10 Signs Someone is Losing Interest in You

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Psych2Go

Psych2Go

3 жыл бұрын

Are you worried if someone is losing interest in you? The beginning of a new relationship (whether it’s romantic or platonic) is always filled with happiness, hope, and excitement for what’s to come. But the sad truth is, feelings like this don’t always last. Sometimes you fall in love with someone only to fall out of love with them just as quickly. So let's take a look at some of the signs someone shows when they are losing interest in you. If you relate to this video and want to learn more about the tips on how to get over your crush, you can check out this video: • 10 Tips to Stop Liking...
#losinginterest #love #psych2go
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Intella
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Collins, A., & van Dulmen, M. (2006). Friendships and Romance in Emerging Adulthood: Assessing the Distinctiveness in Close Relationships. Journal of Social Psychology, 24 (12), 205-216.
Johnson, A. J., Wittenberg, E., Haigh, M., Wigley, S., Becker, J., Brown, K., & Craig, E. (2004). The Process of Relationship Development and Deterioration: Turning Points in Friendships That Have Terminated. Communication Quarterly, 52 (1), 54-67.
Sailor, J. L. (2013). A Phenomenological Study of Falling Out of Romantic Love. Qualitative Report, 18, 37.
Lopez-Cantero, P., & Archer, A. (2020). Lost without you: the Value of Falling out of Love. Ethical Theory and Moral Practice, 1-15.
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@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Psych2Go fam! Is someone on your mind right now? Does any of these signs describe them? Comment below!
@christiandelgado1589
@christiandelgado1589 3 жыл бұрын
Very timely.😞
@kermity_lmao
@kermity_lmao 3 жыл бұрын
Hello
@emysalkind1529
@emysalkind1529 3 жыл бұрын
Odd question, but what are the odds of having this narrator do a sleep talk down on Psych2Go? Is that too outside of the normal content? 😂 Her voice is honestly so soothing.
@wariolandgoldpiramid
@wariolandgoldpiramid 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, there sadly is. Our friendship is fading away...
@idontknowbutitsok9739
@idontknowbutitsok9739 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Psych2Go I don’t really know how to explain this but, I have a crush and we used to talk a lot and then his friend died :( so he was suffering quite a lot. We don’t talk as much more but when i try to avoid him(trying to make it less awkward) he questions me. Like today I was at school and he tried to come near me and talk to me about it but I kept moving away because I didn’t wanna make it obvious. We still talk but not as much and I think he is maybe confused why I try to avoid him but I’m also confused because his actions have changed almost as if he doesn’t care but then he like switches. He won’t care for a second but then I do one thing and he suddenly cares? Sorry if this doesn’t make sense- please help 😔
@marouabenrahal4856
@marouabenrahal4856 3 жыл бұрын
As an overthinker i shouldn’t be watching this Edit : mom im a famous overthinker now
@tanishkadhir2638
@tanishkadhir2638 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@nbrainthoughts
@nbrainthoughts 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@p.s7665
@p.s7665 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@hellofutureme3584
@hellofutureme3584 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@kamoryesantana5019
@kamoryesantana5019 3 жыл бұрын
exactly but yet here i am
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 жыл бұрын
“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.” ― Ernest Hemingway
@zg468
@zg468 3 жыл бұрын
Deep thoughts, deep
@bhunnyca
@bhunnyca 3 жыл бұрын
I hope I won't lose myself :(
@add2console163
@add2console163 3 жыл бұрын
Love yourself first. You are worthy
@Emuotori490
@Emuotori490 3 жыл бұрын
I lost my roblox bestie that i had for 2 years
@add2console163
@add2console163 3 жыл бұрын
꧁༺Lil Mini • Angels ༻꧂ everything happens for a reason,
@dustyy7740
@dustyy7740 11 ай бұрын
nothing hurts more than when you can feel someone you love losing interest in you :(
@NasikaSakura
@NasikaSakura 10 ай бұрын
What hurts more is losing and betraying yourself trying to win back someone who chooses to posses, but not value you any longer.
@user-pv2wz7dy2i
@user-pv2wz7dy2i 5 ай бұрын
yes : (
@Omar_The_Sosa
@Omar_The_Sosa 24 күн бұрын
That hurts more than anything
@imuien420
@imuien420 17 күн бұрын
i think the sad thing is not losing interests, it's about giving up easily when they lost interests, not only the person that lost interests, also other person. I just feel, if you get bored it's ok to break up, or keep some distance, because that is the natural flow of the intimate relationships, just think about your best friends, your families, no one is going to stick with you 24/7, they are likely to get interested in you for days, weeks, and then their interests are diverted into other things/people, and you won't hear from them for weeks, months, or even years. Losing interest is definitly not equal to losing love, logically speaking love and interest are two sepereate things. Someone can be interested in you but not love you, and someon can be loving you but not interested in you. Identifying what the other party really thinks about you is the key, not what they do. It is not ok to hate each other and cut off with each other just because you lost interest in someone or someone lost interest in you. because seriously, love is a life-long journey, you should give people the chance to wonder and stray in the path of loving, and that's not a bad thing, as long as both party have concents, and not betraying each other, such as ghosting, cheating, ect. and when you lost interest or someone lost interest in you, it's critical for both to understand each other or communicate properly with each other. It's time to keep some distance or just completly forget about that person, without any hatred. You can even alow yourself to miss them. But don't do stupid things, the worst thing you can do during this time is to keep bothering each other trying to win them back, or even worse begging ther other person's attention. This is the crucial capacity of embarking on the advanture of love. but at the end, if the other person stopped loving you, then it is about time to leave them as well. When you have more experience on intimate relationships, you can feel someone love you or not, and you can tell the difference between interest and love. Put it simple, love is about looking for long-term relationship, interest is for short-term relationship. People do things differently depending on what they want, they are suttle, and unique to each individual. But you can feel it when it comes.
@Mahmoud-bl3hp
@Mahmoud-bl3hp 10 күн бұрын
Idk how to deal with it man it’s demolishing me. At least I finished my finals before all of it
@TheOrigSoph
@TheOrigSoph Жыл бұрын
“If you start to feel like you’re the only one holding on, it might be time to let go”
@rhiynhiramatsu5476
@rhiynhiramatsu5476 Жыл бұрын
oh shit
@Finlei_Pawzz
@Finlei_Pawzz Жыл бұрын
Oh wow-
@talonflame_brawlstars.7208
@talonflame_brawlstars.7208 8 ай бұрын
That hit deep. Most of my friendships feel like I’m the only one holding on... I just hate it so much.
@fennywise9981
@fennywise9981 23 күн бұрын
😢
@charmainedeguzman1853
@charmainedeguzman1853 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that i'm here means i'm already experiencing it. *sighs*
@reesebrown5291
@reesebrown5291 3 жыл бұрын
Let them go, that’s my best advice
@monamariin750
@monamariin750 3 жыл бұрын
Is it😭
@jimsmith6547
@jimsmith6547 3 жыл бұрын
I know the feeling.
@adriannemendoza7895
@adriannemendoza7895 3 жыл бұрын
same to me 2days ago we broke out . she became like that .
@17anthony
@17anthony 3 жыл бұрын
it’s okay:) you’ll find someone better okay
@tessak2175
@tessak2175 3 жыл бұрын
There’s nothing worse than waking up one day and seeing the person you gave everything to just walk away. That shit hurts.
@drumdad54sdl47
@drumdad54sdl47 3 жыл бұрын
One of the truest comments on this whole thread. And you have no idea what happened, other than they reached inside & clicked a switch on their heart to "off".. the switch for their feelings for you.
@tessak2175
@tessak2175 3 жыл бұрын
@@drumdad54sdl47 Exactly! The extra stab to the chest is when you see them fall for someone else...
@rakulforum3241
@rakulforum3241 3 жыл бұрын
y ppl do this ,he don't want to marry me after having 5 years and 4 month relationship 💔. i have leave everything for him .he is my last hope and he doesn't even pick my call.
