If you feel like you are Bad at everything, Watch this...

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Rob Mulder

Rob Mulder

Күн бұрын

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@JeffRage
@JeffRage Ай бұрын
I'm sure I'm good at something. I just haven't found it, yet. (I'm only 51.)
@MikkoSimila
@MikkoSimila 13 күн бұрын
99% of humans never find where they are best of the planet.
@sjizzle4
@sjizzle4 11 күн бұрын
Man, being the younger brother and watching you're big brother being better at you at everything and beating you everywhere bring me those feels.
@bacchaa-x8o
@bacchaa-x8o 2 ай бұрын
I literally don't want anyone to watch this video this video is like gem for me but at the same time i want everyone to look into this
@basilaj8243
@basilaj8243 Ай бұрын
listening to you is a blessing, i am happy to find your channel
@Morphexxer
@Morphexxer 29 күн бұрын
i keep telling myself that "i can do this" doesnt help. Talent is a requirement.
@fxsurgeon
@fxsurgeon 22 күн бұрын
Truth as it is! Seen this effect in myself some time ago.
@4115steve
@4115steve 2 ай бұрын
Glad to see you back. I can relate to this video. I've had to learn to live in the moment and give worrying about me being bad at something I'm doing. Worrying instead of focusing on the task makes doing the task difficult. Focus on the task not your worries
@ChandlerBing-t3k
@ChandlerBing-t3k 2 ай бұрын
The game thing is so true
@robmulder
@robmulder 2 ай бұрын
Yeah I actually wish I knew this when I was younger (for both games and real life, haha).
@Sukuna-cleaves
@Sukuna-cleaves 10 күн бұрын
I'm not good at gaming too..
@debragoring
@debragoring Ай бұрын
Good example, thanks! 😊
@ruslangames123
@ruslangames123 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much. This will help me a lot ❤
@chitraakshbandral4309
@chitraakshbandral4309 2 ай бұрын
What a video man!
@robmulder
@robmulder 2 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@KocurNorweski
@KocurNorweski 2 ай бұрын
A very nice comparison that I hadn't really thought about until you convinced me to give up gaming. I'm very happy and grateful for the video-every one of them, no matter what it's about, is somehow inspiring and motivating for me.
@robmulder
@robmulder 2 ай бұрын
Love to hear that!
@Darkaether76
@Darkaether76 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for making such good content just trying to help people and not trying to sell us on a course. You have helped me learn and grow from so many past mistakes so I can be better in the future.
@vilemtuma4733
@vilemtuma4733 Ай бұрын
its so true, i play volleyball, and i was quite average or good at it and then i started for no reason to fall behind, i didnt know why so i just assumed im bad and started to develepo loser mindset and started to give up. But then i realised if have that winner mindset and lock in i would play better and it was true, im still badd or average but im getting better every day.
@youtubeviewer4127
@youtubeviewer4127 20 күн бұрын
But its not even after practicing, my brother is just very good at everything immediately! While I can't even do it after practicing for hours... Sometimes I get really sad because whatever I do, compared to him itll seem foolish, also he is taller, more attractive, and probably happier
@Axofox474
@Axofox474 22 күн бұрын
I dont feel like Im bad at everything ı AM bad at everything
@caveman9491
@caveman9491 8 күн бұрын
same ☹️
@Flip11..11
@Flip11..11 Күн бұрын
Does any else have immediate fluctuating thoughts of confidence and shite self-worth?
@EmmettReese-nh9lg
@EmmettReese-nh9lg 27 күн бұрын
I can’t learn anything I can’t remember anything my brain can’t process information it all I guess that’s me and This is going to sound stupid but I like to collect to old axes and carve handles for them but after a years worth of practice all of my handles are very terrible
@Twiti47
@Twiti47 2 ай бұрын
I wish it was that easy, this example may be true for neurotypical people, but with people who are neurodivergent, mostly adhd, or who have other learning disabilities, this example is not true. I try 10x times harder than others in most of everything, and i still struggle to do basic things like put a dirty cup in the sink, not even wash it, just take it there. Or even brushing my teeth. You see, people with a learning disability for example might not have good reflexes NATURALLY, so they are more likely to have a cup in their hand but that cup will be more likely to fall from their hand, and so, as a result, they suck at videogames more. You cant fix this. Its neurological I wish i were normal
@mohameddaoudi3814
@mohameddaoudi3814 2 ай бұрын
Its true, he has excluded a lot of factors. But don't put your head down, find something you love and go for it
@Twiti47
@Twiti47 2 ай бұрын
@@mohameddaoudi3814 if youre bad at everything you can't really find something you love, who likes doing something their not good at?
