10 OUTDATED Style & Etiquette Rules You Need To STOP Following ASAP

[@RealMenRealStyle]

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[@francismaloney8775]

Great video Antonio

[@francismaloney8775]

Good manners will open doors that the best education can not Don't know who to credit for that bit if wisdom As my mother would say "Manners maketh the man" Are manners and etiquette the same thing ?

[@michaelfisher1390]

What can I say, I was brought up to believe that all girls were princesses. This may be very far from the truth but, I still act my part on a date.

[@theirishcontrarian4626]

Thanks for the video. I disagree with a number of issues, but great you are keeping the issue of presentation in the conversation. In relation to the jacket without the tie with a pocket square, I think you'd look far more put together with a neck tie. Just my opinion, keep up the great work.

[@speedracer9132]

A man should pay... simple

[@Aryas8]

Idk how the hell you kept a straight face when you pulled out the sword

[@geoffberl]

He's a Marine, swords are commonplace in the Marine Corps

[@brenttesterman1198]

He's a United States MARINE, for pete sakes!

[@robendert7617]

Practice, practice, practice ...

[@hermest99]

@@brenttesterman1198 Idk how united states marines keep straight faces either.

[@charyvazone7969]

Right because we all know who carries the swords or saber.

[@freedomring3022]

I opened a door for a woman one time and she actually said she didn't need my help and that she could open her own door. I responded with "yeah, that's what we have too much of today, people being nice to one another"

[@scasey1960]

Freedom Ring yes - women believe rudeness is a masculine trait.

[@kenloc312]

Probably a Feminist

[@toddgaak422]

"I'm not holding the door for you because you're a woman; I'm holding the door for you because I'm a gentleman."

[@aixpert291]

Nice!

[@chuckinhouston9952]

Todd Gaak Perfect response!

[@ChrisBicourt]

I cannot stress enough how much I love it when Antonio gets his sword out.

[@crazymayne69]

The innuendos are strong with this one

[@mathewhenderson7019]

It was hilarious

[@pablo_x_11]

Not unless your wearing a sword....lmao

[@axlekabk4070]

that one killed me 😁

[@steveneleon]

Historically speaking, it is true. From the late 15th century to the end of the 18th century, men would wear swords as a mark of distinction, social status and self-defense. As small portable firearms became more refined, the sword gradually stopped being worm as a tool for defense.

[@AyAy008]

You're*

[@filtro-d-aire6843]

I always wear a sword... 😁 then left

[@jukijunk]

Lmao

[@nobodyhungryco]

Antonio is the type of Centeno who carries a sword to a restaurant to cut his steak precisely.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

This is too funny!

[@CRAM1REZ51]

But can he hang his hat on the sword? Well maybe not after a steak; touché pussy cat!

[@punjabifeast]

Adeel Ali Mohamedi hahaha and what about the fork ??

[@majormalfunction3757]

Well I'm a sikh so I literally always carry a dagger with me It's a religious thing buddy

[@MrNightpwner]

@@majormalfunction3757 I love those things.

[@maxsievers8251]

I wear suits to interviews while being a chef. I think it shows respect to the position offered.

[@aashutoshsalunke8273]

Me too Every hotelier is taught to wear suit during their interviews

[@kaziiqbal7257]

Max Sievers I thought being a chef is a position of moderate power and warrants a suit when not in uniform anyway.

[@maxsievers8251]

@@kaziiqbal7257 Many chefs just don't do it. The HR people and hotel directors like it, though. Working as a chef can mean many things. Some positions require more a worker type and some more a manager type.

[@maestrosartori7129]

I was a chef for years before a mid life career change. I wore suits to interviews, for meetings or work outings that didn't have me in my chef coat. Not all of us did though.

[@DavidLLambertmobile]

For interviews or business meetings dress 1 level up from the job or manager. Unless they wear uniforms. I've worn suits & sports coats then the boss or mgr had 👕 , shorts.

[@ooyginjardl4037]

At my daughters high school graduation, I swear, I was the only person there wearing a suit and tie out of hundreds of people. I believe this shows respect to her and her accomplishments but apparently these standards are falling by the wayside.

[@xXMissButterflyXx]

I was shopping last week and it started to rain. When I was about to cross the street, a guy with a umbrella offered to walk with me. It was one of the sweetest things that happened with me this year

[@neildsouza3085]

At last , a woman who appreciates little things men do !!! Kudos to you!!!

[@JoseFlores-xh5cj]

No real "man" carries an umbrella

[@smasome]

"Is that an umbrella in your pocket or are ya just glad to see me?"

[@zaneadams8574]

Just going to throw this out there: Walk on either side of a woman unless you’re next to a street. Walk closest to the street in order to shield from debris, the occasional splash and (from personal experience) to give you optimal positioning to move your company to safety should a car decide that the sidewalk is also their domain.

