Taking ‘Jealous Ex’ To Another Level | Kendra Hatcher

[@DancingInSeptember.]

Girl.. Idk how you're still doing this.. The research, filming and editing. All while taking care of a new baby and a toddler at the same time?? You're still in the post partum stage too. I hope you know that its okay to take some time for yourself! If you need some time off PLEASE take it. We will be right here waiting ❤️ I'm 37 weeks with my second baby and I'm already struggling to keep up with my toddler now. I have no idea how much harder it will be after shes born! No sleep and constant feedings and also making sure your toddler gets enough care and attention all while trying to research and film new videos for us?? GIRL REST 😭 you're making me exhausted for you! ALLLLL the love and respect to you Queen ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ZaraV]

Haha Kandi thanks for your awesome comment you are SO sweet, but girl…there is no chance in hell I’m doing any of that right now! I have so many comments left to catch up on and I will get around to it 😅 You’re so right, newborn life and toddler life is taking up all my time right now! I have pre filmed and edited a bunch of videos so all that’s happening is my husband is uploading and finalising them for me! I’m definitely taking a few months off so don’t worry! Congratulations! I’m actually finding it pretty good second time around! My son loves to take care of his baby sis and so far my girl is sleeping and feeding most of the time so I’ve had time to rest too! Hope you have a safe and smooth delivery and baby is healthy and happy!

[@joanodom2104]

I did it (kids16 months apart) and kept 4 other kids M-F. We do what we have to do. We are much stronger than we think!!

[@kmagaly207]

😊

[@hayleylee9004]

I’m just trying

[@meganbukovinsky7385]

Amen sista

[@brandymcgregor85]

I’ve looked at my exes Facebook a long time ago, but I don’t recommend it. It just hurts your feelings. Now I just block all my exes and anyone connected to them.

[@ZaraV]

Omg it hurts so bad doesn’t it!! Even though you think it won’t

[@upshitcreek998]

Yep. When you see them posting how in love they are and how appreciative they are of this new person but they took advantage and for granted you, so they moved on. Crazy. No thank you, she will go through the same things too, just give him time to show his true colors.

[@elizabethd5641]

💯 I agree! Literally everything you see will just hurt you. If ur meant to be you’ll be even the time is right or you won’t & in the end it wouldn’t even matter. Don’t look! It unnecessary pain

[@AFBudgets]

Mine has been blocked 2 yrs I'm glad. Yuck

[@InTheNameOfLife1]

It’s definitely best to just cut the cord for sure

[@Dreamzyo]

Amazing video as always. Sympathetically and gracefully told. You are my fav true crime KZbinr hands down 🙌🙇 you deserve so many more subs and views I swear!!

[@rebeccaaires785]

Yes!! Wholeheartedly agree 💯❤️

[@ZaraV]

Aww you guys!! 💕 Thanks so much!

[@jenniferdobyns8940]

I am a firm believer in the "If you see something, say something" philosophy. If there is the tiniest chance of helping prevent something horrific from happening, I personally feel it is our duty to say something. Excellent video, you're my favorite! Enjoy your beautiful baby girl and toddler. Get your naps when you can, girl!

[@ZaraV]

Agree! It’s so true! I am enjoying my little sweetness! Luckily this time round sleep isn’t so hard to get! ♥️♥️♥️

[@KissOvKaras]

Are you the type to call CPS on anyone you may "suspect" of something because that isn't cool either. Have some evidence before going off saying shit please.

[@joanodom2104]

Melanie, WTF? Triggered much??

[@nikolefinger1747]

Absolutely. I've noticed so many people won't say anything because "snitches get stitches." One person I knew literally followed that idea so closely that they lost a job and were sexually harassed - by multiple people in multiple situations. I asked why they didn't report it when it happened at work, but they just said they didn't want anyone to think they're a snitch. I said those aren't the people you want to be around then.

[@paigelouxo]

Honestly was expecting you to have 1 millions plus subscribers when I looked and my jaw dropped to floor when u didn’t!! Honestly you deserve much more! Your voice isn’t too loud and very soothing to listen too. Subscribed straight away xx

[@morganzak6336]

Literally!

