What I Love About The Mirror Scene
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My Issues with The Mirror Scene
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@jenniferangel4596
@jenniferangel4596 Сағат бұрын
Hello Sammy I’ve been looking forward to your Colin and Penelope relationship analysis. I was just wondering if you’re still gonna do it ? Also, I really love your episode yap sessions and I’m looking forward to those for part two.
@jenniferangel4596
@jenniferangel4596 4 сағат бұрын
Hi Sammy, I was just wondering if you were still going to do the Polin season analysis? I’ve just been eagerly awaiting your analysis and your Bridgestone s3 videos.
@madelynmendoza9018
@madelynmendoza9018 15 сағат бұрын
I never cried so much for a show than when watching Anne with an E! It was last year I started watching it and I stayed up until 4 in the morning watching all of season 1! I was definitely captivated!!!
@Harumii.Gachatuber
@Harumii.Gachatuber 2 күн бұрын
I really want to see the analysis of the character Penelope and the mirror scene
@normalawson8111
@normalawson8111 4 күн бұрын
Conrad’s biggest issue is that he chooses his feelings above Belly’s. For instance, her birthday. He chose to keep her birthday gift from her to avoid “embarrassment” even at the cost of severely hurting her and on her literal birthday of all days. A man that’s okay with you crying on your birthday is not a good man at all. Conrad is just like Adam. Look at how he ended up treating Susannah. Everyone that ships Belly and Conrad isn’t the best judge of character. Steven cheated with Taylor, Laurel is divorced, and Susannah has a toxic marriage with Adam (but all of these people ship Belly and Conrad lol 😂 insane) the reason why most of us hate Conrad is because he always chooses himself over Belly and you can see it through his actions. Belly found the necklace in a condom drawer (how romantic). If Jere did half of those things to Belly yall would be mad at him and hating him even more. But somehow the emotional immaturity on Connie is “sassy” it’s truly crazy…I do have empathy for Conrad, but at some point you can’t use you being a terrible communicator as an excuse to hurt other people. I will never forgive the fact that he had such a hard time with Susannah’s death but knowingly knew she is dying and wouldn’t sit with her and make the memories they had left. He chose to abandon her again to go see Belly- while Jere took care of all the bills and Susannah. For an older brother, he’s not the best at all. He’s immature and doesn’t lead by example.
@tsumi91
@tsumi91 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for allowing us to see you "ugly cry" in that final scene. I searched and searched for a reaction video where someone seems to feel what I felt watching the final scene and all of them except yours left me wanting. Some reactors are more performative and seem to stop themselves from FEELING and that's fine of course but it's not what I needed. Thank you for your video 💖
@aar9800
@aar9800 5 күн бұрын
Luke Newton says so much with his expressions. So good
@yulimoonshine
@yulimoonshine 8 күн бұрын
Remember...you are one. That stays stuck in my head.
@summerralph5039
@summerralph5039 9 күн бұрын
Man I’ve missed your videos hope you are doing well! 💜
@Megan-ue4yh
@Megan-ue4yh 10 күн бұрын
I am patiently waiting for season 3 episode 6 recap. I need the delicious gossip.
@SammyBates
@SammyBates 10 күн бұрын
This is great to know! I always end up getting more inspired/encouraged to finish something when people comment stuff like this. I just finished writing the outline for it and I’ll film it soon! 💓
@oanaoldag7353
@oanaoldag7353 Күн бұрын
@@SammyBatesI hope you don’t lose your Bridgerton hyperfixation before you publish all those yap sessions and analyses you talk about! Your followers are eagerly awaiting your videos 😊 I can’t wait to hear you talk about episode 7, my favourite 🤩
@laramiaizz
@laramiaizz 10 күн бұрын
i kinda want anne to end up with jerry.
@mitzycream
@mitzycream 10 күн бұрын
Also there is a Marilla back story book that I read that was really delightful. Marilla of Green Gables!!!! I recommend it
@mitzycream
@mitzycream 10 күн бұрын
You should totally read the Anne of green Gables book series ! They are great! and even the original Anne of Green Gables series from the 80's with Megan Follows is excellent if you are craving more after you have finished this show
@jslittlegirlie
@jslittlegirlie 11 күн бұрын
I was a little disappointed that you didn’t pick up on Collin sniffing his fingers on the way out the door to see Pen. Talk about major swoon/gaggy!!
