10 MOST IMPORTANT RULES & TIPS FOR DATING IN YOUR 50'S | YOUR TIMING IS PERFECT!!!!!!!!

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[@MrDio212]

As a 54 year old male, you said a lot of key things but to really put people on in meeting quality age appropriate singles, become a patron of the arts, become active at your local museum, join it's board, museum fundraisers are always full of upper scale people. And joining a traveling group is also a good idea, either way being in your 40s, 50s and 60s is far from old, if anything you're just experienced.

[@ethelbertamutagaywa7874]

Very well articulated, Urban Light.

[@nsengimanatheodette5774]

Thank you

[@shnuggumz]

Excellent suggestions!

[@themalawiandiner180]

60s does not mean worn out, but it's not young either, it's in the older range. Nothing wrong with being old or in the older generation, one can be old and youthful and hot.

[@janayaerakpotobor4648]

I am 52 years and dating an older man after two failed marriages. Ladies he treated me with so much love and respect also he is very very generous and pampered me like a baby. I am so happy and living my best life. He is my best friend.

[@niccivictorious5594]

You are giving me such hope. Thank you

[@roselinensa5196]

you are blessed my dear.

[@marlene5494]

Congrats. So there’s hope for the rest of us.

[@nsengimanatheodette5774]

I m happy fr you my dear. I am 52 and gave up. Pray fr me

[@joy129]

How sweet

[@angiehoward8217]

I'm 54, never married and no children but I'm so looking forward to finding love and getting married. Not giving up on love, I have a lot of living left to do❣🥰

[@sandracuffy1741]

I am just like you. I agree with you and not giving up on love.

[@angiehoward8217]

@@sandracuffy1741 yes indeed.🥰

[@lorenzoclement2013]

Good luck lady it's a hard find

[@cassacassa1182]

Bless you ❤

[@lisajoseph4632]

Your sister here

[@ninah5938]

I am 41 but this applies to my age group. I will not settle for anything but a husband! Amen!!! 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿

[@rebeccagitana]

same!!!

[@samilazeca4028]

Thank u. U are talking to me.

[@gilliangordon6865]

I so agree...

[@Kingmon01]

Good luck with that

[@berniemcbgood7674]

The END is not true, but where you at?

[@journeythroughthree]

I’m 55 and you nailed it. I was married for 20 years with 3 daughters. It ended and I thought I’d never find life after love. Well, I did! I was 47 when I met my ex-fiancé ..he was 60. I am African American, he Mexican. We had 7 beautiful years together. He relocated back to his home…well the rest is history. Yes, again I was heartbroken however not to the point of never dating again. I have been dating, nothing serious I’m enjoying life. So I agree, date with intention if that’s what you want. We are alive not dead yet!!!!

[@denisem5437]

Fumi, thank you for this video. I'm 58 single and starting a new journey. Like you past relationships oil and water and here I am. My faith is in God for wisdom and the right person for me.

[@charlottekirchner2612]

Fumi, you’re amazing! Love your videos, so much great advice. I’m in my mid 50’s and at the end of a abusive marriage. I met a man that wanted to rescue me, he backed out when my divorce was almost final. I realized it’s for the best, and I need to heal. Now we are “friends “, his ex is coming around and asking him to be friends, then she asked him to pretend he’s engaged so she could protect herself from a stalker. I live in another state and planning to move there, not just for him, but to escape my ex. I’m close to his family and they adore me. I think it’s weird that she wants to pretend to be engaged and no other pretenses there. She asks him out and he goes to be her “friend”. I don’t know how to handle this. I’m trying to be his friend and hoping some Day this will become more again. He likes to have a lot Of female friends. He makes hints about a future with me, but I don’t even know how to proceed. Some say no contact, but then I miss him. Should I just continue to be his friend and get the relationship issue out of my head? We talk every day just like friends, he helps me with advice with my ex and my kids, I love to talk to him, I don’t think I can go no contact. I’m so confused and lost

[@iam_trinikimmy]

Fumi, I love the 10 years older 10 years younger advice. I have done 30 years older, so I have that experience. He is deceased now, God rest his soul. I am now 45 years young. I have had a situation-ship with someone 7 years younger, boi, that was the most boring situation-ship I have ever had in my life lol. I have been experiencing challenges with meeting people, but I will take your advice and not give up. Your advice on motherhood is very inspirational as I also have had several surgeries because of fibroids and endometriosis , adenomyosis and cannot biologically carry a baby. I cried when I heard you describe how the Mother in you was born. Great advice, I am glad that I clicked. Blessings.