[@SaltyNau]

Saame, I totally agree!

[@alabama.worley]

The makeup is a turn off. It's goofy, distracting, and greatly limits her audience.

[@nicholechavez5819]

@@alabama.worley ur comment is goofy 🤪 … 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@alabama.worley]

@@nicholechavez5819 The irony is palpable.

[@rachelmcmillan6175]

I really feel like if someone you don’t know that well is comfortable enough to tell you that they want to kill someone and then give details about how they want it done, you should definitely be calling the police.

[@sneakyheathen4164]

Idc how many times I’ve heard a story, imma still listen to you tell it too! I love listening to you 💜

[@Ena48145]

I've seen quite a few videos on this case and WOW, the details I had NEVER even heard of or knew! You are absolutely fantastic at this and your diligence in the details give so much more justice towards the victims and their loved ones. I watched your Petit family video last night and again, I've seen countless videos on that horrific tragedy and you included information I had never known about prior.

[@doublecheese21]

Yeah, I agree Ricky actions seem very sus. Once I’m done with someone . I’m done. Especially if I am with someone new. Smh it’s so sad what happened to Kendra. She is just living life not knowing someone is plotting for her murder like wtf?! This world is insane. Happy Brenda is prison for LIFE!

[@pattythompson1888]

Just found your channel 😊 been on a binge watching... fantastic job. This one shocked me ... Kendra is buried right up the road from me here in Illinois & I've never heard this case. SOOO sad. Keep up the great jobs

[@ffawn]

Ugh, you look stunning with and without makeup, i wish i had a skin that pretty! Thanks for the video, keep up the good work!

[@ZaraV]

Aw thanks! I looked back at this video (it was filmed a few months ago) and I can’t believe how chubby my face was so that’s all I see! Haha

[@superstarpower1560]

My heart goes out to the families of Kendra, Brenda, and everyone else involved. It’s clear there is no winners I pray to God that all of them find peace.

[@Valeria-mq3qn]

Don’t forget about Ricky as well. I cannot begin to imagine his pain and guilt.

[@joanodom2104]

More Ricky than Brenda! Sheesh!

[@superstarpower1560]

@@Valeria-mq3qn Trust me when I say I feel sorry for everyone involved I mean EVERYONE including Ricky.

[@carriefawcett9990]

I don't feel sorry for Brenda! What a scumbag. She chose this, she caused so much pain.

[@dominiquetatum7034]

​@@joanodom2104Ricky is the cause of call the chaos. More Kendra and Brenda then Ricky

[@DVelez-wz3fe]

Reminds me of the 1986 murder of Sherri Rasmussen. Her husband also led on his crazy ex. Not sure what that’s about but I would feel guilty af.

[@angievincent3416]

That is a really great point! They are very similar.

[@sunnybearbuds]

In this case, two-thirds of the "triangle" weren't aware they were in a triangle.

[@morganzak6336]

This got suggested to me and girl ur my new favorite KZbinr I love how you tell stories and your personality so much😭💀

[@ZaraV]

Aww you're awesome Morgan!!

[@jamie6704]

Hope you and your baby are doing well! Hats off to you for being able to juggle everything, you're making it look so easy.

[@ZaraV]

Thanks Jamie! Trust me I ain’t filming or editing anything now! I’m enjoying the fourth trimester ♥️♥️♥️

[@jamie6704]

@@ZaraV well I love that for you! Congrats again!

[@Carolynsweetheart]

Beautiful girl. Such a soothing voice and a great story teller. Just subbed. You are excellent!