@atalyasaguy5842
@atalyasaguy5842 12 күн бұрын
I have to tell you, i just saw a bunch of your videos and i gotta tell you - you are awesome! You are so accurate and so fun to listen to i think I am addicted. Season 3 kept me prisoner and i didn’t understand why i wanna watch it over and over again and you explaining all of those scenes made understand exactly why. Keep on doing what you’re doing ❤
@MarcinZwycieski
@MarcinZwycieski 12 күн бұрын
This movie should be 18+ - it's a movie for adults❗ And even adults should have warnings❗
@isabelhernandez5968
@isabelhernandez5968 13 күн бұрын
Hello Sammy! Thank you for this scene. I too thought...are they really gonna go for it?! 😮🤯😳 and they did!! Omg!! They really did ❤❤❤
@karouakiva1714
@karouakiva1714 13 күн бұрын
I love this scene so much. ☺
@prolificwriter
@prolificwriter 13 күн бұрын
The gasp when he got on his knees is so real 😅😅
@CarmelTobin-xv5uu
@CarmelTobin-xv5uu 14 күн бұрын
Also why does no one mention how the entire season 1 Conrad has a nice, cool, beautiful girlfriend, Nicole, that he treats like crap? He lies to her, goes behind her back, strings her along. He completely disrespects her. How is that attractive? And the worse one for me is in season 2, when they are in the car ride and he makes fun of Jeremiah’s college, the college Belly also got in to. He completely belittles them. He talk about his own college in such a snobby, arrogant way. I could never want Belly to be with someone who insults her possible college, her intelligence. Who insults and puts down his brother. Someone who time and time again says demeaning, really arrogant comments and acts like he is superior.
@CarmelTobin-xv5uu
@CarmelTobin-xv5uu 14 күн бұрын
I love your channel and commentary. Just providing me team Jelly and team Jacob perspective. To your point I’m team Jelly and I was also team Jacob. I think you’re right that it comes down to preference because I would never want to be with Conrad or Edward. For me, I am not attracted to their personality or the way they interact with Belly and Belly. Even though I have always been team Jelly I did not think the prom thing was a big deal at all. I did not think what Conrad did was that bad or anything really. I thought he was fine in that moment. His mom was dying. For me, I have never been attracted to Conrad because I have never liked the way he treats her and interacts with her. It is very paternalistic and subtly controlling and it is just gross to me. Like he is always telling her to grow up. He dismisses her. He treats her like he is forever older and wiser and in control. In season 1 he tells her to grow up and stop looking in the mirror. He criticizes her. Then they almost kiss, she brakes up with Cam, she is so excited to see him and he just acts like nothing happened. He completely humiliates her. And when she calls him out he says he can’t and he’s not even nice about it. Then right after when he heard she and Jere may be together he freaks and starts texting her, texting her in the night, telling her he doesn’t want to lose her. Everyone always talks about how Jeremiah’s meddling in season 1, but Conrad meddled too. At the party Steven says how his girlfriend thinks Belly and Jeremiah are hooking up and Conrad immediately starts texting her. Then even after she goes with Jeremiah on the car ride home, he is texting her in the night and telling her he doesn’t want to lose her. So he just ‘can’t’ right now, but he won’t allow her to be with anyone else? That is so manipulative. I just see Conrad differently. I think he is very manipulative. In season 2 when Belly wants to respect Jeremiah and not be together, Conrad won’t respect that. He comes home under the guise that he is coming to see their sick mom, just so he can pressure Jeremiah to tell him they can be together. So selfish, narcissistic, manipulative. Then he goes immediately to Belly and when she is hesitant and considerate of Jeremiah, he lies and says Jere is doing great and he is over it. When we all watched the clip before and know full well Jeremiah was very upset about it. But he lies to Belly just to get what he wants. It’s gross. I felt very similar about Edward from Twilight that he was very paternalistic and subtly controlling of Belly and I was never attracted to him. I would never want to be with someone like that. He always had the upper hand and she was his possession. I liked Jacob because he respected her and thought she was strong and they could be equals in their relationship. I always liked Jeremiah more because he respects Belly and treats her like an equal. He cares about her opinions. He roots for her and always has. He builds her up. When she decided to do the Deb ball, Conrad criticize her and put her down. Jeremiah supported her and cheered her on. When Belly is with Conrad, she is weak and unfocused and only cares about him in this very unequal dynamic. I don’t like who she is was Conrad. Jeremiah has always lifted her up and rooted for her. He encourages her to go back to volleyball. He wants her to have her own identity and interests that don’t just revolve around him.