@drumdad54sdl47
@drumdad54sdl47 3 жыл бұрын
@@tessak2175 It's excruciating..no two ways about it. Soul-sucking hope-robbing, depths-of-hell black as night, literal heartache BAD.. but time won't stop. The world still turns. Seasons still come & go. Amazingly, as time passes, it eases. You can't see it right now, & I'll try to steer clear of the stupid cliches..but be patient; you'll learn..grow..be stronger. For now, rage, rant..let it out. It's cleansing & necessary as you heal. Just remember to keep your heart open, even if just a crack- for what's/who's coming your way.
@nickydelrey2192
@nickydelrey2192 3 жыл бұрын
Which makes you suddenly realise the sad, sadistic truth of society nowadays. You work so hard and sacrifice priorities for someone, yet they then start to toss you away like garbage...
@cameronpavelic500
@cameronpavelic500 Жыл бұрын
For anyone experiencing number 5, DONT GET ANGRY! Too many times in my 20s did I take being ignored way too personally, and every time I lost my patience and sent a passive aggressive text to draw attention to me being ignored. DONT! If they’re starting to leave you on read, keep your dignity and move on or let them chase you. Otherwise, you’re only validating their loss of interest toward you and making yourself look a whole lot less desirable.
@janeoliviajenkins5806
@janeoliviajenkins5806 Жыл бұрын
Whenever I need help I always go straight to KZbin lol pick a random comment and ask for their opinion, today you are the lucky one lol. So I just started dating this boy, he has always been king of quite and keeps to himself. He’s genuinely a really sweet person and he’s fun to be around. But sometimes he just kinda likes sitting in silence, or he won’t keep conversations going. But he constantly makes plans to hang out, so idk if he likes me and he genuinely likes silence or if he’s bored of me. And then the second thing is that he said he had some sort of celebrity man crush sort of, he didn’t really specify. Do you think he might be part of the lgbtq community or do you think he just means like how every boy likes Ryan renolds. He talks about liking me and says that he likes me a lot but hasn’t made a move or anything so Idek. So in conclusion do you think there is a possibility that he is only dating me because he likes talking to me or do you think he actually likes me
@cloudy5048
@cloudy5048 Жыл бұрын
was scrolling and saw there was no reply to this but i’m sure he enjoys your company. sometimes there isn’t much to talk about and that’s okay :) if he continues to make plans to hang out despite there being periods of silence then maybe he’s just comfortable in your presence
@cameronpavelic500
@cameronpavelic500 Жыл бұрын
@@janeoliviajenkins5806 I didn’t see your comment till just now, I apologize! IMO lotta men will openly admit another man is good looking. I’m a heterosexual man and I’ll tell people that I’d bang Ewan McGregor from Star Wars, no homo. I really wouldn’t bang him if I was put in a situation where I had the opportunity, but my point is that straight men can have their attention drawn to good looking men the same as they do women; They call it “being attractive” for a reason. They just don’t say it openly to avoid confusing people about their sexuality, unless they are really comfortable about who they are. As for being quiet, as long as he is still initiating hangouts and conversations with you he probably just prefers your company over conversation, is still warming up to you, or both. In my experience, the only sure sign that someone is losing interest is when they constantly come up with excuses to not hangout, or they bail on a hangout and never reschedule. Hopefully my message wasn’t too late and everything good with you guys. Wherever his heart is or was, just know these things take time to get right, and if you fail that just means you’ve learned a new way to navigate a problem. These things come with experience and time, and A LOT of trial and error.
@yourdad-zi4if
@yourdad-zi4if 9 ай бұрын
Im really sorry they never texted you back you deserve better because your literally perfect!! You are amazing! And thats me! I have good patience skills on the outside but in the inside I am terrible with waiting so i say or do something stupid! But I never realized it made me look undesirable so thank you! You are so smart!! And you could never look undesirable your amazing!! Have an awesome day!!
@aarush2507
@aarush2507 8 ай бұрын
My gf was loosing interest. We were in LDR. Our relationship was getting boring. We didn't had stuff to talk about. So, I thought of playing games with her to make thing interesting again. Played a questions game for couples "Lovify". And, it turned out to be a really fun game. Who thought asking questions would be fun. Enjoyed some funny and some serious questions. Now, we are good. Hope, we get married soon 💞
@sinaprimus8212
@sinaprimus8212 Ай бұрын
i don't know and ain't sure if that's good or what mate but in my opinion if that person wanted to leave you just because "it was getting boring" then you should cut it up with her before a marriage ruins both of your lives
@thebois32
@thebois32 24 күн бұрын
@@sinaprimus8212no relationship is perfect without any hiccups; you can’t just expect the other person to love you constantly and have everyday be like the first day they met. Both sides have to work to maintain the relationship-if they really love each. The relationship can’t just stay in the honeymoon phase forever. Also, I’ve never been in a relationship but the relationship getting boring seems like a normal problem
@statuerangecgsttvm6929
@statuerangecgsttvm6929 3 жыл бұрын
Her voice is just *so calm* I just *appreciate* the fact that they aren't playing background music. It gets *so annoying*
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this feedback with us.
@cyrilfiggis6627
@cyrilfiggis6627 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I agree. The narrators voice is so calming and easy to listen to. Makes the videos so much more enjoyable.
@nia_m_h_2334
@nia_m_h_2334 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I also agree... My mind is focused on the narrators voice. It's more calming. But all of them are good.
@goodthingsarecoming3349
@goodthingsarecoming3349 3 жыл бұрын
I like her voice the most, from the earlier video too, shes my favorite
@brandonhillgoth699
@brandonhillgoth699 3 жыл бұрын
IKR I can’t get enough
@Boutscar
@Boutscar 3 жыл бұрын
1. They talk to you less 2. They start act differently around you 3. They don’t reach out anymore 4. They stop asking questions 5. They’re no longer responsive 6. They stop making an effort 7. They cancel and make excuses 8. They make other plans 9. They prioritise other people 10. They found someone else
@greysonholtz
@greysonholtz 3 жыл бұрын
Ryan Spicer actually I didn’t have time to watch the video and wanted to get through them quick so yeah...
@nelmae6026
@nelmae6026 3 жыл бұрын
@@ryanspicer5931 yeah i *used* to think about that too. Sad to say, some people only use the summary comments either to help, get likes, or want to be praised by making these comments on a video Psych2go created, skippable :/ (no big offense, i said "some" and "to help" these types of comments actually help me, so im also thankful for those but yeah theres something more than just looking at the part of a window. Just pointing out a bit of bigger picture at some cases)
@greysonholtz
@greysonholtz 3 жыл бұрын
Ryan Spicer but it’s a comment on a psych2go video lol, I’m pretty sure everyone knows it’s they’re video
@hoshino91
@hoshino91 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@mightypurplelicious3209
@mightypurplelicious3209 3 жыл бұрын
nboutb thanks i didn’t wanna watch the whole video it takes too long lol
@RyGil91
@RyGil91 Жыл бұрын
You know there’s a usual pattern with people who do this. When you confront them about how you feel or what’s going on, there’s usually a form of gaslighting that they do, making it seem like YOURE the one that fell too hard, when nine times out of ten, they’re usually the ones who initiate or lavish on you to the point where you get attached. It’s insane.
@ericeric463
@ericeric463 11 ай бұрын
Facts it’s weird!
@alainmaitre9253
@alainmaitre9253 2 ай бұрын
So true! That happened to me! I took my distance and it was for the best!
@user-qh8hg8sz2z
@user-qh8hg8sz2z Жыл бұрын
To anyone here experiencing this, it gets better. Just keep working on yourself and self love goes a long way sooner or later you'll find someone that will reciprocate your feelings
@Slashy.
@Slashy. 3 жыл бұрын
Anyone here watching this because of major trust issues? Yeah, me too.
@r8men687
@r8men687 3 жыл бұрын
Mhm.
@Deviousmonkey_
@Deviousmonkey_ 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah- its scary ;-;
@chrisngayleloynes
@chrisngayleloynes 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah- :P
@ainemeli4677
@ainemeli4677 3 жыл бұрын
Yessir
@snflwrfieldd
@snflwrfieldd 3 жыл бұрын
yeah , it's very scary
@damianfemic3786
@damianfemic3786 3 жыл бұрын
these videos really do be coming out when you need them most😭😭
@foreveruseless1292
@foreveruseless1292 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah dude rip
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
How many signs did you relate to?