[@gravewalker1632]

I agree, however the man can be looking at all the cool cars and the woman can be window shopping.

[@georgelush1998]

That’s what I was taught. The guy always walks closest to the street. That way he can emulate Sir Walter Raleigh and lay his jacket across a puddle so My Lady’s feet don’t get wet.

[@EatDatAss420]

Im male but my dad did this with me

[@Sakura_Blossoms]

As a woman myself, you just got bonus points for that statement.

[@crazyredneck4931]

@S C bro... chill

[@danielbustos16]

When I’m walking with a girl. I always walk on the street side.

[@munkeefinkelbeen5395]

Good story: an old school teacher of mine opened a door, and the woman behind him yelled, "I could've done that myself!" My teacher, not missing a beat said, "I didn't open that for you, I opened it for my wife behind you." Lady huffed and walked away

[@christineribone9351]

Funny! I enjoy having the for held open. Please don't stop.

[@munkeefinkelbeen5395]

@@christineribone9351 absolutely! I hold the door open for my own conscience

[@christineribone9351]

@@munkeefinkelbeen5395 😀😀❤

[@danniandersen5858]

1. Be a door man.

[@obamaputkidsincagesazcentr8418]

I prefer opening the door for women. And hold the door open for men.

[@awesomebroke]

I remember bedazzled. Poor Elliot

[@flashlightfreek]

2. Don't be a doormat.

[@syguzman5739]

🤣 I love you, Danni Anderson

[@strixt]

Yeah, I completely disagree with 1. To each their own, i reckon.

[@2002CamaroSS427Crazy]

I open or hold doors open for everyone and I'll always take my hat off when I go inside.

[@nickcalnephone]

People like you are very much appreciated.

[@brownpunk1794]

U were raised right

[@Facebodyfx]

and that would never go unnoticed or unappreciated by me. You're a gent!

[@murmor6890]

Not taking your hat off as a man is really kinda strange, whenever I see it I looks like that person is stressed and wants to leave.

[@PhoenixBlazer39]

For me, the hat thing is simply a leftover habit I picked up in the military. Went to a Navy highschool and joined the Army, so I had the rules regarding covers hardwired into me. Instinctively take off my cover indoors, and just feel uncomfortable without some form of one outside.

[@LaGiaGarcia]

Etiquette consultant here! The elbows rule actually comes from the British navy. The British desperately needed sailors in their navy and if you had your elbows on the table at the pub, it meant you had experience on a ship eating to not let your food slide around. You would get knocked out with a 2x4, then wake up on a boat on the way to Shanghai. They’d say, “Welcome to the British Navy”. Also, if you’re French, elbows are perfectly admissible on the table.

[@cookingwithpop2189]

If a man takes lady out, he pays. I always open the door and I make a point when walking with a lady to stay between her and traffic when applicable. I may be old school but I was raised that as men we are the protectors. I have never had a woman react negatively to being treated like a lady.

[@RevJamesCostello]

This reminds me of a job interview I went to. We were required to show up in ‘smart dress’. So I show up wearing my best navy suit, black oxfords, white shirt and tie. Everybody else was smart casual. I swear, even the person interviewing me was a little intimidated. ‘Has the out of town boss showed up?’

[@kheammachart]

That's the price for dressing sharp and dressing good. Sometimes you'll feel overdressed ane the only thing we can do is to get used to it because there will only be some people that take care how to dress.

[@IronDrummer91]

Interviewed for a different management consultancy firm and exactly the same thing happened / I wore a navy suit whilst everybody else was smart casual.

[@KarinaSwan]

You made the right choice. I'm in fashion and I can tell you that it's better to be overdressed than underdressed. The company can have a casual dress code or smart casual for employees, but it doesn't apply to an interview. Dressing in a suit shows professionalism and respect, which the others obviously didn't. If I were the interviewer, you'll be on top my list already.

[@RevJamesCostello]

@@KarinaSwan Thank you, Karina. :-)

[@thespadestable]

I hate those types of vague descriptions of dress requirement. It's comes off as if HR or the person who came up with the preferred interview standard tried to be smarter than they were. I prefer just stating what you require: jacket/no jacket, button down shirt with a collar/no tee shirts, tie/no tie, dress slacks/no jeans/no khaki a.k.a no cotton slacks, dress shoes/no sneakers. For one job interview the HR rep actually stated "please don't show up wearing western boots". I wore my pair of semi brouges chukkas just to push the limits. The interview went great, but did not get the job.

[@anthonysolis4163]

If you're walking down the street with a woman, the man should always be closest to the street so he can push her away in case of danger.

