31 things I QUIT to simplify my life | MINIMALISM Lifestyle

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Which would YOU want to try (or maybe avoid) ?!?

[@noraluzcalugas2731]

AVOID JUNK FOOD, Avoid Doughnuts

[@carolynmccammon4544]

You mentioned buying groceries. I have them delivered for a couple of weeks, then I will shop myself so that I can by meat, chicken, etc. I get produce at the Farmer’s Market.

[@watarumiyanari9816]

Soda and so many other things that you mentioned.😃🇺🇸.

[@petergeorge4415]

Soda for good ;) (not drinking much but...none is better! ;)

[@heathern.zapatamba4770]

I want to try your tip of not saving shipping bags and using our reusables more. Also the not trying to wake up early to do things. And clearing out under the beds. And ending the subscriptions. I don’t think I would ever try to do a word doc brain dump at the end of every day and then revisit it in the morning because that just sounds like so much work to me 😂 thank you!

[@cantocant2346]

I stopped storing things under the beds! Once I decided that under my bed was NOT a storage unit, I decluttered until I no longer needed the storage space. Something so simple was transformative for me.

[@kamloopscruiser874]

Yes to the max! I love having clean clear under all the beds. We have a little robot vacuum and nothing stored on the floor helps the robot.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I could pack that space so full! Ha ha! Glad we have both gotten free of that habit! ❤️

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I never even thought about robot vacuums!

[@asleepzz]

It's a good idea for airflow under the bed, moisture gets trapped in the mattress overnight.

[@hikerhobby1204]

Yes, things gather under there. Bugs etc!

[@tracythompson1692]

1. drink tap water 2. dont buy junk 3. cut your own hair 4. dont take samples 5. dont cater to picky eaters 6. grocery shop less frequently 7. say no to more requests 8. do laundry less frequently 9.no ironing 10. stop buying birthday cards 11. less eating out 12. cancel unused subscriptions 13. buy more used things 14. get rid of duplicates 15. stick with known good products 16. spend within means 17. no storing under beds 18. use only nonbreakable china 19. throw out extra plastic grocery bags 20. dont rely on paper calendar for scheduling 21. tap water only 22. no flat stacking clothes 23. small not large purse 24. get rid of unused kitchen gadgets 25. no morning routines 26. decorate for season not holiday 27. no trendy clothes 28. reduce number of throw pullows 29. no to do list 30. dont watch news daily 31. do not compare yourself to others.

[@kevinjoseph517]

eh..tap water....no morn routine

[@florabamabelle6413]

Thanks for list!

[@victorkreitner754]

I think watching news on a daily basis is important. My father after dinner watched it regularly, and it was my time to be with him as a kid. Yes, we all know it's depressing, but to be current on what's going on in the world is important. Again, I was a kid long before social media came along so news was a very essential thing back then, also tv wasn't a 24 hour thing back then like today. Also no reality show garbage like you see on every channel today.

[@monamorgan8614]

I have to use a really good water purifier with city water, city water is disgusting🤢I would drink it as last resort of course , I’m not completely stupid lol, but even boiling it helps removed the chlorine smell and taste👍🏻

[@PraveenSrJ01]

Thank you so much for the list 😊

[@bobbiefarrar3036]

I make "care" packages for the homeless with the hotel shampoos; conditioners, lotions, etc. Add a washrag; socks; granola bars, comb/brush to the "care" pkg makes it useful. God bless you and yours.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

That’s a great idea! A blessing to others! ❤️

[@nellautumngirl]

That is so thoughtful, thank you for doing that

[@aliusafee6040]

May The Lords Bless you and yours and send Help when NEEDED.

[@lindadorman2869]

This may seem weird to most people, but I stopped wearing different styles of pants and shoes. I found one style of washable black pants and one style of black slip-on walking shoes that fit and feel comfortable, are reasonably priced and long-lasting. I buy multiple pairs on sale and wear the same style every day, changing only the style/color of tops and accessories. My entire wardrobe fits in one drawer, everything works together and I save a lot of time and money not coordinating outfits or buying items for specific occasions.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Doesn’t sound weird to me! Seems like a great idea! ❤️

[@lindadorman2869]

@@ArrowHillCottage It fits my casual lifestyle since I don't wear dresses, skirts or shorts. And I wore a uniform for work so I'm used to wearing the same thing every day.

[@mariavictoriasalita5273]

​@@lindadorman2869reminds me of how Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerberg and Bill Gates would dress up on daily basis. Can you tell and teach me what are the essential clothes must a woman have in her closet/s and how many of each? I want to downsize the quantity of clothes that I own and be able to fit them in one sportsbag together with other stuff including important documents. Thanks.

[@nmartin5551]

Part of my favorite parts of being in the Army was not figuring out what to wear.

[@sineadhendy3604]

That is a great idea, as are all the tips in the video.😊

[@karenspencer9263]

As a minimalist, really disliking shopping is a wonderful attitude to develop which saves you sooo much money. I hate shopping malls, even a grocery store frustrates me!! I’m glad I’m like this!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Same! I feel like shopping sucks the life out of me! ❤️

[@biceblue7654]

I found grocery shopping more frequently helps cut down my overall food waste. I only purchase what I'll eat within approximately three days. The food doesn't have the chance to spoil or get freezer burn, and knowing I'll have less choices forces me to make wiser initial selections at the store.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Interesting! I suppose that is the concept with some countries who shop at fresh food markets only. They buy what they need just for that day and make the shopping part of their everyday routine. With two (almost 3) teen boys in our house - our grocery bill is rising all the time it seems!!! ❤️

[@cherrycain6425]

I totally agree with you about the news. It bothers my depression and anxiety.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I just don’t understand why it all has to be gloom and doom. Surely there are good things happening in the world! ❤️

[@earthzeroapothecary]

We stopped buying into the commercialization of Christmas and no longer spend $1500 out of obligation. Our young kids, older kids, and family are given cash to buy what they want, but that's it and it's wayyy less expensive. I didn't lie to them about Santa, so they already knew any stocking gifts were from us, but we've eliminated that, as well.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Good for you! I’ve said before that we only do gift exchange Christmas every other year. Some people really hate that idea and think we are being mean to our kids. I’ve found that when the expectation of gifts is taken off the table, we actually all enjoy each others company so much more! ❤️

[@earthzeroapothecary]

@@ArrowHillCottage We've noticed that, too! And they're more inclined to want to help others because they're not preoccupied with what they're going to get. We decided we'd save for a camper instead of buying presents. It's a better investment than toys that break or they don't play with them. We love to camp, so they were willing to pull away from the commercialization, as well, because they're excited about our goal. They thought it was a great idea! And they still got a few things from their grandparents they were able to unwrap. When you think about it, there's always an excuse, I mean holiday, every month to pour money into, to stimualte an economy that doesn't give a crap about us. No, thank you. Hahahahaha!

[@amychen2504]

How do you guys combat schools passing on expectations about holidays? My son wouldn’t know what to expect if not for them!

[@earthzeroapothecary]

@@amychen2504 They learn from home, so they're not exposed to a lot of the traditional schooling. For me, I couldn't put them back in school after 'Rona. I had such a shift in my perception of who we are as humans and what the traditional schooling was doing to society. No other species sends their offspring away for 8 hours a day, ya know? I know a lot of people don't have a choice because they work outside the home, which again, no other species does that. Hahaha! We're indoctrinated and programmed to live in ways that aren't conducive for humanity.