@ladyah71
@ladyah71 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@darknox3621
@darknox3621 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 😢
@archibby6476
@archibby6476 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr?!
@sealwithawkwardness3951
@sealwithawkwardness3951 Жыл бұрын
Happened to me in my last relationship. She was hanging out with someone that had the same interests as her and was less interested in the relationship we had, however I kind of felt the same way. We didn't really have much in common, and we had a very different lifestyle. We broke it off. However, we stayed in touch and are still friends to this day. A couple years later, I found someone who was more in tuned with me. Had similar core values, interests, dreams and lifestyle. I think we both found what we are looking for in each other. Hope people here don't give up. Keep improving on yourself and don't stop looking for the right person for you.
@EmLaz
@EmLaz Жыл бұрын
I feel like a lot of people think I'm attractive but then once we establish our mutual interest they walk away...That hurts too much
@joariamis
@joariamis Жыл бұрын
I can relate and it has happened to me so much.
@ericeric463
@ericeric463 11 ай бұрын
Some people just want to see if they can get into my beautiful heart and I’m attractive on the outside… almost like a game for them …
@EmLaz
@EmLaz 11 ай бұрын
@@ericeric463 i get you i feel as though that's how it is for me too. Kinda sad tbh
@simplyella5794
@simplyella5794 2 жыл бұрын
“Being in a relationship is like giving them a gun and they point in and your heart and your trusting them not to pull the trigger.”
@johnsonbella258
@johnsonbella258 2 жыл бұрын
Hello friend, I can connect you to the powerful man that helped me restore my relationship back to me after separation💔. He can also help you💯💯••
@johnsonbella258
@johnsonbella258 2 жыл бұрын
Whatspp him••
@junc2191
@junc2191 2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful way of expressing the potential hurt that can result from friendship
@patootie3529
@patootie3529 2 жыл бұрын
@@junc2191 from friendship, or most probably, a romantic relationship
@tompenney3435
@tompenney3435 2 жыл бұрын
Only if you do not possess boundaries.
@gamingpurpose27
@gamingpurpose27 3 жыл бұрын
The most painful part about this is that it just happens suddenly. Even though you feel like you did everything right. It's disgusting and sad at the same time.
@novaz2669
@novaz2669 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree me and my current partner just started long distance and I really feel like she’s losing feeling I’m so scared tho idk what to do how do I bring it up because I need to know
@tayloreverett7384
@tayloreverett7384 2 жыл бұрын
The worst feeling is giving everything to a person. Your love, your life, your happiness, and they give it all back. You have so much fun but all of a sudden, you realize, they dont feel the same way anymore
@drewsomecombat4877
@drewsomecombat4877 2 жыл бұрын
@@tayloreverett7384 This is what Im going through rn. Im not sure if i could live like this and Im just depressed and sad like I never was before...
@Toastiel
@Toastiel 2 жыл бұрын
@@drewsomecombat4877 hey, I know it's gonna be hard but communicating your thoughts is always better than bottling and assuming. Tell them that you think the relationship is fading out, ask if they wanna work on it or move on. Having an answer from them is always better than nothing. I've known some people who just don't do well long distance because they're better at interacting in person instead of doing it through texting or calling. It's hard, it's painful, and I wish you all the love and courage. You got this!
@SuccessfulMentality94
@SuccessfulMentality94 2 жыл бұрын
@@drewsomecombat4877 yea it’s super hard to adjust to, but I would just recommend not interacting with that person for an extended period of time. That means, you do whatever you need to not constantly remind yourself of them...whether that’s finding another outlet to fill the void or just unfollowing them on social media. Whatever you do just make sure you’re taking healthy steps towards finding your peace
@juliamariasophia7041
@juliamariasophia7041 Жыл бұрын
This video kind of opened my eyes. When you are committed and deeply in love with your partner you make excuses for all the signs that he is pulling away. I hope that at least some of you guys had the privilege of recognizing what’s going on before you’re in your most vulnerable place. Don’t let anybody loose interest in you and don’t give them time so that you suddenly become indifferent to them. Trust your gut and do something if you feel like something is off!
@reyhanakar8746
@reyhanakar8746 11 ай бұрын
As a Retired combat Marine I want to tell you that as what you are doing is just as important as any warrior on the battlefield. You are waging warfare against cheater on the digital battlefield. You are defending and protecting the most vulnerable of our society against these predators and cheaters. Keep up the good work *Johnsonspy* .
@diogopereira1475
@diogopereira1475 3 жыл бұрын
This is the romantic cycle nowadays of people, find someone, get interested, hook up, get bored and uninterested, leave for another, repeat..
@LegoSwordViedos
@LegoSwordViedos 3 жыл бұрын
@Hispanic American Or be an adult and put in hard work and don't be lazy at it and give up, and keep the interest going. you don't need to find anyone who is perfect. the most important quality in any person I meet is just one thing, they put in effort and work with me to keep it going. And all it takes is for both sides to breath on the embers of the relationship and soon the flames of passion roar again. Pathetic people give up when the first few cycles of passion and embers go up and down. That's just how love is, and always has been and always will be. you can either learn how our biology and nature work and work with it or people can just search and waste their life in vain chasing perfection that doesn't exist, while throwing away dozens of good and good enough options. And the real point is hardly anyone deserves perfection so people need to stop thinking they should be owed a great partner, if a person feels they are owed that from life and deserve it then they defiantly don't. what people ought to do is take what is good and polish it over their life with the other person and by the end, you'll share something near perfect. Good things are worked for they don't just fall easily into some ones lap. And way to many people don't realize how to work at a relationship.
@aradikas8811
@aradikas8811 3 жыл бұрын
And the serious one always gets hurt. Nobody knows what they want out of a relationship these days
@kobragangbit
@kobragangbit 3 жыл бұрын
That’s how it’s always been lol
@idontknow8366
@idontknow8366 3 жыл бұрын
True..
3 жыл бұрын
@@aradikas8811 I saw that as a tip to not fall in love with the other person to not risk getting hurt. The person i was talking too was even unavailable for much of the time and have many other sexual partners and it was at a long distance yet I put in the wishes, hopes, dreams and needs and let me suffer through another four weeks of what if and two weeks of restoration and now another two weeks of suffering over it ending again and not knowing what to do it anything with it.
@alexblejdea7233
@alexblejdea7233 2 жыл бұрын
Pov: You just got ur feelings crushed into tiny pieces
@arreyaar
@arreyaar 2 жыл бұрын
nooooo...
@yashwanthk2351
@yashwanthk2351 2 жыл бұрын
Lol I just gotta know tat it's my best friend.. 😭
@sanine_kun3290
@sanine_kun3290 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭
@thejoker7710
@thejoker7710 Жыл бұрын
This was painful to watch because I went through everything stated with someone who was significant to me but it is very helpful and most appreciated. Thank you
@dominikwolski9577
@dominikwolski9577 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the content - it makes a lot more sense to me what happened in my relationship. Hurts like blue blazes, but I’m still standing.
@kaiyamada7635
@kaiyamada7635 3 жыл бұрын
When you realize no one ever asks you questions about yourself
@nityadillikar3374
@nityadillikar3374 3 жыл бұрын
sad reality of me
@nityadillikar3374
@nityadillikar3374 3 жыл бұрын
When im in some kinna problem I don't want any help,But when some one's in some kinna problem I wanna help them And I wonder "does anyone feel like this for me?" And the answer is definetly no....
