5 Life Lessons I Learned from My Mom 🌼

[@lavendaire]

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[@clau_sing_]

My mom is also a single mom and I really admire her strength to be able to raise me while struggling with depression and other issues, she's my heroine ❤️

[@lavendaire]

that's beautiful, she's so strong 💛

[@mariportelaaa]

same! my mum also raises me on her own and has been by my side even though I've been struggling with anorexia and self harm,, sending u much love and strenght

[@nataliemonroe474]

My father being an immigrant taught me the value of working hard and that things always work out the way they are suppose to. I lost him this year in February so everything he taught me I keep close to my heart 💛

[@jazikim7147]

Honey, i'm so sorry to hear that, i hope you're okay now. Don't worry, everything will be okay. Like your dad said , keep going, just doing your best and you will get what you want. Good luck 💜

[@christinastoudemire4100]

Enjoyed ❤❤❤❤Thank you. I was taught to be respectful and failure is not an option. From my mom😊😊😊😊.

[@AnjaliGupta-tu4zs]

The one lesson my single mom gave me is "only run after those, who run after you" which actually means don't waste your love and energy on those who don't value it or respect you and your efforts . 💗 love your videos

[@pandulani]

Sounds good as a concept, but it is very counterintuitive in real life. People tend to run after and spend their time in trying to get those who dont have any interest in them. Because it makes them feel alive. Unless you are highly conscious.

[@Ms4pan]

My mother is a single mother as well and as a teenager I respect her sm. I love her wisdom as well, and I truly respect her because she accepts us as who we are. I learned to be independent, strong, and to never dim your light. ily ur videos sm🫶🏽

[@lavendaire]

💛💛 amazing

[@nidhi2324___]

Mothers are real lovers purest love...

[@WhitneyDahlin]

LOVED this video! Your mother sounds like a wonderful wise and strong person! I feel like everyone can benefit from these lessons! Way too many people become dependent on their romantic partners and then are trapped permanently and unable to escape a bad situation. I would love to see more of these life lesson videos. ❤️

[@lavendaire]

thank you love!!

[@xliu6848]

that's very powerful: she doesn't need anyone else to make her happy, she can make herself happy. Even though I'm married, I'll keep it in my mind - only me can support and love myself forever

[@hoatruongtrieu8670]

My mom is the greatest person in my life. She taught me from the smallest thing like how to eat and behave properly to the biggest ones in my life. Thanks Aileen and send my love from Vietnam

[@mollydeckman]

My mom and I have always been really close. I became a mom myself 6 years ago when my daughter was born, and now I have a 3 year old son too. We live in different states now but I still have long phone conversations with her regularly. The main thing I remember her telling me as a kid was that the Golden rule is to treat others the way you want to be treated. I've always been very kind towards everyone. I hope my daughter and I will end up with the same kind of special relationship I have with my mom that I cherish so much. ❤

[@lavendaire]

that's so nice that you're so close!

[@sehrishkhalid126]

I am binge watching your videos these days to raise my positive energy

[@lavendaire]

🤗 sending love

[@amishabiswas02]

Since my childhood I had seen my mom went through a lot. She was treated badly by my dad, by the relatives from my dad's side. But she never gave up, she lived just because of me and my younger brother. She is also a single mom who is taking care of us as my dad lives in another place. She is the most strongest woman for me in this world. Before someday she told me that she is only hoping for me more than my brother, she is just living for me as my brother treats her badly. Now I have a strongest will to do something in my life. One day I'll do something good so that I can take care of her properly and I can be able to remove all her past pains. Thank you so much for this video, it means a lot

[@areesthya]