[@ChrissyHarlesss]

Girl you’re killing it!! I’ve watched you triple your subscriber account in only a few weeks :) I’m celebrating you hitting the algorithm 🎉

[@ZaraV]

Aw girl thank you so much for noticing! It's been a wild ride but I think it's chilling out a bit now haha

[@Honestdwarf]

How come you don’t have over a million followers? Your cases are well researched you are so compassionate, you always offer your opinion and most importantly you are the queen of story tellers. I wish you health, success, happiness and prosperity. I hope very soon you cross the line of one million subscribers. ❤️🌹😍🙏

[@ASIR-gg4ib]

Love your videos! He was only infatuated with Brenda it seems, you never know what happens behind closed doors. Maybe he noticed she was a bit too much into him and it freaked him out. Why he had contact with her after that is super weird I mean I’m friends with exes but we’re not up in each other’s lives like that may Kendra rest in peace.

[@dominiquetatum7034]

Because he probably was still having sex with her.

[@sunnybearbuds]

I've heard this case many times, but you really did a wonderful job!

[@Crystalwolf256]

I get it not being chosen by someone you love hurts I went through that a couple months ago but I decided to move on. I could never think of doing anything like this. So sad 😢

[@angm7276]

I’m not blaming Ricky or anything but…….. I mean, he should have cut her off completely, changed all his passwords, fired the mother, and never reached out To Brenda ever again. I mean she ends up at all the same places?? Red flags all over

[@faridaaminy9734]

I agree 💯

[@mlemgee]

I think he was possibly keeping her as a back-up plan for when inevitably things didn't work out with Kendra. He probably knew Brenda was obsessed and very dedicated to him... He was giving her little crumbs.

[@cassidycutright8879]

I grew up 15 minutes from pleasant plains! They were in our high school conference, played them in every sport. I graduated in 2016 and this is the first I’ve heard about this. Crazy!

[@itslaylaplays.8869]

You’re so relatable…. When you ask someone to look at a pic and they start swiping thru your photos 😂😂😳😂😂 give me back my phone 😂😂

[@ZaraV]

Hahaha the worst I swear! 🤣

[@emmyrose1802]

I think Ricky’s behavior is super strange.

[@sashapalma2033]

Same, it’s like he didn’t want to let go of Brenda but was with another woman. He’s either extremely delusional or was trying to have his cake and eat it too, if that makes sense. I definitely sort of blame him too for not stopping that relationship with Brenda.

[@MarieHumbleASMR]

I cannot pin point your accent but I love your voice so much!!! I could listen to you talk all day. ❤ so glad you popped up in my recommendations!

[@ZaraV]

Oh thank you! I am from Australia, but I agree, my accent is a little weird haha. I never liked my voice, but have lately heard that people like it! Maybe I should start a podcast or something 😂

[@MarieHumbleASMR]

@@ZaraV girl you really SHOULD!!!!

[@BriLyraM528]

I remember this cause she was on America's Most Wanted.....not many women do that. R.I.P. Kendra 😥 totally innocent 💙💛 The vid Zara 👍🏻 P.S. Ur right, It is hella weird for him to text Brenda after Kendra was killed.

[@ZaraV]

Right?! I find him so weird but not that he’s to blame! Just seems like he enjoyed the attention from Brenda

[@Shicole93]

I was the first like! What?! Ha! You’re beautiful girl! Keep up the hella good work!💙🐼💙 love from Tennessee~

[@ZaraV]

Hey Shelby!!! Hope you enjoyed and see you in this weeks video! ♥️

[@bethaknee8730]

Okay, I’ll admit I’ve looked in on my exs. But it is not normal. Your ex is allowed to set boundaries and you have no right to know what they’re doing anymore. I’m saying this knowing I have done it and it’s not right. I couldn’t move on and it was messed up. So I don’t agree it’s normal. Saying that makes it okay, and people are gonna take it further and further.

[@sneakyheathen4164]

Hey! I posted in my true crime on Facebook about you. I told the peeps over there that you deserve some love and far more subs than you have! I hope you have a bangin week and thank you for your hard work 💜💜💜💜

[@Valeria-mq3qn]

I lived at Park 17 for almost 5 years and I literally thought about Kendra almost everyday. Such a sad story.

[@Valeria-mq3qn]

40:25 the parking garage there requires a key fob for residents and you had to pay for guest parking. Also, the residence parking garage has a gate that shoots up and drops down super duper fast so it’s crazy that they were able to sneak through it behind someone.