@lindaeasley5606
@lindaeasley5606 3 жыл бұрын
I've got 4 siblings and our mom just died recently yet none of them , who live in different states, has bothered to reach out and comfort me .Ive been having a hard time dealing with her loss while they act like everything is fine in group texting 😥
@pugproductions4462
@pugproductions4462 3 жыл бұрын
@Apex Predator what does that even mean
@pugproductions4462
@pugproductions4462 3 жыл бұрын
@Apex Predator is she not allowed to mourn her mother’s death? And not everyone is a Christian, so your beliefs doesn’t apply to everyone. She just said her mother died and is going through a tough time and you are complaining about something being “atheist”
@user-cl6hl7ht4w
@user-cl6hl7ht4w 2 жыл бұрын
I've been convincing myself for the past days that he's just busy... and now it's clear. Literally crying rn
@positiveheart7678
@positiveheart7678 2 жыл бұрын
@Aria Milk I can relate 😭💯
@novaz2669
@novaz2669 2 жыл бұрын
Me and my partner just started long distance and I really feel like she’s losing feelings she seems so happy and she barely talks to me idk what to do how do I bring it up to her
@positiveheart7678
@positiveheart7678 2 жыл бұрын
@@novaz2669 So um dear I won't tell you that what you should do coz I am not very sure about what you are going through but if I was at your place I think I would have talked to him 1 or 2 times but if still no response come from his side then I would move on it will be hard but don't forget you also have self respect, you can't just always be the one who falls down.... Love yourself and prioritise yourself first ❤️and just believe in God that things will fall on its place by their own ❤️
@swetha4844
@swetha4844 2 жыл бұрын
I have been there done that. Don't lose hope . This too shall pass. Your soul mate is on their way to you. Wait.. He will come soon.
@ashtonlamb1225
@ashtonlamb1225 2 жыл бұрын
Same. We were talking and now I’ve been on opened for almost 3 days
@SofaKing_Gee
@SofaKing_Gee Жыл бұрын
Just got out of a two year relationship literally yesterday. Moved out and moved back in with my father and having to start from zero again I was feeling really bummed and felt like taking substances to feel better but instead, I just chilled at home and came across these psych 2 go videos. These videos have been very helpful to help me understand why my relationship was not working out and why I was feeling the way I was feeling thank you to whoever posted these
@arif_5661
@arif_5661 11 ай бұрын
You consistently bring your all and I truly appreciate that *JohnsonSpy* . Thank you for making the corporate life so smooth. Proud to have you work for me. Great work as always.This is the beginning of many more good things to come. May you get everything, that you could demand. Best wishes in all you do and congrat to me as well, job well done!
@wisdom-for-all
@wisdom-for-all 3 жыл бұрын
Prefer not to say a relationship is over, say it is “complete”. Some relationships are not meant to last forever. Do not worry because it is over; Smile because it happened. Also, sometimes 2 people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together 🖖
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this beautiful insight with us.
@Blounem
@Blounem 3 жыл бұрын
That's a nice way to see things :) On my view, it is just an evolution of the relationship, neither bad nor good. Which is why it is important to enjoy every moment, because it sure ain't forever :3
@add2console163
@add2console163 3 жыл бұрын
Aw, real talk
@mishm00p
@mishm00p 3 жыл бұрын
Last year, something happened and me and a friend who I’ve known since kindergarten stopped being friends. Now, we’ve become friends again and worked out everything, so that last statement really struck a chord with me. Thank you ♥︎
@MikhaelAhava
@MikhaelAhava 3 жыл бұрын
Cool.
@CM-be3ze
@CM-be3ze 3 жыл бұрын
Whenever I feel like someone is detaching.. I mirror their behaviour.. and detach myself aswell.
@xzabath1
@xzabath1 2 жыл бұрын
Does it work?
@CM-be3ze
@CM-be3ze 2 жыл бұрын
Its a risk.. when you distance yourself to someone they could either miss you or forget about you.. 😅 for me.. as long as I am not trying so hard to keep a relationship.. if its so hard to keep😂.. if someone is not cooperating, then think if its not worth your time and effort.. in love should be two way.. 😀
@anaperla8108
@anaperla8108 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you I’m going to do this now
@siddhartino
@siddhartino 2 жыл бұрын
everytime I did this, I proved nothing. simply because... the other persone had already lost every interest in me. so, acting like you don't care, it's just a way for making things easier to them: they see you stopped caring as well and have the perfect excuse to leave for good. but... truth is: while they REALLY don't care; ours is just a pretense and we still care. yet, is better to let others slip away from our lives in these cases... it's painful at the start, but it's a huge pleasure later on
@Ash10000
@Ash10000 2 жыл бұрын
Me too... lol
@nicoleharris1130
@nicoleharris1130 8 ай бұрын
This is the best video on the internet. It is also sweet and soothing for people who will watch and realize their truth. Well done! 🎉
@ayesha_rabies173
@ayesha_rabies173 Жыл бұрын
The fact that I can currently relate to 8/10 of these far out this sucks. Being in love with someone and being in love with your memories of them are two different things, make sure that those lines don’t blur because I promise you it’ll get you into a world of hurt and overthinking
@user-bq7vw4vm1d
@user-bq7vw4vm1d 8 ай бұрын
This is where I am
@ryanspicer5931
@ryanspicer5931 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but why do you guys keep thanking us, we should thank you. You have all helped me understand myself like nobody else Thank you to those who liked this and commented, this helps a lot.
@uzealsmile-2898
@uzealsmile-2898 3 жыл бұрын
Straight up
@0c34_n2
@0c34_n2 3 жыл бұрын
yes
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment! We're so glad this video helped you :) What other topics would you like us to discuss?
@ryanspicer5931
@ryanspicer5931 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go maybe some basic and advanced anxiety as I have not been diagnosed but am pretty sure I have have it most of my life (around 7-9 years)
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
@@ryanspicer5931 Thanks for your suggestion. We have a video on 10 Signs of Hidden Anxiety kzbin.info/www/bejne/raCtd6mvaq-jZ7s Hope this helps!!
@ASadPigeon
@ASadPigeon 3 жыл бұрын
I'd also like to note that most of these are also signs that someone is going through mental health struggles or struggles in their personal life, and it may not be anything personal against you.
@add2console163
@add2console163 3 жыл бұрын
100% TRUE, thats why do not give up on person. Maybe he need you the most. Keep communicate, do not easily give up on people
@nightdreamer.
@nightdreamer. 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for mentioning this! And sometimes it can also mean that the person is having too much on their plate at the moment (finals, endless doctor appointments etc.). Sometimes I feel like such an awful friend for disappearing from social media and turning off my phone (thus, disrupting all contact) for a couple of weeks, but I do that mostly during major mood swings and other bad things that can result in me lashing out on my friends. And it can be hard to explain to some people... So thank you so much for bringing this up, it's really important to take this into consideration sometimes~
@nia_m_h_2334
@nia_m_h_2334 3 жыл бұрын
@@nightdreamer. Mood. 100% same.
@nia_m_h_2334
@nia_m_h_2334 3 жыл бұрын
So true. I recently due to quarantine pulled back from social media from everything really and as my mental health plummeted I decided to fix that and I knew the only way to fix it was to pull away from everyone... It's working but I feel like I should have gone about it better... But then again telling other people about my problems is almost selfish when they have so many of their own. Ugh it's just an ongoing cycle. So making sure people are aware that others have problems too it can really save a friendship in the long run...
@theocean._._._.
@theocean._._._. 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously though, so glad this comment thread exists
@XoXo475
@XoXo475 2 жыл бұрын
One thing to remember is , if you’re in a relationship where the other girl/ boy doesn’t do most of the reaching out , texting etc and it’s mostly YOU doing all the chasing , how into you ARE they really ? Do they love attention ? Does it make them feel special when it’s you who always texts first? Try leaving it a day . My lady will often text me if she hasn’t heard a peep from me all day, and yes I’m ALWAYS texting her first 🤬
@evagresyasinurat4545
@evagresyasinurat4545 Жыл бұрын
is it work? like if we didn't text them like a day, are they gonna reaching us if they cared?
@jaysmanpowertittymilky2178
@jaysmanpowertittymilky2178 Жыл бұрын
And that day turns into months lol
@Darksky600
@Darksky600 Ай бұрын
Are you still together?
@yusufmeteerk8238
@yusufmeteerk8238 11 ай бұрын
This man really hit the ground running and hasn't stopped yet. He gives us more understanding of him without interviews and negative antics he just shows us who he is through the Recovery. True living legend. We salute you. *Brian hacks Online* . The execution, creativity, and goodness that came from it were inspiring on a number of levels. Cheers Alex & looking forward to seeing what you do next!