[@maiwurld2578]

I stopped buying decoration of any occasions.

[@trudyhopkins4049]

thanks for sharing such wisdom. What amazed me was that every idea you mentioned, I have also integrated into our lives over the years. although I'm 40-50 years older than you. we seem to be like-minded. Even the way you fold clothes, and the cards - I stopped buying them and began a hobby of making my own unique cards to share. After I retired from teaching, my husband and I decided to simplify our lives further and sold or donated nearly 50 years worth of possessions. We were both collectors of many things so it was a dramatic change when we moved full-time into a 5th wheel RV. We decided to focus on what is really important and pursue the things we love - birding, sharing the gospel, and volunteer work. We also enjoy travel, reading, writing, vegan cooking, jigsaw puzzles- the simple things of life. This small life suits us fine and allows us to have more time to help others. Blessings to you and your family.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

It sounds like you’ve been very intentional and have crafted a life you love! Wonderful! Thank you for watching! ❤️

[@olderandwiser78]

I have to say that I have been doing for many years almost everything you have in your list. I am not a minimalist, but I am definitely frugal. I started to cut my own hair when I was a teen and always cut my children's hair. My husband insisted that I cut his hair as well and I did it for 20 years. My son was in college before he ever went to a barber. I do some seasonal decorating but gave up the tree when the kids left home. Just recently I started to store the shirts, shorts, and slacks vertically and have to say I really like it that way. When I grew up my mother used a wringer washer and hung clothes outside. We had to wear the same clothes 2 or 3 days before they went in the wash. The same towels were used for the full week. Even now the clothes I have worn and are not dirty or sweaty are hung on hooks to wear again. I have 3 levels of clothes, good wear, everyday wear, and gardening wear. Good clothes becomes everyday and everyday is relegated to gardening when they get older. Some things get donated, but most of it ends up in a recycle bag of worn out items. This goes for shoes as well as other clothing. My pantry is well stocked so that I don't have to shop that often. I plan my meals around what is in the freezer, in the pantry, or coming in fresh in the garden. Although I only cook for myself now, I make meals to feed 4-6 and freeze dinners that can be heated in the microwave. I never purchase water, soda, and processed food.

[@hameley12]

@olderandwiser78 That's wonderful! I've been cutting my own hair too for years. I did try to dye it when I was eighteen. I seriously regretted it! I let my hair and scalp heal. Had it professionally done. In the past three years, I've begun caning at home. And making my own salad dressing. Best decision ever! Since I've had 5 glass bottles for a project, I used it all. I def recommend you try caning foods too. It will save you money and time in the long run. If you are not a prepping type of person, it's okay. There are other ways to go frugal. 👍

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Wonderful tip! It sounds like you have been able to find a very healthy balance in your life! ❤️

[@olderandwiser78]

@@hameley12 Canning is very easy to do. I have been canning food for close to 60 years for myself and helped my mother do it when I was a child. For many years we would go to pick our own peaches, apples, and strawberries when there were local orchards. Making applesauce and apple butter is very easy as is making jam. When I had an abundance of cucumbers last year I tried freezing them. They are perfect for using in smoothies. I dry my own dill, basil, oregano, parsley, mint, and thyme. The basil can be used to make pesto and put in ice cube trays to freeze in small quantities. This year I am allowing the cilantro to go to seed, so that I get coriander. The one thing that I have never done is dye my hair. I am 78 and only now getting salt and pepper gray on top. I don't know if that is from genes, eating right, or not using chemicals on my hair.

[@Sketchbook999]

Very well done to you

[@bestbargainfashion5575]

One stand-up comedian said if he went home right now where he grew up the same hand towel would be sitting on the side of the sink in the bathroom. He said all 7 kids used the same towel to dry their hands and he doesn't think it was ever washed because he always saw it there.

[@rachelrachel3214]

Great tips!! You shared some things I haven’t thought of before. Simplifying medicines, toiletries, makeup, and cleaning products has been huge for me! I keep: Vinegar for mopping, cleaning mirrors and windows, my glasses. Baking soda for toilet, laundry, and dishwasher. One bar of soap for everything else including body, face, a little in the mop water, hand cleaning, countertops, etc. I use regular toothpaste. I started buying the $1 makeup instead of the $50 makeup. I have one lipstick, one eyebrow pencil, one SPF foundation, one bronzer, and that’s it. For hair, hands, body, face moisturizer I use jojoba oil. For meds I have Tylenol and cough syrup. I got rid of bandaids. I simplified some clothing (socks) to be more Steve Jobs like, but still have some fun stuff too. I got rid of the clothes and shoes I don’t wear or wore even though I didn’t like wearing. I didn’t buy new so laundry is easier now because there’s less of it. For dishes I simplified to only Pyrex for storage and only 4 bowl/plates… a bowl that is wider and more plate like. I don’t have bowls and plates I have just one dish that is both… kinda like a spork. I have one pan. I got rid of can openers and only buy cans with peel off lids. It’s one less thing to wash and replace and they always break on me. I’m in the process of going through pictures and getting rid of pictures where I no longer remember someone’s name.

[@rachelrachel3214]

I got rid of ALL paper.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Wow! Great list! ❤️

[@tonyp9313]

Cool list.

[@lmshanyfelt]

Doing laundry every day is a life saver for me. I get overwhelmed by the pile for the whole week. Daily laundry also helps me keep all the rugs, throw blankets, throw pillow covers, etc washed more regularly.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

See what I mean? Just because something simplified my life doesn’t meet it will work for everyone! ❤️ glad you found a system that works for you!

[@peggypeters6676]

What????

[@bonnieinthespirit6373]

I just got tired of hearing the washer running. I loaded it 2 days ago , today I UN-Liaded the washer - and threw away the bed comforter. I saw the blanket waiting to be washed. I bagged it. Went to the dump . 4 bags of trash in the dump today. .. came back looking for more to haul off on Thursday. Extra pillowcases, bed sheets more blankets thinking what’s to go next.

[@gardengirl2420]

I did do a load a day as well for years. I would habitually throw one in every morning. It was a FlyLady suggestion Kept my laundry from taking over. But my washer had a much smaller capacity than now. So, I do a one day approach as well to save water.

[@lmshanyfelt]

@@bonnieinthespirit6373 We have two sets of bed sheets, primarily because we have a bi-weekly housecleaner who strips the bed and remakes them with the second set of sheets. If we didn't have a second set, we'd have to wash them all and make everyone's bed after work and school.

[@tinagale7840]

When I was growing up, we ate together as a family at the dinner table. If we didn't like what mom made, we went hungry.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Same. I don’t know why I thought I should cater to my kids when they were little! I think I worried they wouldn’t grow if I didn’t feed them. Now my oldest boys are taller than me! ❤️

[@williamclark1244]

Great video! I already do much of what you have listed: I gave up soda over twenty years ago, coffee over fifteen years ago, I cut my hair myself, I don't bring free things home, I've learned to say no, I don't buy cards at all, I eat out about twice a year, I use trial subscriptions and then cancel if I realize that I'm not going to use them, I don't store things under the bed, I don't use a paper calendar, I don't buy bottled water, I fold my t-shirts vertically, I got rid of kitchen gadgets, I wake up very early but I ease into my day, I don't decorate for holidays but I can appreciate other peoples decorations, I stopped buying trendy fashion and now have a classic wardrobe, I donated all throw pillows for my bed and sofa, I reduced the amount of news and social media content due to toxicity and I try not to compare myself to other people.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Are you like me and don’t miss soda even one little bit?!? ❤️

[@amychen2504]

Which was the hardest/easiest to adopt?

