10 Signs Someone is Losing Interest in You

[@Psych2go]

Hey Psych2Go fam! Is someone on your mind right now? Does any of these signs describe them? Comment below!

[@christiandelgado1589]

Very timely.😞

[@kermity_lmao]

Hello

[@emysalkind1529]

Odd question, but what are the odds of having this narrator do a sleep talk down on Psych2Go? Is that too outside of the normal content? 😂 Her voice is honestly so soothing.

[@wariolandgoldpiramid]

Yes, there sadly is. Our friendship is fading away...

[@idontknowbutitsok9739]

Hey Psych2Go I don’t really know how to explain this but, I have a crush and we used to talk a lot and then his friend died :( so he was suffering quite a lot. We don’t talk as much more but when i try to avoid him(trying to make it less awkward) he questions me. Like today I was at school and he tried to come near me and talk to me about it but I kept moving away because I didn’t wanna make it obvious. We still talk but not as much and I think he is maybe confused why I try to avoid him but I’m also confused because his actions have changed almost as if he doesn’t care but then he like switches. He won’t care for a second but then I do one thing and he suddenly cares? Sorry if this doesn’t make sense- please help 😔

[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.” ― Ernest Hemingway

[@zg468]

Deep thoughts, deep

[@bhunnyca]

I hope I won't lose myself :(

[@add2console163]

Love yourself first. You are worthy

[@Emuotori490]

I lost my roblox bestie that i had for 2 years

[@add2console163]

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[@marouabenrahal4856]

As an overthinker i shouldn’t be watching this Edit : mom im a famous overthinker now

[@tanishkadhir2638]

Same

[@nbrainthoughts]

Same

[@p.s7665]

Same

[@hellofutureme3584]

Same

[@kamoryesantana5019]

exactly but yet here i am

[@charmainedeguzman1853]

The fact that i'm here means i'm already experiencing it. *sighs*

[@reesebrown5291]

Let them go, that’s my best advice

[@monamariin750]

Is it😭

[@jimsmith6547]

I know the feeling.

[@adriannemendoza7895]

same to me 2days ago we broke out . she became like that .

[@17anthony]

it’s okay:) you’ll find someone better okay

[@DevendraSingh-n9s6k]

That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *brian hacks online*

[@tarenjohnson5661]

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[@jobseekerm8675]

I really want to appreciate this guy Brian hacks online for giving me uninterrupted access to my partner's Locations. I always had a suspicion that she was seeing someone else. Good job

[@Laurus44]

There’s a spy app *Brian hacks online* would give to you allowing you see anyone’s phne without being detected, I used this on my GF and to my surprise she was actually seeing some else , I couldn’t believe my eyes lol but I’m a player so it’s squared

[@fritzjacobreyes2222]

My friend haven't talked that much.. there people always told me is move on or let go...

[@tonytran4582]

My cousin is losing interest in me :(😢

[@Boutscar]

1. They talk to you less 2. They start act differently around you 3. They don’t reach out anymore 4. They stop asking questions 5. They’re no longer responsive 6. They stop making an effort 7. They cancel and make excuses 8. They make other plans 9. They prioritise other people 10. They found someone else

[@greysonholtz]

Ryan Spicer actually I didn’t have time to watch the video and wanted to get through them quick so yeah...

[@nelmae6026]

@@ryanspicer5931 yeah i *used* to think about that too. Sad to say, some people only use the summary comments either to help, get likes, or want to be praised by making these comments on a video Psych2go created, skippable :/ (no big offense, i said "some" and "to help" these types of comments actually help me, so im also thankful for those but yeah theres something more than just looking at the part of a window. Just pointing out a bit of bigger picture at some cases)

[@greysonholtz]

Ryan Spicer but it’s a comment on a psych2go video lol, I’m pretty sure everyone knows it’s they’re video

[@hoshino91]

Thank you!!

[@mightypurplelicious3209]

nboutb thanks i didn’t wanna watch the whole video it takes too long lol

[@damianfemic3786]

these videos really do be coming out when you need them most😭😭

[@foreveruseless1292]

Yeah dude rip

[@Psych2go]

How many signs did you relate to?

[@ladyah71]

Ikr

[@darknox3621]

I agree with you 😢

[@archibby6476]

Ikr?!

[@simplyella5794]

“Being in a relationship is like giving them a gun and they point in and your heart and your trusting them not to pull the trigger.”

[@johnsonbella258]

Hello friend, I can connect you to the powerful man that helped me restore my relationship back to me after separation💔. He can also help you💯💯••

[@johnsonbella258]

Whatspp him••

[@junc2191]

What a beautiful way of expressing the potential hurt that can result from friendship

[@patootie3529]

@@junc2191 from friendship, or most probably, a romantic relationship

[@tompenney3435]

Only if you do not possess boundaries.

[@dustyy7740]

nothing hurts more than when you can feel someone you love losing interest in you :(

[@NasikaSakura]

What hurts more is losing and betraying yourself trying to win back someone who chooses to posses, but not value you any longer.

[@zeusachi-h4x]

yes : (

[@Omar_The_Sosa]

That hurts more than anything

[@imuien420]

i think the sad thing is not losing interests, it's about giving up easily when they lost interests, not only the person that lost interests, also other person. I just feel, if you get bored it's ok to break up, or keep some distance, because that is the natural flow of the intimate relationships, just think about your best friends, your families, no one is going to stick with you 24/7, they are likely to get interested in you for days, weeks, and then their interests are diverted into other things/people, and you won't hear from them for weeks, months, or even years. Losing interest is definitly not equal to losing love, logically speaking love and interest are two sepereate things. Someone can be interested in you but not love you, and someon can be loving you but not interested in you. Identifying what the other party really thinks about you is the key, not what they do. It is not ok to hate each other and cut off with each other just because you lost interest in someone or someone lost interest in you. because seriously, love is a life-long journey, you should give people the chance to wonder and stray in the path of loving, and that's not a bad thing, as long as both party have concents, and not betraying each other, such as ghosting, cheating, ect. and when you lost interest or someone lost interest in you, it's critical for both to understand each other or communicate properly with each other. It's time to keep some distance or just completly forget about that person, without any hatred. You can even alow yourself to miss them. But don't do stupid things, the worst thing you can do during this time is to keep bothering each other trying to win them back, or even worse begging ther other person's attention. This is the crucial capacity of embarking on the advanture of love. but at the end, if the other person stopped loving you, then it is about time to leave them as well. When you have more experience on intimate relationships, you can feel someone love you or not, and you can tell the difference between interest and love. Put it simple, love is about looking for long-term relationship, interest is for short-term relationship. People do things differently depending on what they want, they are suttle, and unique to each individual. But you can feel it when it comes.

[@Mahmoud-bl3hp]

Idk how to deal with it man it’s demolishing me. At least I finished my finals before all of it

[@gamingpurpose27]

The most painful part about this is that it just happens suddenly. Even though you feel like you did everything right. It's disgusting and sad at the same time.

[@novaz2669]

Yes I agree me and my current partner just started long distance and I really feel like she’s losing feeling I’m so scared tho idk what to do how do I bring it up because I need to know

[@tayloreverett7384]

The worst feeling is giving everything to a person. Your love, your life, your happiness, and they give it all back. You have so much fun but all of a sudden, you realize, they dont feel the same way anymore

[@drewsomecombat4877]

@@tayloreverett7384 This is what Im going through rn. Im not sure if i could live like this and Im just depressed and sad like I never was before...

[@Toastiel]

@@drewsomecombat4877 hey, I know it's gonna be hard but communicating your thoughts is always better than bottling and assuming. Tell them that you think the relationship is fading out, ask if they wanna work on it or move on. Having an answer from them is always better than nothing. I've known some people who just don't do well long distance because they're better at interacting in person instead of doing it through texting or calling. It's hard, it's painful, and I wish you all the love and courage. You got this!