[@DumebiLea]

I’m 32 yet I enjoyed watching this. I’ve had a challenging love life and at a point I had to open up my mind to the possibility that I might marry older than I would’ve wished to but it’s not a terrible thing. Your love story with your husband gives me a lot of hope and your videos are always so enjoyable and inspiring to me plus I find you very relatable even though you’re old enough to be my mom lol. l lost my mom 10years ago and I miss having chats like this with her but your videos kinda make up for that and I watch every single one of your videos. Thanks for all that you do Aunty Fumi. Love you lots ❤️❤️

[@steph-i-see-you]

Believe it or not but your still young and you may not have to go against your wishes. ❤️

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

I agree with that 💯

[@BabyAlexxia6734.]

Grettings Fumi my 1year son loves you so much when he hears your voice he runs to me to Watch, much love from Capri Island in Italy 🇮🇹🔥😍😍

[@LBPHealing]

🤣🙆‍♀️ My 1 year old is the same!!! He’ll stop right in his tracks and run to the TV screen to watch Aunty Fumiiieee! And he’ll dance to the outro like he’s in the club lol lol 😆

[@5x7m]

I'm 53 and this was so inspiring! Thanks Fumi!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@syrinthiahaskell4876]

51 here haven’t given up yet ancestors stop sending me narcissists I’ve learned my lesson

[@alexisagginie4574]

Fumi, you are so precious! Yes, even adopting a child can bring all the Mother out of you. Children are like angels.

[@sistersister2209]

I just turned 50 years old 10 days ago. I have been celibate for 8 1/2 years now. I will soon be ready to start back dating. I'm not desperate and I'm not settling for less.

[@queenofweaves916]

Fumi girl I’m 50 and I’m married for 23 years and I need to get that THANG back. I make women look and feel beautiful for a living but I have forgot about myself. So Sis I’m all ears I need a routine where I have a everyday look. Your right my husband is 56 and looks good. I need to get it together.

[@heatherblanco9264]

Thank you Fume! Why do women constantly discuss their past relationship especially in detail with men they just met and are dating? Why? It is annoying.

[@irenegoffe2484]

Hi, I am in my 60 and when I said I want someone special in my life , My so-called friend, asked what I am doing with man at my age, I hate when anyone said those words to me. One thing I believe, I will get some one to love me and respect me

[@shoelady6457]

50's and fabulous! 😁👍

[@JJ-wj6ur]

I guess in your 60 means it's over, time retire when it comes to finding love. I'm divorced late in life. And 65 , husband left me for something younger. What now!! Enjoying being the best grandma I can be for now. Taking care of myself and bringing myself closer to god because his love is forever. 🙏❤❤❤❤🙏👍🥰

[@hgfw9295]

I'm 41 and still giving myself a chance but it's hard out there. I think I may end up happy with my books with my grandchildren one day and living in some beautiful rural area. I'm fine with it already. Love for you ❤

[@sexyblackjag]

@@hgfw9295 I think the exact same thing...books, brooks, and grand babies

[@precioushopia3218]

Good morning mummy, how are you and your family? please mummy i will like you to do a video of visiting your fiance parents ( African parents ) for the first time and also talk about the kind of clothes we should put on and how to answer there questions and orders. Love you because you're a good mum to us that don't have a mother's anymore.

[@sherrisolomon8673]

Wow! Very impressed with your channel. Personally I'm indifferent on dating and marrying right now but I'm routing for those who desire it. Btw, I'm in the second half of my 50's.

[@sweetneverbitter6109]

I can watch Fumi’s vids all day!! Love her.

[@Chillalot]

Fumi looking gorgeous as usual!!! Great advice!! we’re looking good and living longer no need to put ourselves on the shelf. Enjoy life!!!

[@reggaelvr68]

First time here...great advice as I head to 50 in November 2022.

[@ericrobinson1789]

This is one of the best commentaries I've watched to date! This is some excellent advice from this beautiful sister. Folk should take heed too.

[@phyllisthornton8974]

Love God First all else will follow. I love ❤️ being in my 50s dating, my family, friends job ...but most of all love I myself/yourself!! 😊 Thank you!

[@laurieb.5199]

Thank You Fumi! I'm so close to 50 I can see it, and I have never been married but I do date and this is great advice!

[@ecampbell5316]

I love my 50s and I know 60s will be even better.