[@hameley12]

William Clark. I gave up on sodas and other sugary drinks years ago, too. A long with meat and any animal-based meals. I started caning foods, making my own iced tea, making my salad dressings, cooking at home, and having only one streaming service subscription. My bf and I have made our own rules. One of them has improved our communication and lessened our stress by 110%. The main rule in the bedroom is no mobile phone or tablets. Respect each other's personal spaces or if we need to hang out with friends. He has guys nights and I have girl's night out. Along with other small rules. Such as taking turns cooking and grocery shopping. It's incredible how much money one can save when you know how to fix things, cook, and clean up. And how our relationship grows as we get to know each other. 😊

[@bonnieinthespirit6373]

That’s great. I did the same. But.. I found more goodies stored. I filled up my house. Now, I’m moving it out. It took up my time, space, & energy. So, now it goes to the dump. I can’t find anyone who wants my goodies .

[@tereniawalti4151]

Yes 👏 to quitting News! This has helped me incredibly with focusing on what is essential in my life and with eliminating SO much distraction. Which is ironic, as News claim to be essential. Turns out they hardly ever are...

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Very very ironic indeed! ❤️

[@PraveenSrJ01]

The news 📰 is mostly negative and frightening

[@eyehatemyjob]

It's all lies and divisiveness anyways. We're not missing anything.

[@PraveenSrJ01]

@@eyehatemyjob I completely agree with you

[@johnclaybaugh9536]

People who don't take in the news won't know what is happening around them. I wonder if that's why my boss doesn't know what the ada is? They missed it in the news.

[@philiptoups5501]

For me, not eating out is a no-brainer. Cooking saves me so much money! I also repurpose and recycle. Thrift stores are a great place to shop. The quality is better than new, and the money often goes to charity. Thanks for the video.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Yes, I just can’t get past the cost of eating out. It’s about 5x more expensive for my family to eat out than to eat at home! ❤️

[@melissataylor8910]

Love all your ideas!! I do a lot of them. I don’t like anything under the beds, I try not to get trendy clothes . The brain dumb helps my mind to shut off at the end off the day. Also I try not to watch news or listen to things that are super negative and I can’t do anything about it. Just need to trust God and remember he’s in control❤️❤️

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Absolutely! No sense in stressing about things we can’t control! ❤️

[@irismartinez5753]

Agree 200%

[@judyeckhart4766]

Thank you! Especially the “no morning routine”. I am not a morning person and I am constantly made to feel guilty about it.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

You’re welcome! I think honestly that the ‘early morning’ has been pushed as the prime through social media…I wonder how many of them actually DO wake up at 5am? Probably some, but maybe a portion of them just do it for the camera. Don’t feel guilty if your optimal time of day is later! ❤️

[@joannanangle4876]

Still have summer winter clothes wear up I've had them four yrs or more trousers skirts slowly wear up then round the home f cleaning not replacing them till I'm down to the amount I want in my wardrobe evening trousers about three pair I have two leggings black that's about right skirts winter two and dresses two summer skirts. 6dresses as I live in hot climate July August pack away bring them out each yr till can't wear then wear round the home so not wasting anything tops always wear up but only rebuy what I would wear a lot I think more of what I wear daily

[@joannanangle4876]

Food vegetables buy frozen fresh once fortnight I don't waste money or food

[@kaceykelly7222]

Wow! If everyone picked even 10 of those to quit, our lives, our society and our earth would improve significantly. Thanks for the time and thought you put into this!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Thanks for watching! ❤️

[@JustCallMeAnnie]

I love when you said that your kids create the birthday cards for their friends. Such a nice touch!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

They are so precious! ❤️

[@DeeNarayana]

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[@BobbiMac08]

I love being able to do grocery store pick up/drive up. It actually keeps me from making unnecessary purchases. When I buy birthday cards or greeting cards, I now get them at Dollar General or Dollar Tree. I refuse to spend $5+ on a card the person throws away. You gave so many great tips and I think our family could implement more of them. We only buy pop on special occasions, gave up TV years ago (we told the kids we could buy a camper in place of TV, then we lost the camper to tornado damage and never got TV back), quit ironing and so many of the things you've mentioned. Thanks for another great video!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I have heard that from people - that they save money by doing grocery pick up since they aren’t in the store to see all the shiny tempting things! Makes sense! ❤️

[@Kate98755]

i do grocery delivery, it’s a service i deserve, i tip well, this helps someone else be employed, i like that…keeps me out of stores

[@r.s.632]

I do most of the things you've mentioned. But I still buy cards 2/$1.29 at Dollar Tree. I get a lot of pleasure out of sending them. Most of my family now is under 50 so they love getting them since not many people send them anymore. I, too, have minimalized holiday decorating. Flag in the window for patriotic holidays and a nativity scene and LED candles for Christmas. I live alone now, kids are grown, so that's enough!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I had no idea that cards were so cheap at the dollar store - a lot of people have mentioned that!! ❤️

[@anng4665]

@@ArrowHillCottage. TJ Maxx sells small card sets next to the Thank You notes. Most are blank inside & are attractive enough to be used for birthdays. Ross for Less sells them as well.

[@megatuanis]

I don't like receiving cards. I don't like the accumulation of them, but feel guilty about getting rid of them. So it's an ever growing stack of cards that usually just have someone's signature on them, nothing super meaningful. That's why I don't give out cards anymore. Even if I write something meaningful, it's more junk for that person to have to store somewhere. I told my family and friends, "If you have cards from me, please feel free to recycle them!"

[@r.s.632]

@@megatuanis A lot of people feel that way and you shouldn't feel guilty about tossing them! (I love going through them sometimes and remembering the people who sent them because they are mostly deceased and I miss them.) If you can't escape the guilt--there are some things I had held onto (usually gifts) that cluttered my house. I took photos of them then put them in the donation box. I can look at them any time I like and remember the sentiment of the giver without all the clutter.

