5 Stupid Questions Women ask Men - Connie Podesta, CSP, CPAE

[@isaachunt7107]

If a woman asks me "what are you thinking?" I always say "If our knees bent backwards like birds, how would we ride bicycles?" It's usually the last time they ask.

[@jenniferdoris297]

Isaac Hunt You are dating the wrong women- or maybe not if you don't like to share your thoughts. I know several women who would be happy to ponder the design of bicycles for bird legs.

[@samanthasowell6350]

so this is just from very brief contemplation so there could be loads of bad logic but there shouldn't be a reason we couldn't still ride bicycles. At least not because of leg formation. The foot still bends forward so there wouldn't be a reason we couldn't push the pedal still. But why ride a bike when we could fly? LOL

[@jenniferdoris297]

Samantha There is no reason to suppose that we would have wings, though.

[@samanthasowell6350]

@@jenniferdoris297 there's only ever been one kind of bird that didn't have wings and that was the Moa and it was extinct by 1500 . The flightless bird still has wings but flightless birds are the extreme minority in the bird world. So yes, there's a good reason to suppose we'd have wings and fly. LOL

[@jenniferdoris297]

Yeah, but he said, "If our knees bent backwards like birds," not "if we were birds". Not that it matters...just pointing it out...

[@rickcheyne]

My wife asked me one day, "Dear, when I die will you re-marry?" Me: Of course not, my life wouldn't be the same without you and I could never imagine being with anyone else. wife: So you're not happy being married? Me: Of course I'm happy being married. wife: Then if you're happy being married to me don't you think it's possible that you might meet someone else? Me: well, yes but... wife: ...so you would probably get married again. Me: I suppose I might....one day...with the right person....but she'd have to be a lot like you. wife: And would she sleep in our bed? Me: well I guess she probably would if we were married. wife: And I suppose you would let her use my golf clubs?? Me: Don't be ridiculous, she's left-handed!

[@gewgulkansuhckitt9086]

It's a joke meaning he's already got her replacement picked out and may have even taken her for a test drive.

[@weswolever7477]

rickcheyne Or Wife..you won’t let her wear my clothes will you? Me... don’t be ridiculous....they wouldn’t fit her

[@MrZcotty]

i know i'm late,, but that is absolute gold!! i remember having the exact conversation..

[@bertkutoob]

@Charles Hopkins You bleeding nincompoop. John McArthur is a pseudonym. Obviously a wife if an explanation of a mild dig in the ribs brought forth such a rant..

[@smartchip]

@Charles Hopkins mgtow, is the answer, want some elaboration, ask,

[@ColAngus]

I'm single because I always answered those questions honestly. lol

[@dingane0039]

The accuracy

[@tjhammer24]

Same same

[@Malij_]

hahaa wow

[@lazarlazarevic6243]

they can't handle the truth man

[@tomster7574]

Im happily married cuz my wife doesnt ask them

[@mattw6399]

This is what I felt like the whole time in my last relationship, and why I'm glad it's over and not getting into another. I ain't got the time, money, or energy to deal with emotionally/psychologically inconsistent people. And like being persecuted and on trial everyday is just exhausting, it's lonely being alone but I just remind myself of scenarios like this and I'm like you know it's quite peaceful being alone.

[@fredzephire4071]

"it's lonely being alone" You say that but i was never more alone than when i was married.

[@jonathanbair523]

It is lonly being alone but at the same time very freeing.... Never having to jump threw the hoops of what place to go out to eat, or then when getting there what to eat.. How much calories is in a burger the toppings (females tend to worry about) while being a guy I just see it as food and what looks good with toppings to make it better...

[@jeromethiel4323]

While being lonely sucks, a man can handle being lonely far better than a woman. We can find our validation in what we do, not what other people think about us. Women HAVE to have external validation. I swear its baked into their genes. Oddly, it's like two puzzle pieces that are supposed to be together and complement one another, but it's not that way anymore. So this puzzle piece will just go on being a happy alone puzzle piece.

[@patriciaharner5156]

I ❤and agree with the man!

[@dalegreer3095]

After I got divorced I needed a new computer for a project I was working on, and I decided to make a custom one for myself. So I'm sitting on the floor of my new apartment, trying to figure out why this damn thing wasn't working, and then I thought "I'm so glad I don't have someone giving me advice or acting like it was dumb not to buy one off the shelf!" Ten minutes later I had it working.

[@ynatinycastleupthehill]

My husband and i are happily married because we don't do this, i don't ask him things that has anything to do with a woman's style; fashion, dress, haircut, manicure, etc.,.unless i know it'll make him feel uncomfortable.. I know when i am gaining weight, i don't try to get cute with him, by asking about my figure like a 16 year old having image and body issues. We are both adults in our marriage, he is my bestfriend and i am his, i don't mind his beer belly, we give each other constructive criticism and laugh at our imperfections.. I don't fancy a fairy tale relationship/marriage with my husband, we both always look our best when we go out but we're fossils around our kids inside our house and that is only a part of the truth in our marriage, we argue, we piss each other off at times, but he never lets me sleep feeling upset about anything.. I am just really happy, i apologize, it's been 15 years, we have 3 kids, and we learned how to handle each other's flaws. And i don't put him in an awkward position by asking things he'll have to tell white lies about. 😊❤

[@carstengjelsten1718]

You guys rock: Good marriage - Keep up the good relationship work! - Doing a bang up job, are you two✨✨✨❤️

[@jaabab]

you have what 90% of the people die looking for....stay happy

[@SkurtavusGrodolfus]

A lucky man indeed lol xD

[@Weiwuwei1000]

Too good to be true..

[@brianwillison4476]

You and your husband are a dying breed called “good people”. Enjoy the world while it lasts folks.

[@genroc2005]

She hit my ex right on the nose.. Drama Queen, never satisfied, til she started a fight... There is a reason it is called ex.

[@2AForever-wi8yj]

She it EVERY WOMAN

[@JeromeGardiner]

Your ex wife wasn't Jane was it? I wondered where she went.

[@jaymcd8577]

Yep, the last one was poison to the ears, oh my god the flashbacks to my last ex.

