10 Psychologically-proven Flirting Strategies

[@Psych2go]

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[@gravityphoenix212]

Domesticumbreon two of my friends have that! I would love for them to make a video on that

[@brandynlovett4054]

Psych2Go I love you for this video Ashley!

[@bumblebee7335]

can I test these tips on you? just to make sure if it really works

[@brandynlovett4054]

Bumble Bee Im not sure if your talking to me or not or joking or not,but if you are I kindly decline.

[@bumblebee7335]

Brandyn Lovett 😂😂😂

[@levisbae4719]

“Play hard to get” Can’t play hard to get if I’m already hard to want

[@rubenrios8824]

levi's bae ... wanna talk about it?.. 🙁

[@levisbae4719]

x Craftiq Im ugly lmao

[@ArielMariceli]

#Relatable

[@JadenNeko]

(>/_\)> Feel ya -_-

[@katereyes9922]

HAHAHAHAHA

[@eason_yihong]

"touch them" from sliding into dms to sliding into jail

[@shwmurmssybnk]

Yi Hong lmao

[@adlervomnorden7571]

It is said to touch, not to grab.

[@AndreasDelleske]

Advice for women only.

[@karltheraccoon7502]

@@AndreasDelleske oop-

[@francescacedeno2605]

Andreas Delleske double standards but ok

[@tessa3563]

Screw that fact about men being hotter when they look serious. Making a man I like smile lights up my entire day, trust me, smiling men are 100x more attractive than serious, kinda mean/angry looking men.

[@erunstoppable1174]

shirin - hell yeah!

[@Alecexo]

Honestly if you’re hot you’re hot regardless of ur mood 😭

[@sarielsworldella1723]

I strongly Agree

[@kipperthedog789]

shirin - I’d agree

[@sunnycall2890]

shirlin I soooo agree - and yes I know you made the comment months ago

[@Stefani250]

"Touch them" Covid-19:I'm about to end this mans whole career.

[@annakl89]

That can also go for the smile part cuz of the mask..

[@migleding9817]

Anna kl people smiling under their mask also look really cute while doing it ;)

[@cskyee12]

Lmfaoooo 😭

[@eatanotherzio6811]

Did that once Now Im on some stupid ass list

[@yoojiminsscenic4341]

More like relationship than career

[@annsm6349]

"Touch them" *Law & Order theme*

[@anayahardy4714]

😂😂😂

[@sophotons4136]

BUH BUM

[@ChaoticAqua]

"Now where did the strange man touch you Susie?"

[@merlokiii]

Ann Sm HAHAHAHAHHAHA that's so funny XD and may also true

[@ishidacoolp]

Haha. That's hilarious. More like touch them if you have their permission or they're really comfortable around you. I think people are more likely to get away with touching strangers, if the person they're touching is attracted to them.

[@jrai102]

I disagree. I find smiling men incredibly attractive and sexy. For me, it shows confidence and a certain sense of assertiveness. Also playing hard to get annoys me. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@alexacontrerasb]

same

[@leon-xi3nh]

samee

[@zenithamurrie1830]

Yess I have to agree

[@BioTheHuman]

Well, maybe if you think of that now rationally you say that, but during a meeting, where it's to think only rational, it's not rare to follow instincts that we don't like 😅

[@jrai102]

Gheorghe Blanaru well I can only draw on my own experiences, I found that on dates, I was more drawn to men who smiled and made me laugh as opposed to serious and hardly or never smiled. Maybe with playing hard to get, I could say it’s the chase that I unconsciously enjoy but I still find it annoying haha

[@yvngrizzy1111]

WHAT? I LIKE WHEN GUYS SMILE! Others being happy makes me happy

[@00vulture]

It's all about acting like you don't need anyone, you're independent, woman, generally speaking, like that, and that's why acting "tough" is good. A cute little smile may seem like the guy is too nice, or sorta satisfied with his condition, and people who are satisfied don't tend to improve, and that's not a good quality to have. The smile they talked about was that "cute" one, not a "wide" smile. The cute one means satisfaction, like when you finally get home after work and just relax a little doing this same smile :), and the wide one means you're enjoying the moment, like when you're talking shit with your friends and are just xD, you know?

[@bartholomewroberts821]

Well, normally that kind of experiments are made without the subject knowing what is the main goal and, therefore, avoiding the bias of what she/he thinks she/he likes. Sometimes what you think you like is not the same as what you really like. Of course, the results can also be a generalization and you may be the exception. Here is the study if you want to take a look: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/21604870/

[@ghinaathaya8740]

i love when harry styles smiles

[@pupu416]

YES TOTALLY. IF YOU AIN'T SMILEY I WILL AVOID YOU. I'M ATTRACTED TO HAPPY PEOPLE.

[@yuinellayuiko3934]

Same gurl

[@DjeeferLiwyno]

“Are you a woman ? Smile.” Men on dates : 😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠

[@Lilyium]

No wonder some of them look 😠😡🤬

[@甄鸣斐]

Alright, I’m gonna read this comment everyday so I could be the most attractive woman in the world! ...if I didn’t laugh to death first 😂😂😂

[@socialanxiety9153]

*uncomfortably smiles*

[@blueray4710]

😂

[@Funkyhomosap]

I think those tips are so far from truth

[@jazth7068]

Last time I touched my crush she touched me too. She even left her hand printed in my cheek.

[@synetricalplayz9790]

Jazth oml that is hilarious

[@Satan666Official]

Which cheek XD

[@natashaxv]

Lmao XD

[@ninjanerdstudent6937]

RapCatChuckie, his butt cheek.

[@think6525]

What if hes like rigby and his butt cheek are not normal.

[@arbaouiaya6536]

i don't even have a crush why am i watching this

[@aaronhunter9337]

All of my crushes got pregnant by another guy, why am i watching this? Lol

[@evelynchoi1365]

SAME LOL

[@leafychild5179]

@@aaronhunter9337 And I oop...