[@Victoria-kk3ez]

My 3rd video from you I just watched. I’m so hooked. This is the 2nd story I hear you talk about from Texas. And I’m from Texas and I never heard about this 😅. Just subscribed,❤ enjoy your content.

[@ZaraV]

Awww yay! ♥️♥️

[@amytarot4104]

Beautiful video...but heartbreaking story.

[@tessavandebunt5411]

I just found your channel and I really like it. Keep up the good work ❤️

[@ZaraV]

♥️♥️💓

[@10delama]

Insane that nobody warned Ricky, especially the roommate. If she felt uncomfortable enough to move out she should have said something to him. As for Ricky, I think he was unfortunately just oblivious to her feelings. It seems like he genuinely thought it was an amicable breakup and that they could remain platonic friends.

[@ZaraV]

I agree! True maybe he really didn’t think much of her behaviour!

[@CCOMMENTS]

Oh my God you have not been showing up in my recommendation anymore gonna have to watch the videos I missed

[@ZaraV]

Noooo! Hope it’s gonna show up from now girl ❤️❤️❤️

[@shannonlee8864]

I have 3 children its not easy but hats off to you with your bundle of joy.. btw you are absolutely beautiful with and without make up..i wish i could not wear make up and get away with feeling great. Even if im running to the store for 2 sec i have to fix my face.. ha love your channel xxoo

[@MariMotherofGoblins]

It's hard to speculate about Ricky. Maybe he lost all his friends while dating Brenda, because of how obsessive she was. I wouldn't put it past someone who killed her ex's new girlfriend to be controlling or isolating while dating. Maybe he didn't have a lot of friends because of studying to be a doctor and didn't have anyone else to call when his new girl passed away.

[@taylorexploresmore]

Hello there! I just found your channel and I absolutely love your content, style and just everything! New subbie!

[@ZaraV]

Yay! Thanks Raven!

[@taylorexploresmore]

@@ZaraV you're welcome, hunny. You deserve it! By the way, your makeup skills are excellent. Just an all around great experience. I'm proud and happy for you! I see your channel BLOWING UP soon ♡ much love!

[@crystalbeal3290]

Hell yeah, I have Facebook stalked before! Haven't we all? Lol first time watching!!! Your awesome!!! I will definitely be watching frequently!! 😁💕

[@punxie89]

There's a huge difference between thinking of someone randomly and looking them up vs actual serious stalking.

[@ashandemi]

Yesss, good morning Zara and everyone! ❤️

[@ZaraV]

Gooood moooorrrning a few days late haha

[@ellielevine2038]

I’ve heard this case a couple times, but I will always listen to someone knew tell the story. Brenda was so freaking crazy and delusional.

[@naomiclark7135]

Just found your podcast. Love it. Subscribed🤗

[@nicolebrown1927]

I LOVE THIS CHANNEL!💙🤗

[@ZaraV]

And I love you!! ❤️💕

[@salwamohd-bg1178]

, 😂😂😂😂 the ( José said. NO No no) took me out 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@777blazek]

👋 just seeing your channel for the first time. You are very soft spoken ( calming 💕) you are a beautiful speaker. You stuck to the story & I love that!! Totally hitting subscribe & notification bell!!

[@ZaraV]

Thank you so much girl ❤️

[@thesummerofsam]

Another amazing video. Your channel is one of the reasons I started my true crime youtube channel 🥰

[@ZaraV]

Thanks girl! I’ve checked out your channel and love your graphics - you’re doing a great job!

[@dominiquetatum7034]

I feel sorry for brenda more then ricky and Kendra

[@biolandahernandez2174]

So beautiful..What lipstick are you wearing?

[@ZaraV]

Thanks babe! I updated the description! It’s Fenty lip paint in uncensored!

[@stellamary204]

Zara you are a star. New here but you are definitely something different 🥰

[@trinitygutteridge6175]

Not the drive by their house part, but in heartbreak, ya girl becomes a full Facebook stalker

[@veramarie4155]

Just found you by accident but your voice is crazy soothing. Subscribing now 🙏🙏🙏

[@Morticia1313]

Some people cannot bear to ve alone so maybe he wanted to keep Brenda close in case his relationship failed. So sad!

[@tinazimmer4304]

That guy Ricky, really seems like a very nice, sweet, but very naive. I think that's why he kept in contact with the crazy one was because he really thought that they could be friends. I know people like this

[@rileyluv1309]

You’re so underrated! Subscribed ❤️

[@mack5512]

I think that Rickey only continues talking to her because he just had moved to a new place and she was probably the only other person he really had there.

[@alanamacneill88]

Congrats on your new baby

[@dejuhvu1793]

I haven’t checked their social media. I don’t want to get hurt, so I avoid them completely. Even LinkedIn 😂

[@GirlVsMovie]

Girl I’m not admitting ANYTHING in these comments 🤣🤣🤣

[@ZaraV]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you have the right to remain silent

[@zoebernard139]

I feel it's partly his fault... For giving her hope...

[@mrshunt1231]

you should do a video on the barbie & ken killers! i haven’t seen anyone on youtube do a video on them yet & the story is insane.

[@inn2beauty10]

Ricky is a typical male…He definitely led Brenda on a bit, he played her twice and had her have an abortion. Was Brenda looney tunes? Absof*ckinlutely!!! However, it should be a cautionary tale to men to be careful with the hearts of those you intend to play with. Not everyone will turn the other cheek and completely move on. Ricky wanted attention from Brenda (have his cake and eat it too) knowing that woman still had feelings for him because why the hell else would she do things for him, run errands, etc. “Mr. Dreamy” had to have grown up fast from that experience. I’m sure he’ll think twice about playing with/on women’s feelings. I don’t know what was so great about him anyway for her to go kill the “competition”. He dated a hygienist and a dentist, but still had yellow teeth 😒 Men…go figure 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@RF0rty]

year ago?and i just got ur channel in my recommendations this past week or 2 >.

[@KrystalRomero-cc6mv]

I love your channel💞

[@lindsayfrey7892]

I mean, I've looked at my exes social media. I've never followed them, let alone using keys and passwords....

[@Lizzie-h3j]

I dont keep in touch with exes theyre an ex for a reason. I immediately block them on FB and my phone too.

[@Legallyblonde1xo]

Something like 2% of the world population has green eyes. I happen to have them too! Probably the only feature of mine I don't totally hate 😂😂🤔

[@ZaraV]

Amazing! You’re a special one ♥️

[@Legallyblonde1xo]

@@ZaraV awe thank you beautiful!? This was the first video I found of yours ! Keep up the amazing work! You're a fantastic story teller, and your makeup is stunning!!! ❤️

[@angelamulvey1820]

Hello Zara, as you can see I am addicted to watching your videos. I was wondering coud you look up the case of Adam and Elena Emery, the horrific event took place in the United States in Warwick Rhode Isalnd on August 30, 1990.

[@lacyeastwood6514]

I try to ignore my ex and ignore talking about him cuz it just bring back memories just try and move on let them live their life and I'm gonna live mine

[@vettetchell6106]

She was never good enough for him in his eyes. He wanted something more.

[@toldyaso13]

There was security entry into the parking garage. There's video of the Black Jeep Cherokee following another car into the garage, before the security arm came down, when this other car gained entry.

[@carrie9367]

Not blaming him for this crazy woman’s actions, but he really never considered that just because he’s done, maybe not the other person even though they say they are. Planning a wedding with someone, dumping them, take the back and repeat the process would never strike a non egocentric person as the other being fine with it and rubbing a new relationship in someone face after just 3 months is just despicable! Not that it justifies the murder in anyway.

[@JustDawn]

Hey Girl! New subscriber here, I look forward to all your videos!! 🥰

[@puppymom77]

Can you list the makeup you’re using?

