15 Secrets to Confidence in Any Situation with Voice Coach Caroline Goyder

International Women's Day 2017. Tedx presenter and voice coach Caroline Goyder tells us 15 ways in which we can feel, look and sound more confident at parties, dates, presentations, interviews and on the telephone.
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Caroline worked for many years as a voice teacher training actors at the Royal Central School of Speech and Drama, and has spent the last ten years developing a system to help her non-acting clients to perform with the same calm, presence and power in the theatre of everyday life. Clients include royalty, TV entertainers, leaders at BT, CBRE, HSBC, the civil service and a political party, as well as coaching on air talent for Bloomberg TV, CNN and Channel 4. Caroline’s work has been featured in FT, CNN, Daily Telegraph and the Economist. Caroline speaks regularly at Henley Business School, London Business Forum and the School of Life. She also supports speakers at charities such as the Red Cross on a pro bono basis.
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[@namad3238]

At a Party: 1) think about your body and stay relaxed 2)think everybody you meet is an old friend 3) think "I've git to be here just for 5 minutes" When on a date: think "I'm beautiful, someone loves me, I have a secret" 2) visualize whan can go right 3) Best daters are those who can ask great questions Public speaking (specially in another language): 1)record yourself speaking and hear to it 2)get the body realxed and prepared 3)See the audience as old friends Job audition trips: 1) think of how you can help the other find/understand what they're looking for 2)breathing in your back 3) imagine a lovely smell: say "so, 3 thing:..." (so you order and structure) Phone talk: 1) visualize the person you're speaking to 2)press the words your saying 3) stand up (to have more powerful voice and have confidence)

[@bonitonastylish]

Thank you 💖💖

[@namad3238]

@@bonitonastylish ❤️

[@aymanelsanousi4600]

Fantastic

[@manumamazhanova5597]

Thank you

[@rehabragab77]

Thank you❤

[@EnglishwithLucy]

Hey guys! I hope you enjoy this extra-long super special interview with the amazing Caroline Goyder! English (United Kingdom) subtitles are now live

[@babyariel6152]

English with Lucy Your videos are amazing and your beautiful

[@tommy9693]

English with Lucy ok i'm from mars but i'll do my best! :)...just kidding.

[@luiwx2506]

youre amazing thank you for your help

[@antoniodelima2066]

it does not matter who you are going to interwiew, what matter you are in the video.

[@beamfunchannel3350]

English with Lucy Sub Eng please.

[@m7mda4wl39]

what really helped me a lot was to consider anyone as your old friend and also to accept your butterflies as your source of power for your upcoming challenge.a huge thanks to both of you :)

[@deedes3127]

Someone who has given so much, tips which were so accurate, is been interviewed. I admired Caroline's suggestions and her maturity on subject matters

[@EnglishwithLucy]

English (United Kingdom) subtitles are now live

[@VipinKumar-qr9cy]

English with Lucy hlo mam this video is very os.

[@MrBinlacoolboy]

Great ! I have learned so much in this video !

[@SalimKhan-hm3cw]

Nice

[@motasralucamaria]

hey ,if anyone else wants to discover tips on how to sing well try Grathaw Fast Sing Expert(do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my cousin got excellent success with it.

[@British782]

Your beautiful gril l went to start dating plz

[@weiyunhsu5463]

I really surprised by this outstanding interview video. I can't imagine how much effort a youtuber should take to make such excellent, high-quality video. Thank both of you. You are all the best models of confidence. Women power!!

[@weiyunhsu5463]

And really thank Lucy to make subtitle. Learn a lot of English from subtitle. It must took much time to make it.

[@carolinegoydervocalcoach]

Thanks for your feedback Weiyun. I'm glad you enjoyed the video.

[@espoirkiz57]

yeah you are right

[@eff9266]

Yeah, thanks to the both

[@me4uacademypvtltd203]

you are right, it needs a lot of time, efforts, and there is a small correction to be done in the sentence, it should be I am surprised. am is missing.

[@matthewnguyen3808]

Tip number two of giving presentation happened to me many times, I thought my nervousness would ruin my speaking but in fact it kept me saying more fluently with excitement. Now I realise it!!

[@sayedasifalaie5662]

This interview was so attractive and helpful for me thanks from both of you i have never seen competent teachers like you actually you are the best forever.

[@mekaro13]

How come you have not met good teachers?

