5 Things Foreigners Fear When Dating A Filipina

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2 years ago it started with a hello message on bumble, then a flight over there to meet her, a couple more flights to make sure she was the one for me, while all the time she was trying her best to show me she will be a good wife to me, I married her and she is even sweeter and more caring to me now, I asked her why she tried so hard to make a relationship with me, her only answer was … because I’m a kind person, that’s all she really wanted. Now I’m so proud to provide for her, keep her safe and loved, never thought I would be this bless and all thanks to Pea talking about her country ☺️

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Same for me. I took a chance and never regretted anything. I found a brilliant beautiful kind loving woman. She’s even a doctor surgeon and very family oriented. 😊 I found the woman of my dreams ❤

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Well stated and I am very happy for you. I am a little behind you, but on the way.

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[@President-Elect_Cory]

I don’t think those fears are unreasonable. Acting in spite of fear is courage… so cheers to those that have fears and venture out anyway.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thats bravery (and hopefully not just blind luck) 🤣👍

[@eternalkproductions]

@@TheFilipinaPeawhat’s your thoughts? Should one be brave and dive in or have a more skeptical approach and be patient observing to see if this interest is genuine?

[@JohnnyLynnLee]

How much BS abut "traditions" and "the culture in your home country have changed". It's a simple thing: It's called EXCHANGE RATE. A guy who can't even afford rent in the West can go to a developing country and look rich and a walking passport to a girl dreaming of living in a high income country. But you'll buy into all those lies thinking that that sexy younger girl REALLY likes you because she is more "traditional" and really thinks your 60 year old belly is sexy. Since you don't have ANY other possible qualities as a man may have to attract women (being handsome, cool, talented, being muscular, treating women as human beings, etc) and to gain all those traits (and even the next one if you plan to to it in your home country) will take effort and time you can "suddenly become" rich and looking more attractive by that factor alone by simply moving to a low income country and spending your meager pension there. It's really JUST THAT. But accepting this clear fact huts your pride.

[@SLOBeachboy]

Well, I would have to agree with you 100% that it's always good to face your fears and to hopefully overcome them. In fact, I have often said that the only true failure in life if not even trying (out of either fear or laziness). As for the fears being reasonable or not, I would point out that fear itself is not really reasonable or rational. Fear is designed to keep animals out of danger but in human beings who can reason things out fear actually does much more harm than good. In fact, for every human life that is saved by fear there are probably a hundred more who die indirectly due to fear. Fear also causes people to miss out on both financial opportunities and romantic opportunities - I think we can all relate to the fear of rejection when we were young. Basically, fear is predominantly a negative and destructive thing in human beings - although it does feel great to overcome a fear. That is not to say that one should not have a healthy respect for possible dangers. But you do not need to be terrified of a rattle snake to know to keep a safe distance from it. There is a big difference between having a healthy respect for the dangers and being fearful. Fear almost always causes people to make the wrong decisions. Furthermore, those fears are often based on the persons own internal issues rather than on real world conditions. In fact, I have met countless women in my life who were so terrified of being hurt again that they would end up pushing all the really good guys away by seeing “red flags” that in fact did not exist. It was just their fear causing them to see things that were not there. And some will even make up absurd dating rules which they think will keep them safe from making the wrong decisions. For example, I knew of two different Thai women who had a rule that they would not date a Westerner if he had previously dated a Thai woman (so idiotic). But of course, eventually these women will always repeat the same pattern and will end up with a guy who will hurt them again and this will make them even more fearful and overly cautious. As for dating women in Southeast Asia I have never had any fears at all in the 35 years I have been traveling to and living in these places. I have a healthy respect for possible dangers of course but no fears whatsoever. This is primarily due to the fact that I am so good at reading people and situations that I can always weed out the scammers or gold diggers, etc., almost immediately and not waste my time on them. And once I decide a girl is genuine and that her feelings for me are genuine - which is fairly quickly - I never turn out to be wrong about her later on. But if you are not good at reading people, I guess it could definitely seem like a bit of a gamble - maybe even a game of Russian roulette. But is it really? There is actually more to it than that. The fact of the matter is that most of the guys who get into trouble in the Philippines share a similar phycological makeup which causes them to ignore even the most obvious trouble signs - not unlike people who let themselves be catfished. Basically, there are certain types of guys who are just always going to fall for scammers or women who are going to take advantage of them, and there are certain types of guys who will not. But it has nothing to do with how much experience you have in the Philippines or how much you have educated yourself to the dangers. These first types of guys will always end up with the wrong women no matter how many KZbin videos they watch on the dangers of women in the Philippines. Then of course there is the flip side of this coin. You have a lot of these guys who think they can always spot the scammers but in reality, they are just so jaded and cynical that they think pretty much everyone is out to get them. In other words, they are mistaking cynicism for being savvy and street smart. And I have run across of ton of these types in Southeast Asia. By the way, you should never watch KZbin videos made by these types of guys.