[@user-ep8vs9fy4y]

How

[@bludshedt2647]

@@aaronhunter9337 oof

[@isabella_lay]

I’m a girl, and the whole reason I like this guy is because of his adorable smile

[@victoriac.shadow9361]

I think people are getting the smile and the not-smile part mixed up. A smile can be attractive yes, but I think the video is saying for men to not smile is 'hot'. A mans smile can be cute doesn't really lay on the flirtatious side, but hot does. I wonder if a smirk or grin is hot tho-

[@isabella_lay]

Victoria C. Shadow Smirks and Grins are definitely hot

[@jamie6358]

Victoria C. Shadow facts

[@jamie6358]

Lmao that’s such a mood

[@thegrayowl1557]

No kidding. I'm a straight guy, and I've been caught off guard by how attractive a man's smile can be

[@CocoasArt]

"Wear red" *School uniform: i am going to end this man's whole career*

[@CocoasArt]

@Jay Har hehe, hehe we have non uniform days sometimes But *red color is banned*

[@CocoasArt]

@Jay Har Red and blue (specific shade of blue, i don't remember which one lol) are band because they are like gang colors or sometimes idk xd

[@CocoasArt]

@Jay Har lol no Our school is just weird But like, i am not complaining, i don't really care xd

[@CocoasArt]

@Jay Har lol yeah thats true But some teachers also think its dumb lol Like there was one guy, he was wearing a red jacket, and teacher didn't bother him Until we got to our last class, where he was told to take it off And in my mind i was like "what the heck, why? he was wearing it whole day, and it didn't hurt anyone"

[@drstickynote2707]

Jay Har Not all of us have dress down days

[@waffles245]

The best way to a person's heart is in between the fourth and fifth ribs

[@deniiichan]

Ghaith Abu-Rub This is the best advice

[@Marvlingh]

Made my day

[@moongem4489]

Best comment

[@theweirdpotato3606]

Ghaith Abu-Rub and underneath the intercostal muscle.

[@TheKingofdans]

pahahaha 😂😂

[@goodday7072]

* stick figure wears red * Me: Ohoho thas one SEXY drawing

[@cheeto4869]

IM ON THE FLOOR AHDFKSS

[@kimmleonela6493]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@sabriyahabdullah935]

The ice cream is too spicy 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@lolasart3408]

@@cheeto4869 i love your channel's name XD

[@JOSH-1-2-3]

Stick figure's ready to mate!

[@calahmcdonald9960]

A man smiling is better than someone who looks like a jerk ...... Unless they smile too much and too long , that would come off as creepy

[@dolzik8766]

😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃

[@neptune0909]

@@dolzik8766 cops this way 😂😂😂

[@milestailsprowerthefox2051]

I think it's charming for men to smile but I guess more women think overwise ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[@neptune0909]

@@milestailsprowerthefox2051 that's why it's said no one can understand women.. Lmaoo 😂💀

[@jordan3135]

@@dolzik8766 comedic timing is 👌🏻

[@sixteenstringjack]

this comment section is way more entertaining than the video

[@charlotteeolsen8397]

Yes!

[@obsidiausisabadname6552]

Ye I was wondering if I clicked on this vid just for the comment section

[@ashthepotato8340]

Yup

[@raymondirani4812]

I KNOOWW RIGHT!!

[@desirecanoy9184]

You had 707 likes on this comment, i destroyed that beauty

[@bombuspensylvanicus]

i find it extremely attractive when men smile

[@AylaMarianna]

My boyfriend's smile gives me a rush!

[@teodoraeliza7122]

pumpkin pie yes they are sooo cute

[@specccle1138]

Same

[@johnclhugyugihjbvgbkj9729]

pumpkin pie Thank you, men can smile too! Addendum: just got to that part when I saw your comment. And.... her last part of #2 point. 🤔

[@jadegirl12]

I find extremly attractive a resting bitch face lol

[@katarinailic3129]

Santa: * wears red * me: damnn, Santa's pretty hot

[@lordofjonkeys5609]

Younger me: “Santa is a nice guy that brings presents!” Me after this video: “Yo Santa looking kinda thicc not gonna lie”

[@ratnabiswas1647]

Hey !!!! Are u otaku ? U know .... kimi no na wa in yo dp

[@YovaniBinuelo]

That’s why mommy kisses Santa Claus

[@mobiledatano1787]

@@YovaniBinuelo That cursed song.

[@Scottfilmination]

Mrs Claws I’m sorry but ima have to steal yo mans

[@sunni96]

Fun fact: 90% of men who watched this video never smile again in their life

[@________8553]

I'm smiling while reading this

[@MrCmon113]

No fuck that. I rather die a virgin than "brood" intentionally. That's where I draw the line.

[@Lilyium]

Men: 😠😡🤬

[@________8553]

@@Lilyium what 😂😭

[@illiyas3392]

😂😂😂

[@etjdubs5492]

3. Be funny If only it were that easy

[@s.y.7866]

eT Jdubs trust me m8 it's not that hard. I used to be the quite kid in class, but now I'm the quite kid in class that occasionally makes the whole class laugh:P

[@liliacarriquiry4139]

Tag them in memes.

[@colton8331]

It is easy. I'm a socially anxious guy, but I use my insecurities for jokes, but don't overdo self deprication.

[@shisones]

Lilia Carriquiry Fool proof technique

[@PrgressiveHouse]

exactly. I think "ok then Im going to make a joke" but it ends up being unfunny and awkward -.-

[@tamarakirby2373]

"Confidence is key" YOU LEFT THE CHAT

[@aisir3725]

This meme was made by sociophobe gang

[@johanrommel5132]

Introversion doesn't mean being shy or socially anxious

[@ncscat9579]

eye contact... anxious left the chat autism left the chat no offense tho im both

[@StephanieRZ]

Introverts can be confident.

[@TheOrangVegetal]

@@StephanieRZ can confirm, am introvert and confident

[@alainamarie600]

I've always thought smiling guys were way more attractive than cocky looking guys

[@vl2663]

same but a lot of the times it's the douchebags who smile a lot :/

[@cbellify9628]

alaina marie yuhalpha

[@mechloe8528]

@@vl2663- omg that's soo true!!

[@jess5427]

In my opinion, smiling is hot on males.

[@jamesriggs1351]

Good 2 hear I rather enjoy smiling!

[@rusticcloud3325]

Oh yeah I like this comment

[@forgotten_puppet]

I agree

[@Willamina-m6k]

I will totally ignore a brooding man and take notice of the guy who smiles. Every time.