[@MaxR92]

Now, this is what I call a good listening exercise! I love both of their accent

[@azeitonaf.7880]

Breathing... taking deep breaths helps a lot to relax and ease our worried minds. Excellent video! Brilliant speakers!

[@carolinegoydervocalcoach]

Thanks Azeitona, glad it was useful for you.

[@azeitonaf.7880]

Caroline Goyder My pleasure. I wish there were more videos like this. 😃🌸💜

[@pogodanaprzygode]

breathing also help me to stay alive :) (joke)

[@kimberly87s]

Wow. Cried four time during this interview. Truly eye opening 🙏🏼

[@LunasofficialMum]

I stumbled upon this video, Lucy and I am so glad I did. While all the tips are amazing, I am very happy to see that there is one included that I make sure my IELTS students learn as well. It is to explain a long answer in order, 1, 2, 3. It has helped all of my IELTS students until now and this is an excellent tip to avoid giving jumbled answers, appearing under confident.

[@MrHannahandmiley1]

Greetings from Poland! 😃

[@sanjeewadharmasiri4463]

hi.. let's be friends and practice English

[@mansaru1541]

Magda Kuś hi I'm looking English speaking partner do you interested?

[@stnwrd]

From the USA here, Poland is a GREAT place. I Went there back in 1993 when I was in the US Navy.

[@paulama4498]

@@stnwrd It has changed a lot since 1993. :-)

[@stnwrd]

@@paulama4498 I hope for the best that it has changed. I just remember how nice the people were in Gydnia

[@ricardoherrerati]

Thank you to both of you! After I watched this video I've got a tremendous desire to speak English and due I'm a new person in the city where I'm living I found really helpfull the tip about recording ourselves. Keep doing this, I loved this video.

[@crazyzkseu]

What a charming and confident woman, Caroline Goyder! Also love your show, Lucy.

[@carolinegoydervocalcoach]

Thank you - I hope you found the video useful. Caroline.

[@hareminter76]

Caroline Goyder ✌🏽

[@abdiwaalow106]

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[@korneliaonak1694]

Greetings from Poland, Lucy :) I'm studying English Philology and I absolutely love your channel! I wish I could have your accent haha love u :*

[@AmyAstridBeauty]

Loved this video Lucy! Such great advice for International Women's Day

[@yetiofmanhattan8872]

Bravo ! :) and so nice to hear some Polish accent in this intresting interview. Greetings from POLAND :) P.S. I am jolly grateful for the work witch You do, Lucy, it's so helpful.

[@sonu220591]

Incredible person. I could sense her confidence from her posture. Great video Lucy. Thanks.

[@Yellow-Rose]

I love this! I need more of this. This was a great interview, Lucy! Caroline is awesome!

[@ednacarolinaparramoreno4507]

absolutely amazing! thank you so much Lucy.

[@konglish_teacher3617]

greetings from Uzbekistan 🇺🇿 I really loved your accent,dears! All the best!👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@MarissaRiveraReadAloudBooks]

I love this video. So many useful tips that I can apply to my everyday life.

[@weronikat6381]

I'm polish and I love your videos Lucy!

[@alinyrodrigues97]

Simply amazing, Lucy. Congratulations on this video, it's really very useful. And you're a very good "interviewer", that certainly makes a lot of difference. You have talked about important topics, especially for us, English students... Well, that's it! Thanks a million for being such an incredible teacher. I really admire the way you do things, with so much love and passion. ❤

[@himalayanwanderer8333]

Aliny Cristina hi

[@efraamerica3714]

😍

[@devidkumarsahu739]

Will you acept me as a friend i am from india

[@junior.santana]

OMG, that was an absolutely fantastic interview. Thank you so much for these tips!

[@carolinegoydervocalcoach]

Thanks for your feedback - glad you found it useful.

[@sasithruslan4389]

Caroline Goyder yes of course Caroline

[@buddhilalchaudhary4949]

So nice of you presenting such a nice guest to speak up about the thing we look for. Thank you Lucy

[@trantrang6809]

i love this kind of talk show video, a conversation between 2 people, i would love if you can do more videos like this, thank you so much Lucy ! Such a great job !

[@FernandaValente]

That technique of imagining an old friend is what we call charisma for me. Very interesting!