@Nahids96
@Nahids96 3 жыл бұрын
DO YALL HAVE SECRET CAMERAS IN MY ROOM OR SOMETHING???😂 cuz how is every single video so relatable to my situation😭
@nomanchis8837
@nomanchis8837 3 жыл бұрын
The secrete camera is your phone fam
@delilah7565
@delilah7565 3 жыл бұрын
ikr they have great timing
@mariannakitsopoulou1377
@mariannakitsopoulou1377 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly the same thing's happening to me too!
@CLEFT3000
@CLEFT3000 3 жыл бұрын
Marianna K it’s called an algorithm :(
@Nahids96
@Nahids96 3 жыл бұрын
@@nomanchis8837 well duuh
@rozith1852
@rozith1852 3 жыл бұрын
Pisses me off that there's people are doing that to other's who don't deserve it.
@kathychung3927
@kathychung3927 3 жыл бұрын
same
@byxankee
@byxankee 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t tell if this girl likes me or not because she will be flirty and playful and put thought into snap replies but I’ve been on delivered for 5 hours now what the fuck did I do. :(
@VoyageVentures123
@VoyageVentures123 3 жыл бұрын
@@byxankee mate my own girlfriend leaves me on delivered for 2 days
@VoyageVentures123
@VoyageVentures123 3 жыл бұрын
@@byxankee you deserve better trust me
@dark_regent2151
@dark_regent2151 3 жыл бұрын
@@VoyageVentures123 my count is worse
@Manticore2002
@Manticore2002 Жыл бұрын
For sure, coming off of a relationship recently, the last one hits the hardest. And sadly it is the one that I found myself wrapped up in. But the best part about it is knowing now without wasting more time, and instead using it to build yourself for the next one!
@aakhyasingh6443
@aakhyasingh6443 2 жыл бұрын
You deserve to be loved and appreciated 💯
@alida6704
@alida6704 3 жыл бұрын
Me: I wonder why they haven't texted me back lately... Psych2go: 10 signs someone is losing interest in you Me: Oh...
@hellololxd741
@hellololxd741 3 жыл бұрын
*cue depressing music*
@ao2415
@ao2415 3 жыл бұрын
Theres always better people out there. I used to be the one that always try to desperately continue relationship, when im older i realised if they dont even concern about you then its not worth it. True friend is the one that always remember you no matter how long it is you didnt speak to.
@alida6704
@alida6704 3 жыл бұрын
@@ao2415 You're so right...
@tonywalker1954
@tonywalker1954 3 жыл бұрын
Alexa play Mr krabs sad violin 10 hour loop
@tonywalker1954
@tonywalker1954 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJLWi62bo9qMrqs
@songbird2306
@songbird2306 3 жыл бұрын
Not gonna lie, knowing the signs and relating to them is hard...
@iamangela86
@iamangela86 3 жыл бұрын
I know..
@ttboosted7634
@ttboosted7634 3 жыл бұрын
@@iamangela86 I’m with you on that...
@strange_okapi892
@strange_okapi892 3 жыл бұрын
I didn't want to accept it that they moved on but now I have to accept it. Or else I would never moved on
@johancanela06
@johancanela06 3 жыл бұрын
@@strange_okapi892 facts😔
@reconshunter
@reconshunter Жыл бұрын
I fell into a depression without realizing it a few months ago. Due to it and not being able to openly communicate the symptoms to my partner, I unintentionally displayed all these signs to her. Evntually she left me, also without clearly communicating her fears and hurt to me. I feel so miserable having given her these signs although losing interest in her was the last thing I did. She's an overthinker as well. I tried to reach out to her again, but apparently she doesn't believe in second chances. I thought a lot about myself and how I feel and how I want to feel and your videos really helped me a great lot to deal with this situation somehow but I miss her so much. To all the other people out there facing hardship, please speak with your partners. They aren't at your side for no reason and avoid sending them wrong singals by trying to handle everything alone.
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 жыл бұрын
“If you really want to do something, you'll find a way. If you don't, you'll find an excuse.” ― Jim Rohn So if they always find excuses not to spend time with you, then they might not be interested anymore!
@add2console163
@add2console163 3 жыл бұрын
Agree 😹
@swatisaini6447
@swatisaini6447 3 жыл бұрын
So true!!!
@joeyjointjebaiter1275
@joeyjointjebaiter1275 3 жыл бұрын
Obviously
@CJKpoprox
@CJKpoprox 3 жыл бұрын
so true. i think whether be it a crush or a normal friend, if they are interested, they will arrange another time to meet up even if they are unable to make it for the day you suggested. i guess that's how i managed to get over my crush, because although she said we could hang out some day, she turns me down whenever i suggest something and never gave any counter suggestions. we were close friends actually, i was rejected by her but we were still close, or so i thought. i've only just finally realised i was never a priority in her life. i guess i've finally managed to close a chapter in my life :)
@wendiwasden7088
@wendiwasden7088 3 жыл бұрын
Just an fyi, this dont have to be a romantic relationship, could be a friendship
@owurakubonney4682
@owurakubonney4682 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@itsgabbie1510
@itsgabbie1510 3 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah thanks
@hslhrd707
@hslhrd707 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely.
@wolfieno5471
@wolfieno5471 3 жыл бұрын
I just lost a friend I made. They don't really message me anymore
@whatever-pn2mr
@whatever-pn2mr 3 жыл бұрын
@@wolfieno5471 sorry to hear that man. That must suck. Stay strong bro. Keep trying. Make new friends. Give your best. Good things will find you as long as you try
@danoperiano6435
@danoperiano6435 11 ай бұрын
Very accurate , very informative ❤
@hasibdeniz
@hasibdeniz 11 ай бұрын
*Johnsonspy* , you're one of my favorite people on this planet.. (And I don't even know you personally). The way in which you present your work, the content and the access is just awesome. Thank you!! This project is unbelievably amazing and thanks for presenting my the access with so much positivity!! All the best from Germany....!!!!!!
@lyricalamity5149
@lyricalamity5149 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that I can relate to every single one of these is depressing.
@jimsmith6547
@jimsmith6547 3 жыл бұрын
I'm feeling you on that.
@fatcoccgirl
@fatcoccgirl 3 жыл бұрын
k.
@malibongwencwina2189
@malibongwencwina2189 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭
@aalizari
@aalizari 2 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@enigma2555
@enigma2555 2 жыл бұрын
I’m laughing because I’m so fucked, it’s so over, she was the one, but hey what can we do other than laugh the pain away and move on 😎
@shivamnow
@shivamnow 3 жыл бұрын
Probably when they have stopped sharing their deep intimate thoughts with you
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
How many signs did you resonate with?
@add2console163
@add2console163 3 жыл бұрын
Can be,
@_tiaa_5594
@_tiaa_5594 3 жыл бұрын
Yes that’s a very good observation
@shivamnow
@shivamnow 3 жыл бұрын
@@_tiaa_5594 Thank You
@_tiaa_5594
@_tiaa_5594 3 жыл бұрын
Shivam your welcome 😁
@1contra
@1contra Жыл бұрын
This video made me cry. Everything she said in the video has came to pass already and I fear that there is no more hope for me😔
@decente4725
@decente4725 Ай бұрын
*"if I'm not worth your time, or just a substitute for you to talk to because your favorite person is not around, Then don't be surprised why I'm trying to detach myself from you."*
@mimigomez5137
@mimigomez5137 3 жыл бұрын
i thought my boyfriend was losing interest in me, turns out i’m the one who lost it...
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! Which sign did you resonate with the most?
@mimigomez5137
@mimigomez5137 3 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go i am the one that has stoped to ask about his day and more, i used to care but now i don’t
@add2console163
@add2console163 3 жыл бұрын
This is real. Thats why good communication is the best
@Anastasiausov
@Anastasiausov 3 жыл бұрын
I FELT THISSSSS
@user-uk9dm1vy6k
@user-uk9dm1vy6k 3 жыл бұрын
Sad and funny at the same time😭
@im_just_vidu
@im_just_vidu 3 жыл бұрын
All of us here, knowing the truth and just wanted to confirm it. Yeah. They lost interest.