[@andersdottir1111]

Buying secondhand is something I wish I had done more of when younger with a young family. One thing you might like to add to your list is to not put your kids into too many paid after school activities; they are expensive, kids are tired after school and they can do without it. Not accepting too many requests on your time or pocket is a good one; I rarely go to anything anymore as I find I go/do to please the other person but I don’t please myself- not doing that anymore. I don’t accept wedding invitations anymore (except my children) as they are a 10hour bore-a-thon, nor do I go to funerals except very close family.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Oh yes! The after school activities is a big one. That can get very stressful for parents AND kids (if they are in too many)! Good reminder this time of year! ❤️

[@stowie7733]

I love the idea of decorating for the season and not specific holidays (with Christmas being the only one for holiday decor). I quit taking the sample/travel sizes too. I grocery shop every 10-14 days and hope to extend it to 3 weeks soon. I gave my iron and ironing board away years ago. I got rid of all my mismatch dishes and bought a simple white set for 4. On the rare occasions that I have company, I will use paper or plastic wares. I meal plan for two weeks and then only buy what I need for that time period. One thing I do that really helps me is to keep a list of standard household staples - non-people food items only. Everything from kitchen items, vitamins, household cleaners, cat food or litter, shampoo & conditioner, soap, etc.. As I get paid once a month, I check my inventory monthly (or when I realize I am almost out of an item). I can then add those items to my grocery list for my next shopping trip. The list is kept in the Notes section of my phone for easy reference. One other thing I do (because I dislike shopping) is to arrange my shopping list according to the layout of the store. I start with non-food items, then food with frozen stuff last and work my way through the store from the back to the front. It has helped me to get in & out fast. I also go as soon as the store opens in the morning and less people are there.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Great ideas! I am the same way as you at the store…maximum efficiency to get in and out as quickly as possible! ❤️

[@CoftheIsland370]

I like having fancy dishes, but I use them for everyday and I don't fret if one breaks. No, I don't keep extra/china sets. I like every day to be special so, yes, to beautiful dishes.

[@cynthiacrumlish4683]

I love using my china every day. Eating good food from a beautiful dish adds to the nutritional value, I am convinced!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

That’s awesome! If it wouldn’t stress me out so much (the worry of my kids breaking a dish) I wouldn’t mind eating off of fancy dishes myself!!❤️

[@bethzaidasalayo4754]

Doing most of the things in your list! Simple living is so freeing!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

It really is freeing indeed! ❤️

[@loyaltohisthrone7696]

Glad to see someone holding true to what resonates w them and is working best. Love when people let go of ideas just bc they’re popular.

[@susanconnolly2013]

I already do most of your habits! It would be great if you would incorporate environmental concerns. E.g. another to buy or take home small toys or other junk: it's almost all plastic! Or using your cloth shopping bags: no plastic for the landfill. Thanks❤

[@sheilaabrahams1322]

Do #31 first. Don't compare yourself to others. Then the other 30 will be easier to do. Great video!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

That is absolutely true! ❤️

[@elizabethlangheim7214]

I’m one of the weird people who enjoys grocery shopping. I don’t iron. I cut my own hair. I’ve stopped buying soda but I do drink it when I go out occasionally. I stopped using fabric softener, dryer sheets, and never bought dryer balls. My dryer rings when it is done and I take out clothes immediately. A lot of static is from over drying and wrinkling comes from the clothes just sitting there.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

It’s not weird! Everyone has their ‘thing’ :)

[@Yvonne19999]

Thanks for sharing. You are so genuine and natural and it was a pleasure watching your video. Am already doing the following: 1. don't take samples; 2. don't buy birthday cards; 3. eat out less often; 4. no extra shopping bags; 5. removed all throw pillows (my husband too hated them); 6. don't watch news.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Awe, thank you! Great job keeping your life as simple as you need it! ❤️

[@virgierutledge3004]

I stopped coloring my hair. I started at 40 and now at 73, I quit. I love my healthy salt and pepper hair. I do get a cut/style few times a year. My husband begged me to cut his hair for years. I really did not want to but gave in and learned how to do it. He loves it and we love the $savings.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Great job! ❤️

[@lesliegreen1237]

I carry more than 1 purse as I have allergies and need meds just in case. Use a thermal bag so meds don’t overheat in car. I’ll go to smaller bag, it gets filled up, then I add a second bag to carry into store or restaurant. I keep iPad, iPhone, water, extra jacket. I’m always looking for the perfect design. The bags with lots of pockets seem to lend themselves to organizing but can’t see thru them. I’d love a bag with clear pockets & organizers so I can SEE immediately where allergy meds are, an easy place for tissues, pens, magnifying mirrors, note pad as my methods for keeping appts, notes, maybe results needed from one dr to another. There’s eyeglasses, lipstick, floss & soon, Invisalign case. I just don’t see how people carry teeny bags. My asthma inhaler and spacer take up lots of room. Suggestions? 19:25 19:25

[@ArrowHillCottage]

That definitely sounds like a challenge! Sorry I can’t be much help - I’m not much of a bag/ purse lady! I hope you can find something to meet your needs! ❤️

[@cmbooks2000]

Love this list! I've never liked soda/pop. I love water. I do the refill thing too. Using same bottles. Toys...kids learn to use their imagination the fewer toys they have. I used to be addicted to those little hotel bottles and whatnots. Separate meals for family members...realllyyy? Who does that? This is dinner. Eat it or go to your room. People don't call me too often about frivolous things because they already know...Laundry everyday? Doesn't everyone's kids do their own laundry? I hate ironing 6:22 more than any chore. They sell blank cards in bulk and you can personalize them. Subscriptions. Waste of money if you don't use them. It's hard for me to get rid of dupes and stuff I've had since the 80s. Everyone eats off the same dishes here. I always forget to bring my reusable bags into the store. I love old fashioned calendars. I love writing. I got rid of all of my heavy leather bags for lightweight canvas totes. I do whatever I feel like in the morning. Sometimes that's staying in the bed. I do the seadonal decorating too. Never been a fashion, designer, brand label fan. I have 70 pillows on my couch. My husband just doesn't get it. Lists are my salvation. I stopped watching local news and Facebook and other social because it keeps people in a state of fear, worry, hate etc. We have to stop being brainwashed into consuming things especially emotion s, based on marketing. Thank you so much for your amazing, very positive channel

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I think I had almost 70 couch pillows too! 😂 thanks for watching! ❤️

[@dianagutierrez9372]

I no longer store items under my bed. No longer watch the news and many more you mentioned. One thing I still hang onto is my paper calendar. I enjoy my simple life and enjoy hearing about yours! 😊

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Thank you! I hope you have a great day! ❤️

[@karen1351]

Doing a click and collect (that’s what it’s called in Australia) has saved so much money because there are no impulse purchases. Doing this on bulk groceries has been brilliant. If I do need something like fresh bread I will go to my smaller local supermarket. Decluttering negative people (including family) in your life is a must. I think we have all grown up with guilt trips put on us. My circle is very small now that my son has moved out and I am more than happy with that.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Those impulse purchases can really add up! Good for you making the positive changes you and your son needed in life! ❤️

[@janetstraw191]

I also stopped decorating for specific holidays because it just wasn’t fun for me anymore. Then I did like you - I decorated for each season! But this year I’m taking it a step further, and I just use my favorite items (mostly antiques I have collected) and just put a little touch of holiday/season bits on a pretty glass shelf in the bathroom - ‘cause everyone will see them there! (I am quite a lot older than you, so have been doing it for a long time.) You might reconsider ordering curbside pickup. Especially for heavier items. I love the fact that they put it all directly in the trunk and I don’t have to take it down from the shelf, lift it out of the cart, lift it into my car! I let hubby unload it and bring it inside. Done! And it saved my back!! 😅

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I’m seriously considering testing out the online shopping very soon! ❤️

[@janetstraw191]

@davidgreg511 Get lost 😡

[@Foreverfreedom-jl5ji]

I agree with so much you are saying. However - I'm a prepper. Its just so important to have basic stuff for your family in even of emergency. Keep at least 3 months worth of food. My goal is one year. That kind of stuff is worth the space it takes up because it may save your life.

