6 Shocking Flirting Secrets Revealed by Research

[@Psych2go]

Comment below if you are single and ready to mingle.

[@BigFlusteredMess]

I am

[@tanmaykadlag5482]

I'm single

[@MarisolPaint3r]

I love ya idol!❤❤

[@Z_-Aruckman_.]

I am

[@luisgalvan3734]

I am toooo

[@SiskoSvK]

Pro tip: Flirt with the world. Randomly compliment people. Train yourself on people you meet through the day so when you meet your crush you nail it!

[@caracatoacacepe]

Well, maybe I will nail you

[@katoxyl]

@@caracatoacacepe HELP

[@taylorbishop8865]

​@@caracatoacacepeGood job Jesus christ

[@builderdude9488]

@@caracatoacacepeBro has the coffin rizz 💀

[@drewoxmix8808]

Randomly stopping somebody so you can espouse your opinion about them onto them seems creepy to me not kind.

[@GGray.]

0:52 Keeping it cool 1:22 Waiting too long 1:55 Stay light 2:25 Being negative 2:55 Over romanticizing 3:35 Hiding your heart

[@Firebird762]

Thank you

[@victrjunir2073]

Thank You!!! 😊 ❤💙💜

[@Zeromus0]

Thank you!!

[@marcoottina654]

It seems ironic

[@galletgaming]

Thanks! But I’m going to watch it anyway.

[@Caduceus444]

Tip: If you can make yourself look professional in something that is interesting enough (it can be anything from sports through music to foreign language learning/speaking), that is a huge advantage not only in romantic, but in any realitionship. Also, try to show interest in things your partner is interested in. If you don't care/know about it, that's fine, just ask questions about it like you want to get into it. That makes your partner feel like they can teach you about it and your field of interest is similar to thiers, wich can also initiate further conversations. I myself become quiet popular when my classmates found out that I play chess. I am not good at it, but know more about it than they do. I think people are just fond of things they don't know much about.

[@salvadorramirez-vega7578]

It seems you are a very pleasant person, that’s awesome. I SERIOUSLY -frankly even have one of those ‘professions’- agree with what you’re saying, but authenticity must be mixed in with that, as it should always be with anything you do. Know what I mean?

[@happygoluckyme6926]

Flirting really is complicated but if you meet the right person everything will click

[@Psych2go]

Interesting! Have you met the right person that you click with?

[@cantfindchloee]

I wish 🥹

[@AceKite00]

I always say getting in relationships is easy and it really doesn't take much for someone to say "Yes". The real challenge is maintaining the relationship. Don't be in such a hurry to be with someone just to avoid that familiar lonely silence when youre back home. Your intentions should always be "I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with this person.". You must be ready for commitment. And no, leaving when they mess up or don't quite live up to your standards isn't commitment; It's immature childishness.

[@tentrilliconlp7748]

22 and never had a girlfriend. Yeah... Really easy...

[@youtubecommentergal4346]

​@@tentrilliconlp7748haha 22 too never had a boyfriend or first kiss. 😂

[@yzabelquidebt985]

I'm 29 and only had a boyfriend at 28. I waited until i met the right one who had the same intentions and who was compatible with me before i committed. It has been hard but extremely fulfilling. I'm loving it.

[@norapeace6526]

Facts!! My crush isn’t ready for a commitment, has never even been in an exclusive & committed relationship! 😪 I told him he has commitment issues. And me, I cut off people quick. I know we both have work to do in ourselves before we’re ready for a real relationship

[@hmmidk6023]

"Getting in relationships in easy" lol

[@jruphoff5024]

Another one is not just answering the question but keeping the conversation flowing.

[@mimicay]

Man this is such a big deal when meeting people. It's probably linked to this "keep it cool" bs they talked about in the video. Nowadays that the main way of meeting people is wether on social webs or dating apps, it can be very frustrating when you match with someone how little interest they can show when you're giving some effort to know the other person. I wish more people around the world had access to this video

[@jwanie366]

I've definitely struggled with knowing how to flirt in a good way, so this video was very helpful. Thanks as always!

[@Psych2go]

Awesome! Do you already have someone that you want to flirt with? :)

[@bben31]

*Rizz levels up by 300%*

[@thesaddestdude3575]

@@Psych2go If you are a guy and are below 5/10 though talking to women should probably not be something you even attempt.