@billyburner2160
@billyburner2160 3 жыл бұрын
🥺
@ninaschneider7457
@ninaschneider7457 3 жыл бұрын
In my case it is that I kinda lost interest and it reall hurts
@biabaialardi
@biabaialardi 3 жыл бұрын
stop hurting me 🥺
@nealforreals2098
@nealforreals2098 3 жыл бұрын
@@biabaialardi the girl I have a crush on lost interest in me too... Guess it's time to let go
@cherylthompson2731
@cherylthompson2731 3 жыл бұрын
Thankfully I was wrong. He hasn't lost interest! He was just angry at me. Now we're cool 😌
@curiousme7353
@curiousme7353 Жыл бұрын
8/10 Really good video but it might be missing some stuff 1. They talk to you less 0:45 2.They start act differently around you 1:14 3.They don’t reach anymore 1:45 4.They stop asking questions 2:08 5.Their no longer responsive 2:35 6.They stop making an effort 3:13 7.They cancel and make excuses 3:35 8.They make other plans 4:02 9.They prioritise other people 4:28 10.They found someone else 4:48 Outdo-5:32
@slipup.
@slipup. Жыл бұрын
thank you for this !!! ^^
@flyaspaceship
@flyaspaceship Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@ve3subliminals
@ve3subliminals Жыл бұрын
he always goes back to his ex
@marcob5549
@marcob5549 Жыл бұрын
can relate. Tanks for your helpful content :)
@armidarodriguez1081
@armidarodriguez1081 3 жыл бұрын
I knew he's losing interest, and now it's finally confirmed. it was the most hard to see someone important to u losing interest :(
@fanofbillboardno.1singer698
@fanofbillboardno.1singer698 3 жыл бұрын
I have been through that but I live for her happiness now my ex is more happy with my best friend even more than me It’s ok because I just want her to be happy But I will not go into another relationship because I truly loved her from the bottom of my heart 💜
@destinyroyo1130
@destinyroyo1130 3 жыл бұрын
Do you want your ex back immediately, I know someone powerful who can help you get your ex back immediately okay
@destinyroyo1130
@destinyroyo1130 3 жыл бұрын
Text him on what sap
@johncalip7087
@johncalip7087 3 жыл бұрын
@@fanofbillboardno.1singer698 :
@fanofbillboardno.1singer698
@fanofbillboardno.1singer698 3 жыл бұрын
@@johncalip7087 don’t feel sad for me I am happy for her
@AlexanderLopez-xk1hh
@AlexanderLopez-xk1hh 3 жыл бұрын
When someone does this to you, then they aren’t worth your time. Forget them & move on so you prove your Value as a Human Being. Treat them how they treat you
@user-zo5xg5hh5f
@user-zo5xg5hh5f 3 жыл бұрын
Well said, too bad some people don't realize you were a real friend until they lose you
@jaxbarnes6852
@jaxbarnes6852 3 жыл бұрын
it's not always that easy Alexander🙄
@AlexanderLopez-xk1hh
@AlexanderLopez-xk1hh 3 жыл бұрын
@@jaxbarnes6852 yes, I know but its the first step of many before becoming a stronger person. we all deserve to be respected & if someone doesn't appreciate you, they never cared about you. its a sad & ugly truth, but you must be strong & find others who actually care & appreciate you
@indie5723
@indie5723 3 жыл бұрын
If you treat someone like a celebrity, they will treat you like a fan. Amen brother
@kramparsilverleaf
@kramparsilverleaf 3 жыл бұрын
@@AlexanderLopez-xk1hh it can also happen naturally. Doesnt mean they arent worth it. You can accept people grow apart and that doesnt mean they never cared. Things and situations change. Simply saying other people dont deserve you and that they never cared regardless of the situation is an extremely toxic way of moving on where you put others down to feel better yourself. You can also accept feelings and situations change as you are not entitled to someones time amd affection constantly. And it often has nothing to do with the person you are. People are allowed to choose for their own happiness. And of you accept that this happened it means there is no longer the connection you want. You can move on and find a match that suits you. Dont become a vindictive dick where you can only move on when the other party "is someone who doesnt deserve you" its not strength when you think like that. But weakness as you put every "fault" on the other party.
@darkmystry5325
@darkmystry5325 Жыл бұрын
Came here for hope but you made everything clear
@PrithvirajO7
@PrithvirajO7 Жыл бұрын
All the points matched 😄.... Great 🙂
@nihilvance3558
@nihilvance3558 3 жыл бұрын
When you realize that you're really friendless
@puffcatco
@puffcatco 3 жыл бұрын
yup. feels like a semi hitting you at 100 miles per hour.
@strange_okapi892
@strange_okapi892 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly I'd rather be alone then heartbroken
@jcreatiga1980
@jcreatiga1980 3 жыл бұрын
@@strange_okapi892 unfortunately, sometimes being alone is part of the heartbreak.
@chorokapea.kapemai9282
@chorokapea.kapemai9282 3 жыл бұрын
@@jcreatiga1980 So true :')
@hesh8714
@hesh8714 3 жыл бұрын
@@strange_okapi892 I agree with you
@TitsMcGee1212
@TitsMcGee1212 2 жыл бұрын
When you’re the only one holding on it’s time to let go. I FEEL THAT!
@guillecanales11
@guillecanales11 2 жыл бұрын
Yeap. I feel like I’ve given so much of me but not much in return. It’s sad and depressing when you don’t get as much love back as you put into.
@rhiynhiramatsu5476
@rhiynhiramatsu5476 Жыл бұрын
maybe it is
@twinglestar
@twinglestar Жыл бұрын
This videos do helps a lot I really love those tips👌 thanks psyco2go
@Taylor88Productions
@Taylor88Productions Жыл бұрын
That narrator sounds amazing.... love that voice... So surreal and calming. 😍
@JawnReal
@JawnReal 3 жыл бұрын
“I’m just afraid that the more that I’m known, The higher the chance that I’ll end up alone” -Egg-Topic
@MikhaelAhava
@MikhaelAhava 3 жыл бұрын
Intriguing.
@handlemeifyoucan144
@handlemeifyoucan144 3 жыл бұрын
Thought provoking
@rozith1852
@rozith1852 3 жыл бұрын
Damn.
@katv3607
@katv3607 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t b afraid of being alone. I’m not. I’m looking forward to it. Plus, my pets will b coming with me - so not really alone!
@dreib5129
@dreib5129 3 жыл бұрын
We should try to think differently, set the abundance mindset. If we end up alone we should try to be happy with what we have and be content with it. 🙂🙏💞
@DeletedUser662
@DeletedUser662 3 жыл бұрын
I was in a relationship with my ex girlfriend for 5 years. I noticed all of these signs, and at the end, she got involved with someone else. I was always holding on, as I still cared. I was in a one sided relationship. It’s a really painful thing, seeing the person I loved and wanting to marry lose interest and find someone else while we were still together.
@Addy_boy_ab
@Addy_boy_ab 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you I’m going through the same thing & it’s going to be 2 years in 3 months that we broke up :o
@Kiekerz
@Kiekerz 3 жыл бұрын
Same situation I was in 7 years ago. Wish this video had been around then. I was desperately trying to maintain my relationship while being left out of practically everything. He never had time for me, but managed to have time for others, especially his new GF that he cheated on me with for 1.5 years, unbeknownst to me, before finally leaving me. It's a very traumatizing experience. Especially when you find out about the being cheated on when you've reconnected 5 years later.
@seulty
@seulty 3 жыл бұрын
this is what im going through right now. no matter how hard i try, i just cant bring myself to leave him.
@JustxJordan
@JustxJordan 3 жыл бұрын
OMG. I thought you were my ex for a second, but then you wrote that she found someone else(which I definitely didn’t) . From my point I can honestly say that I suffered from depression and anxiety, and my ex couldn’t deal with me not being as attentive. It’s hard, because I really tried, and although we co-ended it, it still felt like he just left me stranded in the middle of the ocean by myself. COVID just started, I couldn’t really escape, so I had to face my demons alone. The difference is that I admitted during the breakup that I’m not good enough for him because I couldn’t provide the attention he wanted. It’s a shame that your ex just held onto you for so long. Hope you’re in a better place today😊
@Addy_boy_ab
@Addy_boy_ab 3 жыл бұрын
@@JustxJordan same here, we all have the similar stories but we work through it
@dericbailey8239
@dericbailey8239 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, this helped me a lot!