[@mariamkasirye2845]

You made me gain my confidence fumi am proud classy and elegant bcz of you my darling

[@ruthchinyemba7162]

Fumi fumi am 38 and am scared to be in love coz i lost my uterus at a tender age maybe this person will pressure me to have a child which i will not have,am really scared to love again.love you fumi

[@nataliegraham3287]

I’m 57 a caregiver for my dad and I’m 57, this was great advice, thank you!🙂

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Great advice she gave us indeed 🥰

[@iriagboneseogbomo6120]

Your Dad needs a younger professional care giver. You need to take good care of yourself and mingle with a loving, caring man who will take extra care of you. So get moving Natalie, start searching for these 2 individuals. Believe me when I tell you that they are out there waiting on you!❤️😘

[@nataliegraham3287]

@@iriagboneseogbomo6120 Thank you!🥰

[@carmens673]

You are right I'm looking solid and fabulous and just calm and collected

[@nancycaron8227]

Fumi, I love you. I always feel happy and hopeful after watching your videos. You bring so much light, love and joy to the world. Thank you for being you. I know it can’t always be easy. Much love 😘

[@bsongbird21]

Thank you Fumi for sharing from your heart especially about being a mother and nurturing children we didn’t birth. In my 50s and ready to have love again in my life. Thanks for the inspirational guidance. Yes!!!🌠💜

[@Lisalisalisa2023]

Thank you! I just joined the 50 club🙌

[@nonhlanhlamatlala7259]

Very interesting. I'm dating 6 yes younger than me and I feel ❤️ the guy keeps me p busy

[@amcke8948]

You are very right dear. I got one and I'm so happy now

[@iamlorettamerritt]

Just subscribed and Love this!!! You look Fabulous!! 😍😍

[@nicoleriviello14]

Thank you Fumi.. you uplift us each and every time

[@cynthiastrong4031]

I Just stumbled across your channel and I LOVE IT !!!! THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR TIPS. God Bless You from ATL

[@nellycastro1650]

Sister I love you so much! You are a real inspiración for me. I’m ready to travel and level up because of you. Love all your advice and tips you share with us, and love your laughter ❤

[@cristinebarefield1074]

Beautiful Lady. I would love to know what she uses on her skin. Gorgeous & Great advise.

[@catiesnow9595]

How do I get a new boyfriend since I don’t see any singles here 😊

[@DatDamnNatashaa]

Thank you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 This has given me inspiration to keep being open.

[@Heidi-Beth]

Hi 👋 I'm 56 soon to be 57. No one has sparked my interest in 3 years of being single. Not sure if it will happen at my age. I certainly never see a silver fox!

[@daunetteokoroh6658]

I love your advice. You are beautifully made up. I will try to imitate the look since I have your complexion. God Bless.

[@andreacampbell1197]

Omgosh I came across your content and I'm in love. Your delivery is great and your content is on point interesting and age appropriate for me. Sure enjoy.

[@beverlyhutchins7726]

I am 53 and I needed this dating info but scared to ask. Thank u. Luv u ❤️❤️

[@lpsglitterpaws8536]

First time viewer…you are talking straight and you have class! Just subbed!

[@ireneshakwane1833]

Hi I like your advice and energy I'm 58 years old but people say I'm looking like a 39 year lady and I'm dating a 53 year old man

[@dianemurphy9412]

Hello to you today. I am sixty seven and feel very good. Ready to date again. Love your advice.

[@sharonjames7192]

Tick Tick Tick @58 I feel the time is slipping away so fast but having done all the work, I pray I still can attract a good man

[@madinahmusisi7921]

Wow beautiful piece of advice stay blessed

[@royaldiadem8660]

I'm 28 and definitely implementing all these

[@thetruequeen6747]

This is all great dating advice but I’m an introvert and I can’t do this. But thanks sister 🙏🏾

[@mandmhuttson3898]

Seeing your page for the very first time, am a newbie...I love the things you speak on so I subscribe immediately.. thank you, you're amazing and powerful..💘 😻 💜 💛 💚

[@erikalee8058]

Thank you so much for the encouraging words in this video.

[@ladyxivag5881]

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS!!! LOVE YOUR SHOW, YOU GIVE GREAT ADVICE, THANKYOU AND GOD BLESS🙏😇💜💯🔥👍🙏

[@victoria23556]

Thank you for the advice🙏

[@robertbrathwaite4191]

True wisdom

[@geraldineanngregory1371]

I am turning 50 this month and I hope to find a new love

[@janetbignall5603]

Wow this video is awesome thanks Sis

[@shellyshantel1]

LOVE YOUR SPIRIT!!!!