[@BCSchmerker]

+Psych2GoTv *Thanks for the heads up on erroneous tactics wherewithal I'm none too familiar:* 0:52 *1. Keeping it cool* 1:20 *2. Waiting too long* 1:54 *3. Staying light* 2:25 *4. Negativity* 2:54 *5. Overromanticization* 3:36 *6. Hiding emotions*

[@MegaManNeo]

This all makes sense to me very well and I am terrible at _flirting_ as I would understand it otherwise too. Someone once said to me that flirting is basically getting known and used to certain others, so I try to keep myself neutral and authentic to myself as much as I can. My issue is rather that I have so little social contacts and skills that I am probably in the _hard to get_ position even if I don't want to :,D Plus I actually find it hard to tell whether a woman is actually around my age or 10 years younger/older, make up, clothing and healthy lifestyles makes this partially more difficult, ngl.

[@StanleySpadowski]

I have that exact same thing with not being able to tell age! It sucks because I'm in my mid 20s, so I find it impossible to tell if a guy is over 18 or not. My friends say just to talk to them anyway and once the conversation gets going to ask about it, which is honestly a pretty good way of dealing with it

[@liquidsleepgames3661]

My only criteria is. Be faithful, dont lie, and communicate your feelings either good or bad.

[@Psych2go]

Great rules to live by :)

[@gadrexxulier7452]

Unfortunately my ex failed doing any of these 🙁

[@liquidsleepgames3661]

@@gadrexxulier7452 yeah mine too. She lied to me too her friends about me and then left me with the excuse she needed to work on her self and that she wasnt acting like herself and was doing things more for my feeling then her own. ( fine that's alright I can handle a break up like that) and i find out she was dating someone else 12 hrs (yeah I know it was happening before) after we broke up. So that broke all 3 of my criteria in 1 go and I was depressed for weeks after finding out all that

[@soumya_sarkar96]

About the same

[@minswanyipaing4685]

Ngl, I always listen to your videos as ASMR because your sound is so soothing.

[@ajscout594]

Being single is actually okay. It’s just that being with your crush is the next step.

[@derekmaullo2865]

Being with a crush in this generation is like being pointed a gun on the head by mob members. Not fun

[@ajscout594]

@@derekmaullo2865 Unless you know how to handle it.

[@Psych2go]

If I may, I think being with one's crush isn't necessarily the next step or a better choice. I believe that they are separate but both great choices whether one decides to be single or to be in a relationship. I think the important thing is that we stick with our decision and be happy with them :)

[@ajscout594]

@@Psych2go I must say, I agree with you.

[@tedtalk9999]

Sometimes learning is hard because you don’t wanna say the wrong thing so you don’t do it. All the time really annoying I really needed this video so thank you for doing it.

[@flittystar]

pov: you're watching this for actually no reason

[@adrowning_fish3006]

I don’t even have a crush let alone talk to anyone. 😭 just: “hm, could be useful.” *click*

[@Tape_Rewind]

real

[@soumya_sarkar96]

Yes 😂

[@Killroy8000]

Pov?? What that doesn't have context here

[@Beetlemilk]

Open up emotionally but don't talk about anything that frustrates you or how you feel. Got it.

[@marcusianaviation9372]

Point 3/4 and 6 are contradictory to me. Point 3/4 said to not express negativity and keep things positive instead of saying how you truly feel (which could be negative feelings). But in Point 6, you need to express your true emotions and not hide them? 🤔

[@python3793]

i believe it said to keep things positive for the first while. i know from experience that it's not that great when you start out by being totally honest about all of your feelings. i mean, if you're interested in someone, you want to stay on the bright side of things to attract them, right? later on, when you know each other better, it should be totally okay to share more actual feelings. there's this, like...small gray area of still being who you are but not being too negative for a while

[@ramiel555]

it doesn't say to lie and pretend to be positive, it says to avoid topics/situations that would bring out the negativity.

[@R3D_R0CK3T-5]

Women, did you know you can also make the first move, we've been doing this shit for years, if you're shy, imagine how we feel, if you're with us, imagine how we'd really feel

[@StillAwesome21]

It's one of those double standards they don't have a problem with, because they benefit from it. Can't say I blame them, just existing and waiting for someone to shoot their shot with you makes dating way easier for them.