[@Cherrycreamsoda1]

Very

[@avaleijten6527]

“Wear red” *paints whole body red* Am I pReTtY yEt

[@eao3565]

No. Use blood 😅😂

[@TheWither129]

You don’t need red to be pretty 😉

[@Peggymusik]

Ava Leijten lol meeee

[@moonlightwolf7222]

AM I PRETTY ENOUGH?

[@andronikisa]

I'm your 1k like

[@antimatter8126]

Who else watching this knowing damn well they never leave they own house

[@jillmont3342]

ALL I THINK ABXUT IS YXU 😞

[@cloudy4097]

ALL I THINK ABXUT IS YXU meeeeeee

[@korialogo]

Well, one must learn how to answer the door for pizza, yes?

[@korialogo]

Second Birth tbh, that’s brilliant, thank you! And I sympathize with refusing to answer for pizza. I’m an extrovert, but even for me, there’s something about prompted communication that makes me panic.

[@MikhaelAhava]

More or less.

[@ALu-nq8rf]

IDK, I don't get attracted to someone playing hard to get. If they're acting like they're very interested in me, I am more likely to reciprocate. I also much prefer smiling dudes who don't mind acting silly or goofy.

[@surejan6337]

@@ClarkWhite81 wth

[@kyleherrera7511]

Fucking dipper looking ass

[@dipankarghosh8495]

Is that a gravity falls hat?

[@ALu-nq8rf]

@@dipankarghosh8495 Yes

[@ashthepotato8340]

@@ClarkWhite81 Excuse me? She is simply sharing her opinion of the video- basically the reason "Comments" were implicated!

[@sophiek3292]

As a woman, I absolutely prefer smiling guys over bad boys. So BS.

[@harryismyqueen5269]

Same

[@progamerbufovi]

@RobinInnit nice

[@yantsuki3339]

That's just like you then?

[@yantsuki3339]

@RobinInnit that name tho

[@yourstruly7798]

@RobinInnit k.

[@olympe-rds]

Really ? I am a girl and smiling boys are way more attractive to me. The "bad boy" type makes me feel like they could have picked up any other woman, while someone that is smiling and laughing with me makes me feel like they genuinely care. Also, playing "hard to get" would probably make me give up way more easily. Studies proved it, that's fine, but my point is : there are always exceptions, so just be who you are, my dudes.

[@raniaboukaddour8226]

Clotilde RDS being yourself is the key

[@PedroOrdep-kv5vw]

If a guy is looking for advice on how to flirt, then something isn't right, "being yourself" is one of the worst tips, because it makes you get stucked

[@impossibledreams6115]

Smart person

[@RosheenQuynh]

@Bearded Pete So you want to be someone you're not? You're literally living a lie. No thanks, not the kind of advice I want to give or take.

[@wanderingskeleton52]

Different girls look for different things. When it comes to dating, you just need to know how to honestly approach different girls.

[@cheemsdope5300]

I mirrored her She got annoyed and said : *Am I a joke to you?*

[@chewyrainbow9756]

Well I mean one of the ones are make a joke sooooooo....

[@user-ns6mh6sj3b]

Hahahahaahaaha

[@nappeymac]

This is gold

[@kutaberhe1760]

Futbalism well he meant the term of "mirroring" is just copy their body expression indirectly, trust me it works. Do it low key not open if you get what I mean

[@coopkakekuween2703]

I’d just do something like ridiculous with my body to see if you’d do that too😂😂

[@KM-vr7yi]

*Me around normal people:* Shy af *Me around my crush:* So hyper and ends up nearly killing him and then falls asleep on the ground

[@sierrak5688]

Same

[@jessie1090]

It's Kate: weirdly, I think you must have been watching me yesterday...the most awkward freakin chicken marauding a.k.a. flirting you ever did see... I ended up watching The Gods Must Be Crazy( spoiler: he was more awkward @flirting than me:))...I realized... it's just a natural scientific phenomenon.**

[@boredmoodlet3611]

Thats so me

[@humayrakadir5853]

Im the other way round😭

[@qumbersome5106]

HAHAHAHAHAH, NICE. ✨

[@Jadejuju3]

What really helped me is when someone told me not to put my crush on a pedestal, they’re human like you, don’t treat them like they’re higher than you. Once you take them off the pedestal, it makes it WAY easier to be around them ☺️

[@jordan3135]

That's actually really good advice! I've been trying something like that myself recently and it's much more comfortable and natural. 😅

[@frankiewinters1255]

Great advice! I think it's common for a lot of us to tend to deify the people we fancy which makes approaching them, or maintaining the relationship way more difficult

[@howardsmith9342]

If you put them up on a pedestal, they'll be looking down on you. Treat them as equals, and demonstrate your confidence.

[@tanya9302]

"Men like women that can switch their tone" Crush:hi Me:HeY dAdDy HoW yOu DoInG

[@chlloehorne]

very underrated comment

[@nilofarrahman6717]

Loooolllmaaaaoooo

[@h1ghe3a44]

Underrated 100

[@bavausthad5128]

XD

[@calahmcdonald9960]

🤣

[@Kururuzen]

Wear red???? Bad boy behaviour???? *GUESS I'LL BE JOSEPH STALIN*

[@abelsumanas]

sOYUZ NERUSHIMY

[@TGChimera]

Daddy

[@jonasronning]

Never go full dictator

[@czapysaw4game412]

XD

[@czapysaw4game412]

It works 👍

[@aliciakoepke560]

Guys smiling is actually so attractive, basically smiling and being happy is attractive on anyone.

[@ihatetobethatguybut7175]

What? That's literally the opposite of what the researchers at British Columbia said

[@francisthompson3772]

@@ihatetobethatguybut7175 Well they're wrong?

[@NaoVII]

@@francisthompson3772 They're not wrong, both behaviours are attractive, people has a different taste.

[@chrisb1453]

Dreadnought obviously not the studies show otherwise lol

[@mariayhaugen1073]

I love when guys smile!

[@SamirDevs]

Comment Section: *_Smiling is hot_* Me with my deformed teeth: t E e T h

[@neptoro_o0o]

Omg same. And when I closed mouth smile I look like a psychopath

[@aegisrectum8761]

A genuine smile is mainly from the eyebrows, imagine a person grinning but with inward slanting frumpled brow.