[@jasonbourne1596]

​@@SLOBeachboyWhat's the name of your book?

[@drushing92]

Yeah, I've heard all those insecurities from others, masked in the form of concern. But I wouldn't trade my Filipina for nothing! Her traditional values, soft nature, and supportive team sport attitude is invaluable. It's nice to know I have someone I can count on.

[@kendallevans4079]

yeah, right! "others"?

[@drjonesey5]

Everything you said, I have from my wife in America whose Caribbean. I'm not against traveling and going abroad but I find that if you believe you SHOULD or HAVE TO or you make a big deal about it, usually you were part of the problem of why you couldn't land a good woman in the states to begin with. There's plenty " traditional values, soft nature, and supportive team sport attitude" women in the West but when men stopped vetting and demanding things of women, they accepted the behavior of bad women or just immature women more often. Something men also forget is that, foreign women come to U.S.A/West all the time. Both for work, to live, to visit family and other reasons. Here in New York, we have entire communities of different people groups. If you want a Filipina, just go to the Filipina community and hang out. I'm black, when I was dating mostly Latina's, I just hung out in their neighborhoods and had no problem finding girlfriends. Also hung out in Caribbean places. My wife is Caribbean, we just happen to meet online. She was born in America, went to her parents country, came back when she was 18, I met her when she was 26. perfect balance of traditionalism and understanding American culture too and rejecting the foolish parts. Been with my wife for 7 years.

[@tomster7574]

@@drjonesey5 you assume too much. All of it incorrect.

[@bobbruce4135]

@@drjonesey5 You speak truths. But, they the elephant in the room has been said a zillion times in this video, namely, the "age pill". Real romantic love requires Passion (hot burning desire) as shown in the Sternberg's Triangle. Most of these relationships are about Companionate love (for marriage, babies, sending money home, etc.). This is why the lady seeking a foreigner says "age is just a number" (it's not). It's a road out of poverty.

[@FancyActionNow]

I have listed my house and plan on moving to Thailand. Phillipines was next on the list and I will be visiting soon. Quick guide: DON'T be an old fool. Keep your finances close to your vest, ALWAYS! DON'T be Flashy & Flossy with money, you make yourself a mark. DON'T Be intoxicated while the sun's out 5 out of 7 days. DO maintain a good appearance that speaks to status, which women appreciate. Do maintain manners and courtesy. You're a guest. Do grab a check and leave it at that with beautiful island girl.

[@ScooterOnHisWay2024]

The Pea knocks it out of the park again. Nicely done as always, Pea!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@curtisstockton7890]

Great job again Ms Pea love all of you insights and sense of humor ..you truly take the steps to bring many considerations to life

[@ianjohnson4753]

In my experience women are kind of the same the world over. Overall I still found filipinas very pleasant and kind

[@ScooterOnHisWay2024]

@@ianjohnson4753 There is never a 100% guarantee, but 99% of the time, Asian women > Western women. So long as you don't bring them back to your home country. Even then, I am sure they are 90%+ better.

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[@mikemarriedtoabeautifulwom3317]

Good video being married to a filipina is amazing all these issues I never thought of but I didn't date a girl younger than my grandchildren. I married a younger woman but she was in her 30's. I married because she is funny, very smart, can sing and dance she is also very beautiful. I married her because she loved God too I am so blessed 🙏

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Funny? Smart? Sing and dance? When did we get married, Mike? 🤣🤣🤣

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@@TheFilipinaPea Pea i bet a good percentage of your viewers would like to marry you!

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[@Tigger1981]

I'm a little late here yet here is my experience. I was introduced to my loving Filipina thru a mutual friend after my divorce. We talked for almost a year before I went to the Philippines and met her and the family. I was welcomed with open hearts, enjoyed my time while there and when I came back to the states I left my heart with my loving lady. I filed with immigration for her to come here. We had to wait to be together. She finally was able to come here March 1st of 2022. We were married soon after and I'm truly grateful for the last 2 years, more than she knows even though I try my best to express my gratitude daily. We have a humble life, not fancy things, yet are happy and comfortable.

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As usual Pea your humor is unrivaled in these videos!

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I’m SO happy to hear you say that, Ranger! ❤️❤️👍

[@micj62]

If I had a nurse like you I'd never leave the hospital 😂😘

[@TheFilipinaPea]

But then you’d always be sick! (or just fooling) 🤣🤣

[@gerrymcnally9344]

On target Ms Pea. My asawa is 14 years younger than I and married 9 years and 2 previous marriages for me (both UK). I don't fear as much as worry (too old for fear, I'm 69 as of May 11). She says she loves me numerous times a day, and we have a great relationship. When I brought her over, I was already in a Filipino church so my wife's transition was smooth. Now we have plans for the Philippines, in Albay and Cebu. I do my best and having fear only raises the blood pressure (not good). I await your next installment of your excellent work. Happy happy joy joy....surf's up!

