8 Style MISTAKES Older Men Make & How To Fix Them | Fashion Over 40

[@sg8475]

A good tailor is your best friend

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely!

[@bsumm1473]

Love the tip about throwing a damp towel in the dryer to relax wrinkles. Keep the tips coming, thanks!

[@40OverFashion]

My pleasure!

[@NoteFromSELF]

Another one is: a dry towel in the dryer helps dry the laundry load faster.

[@TheTejanoJose]

Baggy cargo shorts are perfect - for gardening.

[@40OverFashion]

There you go!

[@JohnBowl14690]

Look man...ok, this dude is stylin, but I still prefer that the guy in the thumbnail on the right. Not as stylin, but who cares? The chain, cap and baggy cargo is fine if you're retired.

[@kjquinn7856]

You are spot on regarding slim fit jeans. About three years ago, I was in a store looking for jeans. The young saleswoman asked if I wanted to try slim fit and I immediately said no, thinking she meant skinny jeans. She suggested trying a pair of regular cut and a pair of slim fit so I could see the difference. It was amazing! The slim fit jeans eliminated all the bagginess in the rear and thighs, tapered beautifully and to my surprise were very comfortable, i.e., not tight at all. I was sold on them immediately and when I told her how amazed I was, she said one of the most difficult things is getting men to even try slim fits on. One last comment: regarding shirts, have a few nice button-up shirts that you can take to a local laundry/dry cleaner and have them done for you (always ask for them on hangers!) Then keep those in your closet, ready to go for when you are going out to dinner, etc. It doesn't cost that much and it really stands out when your shirt has a nice crisp look.

[@40OverFashion]

Very nice! Thanks for sharing!

[@Andoy12]

Great idea with getting shirts done at the laundry. They come out nicely; i have a hard time ironing mine, never look great.

[@peterredit1305]

Keep up the great work Johno. I’m 61 in April and can’t stand baggy cloths, love wearing my shorts…👍 Take care 🦘

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for watching Peter!

[@johnwollschlager9827]

The wet towel in the dryer with wrinkled clothes does work. I also put trousers in the dryer immediately after wearing them to relax the fibers before placing them on a hanger. This is more proactive. Dressing out of the clothes hamper rarely turns out well.

[@Mike----]

Hi John, I hope you’re well. The tip about wearing collared shirts to hide dad bod is gold. 👍

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@michaelkearney7923]

Speaking about finding the right cut or style of jeans, I made a trip into the city and went to the Levis flagship store. I was able to try on a bunch of different styles of jeans and found, for me, the tapered athletic cut was the best fit for me. Now I can order them online with no hassle and know I’m getting my best fit. Well worth the investment of time one time.

[@habl00pep]

As someone who did it I can spot people looking tired who wear loose fitting shorts n t shirts even in winter for a reason, men and women. You can spot others that are caring 24 hrs for someone that are wearing a certain outfit/uniform where you are dressed but loose enough to enable you to snatch sleep where you can but dressed enough to jump up in emergency or just when required. Throw on a hoody to run an errand still kicking shorts even in a snowstorm. In A way you have given up or paused your own life as your full attention is in someone else’s life whether it be full time care or palliative care. It’s a look how they dress or carry themselves and a look on their face.

[@The7Portals]

This is all so true, "the guy that gave up on life". That hit home, and thank you for being honest. There's a lot to reflect on here.

[@40OverFashion]

Appreciate that! Thanks for watching!

[@JohnnyJoker-s9d]

Mixing patterns is one that I see a lot of guys messing up. Instead of sticking with just one. Good video.

[@paul0wen65]

Good advice as always. I see the given up look all the time. I have a co-worker who has: jeans that don't fit, shirts almost threadbare (one of our female co-workers told him to get new shirts!), and the cheapest shoes with holes at the big toe after so many hours of abuse. I don't buy pricey clothes for my job due to the chemical exposures but I do make sure they fit and replace the worn out items asap.

[@luciusverusluciusverus3082]

Straight fit is better than slim, I believe, for many older men, thanks for sharing

[@brainyak7408]

I'm basically wearing the same stuff I wore in the 80s. I like to think I am creating current trends, as trends keep going backwards. I'm both behind and in front at the same time! Haha

[@40OverFashion]

Ha! Love that!

[@chuckcribbs3398]

Always great advice!

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for watching!