[@AlliIsNotaGirlkisser]

The thing is, if I make the first move, it will be different. The dynamic. The societal expectations. I will be taken for granted. Nonetheless, if/once I get hints that my crush likes me back, I'll definitely casually ask him out.

[@panintegral4571]

hey! I got a fact about men that is pretty important for a lasting relationship it´s that men are terribly insecure, and need to be comftarble to be able to fully commit that´s why we need that both sides of the relationship have to proove being reliable and secure to see for real a long lasting future with the other person

[@manoftherainshorts9075]

Concept of flirting is absolutely alien for me. It always weirds me out.

[@benrex7775]

Same. And this video was completely useless as the tips here have nothing to do with flirting. They apply to all types of relationships and are not specific to romantic ones.

[@wanjiku067]

I made the first move at 12, he never spike to me again and ignored me.from then one, I guard my heart as I was too obsessed with him

[@MorgueInTheVoid]

My flirting secret is that i'm never flirting. EVER. But if a guy finds a girl attractive and he finds out shes funny, then every single time she makes him laugh, he considers that flirting lmao.

[@DeRez19]

As a guy, I can confirm this is truuuueee... ...for most guys. For me, I am just confused. I'm like, "does she like me, just being nice, or playing me for a fool?" I don't know, man.

[@MorgueInTheVoid]

@@DeRez19 I've always said that as long as a guy is genuinely laughing at my jokes and he can make me laugh too, I'm head over heels lol I don't flirt and I don't like guys that intentionally flirt, it just seems so forced and cringey 😂 but maybe I'm weird lmao

[@marcoottina654]

​@@MorgueInTheVoidno no that's normal. Bring spontaneous and non-forced, non-calculated is the right and healthy way

[@MorgueInTheVoid]

@@marcoottina654 Oh good, thank you for confirming that for me lol😂

[@DeRez19]

@@MorgueInTheVoid See, guys and girls tell me that I am single because I don't use pick up lines or flirty banter. I'm not gonna flirt until I know that the girl I am talking to is interested. Flirting out of the blue is so weird to me.

[@shermanthebear963]

"show you true emotions" you know what I think I will pass on that one actually.

[@A55a551n]

Timestamps 1). Keeping it cool 0:52 2). Waiting too long 1:20 3). Stay light 1:54 4). Being negative 2:25 5). Over-romanticizing 2:54 6). Hiding your heart 3:35 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@victrjunir2073]

Thank You!!! 😊 ❤💙💜

[@victrjunir2073]

Thank You!!! 😊 ❤💙💜

[@A55a551n]

@@victrjunir2073 not a problem happy to help

[@A55a551n]

@@victrjunir2073 happy to help

[@Psych2go]

Your timestamps are always helpful. Hope you have a great day as well!

[@echocrashcraft]

1:20 that's how I feel and if someone does like me, they don't take the leap and show me making me feel annoying

[@Doragoo]

Watching this just because it might come in handy someday

[@alexanderhopkins7837]

0:54 keeping it cool 1:22 waiting too long 1:56 stay light 2:26 being negative 2:55 over-romanticizing 3:37 hiding your heart Timestamps for the video

[@GAME_0VER-AKA-DEATH]

You’re the 3rd person to say this. Though it was helpful, it’s not really needed

[@victrjunir2073]

Thank You!!! 😊 ❤💙💜

[@victrjunir2073]

@@GAME_0VER-AKA-DEATH not needed in what sense? *Brou* 🤔

[@alexanderhopkins7837]

@@victrjunir2073idk maybe he or she was saying I didn’t need to put those time stamps in the video but I was only trying to help u guys I really am but I have bad memories inside my head and they come back around over and over again it’s just so painful that my loved ones died on my birthday last year my cousin died my grandma died and my friend December died it’s so painful and I can’t stop having bad memories I can’t get over this shit😭😓 I’m sorry for the profanity but it’s so painful and hard to lose your loved ones that were by your side

[@GAME_0VER-AKA-DEATH]

@victrjunir2073 First of all, I’m a guy. Secondly, there was other people putting it before you, so if you read one before, this one is useless, hence the reason why I said it’s not needed

[@Joenah5]

"if it is instinctive to all of us on some level" that's the funny part, it's not. I genuinely have zero idea how to flirt

[@benrex7775]

Me neither. It may be because I never had a woman I wanted to date. But so far my dating skills are non existent.