[@bobkelley8291]

Like drushing said I would not trade my Philippine wife (of 40 years) for nothing! I suggest a foreigner take a few vacations to understand what life is in the Philippines. Get to know the people so they can understand what Filipino's expect from them. Like I said before the foreigners weakness when they get there is loneliness and horniness which some Filipina's will take advantage of. Don't be in a hurry, take your time, I know easy to say. Good speech Miss Pea.

[@javieritomac]

Pea now a days runs thru my mind about my Filipina,,,many have told me what you mentioned at the beginning ,,sometimes I sit down and think if I made the correct decision. Thank you pea for all the good advice 🙏

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I sure hope you did! 👍👍❤️

[@jackiepoole5422]

I had several of those thoughts. (fears) But the thoughts of excaping hell for paradise was a no-brainer. It has been almost 2 years and no regrets.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Congrats, Jackie! ❤️❤️❤️👍

[@hoedemakerbart]

I love my environment here in the Netherlands its just that the western woman are insane 😂

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My wife and I love your videos and your sense of humor

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Thanks to you both! ❤️❤️

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Omg Pea. You couldn't have written this better, including the use of SciFi words. You showed how much you have listened to us and how much you know your fellow Filipina. You summarised just about everything possible, in one episode. And I don't think you have ever been wrong about anything. I have felt, thought, and experienced many of those things, and when those things come true, but I still choose to stay the course that God has for me, and learn along the way as we are meant to. 🇦🇺🥰🇵🇭🙏💓 Maraming Salamat Pea. And I always love your closing edits, so funny 😜

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Pea you surprised me today, I thought you had already started the Friday only schedule. But I am glad to see you and this was a good video. Take care.

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The graph near the end of the video was priceless. I love your stuff and you definitely have a sense of humor. sense of humor

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Pea: Your clip before the outro was fabulously funny! Thanks I needed that! Keep up the great work my friend!

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So glad to make you laugh, my good friend 👍🤣

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G’day Filipina Pea , I have watching your videos for many years and this is my first comment. Your content is amazing and always so fresh and interesting. You are a breath of fresh air and I always can’t wait until the next video comes out. Born in Australia and lived in Las Vegas for 35years. I decided a change was in order, so last week arrived in BGC and plan to live in either BGC or CEBU. You are one of the reasons I decided to move to the Philippines. Thank you for being such a great Ambassador for your country. Cheer Andrew

[@kranzonguam]

"Insecurities breeding like Tribble in a grain silo!"👍🏼🤣👍🏼 Not only a great reference, but a wonderful image too! I know you like playing the Vulcan, but have you thought of a side career as a ship's counselor?😊 Once again you show your understanding of the real fears that most have in contemplating a life shift. Maybe that's part of why your videos are so on point! Take good care!

[@jvstcu76]

Excellent observations. By the way, Pea you look fantastic in today's video. Thanks, as always for "cheering me up and making my day" 😊.

[@Murphysson]

Well thought out, truthful commentary by the beautiful Pea. Thank you, Pea. Always appreciate your thoughts. Have a great day.🌺

[@LesserMe]

Isolation -- in 2021 I was in Manila for 3 months; I was living predominately in BCG and really had a great time seeing the sights. But my entire time there I was isolated, even with the dating apps, I couldn't seem to meet someone I was interested in or willing to make a sincere connection. Since I was there working on assignment, I thought it was mostly about C19 but if I was being honest, it was really difficult making friends much less finding a woman that wanted more than a free meal. Fast forward 2022, I am in Boracay and made two of the best friends that I didn't think I would find. I may still be single and 50 but I think the Philippines holds more relatable relationships than the United States. Isolation.

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Sweet smile Pea. You are a knockout. We appreciate your insight

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Thanks!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks John - 5 dollars for 5 reasons! Wish I could’ve come up with 1000 reasons 🤣❤️❤️❤️

[@rona8663]

Great video Pea. You’re the best and thanks for this great video.