[@tempestsonata1102]

Wow. I've never been able to pile up more than one month's supply. Actually, that was an experiment. I remembered an old compulsory reading about a siege in 1552, found it weird that the defenders could pile up enough food for everyone for several months, so I tried to imitate it, but failed miserably.

[@TamaraJoy7]

Amen to not watching the news! Did that 2 years ago.. after 2 years now I’ve also stopped watching TV almost altogether!… best thing I ever did!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Absolutely freeing! ❤️

[@embr4065]

Every single one of these is good suggestions!! I have adopted most of these with the Christmas one being last. I did haul out all my stuff last Christmas, and after putting it all away last year, I was EXHAUSTED!! I won't be doing that again...ever. just a few festive things will I keep, plus I will need a whole lot less space to store it all!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Yay! Choose the things you love and you definitely won’t miss the rest! ❤️

[@andersdottir1111]

I have a top cupboard in a lounge room wall unit that I store about 10 retro mid-century Xmas items (my kids are all adults); it takes 10 minutes to put them out and 10 minutes to pack away :)

[@MsArtistwannabe]

Our list is very similar. Except I use really nice dishes. It’s something I really enjoy. I know sometimes they get broken. Saving some for using in a mosaic. My granddaughter who is eight stayed with me last night. When I went to feed all my fur babies I didn’t have enough of their dishes so I remarked I needed to go to thrift store to get some new ones. She was puzzled and asked why her mom and I always went to buy things at the thrift store. I had to explain that it was good to use something that was already used because it keeps things from going into the landfill so better for the environment plus it saves money.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

So true! I love thrifting things that I need! ❤️

[@SimplyAby]

I love all the tips you've listed as well as those mentioned in the comments. I've been cutting my own hair and my husband's for several years, have clothes that do not require ironing (but i keep the iron for formal wears), weekly laundry, have an "eat leftover day" once a week to make sure no leftovers are piling up in the fridge, noting staples/groceries in need of restocking for grocery day reference, takes freebie soaps so i wont have to buy handsoaps 😅 limits eating out, and reuses gift bags when giving gifts.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Great list! Simplifying can be fun! ❤️

[@joyceblanchette1272]

Great tips! I do a lot of these already. Decluttering has helped me in so many ways!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Wonderful! ❤️

[@samtaylor6003]

I cant let go of no 9(no ironing), i actually love ironing and find it very calming and theraputic.weird i know.😅😅😅

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I actually can understand that. My therapeutic chore is making the beds! I will never give that up! ❤️

[@Anupamakiran]

I’m glad to know that I follow almost all from the list. Life is beautiful when it’s simple🙂have a good day💐

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I hope you have a wonderful day too! ❤️

[@joanncarlson5762]

Enjoyed listening to you while cleaning today. I love having my reusable water bottles. I never leave home without one. It is too hot in AZ. I am by myself now in my later years and simplifying my life again is working. I lived very simple when raising our kids. We didn't have a large income. Even when I went to work in a law office. I had about a weeks worth of clothes to mix and match. Week-end wear was 2 shirts and 2 pairs of jeans. I bartered for haircuts back when raising kids. Baby sat for the hairdresser. Now, I have very little hair and I do pay for haircuts. I tried cutting my bangs years ago and that was a disaster. Enjoyed listening to you!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Great idea to barter services! Love it! ❤️

[@WilliamFluery]

My wife buys soda water; 1 & 2 ltr size. I got one empty of each size and I make my daily electrolyte water. I’ve used same two bottles for over a year. Yay me!!!!!! 😂

[@stephenbell9274]

Love the way you fold for drawers I do the same makes much easier especially T shirts and pjs. Keeping drawers neat I love.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

It is very helpful to fold that way, yes! ❤️

[@Pushpul.Pandey.PP007]

I bless you for imparting the art of simplicity and frugal living

[@Sharon_Mc]

I have my ' to do list' under a different colour ( for each day ) , in ' drafts ' on my mobile. Not paper lists.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Good idea! ❤️

[@respoogs1]

Great video. I had a tendency to over pack for vacations. Now I pack, then go through it a 2nd time and reduce items, and attempt a 3rd time to reduce what I don't need. It has helped me significantly reduce the weight of my suitcases and camping gear.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Great idea! Just because it ‘fits’ doesn’t mean you have to bring it with! ❤️

[@vincewhite5087]

I do the little ironing we have & laundry & folding. And have always only did it once a week.

[@jhinchey5120]

I started downsizing about 5 years ago when my parents died. They had so much junk and knick knacks. I don’t want to put my kids through that. I think organizing everything is the key. Make sure everything has a place and keep stuff in its place! If I don’t love it I get rid of it. Now if my husband would get on board I’d be set.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

That is a huge gift you are giving your kids! ❤️

[@petergeorge4415]

Bravo!!! And, do not give up! I cheer you on... example is the best of teachers!! And being calmer, happier, financially healthier (because of intentional buying) will go a lonnng way (at inviting your husband to do the same ... Go! Go! Go! :) helene

[@grannygriffin377]

I too have done most of this. But the only thing I would advise you to not do is keeping all your appointments. Etc on the digital calendar only. I done that for several years. That was the only record that I had of past events. Then, all of a sudden my calendar got updated to a newer version, and I lost almost all of my data. I cant restore it, most of it is gone. Now I have purchased a small planner, and I write down all of my appointments, birthdays, etc.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I could see how that might be an issue for reoccurring appointments and remembering birthdays and such. Something to think about! ❤️

[@thinkforyourself-j5v]

Agree. I used to have a free one then they wanted charge me a few years later. I ended losing past appts that I used to keep track of old clients. I did have some records attached to email reminders but it was a pain searching for certain names and dates. Also having that info was helpful when updating a CV. Its good to have it least notebook to keep track. Now I have to rely on google but I believe old info get erased after 2 yrs. Unless you upgrade or buy storage.

[@anielyantra1]

I would encourage you to investigate the carnivore diet (proper human diet). Once acclimated, it is simple to cook and simple to shop. Most of your shelf space and pots and pans are for cooking veggies. It is healthy and will allow you to eliminate meds, creams, supplements, and doctor visits.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I’ve never heard of it! I will check it out. Thanks! ❤️

[@susanclaire901]

That’s very unhealthy. Humans were designed to eat plants.

[@gabriellagrace4734]

YES! Best thing ever!

[@kathleengivant-taylor2277]

Thanx for video. We use some suggestions. However living in Vegas we do not drink tap water. It’s simply too hard of water. We use re fillable bottles which we wash after each use before filling at water dispenser at grocery store. It’s 1.00 for 3 gallons of water not that bad. We don’t drink soda. We don’t eat out but once every couple of months if there is a good special too take advantage of. No Starbucks coffees or similar out. I make coffee at home and buy flavored creamer at store. It’s much cheaper and just as good. We cut and color are own hair. We repair old items that are fixable instead of buying new. We also buy second hand clothes in good condition. As far as plastic grocery bags we use those to line small trash can for used cat litter that is taken out daily. Also do use them for trash can liners in other small trash cans in appt. We eliminate as much clutter as possible mainly because we don’t have a lot of storage room in this appt.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Great job simplifying your life! ❤️

[@thinkforyourself-j5v]

A good filter or filtration system is a must. The water is kind of not or barely drinkable in the desert.

