The #1 Way To Demonstrate Your VALUE To A Man

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[@HelenaHartCoaching]

If you want to learn the secrets to inspiring a man's love, devotion and commitment, get my FREE "3 Keys To Attract The Man You Want" report and audio training here: helenahartcoaching.com/

[@reshmanair6840]

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[@karakol86]

Good advice. I think setting boundaries is the hardest thing to do especially for women. For me it is harder than saying I want x y and z

[@joannamario7759]

#1 Way to Demonstrate Your Value to a Man: 1) Confidence (be authentic) : - who you are (your personality), feelings, boundaries /standards you set for yourself, without attaching any intentions. ... This is absolutely brilliant, Helena! Thanks a ton 😆😍

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕

[@hunny585]

now this makes sense..cant demonstrate to men in words...he needs to feel it. Thanks Helena

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome!

[@terrydillon1427]

"Shy on the dance floor = shy in bed." Not 100 percent true, but true often enough that if he is not pursuing you, he is not a "good catch." Edit: Helena this is a strong informative video. I love it.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💕

[@poojabatti3712]

Helena great great advice, even though I was like this before, I feel I had started to loose myself in my marriage, thankfully I’m also quite aware of myself.. which made realise something’s not right.. Your advice is spot on, has helped me do much, I’m back to being my Confident self again.. n my husband has admiration for me again

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome, I'm so glad this was helpful and is working for you!

[@DiaN-do3jm]

what i get from this is, enjoy yourself in the presence of the man but let go of the reins(making things go your way or control the direction ).

[@emily_rose_elyse]

Well I prefer to only sleep with someone I’m dating romantically, but I don’t care if we’re committed. I need to know if I connect with a man sexually before committing to him or even getting too serious because we might have bad chemistry. If that’s my standard...that’s just as respectable? You may have used waiting as a convenient example (which there’s nothing wrong with) but if my value system is different I shouldn’t pretend to have values I don’t either right?:) great video by the way.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! Right, there are no “rules” here except for the ones you make up for yourself - it’s all about communicating what feels best to YOU. ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this helped! 💕

[@Alexi-pj4yb]

good comments and helpful answers.

[@augustayarteh7524]

is so true Helena , even man know that they will find problems from women. This part of the world i see men don't want women to jealous about them they always want women to be a fool. Like me personally I am very confidence in my relationship when I observed the things he is doing in my life i have to jealous him, Helena I am a mad lover I know how to stick to my. relation ship. and looking up to my guy; but i will not need any thing from him like taking care of me or giving me his money no as long as he is satisfying me anytime i needed him the most.

[@fearfreelivingllc]

Great content! Good job

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! ❤️

[@sagenosnibor9173]

You are gorgeous! And give great advice :)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much! 💕

[@AG-bf9xs]

I wonder, what is the difference between beeing vulnerable and authenticly expressing feelings on one side and beeing needy/or in a mode of opening up to things that are not working out well in a way that might scare him away. By showing feelings from inside u might come across as emotional instable as feelings generaly change. I think I get that mixed up. Whats the solution there to express whats going on inside (positive and negative) without scaring him away? Love your Videos to come closer to wisdom:)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Great question! This video should help give you some clarity: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nZ6WXpSlgL2dq80

[@capricorntarot123]

🥰🥰🥰 amazing stuff as always

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! ❤️

[@Emi-xd2or]

Hi again! I was just wandering about one thing more. If a man tells you that you are "making drama", "exaggerating" or "being irrational" when you are telling your man you have been worried for something etc. can it be that he just lacks empathy or what is the difference between being "drama queen" and being authentic. I have problems telling the difference, bcs one of my exes used to tell me that im making unnecessary drama, when i was telling him about my worries and fears and feelings connected to it. Are they just insensitive jerks or was it really that i could have been making too much drama just by telling about it repeated times?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Every man and situation is different - it could be the way you're communicating these things, or it could indicate a lack of empathy on the man's part. Here are a couple articles I've written that might be helpful for you: helenahartcoaching.com/what-makes-a-man-feel-unsafe-and-pushes-him-away/ helenahartcoaching.com/when-a-man-feels-he-cant-make-you-happy/ Show less

[@hunny585]

Can i have links to video..on how to express feelings?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, I talk about that in Step 3 of this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoKQqWedgNebf6s ...and also in this one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bnSZYqukad-KY5Y I also just recorded a video on how to connect deeply with a man's heart, I'll be posting it soon!

[@goodenoughgirl8102]

Yeah. Just as we need to look at deeds and not just words from a man, it’s the same for us. I think I just had to build that muscle a bit. I think that “confidence” is really just being sure. I wasn’t always so “sure” before, but now I’m much more certain about my standards and what I want and where I want to go. Lol. Before I used to waver a lot more and I’d keep asking myself...but are you sure that’s right? Are you sure this is what you want? Are you sure that’s even possible? And then of course I’d say to myself....eh idk really. So I guess I’d just go back and do more “research” until I was sure about a thing. I know I had to go around the mountain quite a few times first tho. Becoming “fully persuaded” took me a minute. Lol.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! I know many people can relate. 💞

[@imwatching2960]

What if he became lazy? We've been in a relationship for a year now. He doesn't ask me out anymore to nice places and do the things he knows I like. He doesn't kiss me passionately anymore, only when he wants sex. I get so sad, because he's a great man and almost everything is so good with him.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Great question! This episode should be helpful for your situation (especially the second half): kzbin.info3RbplVL9zs4?si=mnJW0ZmzJ_vaaRaY

[@Emi-xd2or]

Hi again Helena! I just wanted to ask one more q: do you have a closed fb-group where women can discuss and exchange their experiences?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, here's the link: facebook.com/groups/goddesscommunity/ You can also connect with me on Facebook here: facebook.com/helenahartcoaching/ ...and add me as a friend here: facebook.com/helena.hart.10

[@Emi-xd2or]

Thank you !

[@Emi-xd2or]

Hei Helena! Than was very very interesting. What if a man you are doing all these things with (really, not faking!) still does not see your value?? Does it mean that he is not interested enough, less intelligent and does not get what a high value woman is, or just a jerk?? What do you think?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

It could be any of those things, but in my opinion it ultimately means that he can't possibly be the right man for you.

[@Emi-xd2or]

Thank you Helena for answering my question :)

[@simmichopra8305]

Is having sex talk or supporting his sex desire before commitment over phone also is wrong ? As I feel he is seriously in for marriage

[@MessagesFromAurora]

How to own the fact that I don't consider myself good looking ? And I don't mean how someone like you would consider themselves not good looking (cuz u are). But how to give off the energy of being desired when I don't feel like he would be physically attracted to me like that?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nImXZWyul91_pdk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/aqCQdKqPr8qkaLM.

[@simmichopra8305]

Helena dear kindly share your total beauti secret from tips to toes apart from coconut oil ...ur face cut hair everything has been changed alot from early old videos please your face cut how u changed that glowing clear skin etc ND last not the least your total figure ND dressing sense has been different

[@BL-N3xus]

You freaking nailed it. 👍👍👍The question is where are those women? Love the video though.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you!

[@BL-N3xus]

@@HelenaHartCoaching where are those women these days then?

[@shewokeup_exjw7680]

This was very helpful video. Was awesome actually. I felt good knowing this is the type of woman I am. My question is this. I have been in a committed relationship going on 4 months. We have only been dating, no sex. When we first started having a mutual attraction sexting has been very fun and bonding. However, I don't care for porn. He introduced it to me at about the beginning of our 3 month together. Our beginning of mutual desires for each other, in away to say hey babe this is what I want to do with you when we are together. What bothers me is seeing the men in the video clips. I feel uncomfortable seeing the sexual content and it makes me feel like I should not see other men's bodies in a sexual way. I feel unfaithful. Does that sound like this would turn him off eventually in our relationship? Is there a compromise. I would expect him to understand my feelings if I explain it delicatly. But it is a sensual turn on for us both. Please let me know how to address this. Thank you.

[@adj5767]

Run for your life if he's interested in porn. No future there. Be warned but then again, you might have discovered this by now.

[@shewokeup_exjw7680]

@@adj5767 I addressed this issue with him. It has been very successful. He's relented from watching it. It's been over 6 months and he's agrees to respect my views.

[@alicehmchow]

I have done that...but jealous made me out of control...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I just published a new video today that might be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKu4mKmpgaapg68

[@ashay76]

I’m a big fan of your content however the filter hurts my eyes,

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Anderia, I’ve figured out the lighting so you shouldn’t have that problem with my newer videos.

[@simmichopra8305]

I HV to get married dear ND gonna meet soon in months time first time to the guy God willing

[@sisteranonymous3585]

How can you feel confident when you are conventionally an unattractive woman?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Here's a video on how to boost your confidence when you're feeling insecure: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aqCQdKqPr8qkaLM

[@deewaunder722]

Sister Anonymous, I just want you to know that your physical appearance is really of no consequence when it comes to confidence. Your confidence will come from within, and be about who you are. That’s not to say you shouldn’t always try to look your best, of course you should. But this confidence comes from within you, at your core. Be who you are, your authentic self, and love it!

[@MessagesFromAurora]

There's a feeling of why put any effort into my appearance when it's not gonna change how I look/features. If u do t feel attractive it's difficult to feel like anyone would desire you romantically/sexually