@CarmelTobin-xv5uu
@CarmelTobin-xv5uu 14 күн бұрын
Also I don’t know why no one talks about how all of season 1 Conrad has a nice, cool, beautiful girlfriend, Nicole, and he is completely messing with her. He lies to her, strings her along, goes behind her back. Nicole does not deserve to be treated that way. Also, one of my worse offenses is in Season 2 in the car ride when Conrad makes fun of Jeremiah’s, and possibly Belly’s college. He completely belittles them both. He talk about Brown in such a snobby, arrogant way. Why would we ever root for Belly to be with someone who belittles her college, her intelligence?? Belittles his brothers college. I cannot understand it.
@CarmelTobin-xv5uu
@CarmelTobin-xv5uu 14 күн бұрын
Also why does no one mention how the entire season 1 Conrad has a nice, cool, beautiful girlfriend, Nicole, that he treats like crap? He lies to hear, goes behind her back, strings her along. He completely disrespects her. How is that attractive? And the worse one for me is in season 2, when they are in the car ride and he makes fun of Jeremiah’s college, the college Belly also got in to. He completely belittles them. He talk about his own college in such a snobby, arrogant way. I could never want Belly to be with someone who insults her possible college, her intelligence. Who insults and puts down his brother. Someone who time and time again says demeaning, really arrogant comments and acts like he is superior.
@CarmelTobin-xv5uu
@CarmelTobin-xv5uu 14 күн бұрын
To your point I’m team Jelly and I was also team Jacob. I think you’re right that it comes down to preference because I would never want to be with Conrad or Edward. For me, I am not attracted to their personality or the way they interact with Belly and Belly. Even though I have always been team Jelly I did not think the prom thing was a big deal at all. I did not think what Conrad did was that bad or anything really. His mom was dying. For me, I have never been attracted to Conrad because I have never liked the way he treats her and interacts with her. It is very paternalistic and subtly controlling and it is just gross to me. Like he is always telling her to grow up. He dismisses her. He treats her like he is forever older and wiser and in control. In season 1 he tells her to grow up and stop looking in the mirror. He criticizes her. It is very unattractive to me. Then they almost kiss and she brakes up with Cam and is so excited to see him and he just acts like nothing happened. He completely humiliates her. And when she calls him out he says he can’t and he’s not even nice about it. Then right after when he heard she and Jere may be together he freaks and starts texting her and texting her in the night and telling her he doesn’t want to lose her. Everyone always talks about how Jeremiah’s meddling in season 1, but Conrad meddled too. At the party Steven says how his girlfriend thinks Belly and Jeremiah are hooking up and Conrad immediately starts texting her. Then even after she goes with Jeremiah on the car ride home, he is texting her in the night and telling her he doesn’t want to lose her. So he just ‘can’t’ right now, but he won’t allow her to be with anyone else? That is so controlling and creepy. And why does no one ever talk about that he has a very nice, cool girlfriend, Nicole, the whole time and he is just messing with her too and treating her like shit?! just see Conrad differently. I think he is very manipulative. In season 2 when Belly wants to respect Jeremiah and not be together, Conrad won’t respect that. He comes home under the guise that he is coming to see their sick mom, just so he can get Jeremiah to tell him they can be together. So selfish, narcissistic, manipulative. Then he goes immediately to Belly and when she is hesitant and considerate of Jeremiah, he lies and says Jere is doing great and he is over it. When we all watched the clip before and know full well Jeremiah was very upset about it. But he lies to Belly just to get what he wants. It’s gross. I felt very similar about Edward from Twilight that he was very paternalistic and subtly controlling of Belly and it was so gross to me. I would never want to be with someone like that. He always had the upper head and she was his possession. I liked Jacob because he respected her and thought she was strong and they could be equals in their relationship. I always liked Jeremiah more because he respects Belly and treats her like an equal. He cares about her opinions. He roots for her and always has. He builds her up. When she decided to do the Deb ball, Conrad criticize her and put her down. Jeremiah supported her and cheered her on. When Belly is with Conrad, she is weak and unfocused and only cares about him in this very unequal dynamic. It is attractive to me. I don’t like who she is was Conrad. Jeremiah has always lifted her up and rooted for her. He encourages her to go back to volleyball. He wants her to have her own identity and interests that don’t just revolve around him.