[@jaymcd8577]

@Margret Gust No, no and no..its just you get too much of a pain in the ass! that's the cold hard truth. No matter how hot you are or how good the sex was, you become unbearable with your drama loving, attention seeking, borderline narcissistic, petty squabbling, nagging, hen pecking, complaining, bitchy selves and each man has his breaking point, and you'll probably never bother to pay attention to the warning signs until one day he's gone or says he's gonna go..if he has any balls.

[@StarFox85]

that just means they want a hug..then wild lovely sex... they dont want to be invaded..but conquered again and again...if the magic goes out..she myth be lost or you lose her...keep the magic as long ass you can...

[@Enjoymentboy]

It's VERY simple: just answer completely honestly irrespective of the risk of her getting upset. "Do you notice anything different?" "Not at all". "Do these pants make me look fat?" "Yes". "What are you feeling right now?". "Hungry for a sandwich and a beer". Trust me...they'll either stop asking stupid questions or they won't be around any longer. Either way, no more more stupid questions.

[@MrBeard17]

They dont stop asking.. you'll just hear it again, tomorrow.

[@gpecaut1]

No, your pants don't make you look fat. That extra 50 pounds on your gut does.

[@JerryLee..]

MrBeard17 LMAO!!

[@cipher88101]

Agreed, people only treat you the way you let them, people that want to play the "shore up my insecurities" game will get bored with that really fast. There are just too many women that don't act like that to settle for it.

[@painfullyaware5221]

Do these pants make me look fat? No, it's the 50 lb. of fat that makes you look fat. (Al Bundy)

[@jamesbriggs3092]

after my EX-WIFE had gained 85 lbs in one year. she had asked me. does this dress make me look fat? my responce was. the dress has nothing to do with it. now i am very happily divorced.

[@kelm386]

james briggs your a jerk.

[@jamesbriggs3092]

lol john it still worked out very well for me

[@scotsman6712]

How does as person gain 85 lbs in one year?

[@jamesbriggs3092]

why ask me she was the one who gained that much. she did constantly eat the wrong foods and to much sweets

[@mrbigg151]

Damn, this is ALL soooo accurate! It's crazy how many women interact with men, and expect answers from their fantasies. Men are about timing and facts...hence the reason for sports

[@daxbradley4346]

Single men, fear not. As a married man for 16 years, I'm happy to report that not all women are this needy and manipulative. Some, like my wife, are honest, and seeking honesty from their partner. Bottom line is, be truthful to each other, and say what you think from the beginning. Don't wait until after you're married to drop pretenses and be real with each other. If you can't be with someone who can't handle honesty, which can be lovingly given, then please for the love of God don't marry. You're welcome.

[@dturner9354]

Dax Bradley Things have changed, and almost all single women are this way.... Just because you MIGHT have gotten one that is different doesn’t mean the rest of us Re NOT facing women like this. EVERY WOMAN I have datedd and MOST that I almost dated are LIKE THIS AND THEY WILL BE LIKE THIS ALL THEIR LIVES!!!

[@daxbradley4346]

@@dturner9354 I know, I was married once before to one who played the mind-games. It didn't work out, not just because of that but I also wasn't easy to live with, selfish etc., and we parted ways. Then I stayed single for at least 10 years before taking the plunge again. When you find a non-psychotic woman, put a ring on it!! lol

[@dturner9354]

Dax Bradley I just disagree with the “fear not part” What you said showed good character and gives hope :) I think men today should be VERY WARY of women. Not exactly afraid, but CAREFUL. Brave yes, but knowing that MORE than half of women could be dragons that eat them. I am just saying MEN PROTECT YOUR ASSETS!!! I totally think the rest is very good encouragement and wisdom. Great that you had self reflection.... Its just MOST of my relationships have been bad and it feels like most women are big trouble these days... And most men i talk to, which i talk to literally thousands of men, most admit that women these days are trouble. So, most men have exited the marriage marketplace.... Which for a civilization to survive AND THRIVE, 90% of ppl must enter into monogamous marriage and focus on raising good kids etc etc etc Yet MOST men are FAR from being married now :/ PS I am NOT saying women are dragons, I am just looking at statistics showing that about 30% of men do get destroyed by divorce and live in poverty the rest of their lives..... I am not blaming all women, but when dealing with a dangerous situation that can ruin the rest of yohr life... BE CAREFUL

[@sherryrink2473]

Thank You so much Dax for saying that. This Woman is not funny and annoying!! If this was the Relationship I had with MY Husband..I would RUNNN!

[@oaneschriemer2724]

Not yet

[@mingo2024]

I applaud this woman😂 Ive been guilty of those very things, but quit years ago when i realised it did not serve me or my relationship well. #personalgrowth

[@francisdashwood1760]

Oh, so you quit because it didn't serve your purposes? I note that you didn't quit because you were psychologically abusing your husband. No, you were ONLY concerned with yourself!

[@goodguygto]

If my wife asked me do you think she's prettier than me?? I'll say go ask her, if she's pretty!!!!!! Wife says, I'm asking you!!!, I say; I'M NOT THE ONE LOOKING AT HER"!!!

[@howardkerr8174]

That's pretty good, but if you actually say that be sure your wife is MILES away from a gun, car, or any pointed or blunt object. So I guess answer in a mall where there will be plenty of witnesses to your argument of self defense.

[@goodguygto]

@@howardkerr8174 Or you can say to her (your wife), I have MY blinders on!!!, I don't know what you're talking about!!!!!!😑

[@nicolarollinson4381]

Smart 😁👍🏽

[@goodguygto]

@@nicolarollinson4381 Thanks!!😏👍

[@nicolarollinson4381]

@@goodguygto I can't find my comment and haven't a clue what I wrote. A lot of water under the brigde since then but, you're welcome and thank YOU for the acknowledgment 👍🏽

[@KINGDOMKONCEPT]

randy was a true sport lol

[@stephenolder4552]

I wonder how many women in the audience are thinking "traitor".

[@mimiel7938]

She s reducing us to manipulativ bitchs to feed her own jokes ..if a woman asks the first question it s beacause you re not paying attention to her and complimenting her enough ..and that doesnt stand from a lack of salf confidence but more a reassurance that u do love her and find her attractive ...and ghe last question well may be if men were able to share their feeling we wouldnt have to ask them that question

[@jorgenalley3716]

All the dislikes for this vid

[@thinkfloyd2594]

@@mimiel7938 So your justification for acting that way is because a man isn't complimenting you enough? Try having a smidge of self-respect and you won't need compliments to feel like a person. The irony is your response is the epitome of your problem!

