At first I avoided everything but eventually starting doing the same things I did before & I’m about to start a new job and am curious if having a job with dpdr is it doable ?
@Aers092 сағат бұрын
And another question is that I feel my body and sometimes I feel stressed and things like that, but I see that you say that there are people who are distracted from their body and that is why they do not feel anything about the "chaos" happening in their bodies, do you think that Is it my case or not? Because I feel my body and I am a little confused, I really pray for your answer, this worries me a lot man 😢
@Aers092 сағат бұрын
Good afternoon Jordan, I wanted to ask you a question and I really pray for your answer, it would help me a lot. Is it possible to have derealization episodically? So since 2022 I began to feel derealization, but I never felt it 24/7, but rather they were "episodes" in which derealization came, lasted a maximum of a few days and went away, but currently the frequency with which I feel derealization It's even less, I very rarely feel that, it lasts a little and goes away. What does that mean? Am I on the right way or not? Please if you can, i would Love your answer
@katyparker45788 сағат бұрын
Yes! I always called it, I’m feeling anxious because I’m not feeling anxious 😆
@troytalley2128 сағат бұрын
God can heal all wounds both physically and mentally.
@karenkilbane80439 сағат бұрын
Your content has been so helpful.
@coachjordanhardgrave5 сағат бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@user-zr9gj7rk1r9 сағат бұрын
Thank you for your help!
@rahilkhan974010 сағат бұрын
Left side of body feel tightness and bottom part of left foot feel pressure... Does it is also a anxiety symptoms
@williamhuard386014 сағат бұрын
How do you get back in your body?
@krithiofficial784618 сағат бұрын
Hey jordan, I'm a young girl who has been suffering from dpdr for 5-6 months now. I'm having trouble remembering last year especially and even my childhood memories. I really want to be in the present. I've missed out on trips because I haven't been able to absorb anything in my head. My memories are there but I cant reach it. And recently I've been having moments in present but the dpdr wont go away. I had extreme brain fog a few months ago which has reduced but its significantly affecting my life. I think I fixed my root problem but it isn't going away... I really need your advice.
@tipsforpeople276621 сағат бұрын
Very wholesome . His course if you take dedication can recover in 3months everyone is different but praise Allah and thankyou so Much Mr Hardgrave~
@sierradismukes295022 сағат бұрын
I really do agree with what you’re saying about the health anxiety after Covid! Your videos are very helpful. Thank you!
@Plentyoflife45222 сағат бұрын
I can feel it in my body, it’s been coming out more and more like this stuff that was being kept down. I wake up and feel this extreme uneasiness and panic and tightness in my chest. I know it’s counterintuitive but it makes me feel hope, hope that my built up stress in my body is starting to come to the surface and that I will come to the surface and then my DPDR will be able to heal. Thank you for your videos and you deserve to feel great about how far you’ve come and you have helped so many people, ♥️♥️
@Rebecca001022 сағат бұрын
I first experienced that as a teen when I was first prescribed to meds - at 40 I can say I only do the bare dose and still have all this chronic freeze stuff I’m dealing with.
@AbhishekThakur-fn1dl22 сағат бұрын
Dude look at the camera quality!! Grt video btw
@coachjordanhardgrave5 сағат бұрын
Appreciate it!
@katyparker457823 сағат бұрын
Love the content. This is a glimpse of hope for all of us. Please don’t stop making them ❤️ and ps that camera quality and background is 11/10 😎
@katyparker457822 сағат бұрын
Oh and ps. I was thanking God for you in my prayers today. God bless you 🙏🏻
@coachjordanhardgrave5 сағат бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@joeschmo151623 сағат бұрын
I'm actually outside listening to the birds too. Not present. In my head like always.
@Axle18023 сағат бұрын
For some reason this looks like a professional video. Looks really good and well spoken. No, you're not perfect, but you are human just like the rest of us.
@davoroxi23 сағат бұрын
Thanks for this!
@gawdspeedКүн бұрын
Great video. I will watch the master class now!
@DSAS75Күн бұрын
Thank you so much for the live videos !!! I appreciate you
@rahilkhan9740Күн бұрын
I am recovering well but now my left side body is feel heavy and pressure on bottom part of left foot can any one explain me this??😢
@brooklynbeldingКүн бұрын
i just started watching and god definitely brought you to me i needed your beautiful content in my life, thank you so much🫂
@melr5704Күн бұрын
Your videos are extremely helpful, and thank you so much for taking your time to help DPDR sufferers who don't have many resources to help us recover.
@crystaloliver362Күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@dizustyross2 күн бұрын
Ive had sypmtoms for 16 yearsish now, and im working on myself everyday, but ive come to realize that im scared of actually getting back to normal again because i cant really remember what that is like. How do i get passed this?
@bmav007Күн бұрын
Have you considered EMDR therapy? I had crippling PTSD for over a decade and that was finally the thing that cracked it. Was finally able to process my traumas and felt peace for the first time in years. I went from non-functioning to being a high performer in work and school in a matter of months. Saved my life!
@dizustyrossКүн бұрын
@bmav007 just looked that up, that happens all the time while i play video games lol. I guess ill just keep truckin along lol, thanks for the suggestion.
