for this piece @Jessica But please my issue here is forgetting about this girl is very haaard for me. I forget about her 1week later then I am still into her,as in I always feel I must do something right for her to reciprocate the love energy I am giving her. Any help

[@dougcancellara4065]

Hi Jessica, really like your videos, wanted your opinion on this situation I have a older woman in my life that I used to date and then friends with benefits, have not been sexual with her for 6 months and last week she sent me a nude selfie, but when I pursed, she said I Don’t Know Any thought? Thanks. Doug

[@donaldlee4098]

I just seen her on video. We have never talked to each other face to face. She knows it over. I'm in America, she's in Philippines

[@morrismwenda9138]

*I love Jess ❤️❤️* *Very True Jess I would rather chase money than women* *If she don't like you stop chasing and move on*

[@fredrickkiwala6767]

You have just preached to me indirectly,,,, there is one am chancing,,,,,I think I'll dtop

[@hightopfad]

I so needed this! A thousand thank you! And blessings for you ❤️

[@thijsfmedia]

Can you make a video about why the dumper unfollowed you on instagram?

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

Hmmmmmm This is mind blowing

[@sherloncampbell6314]

Can I ask you some what does it mean when a female say ( I tell you when to call ) or when you say to her ( I called you on she said I am really sleppy? ) I try calling her it when to voicemail all 3 number )It Saturday the weekend ! I have been is this situation be on it was like on a weekend I was calling her on the number ring on when to voicemail am just going to tell her just do you on we both grown no need for games

[@michaelg7456]

Another great one! but Jess ... I'm a nice guy! One saying says, nice guys finish last. Another saying says, the last shall become first! 😀✈️🧳🗺️🇺🇸🇳🇬

[@kengy9861]

I would say that you are correctly right about me. Listening to this I got smarter about my crush hope things goes well.

[@larrysorillo]

Hey Jessica so I need your help I have feelings for my best friend and I don't know how to tell her

[@GabrielAddai0]

If someone doesn’t like you Don’t even care Just go away and live your life

[@GabrielAddai0]

Ok thnx but i never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship before is weird am 22 years old yeah

[@bartholomewemeka67]

Thank you so much Jessica, you are doing more than enough to change lives and behavior for good. Keep up the good work!

[@achysyl]

Bless you more❤❤

[@comfortoni8202]

🙏

[@elinamkwakutsey4045]

Please educate me ooo. Why must I be around any woman that treats me like that.

[@BritonOlembo]

what do you do if your girlfriends Parents despise your tribe and they are against the relationship

[@solomonojeigbo6882]

I love 💕 you. Thanks again from Naija

[@erasmusagyapong8937]

i wanted to date a lady and she told me i can't date her now she knew i have money she wanted to come and visit me what should I do please

[@patriotz4eva975]

Thanks jessy❤

[@orvillenewell7760]

Stop look woman long time because them wicked to me

[@gibsonbarine9113]

Thanks so much,this is absolutely the truth