[@annafeter9797]

This is one of the best things I've stumbled upon recently! As soon as I finished watching your material I told my boyfriend about it, and we watched it together again. We couldn't get enough so we've also watched Caroline's TedTalk. Caroline - I am really happy that I've discovered you, you're truly inspiring. Lucy - you are an amazing interviewer! I have to say, that many aspiring journalists could probably learn a lot from you :) All the best for both of you!

[@EnglishwithLucy]

+Anna Feter what a sweet comment Anna! Thank you for taking the time to write that - it really made me smile! Caroline is amazing, she has got so much wisdom to share!!!

[@carolinegoydervocalcoach]

Thanks so much for the kind feedback Anna - I'm so glad that this has all been helpful for you. Thanks also for watching the TEDx talk. Caroline.

[@VideoAsti]

I enjoy watching this English interview

[@briandiaz3424]

I have just fifteen minutes watching your strengthening videos, and I already dare to say I LOVE YOU!

[@ThePrincessdonna08]

Wow... I learned loads of info to help me hone my speaking skills especially in my upcoming IELTS exam. Thank you so much lovely Caroline for sharing your professional knowledge on speaking with confidence. Thanks too Lucy for setting up this interview. BTW, you got great interview skills!

[@ThePrincessdonna08]

Hello everyone! greetings from Philippines :)

[@katarzynagoitowska4526]

Greetings from Poland! Nice to hear you trying our language! :)

[@flynn1a]

As a speech and language specialist, I got a lot of fabulous ideas from this interview. I especially like the tip to “breathe into your back.” That seems so much more natural and effective than telling someone to breathe with their belly. And you both are so interesting and poised and easy to listen to. I’m off now to find Caroline Goyder’s Ted Talk.

[@sushrut3670]

Caroline is such an effective speaker, radiates so much confidence and is definitely one fierce woman. I wish I could half as good as her!

[@juliahartmann9689]

This video is just amazing, helpful content! I cannot thank you both enough.

[@carolinegoydervocalcoach]

Thanks Julia - so glad it was helpful for you.

[@abdulahmoula7196]

Lucy, thanks for sharing such a stunning interview, which enriches our knowledge profusely. The interview is full of useful tips, which help us acquire confidence when making a public speech or talking on the phone or how to make conversation with people.🌹♥️

[@305ANASTASIA]

thank you for letting me discover such a beautiful personality as Caroline Goyder!

[@tianbaili6265]

I feel in love. Just by listening her voice. 😍😍😍

[@mahmoudyusef8756]

thank you lucy and thanks for your guest... great job..helpful

[@carolinegoydervocalcoach]

Glad you found the interview helpful Mahmoud.

[@karolinatrolka5850]

Ojej... I'm from Poland. It was so nice when i heard "dzień dobry" :D Thanks a lot for this interview

[@bsbmylife1993]

All her tips make so much sense! These are simply brilliant. Thanks so much!

[@andrzejmroz7153]

Hi, it is lovely to hear that English teachers went to Poland to help teaching English. I found your channel Lucy just today and I am going to use it to teach my daughter English, she is just 9 years young and due to lockdown we must organise home schooling for her. Thank you for your hard work, you're doing good job.

[@GetGermanized]

I really appreciate these tips since I get sooo nervous before public speaking :D

[@julianblake8385]

This lady was so charming! I loved listening to her talk.

[@vprvelloore9943]

Respected Miss, Fist of all, we are lucky, why because we have got a bona-fide teacher. Your innocent smile, musical voice, simplicity, beauty..So attractive. Wherever there is a bona-fide teacher there is a sincere student. Keep on... Thank you.

[@yumna5020]

Great interview! Thank you so much.

[@lucianogs]

This video literally changed my life! Thank you very much!

[@MeiramKhassenov]

Greetings from Kazakhstan! Lucy, i like your pronunciation, it's great!

[@user-wv7sw2oh6n]

This video is worth watching!! I hope many people will watch it and learn loads from that! Thank you Lucy for uploading and sharing this video with us!!

[@ceciliag2180]

What a great interview! Thanks for these useful tips. Both of you have a superb voice which kept me watching until the end with a pure attention. I've been learning English for 6 months and now I really want to improve my expression skills! I realized that listening (and reading subtitles at the same time) is actually one of the most effective way to unlock the latent parts of the knowledge... But my prose isn't good enough yet so, to make short: Thank you Lucy, thank you for your work and your voice! Because you have a natural (but rare) talent called "Eloquence". So, I give you a thumb up... et comme on dit par chez nous ; "je vous tire mon chapeau"!

