2 Mindsets That Make You Irresistibly Attractive To A Man | Helena Hart

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

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[@camillamartz3289]

Awesome thoughts. It has so worked for my love life. Please keep it up all the great videos. Peace and love

[@lilbitqueenbee4life]

💫🙏✨

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m so happy to hear that! ❤️

[@mianga9255]

1. You are the source of your happiness. 2. Enjoy the moment. Trust yourself. No rush. No urgent. Trust that whatever you want will come to you at the right time.

[@poojabatti3712]

@Mia Nga : Thank you

[@mssummerrose1]

Thanks soooooo much... 😃

[@danaali5118]

1 - Be your own source of happiness 2- Complete trust in life, don’t have urgency to get what you right away.

[@EarlyBirdCraft]

Out of millions of dating coaches, I was blessed to have come cross your video. You’ve saved my life. Thank you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I’m so happy to hear that. ❤️

[@angiebaby8350]

Helena Hart you are humble too.

[@sjpnnk]

The urgency is the worst habit to break! It's hard to be patient for the unfolding when things are stagnant and that feeling of lack/ rejection creates doubt, worry, anxiety and fear..so thank you for bringing this up and I hope this topic of detaching from the outcome can be further elaborated on in future videos. It really is the crux to avoiding mistakes that will ultimately sabotage us in so many ways. Yes, it's me Julz; I just changed my picture😉

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, absolutely! This video might be helpful in terms of releasing your attachment to the outcome or the result: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hmqun5aNjc-qras

[@sjpnnk]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you! I watched it. I need all the help i can get. I'm staying strong not texting...really refraining from doing the chasing. Continuing watching the videos to get me through this. He walks by my work and waves but still hasn't texted. It's hard but I'm gonna see how long I can hold out and trust that releasing this need to control and solicit the outcome is the right thing to do right now

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! This one should also help: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZnvMcp97iLWgjNU

[@bigsky8061]

YES, in my experience haven't gotten what I wanted and in one case settled. Also, I'm 70 and he's 88. No biological clock but the "end of life" clock so don't want us to run the clock out. "None of us knows the day or the hour."

[@KutieePie]

I LOVE your videos Helena - they're so easy to understand and helpful.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m glad they’ve been helpful! 💕

[@blakebass1476]

Out of everyone I’ve watched on KZbin you are seriously the most knowledgeable about the deeper part of men that so many women don’t understand and I appreciate you for making this video so much. Thank you!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I’m happy to hear that. ❤️

[@Sherrin8]

I practice living in the moment in all aspects of my life. Exactly what you’re saying here Helena! 💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, I’ve found that this can make a huge difference in ALL areas of your life. ❤️

[@wephotogal]

Great video, Helena. You are one of the best on YT.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! ❤️

[@romantatov7030]

Very true but we forget

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, it can be easy to forget this at times.

[@alinap2707]

This video should be played in schools

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Alina! These videos should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y5yphYConsego5Y, kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHvbnHiYnadogKs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M and kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqDFd51_gdmFo5I.

[@jenniferschroeder7781]

Thanks, as always, Helena!!!! 🌸🙂

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Jennifer! 💗

[@jenniferschroeder7781]

@@HelenaHartCoaching could you please DM me with how to get a couple coaching sessions with you personally?? I tried to go on your site but couldn’t find anything... thanks in advance. 🙂

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Right now I can only take on private coaching clients through my fellow coach Mike Goldstein. If you'd like to set up a call with Mike to see if coaching would be a good fit for you, you can do that here (if you’re only interested in working with me, you can let him know during your call and he can help set that up too): www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session-helena

[@jenniferschroeder7781]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you!!!! 🙂🙂

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

@@jenniferschroeder7781 You’re welcome! 💕

[@lailaalanna315]

I make myself happy and the man comes and enjoys that happiness, basks in it, and contributes nothing because my happiness comes from within. So this doesn't always work, depends on the man.

[@lailaalanna315]

Edit: contributes too little because he believes I'm ok.

[@beebuzz959]

You don't quite get it, but keep learning and you will. It's simple when it happens, and it's like a switch flips. The difference you're describing sounds more like a dependenciship, rather than a relationship.