@deborahwateorea408
@deborahwateorea408 Жыл бұрын
I can feel this😢😢. Thank you
@jessicaveeno
@jessicaveeno 3 жыл бұрын
who already knew by experience what the signs would be before clicking on the video? traumatic shit
@haroldbolling3187
@haroldbolling3187 3 жыл бұрын
I lived every bit of every one they explained. And the worst part is. It happened so much. I started tellin females way in the beginning on day one. "If you feel at anytime that your feelings have changed.. That you've lost interest... That you made some decisions that don't involve me. Plz tell me as soon as you feel that way... I rather not guess the signs.." But they all seem to just gimme signs instead. I even tell them I won't get dramatic or disrespectful about it... But they still do that. Makes me think they rather leave off havin me feel some hurt.
3 жыл бұрын
me, so damn well
@trip7454
@trip7454 3 жыл бұрын
Harold Bolling: I can relate to that so much. I’d rather someone tell me immediately how they feel so I know what to do from then on rather than move in the wrong direction and have to turn around in the midst of moving.
@haroldbolling3187
@haroldbolling3187 3 жыл бұрын
@@trip7454 And I'm never get told till its too late and they drop me every sign in the book but when I ask they say... "I still like you..."
@lindapuerta3773
@lindapuerta3773 3 жыл бұрын
This hit hard like bad..
@rakshankumar1115
@rakshankumar1115 2 жыл бұрын
Saddest part is after knowing they lost interest, still we are accepting the reality and letting them free without questioning anything.... We know how we feel, but Loneliness is far better than toxic relationship which kills you everyday. 🙂
@luken7352
@luken7352 2 жыл бұрын
U made me feel better and you’re right☹️
@Loveblissxx
@Loveblissxx 2 жыл бұрын
@@luken7352 I hope you have an amazing night.
@sundutesco6343
@sundutesco6343 Жыл бұрын
💜💜💜💜💜
@Liz-in8lu
@Liz-in8lu Жыл бұрын
I am coming to that conclusion.
@KhloeProduces
@KhloeProduces 11 ай бұрын
I’m losing that feeling in my best friends for 6 years it’s been 4 years since we haven’t seen eachother and what they are saying now isn’t just as funny it’s a bit cringe now and now I’m just reacting to their messages I get bored now 😭 tell me how to stop this I don’t want to lose them they are my only true friends
@adiroots
@adiroots Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I feel the writing has been on the wall for me with a few friendships but the people- pleaser/chaser in me keeps putting out all this effort. But if I am honest, I am usually the one reaching out, their answers are short and abrupt, and they won't follow up with stuff I might have mentioned from a previous conversation or ask me questions. These friendships I have had for many years so part of me keeps trying. But I am clearly doing myself a disserve, communication and connection is not one-sided. It hurts though. Also, the fact that I keep looking for videos or articles like this is perhaps confirmation of what I already know, they are not interested, and the friendship is no longer open, free, and trusting, which means it's not a friendship.
@baileyc.3847
@baileyc.3847 Жыл бұрын
He told me he’s been busy lately. I’ve been on vacation and texted him whenever I could just to get left on opened and saw they viewed my TikTok profile and I didn’t post anything for a while so I gave myself some hope. Now it’s clear, thanks
@Hershey411
@Hershey411 3 жыл бұрын
And watch when you walk away because of all of this they magically become interested all over again 🤯
@shiroo1318
@shiroo1318 3 жыл бұрын
Well no.. Never happend to me I feel like a toy that you can just let go of it once your bored easily
@celestiallass6526
@celestiallass6526 3 жыл бұрын
That can happen yes. However if you were the one who bothered for months being the one to reach out to them. And after so many excuses or ghosting you. Thus They only reply after threating to leave them. They never cared in the first place. You were just a Convience everything that been shared doesn't matter in the end. I had so many fights about them. I wasn't expecting any thing deep or serious out of them but damn. Nothing matters too some people.
@Leotastick
@Leotastick 3 жыл бұрын
@@shiroo1318 I know how u feel. I feel so stepped on and the fact i have deppresssion makes the thoughts worse.
@shiroo1318
@shiroo1318 3 жыл бұрын
@@Leotastick stay strong bro im here for you :)
@generalsavage9797
@generalsavage9797 3 жыл бұрын
Well sadly. 90% of the time that never happens
@Ahrpigi
@Ahrpigi 2 жыл бұрын
It's critical to *TALK* to your partner about any of these, because any of them could be signs of general stress or bad mental health as much as they could be about losing interest in you.
@diet.mountain.dew.
@diet.mountain.dew. 2 жыл бұрын
what if they act like this and say they're in a bad mental state but you constantly see them online or playing video games despite them telling you they're always busy
@A1ex12
@A1ex12 2 жыл бұрын
@@diet.mountain.dew. Yeah, she is always online but never even cares to text me ever
@diet.mountain.dew.
@diet.mountain.dew. 2 жыл бұрын
@@A1ex12 same :( he’s only busy for me but gives time to everyone else
@A1ex12
@A1ex12 2 жыл бұрын
@@diet.mountain.dew. Yeah that's right and that hurts
@A1ex12
@A1ex12 2 жыл бұрын
@@diet.mountain.dew. She is not my Girlfriend but my bestfriend
@elevenpoisons2484
@elevenpoisons2484 Жыл бұрын
Most of these are not relatable so im relieved. Doesn't mean we dont have problems but i can still notice his efforts to be there when im in need
@luckyguliver
@luckyguliver 4 ай бұрын
Spot on! Seeing most of these signs I flagged it up but was told bluntly that everything is just fine and nothing has changed. Two months after I was out of the door... really pissed off not about the break up decision she made but about the dishonesty which proceeded it.
@mgsh6788
@mgsh6788 3 жыл бұрын
I have a friend who had some trouble making and keeping relationships with people. I gave her as much help as I could but I recommended this channel to her a few years back and she’s been better ever since.
@add2console163
@add2console163 3 жыл бұрын
This is nice,
@asielmilian38
@asielmilian38 3 жыл бұрын
That's good.
@ingridferreira6085
@ingridferreira6085 3 жыл бұрын
This is so true. My ex boyfriend acted different when he was losing interest, exactly the way that this video describes :( If you are going through this, don't let this person make you feel less important. Let them go before you lose yourself!
@shinobi6968
@shinobi6968 3 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend that I’m still dating rn is acting like that and it makes me depressed
@casperino7466
@casperino7466 2 жыл бұрын
I cant my heart could never do this to someone
@brinda3g
@brinda3g 2 жыл бұрын
Same with my past 3 relationships.☹
@Jackgritty28
@Jackgritty28 2 жыл бұрын
You need to communicate,suddenly act differently,ask questions why their not interested,you need to make an effort,plan for the future,prioritise what importance means to you✔️💥❌💲
@rameshkesaven
@rameshkesaven Жыл бұрын
Great Video Ma'am 🙏My journey has ended after 4 years of long relationship.
@Zoey-TV
@Zoey-TV 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who finds it very hard to find anyone to go on a date with and had just been canceled and also is in second puberty... Which makes things even more emotional.. this pretty much describes how my last dating experience went with someone who I was very into.
@Josh-qb9co
@Josh-qb9co 3 жыл бұрын
They say that were clingy But truly, We're the ones that stayed
@erniekwekk
@erniekwekk 3 жыл бұрын
This.
@cowl6867
@cowl6867 3 жыл бұрын
Oof
@link.2487
@link.2487 3 жыл бұрын
Oh. Oh wow
@staceymccord9557
@staceymccord9557 3 жыл бұрын
I think the key is to move slowly in relationships. The excitement of a new person can hide incompatibility. Keeping things light and friendly really helps I think.
@areesakhan1937
@areesakhan1937 3 жыл бұрын
that was my intention at first and he moved quickly and we were happy for a year until he decided he lost interest
@Indite_Biden
@Indite_Biden 2 жыл бұрын
So true!