[@DesertMav]

I always enjoy the information provided in these videos. I currently have a gray belt with a taupe pair of shoes that actually blend quite well.

[@leonardcroft1467]

Good Morning John Always Enjoy Your Style Videos. Thanks For The Tip’s !

[@40OverFashion]

My pleasure!

[@spicykimchi1]

I'm addicted to those Anson belts - I have five buckles and six belts. I really like the black invincibelt in woven with a gunmetal buckle. The Owner used to have giveaways on Facebook, and he showed that combo once. Stunning. I also have that blue-and-white striped one, and I've gotten quite a few compliments on that. The only problem is that some of the pictures aren't so accurate on the website. I have an olive one that's lighter than the pic., and I have a graphite nylon that's darker than expected. I might have to go with that gray one that you have pictured at 3:58.

[@sunvegeta]

Valid points and very good tips! If I could make a suggestion, specifically for this video, it would be better to show you wearing the different outfits you are talking about. Some of us, myself included, are better with visuals than just doing a verbal explanation. Thank you!

[@stanislas4990]

I agree with everything. However I like cargo shorts and cargo pants , if they are slim fit and not baggy. It could be useful to have several pockets, especially in summer time.

[@chrisb3902]

Great video and tips John!!!

[@ronm6585]

Thank you. 👍🏻

[@40OverFashion]

You're welcome!

[@6lillium]

I absolutely hate baseball caps 24/7... Especially worn backwards. Lots of better options.

[@alfredonieto4412]

Thanks Sir, great simple tricks to make a big difference for the gusy man. Great work. Thanks and blessings,

[@40OverFashion]

My pleasure!

[@jeffringer7527]

Saw a nicely dressed woman with her significant other at a decent restaurant. He was in his late 40’s. He was wearing ripped jeans and a tee shirt that barely covered his belly. I actually felt bad for her. Oh well these guys make it crazy easy for us to stand out. The shoes is spot on. Women love shoes. What do you think they look like at? Answer … YOUR SHOES. Listen to this man - he speaks the truth.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you Jeff!

[@cliffcaverley2377]

I agree to some extent. However, I prefer to wear decent jeans and t-shirts (in warm weather) based on my own personal tastes in places where plenty of others are dressed the same. I dress more modestly in places where others are dressed the same.

[@Nunman1962]

The cargo shorts is spot on! I like cargo shorts, but I'm trying to get them now where they're at least 1 to 2 inches above my knee now and not that wide! I've looked at some old pictures of myself in the 'traditional' cargo shorts, and even at 6' 2.5", It made my long legs look too short! Not a good look at all!

[@KennyPitts]

Stellar as always John, thank you. Wish I'd heard all this as a young man in the 80s. With spring/summer right around the corner, any chance of doing a video all about tanning foam? How best to use it, what are good and bad foams, how to not look orange, how to apply it evenly (how do you do your back?), any side effects, can you still burn with it on, how long does it last, does it make your skin oily or smelly? I'd wager I'm not the only paleface out here wondering this stuff but don't know who to ask lol.

[@40OverFashion]

Good suggestion! Thanks!

[@KS-yb1wq]

John, great content today. You cannot stress the fundamentals too much.

[@pauli6043]

I hang up everything the second the dryer is done - even my (nice good fitting) T-shirts! Wrinkles are a total no-no

[@ericl7842]

John! I remember telling my sister when she went on a date years ago i told her to get rid of the guy if his belt didn't match his shoes.... it was half a joke.. #legend

[@40OverFashion]

Haha!

[@alwayspooh1588]

I have still got the baggy cargo shorts from 20 years ago!!! I love them and cannot imagine getting rid of them. Big legs necessitate the need for shorts like these!

[@JH-kd3io]

Another great video, cheers John

[@40OverFashion]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@agathakourtesis1244]

Thank you for sharing ..

[@anthonynguyen2343]

Good job John

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@tenfodaddy4351]

You live in SoCal; but my God- from Florida to Arizona- the heat is unbearable. I've worn even these new-age "bamboo" and sports materials and it's like wearing Saran-wrap. Loose, flowing, SOFT breathing cotton loose is a go to. Can't win I suppose. Love your channel brother- I can do all your tips basically October through April; after that... ugh.

