"When a man loves you you will know when he doesn't you will be confused." This is my mantra!
@keneilwemokoena90162 жыл бұрын
Ausi Phetola is always on point😭😭❤️😍 most women after getting the rock on the finger are just like "I have no one to impress" mara yena, wow🏆🏆❤️😍 I hope I have the same motivation after I get married, that's if I do😂😂
@natashaphiri77252 жыл бұрын
Sooo true I wanna be phetola when I grow up by the way I'm 23🤣🤣🤣
@MrsTay2 жыл бұрын
Very true, I've never seen ausi Pheto a le feela(simple if I may put it). She's always on point rocking it. Re kopa ditip ausi @phetola
@likomomokhethi2852 жыл бұрын
@@MrsTay we need those tips tlhe.....she is honestly always so put together
@Goodness2222 жыл бұрын
To be honest I'm really shedding tears because this is just a harsh truth I wasn't ready to hear🥺😭
@simnikiwemajiki82652 жыл бұрын
Xolo babe but its the truth. Don't allow men that don't deserve you dribble you. Good men still exist
@ayandanyathi13312 жыл бұрын
Nothing frustrates me like an undecided guy. I consciously choose to be 'lonely' because I know my worth. As hard as it is at times, I'm not playing games.
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 Жыл бұрын
That's the def of self respect
@tshegoragabane2557 Жыл бұрын
Thank you.. me right there
@saneliswamagagula97812 жыл бұрын
“No person is that busy” and that is the gospel👌🏾
@athimapapu43672 жыл бұрын
Lerato your empathy is so remarkable. Your ability to understand things out of your context is amazing. Lovely instalment Phetola 🙌🏽❤️
@sendralletsoalo2 жыл бұрын
So remarkable. They are amazing.
@neophasha97852 жыл бұрын
As a young man your conversations challenge me so much and they expose so many of my flaws and I can't help it but change. One of the hardest pills to swallow as a guy is how so many decisions we make are soo based on our egos, and we're always seeking to redeem or inflate our egos through our partners, which is unhealthy. Thank you so much guys for this conversation❤
@letshegomancoe44812 жыл бұрын
I love this.
@ms_lerato232 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼
@wambuimwania2 жыл бұрын
Wow
@sanelemjoli48772 жыл бұрын
Red flags, red flags. Don't ignore the promptings of the Holy Spirit. I always say "Ask for the vision from the get go." The Great I AM loves you
@tebotshungu67282 жыл бұрын
Wait, did I just see abuti Lerato blush after you said "my hubby"? I can't 🥺
@lifutsotsephe75442 жыл бұрын
People make time for what’s important in their lives! That’s just it! ❤
@likomomokhethi2852 жыл бұрын
That Futsikie for you! You had to say this............this is what you say always!
@Goodness2222 жыл бұрын
This came at the right time... I'm going thru "I met this guy I really like a lot and I want things to be serious between us" but the problem is he doesn't call me, I'm always the one initiating conversations and when he talks to me, he doesn't even give me his undivided attention, sometimes I feel like I'm just pushing a door he is not even ready to open to let me in and it's so annoying and draining.
@moe_ramz2 жыл бұрын
Block and move on.
@dineomokonyama50442 жыл бұрын
I am sorry babes, it seems as if the efforts are not being reciprocated, let it go.
@nozimbalindlovu1052 жыл бұрын
sorry sis......but maybe you need to leave him and pray for a partner
@Goodness2222 жыл бұрын
@@nozimbalindlovu105 I think so too plus all my relationships don't even last
@ikejabu12122 жыл бұрын
@@Goodness222 Hey Goodness, can you please give me your number? I'd like to get to know you.
@BEAUTIFUL_ALLSEASONS2 жыл бұрын
Just broke up an unlabelled relationship 😂. And I feel so peaceful because really, I deserve better. He's not a bad person but I deserve way better. Thank you Abuti Lerato le Aus Phetola. Turning 25 on the 24 and it's great to just go for what I deserve nje with this new age. ❤ You two are much appreciated 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
@nobuhlemchunu3836 Жыл бұрын
I needed that soo much..."sometimes its not about you" sometimes there is nothing you could do to save a relationship because you're probably not even the problem nor the one with issues. For the longest time I've been holding on a relationship... yes because I loved him but probably I also stayed more because he ticked every box . I also wanted this to work, I desperately wanted it to work so much that I ignored ALL the red flags. Never ignore the red flags😑
@lethabomantlole10202 жыл бұрын
Was avoiding this podcast cause I was afraid of getting triggered, but honestly it was good hear these things I tolerated in my past relationships.
@ontlametseselobile65252 жыл бұрын
watched and 10min in I switched if off... But I'm glad I finished it. Healing to you and everyone ❤🩹
@nokwandamathebula79522 жыл бұрын
honestly same here , i saved it but it took me some time to watch but i liked it
@keleabetswemathabe90162 жыл бұрын
This instalment makes me so nervous. I just started watching and I'm afraid of what will be said😭😭
@LethoHali2 жыл бұрын
Hahahha I know the feeling 😂
@simnikiwemajiki82652 жыл бұрын
I love what you said about ending things Mr Makhs... Ladied please follow that advice. When I met my husband, he told me he had just gotten out of a hectic relationship and he felt he wasn't ready for a relationship. I remember having a conversation with him with my mind and not heart. I told him I understand you are not ready, but I am and I want serious. So take all the time you need but I am not going to wait for you cause I know what I want. You can check me when you are ready, if im still available we will take it from there but I am not waiting. Nigga came correct and gave me what I wanted, 3 years later we married. It wasn't easy to put my foot down like that but I am glad I did.
@nokwandamathebula79522 жыл бұрын
best best reminds me of Steve Harvey and his now wife , he was still playing around Marjorie (his wife ) walked out on him just after hearing him on a call with another girl and she just said call me when you ready to have some special and Steve came correct I guess sometimes you have to put your foot down
@katlegom1142 жыл бұрын
🕯 🕯 🕯 For God to bless me and all other single ladies that know their worth with a respectable and man of honor like Mr Makhs🙏 I love this duo please!!
@slindilemajola2 жыл бұрын
Such a timely conversation. I needed to hear this, even in my single season. Recovering from being with an undecided man, we need to talk about the after effects of being with someone who is insecure and how hard it is to understand that the problem is not with you as the partner but the actual person himself. It’s as though the insecurities rub off on you, where you start to question why you were/are “not enough” to be taken seriously. Necessary conversation. Thank you Guys!♥️
@nomuhlemhlambeni43552 жыл бұрын
Awesome content . You don't just throw sentences and stuff , you really apply yourselves into every installment . Excellence is the word 🙌
@SimplyK942 жыл бұрын
The quality of this video, wow!
@edenm.69852 жыл бұрын
Really needed to hear this. What a perfect timing!!!
@louiscanthyshakela882 жыл бұрын
1.He never contact me first
@nthabisengndlovu8074 Жыл бұрын
People have made it seem so illegal to reside kwa "know your worth" when in actual it is better to be at peace until such time there is a person who wants to reside with you kwa "know your worth" ...
@zethusalukazana4302 жыл бұрын
Lovely installment guys thank you. I'm a super fan of #TheMakhs In your closing statement Lerato mentioned that it's lonely at the top and only the 1s that know their story will approach you. Like you've been saying Mr Makh, dating in 2022 has become tricky. Someone will approach you as a challenge to themselves, to prove that they can melt even the hardest hearts. Not because they want a good woman but because they want to break her confidence to prove they've still got game.
@tidodlamini2 жыл бұрын
I Already Feel Attacked By The Title Nje🙃
@fezilenkabinde90872 жыл бұрын
Kwaaaaa
@theglobalgifted Жыл бұрын
Nobody has time but they make time for things that are important 👌 Thanks so much for always sharing authentic nuggets
@JK.O-Appiah2 жыл бұрын
DreamTeam, this has been a very important conversation you've had. Thank you for sharing this with us. As a young man, a topic like this really makes me think about what I need to work on with regards to courtship and relationships as a whole. May God continue to Bless Your Marriage and Your Family. One Love 🙏🏾✨️
@tshepisompala22362 жыл бұрын
When I get a notification of a new installment 🥰🥰 .. my heart really jumps for joy. Love you guys so much 🥺❤️
@valenciaroberts9255 Жыл бұрын
The relationship of convenience topic cuts deep! Very relatable. 😢
@chumamajova55032 жыл бұрын
Dream Team!!!! I'm here for the wisdom😘
@LM-he7eb2 жыл бұрын
The friends part: Not everyone has the a supportive circle. I generally keep away things very "surface-y" with my friends & family. I'm a closed person. S I wouldn't share someone/thing I feel vulnerable about to my friends & family.