[@fkjms73]

mimi el Jesus Christ, the world doesn’t revolve around you! Chill!

[@fkjms73]

mimi el Men for the most part, don’t know how to share their feelings!! It’s just the way we’re wired!! And it’s a good thing we don’t, because we suck it up and not make those around us suffer with us!!

[@eaubert1]

I love this woman's brutal honesty! True story: I once texted a girl I was dating. In that interaction, she accused me of not texting her often enough! That's basically like the teacher who scolds those students who are actually present that they're a terrible class because of all the students who skipped class.

[@simosc2]

What a wonderful and truthful performance !!!I Loooove this mans laugh. !!!!!

[@melissapetersonify]

Of course she's prettier than you, YOu picked her out! LMAO

[@howardchambers3163]

24kGoldenRocket yes you did

[@lylestavast7652]

or will when she reads this :)

[@michaeld3138]

melissa peterson lmao

[@walterpaton8698]

melissa peterson . ..haha..

[@cjbarahona5770]

In the immortal words of Katt Williams, "self-esteem is called 'selef-esteem' for a reason!"

[@entitykeeper8869]

Women accountable, now that is the funniest thing that I ever heard.

[@dturner9354]

Entity Keeper They can be

[@oughtssought1198]

accountability requires transparency???

[@sleepup7931]

wife ask me "will you marry after me?" Me "HELL NO, why would I go through this again?

[@luizbezerra4373]

"Woman, do not ask him about your weight; use a scale." -> THIS. BEST. SENTENCE.

[@peterpiper482]

As Al Bundy once said "This fat women asked me how she looked from the back,I said I only had half a tank of gas in my car"

[@fivestring65ify]

I LOVE this woman. She's actually using her brain instead of being a drama queen.

[@altaylor3988]

Is that Really Really what you meant to say "instead of being a drama Queen????" ... REALLY

[@dangeary2134]

@@altaylor3988is that a concession, or a retort???

[@satori-in-life]

I'm showing my lady this right now. God bless Connie Podesta.

[@tomster7574]

my wife watched this with me. laughed at all of them cuz she does none of them. lucky me :)

[@davidstoyanoff]

gabe b it's been a year, how did it work out with your wife?

[@JennyG.COW5]

Thank you for telling us about which questions to avoid. Also, thanks for letting us know what we can do better! 😊

[@luvr381]

Best thing you can do is shut up and go away.

[@mimiel7938]

Are u being sarcastic or serious ?????????????

[@martinkuliza]

@@mimiel7938 No i think she's being serious

[@flydieselair]

Women ask a lot more than 5 stupid questions for sure.

[@bobbobson4607]

yes and sometime they just rephrase the same question 50 different ways thinking that somehow the answer will magically change .

[@cafeta]

lol

[@tjhammer24]

That's what I was thinking glad someone said it

[@normansawatzky4778]

This should be the #1 up vote for this video!!!

[@bertkutoob]

@@bobbobson4607 And even if the question is about something completely different it will end up being the same as before...

[@Mad9977]

"she can't handle the honest truth" so true that 😂

[@fkjms73]

This lady gets it!! God bless her!!

[@kopaskutq]

This is gold, so happy I found this !

[@patmelton43]

It is not gold; it's crap.

[@charleslang2126]

Absolutlely hilarious!! I can't count how many times I've been similarly trapped.

[@bobbyhood101]

Women don't want you they want someone they've made up in their Heads and glued your Picture to ! No matter how great you are to women Your a fixer upper!

[@Lmiller201]

John Fisher don’t forget the money

[@Lmiller201]

John Fisher well women are about two things; attention and money. if you get attention from the rest of the herd, she’ll be interested, once interested, she will gravitate around to see if you can give her the standard of living she thinks she deserves... and these two metrics are ever increasing. pull her out of the trailer park and a few yrs later she’ll want to live in the suburbs, then in the foothills, and as long as you kiss her ass up to her level and she can brag to her friends about you, she’ll keep you. if she finds a guy with more money or your attention wanes, you’re left on the curbside. unless she can take your money and get the attention some where else, then you are put into legal servitude.

[@cynthiahughes1081]

I'd hate to see or know the woman you guys have been seeing/hooking up with or trying to. Because they have really given you a bad view. All women aren't like that! Some of us have alot to offer and really are looking for love not money and someone they can use and mold to their liking. I'm sorry that you've had such bad experiences but I do wonder about your choices. Maybe your just drawn to that kind of women. At any rate maybe you should check that out and figure out what you do and don't want in one and go after a different kind. It also helps to figure out why that happened to you. Sorry for the long comment but that's how I finally found and got the guy and relationship I wanted.

[@Lmiller201]

Cynthia Hughes no... all women are like that. quit pretending or lying to yourself that you are one of the special few that isn’t about attention and money.

[@Lmiller201]

John Gault meaning what exactly?

[@JeremyHolmes]

Men, start being honest and never stop no matter what. Women get to be who they are, why can't we. You'll lose a chick here and there but eventually you'll meet a girl who lives in reality.

[@aamnahere6250]

I never asked any of these questions because my husband tells me what's wrong and even what's not wrong all the time. He's too expressive with me which I adore. I never asked him to notice me because he genuinely pays attention to know if I've colored my hair or bought a new dress. He wouldn't notice that much about the house but with me, I've never had to ask him. He also genuinely compliments me and considering the fact that I know that he doesn't flatter, I know he means them.

[@peterpiper482]

Why not just get a real dog? Not the lapdog you appear to have

[@dantaylor7344]

For the guys here's the answers to the questions:- 1. "Yes I do, you're more beautiful today than you were yesterday 2. "Oh yes and that's just the way I like you, it's one of the reasons I bought that ring on your finger darling" 3. "I'm thinking this time together is important for our relationship" 4. "Which woman, I don't see her" 5. "Nothing now I'm home and seeing you" Don't thank me, thank the misery of experience in one failed relationship after another.