@rodrickheffley8794
@rodrickheffley8794 15 күн бұрын
One of the best movies of the year. Thank you for this video.
@robinlender4414
@robinlender4414 16 күн бұрын
Just watching the movie, had to force myself to continue watching. So many triggers and then watching documentaries, helped me to understand what they went thru. Sad that people don't believe them makes me angry. Be grateful if you don't, you must had a good childhood for us who didn't, don't come after us.
@cameronfoster5838
@cameronfoster5838 16 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@rainyday3216
@rainyday3216 16 күн бұрын
@dimitrabouzalas3090
@dimitrabouzalas3090 16 күн бұрын
This is one of the best videos relating to the Menendez case. Stunning work Sammy! Congratulations and thank you!
@SJ4NICKY
@SJ4NICKY 16 күн бұрын
maybe it’s just me but this point I can’t stand belly She’s a player and what she’s doing is out of order.
@bashby97
@bashby97 17 күн бұрын
bridgerton AND true crime? my queen
@michellebenincasa6872
@michellebenincasa6872 17 күн бұрын
We need to recognize the role of the time period and culture in the application of law. It is sad but true that, when the trials took place, there wasn't the same generally accepted understanding of sa and cptsd that there is now. Some of these things were not included in the law and legal procedures that existed then, even though they may have been known within niches of psychological or sociological research. We're talking about a time before the lid was raised on the corruption of film, TV, and music industries by systemic sa cycles. Before it became common knowledge that things like this happen in "good families" (read: wealthy and/or powerful). If you don't know the patterns and symptoms, the trends and markers, then you won't interpret things correctly, even if you try really hard. When you know that this perpetrator is being protected as part of a larger abusive culture, suddenly you understand why the people who should have known and the legal and school systems that should have acted to protect the kids, either wouldn't or couldn't do so. We're talking about the same sick culture that produced and protected the newly elected abuser in chief, so it's not surprising. Just infuriating.
@dimitrabouzalas3090
@dimitrabouzalas3090 16 күн бұрын
I see the legal profession having a very reactionary process. Much of this is because they work so heavily basing their verdicts on precedence. That to me, has law being fairly stuck in the past and not very proactive. As a science educator, I know we were exasperated when we knew students in the classroom were victims of csa but we had no legal support to do anything about it (in the 80’s). It took ages to shift things legally to what was going on in the real world. Shifts have been made, but still, victims are still not confident about reporting and knowing their case will be handled sensitively. Just a side issue: as it was a gruelling process getting the legal profession to respond to sa, we have a huge issue affecting all of humanity at the moment: climate change- and still the legal profession is in the dark about how important their responsiveness is. Let’s hope the learning from one issue translates to learning about another.
@MariaDonkova
@MariaDonkova 10 күн бұрын
Also, take into account that their men
@teemick7594
@teemick7594 18 күн бұрын
And yet the prosecutor from the first trial heard all of this testimony and still maintained in the Netflix documentary that they were never abused, She said, that Jose was just a bad parent. (She also mentioned that if people wanted to come at her, she owns guns, so there's that) SMH, when the people working in LE refuse to even try to learn about any psychological factors in a case, there are in the wrong career! This was a very thorough overview, thank you for all your research.
