How to renew yourself 🌺 *your refreshing restart*

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[@AhmetKaan]

*“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending...”* *―C. S. Lewis*

[@crystalgrace3682]

So true

[@priscillajimenez27]

I see you everywhere 🙂

[@bhakti7643]

💜

[@lll3388]

This is so helpful 😅 I’m going from not having the will to live to trying so hard to change myself and my life 🤧

[@AhmetKaan]

@@crystalgrace3682 🙏🙏

[@Ridhi259]

1:49 *self-awareness* 2:12 *reset your mind* 3:13 *learning to listen and trust* 8:09 *list what is serving you* 9:02 *let go of what doesn't serve you* 9:24 *list things that makes you feel amazing (aka raise your energy/vibration)* 9:26 *attract what you want to become* 12:30 *patience and time*

[@IshaSharma11]

Thanks 💜

[@imanishine]

Thank you ♡♡ just a lil correction on 8:09 list what is'NT serving you ;)

[@marunga20]

🙏🏽💗

[@emmajeanbx]

Thank you! ☺️

[@Someone25875]

Thank you❤️

[@myeon8401]

In case no one told you today, I’m proud of you! Even if you are tired, frustrated, or even confused, its okay. Life is meant to be figured out on your own pace! Sending love your way!!!

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Sending love to you too

[@thatswhatisaid8908]

Thank you for caring about random people you will never meet. For every person who skips over your comment, there will be another who will take heart from your words. 💞

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Proud of you too ☺️💚

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When you are about to GIVE UP remember why you STARTED. Always KEEP SAFE EVERYONE!

[@crystalgrace3682]

This is so helpful. It reminds me of consistency. Thanks so much

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You are right

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[@AhmetKaan]

*If you are reading this, never ever give up. We will succeed. I'm cheering for you!* Have a great day! 🖤

[@luvvreni]

i see you in the comments of every lavendaire video lol. i appreciate your comments :)

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I just love your energy

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[@SmileLauren]

Ah I love how much you talked about being 'in tune' with the Universe. It's like Oprah says, you have to learn to listen to the whispers of your life - your life is always speaking to you.

[@lavendaire]

Yes! 💓

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Great

[@neelamdevkota6977]

Thank you it's inspire me

[@iemaj]

Talking about timing..Universe works in mysterious ways. This video came at right moment of my life.

[@SamElle]

I know people make New Years resolutions but I make spring resolutions!!! I like resetting my personal goals during the spring time and it’s super motivating

[@nilistravelling]

oh yess, that is such a great idea!! In Winter my mood is always quite down and i am not so motivated. I will rather make spring resolutions from now on :) (Despite the fact that everyday is a good day to start working on yourself)

[@SamElle]

@@nilistravelling Yea, we can definitely make resolutions at any point of the year but I do notice that I am in a slump coming right out of winter so this helps give me that boost I need!!!

[@crystalgrace3682]

It's actually better to do that cause then you will be able to look back at the beginning of the year and set your goals from that

[@priscillajimenez27]

Many cultures have their new year around march/april for spring.

[@luvvreni]

hmm i should try that

[@mayurijoshi5633]

When ever I feel lonely or depressed I always watch your video, and get more happy and energetic, Thank you

[@hellokitty-pp3ns]

Me too

[@howtotangetic]

I am changing in a way that I start to give myself more time and learn that things will eventually fall in place. That I should make being healthy a priority rather than being stressed all the time.

[@natashamirani2217]

It's crazy awesome how her video themes and my life are absolutely parallel. anyone else here seeking a new refreshing life?

[@MariJadeWrites]

Oh yes! I want to renew myself and refresh, with doing that I can tackle my goals with fresh energy again :) good luck to you as well!

[@Madeliefschram]

Samee! And I love it so much!

[@natashamirani2217]

@@Madeliefschram omggg I'd love to know more about how it's going for you!!!

[@Madeliefschram]

@@natashamirani2217 I'm trying to get a lot of new things and mindsets into my life as a lot of changes are to be made this summer. I'm probably moving to another country alone, start a new course, play in a short film, compete in a beauty pageant and meanwhile i just wanna write and make content for social media. Honestly, I don't know how to relax anymore or start any new habits. I used to go for a walk every day and be so mindful, but the past few weeks I have just been working on my internship and everything else mindlessly and absent. I barely feel like I enjoy anything anymore....it's coming to an end, this internship and the course I am currently doing. I'll graduate soon and then it is summer. So I'm in need of a fresh start. And I am ready to try again :) Sorry I just ramble on and on. It feels so good to just write this down, I hope this answers your comment, hehe, thank you :D

[@natashamirani2217]

@@Madeliefschram omg this reassures me that I'm not alone and I wish you all the very best for all your endeavours! I absolutely adore your channels and this is my instagram- natasha1_42 , in case you want to chat! take care

[@helineuwu772]

my biggest flex these days is having aileen posting the right videos on the right time to always cheer me up

[@canpy143]

My new fear being stalked by Aileen hehe. How does she know what i need fr?! Love ya so much sista!!😆

[@alovelywalk88]

Omg! Sameeeee!!

[@TheMediumChannel]

Synchronicities are Spirit's...or your higher self's way of pointing you in the direction of truth. Spring is about renewal and awakening...listen to those synchronicities and happy spring everyone. Aloha

[@taploykao]

I'm exciting to emerge with the new start 💜

[@crystalgrace3682]

Let's get motivated

[@00Mercredi00]

New start! ☺️

[@IshaSharma11]

Yeahh

[@improvewithsoo-selfdevelop1219]

“Don't let yesterday take up too much of today.” - Will Rogers. Beautiful video!

[@peachysoulstudy]

Let's renew ourselves before quarantine end

[@mochidiary]

"Be Yourself!" Always a POWERFUL quote. ❤❤❤

[@jadesjourneyblog]

Isn’t it funny how day by day nothing changes, but when you look back, everything is different ... 8 reminded me of that c.s. lewis quote, another inspirational video ❤️

[@KristyAMo]

Your voice, your aesthetic, your wisdom, is what I needed today. Thanks for bringing it so consistently.

[@dariaprzepiorka9248]

This video literally came to me at the right time. Thank you 🙏 Edit: omg she liked my comment 😭💕💕

[@crystalgrace3682]

Keep pushing

[@lisafireheart3940]

SAME!

[@amashamilindika5080]

I never watched motivation and changing lifestyle videos fully for my 23 years and today I think I am about to start a new journey within myself 💞 Thank you very much and I wish you all success ❤

[@inesdz438]

You're changing my life girl 🥺✨

[@romelyncincosario3969]

Me being a too busy college student facing Finals, can't able to focus watching and applying what I've learned here, JUST DOWNLOADED your videos, like more than 20 vids, as preparation for our summer here in Philippines, I'll watch all of these 💛💛💛

[@crystalgrace3682]

That is a great step you've decided to take and trust me it's worth it

[@00Mercredi00]

Good luck on your finals!

[@romelyncincosario3969]

@@crystalgrace3682 Thank you ♥️

[@romelyncincosario3969]

@@00Mercredi00 Thank you, next week will be our final exams and final oral for Calculus. Please pray for me ♥️

[@GadgetsGearCoffee]

I deleted Instagram because I was on it way too much and seeking outward validation (I mean quarantine was rough). I have been working on myself, created and committed to myself a self-care routine of yoga and meditation (something I've neverrrrrr done before, I'm way too A.D.D. for it but it's been one of the best things that has helped me to self-love and recenter and sit with myself instead of running from myself). Best decisions I've made. I have so much more time and focus to create other things and work on my KZbin and creating cool videos instead. I re-install Instagram here and there to post something when I'm truly inspired instead of posting for likes, but just being on IG stresses my energy and I uninstall it right after.

[@nendenrohimahfauziah8862]

This really inspires me especially now I'm feeling so super dumb, dull, having low energy, and super unproductive.

[@Soulofindianmythology]

I love how you have real plants instead of fake ones! Shows how much impact it has around you by loving yourself!❤

[@gourikaaaaaa]

• Write down the things which are not serving you ° cut them down • write down the things which are serving you • increase them • Practice gratitude • practice law of attraction • analyse your daily routine 🧚‍♀️

[@m.vilaxo]

posting this after a new moon ✨ perfect timing

[@johngomes8874]

This utube is like a breathe of fresh air and a ray of sunshine 🌻

[@johngomes8874]

Such a positive influence on my life , thank you Aileen

[@johngomes8874]

Thank you I appreciate your channel and your eternal kindness !!

[@ms.darecee1029]

Last year this time I broke up with my toxic, manipulative, and physically abusive boyfriend. I was going through a period of uncertainty and that's when I started working on self-improvement with Lavendaire. There were days when I listened to 12 episodes at once. I started working on my dream life as a youtube and language enthusiast. At the end of the year, I got rediagnosed with a surge in cysts of PCOD level. One of my relatives died of PCOD. That's when I started working out to take care of my health and reduce weight. Now that my energy feels low because of stress and health issues, I come back to the community to help me regain my energy and vibrance. Thank you Aileen and Lavi loves.

[@GoldenKay19]

You can do this 💪🏿🌼

[@ms.darecee1029]

@@GoldenKay19 thanks 🌤️

[@empressrose3262]

Inspiring! Thank you for sharing 🙏💖

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@@empressrose3262 🥰

[@jackiek4159]

I am seriously here for this video! We need to normalise change and evolving into our better versions! Sending lot's of love to everyone! 🙏🏻💞✨

[@marthazziwa1273]

I feel myself becoming more authentic and shedding old limiting beliefs that no longer serve me. It’s been challenging because some limiting beliefs can be so hidden because they’ve been a part of you for so long, but I’m learning to be more patient with myself and my journey.

[@lavendaire]

Love that growth ✨✨

[@ishi6291]

I haven't been attending classes and feeling all lazy for past 4-5 days so this video helps a lot🥺❤️ thank youu Aileen!! Also you look really pretty in that dress🦋✨💗

[@bhakti7643]

🖤

[@random_thing-]

Your videos are always what I need to hear, you are my guiding light! Sending love

[@SupermanDee]

It’s so true about being patient! I’ve changed so much in the past few months but I barely see it on a day to day basis

[@amethysttoast3642]

I'm becoming more trusting and letting go of expectations. Definitely becoming more myself 🥰🌟

[@annemarielabreche]

You made my day with your positive energy. I wasn’t feeling so great so thank you

[@vanilledoll]

I needed this so much, definitely in perfect timing, thank u so much ♡︎

[@ren7056]

You're such a blessing! Thank you so much

[@camilleorfao]

Love all your tips 💛 having gratitude is so important. I find starting my day or end my day listing out everything I’m grateful for definitely puts things into perspective and helps me realize how blessed I am 🤗

[@dayanasaadatmand3868]

I love your channel so much, I usually watch your videos before studying so I get more inspired. I love you! All the best!

[@anapayet9976]

Exactly what i needed, thank you Aileen, so much positive ideas and beautiful meaning love you 🤍

[@rajshreepardeshi_]

I absolutely Love this video !! Thank you for this my lovee, you put this out at perfect timing !! I really needed this !! I LOVE YOU SM BABE !! Sending you LOADS OF LOVE, BLESSINGS, POSITIVE ENERGY AND HUGS !! ❤️❤️❤️🦋

[@lanhuongnguyen5422]

Thank you very much for all the advices

[@Sally20101]

Needed this so badly I'm so demotivated rn this came to my rescue at such a perfect time..💗💗

[@noellethao]

thank you for being the friend that always gives me the strength to keep going. Love you for being you.

[@shelllombardi9124]

You never fail to uplift me Aileen! Love this video so much. Simple stuff really but we all need reminding of how to get unstuck and move forward. Blessings! 💕

[@laurak5414]

I needed this video. I have been working on starting my own business for 3 years now. Every time I get ready to start, things fall apart. Now things are coming together but it’s taking FOREVER... I keep telling myself trust the process, trust God, trust the universe but I feel like I’m going to explode if something doesn’t happen soon. I’m so thankful for you and your channel. I’m going to focus on what’s going right.

[@elizat3892]

Thank you, Aileen. You help me reconnect with myself and let go of things out of my control💕

[@ojaswitaramteke3775]

Yes!! It is the time to build new habits and drop the ones that aren't working for you. Love this video Aileen!

[@drdevyanimathur1355]

I'm so grateful for your channel❤️ Thank you for guiding me through my transformation and growth❤️

[@RosieSalloum]

Getting through the video while taking notes and reflecting. Thank you so much for the amazing content, was feeling low before watching you and now I'm feeling relaxed, grateful and hopeful💖

[@mpumelelondaba]

One of the key areas in which I've changed from who I was in the last year is definitely in my mindset. I've been meditating, practicing gratitude, journaling and exercising daily + deep breathing (thanks to my 4 month old Apple Watch) more often now. I'm doing well financially since I started being intentional about building my wealth. I feel like I'm intune with the universe and I notice all the signs too. Life is starting to feel good - most of the time 😅

[@_._prajna_._]

I just love your vibe! It always makes me feel so positive and I immediately feel better after seeing your videos! Thanks for everything!❤️

[@LucaPainOfficial]

one year and a half ago I started my personal journey in rebuilding myself and rediscovering myself. And that was also through your videos and wise words! Today I'm still changing but I'm facing now the tendency to go back to old patterns. Hope being aware of it is the first step in the right direction! One big hug to the community from Turin, Italy

[@LifewithMiu]

Love this! Perfect time for this video! I think there is a bit of mental fatigue for almost everyone. Very helpful tips! I am trying to meditate consistently! Thank you!

[@fmanalili]

I Iove to listen to your voice.💛 Thank you for these great advices. I am at this season in my life wherein I need to apply all the things that you are sharing. Thank you so much. Much love! 💕🎉

[@simrankour9597]

I started my journey last year and I swear my whole life changed and then I started drifting and my life turned upside down and I have this realisation last week and now I decided to start my journey again and stick to it for myself. And this video at this moment is a sign. Thank you

[@chamomileandcosmos471]

This is such a good set of steps. And ugh, diving into what's not serving me is gonna be a difficult one. But it's time to take control. Also I find tending to plants and plant propagation really makes for a relaxing time. Perfect reset activity.

[@snowflakefrost]

It is meant for me to watch this video just now. 💜 Thank you, Aileen. You always give life to me during the time I needed it the most. 🥺✨🌻

[@phenx1354]

Thank you lavendaire, my all time fav youtuber! Your videos always come at the best times, when I need them the most! I go to sleep listening to your Spotify! I have listened to all of ‘em and I am starting all over again! 💗

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Appreciate your channel sm !! Keep uplifting us with your positivity 💙✨

[@laindia4497]

You are a blessing. I needed to hear this video. Lately I've been feeling bored with life and stuck in a rut. I'm going to try some of the advice you gave.

[@alexisthagoddess]

Thank you girl, bless you for helping the world

[@shuniquakaler3775]

Thanks this really made me feel better after feeling down also hearing you talk is so peaceful and thanks 😊

[@AngelicaAIgup]

This video is very timely, I treated this summer vacay as a reset time since academic year has ended and having break from my teaching job! ✨

[@Deeks26]

Came across this video randomly today, and it’s exactly what I needed at this very moment Thank you for this ❤️🌸

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I'm just addicted to your videos, your voice is so peaceful and relaxing. The most important point, your videos actually work on us. Tq! Keep it up!💜🌼

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As always, you're amazing and super inspiring.you give me energy , positive vibes,and hope.carry on sweety and thanks for all your cute videos 🌺.love you ❤️

[@saniasimplegirl1661]

Thankyou so much for sharing your thoughts , experience and knowledge with us .

[@happysadgirllol956]

I really needed your videos today, you just opened my eyes and it’s nice to be awake again. Thank you for these Videos💖

[@mfat3690]

You are such an inspiration for me. The way to have told all the things was just mind-blowing. I feel glad that I found your channel.

[@victoriahernandez3610]

I love this so so much. Amazingly helpful advice. I love it ❤️

[@meowwwzzzy]

Your videos are my go tos whenever i feel like giving up ❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much

[@margaretchimea173]

Thank you Aileen, this vlog has helped me think through and make the right moves in my life.

[@giulia3014]

watching your videos is a way for me to feel brighter ✨

[@vedantimahadik9213]

Wow...it's so blissful seeing this transformation within ,going with the process,being more consistent ,healthy lifestyle,more of learning ,alot of peace making ❤️❤️❤️ love this transformation within that happens every moment 👍

[@mommachic7444]

First time commenting but your advice is so amazing. I always feel at ease afterwards. Thank you so much. I feel dull sometimes but you always help.

[@honk8683]

The perfect video for the blossoming time of the year ❤

[@azurachannel6051]

I was stressed and under peer pressure but I feel better, more alive, vibrant since I watch your video, thank you very much

[@Anas-vv2sh]

OMG, you helped me a lot, you make me fell that inspiring feeling that non one could make, that people can change for good, one thing that make me fell good is painting, dancing, music and your videos are also really good. So good tips and content!

[@joanabcd7129]

I'm having breakdowns since last week and I'm so glad that I found this video. This will be a guide for me to lift myself up and start anew. Thank you very much for this, you've help many people to be more positive. Continue inspiring and helping people. Love yah

[@maydelacruz6312]

All I can say is "THANK YOU"🥺💛 I feel so drained earlier, and this video makes me feel more motivated.

[@ChanetteBing]

I don't know why but everytime you post a video it is just what I need to hear! I've been following your channel for a year and you totally changed my life to what I never thought could happen

[@frelanciaony2358]

I was just thinking that I am currently feeling "bored, dull, and drained"! It's crazy how some things come out just at the right time. Thank you so much Aileen, you make me feel optimistic again! To answer your question, I'd say that I've recently started to notice results from all my 'mind work'. Mindfulness comes more oftently and more easily, I now am able to observe my thoughts more rather than being drowned by them, and I have better default actions! I mean, when I feel anxious, for example, I overthink less and instead grab my journal more naturally. Thank you so much for reminding me to celebrate! ❤️

[@girijadevi4790]

Aileen... You are the best. I was feeling dull because of this quarantine. So I was just taking many classes to make myself busy. So grateful for this☺. Also, I loved how you edited this video😍. Sending lots of love🥰

[@theelonz]

Thank you for making this energy 🙏

[@ankitasardar5900]

I really needed this! I have been on auto pilot for a few days now and kind of lost the sense of personal development but you got me ❤ I am ready to start a new 🙌

[@kharma9859]

Universe came and whispered in your ears what I needed.thankyou so much Aileen😘😘

[@jacinekyra7573]

Bad things have happened to me these days, and this is what I need to do! To renew me! Thank you for this video

[@cindyrizkyy1177]

I want to say thank you so much for making this video. I just lost and I want something like something changing in myself and I found this. thank you again, keep going to make these videos. I love you

[@prathimad4566]

I'm glad this video came into my recommendation! With the current situation going on in my country - India, I've been feeling blah - I have to renew myself seriously. Thank you for this.

[@1nsertusername]

Thank you so much for this video ❤ My school just closed and I wanted to prepare for my last year of high school by starting fresh, but my motivation levels have been low lately. I'll definitely try these out! I feel good after watching this video ✨

[@pyamju7419]

I needed this. Thank you! 😭❤️

[@DSTV.INDONESIA]

Thank you for your advice. Since yesterday you were my inspirator. Thank you make me be better as emotionally. How grateful me can watch you. Thank so much ❤️

[@olghir8147]

I love your videos, so much positive vibes thank you

[@paigeofcups9238]

Perfect timing! Just started my whole rebirth/restart process! Never clicked on a video so fast!

[@crystalgrace3682]

Like tell me about it

[@amelie7593]

I feel like I am becoming a stronger and more inderpendant person. I have focused on me more without feeling guilty. Partly thanks to you, you inspire me every video.