[@SuccessfulMentality94]

@@drewsomecombat4877 yea it’s super hard to adjust to, but I would just recommend not interacting with that person for an extended period of time. That means, you do whatever you need to not constantly remind yourself of them...whether that’s finding another outlet to fill the void or just unfollowing them on social media. Whatever you do just make sure you’re taking healthy steps towards finding your peace

[@user-cl6hl7ht4w]

I've been convincing myself for the past days that he's just busy... and now it's clear. Literally crying rn

[@positiveheart7678]

@Aria Milk I can relate 😭💯

[@novaz2669]

Me and my partner just started long distance and I really feel like she’s losing feelings she seems so happy and she barely talks to me idk what to do how do I bring it up to her

[@positiveheart7678]

@@novaz2669 So um dear I won't tell you that what you should do coz I am not very sure about what you are going through but if I was at your place I think I would have talked to him 1 or 2 times but if still no response come from his side then I would move on it will be hard but don't forget you also have self respect, you can't just always be the one who falls down.... Love yourself and prioritise yourself first ❤️and just believe in God that things will fall on its place by their own ❤️

[@calicut_to_california]

I have been there done that. Don't lose hope . This too shall pass. Your soul mate is on their way to you. Wait.. He will come soon.

[@ashtonlamb1225]

Same. We were talking and now I’ve been on opened for almost 3 days

[@diogopereira1475]

This is the romantic cycle nowadays of people, find someone, get interested, hook up, get bored and uninterested, leave for another, repeat..

[@LegoSwordViedos]

@Hispanic American Or be an adult and put in hard work and don't be lazy at it and give up, and keep the interest going. you don't need to find anyone who is perfect. the most important quality in any person I meet is just one thing, they put in effort and work with me to keep it going. And all it takes is for both sides to breath on the embers of the relationship and soon the flames of passion roar again. Pathetic people give up when the first few cycles of passion and embers go up and down. That's just how love is, and always has been and always will be. you can either learn how our biology and nature work and work with it or people can just search and waste their life in vain chasing perfection that doesn't exist, while throwing away dozens of good and good enough options. And the real point is hardly anyone deserves perfection so people need to stop thinking they should be owed a great partner, if a person feels they are owed that from life and deserve it then they defiantly don't. what people ought to do is take what is good and polish it over their life with the other person and by the end, you'll share something near perfect. Good things are worked for they don't just fall easily into some ones lap. And way to many people don't realize how to work at a relationship.

[@aradikas8811]

And the serious one always gets hurt. Nobody knows what they want out of a relationship these days

[@kobragangbit]

That’s how it’s always been lol

[@idontknow8366]

True..

@@aradikas8811 I saw that as a tip to not fall in love with the other person to not risk getting hurt. The person i was talking too was even unavailable for much of the time and have many other sexual partners and it was at a long distance yet I put in the wishes, hopes, dreams and needs and let me suffer through another four weeks of what if and two weeks of restoration and now another two weeks of suffering over it ending again and not knowing what to do it anything with it.

[@cameronpavelic500]

For anyone experiencing number 5, DONT GET ANGRY! Too many times in my 20s did I take being ignored way too personally, and every time I lost my patience and sent a passive aggressive text to draw attention to me being ignored. DONT! If they’re starting to leave you on read, keep your dignity and move on or let them chase you. Otherwise, you’re only validating their loss of interest toward you and making yourself look a whole lot less desirable.

[@janeoliviajenkins5806]

Whenever I need help I always go straight to KZbin lol pick a random comment and ask for their opinion, today you are the lucky one lol. So I just started dating this boy, he has always been king of quite and keeps to himself. He’s genuinely a really sweet person and he’s fun to be around. But sometimes he just kinda likes sitting in silence, or he won’t keep conversations going. But he constantly makes plans to hang out, so idk if he likes me and he genuinely likes silence or if he’s bored of me. And then the second thing is that he said he had some sort of celebrity man crush sort of, he didn’t really specify. Do you think he might be part of the lgbtq community or do you think he just means like how every boy likes Ryan renolds. He talks about liking me and says that he likes me a lot but hasn’t made a move or anything so Idek. So in conclusion do you think there is a possibility that he is only dating me because he likes talking to me or do you think he actually likes me

[@unofficially_astryd]

was scrolling and saw there was no reply to this but i’m sure he enjoys your company. sometimes there isn’t much to talk about and that’s okay :) if he continues to make plans to hang out despite there being periods of silence then maybe he’s just comfortable in your presence

[@cameronpavelic500]

@@janeoliviajenkins5806 I didn’t see your comment till just now, I apologize! IMO lotta men will openly admit another man is good looking. I’m a heterosexual man and I’ll tell people that I’d bang Ewan McGregor from Star Wars, no homo. I really wouldn’t bang him if I was put in a situation where I had the opportunity, but my point is that straight men can have their attention drawn to good looking men the same as they do women; They call it “being attractive” for a reason. They just don’t say it openly to avoid confusing people about their sexuality, unless they are really comfortable about who they are. As for being quiet, as long as he is still initiating hangouts and conversations with you he probably just prefers your company over conversation, is still warming up to you, or both. In my experience, the only sure sign that someone is losing interest is when they constantly come up with excuses to not hangout, or they bail on a hangout and never reschedule. Hopefully my message wasn’t too late and everything good with you guys. Wherever his heart is or was, just know these things take time to get right, and if you fail that just means you’ve learned a new way to navigate a problem. These things come with experience and time, and A LOT of trial and error.

[@yourdad-zi4if]

Im really sorry they never texted you back you deserve better because your literally perfect!! You are amazing! And thats me! I have good patience skills on the outside but in the inside I am terrible with waiting so i say or do something stupid! But I never realized it made me look undesirable so thank you! You are so smart!! And you could never look undesirable your amazing!! Have an awesome day!!

[@wisdom-for-all]

Prefer not to say a relationship is over, say it is “complete”. Some relationships are not meant to last forever. Do not worry because it is over; Smile because it happened. Also, sometimes 2 people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together 🖖

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for sharing this beautiful insight with us.

[@Blounem]

That's a nice way to see things :) On my view, it is just an evolution of the relationship, neither bad nor good. Which is why it is important to enjoy every moment, because it sure ain't forever :3

[@add2console163]

Aw, real talk

[@mishm00p]

Last year, something happened and me and a friend who I’ve known since kindergarten stopped being friends. Now, we’ve become friends again and worked out everything, so that last statement really struck a chord with me. Thank you ♥︎

[@MikhaelAhava]

Cool.

[@ryanspicer5931]

I'm sorry but why do you guys keep thanking us, we should thank you. You have all helped me understand myself like nobody else Thank you to those who liked this and commented, this helps a lot.

[@uzealsmile-2898]

Straight up

[@0c34_n2]

yes

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for your comment! We're so glad this video helped you :) What other topics would you like us to discuss?

[@ryanspicer5931]

@@Psych2go maybe some basic and advanced anxiety as I have not been diagnosed but am pretty sure I have have it most of my life (around 7-9 years)

[@Psych2go]

@@ryanspicer5931 Thanks for your suggestion. We have a video on 10 Signs of Hidden Anxiety kzbin.info/www/bejne/raCtd6mvaq-jZ7s Hope this helps!!

[@CM-be3ze]

Whenever I feel like someone is detaching.. I mirror their behaviour.. and detach myself aswell.

[@xzabath1]

Does it work?

[@CM-be3ze]

Its a risk.. when you distance yourself to someone they could either miss you or forget about you.. 😅 for me.. as long as I am not trying so hard to keep a relationship.. if its so hard to keep😂.. if someone is not cooperating, then think if its not worth your time and effort.. in love should be two way.. 😀

[@anaperla8108]

Thank you I’m going to do this now

[@siddhartino]

everytime I did this, I proved nothing. simply because... the other persone had already lost every interest in me. so, acting like you don't care, it's just a way for making things easier to them: they see you stopped caring as well and have the perfect excuse to leave for good. but... truth is: while they REALLY don't care; ours is just a pretense and we still care. yet, is better to let others slip away from our lives in these cases... it's painful at the start, but it's a huge pleasure later on

[@Ash10000]

Me too... lol

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[@DecayedIIX]

Since nobody did this yet I’m gonna do it: 1: (0:46) They talk to you Less 2: (1:15) They act Differently around You 3: (1:46) They don’t reach out Anymore 4: (2:07) They stop Asking Questions 5: (2:39) They’re no longer Responsive 6: (3:14) They stop making an Effort 7: (4:02) They cancel and make excuses 8: (4:02) They make other plans 9: (4:30) They Prioritize other people 10: (4:51) They Found someone else I searched this up because I think I’m loosing my Friend.