[@BrianRakowski-c7x]

Great video, John. Couldn't agree with you more. The baggy loose fit has got to go. That style of fit probably goes back as far as the 80s and maybe in the 90s as well. Some people get stuck in a fashion trend from back when they were in high school. The only time I'm wearing a t-shirt is when doing yard work house cleaning or going for a hike. Speaking of Anson belts I had a 20 dollar gift card they'd given me and I used it to buy one of there belt hangers. So I paid only paid 4.99 plus shipping for it. Have a good day John.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@omarcortes5754]

As some people say "the devil is in the details " and honestly doing this doesn't take a lot of time.

[@40OverFashion]

True!

[@robertofont6069]

Negative!? I think you are one of the least negative people. I truly believe that an overwhelming number of us who watch your videos pay close attention to your recommendations. So, I thank you for all you do for us.

[@40OverFashion]

I appreciate that! Thank you!

[@southerngirl773]

Great advise!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@rosesanchez7757]

As an adult woman, I 100% approve of this entire video. LEGEND

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@thetaekwondoe3887]

As an adult woman, I don't even know women's fashion. I don't know how the hell I'd be able to know and approve or disapprove of men's. It's so stressful. Jeans and t-shirts for the win.

[@rosesanchez7757]

@thetaekwondoe3887 it's a matter of personal choice. If that's your jam, so be it

[@Joey4420]

Another great video, as always you are a legend. Do you know anyone that does a good job of review fashionable shoes and boots that are for wider feet? It can be very hard to find nice footwear when you have wider feet. Most of the time I tend to wear less than fashionable footwear sadly for 2 reasons. One hard to find stuff and two, I have two manual shift cars one with a fairly small foot box so easier to just wear what I can drive with.

[@downpeppertreelane387]

Hi John...question about these over the shoulder bags...which would be a good choice, or just skip it? It's kind of like a version of the 90's fanny pack is back!

[@40OverFashion]

Yeah, I’m not a fan of the small cross body bags for men.

[@noName-kn1lx]

Leave your manpurse at home

[@alidabbagh5540]

Talking about athletic tapped, apart from Levi 541 , any other suggestions?

[@40OverFashion]

Tons of brands. Express, banana republic, American Eagle, Revtown…

[@butchoward24]

I couldn’t agree more so many times while going out to dinner with my wife. I will see other couples and the woman will be dress up and the guy will look like he’s going camping or wearing gym clothes or his pajamas what’s up with that

[@40OverFashion]

This is so true! I see it all the time!

[@jameswoodard6271]

For a more advanced rule of sartorial style, match your belt to your trousers. This creates a seamless transition from your shirt to your trousers, instead of wearing a belt that contrasts and looks like a line that cuts you in half around the middle. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@Mike-ck9jz]

What shirt are you wearing John?

[@40OverFashion]

It’s from Nordstrom men’s shop. It’s about five or six years old.

[@JorgeFCR2502]

When it comes to shirts, if your body allows you, whether you are medium or large, choose the slim fit ones. They look like they were taylored.

[@fashionandfrags]

Question, so I just bought a navy pair of sneakers and I have the Anson Belt with the navy and red stripe... Would they work together or is the red throw off the matching too much?

[@40OverFashion]

Yeah, I think it could work really well! I have the same one, but I wear the blue and white stripe belt more often.

[@stephenmorgan5210]

I follow your channel and make sure now that my clothes fit me properly and have been asked who shops for my clothes they don’t believe I buy my own clothes they think I have a wife to help me shop I’m a 66 year old man and been single for a couple of years but still get asked for my number your never to old to learn

[@williamproctor4388]

Shorts are for yard work or any other outdoor activity. I really almost never wear them. I love Anson belts as well. I could never get a regular belt to fit right. A little advice though from experience, get used to the mechanism before you have a bathroom emergency.😂 love your videos. Your advice is spot on 👍

[@noName-kn1lx]

You obviously don’t live where its 100 degrees on the summer and choking humidity

[@40OverFashion]

Very true!

[@williamproctor4388]

@@noName-kn1lx I live in Texas 🤣

[@noName-kn1lx]

@@williamproctor4388 then you are lying everyone wears shorts in the summer lol

[@cliffcaverley2377]

I wear shorts when going out places if I’m going to be outside most of the time during the summer. However, summers are short in Canada

[@fishin4bogey]

Went out to dinner two weeks ago. Me and another guy were the only ones who were dressed half way decent. Every. Other. Guy. Was wearing oversized cargo shorts, XXXL t-shirts, flip flops, and backwards baseball caps. These will be the same guys who cry when their women leave. Gents......stop dressing like you're still 12. Get your asses in the gym.