[@aleciamoten6867]

Awesome advice!! Thank you!😊

[@MsBklynQn]

I’m in my 40s and I ❤your advice can you talk about the conversations we should have. I’m recently divorced

[@janespitfire9884]

you have good sense!! thank you

[@Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD]

This Beautiful woman Fumi is 👑. Thank you me 60 plus...First time viewing you and I'm In Love🤗

[@elizabethkaranja570]

I am looking forward to dating in my late 40s❤

[@lornabaldah9347]

Very good advice

[@geisoenterprise3425]

Amen 🙏 thanks a bunch sweetheart 🥰🥰🥰🌹🌹

[@allisonstephens9421]

TI love Your Topics I'm So Happy I Found You Thank You For The Tips Love Peace And Blessing To U And Your Family 🙏❤️🦋

[@edithchinyelu9997]

Thanks so much Fumi. I am relieved. Nay God bless and keep you for us.

[@nikkiicruz6646]

Awesome tips thank you!

[@kayswinger]

Thanks Fumi for your wisdom and advice. You keep it real. I just started watching your videos. Your a real sister friend on KZbin. God Bless you

[@fiyahriddims]

FYI, If you are over 40,don't have issues and try to date/con people. Don't be lacking...... And don't try to compare yourself to younger people. Be genuine, if you don't have it, say that. If your 🐈 ran though like a will call. Don't act like you have😻. Trust me.... There is a BIG difference. If you need a pill, get some(but it's your health) We are to old for the Bull 💩. Remember , men and women with means don't need anything, we can buy what/who we want. I'm not buying old used shoes....

[@Mz_Latee]

Anther great one !

[@debbiebarrow7557]

Thank you for this video Godbless🙏💜🔥🇬🇧

[@janefrancis5869]

Great knowledge 👏 grt vibe. Sm aways here ..

[@designsonyouinparis]

Beautiful!❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@lucymashika7734]

Absolutely right advice wow mwaah i love it chai yayayayaya anyway God blessed you mylove countue give as more an more Grace upon your future my darling ♥️♥️♥️ keep it up

[@nalwangafauster2377]

Thanks for your good service dear sister and am here to get a lyf pattern if possible am 43now

[@okutebettina2509]

Am Alady of 48 years but so far not got serous man to settle down with and this bothers me alot

[@christydavid476]

Aunty Fumi, God bless you for making us in this category know that we are able, you are truly a God sent ma. Christianah all the way from Nigeria

[@mercyogbonna8726]

I need help in revamping my wardrobe as well. I am in abuja.

[@KateTriumph]

Lovely skin you've got

[@lovetastewart9177]

Thank you Mrs Fuma

[@ashleydior401]

Thank you for your precious advice

[@kazmorich]

I know women who are dating men 17 years younger and their relationships are thriving. I think it all depends on who you are dating and it's not even about a blazing body and all, it's all about the maturity of the man and compatibility, dating within the bracket of 10 years is not cast in stone! 12 dates before sleeping together? Are you crazy? hehehee...why is that so. Does it even matter? lol...

[@mphoagnes511]

I really enjoyed it.

[@designzbyjulez9838]

Dating is not one size fit all. Stop telling people when and how to date. People find Love in different size, colors, ages, heights etc. Live your life without limit's!

[@paulinejackson7475]

Totally agreed with you

[@noblegirl1991]

Great advice

[@ntokozomkhwanazi6118]

May you please advise me on legit dating sites sister

[@dawnfisher7643]

Thank u I enjoyed the. Topic

[@ainsleypeters9215]

When i had my 2 kids i had blood clot in my lung nerly going to die. I was living in holland at time .dont have more kids if there a danger fumi.iam 67 my dutch husband is 61.jus so that u know your subscriber .pramila

[@rosaliafeal671]

Blessed

[@ElegantPaws01]

👀👀👀who is this svelte goddess? Ula is lucky.

[@Lorena-xg2zk]

Just subscribed

[@belindaharris8805]

☺ my vision is still kinda clear...lol.

[@1MischiefRN]

Fumi, I am 50 and my husband is 35. He has such a papa spirit and has always dated older. My ex-husband was 11 years older than me but his mind was that of a irresponsible teenager. My husband now is a man of God, quite world traveled, educated, debt free, was building his own home, had no children and God made him perfect for me. We are both great apart as individuals but even better together. So in that, each situation is unique. (By the way, m first marriage, I tried and was married for 17 years. So I know the difference). Love your content Fumi ❤️ My new marriage 3 years and counting.

[@steph-i-see-you]

Some people are old souls and you met a old soul and soul mate. Congrats

[@PupuceDoree6450]

Do you plan to have children may I ask ?

[@sandradelamotta4982]

Good for you

[@marifestation4603]

Aww thats beautifull❤god bless you both

[@palesamatsipa2157]

💓💓💓

[@Heidi-Beth]

Hi 👋 I'm 56 soon to be 57. No one has sparked my interest in 3 years of being single. Not sure if it will happen at my age. I certainly never see a silver fox!