[@spaceracer23]

The man also shields the woman from traffic splashing puddles in the street. Woman also walked closer to the buildings to be shielded from people throwing garbage in the street from upper floors.

[@georgethomas2092]

@Haris Inam thanks, now my screen is covered in dr pepper

[@BMWSEXFIFTYDROP]

anthony solis or Vice versa

[@ef7480]

anthony solis -What??

[@boagoa282]

Nah...

[@gazmendamiti3927]

Even today in some cultures or age groups they generally avoid touching the opposite sex if not related. So as a man you are on the safe side if you wait for the woman to respond.

[@jamepearson]

Gazmend Amiti I agree. Especially the women who think they are the neighborhood Beyoncé without the fame. An unwanted touch or approach will get a reaction that warrants to be checked, and cussed out.

[@alfpit2010]

True, for instance in Romania from what I've seen, people are kinda touchy, whereas in France, people feel a bit offended if you get too close to them. There's a book about sign language where they describe how the comfort zone depends of the country you live in, so that's something to take into consideration for this rule probably.

[@philholland3218]

Snow flakes..... Extend a hand, give a firm shake. Absolutely nothing wrong with that!!!!

[@evonica3912]

Very true! And aside from that, some women simply aren’t comfortable with it due to past personal life experiences, regardless of culture. It’s always better to wait for her to extend her hand first.

[@jasondebarros4662]

“A gentleman looks out for anyone that he can help or offer assistance to” just got my subscription. Great channel, Antonio!

[@jeffreyyehezkiel8259]

I agree with most of these, but i still stand strong with matching your leather. Idk it just look good if your shoes and belt are the matching color

[@asyrafjalil3506]

You kinda look like a middleweight version of Cristiano Ronaldo 😂

[@muscleman3478]

Had scroll up to take a second look..you're description's bloody right mate!

[@acucarkid]

Yeah, a broker uglier version.

[@ssssSTopmotion]

@@acucarkid no one asked

[@brendo3808]

I've seen a couple other reasons for why elbows on the table is considered rude. Apparently sailors used to use their elbows to steady their tables out at sea to make sure their plates didnt move around, and apparently got so used to the practice that they did it even on dry land in pubs etc. According to this account, sailors dont have the best image of cleanliness or being friendly so it was considered rude to do what the rude sailors do. A second reason ive seen is that when English kings would invite viking invaders in to try and settle disputes and create treaties, they would provide a feast to get on their good side, and what the vikings would do, if there was room, was to put their elbows on the table to symbolize "You are poor, and cant even provide a full table worth of food for your guests", and so it became extremely insulting to the host, as to say they are too poor to provide for the situation.

[@oxysoxos]

I agree with you. Keeping your elbows off the table just looks better and tends to give you a straighter more confident looking posture. I hate when people rest one arm on the table while eating and holding the fork with the other hand.

[@stanberry4000]

Question is.. Do you perceive as such? Would. You even follow this,, considering Vikings is a thing of the past? Would you rather use your Kodak Camera rather than your Phone camera?

[@stanberry4000]

And in addition.. Do you think everyone knows this? If they don't. Are you willing to educate all every time you see one doing this.

[@rabignall]

I grew up with strict military parents. They had the rules for every piece of clothes. So I follow these steps just about every day or I'm "out of dress" as they would say. Thanks for the videos!

[@carultch]

You really want to spend your whole life doing what other people tell you to do?

[@deenhubin3766]

My wife walks to my left so my strong hand (right) is always free to deal with "worldly intrusions." Elbows off the table, especially if there is a table cloth. An accidental tug on the cloth can upset the setting, and you don't want to be the cause of wine spilling on the hostess: bad form.

[@PujDK]

I always thought that either right or left, man should always be between lady and road

[@deenhubin3766]

@S C Life is dangerous. Enjoy your unicorns and rainbows!

[@tierone4761]

Deen Hubin I do the same when I have a lady with me. She is on my left so I can react accordingly if there is a threat of any kind with my dominant hand, and if need be draw my 1911 from concealed carry. Good Day to You!

[@jamepearson]

Deen Hubin And you sure your phone isn’t in your right hand at these times. Just saying. Sounds good tho.

[@tierone4761]

jamepearson Yes, absolutely. If you must be on the phone for any reason, hold it with your non dominant hand. I’ve seen so many different types of uniformed personnel, wether it’s LEO’s or armed security guards at different events & they’ll be on the cell phone with their dominant hand leaving their duty weapon in the gun belt holster completely exposed & up for grabs by a person with ill intent. Common sense & experience in the real world should have these guys hold the damn phone with the off hand that way you are able to react to a situation if need be & you always have your arm at your side by the holstered weapon to prevent someone from trying to grab it. Not that it will happen but it has been documented to occur & the outcome is never good. Good Day to You!