[@azzammm_07]

I feel you bro

[@sunideendlessly5516]

Same, can we cry together? X'D

[@ssssSTopmotion]

Same I can't get braces even tho my teeth are crooked af

[@zackcash4941]

"How are-" "Okay" "How-" "Yep" "What have-" "I SEE!"

[@sixteenstringjack]

deserves way more likes

[@brendancahill3723]

*Drops pants immediately

[@ronaldmcdonaldtrump4446]

Fallout 4 speech in a nutshell

[@moonchild1856]

@Liliana Tamayo armyy 😍

[@desiree4640]

“Why use more word when less do trick”

[@hoseokismyhope3351]

I hate this "play hard to get" stuff tbh

[@plutarchheavensbee3483]

Yeah. Problem is that if someone is too available they are probably very needy and insecure.

[@mick776gold]

"Playing hard to get" is extremely misunderstood and misapplied. And even when it works you trend to get with the most aggressive person. Instead of calling it playing hard to get, it should be called "do not be too available." But that is also, easy to misunderstand.

[@acharich]

💯

[@jayshadex]

Its actually pretty hard trying to chase people.

[@whatdoesthisthingdo]

It’s male or female. To stay ambiguous, send mixed messages, and never reveal your intentions until they’re losing control. Play on a sense of loss. They think they have you, then they don’t. Drives people nuts. Anger means it’s working.

[@ryanstarlight8018]

Smiling men are actually very attractive

[@ashthepotato8340]

Agreed.

[@DeadPointDelusions]

Reims Arlett really I’m a guy and I like frowning girls! Their way cuter!!!!!!!!!!! :( 😍

[@himemoriko518]

Same man when I saw that I was like whhhat but I like when guys smile. I don't like serious guys lol.

[@sukiitheartist4803]

I have to agree

[@ooodette51]

I totally agree. It shows that they aren’t so uptight and can relax a bit, a least to me that’s what it seems lmao

[@Niklejs]

Me: *wearing a red jumpsuit, walking up to my crush, putting my hand on his shoulder while smiling like an idiot saying in a smooth voice: Are you a bad boy?

[@chocho6374]

THIS ONE BRO IDKFKSKAKWOFODOOAAAAAAA

[@bluecrusaderfilms]

If that happened or if it did I’d feel really sorry for you lol.

[@ethanchan514]

This comment section is gold 😂

[@ahmetkarakaya6103]

I couldn't agree more

[@phoenixalden6115]

I’n it?! 🤣😂👏

[@kentmacalalad]

Yesn't

[@ashleyportillo1285]

but red is more attractive!!!😂

[@caughtyouin4k674]

Ethan Chan the reason I’m here

[@taejin2U]

Time to get red clothes.

[@alaasalaymeh1839]

Omg heyyy I am also a taejin shipper 😂

[@3terminatorgr]

That's the worse advice in this video. Red kills normal looking people. Only beautiful/handsome people can look good in red.

[@adomede]

I knew that long time ago.

[@tytracktytrack1576]

Same lol

[@g.s.3968]

The narrator sounds like a slightly more advanced version of siri

[@hudsonm2010]

G. S. 😂

[@sophiedufresne7459]

I LAUGHED WAY TOO MUCH AT THAT OMG

[@joeshmoe6908]

Ikr

[@nox_cadit]

Hagahagshagaggs

[@aubreeswart2206]

Underrated comemnt

[@erynemarcelo277]

"Are you a woman? Smile." Wow, that really felt uncomfortable.

[@jordan3135]

What noooo it's toootally norrrrrmal.. 😂Yeah I winced a lil

[@Double400]

"Men love it because of submission" Oh man 😬

[@AstroSalamander]

"Are you a man? Don't smile" smiling is my personality i can't do that so apparently im not as attractive 😂

[@hr0727]

“They love it because of submission” Jesus Christ... 🤦‍♂️

[@antichrist5484]

I am a lesbian. I am the dom, but not in bed. Butch on the street and in the bank, blissfully reciprocal on the sheet.

[@KBums]

"Be funny" ...crap..... "Be smooth".......CRAP....

[@simonehidalgo1123]

Yup

[@Malau9312]

Same

[@callmeemmi5304]

You’re being funny Rn tbh 😂

[@ThePathOfEudaimonia]

To imply you are not funny in a humorous, self-deprecating way and with that proving you are quite a funny one. It can't get smoother than that!

[@North862]

One thousandth like

[@martymcfly1322]

Damn I didn’t know that I was flirting with my bro when I looked straight at his eyes

[@bigjalopy]

Sweet home Alabama

[@mehl4646]

I do that always no matter who it is idk is my thing lul

[@bearcat9765]

It’s alright to be a little homiesexual

[@chaotic_shadow590]

Same I accidentally Made eye contact when I was kissing my homie goodnight

[@marinadiaz1762]

According to the eye contact thing, I’ve been flirting with my teachers. Big yikes

[@ashleyedwards1542]

I find it extremely attractive when a guy smiles.

[@lofiwackpainting7439]

Everyone does, the brood shit is stupid. It’s never worked on a single human being.

[@rebeccabest7766]

It only works if it’s real, and real brooders can be quite enlightened and not as easy to impress plus brooder smiles are also quite infectious.

[@swanni1633]

Agreed they look hella cute when they smile :) 💖

[@teacuptea9155]

Same lol

[@MrCmon113]

My smile looks like I want to intimidate a baboon.

[@crapbag6849]

"confidence is key" I rolled my eyes so hard i saw my brain.

[@lo119]

😄

[@zachmj797]

I take it you aren’t very confident then?

[@cutefirefly6705]

It is tho

[@nittanyburg20]

"Confidence is key" Well shit...

[@zaxtonhong3958]

Hot Cosby Story of my life

[@Julieta-fq2dg]

saaame

[@frostbitetheannunakiiceind6574]

Hot Cosby lol

[@etjdubs5492]

Same tbh

[@GenerationX1984]

Fake it till you make it.