@rophnaicadesruisseaux8950
@rophnaicadesruisseaux8950 2 жыл бұрын
@@areesakhan1937 mine to they always do that I don’t get men
@NaniNani-yg1yr
@NaniNani-yg1yr 2 жыл бұрын
Play safe
@syl5047
@syl5047 2 жыл бұрын
yeah so, we did this, but she still lost interest in me. i have no idea what went wrong, just one day, all of a sudden, she started replying more dry and less often, not just over text, but in irl too. she told me in the start she wanted to take it slow, i was like "okay!!!!! good thing, i do too, so no worries" and all of a sudden it just stopped. what did i do wrong? does anyone have advice?
@docchocobo
@docchocobo Жыл бұрын
This video has helped me to come to terms with a few things that I must live with for a short time. Already making plans to start over.
@bebengjournal
@bebengjournal Жыл бұрын
Very true and quiet helpful content..Ive love to watch all of your vedios..Super entertaining..Thank you💓
@JDiology
@JDiology 3 жыл бұрын
Even though the signs r there. Dont feel all bad and sad. I get it, its human nature to feel down when we come to these situations . But know that at the end, the person will never change. Dont bust your ass for someone who wont change . Its just an incompatibility. Move on. Just move on ppl. No one is worth ur life. Ur life comes first before anyone. I tell myself that
@neishastar4752
@neishastar4752 3 жыл бұрын
Since nobody did this yet I’m gonna do it: 1: (0:46) They talk to you Less 2: (1:15) They act Differently around You 3: (1:46) They don’t reach out Anymore 4: (2:07) They stop Asking Questions 5: (2:39) They’re no longer Responsive 6: (3:14) They stop making an Effort 7: (4:02) They cancel and make excuses 8: (4:02) They make other plans 9: (4:30) They Prioritize other people 10: (4:51) They Found someone else I searched this up because I think I’m loosing my Friend.
@nickydelrey2192
@nickydelrey2192 3 жыл бұрын
After reading this, I feel like crying..
@IceCreamMilkshake777
@IceCreamMilkshake777 3 жыл бұрын
yeah, same here - my friend and I were once so close but then he started acting so distant towards me and I feel like he's pushing me away and I tried to much to put an effort...
@nickydelrey2192
@nickydelrey2192 3 жыл бұрын
@@IceCreamMilkshake777 They'll taste their own medicine, I assure you x
@IceCreamMilkshake777
@IceCreamMilkshake777 3 жыл бұрын
@@nickydelrey2192 how do you know? It seems like he doesn’t care about me anymore 😔😔😔
@nickydelrey2192
@nickydelrey2192 3 жыл бұрын
@@IceCreamMilkshake777 What I meant ^ was that once he receives what he did to you, he'll realise how it would actually feel. And he'd understand how horrible it feels to be... almost neglected. A bit like 'eye for an eye' ! But- Maybe you're too up n' beyond for him? Usually, it's the 'good' ones who end up being tossed away like garbage/rubbish. I'm sorry you feel that way, but I'm sure he'd come to realise how foolish he possibly would've been to 'distance' himself from you (or ignoring you?). And regret his actions once there's a bit o' compassion. But obviously this depends on the reasons why... he's behaving that way.
@katrina8078
@katrina8078 Жыл бұрын
Spot on. Noticed all signs over the last 2 years.
@clarymatos4607
@clarymatos4607 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for answering my questions. GBU
@max-tc3mh
@max-tc3mh Жыл бұрын
I love how your videos are short and simple.
@dirgmario
@dirgmario 3 жыл бұрын
The saddest thing is watching this and then remembering my last relationship and seeing the exact moment when I realized I’d lost her... and that I still miss her...
@DaysofKnight
@DaysofKnight 2 жыл бұрын
Same.. Just has it happen last month.. it hurts a lot, and I don't know how to function..
@novaz2669
@novaz2669 2 жыл бұрын
Me and my partner just started long distance and I really feel like she’s losing interest she doesn’t text me as often and we haven’t ft in a little bit idk what to do how do I bring it up to her
@maepangravinet9074
@maepangravinet9074 2 жыл бұрын
@@novaz2669 same with me happend but with one of my closest friends because I moved distance relationship really does sometimes 😭
@earleenaustin174
@earleenaustin174 2 жыл бұрын
Xoxo
@josephwrather3505
@josephwrather3505 2 жыл бұрын
i just lost my girlfriend 2 days ago💔😥
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 жыл бұрын
“If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else?” - Ru Paul
@selfable-relyonyourself3504
@selfable-relyonyourself3504 3 жыл бұрын
Make sense
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 3 жыл бұрын
Did he really love himself the way he was actually created? That advice is normally good. But he don't love his true self.
@add2console163
@add2console163 3 жыл бұрын
Agreeee
@womynislandnow2206
@womynislandnow2206 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah right, Ru Paul, not that the world has being saying that crap since millenia.
@ozgurkuzu2202
@ozgurkuzu2202 3 жыл бұрын
Best answer so leave him alone forever.
@robloxmeryem16
@robloxmeryem16 11 ай бұрын
Your out-of-the-box thinking and unique perspective turned an otherwise mediocre presentation into a fantastic one *johnsonspy* . You did a good job of catching the mistakes and keeping us from wasting time and by taking the wrong path. Your attention to detail really sets you apart from the crowd. Great work! Jack, Your great work has resulted in tangible, beneficial results to me. You’re a force to be reckoned
@omerketen7163
@omerketen7163 11 ай бұрын
The quality of *Johnsonspy* job is so incredibly high. If you don't have a team behind you, then you are clearly a multi talented individual.. The way the access is structured are perfect, the visuals are stunning, the narration is engaging, and of course, the project is itself intriguing.. You are a professional Baron...
@sooyoo4566
@sooyoo4566 3 жыл бұрын
This lockdown has created more distance between me and my best friend and others.. I hate this!! 😭
@kellytladi6299
@kellytladi6299 3 жыл бұрын
Same 🙁 it just isn’t the same anymore
@yoongles8078
@yoongles8078 3 жыл бұрын
Hey!!There's BTS!!
@pugzz6931
@pugzz6931 3 жыл бұрын
When you can’t get someone interested in you at all 😎👌
@lovemaze4695
@lovemaze4695 3 жыл бұрын
Is it wrong for me to laugh?
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Does this describe someone you know?
@FernandowoTM
@FernandowoTM 3 жыл бұрын
@@lovemaze4695 no
@add2console163
@add2console163 3 жыл бұрын
So be it, you have yourself dude
@pugzz6931
@pugzz6931 3 жыл бұрын
Reema Kim no
@easternsupr8780
@easternsupr8780 Жыл бұрын
I really needed to see this
@MadhuSingh-wb7lb
@MadhuSingh-wb7lb 23 күн бұрын
Thank you I'm grateful for your video, I just thought that my someone special was losing interest, but turned out that only 1st one was true but I knew the reason for it , thanks again for putting my overthinking to pause ❤❤
@dacanation12
@dacanation12 3 жыл бұрын
That’s why I’m afraid to have a relationship
@lucky.lucy44
@lucky.lucy44 3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t say fear, I’m going through a dark time. My ex left me prob bcs he fell out of love. He led me on thoguh which kinda hurt. But just learn to guard your heart and be your own best friend. Guard your heart and know that there’s always going to be many relationships that are going to make you learn.
@iksipsilon4489
@iksipsilon4489 3 жыл бұрын
@@lucky.lucy44 Lucija, odakle si?
@rural_girl555
@rural_girl555 3 жыл бұрын
SAME HERE
@alicezani7789
@alicezani7789 3 жыл бұрын
I’m crying while I watch this...... I can’t let him go because of l love him 💔💔💔😓
@Joert04
@Joert04 3 жыл бұрын
You got this..❤️💪
@acemichael5510
@acemichael5510 2 жыл бұрын
You’ll get over it
@rhiannaa.s7029
@rhiannaa.s7029 2 жыл бұрын
You'll be fine, time heals.
@bingobongo566
@bingobongo566 2 жыл бұрын
@@acemichael5510 true, but you don’t always know that when you’re younger and haven’t experienced it.
@suziegarland4183
@suziegarland4183 2 жыл бұрын
Seeing the person you love love another hurts but you gotta let go and find someone who loves you
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