[@nickydelrey2192]

After reading this, I feel like crying..

[@IceCreamMilkshake777]

yeah, same here - my friend and I were once so close but then he started acting so distant towards me and I feel like he's pushing me away and I tried to much to put an effort...

[@nickydelrey2192]

@@IceCreamMilkshake777 They'll taste their own medicine, I assure you x

[@IceCreamMilkshake777]

@@nickydelrey2192 how do you know? It seems like he doesn’t care about me anymore 😔😔😔

[@nickydelrey2192]

@@IceCreamMilkshake777 What I meant ^ was that once he receives what he did to you, he'll realise how it would actually feel. And he'd understand how horrible it feels to be... almost neglected. A bit like 'eye for an eye' ! But- Maybe you're too up n' beyond for him? Usually, it's the 'good' ones who end up being tossed away like garbage/rubbish. I'm sorry you feel that way, but I'm sure he'd come to realise how foolish he possibly would've been to 'distance' himself from you (or ignoring you?). And regret his actions once there's a bit o' compassion. But obviously this depends on the reasons why... he's behaving that way.

[@ASadPigeon]

I'd also like to note that most of these are also signs that someone is going through mental health struggles or struggles in their personal life, and it may not be anything personal against you.

[@add2console163]

100% TRUE, thats why do not give up on person. Maybe he need you the most. Keep communicate, do not easily give up on people

[@nightdreamer.]

Thank you for mentioning this! And sometimes it can also mean that the person is having too much on their plate at the moment (finals, endless doctor appointments etc.). Sometimes I feel like such an awful friend for disappearing from social media and turning off my phone (thus, disrupting all contact) for a couple of weeks, but I do that mostly during major mood swings and other bad things that can result in me lashing out on my friends. And it can be hard to explain to some people... So thank you so much for bringing this up, it's really important to take this into consideration sometimes~

[@nia_m_h_2334]

@@nightdreamer. Mood. 100% same.

[@nia_m_h_2334]

So true. I recently due to quarantine pulled back from social media from everything really and as my mental health plummeted I decided to fix that and I knew the only way to fix it was to pull away from everyone... It's working but I feel like I should have gone about it better... But then again telling other people about my problems is almost selfish when they have so many of their own. Ugh it's just an ongoing cycle. So making sure people are aware that others have problems too it can really save a friendship in the long run...

[@theocean._._._.]

Seriously though, so glad this comment thread exists

[@Slashy.]

Anyone here watching this because of major trust issues? Yeah, me too.

[@r8men687]

Mhm.

[@Deviousmonkey_]

Yeah- its scary ;-;

[@chrisngayleloynes]

Yeah- :P

[@ainemeli4677]

Yessir

[@snflwrfieldd]

yeah , it's very scary

[@aarush2507]

My gf was loosing interest. We were in LDR. Our relationship was getting boring. We didn't had stuff to talk about. So, I thought of playing games with her to make thing interesting again. Played a questions game for couples "Lovify". And, it turned out to be a really fun game. Who thought asking questions would be fun. Enjoyed some funny and some serious questions. Now, we are good. Hope, we get married soon 💞

[@cinnap1212]

i don't know and ain't sure if that's good or what mate but in my opinion if that person wanted to leave you just because "it was getting boring" then you should cut it up with her before a marriage ruins both of your lives

[@thebois32]

@@cinnap1212no relationship is perfect without any hiccups; you can’t just expect the other person to love you constantly and have everyday be like the first day they met. Both sides have to work to maintain the relationship-if they really love each. The relationship can’t just stay in the honeymoon phase forever. Also, I’ve never been in a relationship but the relationship getting boring seems like a normal problem

[@ferihaahmed9411]

​@@cinnap1212 A wise opinion

[@BobbyKennedy-ss5ts]

She's cheating, bruv

[@DeletedUser662]

I was in a relationship with my ex girlfriend for 5 years. I noticed all of these signs, and at the end, she got involved with someone else. I was always holding on, as I still cared. I was in a one sided relationship. It’s a really painful thing, seeing the person I loved and wanting to marry lose interest and find someone else while we were still together.

[@Addy_boy_ab]

I feel you I’m going through the same thing & it’s going to be 2 years in 3 months that we broke up :o

[@Kiekerz]

Same situation I was in 7 years ago. Wish this video had been around then. I was desperately trying to maintain my relationship while being left out of practically everything. He never had time for me, but managed to have time for others, especially his new GF that he cheated on me with for 1.5 years, unbeknownst to me, before finally leaving me. It's a very traumatizing experience. Especially when you find out about the being cheated on when you've reconnected 5 years later.

[@seulty]

this is what im going through right now. no matter how hard i try, i just cant bring myself to leave him.

[@JustxJordan]

OMG. I thought you were my ex for a second, but then you wrote that she found someone else(which I definitely didn’t) . From my point I can honestly say that I suffered from depression and anxiety, and my ex couldn’t deal with me not being as attentive. It’s hard, because I really tried, and although we co-ended it, it still felt like he just left me stranded in the middle of the ocean by myself. COVID just started, I couldn’t really escape, so I had to face my demons alone. The difference is that I admitted during the breakup that I’m not good enough for him because I couldn’t provide the attention he wanted. It’s a shame that your ex just held onto you for so long. Hope you’re in a better place today😊

[@Addy_boy_ab]

@@JustxJordan same here, we all have the similar stories but we work through it

[@armidarodriguez1081]

I knew he's losing interest, and now it's finally confirmed. it was the most hard to see someone important to u losing interest :(

[@fanofbillboardno.1singer698]

I have been through that but I live for her happiness now my ex is more happy with my best friend even more than me It’s ok because I just want her to be happy But I will not go into another relationship because I truly loved her from the bottom of my heart 💜

[@destinyroyo1130]

Do you want your ex back immediately, I know someone powerful who can help you get your ex back immediately okay

[@destinyroyo1130]

Text him on what sap

[@johncalip7087]

@@fanofbillboardno.1singer698 :

[@fanofbillboardno.1singer698]

@@johncalip7087 don’t feel sad for me I am happy for her

[@ingridferreira6085]

This is so true. My ex boyfriend acted different when he was losing interest, exactly the way that this video describes :( If you are going through this, don't let this person make you feel less important. Let them go before you lose yourself!

[@shinobi6968]

My girlfriend that I’m still dating rn is acting like that and it makes me depressed

[@casperino7466]

I cant my heart could never do this to someone

[@brinda3g]

Same with my past 3 relationships.☹

[@Jackgritty28]

You need to communicate,suddenly act differently,ask questions why their not interested,you need to make an effort,plan for the future,prioritise what importance means to you✔️💥❌💲

[@user-qh8hg8sz2z]

To anyone here experiencing this, it gets better. Just keep working on yourself and self love goes a long way sooner or later you'll find someone that will reciprocate your feelings

[@mgsh6788]

I have a friend who had some trouble making and keeping relationships with people. I gave her as much help as I could but I recommended this channel to her a few years back and she’s been better ever since.

[@add2console163]

This is nice,

[@asielmilian38]

That's good.

[@kaiyamada7635]

When you realize no one ever asks you questions about yourself

[@nityadillikar3374]

sad reality of me

[@nityadillikar3374]

When im in some kinna problem I don't want any help,But when some one's in some kinna problem I wanna help them And I wonder "does anyone feel like this for me?" And the answer is definetly no....

[@lindaeasley5606]

I've got 4 siblings and our mom just died recently yet none of them , who live in different states, has bothered to reach out and comfort me .Ive been having a hard time dealing with her loss while they act like everything is fine in group texting 😥

[@pugproductions4462]

@Apex Predator what does that even mean

[@pugproductions4462]

@Apex Predator is she not allowed to mourn her mother’s death? And not everyone is a Christian, so your beliefs doesn’t apply to everyone. She just said her mother died and is going through a tough time and you are complaining about something being “atheist”

[@alexblejdea7233]

Pov: You just got ur feelings crushed into tiny pieces

[@arreyaar]

nooooo...