[@rociozamgom8855]

1- Touch them 2- Confidence is key 3- Be a smooth talker 4- Mirror body language 5- Are u a men? Brood 6- Are u a woman? Smile! 7- Play hard to get 8- Be funny! 9- Wear red 10- Eye contact

[@humanbeing2709]

Wear read a very nice color

[@soda341]

Wear read?what the-

[@rociozamgom8855]

Sorry!😅

[@bonithechubbypotato5100]

Read is an amaizing colour

[@alogilex2748]

😂 read is better than blue

[@Darkshinebaby91]

I did this to my husband. He asked if I was okay. 😥

[@crawfordtorr8749]

because it was a sudden change of your demeanor

[@PrgressiveHouse]

because you should use it if you dont already know the person

[@NoCoIntelPro]

Lol

[@MikhaelAhava]

Lol

[@thesundaygist5019]

Dont change yourself into a stereotype. Do it your own way, this vid is just a guide.

[@kuromissecretdairy4771]

Are you a woman smile Masks :I'm about to end this man's whole career 🤣🤣

[@ThaFuzzwood]

Pff. A genuine smile makes the eyes laugh. ;) The emoticon you use is a prime but slightly exaggerated example of that.

[@cortneymaitland4429]

Smiling eyes make up for masks

[@themorrigan7702]

Genuine smiles reach the eyes. You aren't smiling if your lips are forming the shape but it's completely fake. If you want to know if a person with a mask is smiling or not, look at their eyes.

[@delicateabyss]

How to be attractive Step 1: GET A MAGNET

[@Jrakula10]

but then you are also repulsive at the same time....

[@shubashuba3978]

BA DUM TSS. OMG THAT WAS GREAT

[@benpalomino7063]

I hate that I laughed

[@kishiii]

hahaha, intelligent humour. very funny.

[@thisisnotwendy._.857]

Thx for the tip lmfao

[@chloeguse4453]

10. Eye contact 9. Wear red 8. Be funny 7. Play hard to get 6. Smile (women) 5. Brood (men) 4. Mirror body language 3. Be a smooth talker 2. Be confident 1. Touch them

[@abigail4816]

*stares at them, wears the flesh of children, acts like I don't even care, smile demonicly, copy their every move be cocky rubs their face* I'm still single but I'm following them all!

[@birdlover7875]

1. Touch them FBI: 👀👀👀

[@aquabitxh9770]

Smile goes to men too

[@IceePhoenix]

No thanks.

[@alquinfuentes2525]

hotel? trivago

[@bt_the_yank6234]

T POSE FOR DOMINANCE

[@kentbarnes6380]

Kelly BT Yes!!!

[@nono-kp8kl]

I'm wheezing

[@sachin3775]

___O___ | |

[@dragondualer]

>body language

[@toasterproductions8033]

____0____ | | /\ / \

[@Broccolaicy]

Sometimes I have eyecontact with a guy I'm attracted to and when that happens, I don't break it. I give a cheeky/shy smile. Once they smile back, only then do I look away and chuckle shyly while still smiling. This often works for me but it depends to each's own I guess.

[@EvilEmu-re5nj]

Number one touch them. Just walk up to your crush and intensely rub there face

[@sierrak5688]

Their

[@EvilEmu-re5nj]

@@sierrak5688 😑 grammar nazi

[@mellow7851]

Evil. Emu Just learn how to spell; it isn't that difficult.

[@kittymeow8163]

wtf that's what my crush is actually doing to me HAHHAHAHAHAHA

[@mirzamay]

always works for me 😂. rub their butt... stand outside their Window. show up in the bathroom when they are showering. don't say anything on the last one... just sit there... and stare at them. When they freak out tell them you are engaged and googled their mother.

[@divinadevergara4095]

smiling guys are really cute. why is shameful looking attractive ; - ; and for me, a bad boy turns me off

[@juliaaung5714]

wubba lubba dub dub samee

[@MrSivilla]

Be yourself.

[@alisaespinoza]

Sammmmeeee

[@lejua9243]

samee also ginger guys with cute expression on their face 😍

[@Dani-if1rk]

Same 😂 The huge reason I like the guy I do is because he has the cutest smile

[@randomguy3080]

Me: "Why aren't these flirting strategies working" Patrick Star: "Well maybe it's just cause your ugly" Me: "Shit you right"

[@alysav2750]

Seve Hynes30 This is way to relateable

[@randomguy3080]

Internet User sadly yeah

[@pleaseclap3335]

Seve Hynes30 - I am ugly and I am proud!

[@pleaseclap3335]

William Sullivan - You have a good point, and everything you said is true. But the original comment is just a joke

[@pleaseclap3335]

William Sullivan - Oh okay! That's completely understandable. And btw, your first comment was really good advice

[@goofyahh2701]

"To the opposite sex" All homosexuals: 😓

[@karoshi2]

Honest question: how should one say that without excluding people? I don't know.

[@caprisces6139]

@Ethereal •Solana• I actually haven't seen studies on how homosexual attraction works, so it could be kind of interesting, do they have the same likes as women? Or do they protect their likes as men on other men?

[@LeoMarkVillar]

"Flirting is just an evolutionary tactic to acquire a mate for reproduction"

[@wildflxwrr0628]

I was thinking the same

[@forfuchsake2254]

@@caprisces6139 Depends on who you're asking. Just like heterosexuals homosexual people have their own preferences.

[@TheGamer-sg3qg]

I bet we all are single that watch this 😂

[@lex4992]

Yup

[@Witnexxx]

Yup

[@meitachibana1100]

OMG how'd you know??? 😂😂😂

[@samanthadinkel1223]

Yep (for now ;) )

[@andy_w_]

Twins

[@fishlee4370]

"Wear red" Clifford: I am aware of the effect I have on women

[@yowgert_9424]

LOL

[@hopper6094]

This needs more likes

[@aligamiles]

That was almost a good joke. Something about it is not quite right though.

[@hopper6094]

@@aligamiles shut up, you are just a fork jk

[@miglemaya3967]

JAJAJJAJAJA

[@storiketterman7236]

My hair is red, the only thing it attracts is jokes

[@avacadobtstextingstories6602]

Same lol

[@airin5343]

Stori Ketterman that's sad :( I'm sure u have GOREGOUS hair

[@storiketterman7236]

airīn. at thank you

[@cuervus_]

@@avacadobtstextingstories6602 same

[@tadeo517]

@@airin5343 Stop trying to flirt through comments hahhsahda

[@boxfish863]

Too bad I have social anxiety

[@seekersjourney7312]

Same tho. Here's to loneliness.