These lessons you've mentioned are what i learned by my own for the past years, struggling through my mental health and self love, self acceptance journey. I'm not that close w my mom and even right now i kinda see myself hate her for being my mom. My dad struggles a lot since university years (or maybe childhood?) because he's the first child and i'm the first child too. I feel more connected w my dad because he understands what i'm going through as the first child. He taught me a lot of things in life while in contrary, my mom doesn't really teach me. For the past years, i've been struggling w my own emotions, self love, and self acceptance. Now i'm trying to be who i am and just find my true self. Taking all the life lessons from you, other people, and other resources help me a lot on my journey. I don't exactly remember when was my first time watching your vid but i'm so grateful i found this channel and learn a lot. I'm also working on my dream life so i can be my true self and be happy w myself! Thankyou so much for all the vids you've made in this channel. It truly helps me a lot💐

[@tobyday162]

I believe that things happen 'for us' ...not '... to us', but it sometimes takes hindsight & time for us to have the perspective where we can appreciate the learning & growth we get from the event. Your mum is obviously a wise lady who has learned from all she has been through & the learning she has shared with you has in some way benefited us all via you. Thank you for your wonderful authenticity & the great advice you share with us all. 💚🙏

[@atlas6379]

My parents always encouraged me to be independent and the value of it, always rely on yourself not others Like your mother ✨✨✨❤️❤️❤️

[@HannahMarieee]

Same 💕

[@filmlife1000]

Hey Aileen (hope that’s how you spell it) ! I just wanted to say that your videos have helped me so much since I had a major dip in my mental and physical health. I listen to at least one video every day whilst I do my stretching routine. Your videos are always so insightful and inspiring. The meditation videos are also really life changing! ❤️ thank you!

[@lavendaire]

thank you for the kind words!!

[@dahlia9356]

Thankyou I really needed this, now that I have graduated I'm realizing just how much she did for me and all the things she taught me.

[@katkatsanis]

Wonderful video; thank you! 🙏🏻 Wow, it really inspired me to think more about my Mom…one life lesson that I’ve learned from Mom is to be selective about who I have around me…my inner circle, if you will. We can always be kind and friendly to people; yet, if someone does not have a strong sense of self and a deep spirituality, then they are not a match for my inner circle. ⭕️ That is really beautiful and profound modeling, now that I think about it. Thanks, again! 💞

[@EmmaMarch]

It's interesting because something happened today with my mother that made me a bit upset with her, and then I came here, and your video sort of reminded me of how many things she taught me and the hardships she faced... Honestly, I forgive her and love her, and appreciate her to bits... I also love your videos ♥

[@jessicaozbirn847]

Thank you for sharing this beautiful and vulnerable video. I see how much you’ve worked internally to come to peace with the imperfections and the INCREDIBLE parts of your mama! You are both amazing women! Thank you for being a role model and sharing 😊❤️

[@tanishahanamsagar5008]

My mom is always guiding and helpingme, when I get tensed and depressed because of my studies she always tell me to calm down and make changes in your routine and you can do it!!!

[@Aquariusmoon_lover]

Even me i am introvert and love keeping my things pvt alsoi don't like take helps from others or borrow me but I help others more than anyone's acceptance

[@jazikim7147]

I learned a lot of stuff from my mom too. She's a single mom as well but she doing her best . So that's why I'm so proud. She tough me to be strong , independent and no matter what happens to overcome difficulties and keep pushing no matter how hard it's. And i also love your videos .

[@NathalieLazo]

Remarkable person reading this.. It’s going to get better; all it is a season of opportunity to grow and be better than before. Challenging times are meant to strengthen us, not to break us. Success doesn’t define to what happened to us; it is how we choose to deal with our circumstances. The more you grow and develop as an incredible person as you are, the more things will change for the better. Forgive more (for you), be grateful for even the smallest things (we have it way better than someone else), choose love over ego, choose humility over ego (humility is strength), and finally, invest into new skills so that your future self will thank you. Our lives will change forever the more we grow. Be thankful for the challenges for we know something greater is coming. Love you always - Nathalie ✨❤️

[@runamiray7092]

My mom always tells me to be a good person and to learn to forgive people. And my dad taught me to listen to myself more and be confident in my decisions.