[@Joenah5]

@@benrex7775 for me part of it is definitely that physical attractiveness isn't the main determining factor for me to be interested in someone, I need to know them a bit, but even when I have had interest in some people I had no clue

[@benrex7775]

​@@Joenah5 I meant to write flirting skill, not dating skill. But since I have never been in a relationship this applies too I guess. The looks are a requirement for me. I won't date a woman I am not attracted to to at least some degree. But even though this is a contributing factor, it is not the one which I care the most. I can relate to your statement of having to know a woman before being interested. I want her to have an attractive character, I want her to share my core values and I want her to show signs of being interested in me. Also I want a bunch of children so she should not be over 30 at the point of marriage. So far I have not met a woman who fits all those requirements. Partially because my male dominated environment and perhaps I'm also too picky or too dense or some other contributing factor.

[@MrCovi2955]

"I liked your post online, how did you not realize I like you." "Because most of the people liking the post did it because the liked the post, not because they even know me. That's not a hint."

[@gehteuchnixan3052]

What keeps me from flirting is #4. I don't see the point in flirting when I 'know' I'm somebody nobody will be attracted to anyway. Definitely not to my morbidly obese looks, and beyond that also not to my inability to hold any kind of entertaining conversations. I hno idea how smalltalk works, and I regularly notice that I have absolutely no clue what's going on in 80% - 90% of csses when people talk about their interests and hobbies.

[@BRU-TALE]

Seeing nobody answer you, i’ll do: i understand you feel what you write and it’s okay. BUT, you have a choice, i know maybe everyone said it to you, but it’s the truth. You have no clue? Try to understand, even only 1%, better than 0%. Listen to you, accept your emotions, change what you want to change. Will be difficult? Fucking yes. Some days you will feel miserable like you’re doing nothing? YES BUT when you get into the process, you will feel better -someone who before never spoke to people and now compliments random people I hope the message will pass not only trough you, but even to anybody that need to hear that.

[@benrex7775]

What keeps me from flirting is that I don't know how it works and that I don't care to flirt with women I don't consider myself marrying. All those points from the video have nothing to do with flirting itself. As far as I can tell, those points apply to any social interaction you have, no matter if you are just a coworker or married. After watching this video I didn't get any insight into how flirting works at all. I obviously don't know how it feels like to be you. But I have some related experiences. A video that described a problem of mine quite well is _You are just the “Filler Friend”_ by HealthyGamerGG. I give out a low perceived interest towards others. So they never invite me to anything. And that is justified, as I actually want to spend a lot of time on my own. But just because I don't want to participate in 90% of activities doesn't mean I want to be alone all the time. One way I managed to solve that problem is by asking two people I got along with, if they want to do stuff with me every other Friday evening. Now I have a regular activity with people without the pressure of having to put a lot of my freetime into socializing. Another problem I have is that I think nobody cares about me. After all they don't invite me to stuff and I am no crucial part in making stuff work. But precisely because I don't think people care about my presence, I show up in irregular intervals and only if I feel like it. Let's say in the last year I had a few people mention that they value my presence (I'm 29 now). And not in that superficial way that people say to everyone to appear nice. My brain is completely not used to those statements. I may have rejected some honest statements of people telling me they value my presence because I don't see how I am a benefit to their life. It doesn't make it better that I find some of their favorite topics to talk about boring. So I often sit in a corner listing or being in my own thoughts. And when I contribute the topics feel not that interesting to me. And since I find it not that engaging I assume the other person also finds the conversation a bit boring. But apparently that is not the case. One way I try to rethink my methodology is that conversations is not just that my interests are satisfied. I'm a particular person with specific interests. So I can't expect that every conversation partner satisfies my needs. But if I want to socialize then I can do so for the sake of others. If I make my conversation partner feel heard then I might be more noticed as well. One place where I notice that I actually contribute to something is a church camp. A guy I know from my youth asked me if I have time to help him in that camp as he is short on a few people. Recently the second one of these camps happened and I can see how each of the leaders is contributing in a different way, including me. That is a confidence boost. It sounds like you feel insecure about your weight. I give as a recommendation to do small steps. For example cut out soda from your life. Just drink water, tea or other drinks with no sugar and no chemistry. And also slightly increase your physical activity. For example take the stairs instead of the elevator. Your goal shouldn't be normal weight. Your goal should be stabilizing your weight and making habits which can lower your weight very slowly over long time. It's better you loose very little over a year than if you do nothing or you do a lot and then bounce back. I'm curious what you mean with _"I have no idea how small talk works"_ could you explain? I'm also curious what your interests and hobbies are. I hope I didn't write too much about myself and scared you off with a huge textwall.