[@Tayzer06]

Do Nofap, works like a charm for social anxiety

[@guen4413]

Same. Single forever club woohoo

[@harorudo3]

Box Fish I used to too. But I overcame it by being more open with my opinions and telling jokes (Mature ones, mind you. Saying hurtful or negative things about someone's character, religion or race is not the way to go). Good luck with overcoming it if you plan to do so.

[@isaacevilman7586]

Too bad I'm an introvert and the guy I like is an introvert who hates physical contact...

[@saebyeoksgirlfriend1120]

"confidence is key" "be funny" honey I don't think thats possible-

[@rvsalka]

"are u a woman? smile!" *I will rebel against stereotypes of this sexist society, I shall never smile again*

[@EingefrorenesEisen]

I'm surprised you haven't been flocked-on by groups of butthurt right-wingers crying "REEEEEE SjWs MaKe Me So AnGrY"

[@caesar5alad]

*I n t e n s e f r o w n i n g*

[@shan7219]

Smiled once, classmates be like, "boi wtf are you doing?" I never smiled in front of my classmates again. I only do it with my friends. They will never see me smile genuinely mwahahahhahahahha

[@willmcdaniel7979]

it’s literally scientifically proven and you’re seriously gonna get all butt hurt about that? it’s not like they’re saying that you MUST smile if you want to flirt properly. people like you are the reason why feminism is looked at in such a negative way.😂

[@caesar5alad]

r/wooosh

[@sophiemorrison9820]

a strange man putting a hand on a woman's arm can be interpreted as too forward and even threatening. that should be reserved for when there is a mutual trust.

[@KamiSilver]

sophie morrison Depends on the culture. In Mediterranean countries it's not bad to do this whereas in Nordic countries it may be too invasive.

[@omitsune]

KamiSilver "In Mediterranean countries it's not bad to do" my Southern-Italian ass wouldn't like that at all.

[@cbass8202]

sophie morrison how old are you bro

[@sophiemorrison9820]

i'm not a bro. i was riding a crowded city bus at rush hour. apparently the man who decided to stalk me that day sneaked in through the rear door of the bus. i got off at my stop. from out of nowhere he came up to me and PUT HIS HAND ON MY ARM. i ran into a nearby police station. i described him to the police and they ran out and apprehended him in minutes. i pressed charges. he was a serial rapist. he was convicted and went to jail. women understand what i'm talking about. my age has nothing to do with it since my instincts were right on about that freak.

[@cbass8202]

sophie morrison oh jesus hahha that isn't nice, but your taking this whole thing out of proportion.. it's about flirting not sexual harassment! Anyone who touches u without consent can be charged depending where u live. But let's say your out at a party mingling with peers, obviously your gonna be approached by new people you put yourself in that position.

[@mirela3308]

**makes direct eye contact w/ my crush expecting to see their pupils get bigger** **their pupils literally disappear** Well fml :')

[@melvinkwast6288]

saint mary jane shiiettt im screamimg

[@BLVRDbeats]

saint mary jane there you go

[@thebootycheeks6230]

Lmao

[@frostbitetheannunakiiceind6574]

saint mary jane lol

[@whoeverwhateverany1]

This is too funny! 😂

[@rovic101]

Nah, I love when men smile. Keep smiling, dudes 💕 don’t stop. We love your smile 💕

[@naturalblue_1]

"Be funny" My socially awkward self: It's not that easy

[@charlesintune]

Exactly it's extremely relative and not easy

[@xx_dryeet546xx3]

yep i agree also when they say play hard to get me: well what happens if im hard to want

[@sirdetmist3204]

@@xx_dryeet546xx3 Its nonsense, if you play hard to get and someone thinks that means you are out of their league or you think you are out of their league if they lack self confidence then it falls apart. These videos take into account 2 average people, hardly anyone is average.

[@mistythehamster8405]

Set on Fire same but my socials awkwardness apparently is funny lol I find that hard to believe

[@dwight3555]

The weird thing about me is that I can be extremely funny to people when I react on stuff that just happened or someone said, but I'm incapable of just making up anything funny without a previous basis.

[@ellzrandom2392]

*Are you a woman* Me: uhhhh *SMILE*

[@evesning]

this made me laugh harder than i should've

[@hullo3457]

That made me not want to smile for some reason...

[@rickeybounds740]

ur profile pic bugs me

[@ellzrandom2392]

@@rickeybounds740 which one

[@rickeybounds740]

@@ellzrandom2392 yOuRs

[@dominiclake7908]

play on 1.25x speed for quicker results

[@july4376]

Dom thank you!!!

[@lockheart619]

thanks

[@intj1434]

1.5x rn hahaha she speaks so slowly

[@key2theuniverse713]

@@Arthur-oc5wz double the speed double the chance 😎

[@immortalsun]

Thank you! 1.25× speed feels so much more natural. The narrator speaks rather slowly.

[@-MCdtJhundrelonAndres-PltnECoB]

Psych To Go: "Wear RED" *Soviets Russians* : You have fulfilled your duties, you may now live in our *Soviet Motherland.*

[@aeonmanu]

I'm so bad at flirting that even with proven strategies, I still fail. Lol

[@IanERoco]

Manu R sameeeeeee

[@seekersjourney7312]

Same too.

[@Psych2go]

Work on yourself and then it will be easy.

[@KikonSketches]

Manu R I go to this place to eat often, the manager is adorable(she is 24 I am 18 my friend is 19), me and my friend have become friends with her, but she seems to enjoy talking to my friend more than talking to me(not to mention they both are car enthusiasts),they always hit it off with a conversation about their Genisus Coupes 2013 &2014(yes they both have the same expensive car just she has a newer year model) she added him on Instagram so they probably talk more now... Im still waiting for an approved follow request... It's been a week, that is my explanation for trying to get a girlfriend, my friends are better lol 😅😂

[@lucaspedraza94]

Manu R that's because you are ugly

[@nightskies4764]

For me I find a guy smiling more attractive

[@MogbadTheTerrible]

I thought I was the only one! XD

[@venuseleni9]

Strong power thank you Same

[@madisonleigh5484]

Strong power thank you same

[@ripthelordslove8826]

Same! And I despise it when men interrupt my words to add in their own, especially when it is not thoughtful like, "Yep."