[@dougb5324]

Fake answers won't save having made poor choices.

[@dantaylor7344]

ALL relationships are fake. Where have you been for the last 3 million years?

[@dougb5324]

Right. If you can't succeed, no one can, and there can't possibly be any foundational error on your part, like tending to fall for women who happen to be an oncoming relationship disaster. Such questions are warning flags, and there are no right answers. There are only answers (like your examples) meant to defuse, deflect or manipulate the questioner in the same way she's doing to you. Often the same trait that attracted them, like "strong & silent type", they later interpret as uncommunicative. Just because I may be personally better off without a deja vu relationship doesn't mean that other people can't pull it off, as in: not possible. I wish them the best. Then I once again appreciate my own freedom from hoop-jumping , confusion and stress. It may suck to be single in some ways, but it's a life-shortening disaster to be shackled to the wrong person or persons.

[@dantaylor7344]

Oh dear we have a man child, one day you'll grow up into a real adult and those ill chosen word of yours will seem as silly as the attitude you typed them with.

[@dougb5324]

That one made me smile. Thanks.

[@Splunkzop]

My wife came home with a new haircut. In the 30+ years I've known her she has always had long hair, this time it was short... really short. She said, 'Do you like my new haircut?' and I blurted out, 'You look like a lesbian!'. She didn't talk to me for two weeks. At least her hair is now long again.

[@kelm386]

Splunkzop how insensitive of you 😉😒

[@captainkirk9602]

yeah i dont understand this, if somebody ask me a question i give them a honest answer , i say no i dont like short hair change it back

[@jaymcd8577]

lol!

[@blrguy1974]

perhaps she took your word for it and was trying to talk up some women all that while

[@murphmurph2124]

Wow! that's bravery

[@workwithnature]

When I got married my father said you just have to learn three magic words. Yes my dear!

[@TheBashar327]

They all have the same root problem, women ask for honesty but they always require men to lie.

[@Cyber.Lynx.]

I don't think it's about honesty. I think it's about power. At the base level of perception, women feel intimidated by men due to the physiological differences that equate to men "winning" if a physical confrontation occurred. So, they employ psychological and/or sociological strategies to gain the upper hand, or at least, an "equal" hand. What seems to be lost is that equal does not necessarily mean "the same". Take salt and pepper. Very different, but equally important in seasoning foods. I would hate to think what would happen if they became the same flavor. It would be bland. And worse, pointless.

[@oughtssought1198]

@@Cyber.Lynx. an excellent pt well said. is it really a gender issue? seems mgmt in bureaucracies that act opposite to alleged purpose use same dynamic as loyalty test.

[@TopEvt]

This should be a marriage counseling video lol

[@hurdyb1]

A-FREAKING-MEN

[@Eos05]

Yeah from 1954...if a husband or wife is roping each other into fights or playing mind games that marriage or relationship is doomed. It's 2019 if you're pulling does this dress make look fat!? And not just searching for reassurances because you feel frumpy, you're an asshole and a nightmare to be with

[@hurdyb1]

Unfortunately it still happens so there are MANY a-holes in relationships.

[@ginnyjollykidd]

He was a brave dude!

[@wrennspencer6070]

so right on! I loved him!

[@gentlespiritdavis]

Spot on ! And this is exactly why I haven't remarried

[@tdaddy8905]

John MacArthur Yup! MGTOW

[@tomster7574]

1 1 sad to say you are incorrect. For you it sad. No offense. My first marriage was toxic. But I was the stupid one for actually wanting to marry her after seeing all the red flags. Now I'm happily remarried to a wonderful woman who does none of that crap. She has her own idiosyncrasies but she is a wonderful caring woman who is easy to talk to you.

[@RoninCatholic]

I long ago resolved to answer all these sorts of questions honestly and directly. If you can't handle a straight answer you shouldn't be asking the question, and if you've gotten this far with _me_ you know that I value truth over feelings.

[@dncarac]

One of my favorite lines is/; " If you don't want to hear the answer, don't ask the question"

[@MK007-YT]

@@dncarac, in agreement. IF you do not want an honest assessment of whatever you are asking about, Do Not ask that question.

[@jonathanbair523]

I love how she showed the trap "Never mind, just go, just go *head nods* really" So he walks off and shes like "Oh oh oh so you just walked off." LOL Poor guy was thinking he was done and didn't realize he feel for the classic trap......I love how he is just laughing and then looks around for the flowers as a "peace gift".... then the "I want a hug.... Oh no I don't want the hug because I had to ask for it..."

[@lynndebeal6126]

When I get asked what I’m thinking, the answer is usually lyrics. Or music. Especially if my big toe is moving.

[@GeneralG1810]

Every time a woman asks any of these questions just think of Admiral Akbar "It's a trap!"

[@weswolever7477]

AussieBlokeGordo Either that or just fake your death

[@im1who84u]

When you get asked a question like that, don't say anything, just walk out of the room. If she follows you, walk out of that room. If she follows you again, walk out of the building. If she still follows you, then just keep on walking and don't stop till she stops following you and is out of sight. Go to a hotel, rent a room, and go back home tomorrow. Repeat as necessary.

[@2AForever-wi8yj]

When they ask one of those questions you have only one viable option FAKE A HEART ATTACK

[@samanthapeters2972]

I had a boyfriend, he asked me "is my girth, and length bigger than your past partners?" I paused to long in answering his question. He was actually the smallest. He got angry at me, he said "go away never come back." I replied honestly "I get extreme physical pain when a guy is to big. When it hurts I have to lay back, try to relax without peeing, and try not cry. Your not to big...that's a good thing." Each woman is different internally. Some women have a cervix that is low. They feel pain if a guy is to long, and keeps hitting the cervix. Some women's bladder is close to the wall. I feel lots of pressure on my bladder when a guy's girth is to big. It makes my wall, and bladder tense up so I don't pee. Even when my bladder is empty, the pressure makes it feel full. Having a tense wall brings on pain, because everything tightens up. Look at a chart to see where a woman's bladder is sitting, and where the cervix is. Please guys don't ask us women if you're big. You could be smaller than other guys, but be perfect for her.

