100 Annoying Pet Peeves by Enneagram Types

[@AbbeyHowe]

HILLARY!!! I’m obsessed with this video format and also it’s absolutely delightful to see you and Michelle in a coffee shop together 😭 I’m v jealous

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Yay! Thanks Abbey!!! Next time all 3 of us have to get together!

[@Avionne_Parris]

@@enneagramandcoaching If Hillary, Michelle, and Abbey do a collab video, I would DIE :P

[@lorrielee885]

@@Avionne_Parris I so agree!!!

[@AbbeyHowe]

@@Avionne_Parris 👀

[@francesca.pellegrino]

Me, a type 8, “why would you ever want a red light?”. You explained it well, I still just can’t imagine it. 😂

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Hahaha! Only for this video!😂

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@Avionne_Parris]

I'm a 4w5 and my pet peeve is irrelevant arguments: E.g., I say to someone, "You're talking too loud, I'm trying to watch tv". And they say, "Well you talk loud when I'm watching tv". And I'm like, "Did you say that to me at the time?" And they say, "Well, no"... So what's the point of bringing it up NOW? What am I supposed to do with me talking loud in the PAST? I wasn't even aware there was a problem? How can I rectify that? It drives me nuts. As a type 4, I don't want to be misunderstood and as a wing 5, I don't want to look incompetent. Situations like these don't help.

[@enneagramandcoaching]

This is a really good one. Thanks for sharing!

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@abstract-thoughts]

Agree with not putting things away for a 1! I'll add: when they keep talking and don't get to the point, when applying bandaid to issues instead of tackling the root cause, when I'm told to do something without a complete background

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Good ones!!!! 🗣️

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@Sing4God87]

I think this my new favorite video of yours. It's like we're traveling in the car with you. 😀 I love seeing all the pet peeves of the types of course, but mainly I love this video format, as Abbey said! 😉

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Awww thank you! I will be doing more of this format! It’s so fun!

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@abstract-thoughts]

Ok I came back to tell you a big one I forgot.. when people drive with high beams 🤬🤬

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Haha! Same!!!

[@intuitiveeatingmama]

Hiiiii!!!!! This episode was so good😂

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Thanks for sending in your pet peeve!🥳❤️ #type3friend

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@lorrielee885]

Loved seeing you meet Michelle! I agree with how great it would be to see you two and Abbey in a video together. As a 7 with Pet peeves I really feel like I identified most with 8's which is a wing of course and 1 which is where I go in stress. I can't tell you how many times I say "If everybody would just do what they're supposed to do..." The thing about the horn was hillarious. But, I am with your husband on that one. I rarely use my horn but I say A LOT to other drivers (even though they can't hear me). The most common are "oh....that is all kinds of illegal" and "I guess I must be invisible today." Followed by some sort of remark about people passing where they aren't supposed to pass or not understanding what a stop sign means.

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Yes! We need to do a video together! You are just like my husband! 😅😂

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@suzanneroelofse5970]

I'm not a 1, but people saying: "I could care less" gets me in the gut! 😂

[@enneagramandcoaching]

😂🤣

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@artsyanne1192]

I’m a 4w5, and I could relate to most of these pet peeves even though they were from other types. And Michelle’s merch is very cute!

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Hahaha! Love this!

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@Jemimastar28]

4w5 here: I got annoyed by all of the pet peeves haha

[@sarahhunt3066]

I’m a type 2 and every one of these pet peeves are RIGHT ON for me! Amazing!!

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Yes! Love it!

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@mauraliller6]

Thinking I could actually be a 9. I resonated strongly with all of the 9 pet peeves but not so much the others.

[@enneagramandcoaching]

You might be then!

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@aprildoucette2616]

so awesome! :)

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Thanks April! ❤️

[@battysky6458]

My pet peeve: Waiting in line or waiting for something.

[@enneagramandcoaching]

👏👏👏

[@M.j.7]

Type 8 and am a loud chewer & chronically late 😅 Also the one without the type def sounded like an 8 😂… Edit: I LOVE THE MERCH!!! & Thank you for the video!

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Awww thanks!!!!

[@chrismcconnaughey]

Cool merch. I’m a 5 wing 6, yeah maybe just give me a head nod or a smile, sorry but I don’t want to talk you 😂.

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Haha! Love it!

[@alexj9603]

Type 9 here. I hate advertising. Especially when i can't avoid or ignore it.

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Same!

[@LLuna768]

I’m a 6 and I’m wondering why you would do this kind of video, while driving.😳🙄🤔

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Makes sense!

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@lajourdanne]

Crazy lol. I’m a 3w2 and hate when people assume malice when people are late. We’re all busy and things happen lol. The assumption that people are late cause they don’t care always felt lazy and prideful to me.

[@Serena-n4n]

Funny how less type 5s wrre in the video 5w4

[@Elijah24553]

This is a legitimate question of mine: how is the enneagram helpful?

[@enneagramandcoaching]

The very short answer is…The Enneagram addresses your core sin, core desire, core fear and so on…it’s helps each person identify their own core motivations. It helps us see that we are all different, we see through different lenses in life and this helps us to understand and love each other better.

[@Elijah24553]

So... If I were to shorten the already short answer, it helps you understand yourself and other better?

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Yes 😃

[@Elijah24553]

Ok, I think I'm understanding. If I could just ask one more question, how do I know the enneagram is biblical?

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Tyler Zach from @gospelforenneagram has a great video about this - here is the link kzbin.info/www/bejne/omqtpWt6hpynpas

[@jojoco120]

Baby Luke!

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Isn’t he sooo cute!!!!!

[@nooneneedstoknowmyname]

I don't suffer from this pet peeve myself, because the opposite happens with me where people think I'm smarter than I actually am because I got super good grades in school, but it annoys me when people assume that other people are stupid because they're socially smart, and they don't spend all their time reading and doing other smart things. I think both types of people are intelligent in their own way, but the socially intelligent people have the advantage. It doesn't matter what you know if you can't get anyone to listen to you, you can have all the knowledge in the world, but there are many things that are common knowledge now, that people were ridiculed for in the past. On the other side, socially smart people are liked by people, they're trusted so they're more likely to believe what they say, therefore, they can get by further in life. Anyone can feel free to disagree, this is just my opinion on it. More about the video is that it's funny I said yes to pretty much all the pet peeves that were from the types high on my potential list, and the types that are low on my potential list, most of their pet peeves are things that don't really phase me at all.