[@nightskies4764]

Jibooty Express oh I see(I love your username btw:))

[@ThePatcha2000]

The one that says women are less attracted to men who smile a lot doesn't seem accurate. Most people find others who smile more friendly and inviting.

[@johanhi2]

Cuddly Snake true, but being more friendly could be less attractive in a sexual way.

[@Dragonrider1227]

Cuddly Snake I wonder what kind of women were in that survey. My little sister can't stand those "brooding bad boys."

[@MajnouniWahad]

nah I agree with it as a woman. But too much smiling is awks. I like men who do that subtle sideways smile once in a while, or laugh at my jokes but go quiet for everyone else...But if they smile less they seem mysterious and thoughtful D: Idk why i just do.

[@xxGuItArGiRLxx89]

No one likes a miserable git. #Smile

[@marioperez-kj9vl]

Cuddly Snake- true, but it also said how mimicry helps, they might mean that brooding or a smile can draw someone in smiling and laughing like them when in conversation also helps.

[@BeatZerol]

My strategie : Dont notice the girl likes you until she screams it into your face and nearly punches you.

[@Mari-es1vf]

Mmmmm, honestly that hurts :(

[@xjuicewrldxxx2166]

@@Mari-es1vf girls get annoyed each time the boy they are playing games with looks at them it hurts …

[@zabuki1740]

Ignoring is truly the exact opposite of love

[@lovaniaakasanssgengar548]

"Cheesy pickup lines just don't cut it" But a knife does! Ahahaha... I'm sorry.

[@brothermanv]

LOLLLL

[@JackieM.]

Hah, that's the best follow up ^^

[@zettabyte1929]

I expected the cheese to be cut in half

[@commentconnoisseur1001]

... Ahahaha... I'm sorry So, will you go out with me?

[@vanesaisawesome922]

Lamo

[@ralakay5456]

“Are you a woman? Smile. Guys love submission” *growing more concerned*

[@feministthoughts729]

Ikr

[@socialanxiety9153]

But why does it have to be like that tho .-.

[@milestorres461]

I’m never smiling again

[@polasamierwahsh421]

Well it's either that or confidence But it's harder to show confidence for many people So smiling is the easier option

[@amberbaker1122]

I feel you

[@thisismynamepal]

1. Be yourself 2. Come out of your shell 3. Don't over think connecting with someone 4. Acknowledge that you deserve mutual interest from someone else 5. Don't play games 6. Don't read into this cliche "how to flirt" video

[@dearfauxpas]

Instructions unclear. Came out as bi and didn't connect with anyone now forever alone. _jk but honestly i agree with you_

[@MarmotteHunter]

hmm but that's not what the video said

[@thisismynamepal]

@@MarmotteHunter , that may be, but I am a professional expert so what I say about anything is more valid

[@boredmoodlet3611]

I almost wanted to comment “I love guys that play games (board/video)” but then I realized what you truly meant

[@meve3501]

I was like, is gaming really such a bad hobby? But then I realised I'm just dumb lol

[@zara_gobel]

1. eye contact 2. wear red 3. be funny 4. play hard to get 5. woman (smile) 6. men (dont smile) 7. mirror body language 8. be a smooth talker 9. confidence 10. touch

[@corylusbluefox9482]

So I have to: -Wear red -Look broody in an 'I have a great sense of humour' type of way -Act aloof whilst simultaneously maintaining eye contact, making them laugh, mirroring their actions, smooth-talking them, talking over them to assert dominance, and poking them Shouldn't be too difficult...

[@samanthagrey5477]

Corylus Bluefox be careful on the poking part...

[@MarkShaneHansen]

I know you're joking, but anyway.. Re: Wearing red. It doesn't have to be a bright red or a lot of red like a whole shirt or dress as pictures in the video. Studies show even small details or accessories with many shades of red will largely have the same effect. It's more important to dress for your skin color and tone and then have just a little bit of red if it suits your outfit. Re: Brooding. The studies on it revolves solely around people rating people's attractiveness on pictures. In real life, if she tells you a joke, you don't just brood at her, you smile or laugh (unless of course it's just plainly not funny). Perhaps smiling in pictures is just seen as out of place since there's nothing funny going, but it's not a negative thing if you laugh at a joke. But hey, if she's taking a picture of the two of you, go ahead and brood at the camera :D. Re: Acting aloof. Well, the tip is pretty much just don't be needy or desperate for attention. Everything else was just filling. Re: Poking + talking over them. Obviously, no one ever said to poke people or talk over them. 1) You can touch people to get their attention. Shoulders/elbows recommended for (near-)strangers. For friends: back is acceptable, but stay above the hip bone (cultural differences may apply) and 2) It's not talking over them. I'd rather call it talking under them, since you're not interrupting their story or talking louder than them, you're simply acknowledging it and confirming that you're still listening, which conveys interest in her and what she has to say.

[@dontrwooshmeimtrolling4003]

I just was about to write that..

[@MrCmon113]

I'm at a party tomorrow. Will try all of those.

[@klaiejah]

Lol 😂

[@JoelHenryMusic]

"Be funny, but don't smile"

[@PedroOrdep-kv5vw]

Ideal Joe then be sarcastic

[@LE4F4]

OMG THIS COMMENT XDDDDD!!!!!!

[@Nekobe118]

Be deadpan

[@Rololoby-rt5jo]

Tbh that's so attractive

[@squidaker]

Actually, my brother does that, and it makes his jokes even more hilarious!! He keeps a straight face when he's being funny and it's great.😂

[@misspanda7108]

No, I get HELLA butterflies when my crush smiles

[@reuben3204]

Amanda Stevenson same

[@Jigsaw_442]

Took me years and a bad relationship to get the confidence needed and turns out just being happy if possible is a good one too

[@bengoyi]

I don't really know how I ended up here

[@awesome1ru]

iCHIWAWA me too

[@nene8431]

U click on the video

[@randyflint9681]

This is what happens if you wonder of to the the otherside of youtube

[@dominicgerding6383]

me neither lol

[@damosh_4353]

iCHIWAWA same

[@madeupname3008]

SCUSE ME BUT AS A WOMAN I LOVE MEN'S SMILES AND LAUGHS

[@kylaharrell181]

Right I was like the hell she talking about I love smiley men

[@vickiefenton8349]

Saaaaaaaame

[@morteamoureuse]

Melanie Kroger yeah, wtf, some guys are even more handsome when they smile, and I personally love a good sense of humor

[@K311WasHere]

Well I'm fucked then

[@morteamoureuse]

Brennan Harkrider lol nah, some grumps can be adorable

[@edwinalcantaradelarosa4691]

The most important flirting strategy is being yourself. If you are comfortable with who you are and you show confidence, you'll get the right person.