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

Samantha, the funny thing is that many women will brag about how they have no use for a small dick and they will act like they can handle a big penis but most women actually don't pleasure from a larger penis. I am above average and every woman I have slept with has complained about discomfort or pain and asked me to slow down or not go as deep. So women like to pretend like they like big guys, but ask any well endowed guy and they will tell you that most women can't handle it anyway.

[@elizabethhu351]

Nick DipaoloFan I mean this in absolute earnest. If your partner is in pain because your penis is too big, it could mean one of a couple things but most likely she's not turned on enough physically (not a jab at you, women just need more stimulation) so then she's not wet enough and not able to stretch enough to fit you. Simply put. Try more foreplay. Lube also helps. There's other technical issues but you can google it. Trust me, your size is a good thing if you're on the same level. Sex is a conversation, not a race, meaning you should both be on equal terms, with give and take, for you to both accomplish something :)

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

@@elizabethhu351 there is a lot of truth to what you said. I have noticed that when the woman is on top, she is able to go full boar and hump the shit out of me. but if it is me that is getting excited and I am on top, that is when it is more uncomfortable for her. Also, yes, lube is a huge help for women. But my statement still stands, there is such a thing as "too big" and I am not even claiming to be porn level. If a woman was honest, there is a "just right" size for each woman and usually that size is not "whiffle ball bat" size.

[@elizabethhu351]

Nick DipaoloFan awww that's kind of romantic. "Find the partner that can fit your penis just right". Kidding. In terms of girth tho... you can adapt, but you're right that you can't lengthen someone's vagina to fit a penis that's too lengthy for it. If you're bigger than average then you'll have to find someone with a bigger than average vagina. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Sounds like you know what works for you and for your partner in the mean time. Good luck out there! (In general, not just in bed haha).

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

@@elizabethhu351 Thanks, yup I think that this (size incompatibility) is a major contributing factor for why some couples just don't enjoy sex with each other. Some women cant get it done because he is smaller or larger than she prefers. And same with guys, some women are the grand canyon and there is no sensation there, or some women are so small that they are in pain and they guy has to go too slow and finds it hard to climax. Sometime this is missing link to good sex is just finding a partner that can "fit the bill" hahaha

[@stephaniemackoul971]

The visual learning of this excercise is epic! Awesome Lessons here!

[@NT-yx1os]

Whenever my wife asks "what should I wear?", I respond "nothing"

[@billreddy7593]

Almost EVERY question can lead to an argument.

[@michaelpavone5878]

I’ve been married for 40 years , been asked the dress question a lot , and some of the other questions once in a while and others never . But no matter what the question if it involves her looks I have the standard HONEST reply , I married you for you . Not for what you were at 21 only . I’ve changed too , do you still love me with the extra weight I’ve put on , the folds and sags and gray hair ? End of discussion and continuation of the loving ! Wouldn’t trade her in for anything .

[@johnvilnis83]

Anytime a woman asks/tells a man that they should be honest about an answer, the man should just have a stroke and lose the ability to talk because that is about the only way you are not going to get in trouble.

[@theveganwujeeta]

Or you answer honestly and walk off if she cops an attitude. Then if that ends the relationship she probably wasn't worth the effort.

[@TheHighborn]

@@theveganwujeeta this^

[@perryoparsonneseatingjuicy8738]

John Vilnis oh you’d hear from her again in the hospital! Under very few circumstances would a woman refrain from holding a man accountable for the“honest” answer she so desperately wants

[@TheHighborn]

@@perryoparsonneseatingjuicy8738 nice joke you got there.

[@kellytyson2156]

I completely agree with this woman. Honestly I sometimes it isn't on purpose but when I do catch myself doing or saying these kind of things; I remind myself that this behavior is not respectful but also it is manipulative. And I don't want to be a little manipulative, whinny girl. I want to be a respectful and reliable woman that the men in my life can rely on and that does not have to walk on eggshells around me.

[@GrikWorldNomad]

You got the manipulation part right, but it's her that's doing the manipulating

[@The_Butler_Did_It]

@Repent and believe in Jesus Christ Prat!

[@scottturcotte1860]

This is so funny, because it's so accurate... And she does such a wonderful job at embellishing things to really bring out the absurdity of the attitude behind needing to ask these types of things... so that women can see it and not be stuck this way! I think that one of the most eye opening concepts, about the difference between how a man thinks compared to a woman that I have heard, came from David Snyder, which is this, men think in terms of cause and effect, but women think in terms of complex equivalents... and his example of this in action has a similar out come... the guy is going to lose no matter what he does or says! But understanding the difference helps with the patience factor for a guy, and helps a woman to tone down the "emotional logic" that creates such unreasonable expectations... and impossible questions that can't be honestly answered without a problem... we're both wired by evolution to think differently, but that doesn't excuse us from trying to do better at working with each other

[@davidbroughall3782]

My answer to question 4 would not be "What woman?" It would be "Which one?"

[@Cyber.Lynx.]

My answer would be, "Do you find her attractive?"

[@joee7626]

Girls learn this and other crappy behaviors as children and just improve and refine it as they get older. They don't fight like men, they cut each other to ribbons verbally as they smile at each other.

[@JDsModernMartialArts]

I like this woman! Thank you for stating these truths!

[@bandaddie]

The trap set for me is my wife comes from an area of the southern USA where people, women in particular, never ask questions. They make demands or accusations. which they think are questions. For instance, my wife once stated to me, "You are going to the store." This came at a moment when giving me an order was inappropriate. In her mind, she was politely asking, "Are you going to the store?" She never asks, "Does this dress make me look fat?" rather, she states, "You think this dress makes me look fat." though in her mind, it is a question. Just try to find a way of avoiding conflict when facing that. The Southern language from her region is cruel, sarcastic, and condescending, and spoken by all. We finally ended up in marriage counseling. I made it most clear, there is a name for people who habitually says things other than what they are thinking. That name is "liar" and i refused to continue in a relationship with a liar. It turned out, the counselor was a woman from the region. She confirmed what I said and told my wife she struggles every day to loose it. I will fight back by pointing out the stupidity and cruelty of my wife's language. My wife said of me, "When people say stupid things to you, like the woman in this video; you fight back. You stick the bayonet in, twist it and break it off."

[@ooshta]

Brilliant just Brilliant. So spot on God bless you 🙏.