[@KC-dr3cg]

I bought light weight clothes so that I can hand wash all.laundry daily. If the weather is colder we wear more layers so that we can hand-wash everything easily I hang everything on hangers to air-dry I use hand towels instead of bath towels possibly once every 6 weeks I might run the washing machine

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Oh wow! ❤️

[@ladyradiana]

You mentioned Corelleware and of any kind of item used everyday it is a gamechanger. I have used Corelleware ever since I lived in my first apartment and won't have any other kind of dishes except for my beautiful china for special occasions. There is nothing that can beat corelleware dishes. My first set was white but through the years I've had different patterns but I juyst love how thin they are and hoiw easy they are to stack and how easy they are to air dry in the dish rack, not to mention how lightweight they are. I consider other everyday dishes and bowls to be boulders and just tpp heavy to deal with. I've been sold on Corelleware for54 years. I'm new to your channel and I know I'n going to learn a lot. Thank you so much. God bless.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

They are SO much easier to manage! I look back and feel shocked at the heavy stacks I used to deal with! ❤️

[@gwenj5419]

I agree totally with the meals. I used to tell my family, 'I'm not a short oder cook'. They were always allowed to choose not to eat something or get themselves something else. I'm working on getting rid of soda.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Meal time was always such a struggle - and I wanted it to be a time of fellowship for the family. So much happier now that we can just enjoy our food, and each others company! ❤️

[@gwenj5419]

@@ArrowHillCottage I think you came up with a great solution. With 3 picky kids and a picky husband, it would have been really hard for me to find things they all liked.

[@anng4665]

Haha, I used to say the same thing while I struggled making an alternative dinner for my persnickety son. While the rest of the family ate spaghetti, he refused to eat noodles with spaghetti sauce. So he ate a hamburger patty and buttered noodles. Wow, I am old. That was in the 90s.

[@gamerperson9545]

My declutterring journey was simple and saved me tons of money, I simply stopped buying stuff and used up all my things. My journey is over and it has made me a mindful buyer.

[@JD-72191]

My mother taught us to fold our own clothes at an early age. I can’t even picture my mom folding my clothes as a child. Teaching them early is a good skill and teaches them how to be careful with looking through their clothes. I know so many adults that never fold their clothes because they never learned the value of storing their clothes neatly. Make it easy on yourself and teach them to fold their own clothes at an early age. You’ll free up a lot of your time.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I promise that they DO know how to fold clothes ❤️

[@Ms.MD7]

Girl before you even mentioned Corelle plates, I was already thinking that 😂 I grew up witg them but my family had a design on it. Once I became an adult and was able to get my own dishes, I bought everything Corelle in winter frost, NO patterns 😂

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Ha ha! ❤️

[@Christine-zk6hk]

Gave up soda, much better for my health. Not giving up paying for haircuts, I have naturally curly hair and it needs to be cut right or it's a mess. How do you get enough produce to last? I need to go to the store at least weekly for fresh produce, if nothing else. I use Corelle dishes that I've had for years. With arthritis in my hands I tend to drop things, so unbreakable is best for me. I rarely use a purse at all. My phone, credit cards in a holder on the back of the phone and I'm good to go normally. Only have 2 pillows on the couch, both of which I made.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I usually buy a wide variety of produce and use up the things that are more fragile (broccoli or berries for example) and then keep the apples and carrots for week 2. Most of our produce is kept in the fridge and lasts a little longer because of that as well I think. ❤️

[@joaniem3817]

I needed to hear this today. I’ve been struggling for some kind of order. I spend too much time listening (not watching, for the most part, so I do get some things done ) divisive YT videos that just get me riled up. I need to take a step back and start focusing on me and higher priorities.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I can fall into that trap too if I’m not careful! My new go-to while working has been classical music! It’s so uplifting! ❤️

[@heathermoreland6015]

I’m totally with you on ironing, I only iron when I’m sewing, and then I’m happy to do it because it allows me to creat something cute. I’m going to watching your food system video next, I’m truly interested in simplifying my life in this area too. Thanks for the great ideas.

[@cynthiacrumlish4683]

I am one of those weirdos who loves ironing! Many of my summer clothes are linen so ironing, a meditative activity, keeps me from looking like a slob! Stopped coloring my hair which saves many hours in the chair and lots of $$$$$$ though I still go to the salon for a trim every three or four months. Do not trust myself with shears on the wild Irish hair! Never was a big soda drinker and cannot remember the last time I bought any. Food shopping is a pleasure for me. Lots of farmer’s markets here so buying fresh several times a week is best. Just what the house needs so nothing rots in the back of the fridge. (Also found something called Vegibag which preserves greens better than anything else.) Eating out is nearly nil. Never sure what kinds of oils they use, most veg oils are pretty unhealthy and it is cheaper for restaurants to use canola (yecchhh!) than premium olive. Cooking at home for the win on many fronts. Do not own a car. No paper towels or napkins which are pretty much of a drag on the planet. Using cloth rags which can be laundered. No wrapping paper either as I learned how to wrap gifts in fabric from the Japanese. Sometimes the wrapping is also part of the gift, such as a scarf. Morning routine is as gentle as possible. Some say how we enter the day mimics the first hours of an infant’s life so it is a nice way to be daily reborn. Thanks so much your generous videos!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I absolutely love these! Great ways to simplify! I have been wanting to try the Japanese wrapping of gifts. I like the idea of the wrapping being part of the gift itself. ❤️

[@cynthiacrumlish4683]

PS Buy Nothing has been great especially when donating items.

[@gardengirl2420]

As a mom who is done with raising my kids. I wanted to see what you recommend for families now. I found myself agreeing with EVERYTHING you do. Because I did the EXACT same things through those 18 years. Just an extra tip about carrying a purse. I discovered that only using a crossbody utility purse for everyday was the way to go! I didn’t have to worry about losing it or having it stolen from a cart.

[@lmshanyfelt]

I have a phone case that closes and has a few slots for cards and cash. I generally just need it and a set of keys. If I'm wearing something without pockets, I grab a small crossbody, just as you mention, to drop them in.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I’m thinking I will be ready for an even smaller bag soon! A crossbody style is a great idea! ❤️

[@valmaigesler3839]

Mo

[@scottguitar8168]

I can't believe how many of those 31 things that I already do. When your kids grow up and move out of the house, that greatly minimalizes your life. It strange to clean your house and it stays that way. Debt adds stress so we stay out of debt, no house payment, no car payment, etc. We do use our credit card and charge everything, then pay it off at the end of the month to avoid interest but usually get several hundred dollars a year back for using it. Every now and then we go through our household inventory to donate or throw away things we haven't used in a while.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

The debt one is a good one! We became consumer debt free (we still have a mortgage) about 4 years ago and it has really simplified our lives! ❤️

[@michellepate5612]

Great tip! I’m a fan of a brain dump each month, no iron, and not keeping up with fashion trends. 😊 I fold my clothes vertical, but even more simple for my kids is letting them keep up with their drawers and I help with a seasonal clean out and organize. Not so pretty to look at, but one less thing to keep up with. I keep wanting to tighten up with meal rotation- definitely top of my to-simplify list!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Thanks for watching! ❤️

[@carrieschnug9830]

Thank you! You move right along in the video! Made your point quickly with out too many words! Loved it! Got me thinking about a lot of things.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

You’re welcome! I appreciate videos that get to the point - so I try to offer them as well ❤️

[@soumiabenrochd1396]

It's funny when you talked about letting go of haircuts to save money, because in my country (Morocco) it only costs the equivalent of $4 for a haircut along with brushing. 😊

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Oh my goodness, haircuts and treatments are so expensive here! Multiply that times seven and it adds up fast! ❤️

[@nattyophelia7879]

A haircut here where i am costs $40+ tip! I cut my own hair and my husbands and kids hair. I do get my hair colored professionally though, i feel like its one of the few things i do for myself as a mom of 7 that makes me feel good!!