[@noName-kn1lx]

I see this alot. I actually had a woman smile at me when her slobby man boy wasn’t looking in approval . It was very satisfying lol

[@40OverFashion]

Ha! Very well said!

[@alwayspooh1588]

Key point of the video: Adam Sandler should NEVER be any guy's style icon!

[@40OverFashion]

Ha!

[@05Rudey]

Not lying, Fred Durst was an inspiration for me to dress a bit smarter in my early 20's. Mainly due to the girl I was dating at the time said, dressing like that in your 40's is such a turn off. First I corrected her that he was only 29 - 30 (bad mistake lol), but it stuck. Every time I saw an older guy that dressed a bit like him (big baggy shorts, a bad tshirt thats been around the block a few times, baseball cap worn with the peek at the back or sneakers thats really meant for teenagers) all I saw was a Fred Durst and my girlfriend saying "Turn off" and pulling a funny face. It made me steer away from such garments. Not saying I suited up, just dressed more buttoned up with staple reliable options, like Chukka boots, jeans that fit and Polo's and if I needed a jacket, the good old reliable MA1 green bomber with the orange inner lining (20 odd years on, still might get a new one of them).

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for sharing!

[@JuanDominguez-]

What's the difference between slim fit and modern fit? 🤔

[@40OverFashion]

It depends on the brand. Everybody seems to be different. I might say that modern fit would be a little bit more relaxed than slim fit. Again, depends on the brand.

[@thullraven1]

Fit is king. You taught me that years ago. I'm in good shape. I wear T-Shirts and dark wash slim fit jeans as my defaults, but the fit is good. I do wear sandals in the warmer months, but only with fitted shorts and not on dates. I have cargo shorts, but they look nothing like the monstrosities in this video. They are above the knee and fit better. Again, I don't wear them on dates.

[@katiannb.5195]

Downy has a wrinkle release spray that works well. 😉

[@pjf2193]

I live in Florida so there's no way I'm going to stop wearing t-shirts. Plus you see a lot of guys in tank tops here, even old guys. I don't wear those (unless it's under a shirt) at least a t-shirt will always look more presentable than a wife beater.

[@hejiranyc]

I’m in FL too and wear tanks or sleeveless shirts around 75% of the time. In my opinion, if you are in good shape, you can pretty much much wear anything (neat and presentable) and you will always look better than an unfit person dressed to the nines. Clothes, especially in the tropics, need to be practical above all else and I just cannot fathom wearing long pants, socks and closed toe shoes in this climate.

[@bobb7758]

I too am in Florida. I wear polo shirts or dress shirts to the grocery store or to restaurant. I am always the best dress guy around. Not a high bar.

[@smackroscoe]

Until I lost 40+ pounds, the very of idea of buying & wearing “SLIM FIT” anything would’ve sounded like a miserable prospect. Now? Bro, that’s the first thing I look for when shopping for new gear. Tried on a pair of pants that I liked & found the fit too lose so when I inspected the pants closer, I saw yep, “REGULAR FIT”. Put those pants right back.

[@40OverFashion]

Great job!

[@Atticus75]

Finding chino shorts always tough as I have big thighs and calf muscles which makes my legs look out of proportion. Plus, as an asthmatic I need to have an extra pocket for my reliever pump hence my preference for cargo shorts with the extra pockets. Very occasionally, needs win. The other tips most useful.

[@ralfralf9833]

just wear what you like,something you are comfortable with.these are the only rules!

[@aquicktake]

Using a thumbnail of Adam... savage! rofl

[@roxytocin_216]

What's your opinion on a man in his 40s dressing in an alternative/punk style? Is there still a way he can be edgy but dress more stylish at the same time?

[@hejiranyc]

That only works if you are skinny and have a creative job. That is a sad look for a pudgy accountant.

[@noName-kn1lx]

No

[@roxytocin_216]

@@noName-kn1lx Thanks, that's so helpful... 🙄

[@fitgraphisva]

Easy Peasy…the older a guy gets, the shorter his shorts (including swimwear) should get, and the more tailored or form-fitting (not tight) his other clothing should be. Goes double for guys 5’8” and under.