[@gehteuchnixan3052]

@@BRU-TALE Tbh, I'm still trying to understand what you're trying to tell me. Aside from 'improving' but that's not exactly a new idea. I've been trying that so often and fir do long, I don't really have any trust left that I can ever change anything...

[@HardestTorkum]

​@@gehteuchnixan3052you dont need to change. You need to realize that you are fine already as you currently are. You should value yourself more then over time things will come together. Nicht einfach, aber kriegst du sicher hin :)

[@BRU-TALE]

@@gehteuchnixan3052 then change what are you doing. if you thing there is nothing to do, you will be right. change how do you, change till you get it right, it's the best thing you can do

[@Itzduhhistorygirl]

Psych2go thank you so much for your channel I discovered your channel in December of 2017 and at the time I was in a difficult situation because my older cousin’s boyfriend was abusing me my cousin and my older brother and me and my brother left but my older cousin stayed with her boyfriend at the time and I remembered being depressed afterwards but your channel helped me learn more about myself and my mental health and learned what was not normal because at the time I considered the abuse normal.

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much for the kind words and for sharing your struggle. It sounds like you had a really tough time not too long ago. I must ask, how are you and your brother doing now? How about your older cousin who decided to stay? Have you spoken to a mental health professional regarding your situation?

[@Itzduhhistorygirl]

@@Psych2go me and my brother are good now and my cousin broke up with her ex boyfriend a while after me and my brother left but we didn’t talk to her until five years later so we have a better relationship now and no I didn’t talk to a therapist because we didn’t have the money to pay for it but me and my brother are in a better place.

[@Psych2go]

That's great to hear that you guys are doing better and were able to reconnect with your cousin. I really hope that you guys are able to talk to someone about it as well, even though, admittedly and unfortunately, therapy can be very expensive :( But thank you for taking the time to share your story and for letting us know that you are doing better! It's always wonderful to hear how people are in a better place mentally :)

[@damianwright3690]

Playing hard to get: Taken too far gives the very distinct impression of lack of reciprocity - people want to play tag, not play never-ending pursuit. So - playing a little bit hard to get? Sure. Playing hard-core hard to get? You go your way and the rest of us will leave you to it. Also, what else does constant pursuit of someone look like, someone who looks like they don't want the attention? Obsessive, needy, desperate, even non-consensual. Toss in a healthy dose of flagging otherwise normal behaviour as creepy or borderline SA, and yes, there is a very big gap that won't be crossed by decent people.

[@GIGACHAD-dk7zs]

POV: you've never talked to a girl and you're watching this

[@PrivateForPersonalReasons]

I am NEVER going to use these ( I have never flirted in my life and I do not plan to do so )

[@TAGSagar]

How you guys know that I just got into a relationship last night and maybe somehow needed this video

[@RoCreates]

TIME STAMPS: keeping it cool 0:55 waiting too long 1:25 stay light 1:56 being negative 2:27 over romanticizing 2:55 hiding your heart 3:37

[@Badlydownfood]

Pov: you are single with no dating experience and struggling with dating fomo💀

[@MarisolPaint3r]

I love your voice your voice is like an angel! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@That_1940s_Delinquent]

Waiting too long is a really bad and common one. If you wait too long people tend to see you more as a friend rather than a romantic interest.