[@calliduszenos1400]

I've always tended to try to keep a woman on my right, due to being left handed. I still walk closer to the street on side walks, to keep her from being splashed, and it also helps with safety issues. I also hold the door oped for everyone if there is someone coming up immediately behind me. A very good list I will start paying attention to.

[@Bonesph]

I've always just opened doors for anyone. I've never had a feminist attack me.

[@adwaitab.3622]

Same here

[@chrismcpartlin1484]

Didn't know the one walking to the left of a woman. I know the rule slightly differently: It doesn't matter which side you walk on as long as you walk on the side closer to the road. Another Thumbs up from me :) Great video.

[@RedHornSSS]

Once I went to a tech interview in suits. Turns out they all wear t-shirts

[@alisterfolson]

I showed up for an interview at UPS loading trucks in a suit I didn't get a second interview but he did compliment the suit; lessons learned

[@stephenkormanyos766]

Excellent video. As an older guy who still always wears a Stetson even in town I get very uncomfortable wearing my hat indoors but have grown accustomed to always wearing it for the reasons you stated. You still can’t get away with a white or straw hat after Labor Day though-it’s not a status thing-white and straw hats are only for Summer weather.

[@WarHeadNuke]

The woman should always be furthest from possible danger

[@MB-jr8ef]

Hello I'm from the UK the way that I was brought up was that way when walking with a women the man put himself between her and the traffic/danger also told hold doors for elders an not to allow them to shut in someone's face if close enough although I'm starting to draw the line with most of the younger generation just becoming to ignorant and bad mannered I'm pushing 50 maybe I'm just getting old

[@TheGamingDandy]

Danger comes from every single direction, so good luck with that rule.

[@me5969]

I’ve heard that before but I’m a big lad (not fat) but I don’t see how even I could stand in between a stolen Audi and my girlfriend. If that comes flying onto the pavement we’re both fucked. I make a conscious decision to do that with my daughter because nonces do exist but luckily I live in England and not Brazil so it’s unlikely my bird’s going to get kidnapped... plus I’d be greatful to someone for duct taping her mouth tbh.

[@mattreeves7689]

Not about "standing in between" your girl, or child, or elder, and an Audi, but being able to possibly push them to safety if the worst happens.

[@me5969]

If I’m pushing her out the way then it really doesn’t matter what side of the pavement I’m on. Plus I’ve never actually nearly been killed by a stolen car mounting on to the pavement at speeds but I imagine most people would just freeze.

[@galvanizeddreamer2051]

With the sword quip, the opposite is actually legitimate if you carry a firearm, as she may be in your way if you carry on your right hip. It also keeps your non-dominant hand in a better position to manipulate her out of harms way if drawing with one hand. Reverse accordingly if you are a lefty, or use a shoulder-holster.

[@cuckyprop5235]

Opening a door......An act of kindness cost nothing.

[@robendert7617]

Some "detail opinions" from a European perspective. I'm Dutch, and lived and/or worked in several European countries with "professional exposure" to the US, Canada and Asia. There are cultural differences between all these regions. Elbows on the table are a big no-no, as it usually go's hand-in-hand with other bad table manners. Keep your forearms rested on the table if you have to, but keep the elbows off the table. Shirts not tucked is juvenile, and kills your adult status in the office. Don't do this! Leather does not need to match on every account as stated in the video. But black shoes with brown belts or vice-versa looks shabby. As many men wear what their spouses are preparing for them, it indirectly insults your wife if you do not take note of this!

[@brenttesterman1198]

57-year-old, Californian; 1. Always open the door for everyone 2. 70% of the time pay for the date but, is dependent on the nature of the relationship and either parties intent 3a. Initiate a handshake dependent on body language, level of intimacy, social and culture norms 3b. I walk on the side that would expose my lady-friend to any possible threat eg: street side of sidewalk 4. Elbow placement depends on the level of formality in a given setting 5. Shirt tucking dependent on garment and level of formality 6. I don't observe 7. Dress to what is appropriate 8. What the norm is 9. I remove my hat when in Church or pray anywhere 10. I take my lead from what ANTONIO @ RMRS says! Outstanding video, once again! When are you going to stop winning?

[@jayeshkumawat]

He took out the sword I was like "damn " 😂😂 scared af

[@brandonwardlow4246]

I can say this, I work for Home Depot, and I had an interview for a new position I wanted WITHIN the company I already work for. For this interview I went all around town looking for a suit jacket that wasn’t going to deplete my entire savings account. I eventually found one, and then I showed up suit and tie and all to the interview and all my co-workers were blown away at how I looked and how it showed respect, and that I took the interview seriously, and that I wanted the job. Didn’t get the position, but my manager gave me feedback and he loved the fact that I went above and beyond preparing for the interview and again mentioned the suit and tie. So all and all, I say dress your absolute best for every interview!