[@yashu76-k2w]

Lol I just gotta know tat it's my best friend.. 😭

[@sanine_kun3290]

😭😭

[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“If you really want to do something, you'll find a way. If you don't, you'll find an excuse.” ― Jim Rohn So if they always find excuses not to spend time with you, then they might not be interested anymore!

[@add2console163]

Agree 😹

[@swatisaini6447]

So true!!!

[@joeyjointjebaiter1275]

Obviously

[@CJKpoprox]

so true. i think whether be it a crush or a normal friend, if they are interested, they will arrange another time to meet up even if they are unable to make it for the day you suggested. i guess that's how i managed to get over my crush, because although she said we could hang out some day, she turns me down whenever i suggest something and never gave any counter suggestions. we were close friends actually, i was rejected by her but we were still close, or so i thought. i've only just finally realised i was never a priority in her life. i guess i've finally managed to close a chapter in my life :)

[@rakshankumar1115]

Saddest part is after knowing they lost interest, still we are accepting the reality and letting them free without questioning anything.... We know how we feel, but Loneliness is far better than toxic relationship which kills you everyday. 🙂

[@luken7352]

U made me feel better and you’re right☹️

[@Loveblissxx]

@@luken7352 I hope you have an amazing night.

[@sundutesco6343]

💜💜💜💜💜

[@Liz-in8lu]

I am coming to that conclusion.

[@KhloeProduces]

I’m losing that feeling in my best friends for 6 years it’s been 4 years since we haven’t seen eachother and what they are saying now isn’t just as funny it’s a bit cringe now and now I’m just reacting to their messages I get bored now 😭 tell me how to stop this I don’t want to lose them they are my only true friends

[@lyricalamity5149]

The fact that I can relate to every single one of these is depressing.

[@jimsmith6547]

I'm feeling you on that.

[@fatcoccgirl]

k.

[@malibongwencwina2189]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭

[@aalizari]

Me too.

[@lyricalamity5149]

@enigma i agree and feel u man

[@RyGil91]

You know there’s a usual pattern with people who do this. When you confront them about how you feel or what’s going on, there’s usually a form of gaslighting that they do, making it seem like YOURE the one that fell too hard, when nine times out of ten, they’re usually the ones who initiate or lavish on you to the point where you get attached. It’s insane.

[@ericeric463]

Facts it’s weird!

[@almasterz]

So true! That happened to me! I took my distance and it was for the best!

[@ferihaahmed9411]

Relatable and painful.

[@staceymccord9557]

I think the key is to move slowly in relationships. The excitement of a new person can hide incompatibility. Keeping things light and friendly really helps I think.

[@areesakhan1937]

that was my intention at first and he moved quickly and we were happy for a year until he decided he lost interest

[@SquishyGrayMatter]

So true!

[@rophnaicadesruisseaux8950]

@@areesakhan1937 mine to they always do that I don’t get men

[@NaniNani-yg1yr]

Play safe

[@syl5047]

yeah so, we did this, but she still lost interest in me. i have no idea what went wrong, just one day, all of a sudden, she started replying more dry and less often, not just over text, but in irl too. she told me in the start she wanted to take it slow, i was like "okay!!!!! good thing, i do too, so no worries" and all of a sudden it just stopped. what did i do wrong? does anyone have advice?

[@AlexanderLopez-xk1hh]

When someone does this to you, then they aren’t worth your time. Forget them & move on so you prove your Value as a Human Being. Treat them how they treat you

[@user-zo5xg5hh5f]

Well said, too bad some people don't realize you were a real friend until they lose you

[@jaxbarnes6852]

it's not always that easy Alexander🙄

[@AlexanderLopez-xk1hh]

@@jaxbarnes6852 yes, I know but its the first step of many before becoming a stronger person. we all deserve to be respected & if someone doesn't appreciate you, they never cared about you. its a sad & ugly truth, but you must be strong & find others who actually care & appreciate you

[@indie5723]

If you treat someone like a celebrity, they will treat you like a fan. Amen brother

[@kramparsilverleaf]

@@AlexanderLopez-xk1hh it can also happen naturally. Doesnt mean they arent worth it. You can accept people grow apart and that doesnt mean they never cared. Things and situations change. Simply saying other people dont deserve you and that they never cared regardless of the situation is an extremely toxic way of moving on where you put others down to feel better yourself. You can also accept feelings and situations change as you are not entitled to someones time amd affection constantly. And it often has nothing to do with the person you are. People are allowed to choose for their own happiness. And of you accept that this happened it means there is no longer the connection you want. You can move on and find a match that suits you. Dont become a vindictive dick where you can only move on when the other party "is someone who doesnt deserve you" its not strength when you think like that. But weakness as you put every "fault" on the other party.

[@rozith1852]

Pisses me off that there's people are doing that to other's who don't deserve it.

[@kathychung3927]

same

[@xankeemadeit]

I can’t tell if this girl likes me or not because she will be flirty and playful and put thought into snap replies but I’ve been on delivered for 5 hours now what the fuck did I do. :(

[@Mazito123]

@@xankeemadeit mate my own girlfriend leaves me on delivered for 2 days

[@Mazito123]

@@xankeemadeit you deserve better trust me

[@dark_regent2151]

@@Mazito123 my count is worse

[@MarieB21]

The fact that I’m here and actually seeing all these signs just hurt so much and I don’t wish this upon anyone else. I hope I can heal one day and be happy again.

[@Ahrpigi]

It's critical to *TALK* to your partner about any of these, because any of them could be signs of general stress or bad mental health as much as they could be about losing interest in you.

[@diet.mountain.dew.]

what if they act like this and say they're in a bad mental state but you constantly see them online or playing video games despite them telling you they're always busy

[@c1oudnein9]

@@diet.mountain.dew. Yeah, she is always online but never even cares to text me ever

[@diet.mountain.dew.]

@@c1oudnein9 same :( he’s only busy for me but gives time to everyone else

[@c1oudnein9]

@@diet.mountain.dew. Yeah that's right and that hurts

[@c1oudnein9]

@@diet.mountain.dew. She is not my Girlfriend but my bestfriend

[@wendiwasden7088]

Just an fyi, this dont have to be a romantic relationship, could be a friendship

[@owurakubonney4682]

Exactly

[@itsgabbie1510]

Oh yeah thanks

[@hslhrd707]

Definitely.

[@wolfieno5471]

I just lost a friend I made. They don't really message me anymore

[@whatever-pn2mr]

@@wolfieno5471 sorry to hear that man. That must suck. Stay strong bro. Keep trying. Make new friends. Give your best. Good things will find you as long as you try

[@Hershey411]

And watch when you walk away because of all of this they magically become interested all over again 🤯

[@shiroo1318]

Well no.. Never happend to me I feel like a toy that you can just let go of it once your bored easily

[@celestiallass6526]

That can happen yes. However if you were the one who bothered for months being the one to reach out to them. And after so many excuses or ghosting you. Thus They only reply after threating to leave them. They never cared in the first place. You were just a Convience everything that been shared doesn't matter in the end. I had so many fights about them. I wasn't expecting any thing deep or serious out of them but damn. Nothing matters too some people.

[@Leotastick]

@@shiroo1318 I know how u feel. I feel so stepped on and the fact i have deppresssion makes the thoughts worse.

[@shiroo1318]

@@Leotastick stay strong bro im here for you :)

[@KingSavage15807]

Well sadly. 90% of the time that never happens

[@reyhanakar8746]

As a Retired combat Marine I want to tell you that as what you are doing is just as important as any warrior on the battlefield. You are waging warfare against cheater on the digital battlefield. You are defending and protecting the most vulnerable of our society against these predators and cheaters. Keep up the good work *Johnsonspy* .

[@alida6704]

Me: I wonder why they haven't texted me back lately... Psych2go: 10 signs someone is losing interest in you Me: Oh...

[@hellololxd741]

*cue depressing music*

[@ao2415]

Theres always better people out there. I used to be the one that always try to desperately continue relationship, when im older i realised if they dont even concern about you then its not worth it. True friend is the one that always remember you no matter how long it is you didnt speak to.

[@alida6704]

@@ao2415 You're so right...