[@Mr.Bird_Debates]

Well Im waiting for the right person who get in a relationship but for now im not focused on s*x rather my career and living space

[@chlosh2191]

I didn't want to watch, but I can't resist

[@alexm-e4910]

Flirting is so hard. I’m literally blind to it and have literally no idea ever when it’s happening. I hate it so much. Makes me feel less than human, not getting something that it seems like comes so naturally to everyone else. So I never try. Better to be alone than creepy since that’s all I can be if I try. Learned that through hard experience

[@ryany4n]

Tip from me, You need to balance on "Keeping it cool" and "Hiding Your Heart". Coz in my situation, i failed to confess my feeling to my crush, even tho i got golden opportunity, by visiting her coz we're living seperate away. My point is, sometimes you need to push in if you managed to found your golden opportunity. I know, if i managed to get her, long distance relationship ship not going to last on long term. But if you had commitment to your partner, other "golden opportunity will come, and help to lift your relationship". Perhaps you might managed to find a way to live in one roof.

[@flamegamer3424]

I learn new things by watching these videos frequently.

[@Psych2go]

And have they been helping? :)

[@flamegamer3424]

@@Psych2go Yes, they have and I’m glad about that.

[@Z_-Aruckman_.]

POV: you’re watching this while texting your crush Update:we broke up everyone 😕

[@1337ik_]

YEAH..

[@johanmendoza4716]

Nuh uh

[@thecorrupted3217]

I am, but my aunt told me to stop being wierd man.

[@AverageMobileGamePlayer]

I don’t have her number 😢

[@meadowleaf5424]

Shush

[@jujuoof174]

Never flirted before, but thanks for all the tips!

[@severusbernard7404]

I literally followed the second step in this, but two videos ago, Psych2Go convinced me my crush doesn’t like me that way 😭😭😭

[@karoshi2]

Contradicting instructions are super confusing! 🙄 Guess that means there's a balance you want to keep; usually delicate and with intuition, as people are different: some need more time, some expect you to go ahead, ... Hope you did the right thing with your crush!

[@leonieclifford5578]

You should still ask them out lol. I'm in the same postion, and step 2 made me feel like asking him out BUT I'm scared because THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS I DON'T LIKE ABOUT MYSELF THAT I'M SCARED WILL MAKE HIM NOT LIKE ME.

[@geemail369]

Guys, don't overcomplicate things. Get out of your own heads, just make a move and find out! If nothing else peace of mind is waitibg on the other side - far better and more bearable than the brainwrecked mess you are now. 🌱

[@severusbernard7404]

@@leonieclifford5578 OMG ME LMAO

[@Jshiddenobjects]

All of these depends on the right person that you meet ✨

[@glitchysquid1137]

So in short - be open, be honest and be positive.

[@matldn2697]

Some very good points, I work in a very stress environment. I made the mistake of being negative and lost a chance with an amazing woman.

[@xbmeans]

I don’t believe in flirting. I strongly believe in being upfront about how I feel about the person.

[@luckykitty1740]

Making the first step and being open about your feelings is so damn hard.

[@卂-i9t]

AGREE AGREE

[@AcraniYous]

Disagreeing with the stay light part. If you make yourself appear overly stress-free and easy-going, this may make you more approachable at first glance; but can also act deceptively later down the line. The key is to always be authentic - ALWAYS. If another person does not like you know because of certain attitudes, than they sure won't like it if you display these behaviours later on 'out of the blue'. For instance, pretending to like/ dislike something jut to get another person's approval is straight up lying; sadly a favourite of the 'yes'-saying/ face societies. The great thing is, if you show all your quirks now and the other person still likes you, you both truly struck gold. Be authentic! Always.

[@redvivius]

i give up at this point, im probably just gonna be dead before i find someone that actually likes me

[@buggus0034]

I think the research is interesting, but practice makes perfect. Flirt often, flirt better.

[@Potato_Of_Regrets]

Pov: You don't really need this cuz you've already given up the dating world

[@xThe3xecution]

It's actually kind of funny to see that this tips are almost all the exact opposite of what the so called "dating coaches" on yt pray

[@AnthonyStJames-yn8nr]

I am a flirting trainwreck! add to this a healthy dose of introversion, then I might as well play the dating game in legendary mode. jokes aside though, I wish I learned these stuff way way earlier. The constant rejections and overall relationship failures just discourages me to go out into the fray and try once again.

[@miriams.4341]

Feel slightly bad now, that before the last date, I had to put up with 7 hours of pure idiocy in a meeting beforehand, leaving me in a very “negative” headspace. Ah well. He clearly didn’t die from my frustrated rant, because we have another date coming up. Still, might watch that one.