@kpoppy9635
@kpoppy9635 Ай бұрын
Yeah I have a development delay and I'm mentally slow. So just doing everyday things that seem easy to everyone else is hard for me. It takes me longer to get stuff. Common sense things dont come easily to me. And particurely in America, making stupid mistakes a lot of times isnt seen as forgivable. People online argue that "nobody really cares" or "everyone makes mistakes" but that doesnt match my reality. Either people ridicule me for not knowing something thats supposedly easy, or they do it for me cause they dont trust that I'll do it correctly (which I can't blame them.) Some people can't comprehend that some people are born with limitations. Like I was born with low muscle tone in my hands, so I couldnt go across the monkey bars no matter how many times I tried, I would always fall within a minute of hanging on it. My parents would even hold me on but as soon as they let go I would fall. If I fell off the side of a cliff with only a rope to hold on to, I would fall to my death. I just dont have the grip strength. And the average person doesnt understand this. But I think this video was more about "being the best" at something. While I think we were drawn to this video cause we wanted to know how to just be adequate or "good enough" that people wont mock us.
@IDKWHAT2NAMETHISS
@IDKWHAT2NAMETHISS Ай бұрын
I'm just convinced it's genetics & free will is a lie. I can't be good at anything because anytime I do improve I suddenly lose my skills at given activity. Best example I have is at fps games I have over 15k hours clocked on them & practiced well over 1k hours but Im beyond terrible at all them, I used to improve for 2-3 weeks at a time then all of a sudden I would lose all those skills I had that made me do good in them, I lose them for months. Now I don't even scratch a week without losing my skills. When I was younger I used to play sports I was out everyday practicing but yet I never improved & wasnt even picked to be on anyone's team, even at school when they used to make us play football the teacher I had just let me skip the class because I was so bad at it, there's being last picked but I wasnt even picked at all. I also used to draw but same problem I would draw really good for a few days then my skills would suddenly go away... I don't have interest in anything nowadays... why even bother? I'm just wasting time on something I'll never be good at. There's gotta be something seriously wrong with me this is unacceptable, Ive researched this and I didn't even find an explanation let alone a permanent solution. I really despise anyone whos talented like the stars really aligned for someone who is unworthy, it brings me joy when they fail miserably, I hope they rot in the deepest pit of hell
@propcrazy2317
@propcrazy2317 4 күн бұрын
That kid reminds me of myself
@PoyokBudu
@PoyokBudu Ай бұрын
i am at the brink of ending myself 31 lost my job and have nothing to show for.
@Resyu116
@Resyu116 Ай бұрын
Please don't do it, there will be better times again and you will find your path, we all struggle with life but when you just keep going eventually it gets better. I'm pretty sure there will be better times even if it doesn't look like it now. Maybe the nicest things will happen to you, you would never know if you don't try 😢 I wish you all the best!
@sebring4444
@sebring4444 Ай бұрын
You're not even close to being old. Im 44 and if I quit my job ill be kicked out of my house. Id give anything to be your age again, to change my path in life. Take a break from life if you can
@PoyokBudu
@PoyokBudu Ай бұрын
@@Resyu116 thnk you stranger. Its the feeling of hopelessness it's unbearable when depressed you dont even have the energy to sort out resumes even getting out of bed is a mess. Family is no help they don't understand at all.
@PoyokBudu
@PoyokBudu Ай бұрын
@@sebring4444 the depression kicks in for me hopeless to find another job rotting in bed and abt to be homeless. Im tired of this wolrd man nobody understands.
@caveman9491
@caveman9491 8 күн бұрын
good, we're not alone. yet, thats not going to solve anything. I am even bad at aim trainers 😔. Well, at least I have a reason to watch distressing memes.
@MrCameronXc
@MrCameronXc 11 күн бұрын
Your video just totally destroyed me
@نیماامینی-غ1ق
@نیماامینی-غ1ق Ай бұрын
انگار این ویدیو برای من ساخته شده بود 😅 ممنون
@leeaka0ne
@leeaka0ne Ай бұрын
You're right in the case of mindset, but it's also about the talents and personal traits. Usually there's at least one thing, in which you can be better than other people (if not, may be you just haven't discovered it yet).
@demkillerus
@demkillerus Ай бұрын
I think the sad BG music doesn't fit your style, because you say some funny stuuf some time and it doesn't hit as well because of the music, maybe switch it up a bit
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