[@fizashaikh6028]

Love your energy and content 🙌😘. Sending you so much love ❤

[@tasneemmohammed2315]

It's great to know a great person who makes another great person whom is you 🥰 Thank you so much.. love you 🤍🤍

[@chrislaudkelly4538]

wooow it's so relatable! My mom is also a single mom or have been a single mom ,and i can see my mom through yours that's amazing they share the same story and life lessons amazing!!!! and i'm so grateful that i end up watching your video they are so strooong and they are our heroo our moms!!

[@romystyles7320]

I think the most valuable lesson my mum taught me is honesty, especially to people you are close with ❤

[@nicoletastoodley]

I love this video and learning about this side of you. It’s funny, we have similar stories. My mom was the youngest of 11 children, so I too have a big family with lots of cousins. My dad left to live in Haiti so my mom raised me and my sisters alone. She had her sisters and brothers and my paternal grandmother but still. One of the valuable lessons she taught me was that people if people hurt me, I have to be able not to fly off the handle and manage me temper. Because it’s something that happens people hurt other people. Even unintentionally.

[@lavendaire]

wow! thanks for sharing

[@Shetty774]

Your videos always brings positivity🌼 love from India

[@theaburtofamily9398]

Love this, this video hit home. On top of that, being a first time mom and sharing this chapter with my own mom. I feel an ever stronger connection with her because now I can relate with her so much.

[@a0706413]

Wonderful video!! The lesson I learned from my mother was to be respectful to other people and treat them the way I want to be treated. My dad taught me to be creative and have a good sense of humour.

[@jefrinaparbin]

First of all I want to say you that i missed your videos so much in this pass 2 weeks and needed this video so much. Thank you 💞 One thing my mom teaches me is to be kind to everyone even with those who aren't good to us because everything we put outside come back to us . So I think it was a powerful lesson.

[@sieunpark3436]

1. how to be independent - being independent is not easy in normal life because of financial issue, which can cause trouble in each family. But, the solution is truthful talk about what 'I' want to do to family. 2. buddhism&spirituality - I do not believe in buddhism, but the truth is that being a good person can do good deeds:) 3. never owe anyone anything - it's very true. Because, paying back is important to keep sustained relationship! 4. self love&enjoying being alone - we spend a lot of alone time more than before, so we need efficient time management to keep through the schedule. 5. always continue learning - it's important as we get aged. As a Korean, I know that how much learn and know decides my future and wealth even though that's not at all. The more we learn, the more we get:)

[@edele24ballet]

Omg I *have* *to* look into your birth chart to see the MC/IC axis, ruling planets, Moon, ..and how it all ties in to the rest of your chart starting from your ASC & chart ruler!!🧐 Btw your mother is Gorgeous 💖✨ My dad raised me, and was practically my dad and mom to me.. even requested gifts on Mother's Day😂 When I got some input from Vedic astrology on my MC/IC, my "mom" figure came up exactly as my dad🤣 My dad was born handsome, was always popular, the student council president, and so on.. but sometimes a little funny: He came with me to my entrance exam (in math), looked around in the waiting room, said with 100% seriousness, "See how I'm the most good looking parent here? As the daughter of this most gorgeous parent, there's no way you can't pass this exam!! Okay?! Be Confident!!" I was too shocked to remind him it wasn't a test for a model agency but a math dept..🤣🤣 and that I was the one taking the exam, not him💫 He taught me to be confident...? I guess?

[@lavendaire]

haha thanks for sharing that story :) I didn't know that MC/IC axis has to do with your parents?? What specifically does it tell? My MC/IC is Aqua/Leo

[@musikhamster01]

One lesson that a learned from my single mom who had to face way too many obstacles in life: Never give up. This is not the end of the journey

[@tramvu1042]

Thanks so much for sharing! I found this video and topic very interesting. I felt like you were talking about my mom throughout the entire video LOL the energy and influence are sooooo similar!! It’s crazy XD

[@AgatheWiesner]

This is a really touching vidéo. I really liked it. One thing i think about is "don't do to others what you would not like to be done to you" something like karma I would say. Sometimes I forget that I should still say to people when they hurt me.

[@EmmaMarch]

I also wanted to add something interesting, that I was reflecting on in my personal life with my mother, and I think you may relate on some level. I think one of the reasons why I was always striving to succeed was to on some level be able to support my mother, and all this masculine energy of productivity was created so that I am able to fill a void, since my father's character is the type that is a bit absent... That's okay, i love both my parents, but just reflecting on this

[@dralisa]

Thanks for sharing, Aileen. What a beautiful story and mother. PS: You released this on Thai Mothers Day, too!

[@lavendaire]

aww i didn't realize that! thank you Alisa, hope you've been well!! 😘

[@ksubasinghe]

Aileen, you have no idea how much I needed this. Thank you so much for choosing to share!

[@silvialopez7157]

That its always more important to know something than it is not to. Growing up that's what my dad thought and educated me about topics many traditionally would have considered me too young to know. By the time I hit highschool, I was the one with the most knowledge and ended up being the "guru" to my classmates.

[@ellicamayebauyon6911]

My fave youtuber 🥺💗 fave channel since day one!!!💕 I never get tired watching your vids. Your contents here in KZbin and Instagram inspires me a lot. I love you Aileen! 💜 God blessed you to help us discover ourselves. Thank you!💜💜💜 -Elli 🇵🇭

[@ellicamayebauyon6911]

Ps: You look great! 😍

[@lavendaire]

I appreciate you!! ❤️❤️

[@syifchsn]

Thank you for sharing this, Aileen. 🤍

[@xuongrong6988]

Ohh i am so glad to know your mother was born in Viet Nam. I love you, i like your videos in youtube so much... and i hope your mother and you always to be full of love.

[@dynamics9000]

"There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure." -- Colin Powell;;

[@myhanhtu9116]

I am Vietnamese. I really love your channel

[@jessicalauren4033]

Your mum sounds amazing. My dad is Chinese but died when I was 6 months old and that side of my family lives in a different country to me so I’m not exposed to that side of my culture. I loved hearing about your mum watching KZbin vids and podcasts on Chinese spirituality. If you wouldn’t mind sharing I would appreciate that x

[@mindfulmovementmethod]

Moms are the best teachers 💕 so cute!

[@PurpleFlower22]

I see why you are the person you are bc you were raised by a queen 👸🏻

[@HannahMarieee]

🙌🏻

[@rj2842]

Interesting, my mom is also a Chinese, Buddhist, accountant, always encourages me to be independent. I became spiritual after I lost my dearest dad.

[@quynhanhv]

Love you so much Aileen

[@heysabo]

Awww, I love this episode so much!! I feel like I can really relate when it comes to our parents practicing Buddhism and the reincarnation thing. I think that's what influenced me that our spirit goes on and elsewhere after we pass :) Which is quite comforting as well, because we'll be able to receive messages in various ways. I appreciate you for making your videos! You're doing amazing and I love your meditation videos as well! They're the best thing to wake up to in the morning :) You should totally do one for something to listen to at night!

[@lavendaire]

thank you! and I have a sleep meditation out if you search for it :)

[@maheerasaad6109]

Grateful that i saw your vedios in my darkest days🖤So much love for bringing me back

[@randomizationme]

I really loved this video. I love my mom

[@poojajoshi7851]

So inspiring thanks for sharing 💞u r so kind 🙏

[@mckinnonriley2814]

I wish I had your mom's advice of financial independence 😅 working on that now

[@echo6144]

I’m Vietnamese lol! I moved to America when I was 7 and a half. I am pretty young right now and I’m trying to improve myself for the future :)

[@aashidhaniya]

"love yourself unconditioonally"

[@svetlanakrupenko8429]

Love ur channel. I also believe in Buddhism n love.ur meditation girl. Pls . keep doing them !