[@conNen83]

Great video! Very professional! Fantastic voice quality, image quality... I loved almost all the tips and you both were great. Nice balance between seriousness and familiarity, it looked like you two were old friends talking about very interesting stuff. Good job!

[@kosmopolitanna]

Amazing advices Caroline! Thanks! You're very inspiring. Hats off. Thank you Lucy for this substantive interview. So helpful. From Poland with love ;)

[@carolinegoydervocalcoach]

Thank you for your feedback, much appreciated.

[@aldorossi3177]

thanks a lot Ms. Goyder for your sharing with us your invaluable teachings!

[@milencia1415]

Lucy ! I am from Poland. I love your channel. Watching your movies is my daily routine. Best regards. :)

[@absentminded4685]

Wow! I am from Poland and I love your channel. It was nice to hear you speaking polish:)

[@user-vg6ji3vn1m]

Can we be friends ?

[@SK-zt1gn]

Really im english do u want to be my wife

[@danishqamar8509]

@@SK-zt1gn hahaha r u fool or u madd

[@TheLadymillion89]

Greetings from Poland :)) Wroclaw is a beautiful city, you are warmly welcome in Poland 😊

[@devidkumarsahu739]

Will you acept me as a friend i am from india

[@taherchalabi2056]

Excellent interview, thanks Luci and thanks Caroline

[@natkazagadka9900]

I'm from Poland, never been to Gorzów though. Thank you for this amazing video! I love you both!

[@viniciussales5167]

Congratutions Lucy! ! I enjoy your vídeos and I like your style too, good interview.

[@azeitonaf.7880]

Has your father ever thought of having a book published, Lucy? Who knows... the same book he gave you as a present. Or, maybe, a book with another format based on the one he gave to you. I am a huge admirer of your channel. A big fan of yours. 😘🌸💜

[@kojyawkokawkokyaw7540]

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[@trangcaothu1303]

thank you so much, Lucy. Those questions are really good and so are the tips. I learnt a lot from this!

[@BeanSprouts02]

Omg I just love your intro so much. Can't stop replaying it everytime.

[@inayathussain7161]

Hi

[@samuelgad7608]

Form Khartoum, Sudan. I'm one of your students and really love your lessons. i read text books v.well, i understand more than 95 of natives english speakers, and can write well. But my problem is how to be confident, because speaking with others makes me very nervous. I think, this supper interview with "Caroline Goyder" tought me something useful to build my confidence. I really appreciate that.

[@carolinegoydervocalcoach]

Glad you found it helpful Samuel. Thanks for the feedback.

[@renekettwich3507]

I by to

[@netrixofficial]

Cześć wszystkim.Greetings from Poland.

[@wojto52]

Siemandero!

[@jitkapodraska4052]

Buttefly spanish

[@arilla5062]

Hejo

[@74aamer]

Jack tam

[@Kacper-zm2gd]

dlaczego jest tak duzo komentarzy z polski skoro to kanal angielski ? nie rozumiem tego ...

[@moulmour]

Thank you so much ladies! that was excellent.

[@danielalonso6369]

all time i´ve made what this Gorgeous Lady said, but never put attention on great details !! she´ve made me noticed something real important for a meeting !! THANKS GOD BLESS YOU !! LUCY AND CAROLINE GOYDER !! Cheers!!

[@sepxz99]

Great video Lucy!

[@carolinegoydervocalcoach]

Thanks for your feedback Song. Glad you enjoyed the video.

[@sepxz99]

Caroline Goyder the tips you suggested are really helpful! Thanks for the tips and have an awesome day Caroline 😊

[@mobarakibi]

Thanks Lucy for this interview and my greetings to your guest , thanks for this opportunity to learn more secrets to speak English effectively , by the way you look like a professional journalist (tv presenter) you are talented ♥♥ may be soon we'll see you in BBC or another tv channel :)

[@EnglishwithLucy]

What a sweet comment! Thank you so much 😊 +مبارك الرقيبي

[@mobarakibi]

you deserve endless respect and love my best teacher . if you want to learn arabic you are welcome 😊

[@carolinegoydervocalcoach]

Greetings to you too, and thanks for watching. Caroline.