[@ZaraV]

Hey Beth! Should be all listed in the description box 😘😘

[@dinudcmaria]

I think she brought someone with her on a date to feel safe not because she is not interested

[@jenniferwilkinson9340]

I had a friend look at my ex-husbands Facebook page, but only once, and immediately regretted it. I am a single mom in United States. I would never kill for any amount of money.

[@giapaul7973]

I do agree with you that even if Ricky had broke ties with Brenda, she would of found a way back into his life. I don’t think Brenda would of gotten over Ricky even if he had cut ties with her. She very well would of done anything to stay in his life.

[@MoonCat33]

Hate to say it but I’m gonna. These cases hit different when the victim is beautiful, successful, and contributing to society. What a loss. 😢

[@TheCrimeWall]

What mascara are you using for your bottom lashes?

[@ZaraV]

It’s L’Oréal telescopic!

[@Jujudeze22]

Oooh, a new creator recommended to me. Dance 💃 subscribed!

[@ninjakittycat6888]

Did Brenda actually think her ex would want to be with her after his gf dies? Did she really think she would get away with it? Truly entitled.

[@caitlankelly4367]

29:12 if I didn’t feel safe living with someone because they were obsessed with getting revenge, yes, I would tell the police. Granted I know where this story is going…

[@whisperwhisper7496]

I'm sorry cannot relate to breaking up with someone and doing what she did. My parents taught us at a early age you cannot make someone be with you.

[@MeriweatherDesigns]

Brenda and Ricky sound just like my ex and me. The girl he dated after me was our mutual best friend though. Talk about a slap in the face. They both still alive though sooooooo differences

[@deboemm]

Hi Zara! ❤

[@caitlankelly4367]

Sounds to me that Ricky is the one pushing relationships along pretty quickly… 22:04

[@RahmaAhmed-lx1jk]

New Subscriber from South Wales UK! :)

[@Summer09824]

I get what you’re saying about Ricky but I worked for my ex’s mom & when we broke up I kept my job & we had a really close relationship regardless of him. It’s a hard one. Usually I do just block, delete & pretend that person never existed after a break up but every situation is different. I think the messaging her though while in a serious relationship is kind of strange however 😅 not sure but maybe she gave him an ego boost and he knew she still had feelings for him? Either way, sad sad case. RIP Kendra she sounded like a great person who deserved to live a long happy life 💔

[@katmack4215]

Dude,you are sooo rite!! My son is about to be 16 and I'm panicking. Lol I'm a single Mom,on SS Disability..😕 and while my kid has everything he NEEDS,and a little of what he wants 😏 I've explained to him,if someone like handed us the keys,to a brand new car,totally for free..we still couldn't afford it 😬 just the insurance,and the upkeep,oil changes,and the gas!! We just wouldn't be able to swing it..😳 grrr However,I've got him in Driver's Ed at school..that can be a small discount on the Insurance 🙂 he has some Uncles and Grandparents that might help(maybe)with the actual car..and he'll just have to get a little weekend job to pay for gas and stuff. Wish us luck..cuz he'll be 16 next month. Yikes!!!! Lol

[@mistynichols5045]

Please do the story of AVERY JORDAN HOSE from FRANKFORT KY

[@A.racelys]

My ex was like this, only thing is I didn’t do anything stupid like this.

[@TheUKisThere]

29:06 Why is that up for debate?

[@claudiamiramontes4101]

Ricky definitely lead Brenda on. He held on to her as a plan b. When you don’t want anything to do with someone you don’t text them.

[@IvaObannon]

Listening to this case reminds me of the book “the perfect girlfriend” by Haylee smith. It’s Eerily similar! Anyone ever read it?

[@Jennyxx-ie5jw]

17:43 But where do people find the audacity to start swiping on someone else's phone💀

[@edbond7863]

Where is Brenda getting her money?

[@ZaraV]

I believe her dental job was pretty decent!

[@whotube7978]

Dallas is a huge city, so if you keep bumping into someone it’s def sketchy af

[@TheUKisThere]

15:40 No… no… no…🤨 Should I be concerned for someone…? This is my first video and…