[@yokie52]

This is so trite and simplistic. If these are your worst problems, you don't have problems.

[@spruceguitar]

Reminds me of personal similar situations. This video is gold because it confirms that my never getting married was a great decision. I do fall in and out of love every few years. But I’m not trapped in any ugly situation, where one has a low sex drive and one doesn’t receive what one needs from the person they are sharing their bed with.

[@atomiswave1971]

The stupidist question is asking a man if he is asleep. Especially if your shouting it up the stairs.. More especially if you call their name first, wait for their response and then ask the question.

[@AtotehZ]

That has nothing to do with gender. That's just a stupid question.

[@Widdekuu91]

I honestly think it's a very efficient question. Either you get no response, that means 'Yes' or 'No, I'm awake!' means you can start a conversation. If the guy is half-asleep and thinks, Oh I'm not going to bother answering that...you're making him aware of the fact it's important by going; 'Are you asleep?!' (hereby assuming she needs your help. Otherwise, indeed, it's stupid) They want you to answer. If you say something back, 'No, I'm reading!' that means the man knows he can expect you in the room in a couple of minutes, she doesn't have to be silently sneaking up the stairs. And it means she can as him to help her with something, if that's neccessary. He's awake. Yet if he doesn't answer, that means he's either asleep or dead. So she'll be quiet, sneak into the room and check if he's still breathing, kiss him on the forehead and apologize if he wakes up and whisper; 'I'm back home, I'll come lay next to you, I'm going to take off my make up, be right back.'

[@Widdekuu91]

Oh and yes, I always check if people are still alive when they're sleeping near me. Especially if I care for them and if they have been drinking or are sick. I álways check if they're alive, every morning and evening while they're asleep. Pretty sure I'm not the only one that needs to check before they go to bed themselves.

[@Lmiller201]

my favorite was, sitting on the couch, in boxers/shorts watching tv. commercial comes on .. now bathroom one direction, kitchen other. head towards bathroom..(wait for it) “where are you going?” now... you may think this as an isolated incident. no. i even care up with retorts “to recontemplate the theories of quantum physics” second wife comes along and we do the “stupid things our exes did” and that question was at the top. six months later... you guessed it “where are you going?” responded with my usual line... “well you don’t have to be an asshole about it” to which i respond “yeah i do if you’re gonna ask stupid questions like that “ women have no sense of humor by the way

[@thomasfleig1184]

Might as well bang two pots together and say "oh, did I wake you"?

[@jusnuts1443]

I still remember what my Dad said to me 25 years ago on the day I married my wife.... "Son, don't try to understand her. Just love her." I've followed that advice. That's why I'm still married to my sweetheart. And... I don't answer loaded questions that she asks!! "Do these jeans make my butt look big?" Loaded question. "Are you happy with the size of my boobs?" Loaded question. "Do you like this hair color?" Loaded question.

[@mightress]

Jus' Nuts do these jeans make my butt look fat? No, makes your butt look better. Problem solved

[@jusnuts1443]

I do like a bit more in the booty dept. More cushion for pushin'! Oh, did I say that?? I'm a baaaaad boy!

[@jusnuts1443]

Yep, after a few pints! HAHA! Don't get pissed, I am of Irish decent. And Welsh. And Dutch. And German. Do you think I like beer?? HAHAAHA!

[@captainkirk9602]

Jus' Nuts all these white women asking do this jeans make my butt big need to get black men

[@jusnuts1443]

It ain't just black men who like a nice, big round woman's tushy! Uh Huh!

[@bradleyriddell4745]

This woman is being as truthful as a presenter of any “training” or self-help presentation can afford to be. She asks questions & answers them as if they’re the only “truths” that need disseminating. They never have been & never will be!

[@marious2k]

"Does this dress make me look fat? " No hon,the hershey bars and ice cream makes you look fat. The dress just shows it off better

[@v.e.7236]

Too cold! And, sadly, right on mark. I've always wondered how a woman can praise a man one day and turn those same compliments/accolades into barbs the next?! Completely passive-aggressive! Perhaps the biggest reason I remain single and happy is their penchant for complicating the simplest of issues. Why is it so difficult to understand men and women are wired differently and approach relationships accordingly?! Great example of the futility relationships of other than a superficial nature with the average woman.

[@endthefed1448]

V. E. Majority women r narcissistic psychopaths, that's why

[@tomster7574]

maybe its the type of women you search for. ive had both. married the one that doesnt do this. after divorcing the one that does. had to have a hammer hit my on the head to realise the difference.

[@shuepsx652]

@@endthefed1448 Source?

[@laurieparis2203]

If this is what men have to go thru, it's no wonder they live shorter lives than women... the level of neuroticism here is thru the roof. Dont ask questions, ladies, unless you're prepared for an honest answer. Don't set up anyone you care about, to fail a game of cat amd mouse. Respect your partners need for space. Same goes for you men!

[@sugarnads]

Laurie Paris this is damn near EVERY mans life when theyre in any sort of relationship. Shit testing that you CANNOT win. Even when you give the correct response you still lose.

[@laurieparis2203]

Dellacondan Sounds like hell. My sympathies. I'm not like this, but my last man was. Came up with some doozies.

[@dave8168]

It is claimed that married men live longer than single men, but the married man looks forward to death more so than the single one.

[@im1who84u]

Dave, it has also been scientifically proven that fat women live longer than the men that tell them they are.

[@davem5308]

Ok boss, if you say so!

[@ictpilot]

Not all men are fools, some are Bachelors. 😁

[@mzzodiacc]

😂😂😂➡

[@TARIQLES]

Was thinking about marriage. *Never mind!*

[@jimaalex2656]

For some reasons, I have just been watching similar videos like this throughout today, and am enjoying it😂😂

[@TheCondor300]

I had a girlfriend who's Birthday was coming up... I asked what she might like? Nothing! This went on for 2 weeks... I asked 10 times! She said that if I got her something she would return it! Frustrating! Finally her Birthday came... I got her nothing... maybe she just wanted me for her Birthday, NOPE! She said, I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU DIDN'T GET ME ANYTHING FOR MY BIRTHDAY!!! WTF!

[@watutman]

Believe all women always.