[@tonywalker1954]

Alexa play Mr krabs sad violin 10 hour loop

[@tonywalker1954]

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[@JDiology]

Even though the signs r there. Dont feel all bad and sad. I get it, its human nature to feel down when we come to these situations . But know that at the end, the person will never change. Dont bust your ass for someone who wont change . Its just an incompatibility. Move on. Just move on ppl. No one is worth ur life. Ur life comes first before anyone. I tell myself that

[@canto_mkvi]

Not gonna lie, knowing the signs and relating to them is hard...

[@iamangela86]

I know..

[@ttboosted7634]

@@iamangela86 I’m with you on that...

[@strange_okapi892]

I didn't want to accept it that they moved on but now I have to accept it. Or else I would never moved on

[@JohanLaPara]

@@strange_okapi892 facts😔

[@curiousme7353]

8/10 Really good video but it might be missing some stuff 1. They talk to you less 0:45 2.They start act differently around you 1:14 3.They don’t reach anymore 1:45 4.They stop asking questions 2:08 5.Their no longer responsive 2:35 6.They stop making an effort 3:13 7.They cancel and make excuses 3:35 8.They make other plans 4:02 9.They prioritise other people 4:28 10.They found someone else 4:48 Outdo-5:32

[@slipup.]

thank you for this !!! ^^

[@flyaspaceship]

Thank you so much

[@ve3subliminals]

he always goes back to his ex

[@mimigomez5137]

i thought my boyfriend was losing interest in me, turns out i’m the one who lost it...

[@Psych2go]

Thanks for sharing! Which sign did you resonate with the most?

[@mimigomez5137]

Psych2Go i am the one that has stoped to ask about his day and more, i used to care but now i don’t

[@add2console163]

This is real. Thats why good communication is the best

[@Anastasiausov]

I FELT THISSSSS

[@ビーナス-p2s]

Sad and funny at the same time😭

[@dirgmario]

The saddest thing is watching this and then remembering my last relationship and seeing the exact moment when I realized I’d lost her... and that I still miss her...

[@DaysofKnight]

Same.. Just has it happen last month.. it hurts a lot, and I don't know how to function..

[@novaz2669]

Me and my partner just started long distance and I really feel like she’s losing interest she doesn’t text me as often and we haven’t ft in a little bit idk what to do how do I bring it up to her

[@maepangravinet9074]

@@novaz2669 same with me happend but with one of my closest friends because I moved distance relationship really does sometimes 😭

[@earleenaustin174]

Xoxo

[@josephwrather3505]

i just lost my girlfriend 2 days ago💔😥

[@JawnReal]

“I’m just afraid that the more that I’m known, The higher the chance that I’ll end up alone” -Egg-Topic

[@MikhaelAhava]

Intriguing.

[@handlemeifyoucan144]

Thought provoking

[@rozith1852]

Damn.

[@katv3607]

Don’t b afraid of being alone. I’m not. I’m looking forward to it. Plus, my pets will b coming with me - so not really alone!

[@dreib5129]

We should try to think differently, set the abundance mindset. If we end up alone we should try to be happy with what we have and be content with it. 🙂🙏💞

[@sealwithawkwardness3951]

Happened to me in my last relationship. She was hanging out with someone that had the same interests as her and was less interested in the relationship we had, however I kind of felt the same way. We didn't really have much in common, and we had a very different lifestyle. We broke it off. However, we stayed in touch and are still friends to this day. A couple years later, I found someone who was more in tuned with me. Had similar core values, interests, dreams and lifestyle. I think we both found what we are looking for in each other. Hope people here don't give up. Keep improving on yourself and don't stop looking for the right person for you.

[@Josh-qb9co]

They say that were clingy But truly, We're the ones that stayed

[@erniekwekk]

This.

[@cowl6867]

Oof

[@link.2487]

Oh. Oh wow

[@alejandra4466]

I related to 9/10 of these signs. I was in a 3 year relationship that ended a month ago. My ex went on a trip on June and 2 weeks before I saw him for the last time in July, he asked me when we would meet because he had to talk with me. I asked him what was that he wanted to talk about but he avoided the question, so I asked him if he wanted to break up and he answered yes. I was sad but we kept talking until we met. During those 2 weeks before we met, he changed completely; for him it was all over, but as for me, I still had hopes that if there was a problem we could find the solution together. The day we met he broke up with me without any consideration. He just said he didn't want a relationship anymore and that there wasn't an explanation. He just didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. Also, he talked about wanting to move to another country. He treated me like we didn't spend together 3 years and I felt like a disposable object because of the way he broke up with me. I couldn't believe his lack of empathy, and I can't understand it yet. Maybe he was sick of pretending to be in love with me, but I think he could have been honest from the very first moment he started to lose interest. Idk, I feel really hurt right now because he used to care about me, but at the end he acted so indifferent towards my feelings. Anyways, I better think he did a favor to me putting an end to us. I deserve to be loved and appreciated. We all do. If you read this and related to it, I send you a big hug. Let's remember that this too shall pass and that all the pains eventually die. Hugs.

[@alejandra4466]

@How Why he wasn't respectful at all... He was honest, yeah, maybe, I still don't know if he really just ended everything without a reason, but he behaved so cold and indifferent, like if I were a stranger. He barely explained why he wanted to break up and I think it was unfair bc for me it was an unexpected change, so I believe I deserved a better ending. He didn't even say sorry for not telling me before about his plans or feelings. I'm sorry if your ex acted worse, but don't tell me I'm lucky, cause it really hurted me and still hurts. It doesn't hurt like the first three months but it still hurts and it's almost 6 months since we haven't heard about each other.

[@spike6898]

I honestly Cant believe what I just read. I experienced almost exactly with slight differences, it was honestly scary reading this. Like even my own Ex was named Alejandra too. She wants to move to another country and live of the land and I tried my best to make it work but that's not what she wants. She wasn't really disrespectful about it but, It feel sudden and completely random for me. This just happed around the end of December and some of January I wish you the best and to know that you are getting better, I know I can too so lets do our best

[@sunshineee1547]

This is almost exactly how it happened to me last week and he said the same things. I still cant believe it cause i was ready to give my everything in this relationship of 4 years. I still had hope these past days but now he became so cold in my eyes and i keep remembering the flaws i overlooked. I had started to accept them and believed we would change and evolve together for the better. I thought we were going to be there for each other through thick and thin, for a long time.. hes my first relationship ever, as well..I keep thinking i wish i couldve done better but at the same time, just like you sometimes i get the thought that he did me a favor..I send you love and hugs.

[@alejandra4466]

@@spike6898 haha, yeah, I think it's bizarre you lived almost the same situation. You'll be fine. The first months are the most hard ones. Let yourself feel all the emotions: pain, anger, sadness, longing, etc. In my case it helped me to write about every thought and feeling until I got tired. Now I barely do it bc I don't think I have much to say. Maybe I'm starting to move on even though I still miss him sometimes. But it's true I'm so much better now that's been 6 months. I wish you all the best in your healing path. Hugs!

[@alejandra4466]

@@sunshineee1547 I'm sorry to heart that. I felt the same way :/ and my ex was my first bf too. It's really hard at the beginning but I'm sure we'll be fine. Actually, now that's been 6 months since the break up, I can totally say that I'm feeling better. I still get sad and cry and miss him sometimes, and I still remember him everyday but it's not longer that hard. The first months I used to dream of him every night and I barely eat well and he was all day in my mind. Now even though I still remember him everyday it's not all the time and it's not that painful to think of him.

[@im_just_vidu]

All of us here, knowing the truth and just wanted to confirm it. Yeah. They lost interest.

[@tillyturner1525]

🥺

[@ninaschneider7457]

In my case it is that I kinda lost interest and it reall hurts

[@biabaialardi]

stop hurting me 🥺

[@nealforreals2098]

@@biabaialardi the girl I have a crush on lost interest in me too... Guess it's time to let go

[@cherylthompson2731]

Thankfully I was wrong. He hasn't lost interest! He was just angry at me. Now we're cool 😌

[@SofaKing_Gee]

Just got out of a two year relationship literally yesterday. Moved out and moved back in with my father and having to start from zero again I was feeling really bummed and felt like taking substances to feel better but instead, I just chilled at home and came across these psych 2 go videos. These videos have been very helpful to help me understand why my relationship was not working out and why I was feeling the way I was feeling thank you to whoever posted these

[@Angelina-fg9he]

he tells me he loves me, misses me, but is always “busy” where it just looks like hes tryna avoid me . idk what to do anymore and the fact that most of these are relatable makes me overthink even more :/

[@sinsiasien]

Same here , he acts pretty much the same as the beginning of our relationship but something's off . His messages get shorter and he just acts ... how should I put it , hypocritical .