[@DatRaccoon1215]

I guess I'm just old school wearing a suit to any interview gives a great impression, and show potential employers that your taking it series.

[@drew8235]

Outdated rule: shaking hands with other men in general. The amount of guys I see leaving the restroom without washing their hands is actually insane. Been washing my hands many times only to see a guy leave a stall and walk right past the sink and out the door...

[@RealMenRealStyle]

This is a good topic for ANOTHER video.

[@ronthompson2366]

That's impart due to the fact that parents no longer teach and enforce proper standards such those things that he just said to slack on...and washing your hands after using the bathroom, before sitting at the table and just proper standards of grooming..sad isn't it. Because you're right it's disgusting to see ....

[@reychop]

Drew your hands get dirty after touching the door knob so washing is useless in the rest room. I always get out first then take out the alcohol spray from my bag. In those door knob less rest rooms, I do wash on occasions. But the habit of using alcohol after getting out after i touch the knob have been so ingrained.

[@ronthompson2366]

@@reychop That is the most ridiculous thing ever... wash your hands... then use the paper towel to open the door...but if everyone would learn to wash it wouldn't be a problem... that is like saying you pick your nose and use your handkerchief to clean your hands afterwards...

[@probablynot1368]

Guys, I see many women who leave the rest room stall and breeze by the sink and soap, too. Don’t forget the moms (and dads) who change dirty diapers at the restroom changing station and omit cleaning their own hands.

[@CharlesOffdensen]

I was taught different rules. You could put your elbows on the table after you are done eating, but not during eating, because while eating your elbows go to the side so you can reach the food and then you take a lot of space. You could wear hat indoors if it a public space like a shop or something. But not when you enter someone's house.

[@mercerj12000]

I'm adding a sword to my EDC!

[@Official_MikeyT]

Maybe don't jump straight to the sword but start with a Cold Steel Espada XL. It is a good stepping stone from pocket knife to sword. Trust me.

[@traumatizedgermansoldier3856]

And if you wanna show off your military heritage, I recommend a well cleaned MP40

[@JOMFSE]

Get the svord! Look it up

[@slyphsoldier]

Perfectly legal in Texas

[@nicholaslawrence6926]

Women: Want equal rights, equal opportunities in the workplace, and equal salary. But still expect men to pay on the first date.

[@bigfatburn6229]

Just that sentence show how non gentleman you are… too frustrated.

[@nicholaslawrence6926]

@@bigfatburn6229 Stating a fact doesn't mean that I'm frustrated; it means I'm observant. Btw, I'm guessing you probably eat a lot on dates LOL

[@aixpert291]

Big Fatburn a white knight arrives.

[@diankreczmer6595]

A woman is not asking to be taken out. The man is asking her, so he should pay

[@nicholaslawrence6926]

Historically, men paid for dates because women either did not work, or were not paid much for the work they did. Not the case anymore in the 21st century.

[@foreveravocado4792]

Yesss!!!!! Open doors for everyone! And accept doors that are opened for you with grace, whomever opens it. Good etiquette updates on handshakes too

[@rubenpietermark7923]

The elbows on the table rule may have originated with a weak table top in mind, but now we know that keeping your elbows off your table is very important for your posture. And we also discovered that the most important time to keep a right posture, is during a meal. Your posture during your meal has influences on your swallowing pattern, which has influence on the growth of your face. Yes, it's all connected!

[@mikeramirez1695]

I walk nearest the street while my wife is on the inside. Also sit on outer portion of restaurant booth and I try to get a booth facing front door to watch for bad guys.

[@Painfulwhale360]

Mike Ramirez same, same and same

[@charliedee9276]

I carry concealed appendix slightly toward my right hip. My lady is always on my left in case I have to draw which will be from my right.

[@charliedee9276]

@tinylilmatt I do... Really freaks them out.

[@keithparker5103]

Mike Ramirez, when we go out my ladyfriend always wears high heeled shoes. If stairs are encountered I insist she goes UPstairs ahead of me and DOWNstairs behind me.

[@tedhart7708]

Do you also carry? Sounds like you might. I have similar MO.

[@valentinchirpalovmusic1009]

Agree with everything, except the hat thing, in my personal opinion a man must always take of a hat when he enters a building

[@dominicandawg3455]

The suit to an interview part is very true I found that if you go business casual the interviewer appreciates the professional look.

[@smittyseabee]

great video,however a man always walks on the street side,be it on the left or right so she is protected from traffic .A man is supposed to walk behind a woman going up stairs and in front going down stairs,so if she stumbles she is stopped from falling down stairs.