[@Rick_Sanchez_C137_]

George Adams lucky you! Since you found out she was a psycho game player while still only your girlfriend no legal paperwork has to be done to get rid of her... you win!

[@frankboff1260]

Do you spend 2 weeks harassing other people about what they might want for their birthday? Instead of asking surely you have an idea of what she might like? Then you go and get it and give it to her. I agree she shouldn’t reply ‘nothing’ but did probably because many women are taught that it’s impolite to ask for what you want or that they shouldn’t think about their own needs. She should have answered honestly- you could have just purchased something you think she would like. Sheesh it’s not the general theory of relativity....

[@contr4dixion]

Or alternatively, she might not actually want anything specific, but you should still get her something, like any random thing. Maybe some women are more cryptic, they need you to know from hints and what they've told you long ago. But either way, no one can handle having 'nothing' for their birthday.

[@prosperitymail]

Hope you let hergo before she reeled you in and made you feel wrong for just breathing. Remember, it takes 2 to tango.

[@murlyo]

I'm gona create 10 000 accounts and will like this video with each of them.

[@sweetsalvation7143]

2 years have past: did you do it?

[@wascawywabbit0987]

Zlatin The real worry is that according to the thumbs down or dislikes 166 women as of this date saw themselves in Connie's depiction of women in general and didn't like what they saw, which is themselves. 1000 to 2000 likes against 166 dislikes means the amount of real crazy is about 10 to 16 percent.

[@samfosdick9874]

Angel Stoyanov Russian bot

[@mr.wizard2974]

what's up Angel?

[@KigreTheViking]

@Angel Stoyanov Are you still working on it? Its going slow. Keep it up though!

[@steveouk90126]

It's not now, nor has it ever been about getting what you want. It's about him jumping through hoops for your approval and your demands to pass judgment over him no matter what he says.

[@janetadams7724]

Steve of Unknown Kadath pp

[@bbqbob5128]

This is gold & I have bookmarked it for my wife, who may now question her motives. I now use a little humour, which works well. Next time you guys are asked "Do I look fat in this?", respond with "Not at all, honey. It is just so nice that I can see a little more of you!".

[@KingOfTheBeyond23]

She's a genius. A bit stereotypical but that's basically it.

[@jamesrussell2936]

I think the stereotype is what's funny.

[@mzzodiacc]

She seems a bit too controlling to me.. If she's married, I'll be surprised!

[@hawleyrigsby3123]

For the record, when my man has asked me if I notice anything different about his car, I did. I’m not going to tell anyone what to say, I will be an adult and tell them that I need a confidence boost, and if they can’t be an adult enough to honestly support me in that moment of vulnerability - deal breaker. Don’t ask any question you aren’t prepared to hear an honest answer to - include a negative one. This covers 3 out of 5 of those questions and applies to all adults. “What’s wrong?” is not a question to ask anyone if you’re not prepared to support the person answering the question. Once again, not a gender thing, just being an adult.

[@forensic9876]

Hawley Rigsby agreed

[@georgegates526]

Way to go Connie! Great video. Yup. No matter what a guy says or does, he is going to be wrong. Also a man is supposed to know what a woman is thinking and wants. I CAN'T DO THAT!!

[@MK007-YT]

In agreement.... I have NEVER, Ever been A Mind-Reader and NEVER will ( have NO aspirations to be one either ); although I have been accused of being so, by several different women on several different occasions ! 🤨

[@rh1507]

That whole video was a Déjà vu.

[@beardedroofer]

A woman said to her husband, "Honey, I lost 15 lbs!" He replied, "Well you better look behind you, it's following ya!"

[@paolos22]

There is a bigger issue here, and one people seem to miss all the time. All of these "questions" are concealed statements. As a therapist I encounter them all the time. Q1 "do you notice anything different?" Concealed statement "I'm feeling insecure and I'm needing some reassurance that you see me and find me attractive in this new outfit." (or some variation of this) The statement leads the person to be more vulnerable so instead they ask a loaded question that reverses the power dynamic. Women do this but men do it plenty. People hide behind questions all the time.

[@mimiel7938]

She is reducing women to manipulativ bitches just to feed her joke

[@johnw5584]

Why did I ask this question? Lol.

[@paolos22]

@@mimiel7938 Yup, agreed, and she doesn't just reduce women here.

[@chetan5016]

@@mimiel7938 I think you are one of them

[@jaabab]

@mayganhoople hmm so you are the most intelligent one here

[@HenkJanBakker]

Missing the biggest point: My wife always looks goooooood. Still she checks the mirror if she is decent enough to go outside...... Get it? It is not about what is there, it is about what we as man see when we look at the love of our live. It will never be too anything.

[@redshark9537]

I used to get in trouble with my ex-wife if I failed to notice the slightest alteration to her hair. So I shaved off my full beard. Two weeks passed without her noticing. I finally had to point it out to her. Moral of the story: if it's not about them, women do not care.

[@TheCenteroftheUniverse]

Sorry you got a lemon. But you misspelled "Narcissist."

[@gyleake]

Not agreeing with this.... I am a grown man and I know what I want to say, how to say it, etc. I do not want nor do I need someone to "lead me to right answer"...I am not a dummy...I am not a child.... and I am not a mind reader. I would not "just say anything to avoid a fight..". If you do not want the truth then do not ask. How about a 10 min video on how a woman should maybe grow up and understand that men are not women.....if you want this sort of dialogue ask a woman. If you are with me it is because I find you intelligent, funny, beautiful, etc etc and you do not need to fish for a compliment because I will give them to you daily.

[@carultch]

So when a woman who is your romantic partner asks you how she looks, and for whatever reason it may be, the truth is that you do not like how she looks, how do you answer it? Do you.... A: Tell her what you know she wants to hear, even if it is not true? B: Tell her the truth, and present it as constructive criticism?

[@carultch]

I agree, and I wish it were possible to give honest constructive feedback. But the fact of the matter is, most men who want to and think there is a chance to sleep with her, will tell her what she wants to hear, in order to avoid a dispute. Girlfriends, gay friends, consultants, and blood relatives are much more likely to give honest feedback.

[@Kaysler]

carultch -- if you're looking for a partner not a lay be honest, be kind - but be honest. How's this dress look. - It doesn't flatter you, i love how you look in the blue one. You don't have to tear your partner down to deliver negative truths.