[@janetstraw191]

A whole lot of debatable information here! 😝

[@s0r445]

I know a girl like this that keeps telling me that she doesn't wanna see me have another girl, but she also doesn't say she loves me, making me feel very uncertain about her intentions

[@Arc_Viper]

All of these problems are fixed when I’m drunk. All of my hookups have been me being happily intoxicated. I have absolutely no game when I’m sober and panic

[@Sentient-potato]

Thx for the tip as an aromantic person

[@aliasalias510]

A clicked for the tips, I stayed for the calming voice.

[@Pmujsrepmuj]

Thanks but no amount of help can make me flirt like a pro😭🙏

[@Psych2go]

😭 Start small! Maybe you can start by learning to talk to your crush! If you have one that is

[@revaniz1465]

These videos double as ASMR. Such a sweet voice.

[@Allaleoanyayaya]

this was really helpful love you Psych2go

[@dontornado5350]

I know im not having any contact with women but i still watch this. Thanks 😂

[@DragonHeart-cm1tx]

I don't know what flirting, nor how to do it. That's a real challenge especially since I think where I am going tomorrow is actually on a date, but I don't know for sure.

[@markusstorzer4545]

....thank YOU for your love and support you give us!!!

[@danieldorn9989]

Any of these points would send me straight to creep jail

[@the_mrmaple]

4:17 oh absolutely not, I make no flirting mistakes, in fact, I do not flirting at all!

[@ARSHCHOUDHARY-bo6mk]

Too scary, right?

[@skoodlemoose]

i could be wrong but i feel like most of this is specific to women

[@StillAwesome21]

Kinda, they do avoid doing much of anything in the early stages of dating.

[@TheNonameHousehold]

This seems like another good way to start the weekend 😁

[@Psych2go]

Thank you! Hope you have a great weekend! Any fun plans ahead?

[@TheNonameHousehold]

@@Psych2go I'm binging disney and Pixar movies tonight with my sib(short for sibling) 😄

[@youtubecommentergal4346]

My best friend told me *never* to make the first move as a girl. Here in my country if you do that a guy who might not really like you may say yes because they want to use you for your body. You open yourself up to being used and mocked. Making the first move as a female is not a thing here.

[@Whoareyou5306]

May I ask where's your country?

[@youtubecommentergal4346]

@@Whoareyou5306 Kenya.🇰🇪

[@buggus0034]

Don’t worry. It’s not in the USA either. Any woman that ever made the first move on me, I shut down immediately. Which that was all of two of them.

[@hmmidk6023]

I think girls need to make the first move more. They need to put in some work to instead of making us do all the work.

[@benrex7775]

You know that there are women who use men too? I have heard it several times that whatever you reveal to your girlfriend can and will be used against you later on. That's part of the reason why some men are not more emotional in front of their wives. Any relationship is a risk. That's why it is smart to not solely rely on your own emotions and also ask people for advise, who care for you and have a good eye for people. And I advise to ask people of both genders. I don't know which country you are from, but making a hard rule of women never approaching a man is very limiting. Of course there can always be cultural aspects as well, so I don't want to make a rule out of it. But generally if you fear the wrong man then you can neither ask a man nor accept a man who asks you. After all you can be used in both scenarios.

[@KNDCHV]

Definitely guilty of 2 and 6. Especially in 6. After the last girl I just can't open to a girl and I am not even making an effort to go after another. They don't impress me with anything.

[@AIexanderJ]

My job keeps me away from everyone. So that's why I'm always going to be on my own. I'm used to it. So I'm comfortable

[@GhANeC]

Slightly (and purposefully) mood misleading thumbnail and even title there… …but great and useful video in the end as always. Thanks.