[@TechnoLawyer]

Cargo shorts do have their place. Have a bunch of kids and taking them to an amusement park? Yeah, cargo shorts can be quite helpful. Taking your wife out to an afternoon meal at a restaurant on a deck outside on a nice sunny spring day? Oh god hell no to the cargo pants.

[@A13JMC]

If I go to kinney or Walmart and the weather is getting warm, it may be cargo shorts, and a tank top. I don't plan on testifying in front of Congress or meeting with the President and the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs any time soon. Lighten up!

[@lukehkhk4341]

3 straps and 2 buckels or you can do 2 buckels and 3 straps 🤣

[@jazzkatt7083]

Standards are a good thing and it also implies discipline. Notice that people whose philosophy is “whatever whenever” also look like it?!! 😮

[@darrenbeachy4567]

Indeed, why is it that the woman has to look great but the guys wear crap with a f&^%ing ball cap, tshirt and cargo shorts?

[@40OverFashion]

Exactly!

[@cliffcaverley2377]

I like to wear decent t-shirts and decent shorts (in warm weather) based on my own personal tastes in places where plenty of others including women are dressed in a similar way regardless of my age. Women have a lot more fashion choices as to what clothes they can choose compared to men. Plenty of women do also wear t-shirts, shorter shorts than men, denim jackets, tank tops and jeans. I dress more modestly in certain places where others are dressed that way such as social functions. It would help if there are nicer looking jeans and t-shirts for men as there are for women

[@Zeerod57]

Hi John, Your comment about women who are dressed nicely while the man they are with isn’t is spot on. It seems to me to be disrespectful to the woman. She taken the time to look wonderful to be out with her man and yet he’s wearing the cargo shorts and dirty sneakers. Come on guys, put in a little effort for your lady!

[@noName-kn1lx]

Its also a comment on the woman who puts up with that…

[@40OverFashion]

Well said!

[@rileyfairchild6873]

Where is the line between dressing well and vanity ? Why am I dressing this way? Is it to be appropriately dressed or show some superiority to others? I wrestle with this. If I'm retired, I like comfortable shoes to get my 10000 steps in,

[@SeanA.Skeete-wd4vi]

😊❤🎉💯 🙏.

[@williamkazak469]

Oh yes, T-shirts are all too common. Too baggy, too tight. Not attractive. A linen shirt is nicer when it is hot outside. Short or long sleeved, linen shirts can be your friends.

[@freddiev125]

Two things I don’t wear: cargo pants & boat shoes! 👎

[@MichaelParamore]

I followed some of your tips, I wore white trainers and dark jeans out, and I was made fun off. Mike, Wales, UK.

[@40OverFashion]

Sorry to hear that Mike, but those people are probably jealous.

[@q-storm767]

I'll say this, John. Cargo shorts or pants are controversial.

[@40OverFashion]

Ha! Yes they are!

[@frederickjohnsen4246]

Shorts? How about leaving this juvenile piece of clothing to hiking, the beach, etc. No one needs to wear shorts - especially in the U.S. where everyone runs into the AC as soon as the temp rises above 55-degrees. Same goes for sandals and flip-flops especially flip-flops; they're shower attire for crying out loud.

[@solarplexus4003]

LOL

[@motorhead4875]

Taylor Swift!😅

[@zackamania6534]

Mfers DO NOT wear flip flops or sandals ANYWHERE that food is being eaten…

[@richardmalig42]

You cant change people......everyone has his likes n dislikes....not everyone has taste in clothes....waste of time....

[@40OverFashion]

Yep. Some people want to change for the better, and some people don’t.

[@cliffcaverley2377]

Yes I choose to wear decent jeans and t-shirts (in warm weather) based on my own personal tastes as long as plenty of others including women are dressed that way. I dress more modestly in places where others are dressed the same. However, I don’t like the idea of forcing people to dress in a way they dislike since we live in a free society

[@noName-kn1lx]

Your clothes should never look like they were wadded up on the floor and you just put them on. We are grown men not 19 year old college kids.second if you wear tshirts and you are obese flabby etc you are highlighting that. Wear a polo instead hes absolutely right

[@40OverFashion]

Well said!

[@us98]

Any man wearing Anson belts should not be giving fashion advice

[@jwiLx]

Oh NO WHEY BRO?!?! With ansonbelts you can do either 2 buckles and 3 straps, or even 3 straps and 2 buckles???? THE POSSIBILITIES ARE CRAZY! ...