@BOMBEIRACTGA
@BOMBEIRACTGA 18 күн бұрын
Eu Reagi assim também 😂😂😂
@anembracelikeamagpies
@anembracelikeamagpies 19 күн бұрын
this case and all of its nuances have encouraged me to pursue a degree/career in psychology. there is so much to it, and so SO much proof bringing validation to the brother's stories of horrific torturous abuse. I am far from being a professional, but I don't think it at all takes one to see the fact that they are, and were telling the truth. it really kind of horrifies me how adamantly people refuse to believe that they were sexually abused, and I am sadly aware that my relaying of facts will likely not change their preconceived opinions and biases. you were really able to articulate my thoughts on this case. everything about it is so incredibly heartbreaking and hard to stomach, but I think it's something that people should know about, to spread the fact that sexual abuse and abuse of any kind can occur in any family, no matter how wealthy or perfect they may appear. thank you for this analysis.
@GloriaRodriguez-vy1gk
@GloriaRodriguez-vy1gk 17 күн бұрын
Share the video with more people
@allanhough8222
@allanhough8222 19 күн бұрын
Jose, in a dream, told me he didn't do it, so if you question this fact, you're a bad person.
@MariaDonkova
@MariaDonkova 10 күн бұрын
Oh he told you didn’t he 😂, also suppose you visit his grave and talk to him through a spirit box. Poor thing… gone too late. Rest uneasy 🥲
@cRartLove
@cRartLove 19 күн бұрын
Finally a video of facts! Thank you for doing all this extensive research. Why are they in prison? Such a sad case. It’s so disturbing how media, society and justice failed them…
@TempSS2677
@TempSS2677 20 күн бұрын
Of course, there's no proof of SA that happened to someone when they were children. All the evidence depicted by the law only applies to immediate act. Even an adult victim to indicate she or he had been SA, they are expect to not cleanse themselves & go straight to cops & hospital for check up right after it has happened. But its one screwed up law of evidence to expect a child of any age to do so. And when they reveal it during their adulthood, of course the Court bind by old school, rigid, inefficient & ineffective laws says, 'there's no sufficient proof'. I beginning to think lawyers & judges are just bunch of priest stuck with old religion law that doesn't make sense in the current world.
@dimitrabouzalas3090
@dimitrabouzalas3090 19 күн бұрын
So well said. The judiciary sure needs to get in tune with advancements in the real world. And it would also help for them to start seeing people as people rather than stereotypes of witness, defendant, accused etc.
@iCat4Ever
@iCat4Ever 20 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for making a video like this. You have taken so many words out of my mouth. People that don’t believe them genuinely don’t know the whole story and it’s really sad
@SleepyEyeglasses-us2tn
@SleepyEyeglasses-us2tn 20 күн бұрын
That is so sad.
@at_2527
@at_2527 21 күн бұрын
wanted to point out that around the ages of 6-8, there was a medical record indicating that Lyle had started basically failing school. This lines up with when the SA started for him.
@kimmyfreak200
@kimmyfreak200 21 күн бұрын
not only showering but hot tub also... and by both parents like when lyle said kitty was inappropriate with him..and bathed him at 14 until he ended it... and witnesses would see them all go to the showers with their father like biden's daughter writing in her diary she took showers with him (allegedly) i've noticed alot of patterns among abusers..they tend to do a lot of the same things..
@zoovraskov
@zoovraskov 21 күн бұрын
Sammy, your video of chronicling the abuse is the best I’ve seen. Well done. I’m not sure in which direction you intend to go with your deep dive but hope you look at evidence supporting a mistrial. The glaringly obvious one is the unscrupulous conduct of dr O’zeil. kzbin.info/www/bejne/gXKaqGSfqZV1eqMsi=_QtFYxnXF12gtuKe
@zoovraskov
@zoovraskov 21 күн бұрын
The biggest red flag, imo, is that the testimony given by the maid was misleading due to the fact that the interpreter misinterpreted the questions asked by Lyle’s lawyer. kzbin.info/www/bejne/Zp_ZYXmtn7Rrpa8si=RR3K5wx6vLK_vxMz
@dimitrabouzalas3090
@dimitrabouzalas3090 19 күн бұрын
What an excellent idea! It’s a huge job, but it would be one of the most valuable documents around this case. Maybe sections of the trial could be divided up amongst people with relevant knowledge and Sammy could do the collating?