[@katmom45]

You are amazing. Good stuff.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! ❤️

[@universe5d176]

I have all the time in the world

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, absolutely! This video should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHvbnHiYnadogKs

[@titag.1607]

Thank You Helena for your support! Love all your videos. 4 months of him initiating contract, he several times mentioned a future with me. Going on 2wks of him being distant, i textd him 3 days ago with no reply back. If hes the man for me he will make it happen. I am not going to push or forse him to decide.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome Tita, I agree! ❤️

[@titag.1607]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Helena this man has not txtd me and is ignoring me completely. 3wks ago i mentioned to him that i would love to one day have another child if God sent me one. After that i have not heard from him anymore he slowly pulled way way back. I felt comfortable to say this to him because 1wk before he told me that one day i would be his future wife. Its been 3wks he pulled away i am starting to get worried i blew it. Hes the one that initiated all contact and now im forgotten he doesn't even look at my Facebook stories im being ignored.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Mentioning that you’d be open to having another child one day will not make the RIGHT man for you disappear, in my opinion. 💜

[@titag.1607]

@@HelenaHartCoaching yes you are correct. Im analyzing what went wrong. Im going to continue to anchor myself and not persue him and keep dating. If he was serious of everything he said he will come back. I am not going to chase him.❤ thank you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes!! You’re welcome! 💕

[@mandav6957]

it's so wonderful watching your delicate points.😍💖 however, I tried to be my source of happiness and consequently turned to be one who is not needy, so I couldn't expect receiving from him...it's hard to find balance between these two!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Manda, I can record some more videos around this if that would be helpful.

[@mandav6957]

yeah, it would be nice to hear your ideas around this! Thanks!😍💞

[@moonshadow2192]

What about when you are starved of attention,affection,touch,sexual contact?I think I am expected to behave like a machine with no feeling and pretend I have this great life and I have no human needs and I can wait for many years to ever be touched or wanted to me that is a slow death!

[@viktoriastockmal8405]

I understand exactly what you are saying. I am making a guess that Touch is your main love language. Want to know what helped me?? I took up ballroom dancing! It is not sexual touch, but it is touch. And it is a supportive and encouraging atmosphere. It has done wonders to open me up in a safe space. When you take care of your own needs you will no longer feel like you are "dying a slow death". Find the way to get what you need so you won't feel so desperate when you meet a man. Good luck to you!! ❤️

[@beebuzz959]

Don't pretend, but aware and be honest. Realize how you really feel and own it. Allow yourself to be instead of to hide and stuff. What you can start doing is notice when it's cold our warm, how that feels on your body and what it does to your insides. Breathe in and imagine the air entering your lungs - you can give it a color. Notice how it feels to take a breath and feel it open your lungs and abdomen. Feel where the pressure goes. Let the goodness of the air massage and nourish your body, and till begin to feel it. When you bathe, notice hope it feels to have your skin touched, and also to touch it. Only be positive here! And enjoy relaxing with this. When you're negative, it's because there's something your not getting. So recognize what that is and imagine how you'd feel if you had that. Then, just let yourself feel that good feeling, whatever it is. This is a practice, so just take a deep breath whenever you start to veer negative, and let yourself feel the good. Don't worry about outcomes because the happiness is within you. Have faith that anything that comes your way is for you to enjoy while it's good, but to avoid if it's not, and then open up to allow more good to come your way. This all strengthens you so much more than is obvious at first, so give it a chance. And then, practice communication and kindness. Smile and say hi to people, and see them in a new light, but don't expect anything from them. And get out in the world. Take a walk, or something, somewhere (safe), and open yourself up to allowing people in to your life, as long as the treat you good. Never allow more than you want, but open yourself up to letting others know you, and even invite it in. And when it's not too your liking pull back. But always feel your feelings! Deal with them, but don't deny them. The bad will never go away if you do.

[@elizabethschmidt9924]

I love the way you explain stuff. I want to write an ebook like you too. Any tips?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! Sometimes it's easier to start with an audio or video component and get it transcribed if you feel "stuck" with the actual writing part. All of my eBooks and Programs have either an audio or video component, sometimes that can help you organize your ideas: helenahartcoaching.com/ebooks/

[@deanarodriguez4258]

Thank you. Great video!!! Do you have audio cds?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I have a few different audio programs, they’re all digitally delivered (rather than actual CD’s) so you can access them immediately: helenahartcoaching.com/ebooks/

[@deanarodriguez4258]

Helena Hart Thank you

[@enjysallam7053]

I want to know what to do with a commitment phobic man?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’ll put this on my list of videos to do! In the meantime, I’ve written a lot of articles on this topic that might be helpful for you, here’s one of them: helenahartcoaching.com/the-one-thing-you-need-to-know-to-get-the-commitment-you-want/

[@enjysallam7053]

Helena Hart thank you so much 😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome!