20 Things Every INFJ Wishes People Knew About Them

20 Things Every INFJ Wishes People Knew About Them | There are some things only infjs understand. From the way they communicate to their decision making skills, often times the INFJ misunderstood misfit gets misconstrued.
So, what are some of the things infjs want people to know about them? What are the qualities of this rare type that only true infjs know? And what makes the introverted INFJ so misunderstood in the first place?
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TIME STAMPS:
00:00 - INTRO
00:48 - Number 1: They talk.. Just ask them about something they’re interested in
01:18 - Number 2: Their answers are rarely black and white
01:45 - Number 3: It’s difficult to conversate with people who aren’t able to consider other perspectives
02:10 - Number 4: They can be brutally honest but they mean no harm
02:40 - Number 5: They’re actually afraid to share their deepest thoughts
03:05 - Number 6: They do have a silly side beneath their seriousness
03:31 - Number 7: They often contemplate what the end picture looks like
04:04 - Number 8: They are terrified of hurting feelings
04:39 - Number 9: Money isn’t a key focus in their lives
05:07 - Number 10: They always have underlying stress, and without it they don’t feel like themselves
05:44 - Number 11: They have a surprisingly short social battery
06:21 - Number 12: They are brain-picking type
06:51 - Number 13: They will dive deep if you let them
07:14 - Number 14: They actually want to be appreciated and acknowledged
07:49 - Number 15: Without passion, they have no direction
08:22 - Number 16: They love one on one time
08:46 - Number 17: They aren’t materialistic, but they’ll get the best of the best
09:12 - Number 18: There is always a method to their madness
09:53 - Number 19: They are constantly questioning their purpose
10:22 - Number 20: Their dissatisfaction is their biggest motivator and their worst enemy
10:57 - Comment Question!
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[@PSYCH-O]

Hey PSYCH-Os!👋 *So, what do you wish people knew about you as an INFJ?* Comment down below 👇

[@raguramansureshbabu908]

You have a psychic ability to analyze and describe people as some kind of theory or algorithm! And it's terrifying and satisfying at the same time when they are 100% true!!

[@SkyTorchFilms]

Isn't it funny that we are this easily readable by years of research. It is quite a splendid job don't you think? Can't we appreciate that human evolution has come a long way and that this kind of psychological development showcases that though we are unique in our experience, our experiences are intertwined in ways we can't fathom. Unless you can fathom it. That's the funny thing about INFJs

[@annaleabrown4588]

If I am actually interested in you as a person, and want to know you on a deeper level, you should take that as a compliment, as I'm very selective, and that means there is something in you that intrigues me.

[@PSYCH-O]

Yes so true!

[@c_mendes]

Exactly, this is so true, I couldn’t agree more. There aren’t very many people that I want to get to know deeply. I find when I do meet someone like this, it’s hard for me to stop thinking about them. Does that happen to you too?

[@annaleabrown4588]

@@c_mendes Absolutely

[@annaleabrown4588]

I wonder all the things about them. I want to know all the things.

[@c_mendes]

@@annaleabrown4588 🙌

[@nonitas6695]

😂 it’s true… we’re wired differently 🫣🤭 🙇🏻‍♀️

[@Morningdovie]

I hate chit chat 💬 😂😂😂it’s so boring and draining like I expect intelligent witty conversations but I get basic like you’re beautiful it’s like paint drying 😊

[@PSYCH-O]

Haha yes! Intelligence and wit is a must to keep the INFJ even minimally engaged 😆

[@PardusRain]

I would say, that I offer insight to those I know but it should never be mistaken for condescending. I am modest even if I know myself well.

[@travisfisher2334]

Wow lol i almost wish this could be a training video for people to be around me, title definitely fits, especially with intimate relationships, i pretty much require someone who isn't willing to hold anything back because every time they do i am perceived as trying to be manipulative and controlling which isn't it at all, and it's difficult to articulate that to someone who is so guarded already

[@bethiciaprasek9415]

That I have invested significant time in this decision and I want what is best for everyone, including you. Right now I am on vacation and am having a difficult time not responding to emails, etc. but I know I need to let my backup people handle things in their own way.

[@HillbillyHippyOG]

#8… I’m not always terrified of hurting someone’s feelings. As a Scorpio and INFJ, I’ll give you the truth gently to begin with, but when a giant ego can’t hear the message, I am ok with poking some holes in it with much sharper words. ✌🏼

[@sandramoreno6043]

BINGO! A scorpio and INFJ also!!!!! Not easy to DEAL!!!!