@kim-dz2kg7 ай бұрын
The breadcrumbing could also be because the person feels bad for rejecting you. So they don't pursue you but are open to you when you reach out because they dont want to be rude. I've done it and working on openly rejecting nice people
@ThabiThabi2 жыл бұрын
This episode had me so emotional 😢. Thank you for sharing this with us. You're a beautiful couple
@naomigaotingwe8201Ай бұрын
I'm the girl Lerato is talking about at 15 minutes in somebody's life, and it hurts like hell, I'd never wish this on my worst enemy, and it's hard to not feel like something is wrong with me yk. I wish to find peace at the end of all this.
@thatokholoane16552 жыл бұрын
Always coming with the truth bombs!!! Love you so much. Pheto looks amazing!
@pashukeni_ Жыл бұрын
This was everything 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@nthabisengsekhonyana2049 Жыл бұрын
Oh my word! The Makhs... I'm inlove!
@Miss_Zimm Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. It is surely lonely at the top but I know what I want and I wont settle for anything less. Im a 36yr old mother of a 13year old.
@mzolisapumeza2778 Жыл бұрын
Enjoy this establishment thank guys🤗, indeed she's sooo beautiful.. Yeah ne, I'm 33 years, the pool is getting smaller.. I love the point you just made in closing, it's worth it ♥️👌
@marvelousmbali80022 жыл бұрын
What happens if a lady is the one that shot her shot within the DMs? Does she now have to do all the things call’s texts…? Because ke 2022 anyone is now allowed to say hey uphi😂😂 next thing ziyakhala ku mjolo land they were ok going ahead with the first step now they need moguy to take over but hai he won’t because Mogurl did the honours 😩
@nolofatsomampane12792 жыл бұрын
Hello DreamTeam 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Today I was actually thinking to myself we need The Makhs merchandise. The way I would love to rock a T-shirt with your print on it 🔥🔥🔥 Anyway, beautiful instalment.
@Amanda_Khanyile2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love you guys. God continue to pour over your lives. Thank you for these conversations and sharing the truth 🌻.
@siphiwedlamini70342 жыл бұрын
You both looking good ❤️ Also love your phone cover Mrs Makhs🤭♥️
@keolebilemmoke607 ай бұрын
" I realised later that I was insecure and in a relationship on convenience" Lerato @15:00-16:03 😥😥😥 this took me back to years back with my Ex when I had to look in the mirrow and admit to myself that this man you made this precious baby with never loved you Keo , you were convenience ant that is that, period .
@keolebilemmoke607 ай бұрын
Phetolo you are 100% sis you need to release yourself, knowing we are enough, and thank you dream team
@madampraises44502 жыл бұрын
The ending Mr Makhs? Come on!! 🔥🔥🔥
@melonnelon8552 жыл бұрын
Liked before I even watched💕
@hlumatikwayo62752 жыл бұрын
It’s actually my first watching you guys. This video help me put some perspective in my situation. And honestly I needed this.
@cleoshabalala55412 жыл бұрын
💫🤍 I recently discovered your channel and am overwhelmed at how much catching up I have to do. I really loved the honesty and conversation in this particular video and it's safe to say I am here to stay. As a young lady who believes in value and intent whilst manoeuvring her twenties, being exposed to such a platform/channel honestly feels like a blessing. Having a proper female, male and young couple's perspective all in one.
@Tebo55832 жыл бұрын
Hey hey.....1st comment? Excited to be here
@TheMakhs2 жыл бұрын
Heeelllloooo!!!♥️♥️♥️
@resegolinchwe70522 жыл бұрын
Hello dream team, could you guys make a video on if you think the church has idolised marriage or rather Christians in general
@Zipporahwalker21072 жыл бұрын
You came up in my suggestions. Had to subscribe. Love your vibe. God bless guys and thanks for sharing!❤️🙏🏾
@katlizakat66022 жыл бұрын
Well said .I'm introspecting myself
@b_reshoketswe27772 жыл бұрын
Sesi Phetola's beauty😍😍my goodness!!
@leratomohlakola48172 жыл бұрын
Lovely installment fam😻❤!
@malebomokgethi32332 жыл бұрын
I love you guys❤️.
@samanthamanyame99082 жыл бұрын
I loved this installment, thank you!