[@abdelhafedchebaby5619]

Hey . I am fan of you from Morocco . I just want to say thst you are amazing. you add many useful ideas to my life . Thank you 😊. Keep going you are the best

[@stephanielegarda5443]

Lovely video Aileen! Great lessons from your strong mom!

[@cameliaelsie3351]

From Vietnam with love for your videos

[@rupachemudupathi9569]

Thank you so , much for beautiful lessons dear

[@marzettik]

Definitely the independence thing. Child of divorce, need I say more?. I was also taught the lesson of hard work can get you everywhere but I’m finding out that it’s way more complicated than that.

[@zahanraka8970]

1. How to be independent 2. Buddhism and spirituality 3. Never owe anything to anyone 4. Self-love and enjoying being alone 5. Always continue learning

[@hhhhha501]

That's so nice, thank you for sharing these lessons 💞

[@annebellamy]

Love watching your video

[@MoonLight-yl3nm]

I learned from my mom that you should rely on yourself and don't rely on men or anyone. Because mom is living a hard time with my father he doesn't respect her or help her with anything in spite of she taking care of him and respects him well, I know now people say why she didn't leave him and live her life ... I will tell you that she didn't continue her education even though she doesn't have any job to rely on it. That makes her situation miserable. Every time I see my mom suffering I hope to die because I love her and I can't see her living like this It hurts 💔

[@pingparichat6030]

lovely mum >< love! this video

[@foodmadewithlove324]

Thank you so much for sharing 🥰😊

[@doantrang.12]

This vid is so precious 🥺

[@hihello1979]

Well.. what can I say about my mom. Unfortunately, she is not the ideal : love to compare me with someone else speaking mean words, always making me feel so small and such. Growing up, never felt like I was good enough. But kind of lesson learned is that I should not be like her unless I want my kids to break up with me. Since, I know it so well, I am doing the exact opposite to my kids and we are good! 😄 Haha.

[@rishitagupta1397]

She looks so exactly like you!

[@susanebuara1636]

I learn to be good and generous, from my mum

[@HannahMarieee]

This is such a lovely video, and so inspiring 💕 (and woow 11 siblings !?😅 that must have been the best bootcamp for life haha)

[@italico2792]

Congrats to your mum! Are you fluent in Chinese?

[@Miralci]

My mom was also my gateway into spirituality, while my dad was my gateway into technology 🙂

[@INTJ_alien]

I am Arab and I love you so much

[@blackpinkfan1655]

amazing video. thank you for it💝🤩

[@olaveconnor4359]

I really loved this video❤

[@CelineOng]

I am also a Buddhist and it's all really good lessons

[@Chloebacus]

Love this!!!

[@anni1113]

Just treating everyone with respect.

[@Aswhatitis]

I don’t like to owe someone anything either and it was influenced by my mom as well! Haaa

[@HieuLuongXuan]

Greeting from Vietnam with love! Lavendaire :)

[@nguyenbauc9615]

From Vietnam with love ❤❤❤

[@xxxp625]

Loveedd this❤

[@Aparna_Aami]

Mam, can you please do a guided meditation for improving concentration in studies

[@Luaiya2724]

Loved this video

[@zhulia]

So... Lesson 1 "i learned what not to do" Yes i can relate to that.

[@mercyapolot7757]

This was really beautiful.

[@sakshiitagi8451]

Amazing video ❤️❤️😍😍

[@al.g9534]

💚

[@austongreen9883]

this was really nice

[@swathivaggu8039]

Only only ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️love Lavi 💞

[@siphokazindalonhlekhumalo4913]

Mom's are the best♥️

[@Hicks-g1m]

Single mom raised a really great daughter 👍🆒💯

[@therandomera7411]

If the video's sound would be a bit smooth then it would have been perfectly perfect