[@Angelina-fg9he]

@@sinsiasien I’m so sorry for you : ( hope things get better for you tho ! I recently broke up with mines and I saw he un private his main account and he’s being more active 😀 I’m just so confuse lol ,….

[@fae9457]

im going thru the exact same thing love :( he just doesnt seem like he likes me as much anymore its sad and i just miss him so much

[@diet.mountain.dew.]

@@fae9457 how's it going so far, I same boat

[@fae9457]

@@diet.mountain.dew. sorry to hear that :(( its going pretty much the same, he usually ignores me like when we are on ft hes just watching a show and i try to talk to him and like start a convo but he ignores me :/ he still says he loves me tho so idk

[@nixand_brennt]

I feel like my partner is doing this a lot... but when I confront him about it he insists that he isn't losing interest, just stressed. I never know whether to believe him.

[@nicolet572]

Nixand Breant This exact situation happened to me. In the end he left me, so I can’t tell you what to do or what he’s thinking but I know I wish I had saved my time and energy and left the relationship when I knew it was going downhill instead of holding on to his reassurances. Actions speak louder always

[@illenhair3763]

It's always stress. When stress has nothing to do with it.

[@liseegeskov8769]

It’s been nine months are you okay?

[@areesakhan1937]

mines did that too and then he broke up with me

[@MohammedHisham737]

Gonna brake! Or else ask him for a promise that he'll not leave you

[@jessicaveeno]

who already knew by experience what the signs would be before clicking on the video? traumatic shit

[@haroldbolling3187]

I lived every bit of every one they explained. And the worst part is. It happened so much. I started tellin females way in the beginning on day one. "If you feel at anytime that your feelings have changed.. That you've lost interest... That you made some decisions that don't involve me. Plz tell me as soon as you feel that way... I rather not guess the signs.." But they all seem to just gimme signs instead. I even tell them I won't get dramatic or disrespectful about it... But they still do that. Makes me think they rather leave off havin me feel some hurt.

me, so damn well

[@trip7454]

Harold Bolling: I can relate to that so much. I’d rather someone tell me immediately how they feel so I know what to do from then on rather than move in the wrong direction and have to turn around in the midst of moving.

[@haroldbolling3187]

@@trip7454 And I'm never get told till its too late and they drop me every sign in the book but when I ask they say... "I still like you..."

[@lindapuerta3773]

This hit hard like bad..

[@SeJo-im6cx]

We will be strong. There is always the right one for all of us.

[@Qibai]

Been through this and it took me 3 years to completely get over.. what I’ve learned so far... love yourself first before loving someone else..

[@shivamnow]

Probably when they have stopped sharing their deep intimate thoughts with you

[@Psych2go]

How many signs did you resonate with?

[@add2console163]

Can be,

[@_tiaa_5594]

Yes that’s a very good observation

[@shivamnow]

@@_tiaa_5594 Thank You

[@_tiaa_5594]

Shivam your welcome 😁

[@nihilvance3558]

When you realize that you're really friendless

[@puffcatco]

yup. feels like a semi hitting you at 100 miles per hour.

[@strange_okapi892]

Honestly I'd rather be alone then heartbroken

[@jcreatiga1980]

@@strange_okapi892 unfortunately, sometimes being alone is part of the heartbreak.

[@chorokapea.kapemai9282]

@@jcreatiga1980 So true :')

[@Ayeikitsweird]

@@strange_okapi892 I agree with you

[@saranghae1986]

Thank you for waking me up, i realized that im not important to him anymore😢

[@Nahids96]

DO YALL HAVE SECRET CAMERAS IN MY ROOM OR SOMETHING???😂 cuz how is every single video so relatable to my situation😭

[@nomanchis8837]

The secrete camera is your phone fam

[@delilah7565]

ikr they have great timing

[@mariannakitsopoulou1377]

Exactly the same thing's happening to me too!

[@cleft_3000]

Marianna K it’s called an algorithm :(

[@Nahids96]

@@nomanchis8837 well duuh

[@alicezani7789]

I’m crying while I watch this...... I can’t let him go because of l love him 💔💔💔😓

[@ballisticbunny4]

You got this..❤️💪

[@acemichael5510]

You’ll get over it

[@rhiannaa.s7029]

You'll be fine, time heals.

[@bingobongo566]

@@acemichael5510 true, but you don’t always know that when you’re younger and haven’t experienced it.

[@rangabanga7441]

I went through this with my best friend. It really hurts, but I did come out with some good life lessons. It was very hard to let them go but I am happy that I did. They will always have a special place in my heart though.

[@mOy-sr8lb]

It happened when they test your faith and you ignored it

[@juliamariasophia7041]

This video kind of opened my eyes. When you are committed and deeply in love with your partner you make excuses for all the signs that he is pulling away. I hope that at least some of you guys had the privilege of recognizing what’s going on before you’re in your most vulnerable place. Don’t let anybody loose interest in you and don’t give them time so that you suddenly become indifferent to them. Trust your gut and do something if you feel like something is off!

[@Trancymind]

I had a co worker girl in interest but then I found out she wasn't invested in me anymore due to her lack of helping me. I can't change her personality and so I don't talk to her anymore due to trust issues with her for not helping me. I even asked her, "Why didn't you help me?" Her answer was, "Nobody helps each other in our line." I knew right then, she is not my type to have her as a friend/girlfriend. I don't like having females in my life who are selfish while playing mind games with me like cat and mouse. What a waste of my time.

[@izzfizz9691]

i don't know anymore. he's doing some of these and he says its just temporary feelings but i don't think it is. i dont want to lose him but i dont want to be selfish. i just... wish he would talk to me more. like we used to.

[@Psych2go]

I'm sorry you're going through this. How many signs did you resonate with?

[@add2console163]

Aw. Just pray for your relationship. Beleive that everything will be fine. Just keep on communicating and accept the everything that may happen. You are worthy of loving,

[@swatisaini6447]

Better ask him what is exactly wrong? Only then u will be able to see how u will move forward

[@potato1674]

It is important that if you can you might talk to him and ask what is wrong, it's completely fine and I also think important that you tell him how you feel If he cares about you he'll notice that you're hirt in a way or another and acknowledge it I think But I might be wrong Just a thought All the best

[@priscillajimenez27]

Ditto

[@danielgolschneider8002]

As the one who lost interest after 2 years of dating my ex and then dragging it out over another year hoping I would reconnect I’ll tell you it’s best to confront the issue head on and end things if they don’t improve. the situation could’ve been handled much better if I’d been honest with myself and her.

[@fortisetliber6011]

what you did to her happend to me. believe me u own her an apology.

[@fromthecommentsection6346]

@@fortisetliber6011 chill, people can't controle how they feel and if they fall out of love. Clearly his intentions where good, he tried.

[@rocc6596]

My problem rn is that I moved too quick. And we just got into an official relationships. And I’m losing interest in her because now I realize that she’s young and immature. And I dont know if I want to wait until she matures up. I feel like she won’t learn anything from experience if she’s with me. Also it’s killing me rn. I want to like her again, receive that feeling I had before. Maybe it was infatuation idk. She’s a good girl but I’m just older than her.

[@XoXo475]

@@rocc6596 why did you go out with her in the first place then if she was too young ?

[@rocc6596]

@@XoXo475 Honestly I decided to go after her because she was attractive and I thought that she was a cool person. So the long term part didn't really get to me. I assumed most girls her age would be matured enough. I have and had friends who were around her age and were very mature. But the age thing really started reflecting on her and I just became very observant.

[@moonlightcayenne8722]

Honestly I feel you only exist in their eyes when they *NEED* you for something. Other than their own selfish interests, you're a ghost in front of them

[@nicolapicola4502]

That's what it feels like.