[@mobarakibi]

thanks coach Caroline ; a few minutes ago I watched your talk at TedX Brixton and I appreciate it. glad to follow you .

[@phuongdoan9983]

مبارك الرقيبي d

[@tjoeptjoeptjoep]

Great tip at 4:48, the one from George Clooney: his thing when he meets people, is that he imagines everybody he meets as an old friend. And here's a nice one when on a date: 7:21. Love it! Thanks a lot ladies!

[@xinyihe5549]

Just found your channel. Such a treasure!! This video is just about time for me. Thank you Lucy!

[@badquestion1684]

Greetings from Poland!

[@plantbasedmartyna]

Oh wow, I am from Poland, how lovely! :) Great video, as always :) And greetings form PL!

[@juliawiergowska8155]

plantbasedmartyna Me too! Greetings as well :D

[@TheAnish01]

Her confident smile and she is quite spontaneous and charming ... God bless ..

[@AnuBlossom]

Really good tips!

[@zbigniewpiasecki7290]

Na zdrowie! Pozdrowienia z Polski! Greetings from Poland!

[@jola-xl9xi]

oooh dzień dobry!!! greetings from Poland

[@ajil174]

What a fabulous and useful interview ladies!! I loved the tips!

[@pedrodorosario9841]

Thanks Lucy!!!! This interview was very important for me. Now, I'll be more confident.

[@Karus299]

Oooh I come from Gorzów :D Dzień dobry and pozdrawiam. Lovely "na zdrowie" from you, Lucy ;)

[@karolinastepien2785]

I'm from Poland! Soo I'm inviting, Poland is beautiful 💓

[@kasperchakma9773]

No it's terrible and u guys are racist

[@piotrmirecki2565]

@@kasperchakma9773 so where do you live?

[@piotrmirecki2565]

Ohhh man who 'd told you these lies?

[@jensentao4664]

@@kasperchakma9773 why?

[@robbas_krk1510]

@@kasperchakma9773 again, don't be silly, mate. I don't know what experience you have, but in this context generalizations are always a wrong way

[@zahrahdhiya6029]

I'm so happy to find this video! I'll give a try for all those tips XD Thank you Lucy and Caroline!

[@jeisong17]

Thank you Lucy for that amazing tips cheers!

[@Shakronya]

I was so happy when I recognised this beautiful woman who I'd fallen in love with after that Ted-talk video! She is amazing person with a marvellous voice! Really ))) I think, she has the most beautiful, though powerful and confident voice in the world!!! Thank you, Luсy, for making this video! It is extreeeeeemly useful!

[@carolinegoydervocalcoach]

Thanks for your kind feedback. Caroline.

[@dahirfarah5909]

Wonderfull

[@slowdownbelieve]

wow in Poland! :D

[@alberrtogarciagonzalez8937]

Thank you very much both for this interesting and really high -quality and useful interview.

[@svetlanabelova4025]

Thank you so much, Caroline and Lucy, it was outstanding!

[@vasilisa4325]

Dzień dobry! Greetings from Poland. Lucy, I hope one day you'll visit our beautiful country and you'll enjoy it :)

[@gabbi2370]

Greetings from Poland :D

[@luisadelgado1586]

So many amazing tips! Thank you so much for this video, it helped me a lot.

[@gerardoperen2723]

This is probably my favorite video in this channel.. Thank you Lucy for helping us.. I love this Channel!! (I love Poland too)

[@agnieszkaszczygielska6809]

Dzień dobry! Hello from Poland! :)

[@ArianaarinatorGrande]

Poland 😍😃 polact łączymy się 😉

[@abdolhamedsharef2924]

That was a fantastic interview hats off, I've really learnt a lot out of it I appreciate your valuable guidance and tips..

[@yocelind.c8957]

Thank you so much This was very helpful..!! I absolutely loved Caroline Goyder I learnt a lot today

[@carolinegoydervocalcoach]

Many thanks for your feedback. I'm so glad you found it helpful.

[@maryurygarcia76]

When I watched the video without open it I thought she was Adele! Jajaja!

[@welliguessillbehereforawhi3963]

17:02 i found a meme lmao

[@cecepdurahim3764]

Thank you Lucy for the lesson. Lucy is smart, pretty, and cheerful.

[@user244002]

Deeply insightful. Wonderful tips.