[@soumiabenrochd1396]

Wow, that's incredible! Here there is no tip, you just pay the haircut.

[@Janey234]

I cut our families hair for 37 years and I still cut husbands hair. Our adult son received a nice expensive cut and one cheaper cut that was awful. He decided a good ✂️ and free was better, and gets one right after dad...lol.

[@RTAV108]

Once again I say, you are the most sincere and hardcore minimalist I have come across on YB. Highly celebrated minimalists have decluttering videos every now and then, that makes one wonder how come a minimalist would keep on accumulating stuff so often that needs getting rid of?! But you are different, you are living it to the tee.. 👍👍

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Clutter can definitely creep into my life too, especially during a busy season - but we try to stay on top of it on a regular basis so it is never a gigantic issue! ❤️

[@rebeccaiodice2184]

All of these items I have already did and some I still do others just didn’t work but I am not as intense about them. Grocery shopping, because we eat more fruit and veggies than other items we found we wasted a lot of money because they would go bad. So now we basically shop about twice a week for produce. The stables are maybe once a month. We allow the cupboard to get really bare. Great video! Thank you for sharing

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I imagine the grocery frequency would vary a lot from family to family! Great job figuring out what works for you! Thanks for watching! ❤️

[@catsakae1430]

I think its crazy one of your points was doing laundry every day as someone who has been trying to do it everyday because I can't stand looking at the dirty laundry and folding one load every day is easier for me than 8 loads once a week😂

[@ArrowHillCottage]

See, that’s exactly it! Just because something simplified my life doesn’t mean it will for everyone! ❤️

[@virgierutledge3004]

I love candles. However being a senior now, I only use battery candles in the house. I do have one by my walk-in tub but I blow it out as the water drains. Be safe.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Very true! ❤️

[@meghnaphillips8172]

Loved your video! I didn’t expect anything new from your video however I was pleasantly surprised. A lot of things really resonated with me which I am going to implement 😊

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Awesome! Thanks for watching! ❤️

[@yolandagray-rozier6912]

This was great! I have also found it helpful to assess your bills periodically. I got rid of cable tv and a landline about 15 years ago. I just use the TV apps, but there are many ways to view other channels. If you have a cell phone you do not need a landline. Also, newspapers are very expensive, and it is cheaper to get news online. You may have to pay a small fee for other prescriptions, but it may be $10.00 compared to 200+. We constantly must reassess what companies charge us.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Yes! It’s a constant reassessing! ❤️

[@traveler320ak7]

I cha fed my insurance company a few years back and save almost $2000 a year.

[@workinprogresssince1974]

Our lives sound really similar in many respects, except I don't have the kids to juggle. I have enjoyed simplifying my life, financially, stuff wise, mentally and routine wise. It makes for a much easier life and I feel calmer and have a much better work life balance. More tech, more stuff, and more gadgets actually makes life more stressful, not easier. The only thing I don't do is use a dryer, because a) I can't afford one and b) I couldn't afford to run one. I find hanging garments on hangers to dry near an open window or in a well ventilated space is cheaper and also reduces the need for ironing.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Someday I would like to get a clothes line! Wouldn’t work for me in the winter months…but there is nothing like line dried clothes! ❤️

[@GruntProof]

Outstanding

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Thank you! ❤️

[@forbiddencue1101]

Your shared videos are always on point🤙

[@chelongogan3904]

Good idea 💡 about organizing clothing in drawers folded and neatly. For socks and underwear too. Great 💡 kids to make greeting cards / birthday cards for their friends... Have a blessed Summer

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Thank you! I hope you have a wonderful summer also! ❤️

[@maiajanashiasmith]

I started grocery delivery during Big C. And it's so convenient. Walmart has organic produce and you create list and literally takes 5 min. To order same produce off the list!!! Live it. I used Aldi and Pick up at Food Lion. NC resident here.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I’ve had many commenters suggest that I should give it a try! I think I might! ❤️

[@bakhytgul4457]

Wow, Angela, we resemble on so many points you mentioned. The one thing I do differently is I order grocery delivery - simplified my life hugely 😅 I agree on not wearing trendy clothes. I can add that I also drastically minimized my makeup - only a liner and a mascara for my eyes, that's it :)) Instead I invest my time and money in healthy food and physical activity - gym, hikes, biking that is. This is for my health; and as a bonus helps keep my body fit and my complexion fresh - which none of clothes or makeup can do, I believe. Thanks for the video! Much love from Kazakhstan ❤

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I’ve heard a lot of people say they really like the grocery delivery/pick up! And I agree with you on prioritizing keeping yourself healthy over trying to ‘look good’ ❤️

[@monicacreates]

I do, or don´t, a lot of these things too. I´ve found so much more peace not listening to the news with all the negative that you get to hear. During the pandemic so many were so stressed after listening to all the statistics every day and it didn´t help them one bit knowing how many new victems there were from day to day, but they still insisted doing it.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

It was around that time that I realized just how much the news was draining me, and decided to stop! So much happier now! ❤️

[@kimrdrenth]

Good tips except for the self hair system. My hair is way too difficult to manage so the salon is my best friend.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Totally get that! ❤️

[@cantocant2346]

I got rid of the dresser in my bedroom and now have a beautiful antique chest-of-drawers instead. I keep my wardrobe small by only using the chest for my clothing.

[@goodenoughgirl8102]

I found this beautiful blue stained desk armoire thing at a thrift store and now I use it for my tv and “chest of drawers.” Lol. (I know. Yes. I have a tv in the bedroom but I also love how I can close the doors on it and not see it when it’s not in use lol). Wasn’t hard since I decluttered and all seasons of folded clothes fit in there along with misc items like winter accessories.

[@cantocant2346]

@@goodenoughgirl8102 That sounds wonderful! It makes me so happy to have a small wardrobe in a beautiful cabinet. Everything feels more special that way.

[@goodenoughgirl8102]

@@cantocant2346 Oh yes. For sure! I just love laying on my bed looking at how “quaint” and cozy it all is lol (also I have solid blue blackout curtains and this smaller cream furniture thing with fake tulips in a vase on top, so it’s like a French country boudoirs vibe. I’m sure yours is gorgeous!