[@kotoamatsukami2582]

thats why u just gotta let go u deserve way better anyway, know ur worth.

[@Joumae_Saori]

Yeah i know....exactly too everytime i try to come in front of my friends and say "hi" its like im a ghost that no one can see or bother 😢

[@JXKGamers]

My friend has changed he's interests and I did too. I am his only friend and I feel bad for him. I always feel awkward talking to him and he's trying to keep up the relationship. I do too but can't. What should I do?

[@Joumae_Saori]

@@JXKGamers well im sorry to say this but....theres nothing you can do but to...let him go like dont bother or talk to him that way things will work out normally i had a friend too which i found out earlier he was a fake friend who talks behind my back now....he is just a big jerk who thinks im cringe always being so cocky and shows no remorse mercy or understands my pain....

[@surest.charpota]

I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnsonspy* on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the Great work mate well done respect....

[@DanielFord-uw8ho]

Timing of this video is so on point, I’ve been cheated on by my BF and i gave him 2nd chance but my emotions for him is slowly dying out (with all those fights we had as well) but now im mustering up all my courage to break up with him bec our personality as well is not a match. Thanks *Johnson*

[@sandrakem-uw7qn]

The top-notch expert! Truly motivating! Johnson granted me access to my girlfriend's texts. He paired my girlfriend's phone with mine to obtain crucial information

[@gregorybush1403]

i stop pursuing her knowing shes now a company of some else and I dont think she sees me the same way as before... I felt hurt when I found out they watch movies together and they love each others company while im dying, Thanks *Johnson* for giving me uninterrupted access to my partner's phone.

[@T3n50r]

Keep in mind these are signs! Communication is key to understanding where someone is coming from. Sometimes it IS as easy as depression/anxiety, a major event in their life (a loved one/family member passing away) or other things in their life. Sometimes space is needed and they'll come around. Put everything into context along with your gut feeling and you'll figure out which one it is and where you want to go from there.

[@jaybee4288]

@T3n50r It doesn’t really matter though. If they’re ghosting you and treating you badly, even if they have depression or anxiety it doesn’t make their treatment of you right or fair, it doesn’t make them like you more, it really doesn’t impact anything. If they have mental health issues and are trying to get away from you then the best thing you can do for them is let them go. Perhaps yes, they might realise they’ve made a mistake and come back, and if they’ve fixed their ways it’s okay to be empathetic and understanding. But no, you shouldn’t let people treat you bad just because they have issues.

[@T3n50r]

@@jaybee4288 100% agree with that. You shouldn't let anyone treat you badly for any reason. This is more in terms of people that are willing to work on themselves and already doing it. It should come from them, not you. Then you can move past whatever bs has been going on, it just also got to be atypical

[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else?” - Ru Paul

[@selfable-relyonyourself3504]

Make sense

[@ladennayoung2939]

Did he really love himself the way he was actually created? That advice is normally good. But he don't love his true self.

[@add2console163]

Agreeee

[@womynislandnow2206]

Yeah right, Ru Paul, not that the world has being saying that crap since millenia.

[@ozgurkuzu2202]

Best answer so leave him alone forever.

[@indridcold8433]

It is impossible for anybody to lose interest in me. Nobody knows me. Thus, they can not be interested in a stranger.. One must initially be interested in someone to lose that interest. I am in bliss. It is impossible for me to ever suffer any sort of social betrayal, abuse, or drama. It is wonderful to be socially invisible.

[@kozen1389]

They found someone else This hurts more than anything ☹️💔

[@jgheartz9133]

Same….

[@zumzumzum999]

That's the breaking point of it all, I believe it is more a consequence of all the points mentioned before. When they start losing interest in you, they will eventually find someone else to put that interest in. I would recommend not getting to that stage because the pain after being "changed" by someone else is just too much. Either talk with your partner and try to work things out or get out of there soon before you get more and more invested and you end up wasting more time, effort, and emotions.

[@edwinpaynefan]

Yeah. My best friend left me for put ex best friend.

[@Potato-jl7je]

This hit me like a bus jeez

[@rhiynhiramatsu5476]

😭

[@dacanation12]

That’s why I’m afraid to have a relationship

[@lucky.lucy44]

I wouldn’t say fear, I’m going through a dark time. My ex left me prob bcs he fell out of love. He led me on thoguh which kinda hurt. But just learn to guard your heart and be your own best friend. Guard your heart and know that there’s always going to be many relationships that are going to make you learn.

[@iksipsilon4489]

@@lucky.lucy44 Lucija, odakle si?

[@rural_girl555]

SAME HERE

[@captainshiro186]

"The most hurtful thing in life is when the people you made memories with become memories" if you know you know.

[@EmLaz]

I feel like a lot of people think I'm attractive but then once we establish our mutual interest they walk away...That hurts too much

[@joariamis]

I can relate and it has happened to me so much.

[@ericeric463]

Some people just want to see if they can get into my beautiful heart and I’m attractive on the outside… almost like a game for them …

[@EmLaz]

@@ericeric463 i get you i feel as though that's how it is for me too. Kinda sad tbh

[@kartiksaini981]

I still miss my friend , she used to talked to me a lot but suddenly just in 1 week her behaviour got changed 😭

[@lilmercy1580]

You and me both, "busy" is a poor exuse

[@positiveheart7678]

@Kartik Saini yup same, "Busy" is the excuse used in here 💯

[@lilmercy1580]

@@tjfSIM yeah, other commitments that don't involve you.

[@kiriko1077]

I feel u ...i totally feel u...

[@farawayfaerie8829]

I always put in effort in the relationship, while they NEVER did. I was the only one who wanted to still make it work...

[@kenvasquez3604]

This literally just happened to me 2 days ago. She was the love of my life and she still is. It hurts so bad

[@adetolaadijat523]

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[@adetolaadijat523]

He helped me restore back my ex three days ago he does a perfect work text him, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify 💯💯💯

[@rayfinkle8345]

Bro go to your local disco and pick up some trim.. also LACES OUT

[@5worthknowing]

If someone could feel the same for me as u do her.

[@Nicoleboyer-o7s]

Same it hurts

[@AlexFirebaugh]

If you are reading this right now and you searched for this. It’s time to let that person go. I’m about to text him (the reason I searched this video) and ask if he’s losing interest. I’ll update you

[@YunaKhii]

How did it go?

[@ghoste_girll]

Damn it's confirmed BUT just try to talk to new people ❤ and recognize your self worth ❤ just because someone lost interest does not mean ur not an amazing person, it's their loss after all

[@BloomInTune]

Man, almost teared up with that last one. I'm someone who believes "if you love someone, let them be themselves" [as opposed to "if you love them, set them free"], because of that sort of thing. Being free from the person is only half the battle if they don't have the means to live their proper happiness, no matter the social/interpersonal context.

[@gogglesearch3703]

And now I really need a video about “How to bring back a persons interest in you”

[@sofiahonk]

I'm more worried I did something. I am horrible at talking and expressing how I feel. I'm worried it will ruin what we have left. Like it will get too tense. Maybe i said or did something that ruined it. I can understand if he got bored and where he would get bored, but I'm not sure if he is. I love him like nobody else, and I never wanna lose him. I wish he knew that. Maybe I'm not expressing enough. I just don't know how i can save something if I don't know how it's falling.

[@sofiahonk]

Generally I just said that to get it out of my chest 🤠👍

[@sooyoo4566]

This lockdown has created more distance between me and my best friend and others.. I hate this!! 😭

[@kellytladi6299]

Same 🙁 it just isn’t the same anymore

[@yoongles8078]

Hey!!There's BTS!!

[@sunnyflower1979]

I finally let go of a relationship that had all 10 of these signs. I just felt stupid and had to apologize to myself for continuing to break my own heart.

[@shin-jo2801]

same...

[@sampletext6418]

I wish I had the luxury of knowing it was coming in my last relationship.. she was completely head over heels for me and woke up one day a completely different person. Absolutely crushed me. She was a complete stranger. I wouldn’t wish that experience on my worst enemy. I have many theories as to why but at the end of the day she’s gone and there’s better days ahead.