[@gyleake]

carultch - there are too many males out there who are not acting/behaving/living as men. Not a crude and rude or crass and chauvinistic, but as a real, genuine man. If a person ask's you a question regarding how they look, speak the truth. You do not have to be an a-hole with your answer; give an honest opinion and then tell them why and what you feel they look good wearing. If this is how you have been living all the time, there will be no issue's. Boys attract girls. Girls react like this example. Men attract women....etc Or rather, grown-up's attract grown-up's and young folk attract...etc.

[@dougb5324]

The speaker is trying to teach women what not to ask, not coaching men on how to answer. You didn't pick up on this? Your response seems overly threatened and defensive.

[@lruthers9348]

My husband's answer to "does this make me look bad?" - "Do I look stupid?"

[@outlawjesus]

never once asked any of these questions of my husband, but i'm not that insecure either. i've also been happily married for 20+ years. this has nothing to do with the sex of the person, but rather respecting one another.

[@yamax1]

how to get laid or how to get rich - so many books has been written and still no answer

[@QED_]

It's not the answer that's a problem. It's the execution . . .

[@patrickmcshane7658]

write those books

[@wrennspencer6070]

because those aren't the right questions, that's why! how can I find my most compatible soulmate & how can I support myself doing what I live are the questions. Ask the right question & you'll get an answer.

[@ScrewFearMe]

but women today dont want to date guys who can only "support themselves"

[@Tommy1andonly]

No matter what a woman sais, it'#s a TRAP.

[@whodidthat2732]

Tommy Kolbergas . no shit. I have lived this shit. F%=÷ing women.

[@alaskanalain]

and anything you say is wrong

[@UncleBaldy]

Indeed 'Bingo'

[@bartstarr2371]

Issa trap

[@carris3ringcircus390]

I'm a woman and this made me crazy 😂 Its usually a guy asking what I'm thinking. I say.. those clouds look like a dog and a cat doing it. And that's the honest to God truth😂... It's just not usually that deep.💁

[@davvyki4178]

stop flatering urself

[@carris3ringcircus390]

@@davvyki4178 😅

[@JohnSmith-ok9sn]

Let me guess, your are still single?

[@carris3ringcircus390]

@Tom Reedy Lol..ok. You don't have to.

[@Katya_Lastochka]

@@carris3ringcircus390 Wow, so many negative comments for such an innocent comment. So many bitter people.

[@rbloch66]

The clip was 13 years ago and she still made me sweat, and get that crappy feeling in the pit of my gut.

[@olson091]

This is the most honest discourse I've ever seen from a woman.

[@ashleyashleym2969]

people actually ask these questions? I thought they were just in movies for the humour factor.

[@gwidao123]

Ashley ASHLEYM Have you ever had a girlfriend? xD

[@ginnyjollykidd]

+Ashley ASHLEYM Yes, I have asked these. That's before I realized how much of a setup they are. I try to make them specific, now, if there is that opportunity to be had.

[@billdodger2036]

maybe you should ask if he ever had the right girlfriend, and not the losers you date

[@cipher88101]

No, unfortunately some women ask it when they get insecure and some just when they are bored and want some drama or to manipulate for something else later, a sort of down payment in guilt on a request she either knows she is going to make or banking that she is going to make. The problem with those women is that they think they are so clever that nobody else can see it. Just a bunch of cruel social gaming with somebody that you're supposed to care about imo. Have a good one :)

[@defensegeneral9893]

they ask this questions because they test you

[@lululiligaga]

😂😂😂👍👍

[@LightWrksPodcast]

Awesome! My husband loved it! Lol

[@keemez]

He was probably starin at her rack. It's pretty fab.

[@tidefanyankee2428]

She DOES have a nice rack.....I gotta be honest....

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

tig ol bitties

[@alpollick4599]

She might as well of walked in and said, "I demand to fight!"

[@alanfrost75]

This woman is brilliant :D The one that gets me always is the "what are you thinking question". Guys can literally think of nothing. Like putting a car into neutral and staring into space. And whenever I have been asked the question, she always thought I was lying when I said "nothing".

[@okandthen1234]

NOTHING BOX should be open in this case,,, hahahhaa

[@crawlingboy]

yes the nothing boc

[@JakkFrost1]

I love my nothing box!

[@MichaelBullut]

God bless her!

[@patmelton43]

For pitting the sexes against one another? I don't think so.

[@kswift672000]

Lol who is she??? She is spot on correct

[@sutats]

Her name's in the video title.

[@kswift672000]

Got it thanks!

[@patmelton43]

No, she generalizes. I have never in my life asked my husband such questions. Never. Maybe she is stupid but she can't take us all down.

[@kswift672000]

I see, but her method is just like taking a hand full of rocks and throwing them Into a crowd of women “metaphorically” the ones who yell ouch! That’s who it applies to, I hear a lot of women say ; “Men are no good” sorry , cheat, dogs etc. I’m never offended , because I know it does not apply to me. No matter how general that comment is that some women make.....

[@tobymcgroby8967]

@@patmelton43 Oh jesusssssss...

[@lesleysullivan6458]

The hug skit really says it all, lol. Busted out laughing.

[@tropicallivingoverseas5202]

Each question taken from the book Idiots Guide to bad sitcom script writing: 1970s edition.

[@theymusthatetesla3186]

Very well observed! Take note, Ladies!

[@superiorgas294]

My wife is not like typical woman. And that's why I love her so much. She is real and down to earth and understands what REAL life is.

[@henryknight7876]

she wanted something that went from zero to 150 in three seconds, I got her a scale

[@cynthiahughes1081]

henry knight hahaha! Cute

[@homerthomas6564]

henry knight had

[@jonjones971]

Very funny dude .. very funny

[@TopHat_VR828]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@JohnDoe-zl6qw]

Total lack of responsibility for their own feelings and thoughts for fear of being held accountable; instead, displacing the responsibility onto their partner (thus the loaded and leading questions). Coupled with crushing insecurity. Yep, pretty much sums it up. She's spot on.

[@negakirine]

OMG, thank you! :-D That last situation... you can only see how ridiculous it is when you are outside of it.