@csabajakab8432 күн бұрын
❤
@taken...2 күн бұрын
This was so accurate ... i am crying right now
@dm-lombo16472 күн бұрын
Praise God!
@shylohmonster2 күн бұрын
"C'mon in boys, the water's fine"😂 Thanks for the support of this encouraging story. These glimpses of normal offer so much hope to folks like me who are still all up in it.
@coachjordanhardgrave2 күн бұрын
Watch my brand new free masterclass that will show you the 5 shifts to eliminate anxiety, panic, and depersonalization/derealization: 5shiftsmasterclass.coachjordanhardgrave.com/webinar-page
@keylacline24942 күн бұрын
I totally understand what you're saying But how do you know that you are awake? Or Back to yourself again. I really don't know what to call it. I'm still in that state of confusion. It feels like sometimes. And then sometimes it just hits me Like a 2x4 board it feels like a Epiphany or a vision? I see in minds eye and it will be like obvious about watt I'm seeing and then it'll go away quick.So mine is still in and out and I don't know how to get it to stay there all the time.Because I like that part of me.That part of me makes me aware of the people around me
@crystalH302 күн бұрын
Wow ❤ thank you for sharing
@lewdude2k82 күн бұрын
It’s because of your aura and your ability to understand people on a personal level rather than some generic KZbinr guide. I felt the same from the first video years ago which was actually one of the first you ever did I think😅Meeting you singlehandedly changed my life and got me out a deep 7 year dissociation battle. I thank you for everything your course and videos made me 100% free with consistent hard work over time. I’ve been free for years now loving life and achieving things I never thought I’d be able to whilst I was struggling with dpdr. Thank you again Jordan 👍
@franken-pattern2 күн бұрын
Therapy has ALWAYS made me worse. Rehashing old wounds is like ripping off a scab and starting to bl33d anew...
@kristenlangdon42292 күн бұрын
...and what if we have crossed over from freeze into literal shutdown? I have no anxiety or emotions anymore. Which is unheard of because i had over strong emotions and serious social anxiety.
@crystalH302 күн бұрын
Why do symptoms change?
@AnyaLevchuk2 күн бұрын
Oh God! Thank you so much, Jordan! I guess it’s the first time I deeply feel reassured and validated and a bit more calm inside my stomach (there is always an anxiety pain in it almost all the time that I feel so so exhausted 😭). It’s almost a decade since I am so hard trying to find the answer to “what is fckng wrong with me!!!???” And of course I came to ADHD and autism thing, studied it deeply, and than came to cPTSD and now all those little puzzles are clicking in. But the severity of my DPDR was the last one unsolved. And yeah, I knew it was the part of cPTSD but as you said I felt no hope it gonna stop one day. I was preparing myself to live with it though it is so debilitating… ok, I guess I have lost the train of thoughts. But I want to add that those “science behind this” points have made your video so much more interesting and valuable (for someone super interested in how our brains work). Thank you so much! ❤
@daniellepatrioticexpat10222 күн бұрын
Well crap, that sucks. Thank you. I guess I do have to change
@Celtic_242 күн бұрын
Does anyone relate to how weak I feel? The feeling of my sole constantly being pulled out of my body? Nothing looks real. i don’t feel anything. I can barely see. I can’t relax. Walking is uncomfortable af. Like my bones hurt when I walk. Everything is uncomfortable af. Along with all the other simptoms people describe. I don’t know what this guy experienced but mine seems to be way worse. I couldn’t drive if I wanted to like this.
@yamairad12 күн бұрын
This also reflects how abuse lasts longer if the person is isolated.
@ernestinereyna48682 күн бұрын
Feel like I just took a Xanax... So calm and relaxed... my body and mind feel so peaceful... I loved this and will keep doing it every day. Thank you so much for this gift... God bless you
@cheylou13 күн бұрын
To me that is called PTSD. You have confirmed why I know you are right!
@olympiaelda11213 күн бұрын
Everybody has a different path. I definitely needed to revisit my past before being able to reconcile with my present and heal. And feel safe again.
@YFIOFtho3 күн бұрын
Talking about my trauma with bad therapists essentially retraumatised me because I had to reexperience those things. I now work with a trauma informed therapist who has been way more helpful without me needing to recount a thing.
@SunnyDallasRealtor3 күн бұрын
I was happy too.
@adreusprime87073 күн бұрын
ive been in a trauma, dissociated state since I was a child and my brain has felt offline since I was about 10. Do you think this will impact my ability to function normally once I get out of a trauma state? Im just scared because my brain didnt get to develop normally because of trauma. Thanks!
@yamairad13 күн бұрын
But, how do we avoid it from happening again? How can we learn to set boundaries and detect would be abusers.
@lauramay86893 күн бұрын
It's part of the process. It didn't release the trauma from childhood for me, but it gave me a space to feel safe. Now I need to feel it physically, and I'm ready. Trauma is a tapestry that we need to evolve through.
@shelbywhite32013 күн бұрын
I went into freeze (i called it petrified) anytime a timed test or something came up in school. I mean in school all tests are timed i knew the material i just petrified the moment i felt how thick the test was.