[@liv-gp7vg]

video: *names some strategies that are proven to work* me: ok i can try this! video: also, confidence is key! me: shit nvm

[@oliviaborie]

olivia why do we have the same name🙊🙊🙊

[@snazzybutuneveneyeliner1531]

saaaame

[@masomirmanic3771]

Snazzy but uneven eyeliner *_sAAaaAAAaAaaAaAsAaammmee_*

[@Flintlock900]

I gave up the moment humor was mentioned. I'm not funny at all.

[@boyanatraykova8937]

Literally same

[@fiela299]

*me after this video* throws all my clothes away and go buy only red clothes

[@paolatafolla7952]

Fièla G. Yes!😂❤️❤️

[@bigcheesereal]

"You two should date!" Me in my mind: BITCH IM TRYIN D:

[@TheDigitalZero]

Relatable as fuck...

[@TheDigitalZero]

Become friends, and if anyone asks if you two are going out don't say stuff like "oh god, no never" because that can backfire harshly. Don't do absolutely all and everything he tells you, you gotta have some self worth too.

[@ndr6961]

Bird Entertainment I can't try D;

[@s0ftcl0udz94]

I fucking love this comment. So fucking true

[@madeleines9572]

I feel you

[@adrienbrook1071]

I'm into any gender, and, to me, everyone is more attractive when they smile. And telling women to smile is gross. People will smile if they're happy or comfortable. You shouldn't ever be forcing someone to smile if they're not feeling either of those things

[@chocolateisalwaystheanswer9426]

Every single one of these types of videos say the same things, but I watch them all anyways 😂

[@katiechisholm]

Lol well, if they all say the same things then there might be truth in them!

[@xarikleiaperlerou2275]

Chocolate is only the anwser

[@celiatsang8401]

Yea same here, but still, you can't make your crush likes you back :(

[@chocolateisalwaystheanswer9426]

TSANG Wing Wing I know...especially if they don't have the same sexuality as you... :(

[@leia710]

Armyyy

[@bengbengbeng3312]

“Be hard to get” Someone:*gets closer* Me: **slaps with bag**

[@NoeDactyl]

LMAO 🤣

[@emberpowertcg7692]

That better be a grease reference

[@dekucuredmydepression5273]

flirts in anime*

[@euniceong595]

NEHH

[@armyandblinkhere1352]

Hahahahahhahaah

[@archangel996]

Me: Yeah! Time to get a girlfriend #10: eye contact Me: Dammit

[@ishouldhidemynamelmao345]

Intermittent-Tremor In-Left-Hand ikr

[@VeraDragon]

I know! This is so unfair to people like me who don't have eyes

[@barbara3426]

Me skanakanajnajajaja

[@VeraDragon]

Anthony Okeiyi you don't have to remind me that I can't!!! :_(

[@Dimitreus]

You dont have to do eye contact. Looking right between the eyebrows will look to them like you're looking into their eyes.

[@ellatomroosavelt]

my personal favorite, works every time: “hey mamas”

[@antichrist5484]

Epic fail on lesbians.

[@pearlyp9898]

??? I'm a girl and I absolutely love smiling, soft and nervous boys. Idk why, but confident and bold ones make me me uncomfortable and just don't catch my attention. I also hate any kind if touch unless it's from/to my friends, even if it's only someone touching my arm or something (I actually kind of changed my whole mind about someone just cause they were persuasive and put their arm around me and overall tried to be confident and therefore make me uncomfortable (I know it was stupid of me, I know he was a sweet guy who was just trying to seem likeable). Also, I think the whole 'try hard to get' thing is kind of stupid. Like, why would you make someone seem unwanted just so you could see if they follow you desperately despite you misleading them??? Like, aren't relationships built on trust, not dominance and stuff? Maybe that's all just my panromantic, anxious mind. I'm sorry for rambling. Probably shouldn't have clicked on a flirting video if I didn't want to see this kind of advice (I was kind of hoping to see if this wonderful channel had any advice on flirting that didn't include this kind of stuff, like, just overall how to seem approachable and trustworthy and funny etc. but I guess not. eh)

[@itsPlebby]

well in your case of how you find people attractive I might still have a chance. im pretty sure more than just you have that same personal preference.

[@pearlyp9898]

MarvalzSon Guess so :>

[@nova-kiin]

Terēze Locika omg I do too! I really love smily and soft boys. I just think they’re adorable and lovable. Bold ones kinda throw me off, they seem like jerks, even though they might actually be really nice. I don’t know ^^’

[@pearlyp9898]

Carole-Anne Girard Yeah, exactly! ^^

[@Hoxgene]

You know for 23 years ive been searching for women with such mentality.. youre a dime

[@pedroclaro7822]

5. (for men) don't smile, act like a bad boy 9. Smile to be approached

[@markobaraba3876]

these are confusing times...

[@jamie6358]

Naw this is how you gotta do it : don’t smile *smirk* there’s a difference

[@sandramireya3407]

Its difficult for men haha

[@nuclearsnipes7455]

Wow, this floor is made out of floor!

[@kiiroi1836]

Im glad i came to this video to meet another 2.4 million people who cant get a girlfriend like me.

[@lonewolfcello9814]

Me too 😂😂😂 But for me I can't get a boyfriend... Single 4 life 😅

[@woodywoodsfurd6296]

shut up i didnt give you the right to call us out

[@g_thbaa4909]

Don’t forget the girls who can’t get a boy

[@baileycallahan3868]

I can’t get either

[@use0037]

But i have one, god damn

[@TohoSeiwa]

"Copy the other persons actions" OHHH （⊙ｏ⊙） now I know why everyone loves Kakashi