@dineomagdeline71427 ай бұрын
I Love this, you guys are the light of this generation ❤
@Lola_K2 жыл бұрын
So good. But can someone please list it out. I’ve rewatched but I’m missing a few
@kingdomgirlsarise Жыл бұрын
To timeless conversations, thank you for serving us well on 2022, I am honoured to be part of the dream team❤️❤️❤️
@LizzAbade Жыл бұрын
Kenyans 🇰🇪in the house...Lerato looks a bit like Joho 001 in this installment, no?😅
@dorahsenatle6705 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this conversation. You guys articulate it very well.
@davidmathenjwa22932 жыл бұрын
It's nice to be here ❣❣❤
@jewelshula54352 жыл бұрын
Blessed by this.Thank you so much.
@wewemhlaba75932 жыл бұрын
This video was so so good...Looooved it.Thank you to the Makhs❤❤❤
@thabi_lebothe2 жыл бұрын
Mabakoena ke chipi lonaaa🔥😍
@pamellagumbo41942 жыл бұрын
My favorites 🔥...... 🇿🇼🇿🇼
@happymuller8412 жыл бұрын
Now this fam!!! This was...🔥 couldn't be more relatable! 'Cause a dintshe there by di relationship tsa this era weeeeh 😪 But in the words of mr Makhs "we stay up there " 'Twas 2 real in here!!!🗣❤❤❤
@mzwandilemkhize2 жыл бұрын
Lovely installment, stay at the top 😇
@bakhulisilemasemola94582 жыл бұрын
This content I learnt a lot and took everything said into consideration
@MalindiN2232 жыл бұрын
This was truly therapeutic for me. Thank you thank you wow 🙏🏽
@iam_mmathoka2 жыл бұрын
And I made a permanent decision to stay away from relationships 😭😹
@marydenlysithole7089 Жыл бұрын
"She ticked a lot of boxes, but my heart wasn't there," Yoh, yeah, neh, I love this. It's possible to tick a lot of boxes, and the dude doesn't love you. Nothing is wrong with you. Dude just dnt love you. Men know what they want! ALWAYS ❤️
@Diana-ph4ff9 ай бұрын
I really loved this! Thank you!
@letshegomancoe44812 жыл бұрын
I always enjoy your conversations. I love you guys
@SapiySurprise2 жыл бұрын
This is so good!!!💯
@palesamatabane31382 жыл бұрын
Loved this! Staying at the top!!!!
@dimakatsomalatji27942 жыл бұрын
Phetola you look gorgeous 😍 💖
@tinapleasant75902 жыл бұрын
That was good y’all!!!
@marvelousmbali80022 жыл бұрын
So true You left the best friend stage Fam
@desledwaba22152 жыл бұрын
Stay at the top! Loneliness or not. Stay at the top What a lovely installment. #DreamTeam
@Morph_-2 жыл бұрын
This was such a good video guys!
@thandiswazide3999 Жыл бұрын
My newest fave channel💞
@patiencechari75292 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm this was deep👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾And so needed
@christinegk52092 жыл бұрын
Any kenyans here? 😀
@TheMakhs2 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️♥️
@sashaachieng82542 жыл бұрын
Yes..... always here
@_theboldtruth2 жыл бұрын
Always here.. Love, love, love the Makhs! 💝
@wendymurangi2 жыл бұрын
Notification gang
@TheMakhs2 жыл бұрын
Come all the way through! ♥️♥️♥️
@lebomathatho66332 жыл бұрын
Am so happy that we have believers doing what you are doing guys keep it up you are changing lives in a godly way.
@dineomocwane42832 жыл бұрын
lol a tlise Dineo. not Phetola using my name as an example...😂❤
@tetolesole67422 жыл бұрын
Hi fam, so what if you spiritually connect with your partner but his signs or actions are not the same with the connectivity, i hope i make sense
@tebogo_gratitude2 жыл бұрын
the quality of video🥳🥳❤️🔥❤️🔥 I love,love❤❤
@valeriesefatsa3972 жыл бұрын
Yohhhh GEMS on GEMS .... enjoyed this
@bulelwafaithmahlakahlaka52322 жыл бұрын
On point, as always.
@amow_mee94882 жыл бұрын
Aus Pheto opila banong lenna❤️🥹nagana ko parents meeting ore that’s my mom
@dikeledimakhetha55732 жыл бұрын
Love u guyz much. U are incredible. 5years in marriage and 11 urs together with hubby. Yet I feel like…skolo sa di-relationship is only beginning now. Wish I got these b4 getting married guyz🙈yooo! Thank u sooooo much. We hunger for more
@fezilenkabinde90872 жыл бұрын
I'm so scared. Because I already have my insecurities