[@daddychill7776]

Sometimes there’s a deeper reason for these people to keep lying about something. A lot of times, it’s there way of saying that it’s none of your business. If they keep lying about it, i just humor them and change the subject. If they lie again about something else, i just don’t talk to them much.

[@annaleabrown4588]

The older I get, the more I am this way. DGAF... ish. I still hate to hurt people, but I realize more and more that I'm not hurting them; I'm holding up a mirror. If the truth hurts, then fix it. The truth of myself hurts me everyday... until I finally decide to fix what needs fixin. Taurus here. So being that and an INFJ is loads of fun. And I have 2 children... that are Scorpios.

[@Madeline11.11]

NO WAY YOURE A SCOPIO TOOOOO?? i need to know your birthday, mine is special to me because i feel it holds spiritual meaning. it’s 11/11/1998

[@Madeline11.11]

@@sandramoreno6043 ANOTHER ONE NO WAY

[@EMichaelBall]

10:52 “A dissatisfied INFJ is nothing to be alarmed by” - Unless you’re married to ScarJo in Marriage Story.

[@HBRatTheCrossroads]

Being a libra and infj is a pain due to the balacing everything and indecisiveness gets very difficult a lot of the time and ive found it especially difficult in relationships

[@joshuachase9742]

Definitely sharing this one. I wonder if those people who are constantly saying they want to know me better will actually watch it or bother to act on it if they do.

[@PSYCH-O]

Yup, it couldn't be put in simpler terms.. so at this point they can do with it what they will 😅

[@Taurusboy07]

Wow. This is very true. This channel never disappoints. Most of everyone always applies to me.

[@PSYCH-O]

Thank you for the feedback!! 🙏

[@normanschmidt8389]

Thank you. To answer your question: I wish people could know before they meet me is that I'm not so different from them. The biggest difference is in how I use my mind. It is not equipped with special features that no one else has. The difference is what we do with what we have.

[@JenGB-yp3te]

I just keep silent most of the time and keep my opinions to myself because I tend to hurt peoples feelings because I don't sugarcoat things.

[@nickjones4114]

Absolutely wow! And the comments below. Where are you people? I'm surrounded by....not me. Therefore I select no one. There should be an INFJ headquarters. Would love to come convo with the brethren in the lobby. Then back to my space to absorb and reflect. God bless each of you. You're welcome at my place anytime...leave the rest behind.

[@andy1971williams]

what i do wish is that people would stop asking my views on politics, religion, the co2 climate hoax, pandemics, vaccines, the economy, governments and pretty much any mainstream subject when they are loaded questions with expected responses that i will trample all over until they go in a huff and blame me for not going along with the masses and just being awkward. if they genuinely want to know my views then that's fine but when they want me to explain myself in one sentence when it has taken a lifetime of observations to come to my conclusions is not on, just because they believe whatever the "black screen GOD" has told them without ever doing any further investigations (like they know best). it pisses me off there, that's my rant over 🙂 thankyou for your time and efforts

[@andy1971williams]

i know this is off topic but i just needed to get it off my chest, sorry

[@PSYCH-O]

Not off topic at all, in fact, this point should've been included lol. Could not agree more, it's all part of 'playing human', a role that most INFJs never agreed to participate in 😅

[@andy1971williams]

@@PSYCH-O very true

[@annaleabrown4588]

@@PSYCH-O Playing Human. That is the most perfect thing to call what we do.

[@annaleabrown4588]

@@PSYCH-O I have to Play Human tonight. And something I realized that as an INFJ I will Play Human on a spur of the moment thing a lot easier than having something planned in advance where I have to Play Human and getting to ruminate about it for days and torture myself with speculation and what if's and how do I look and what do I say and am I going to die inside from idiot talk...

[@user-bu5ye3mr5w]

I wish people knew I was completely safe around children. I love and understand children and teens and want to be friends and have fun with them. This got me arrested on charges of stalking and sent to the county jail, on unproven and false accusations I was a molester, what cost me $35,000 in lawyer and legal fees and I'm only on social security

[@carmenashante2947]

Are you stalking me? Because how do you know my life 😂

[@bonitaclaireloveday-wp9rq]

❤Thank you. Thank you ❤

[@Madeline11.11]

O shit it's 5:55am in the morning

[@milesklein683]

Omg converse not conversate.

[@PSYCH-O]

Same thing 🤷‍♂️

[@annaleabrown4588]

Conversely, I hate when people say something is addicting. Stop it. It's addictive, not addicting.

[@reynard2ki]

As a linguaphile I can completely appreciate this!

[@donnaenglund-pd4vy]

Please “converse” because “conversate” is not a word.