[@awesomeerr8765]

Stupid outdated norms. Just hold her damn hand shes not a porcelain doll, shes a human being who pisses and shits like all of us she does not need to be pampered.

[@MrPeterquinn]

@@awesomeerr8765exactly 😂

[@yfelwulf]

Walking to the road side of a woman was to prevent her being splashed by vehicle or Carriage.

[@JP31378]

Always walk to the left especially on the street, take your freaking hat off indoors, pay for the first date. Standards & Practices make you a better man.

[@BulagBanditMedia]

Isnt it always walk on the right?

[@needfoolthings]

@@BulagBanditMedia It should be always walk between the road/street and the one you wish to protect.

[@JP31378]

@@BulagBanditMedia what knight crawler said

[@TheGamingDandy]

Why walk to the left, or right? Why is this a standard that makes anybody better? It literally makes not one bit of difference.

[@stanberry4000]

Nope.. They don't make you a better man. What makes better man is if you don't side with injustice in today's age. Don't support bullying, help an old lady cross the street,, buy a burger to the homeless. The fuck are you saying taking off your hat makes you a better man. Delusional.

[@antoniog9814]

I can understand about a manual laborer, but as a project manager, I will always suit-up for an interview. I've noticed that in any office setting, that is still the norm. I follow the "dress for the occasion" rule. I've gone to casual settings before in a suit, but I carry a tie in my jacket just in case it's needed.

[@terrysmith4831]

As a veteran as well, we were required to remove our headgear when entering a building. There were no hat racks to be found in military buildings either. Find a place to put your hat, it's not that difficult.

[@awesomeerr8765]

Yea not everything the military does is great. It's a stupid fucking rule.

[@mattm9689]

Lmao I do the same thing thanks to the army. Even in civilian clothes I need to put a hat on outdoors and remove it indoors out of habit.

[@nathanreichwein2031]

The best place for me to put my cover is either in my locker or shoved in my pack since everyone limes to steal covers... Marines never lie, cheat, or steal. rah?

[@ripper12322]

So regarding the opening of doors. I come from a Afrikaans background and we are brought up to show respect to elders and ladies. And I have always opened doors for women. And yes I have come across opening a door to a woman once who was in fact a feminist vibe "pfft'ing" me and say she doesn't need me to open it. And my response was simply saying to her I am not just doing it for her but doing it because it is in my character to show respect.

[@ThemisKBR]

This video is awesome ...it improved my life love it

[@wdsbhb]

Completely agree about holding doors. Hold them for everyone. No one is going to get upset.

[@ACMR6297]

I think the suit in an interview thing is just for formalities and to look good. It also shows that you care enough to look good, at least for the interview.

[@kkingquad]

I like the door tip! I’m adamant about opening doors for others. My grandma taught me that as a boy.

[@alisterfolson]

RMRS I love it you deliver your jokes in thst deadpan manner

[@christopherarendt3531]

Wow dude that's crazy you included a picture of Ataturk, never thought I would have seen a Turkish person presented in your show.

[@-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-...]

I like the humor you add to your vids. Makes it much more interesting while the info you’re giving out is still solid!

[@Willforeman123456]

“Whenever pull your sword” the most casual comment I have heard since Bonaparte referred to his Russia

[@kursatosmanoglu6888]

My personal experience is going dutch on the first date will increase the chances for the second date as it makes her more invested beyond just showing up. I think walking left is more related to being between cars / traffic and her as a buffer zone 😀

[@Maria-B21]

I agree most of it, except for the elbow in the table. For me, it's just making the person looks' aggressive and unrelaxed.

[@alexsy3545]

Great topic! It's one of those things you always encounter in your daily life but never done the research for. Thank you sir Antonio!

[@ИванИванов-к8ь4ь]

In Bulgaria, and other eastern european countries, women stays in left of the man, becose you salute with the right hand. It's a tradition from pre-WWll military time.

[@me5969]

That’s actually quite interesting. I have a lot of polish and Slovak friends so I’m going to see if they do this (don’t know if it would apply to them)

[@sjonhverfing5080]

Me It doesn’t, at least as far as western Poland and former Czechoslovakia is concerned. The current rule is that you walk with your gal primarily on your right side, however, “as the goal is her safety”, you can switch that if necessary.

[@ИванИванов-к8ь4ь]

I am almost sure that in fact there is no kurant rules about that. #meeto kill all traditions.

[@stephenyardley3747]

Hey. I agree, If you feel comfortable in any clothing combo or color blend.....go for it. I happen to be a bit more of a traditionalist, but, hey, that's just me. You be you

[@RainMakeR_Workshop]

Sadly I've lived that "crazy feminist" moment. I do hold doors open for anyone regardless of what sex they are. I've still had some lunatic scream at me for being sexist when I've done held the door for her. I slammed that door in her face. She looked startled but shockingly didn't carry on screaming at me. This was in a place I used to volunteer and it was in front of staff. Someone tried to get me in trouble for it but the staff thankfully took my side as they saw what transpired and they know I hold the door for anyone. P.S. Interesting fact, she was a part of a group we had there called the "Womens Group"... We also had a "Mens Group" that the Womens Group tried to have shut down on a few occasions. Despite the fact that that the Mens Group was primarily a help and support group for abuse, health, anxiety, sexuality, grief, addiction and various mental health issues.

[@SaxonC]

Good taste and class never go out of style.

[@astartes9646]

Incredible!!! Been enjoying this fantastic Channel! Top quality content, deep rooted, meaningful, practical and on point...! The sword .. that was absolutely gold! A nice added touch! Fantastic! Keep it up! 🙏 Real man real style!

[@deniz_ildir]

Haha we have Mustafa Kemal Atatürk on 03:42 :) Good work Antonio ;)

[@andrziv]

Deniz Ildır That’s what I was wondering whether my eyes had played tricks on me so I immediately went to the comments to confirm.

[@ozanberkkovanc4131]

🇹🇷🇹🇷

[@margaretm1067]

I tend to agree with everything you have just said. I think a suit is a good choice for an interview as long as the fit is right. Nothing worse than if it is either too tight or too big. Generally as long as you look smart and appear to have taken a bit of trouble over your appearance it gives a good first impression. I would like your opinion on whether socks should be worn at all times with shoes. Personally I find it a bit off putting if a man doesn't wear socks with leather shoes. OK with trainers. What about patterned socks or should socks always be self coloured to match the colour of the trousers. Best wishes from the UK where most men do not wear pocket squares.

[@TejasSoni15]

Shoes n belt should match, atleast in formals.

[@arnoldduran4953]

he actually made a video about a year or 2 ago where he says they should, and also the metals. but i think what he means if it you know how to play with the colors, you probably can go with it

[@jesupcolt]

I'm really OCD about my leathers. Metals don't bother me as much, but leathers definitely bother me when they don't match. That's just a personal hangup of mine, though. I agree with your assessment about formals.

[@ShinKyuubi]

I've always been raised to open the door for people, my grandpa really wanted me to understand being what he considered a gentleman and that was being helpful to people and one way I do that is by holding open doors for people..especially if they have a full armload of food at a take out joint or it's a building that doesn't have automatic doors. I also help people in the grocery store try to find what they are looking for if it's very obvious they don't know where it is and I happen to know, or help them reach something they can't if they are a little short or their arms aren't as long as mine. It's just something I was raised to do and I do it on automatic now. I haven't run into one of the raving feminist that hast a fit when a man opens the door for her..maybe it's cause of the area I live in, I live both in the south and an area where there are a lot of older folks who passed on the same kinda thing my grandpa did.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

You're grandpa's great man. Keep it up ShinKyubi!

[@Just1American1966]

When I was about eighteen years old, I opened the door for a woman who was approaching it. She may have been about thirty years old. She huffed at me, saying "you don't have to open the door for me because of my sex!" I responded with "I wasn't opening it because of your sex. I was opening it because of your age."

[@budapestmole]

It’s nice that the pocket square is back. Keep a handkerchief in your jacket pocket. Ties good quality, four in hand or the Old Bertie only knots you need.

[@westermatt]

Be a man and risk feminist backlash for opening the damn door. You cannot be a conditional man.

[@tammycain8421]

Woman here. And you are correct

[@MrLeri09]

Never ever initiate any kind of touch to a woman unless you want to be sued for sexual harassment.

[@leonardbreau8928]

I think all these tips are spot on, except for wearing a hat indoors - its a traditional sign of respect to take your hat off indoors. Alot of guys commented with regards to etiquette with women, I basically want to project to the world that I'm well bred & have a little class.

[@IamChevalier]

Good for you... I was raised the same way. One always removes their hat when addressing a lady and removes it when in doors. I would get a more than subtle 'nudge' in the ribs from my Father, Uncle or Grandfather if I didn't remove my hat for either situation - trust me, you didn't forget again. Same for holding a door - I sometimes get the odd comment from the latest feminist oddball - Just ignore and say "You're Welcome anyway" loud enough to embarrass the hell out of them - I always get an approving nod or glance from bystanders (male & female). Reminds me of the scene in "Cahill, US Marshall" - when John Wayne's 'son' refused to tip his hat to a lady - Wayne basically backhanded him off his horse - saying "Pardon Ma'am, a slight oversight in his upbringing..." Am old school - sometimes modern 'ways' are not the best ways. It's the little things - that we simply ignore or let go - that snowballs into bigger indiscretions. Off my soap box 🙂

[@cob9834]

I agree with you, For a blue-collar position wearing business casual polo shirt and trousers I think you’re great

[@lapernice6978]

Elbows on the table are very bad though, still! 😎

[@teduardo]

Liked for number 1 - be a gentleman and help anyone that needs help. I open doors for women all the time, but also seniors, children, etc.

[@tommyt8998]

Guess we're a product of our breeding. I'm 70 and was always taught by my parents not to offer my hand to a lady first. I still abide by this rule. Sorry, but I really think people eating in a restaurant while wearing a hat or cap look low class.

[@oswaldofigueroa529]

Thank God we’re in 2020

[@vk3hsc655]

I’m with you. Hats indoors is low brow. Especially if it’s a baseball cap. Hang it on your seat. Don’t be a git. If you’re in a sports bar. No one cares. If you’re not, take it off you uneducated gronk

[@newsim23]

Came here for the elbows on the table (basically what I had thought with the flimsy tables) but the rest of the tips were great too!

[@andreas-panay]

idk about the elbows one. I don't think the origin actually matters, the point is it's now a commonly accepted sign of poor table etiquette. Sur eit was once a functional thing, but now it's a cultural/traditional thing and that still matters

[@TheGamingDandy]

But it doesn't matter though.

[@poposisa]

it doesn't matter anymore.

[@edmcginley7943]

It does matter; at a proper table, if you can put your elbows on the table, you are too far forward, making your posture seem to your guest a little invasive. It also brings your hands either to the center of the table, or around your face.

[@orsors2129]

I'm a feminist and I open the door for whoever is behind me. A simple thank you is appreciated. Courtesy to everyone. Who ever does the inviting pays, regardless of gender.

[@traveler7249]

A man should put himself between danger and others (woman, child, elderly, etc.) E.g. The most common use is placing yourself between traffic (auto, trains, etc.) and others. - Note - Some males don't see themselves as Defenders and it shows.

[@ohiorichkidbeats]

He's right,a true gentleman opens the door for anyone that's close behind him that's coming in the door as well..i only let it go if the person is really far awar from door

[@garrett3441]

But, should my sword guard match my belt buckle?

[@tedhart7708]

Absolutely!🤣

[@Dukestallione]

I have to disagree with a few numbers however a Real Man understands the difference between good advice and poor advice. Great video Antonio!

[@tobyey9134]

I do find that one should not put his elbows on the table as it puts you in a sort of boxing stance with your arms raised in front of your body which can look very menacing.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Makes sense.

[@georgiawilksch5708]

Elbows on Table: in a restaurant elbows can be hard to work around for servers. If you have elbows on table, please remove them and be nice about it when the server is presenting and taking the food away.

[@cowboycody8094]

When it comes to the side of the woman that I walk on I always walk on the side of traffic or potential Danger. And if there's no danger then I don't really care what side I'm on.

[@johncampbell5890]

Well stated Sir. There is a definite lack of good manners in society at present. I'm certain you will cover Social Media in upcoming videos. Thank you and please continue............ jc

[@methemonkeyking]

One time in a large office with many employees, while approaching a closed door, I let a woman behind me pass first, she didn’t say thank you, smile or nod her head. It felt like I was slapped in the back of the head. This woman was gorgeous and knew all the men in the office talked about her. A few weeks later, guess who was behind me as I approached the door? It felt amazing entering first and watching the door close behind me.

[@marcjohnson4385]

At My age I dress for comfort so it's usually a pair of Sperry boat shoes t-shirt or sweatshirt and an old pair of utilities or khakis depending on the season yes they still fit Semper FI Brother

[@TerryPullen]

There's a right way and a wrong way to put your elbows on the table. If you look like you're trying to protect your plate or you're hunched over your plate trying to shovel as much food as you can that's the wrong way. A casual elbow on the table well you take a listening pose that's okay. Elbows on the table with your head in your hands and crying into your salad... not okay.

[@TheVirtuoso883]

I usually carry my sword and wear a British knights helmet and a silk glove to initiate duels. Otherwise I walk down the street and scream MY LADY and brandish my weapon proud

[@obamaputkidsincagesazcentr8418]

It's still fine paying for the first date and if the girl really wants to go half. You can go half. Girls like decisive men. Make the first move in trying to pay for the date.

[@1maybeline]

Usually when a woman wants to pay her half, it's bc there are no romantic sparks and she wants to keep the relationship platonic and just be friends.

[@haveagodoi]

Dude....I always thought I was the best. Now, I find myself sharpening my swords. Good job! I don't ever need your advise, but almost everyone I know needs your help. Be well, friend!