[@Sweetzerlandia]

Hostility or pretending to be mad or offended to be interesting. While it does inspire a bit of "fight or flight" and raise adrenaline, ultimately it's an immature game that isn't a good go-to. Being volatile is not a characteristic people look for in a long term partner

[@Rairosu]

Being a guy who has no girl be interested in me at all, Before I had a boyfriend instead of finding a girl. I had slowly became best friends with my soon to be BF one that day I became quite nervous and a bit shakey but quite bold in my attempt that I admitted my feelings to him in a school bus (High School) we slowly got even more closer and eventually became boyfriends, We been together for years. I even Married him online in Final Fantasy XIV (Platinum Plan). I like to one day truly marry him in a far distant future in RL, And even have kids (Biological, VIF Route) I was not really truly destined to find a Girl in my life. But a Guy, But I never did cared who gender it is Female or Male. I wanted to find love and finding a guy in my life has been my best decision ever. Had I got a girl instead though? I would not complain. As I learned after I was Bisexual. I am really into Both Girls and Guys.

[@zhonrsk7448]

I realized i have a little of every single one ☠️

[@TheIcyBandit]

The difference between flirting and harassment in this day and age is how attractive you are

[@kennethforman5265]

"best way to a girls heart is through her parents. Once you sleep with them, you're in." Zapp brannigan

[@RayPeng-07]

And remember, YOU MATTER!

[@nezbs5407]

Everything so far is ok the only thing which I can relate here is the higher expectation part 😂

[@trinsit]

Especially thank you for this one.

[@Ryjack22]

I'm never finding a girlfriend

[@imanisutton107]

don't say thaaat 😂

[@wardonx887]

Wonderful

[@imanisutton107]

@@wardonx887 what's wonderful? lol

[@wardonx887]

@@imanisutton107 The more you stay away from stupid primitive emotions, the better.

[@imanisutton107]

@@wardonx887 yea I agree

[@TheEodd]

Well i feel like i do a lot of these things and am not single, so seems like pretty good advice y'all!

[@sixnnversee]

Can you do one about misophonia? Also i love your videos❤❤

[@-Axle-]

Need to show this to my brother because he wants to be the rizz master. 😂

[@Username_7089]

Gotta catch em all

[@-Axle-]

@@Username_7089 😂

[@ladyteebugluv]

@@-Axle- lmaooo 😂😂😭✨

[@Psych2go]

😂😂 On a scale of 1 to 10, how is his rizz?

[@-Axle-]

@@ladyteebugluv he tried to rizz me up to practice but failed miserably 😂😂

[@MaeManuel1]

I’m sure if I want to learn how to flirt, but I am interested in it since 2009 when I played flirting games on the computer. By the way, what’s the difference between flirting and seduction? Can you make a video about that, Psych2Go?

[@Lisa-nt7wt]

I am ready

[@MsLilac88]

This is an informative video on how to flirt with your crush. 😊

[@benrex7775]

If you have no clue how to flirt then this video was useless. It only showed how to be a nice person and hold a good conversation of any type. And I already know that. But I don't know how to flirt.

[@CatoTato]

~ Timestamps ~ 0:52 - Keeping It Cool 1:20 - Waiting Too Long 1:55 - Stay Light 2:25 - Being Negative 2:54 - Over-Romanticizing 3:36 - Hiding Your Heart Have a great day/night

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for the detailed time stamps :)

[@CatoTato]

@@Psych2goyw

[@donstoddard8458]

I love flirting but I think I have a deeper problem I really don't want it to go anywhere I just love flirting. I think I've done all those things on that list many times. But I love flirting

[@rorschac009oo8]

Ah shit im too early. The saints that post the timestamps aren't here yet.

[@drshepherd6567]

Dating Apps that skip the whole process and the anticipation of re-doing all the things you normaly do when you dont meet artificially through an app! If you skip an important part, move on and dont think you have to redo things!

[@TitorEPK]

I wanna be better at flirting and I'm in a relationship

[@TheSTDmerchant]

Your voice is so beautiful 😍,,it just keeps making me come back for more content

[@joeyvanhaperen7715]

I know I have a tendensie to be over enthousiastic that’s my biggest flaw. When I fall in love the feeling is overpowering, sow I loss controlle and come over as pushy or needy. I know this from myself, but eventhough I have massively well trainen discipline I have a very hard time controlling myself when we are talking about love. 😅 Later in the realatship I mellow out, but most partners don't make it that far. I kind of have to play hard to get otherwise I smother people with my love. 😅 apperently there is such a thing as to romantic or passionat. I'm like a damn golden retriever. 😂

[@Kumori90]

IDK, whenever I try to "flirt" or be witty, i get canceled. I've always been bad with words and talking.