[@THEDEMON82995]

I relate too much to this. Hope there are better days ahead for all of us. Sometimes we cant see the light, but we know its there. We all have a level of emptiness sometimes. Best of luck to you!

[@moniqueuu8777]

@@tjfSIM Yes, having no closure is the worst. Wondering why, what, how is frustrating, depressing and time consuming.

[@kirstingerson7672]

You know, what i think about it?!? Suddenly he or she, was A Stranger, Right?? For me, it is an interesting Point between People, there have any Kind of Relation, ther ar Stranger all the Time, always, it is yust a Illusion a Feeling, People think there ar,, Together,,! I. Mean, it is really Strange, but it is true, ALL THE TIME, we are alone, take it, cause its true, and we are Stranger, coming close, its a Feeling, an a Feeling is always something changeable.. Think about next Time, and don't believe Feelings to much! God bless, all the best!

[@tjfSIM]

@@kirstingerson7672 That’s such an interesting way of looking at it. I kind of agree with you, although when you share a certain closeness and experiences with someone, you both retain the memories of those times, so you never truly go back to being complete strangers. I suppose you do stop knowing them intimately though, because you’re both evolving all the time as people.

[@kirstingerson7672]

@@tjfSIM right, what we hold are Memories, just like a Movie...

[@dominikwolski9577]

Thank you so much for the content - it makes a lot more sense to me what happened in my relationship. Hurts like blue blazes, but I’m still standing.

[@pugzz6931]

When you can’t get someone interested in you at all 😎👌

[@lovemaze4695]

Is it wrong for me to laugh?

[@Psych2go]

Does this describe someone you know?

[@FernandowoTM]

@@lovemaze4695 no

[@add2console163]

So be it, you have yourself dude

[@pugzz6931]

Reema Kim no

[@wolfieno5471]

Literally crying as I watch this.

[@nickydelrey2192]

So am I x Are you okay now?

[@lylahcam2399]

I’m sorry

[@k0iqi]

same.

[@joebxth]

I hope u moved on

[@add2console163]

Asking directly the person is the best way to know this. Then talk over it and make a way to keep the fire burning.

[@jasminephuan1738]

That's what I did and I thought I had done something wrong to incur the unresponsiveness so I wanted to talk things out. In the end, I was given the cold shoulder and that really hurt a lot.

[@add2console163]

Jasmine Phuan Then sadly jasmine, it may be clear though that there is something. Well, cheer up, youve done your part. You just love and thats the important thing. Youre alive you can love and give yourself to other people. God is preparing you for someone who will give back all the love youve given to others. Spread love to everyone Jasmine. Thank you

[@jasminephuan1738]

@@add2console163 Thank you for the encouragement. I've been trying to move on and it's getting better by the day. I've no hard feelings against my friend, just that I have a little regret that perhaps I could have done better as a friend. Maybe I had some flaws that I couldn't see in myself that made my friend want to leave me. I'm working on it to spread love to others and also improving myself.

[@add2console163]

Jasmine Phuan Good to know that Jasmine; you inspired us. At least we are all moving on and that is great! Thats what we need most this time to motivate on another.

[@jasminephuan1738]

@@add2console163 Thank you for your kind words. It made my day as it had been a rough couple of weeks for me. This video came at the right time... Let's continue to inspire and motivate one another.

[@reconshunter]

I fell into a depression without realizing it a few months ago. Due to it and not being able to openly communicate the symptoms to my partner, I unintentionally displayed all these signs to her. Evntually she left me, also without clearly communicating her fears and hurt to me. I feel so miserable having given her these signs although losing interest in her was the last thing I did. She's an overthinker as well. I tried to reach out to her again, but apparently she doesn't believe in second chances. I thought a lot about myself and how I feel and how I want to feel and your videos really helped me a great lot to deal with this situation somehow but I miss her so much. To all the other people out there facing hardship, please speak with your partners. They aren't at your side for no reason and avoid sending them wrong singals by trying to handle everything alone.

[@angelmushahf]

The narrators voice is so smooth and calm yet still makes me feel like she understands. Makes me want to cry

[@dd3781]

"A lack of responsivness is a very telling sign someone is losing interest" *Ah yes the floor here is made out of floor*

[@feelinglostdiaries]

I feel bad that I’m the one who is losing interest towards my close friend

[@aurixiaispreppy7454]

don't feel bad, it's perfectly normal to lose interest in close friends it's part of life

[@amethystspeaker6919]

Me too😤 I am really angry about myself for it 😪

[@LouieVassall]

I'm in the other side of the coin and really sucks when you keep being the same and really trying to get things back to normal is painful , it hurts a lot ....but if the other person don't want to be around there's nothing the other part can do , i ended up telling her that i need a couple of days to clear my head but the truth is I'm doing it because of her lack of interest lately...and i miss her but after 7 days without talking and expecting something from her I started to feel a little better.

[@pipcheerio4054]

Same!! I don’t know how to address it with her

[@dannyboygregory-mccormick9157]

Man I know what you mean, I but I feel like I keep holding on to the past. whenever I talk to my friend its like we have nothing in common anymore but we keep trying to find common ground. It's depressing and exhausting

[@jaizernadal]

I'm going through this right now. It hurts. Especially when the person is one of the biggest sources of happiness in my life. Now, I have to learn how to face life's challenges without her. It's hard not to feel betrayed and angry. I hope everyone here will get past whatever they're going through.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Oh well. I have pretty much lost interest in him. He came back in my life after 20 years. He apologized to me, but seem to still be a player. So I wasn't as receptive to him, or anyone else for that manner. I just don't have the energy for the way people maintain relationships. So I'm good either way.

[@Branbran1993]

This literally confirmed everything I have been asking myself about a friend or two. Thank you.

[@nbvn55]

Imagine knowing a friend for 10 years and they just do a 360 on you. N you feel like u dont know them anymore

[@Banana-cc5rx]

@@nbvn55 i think you meant 180 lol. 360 and they will be back with you

[@KapiWithCoffee]

Same here

[@moonchild_16]

Same here. I’m in the process of accepting to let go.

[@shrubberyshrubs8508]

I kinda had a feeling my friends stopped liking me by the way they acted it gave that feeling that said leave us alone and we dont like you this video just confirmed that they stopped liking me and I'm ok with that since I now know I didnt need them since they only liked me cause was really smart also thank you for these videos they help a lot and your voice is super calming which helps the fact that I haven't slept at all it's like its putting me to sleep which I'm ok with

[@add2console163]

Aw, please do not think that you have something bad in you. Maybe they do not see that you are worthy. When everyone doesnt see it, just think that maybe theyre not the right person for you! Do not identfy yourself with others opinion. Believe in yourself; you are loved

[@nia_m_h_2334]

Wait before you jump to that conclusion have you asked them are they OK because some people like myself and others in this comment section have reminded me that sometimes we pull away without explaining why we pull away it could be mental health issues it could be personal or family issues

[@shrubberyshrubs8508]

@@nia_m_h_2334 no they pulled away without telling me and ignored me I still dont know why they left

[@dilaragenc5792]

@@shrubberyshrubs8508 I myself am in such a situation where I feel that I loose interest in my best friend. She's a good friend but idk I have this feeling... I can't explain it. I only feel that I distanced myself mentally from her. It is not my intention to hurt her. Maybe your friends also lost interest in you and didn't had the courage to tell you. And what's the best way of ending things? Ignoring, right. It's not that you did something, maybe your character just doesn't fit with theirs anymore. We are teenagers. We grow and change, also feelings and way of thinking.

[@shrubberyshrubs8508]

@@dilaragenc5792 yeah maybe your right thank you for that

[@muysoingleang8476]

1. They talk to you less )YES 2. They start act differently around you )Nah I don't know 3. They don’t reach out anymore )YES 4. They stop asking questions )YES 5. They’re no longer responsive )Maybe... 6. They stop making an effort )YES 7. They cancel and make excuses )Nah. They just don't make one 8. They make other plans )like what? 9. They prioritize other people )YES 10. They found someone else )DUH Everyone except family members does that.

[@ip1136]

Psych2Go: How you can tell someone is losing interest in you. Me: Hahaha, I already know those by heart!!! *cries in secret*