[@ajd6627]

I think I already do most of your suggestions. This has happened gradually rather than a conscious effort. My favourite ones are NO IRONING and being able to say no. I always thank people for invitations, wish them well but firmly decline. It took a while before I allowed myself not to be persuaded (manipulated!) but I have it down to a fine art now. I should try to follow your example of not immersing myself in news. I gave up watching TV news decades ago but replaced this habit with news on the Internet. Thanks for a great list. As usual you are calm and concise! Just what I need in my life. Thanks.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Sometimes the requests really do feel like manipulation, I agree! Great job standing firm when your answer is no- and not what people want to hear! ❤️

[@crystalplunkett5333]

I think you would really like grocery pickup. I met a woman who worked in that area. I was telling her how impressed I have been at the freshness of the produce. In my experience, I get MUCH better fruits & veggies thru pickup than I see in the store. She explained that at my local grocery store (and I guess others) they have a separate stock of produce in their area to pull from, which gives them a fresher stock to offer you. I have only shopped this way for a couple of years and I love it. It saves so much time and I spend less on impulse items, also.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Oh that’s very interesting about the produce! ❤️

[@kamloopscruiser874]

We do a once a week grocery pick up. Sunday afternoon I plan a menu, check my grocery list where I jot down what we are close to running out of and make the online grocery order. 5-10 minutes max. We mark no substitutions on the order and take a quick inspection as the grocery packer loads it into our van. They are usually perfect.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

That sounds like a great system! ❤️

[@hereandabout]

. i like all your suggestions . and i keep a real fork in my purse in case i need it in the coffee shop or food court which i frequently visit because am a senior and have lots of time . the tip not to buy small decorations like little figurines etc. is usefull because i did spent unnecessary money on them . the same with greeting cards .

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Thanks for watching! ❤️

[@cynthiaakacyndsmith6539]

You are singing my song. I have managed this way for many years. As the kids have gone on to their own way, I have gotten worse…. I need to get back to streamlining things again. I just subscribed. Thank you!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Blessings on your journey of streamlining and simplifying! I know the reward will be well worth the effort! ❤️

[@sharonp.6505]

Walmart grocery pickup has made a VERY significant impact on our budget. I also never thought I would be happy with someone else picking out my produce but honestly, this has not been an issue at all. We've set a hard cap on weekly groceries of $70 (this includes non food items as well). I spend the whole week constructing my list online. Adding and subtracting items daily to make sure the total stays under $70 for the week. We got the Walmart credit card which pays 5% cash back on all online orders. We're getting about $15 a month cash back. The balance is paid automatically from out checking account every month and cash back applied at that time. It is so convenient to just drive up, open the tailgate and sit there while the associate loads the bags into the car. Our grocery bill has literally been cut in half and it saves us hours of time over the month. We're currently on a "scorched earth" budget to cash-flow a big project so all of the little wins add up in a big way over time!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Oh I remember the scorched earth meal planning back when we were trying to get out of debt! Great work keeping your grocery budget in line! That category can easily get out of control if we let it! ❤️

[@blujeans9462]

I actually do almost all these things already (except the hair cutting - oh my! I know I would never be able to cut my own hair with any level of coordination! But I only go about twice a year - so no issues there). The one thing that I am forced to do, because it's a state law, is no more plastic bags from any store. I actually get the 'contraband' from a friend from out of state when he visits. Although I like using reusable bags for shopping, I use those throw away bags more than I realized...like the day before trash day and there is no room in the kitchen bag for anything else; I'll hang a plastic bag up for the last day's trash rather than use a full sized trash bag. I prefer all trash be gone on trash day! :-). Also, when traveling and want to bring boots along, I prefer to put them in plastic bags rather than purchase a bag just for the few times I may need it, maybe once every few years.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Yes, I do still keep some of those bags because they are handy…I just don’t need a million! Maybe I should send them your way! Ha ha! ❤️

[@stacyallen4535]

I quit ironing many years ago, gave up bottled water and got a water filtration pitcher, buy whatever I can from Goodwill or marketplace. I can't (won't) give up professional haircuts, pop or weekly shopping.I will try to stay with the same beauty products and I will get rid of 1 item every day. Thanks for all your help.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Wonderful! ❤️

[@lisabynum7943]

Love your videos. Would love to see your list of meals in your family meal rotation.

[@Nanatracie]

Yeah me too x

[@ArrowHillCottage]

If you click on the meal plan video in the video description, I have links to all the meals, plus recipes, plus grocery lists linked in that video! ❤️

[@marthaC495]

Thanks for these tips! I agree on almost all of them. I only drink coffee and water. I recommend buying a Zero Water Pitcher/Filtering system... Reasonable price; I've used mine for many years, just replace the filters when needed. The water tastes so good! Yes, I use my thermos water bottle at home and in the car. No more soft drinks! I don't own an iron. I only own minimal clothing pieces. Congrats on all your ideas!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I’ll have to look into that filtering system. Thanks! ❤️

[@Thehappybirder]

Thanks for sharing. I enjoy listening to people’s lifestyle simplification stories. I like root beer so I buy Zevia. It’s basically root beer flavored water. My ex-wife would bring free stuff home just because it was free. It was frustrating. I go grocery shopping once a month. I like ironing. I essentially pay cash for everything. I put it on the credit card and pay it off every month. I earn travel rewards on that card. I found stainless steel plates and I have been using them for 3 years. Technology has been a help for this minimalist. I dress practically. It needs to have function. I am a spend a lot of time outside so I like have pockets for the things I like to have while I’m outside. I don’t watch the news either. I don’t have cable tv.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Thanks for sharing how you have simplified your life as well! I like seeing the different choices we all make, and what works best for other people ❤️

[@Ozarkmountainoutback1]

Loved your list! I would love to say I'm a minimalist but sadly I'm not. However I'm going to implement some more of these!

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Thanks for watching! Blessings on your journey of simplicity! ❤️

[@jamiegibson2595]

I prefer the term essentialist to minimalist. Paring down to what every individual feels is essential in their life makes it less likely that people have to conform to someone else's idea of how to live. All of us can find great suggestions in these videos.

[@Rositasparks]

Great advice especially the soda 🥤

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Thank you! ❤️

[@pennysara9814]

I have loved having groceries delivered every two weeks, even though it involved a monthly fee. It has been so quick and easy to shop from a list, avoiding the impulse buys and the health risks of mingling with other shoppers. However, just this week the store has increased the minimum spend for each shop, so I will no longer be able to use it. Very sad! I will try the pick-up option which someone here has mentioned.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Oh that’s a bummer! Hopefully the pick up option will work for you just as well! ❤️

[@ashleighdavis7365]

Would love to know how you only grocery shop every 2-2 1/2 weeks? We run out of fresh produce every week so I inevitably have to go every week.

[@ArrowHillCottage]

I buy two different kinds of fruits and veggies usually…week 1 we use the more delicate things like berries …then week 2 we use the produce that lasts longer, like apples and carrots. Besides potatoes and bananas I tend to keep all my produce in the fridge so

[@valstrasser7238]

Fun video to hear tips , some known tried & true & others will definitely try. 2 things I no longer do or purchase #1 dryer sheets ( for the past 2 years I have only used wool dryer balls & #2 hair highlighting or coloring appointments (past 4 years have let hair color be natural & it’s so much healthier ) Two things I will definitely try is stop purchasing bottled water & cut back on news of negative impact . Being mindful of what i consume in my body or input to my brain I have noticed makes a huge impact on my day . Thank you again for the tips ❤️

[@ArrowHillCottage]

Yes! I don’t miss dryer sheets at all either! Thanks for watching! ❤️