[@glenproctor1999]

I suppose many fear that what happened before will happen again? Biggest challenge is to learn and accept that everyone is different and wants different things in a relationship. I'll have to decide where I want to grow old(er)! We all look to be happy I think. Have a wonderful day Pea! 🌹🙏🏻🌺

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hopefully you have many years to decide 👍❤️❤️

[@glenproctor1999]

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[@timothybush9633]

Hi Pea, It's 5:00 am in the morning here and I was on the computer and I saw you 🥰I'm 65 now but since I was a teenager I have been interested in people from an Asian country? my first was Bruce Lee, I was very interested in him because of dedicated he was too Martial Arts. I started to try to learn Tae Kwon Do and starting to take classes from an actual Chinese instructor and when I met hie wife, who was also Chinese, I fell in love with her beauty and mannerisms, she became "Westernized" quickly but my love for Asian women was born. I never found a Asian girlfriend but at 29 I married a mixed White/Indian girl, had 3 kids and then divorced at 45 because of her cheating and became a single father. So I'm not sure where I fall into your topic but I'm always watching your posts because I think your vary entertaining but your also so Pretty🤭

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Why in the world are you up so early, my friend? 😳😳😳

[@timothybush9633]

@@TheFilipinaPea I couldn't sleep but I'm glad I say you🥰

[@brianoswald1067]

You’re always on time & on target 🎯. Another great video. You’ve truly captured the Zeitgeist of this scenario. Hoping a solid PACE plan pans out in this modern gold rush. Your advice & humor isn’t slipping.

[@treasuresofthepast3208]

Hi pea!!!! ❤ so glad you are here !!!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I was just about to say that to you! 🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️

[@treasuresofthepast3208]

@@TheFilipinaPea Great minds think alike❤️

[@mikewilbur5219]

Hello Pea great insight as always keep up the good work

[@tonywilliams7918]

Good segment Pea, inspiring advice for both the old and young heads out here contemplating that leap of faith into the arms of a Pinay..."Crazy Filipina Matrix!"...Haaa, that was a fun show, lot of juice to drink in that segment. Thanks for sharing my friend.

[@Dapper_Image_Official]

My fear is actually being loved, wanted, and liked by someone that I actually like and feel the same for. It's never happened in my 47 years of life so it would be a complete shock, catch me off guard, and be a little scary since I'm use to the opposite all the time so I just quit trying. I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea also. A gift from me to you just for being who you are and all you do Pea. I think you are pretty cool and down to earth so don't change. It would have been cool to run into you when you were in the USA. Thanks Pea! 🙂🙏🏽

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow, Dapper, thanks for the tip! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ And you’re way overdue in finding someone who will treat you the way you’re willing to treat her in return! (visit the Philippines) 😉

[@Dapper_Image_Official]

@@TheFilipinaPea I would if I could. I like seeing new places but haven't been able to and I am unable to go visit there for now until something changes in life. Travel takes money which I don't have right now. Maybe one day. I'll keep watching, hoping, trying, and praying. Take care Pea. ❤🙂

[@barte3822]

Great video, Miss Pea. I needed this, perfect video. The unknown is always scary, but you are a great motivator and educator to overcome these fears and jump in, eyes wide open. ✌️❤️

[@rayhouse-cz8fb]

Keep smiling. See you on Friday

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Count on it, Ray ❤️❤️👍

[@peterinbohol]

Big topic. Delving into it with penetrating insight as always. Keeping it real and being not afraid to go deep into the whole of the matter really is exciting and I’m always rewarded with a happy ending. Thanks. Cigarette?

[@pa4765]

It started with you, Pea. I was lonely, ignored and feared living my life alone. Then I found your channel when you started and became a full patron. Your honest information about the Philippines & Filipinas was very helpful so I started talking to a few. Fast forward, I have the most wonderful Filipina as my fiance. She's incredibly caring, loving, intelligent and wise. I consider her a gift from God and He worked through you and other youtubers. Thank you and God Bless you, Pea.

[@josephgrudza3873]

Great morning to you Pea. Your videos always arrive at the most needed of times. Your ability to explain anything is a gift. Thank you so much for opening our eyes to things we forget to check out. Please keep your opinions and ideas flowing. I hope to meet you one day.

[@dragonrln]

Always a pleasure to hear your deeper thoughts about relationships! Well done!

[@bill-the_virtual-deal-maker]

Thank you Pea you explain everything so well. The way you use humor interspersed with your content make it exceptionally entertaining and informative.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

If I can entertain you, I can keep you listening 🤣❤️❤️👍

[@bill-the_virtual-deal-maker]

@@TheFilipinaPea For you beautiful Pea I will always be listening

[@kevingoodwin7201]

Nailed it! My biggest fear is her taking care of me when I am very old, and leaving her in a position where she is taken care of for the rest of her life after I am gone. Thank you for mentioning that item.

[@Nicholas-cn5vk]

Man up. Face all situations head on. Don't complain. Enjoy the adventure.

[@connork5339]

You always provide good and useful information and your humor makes me crack a grin. I like how you slip in Star Trek references as well.

[@stephencoleman3578]

My biggest worry was falling in with a gold digger. I've met many while dating. I've received 20 marriage proposals and most were ATM hunters. I was very careful, perhaps even paranoid about choosing; but I did choose well and feel lucky, even blessed with my Filipiina wife.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️👍

[@MarkGray-u4i]

Absolutely love the black-and-white dress you’re wearing today. Yet another great video, Pea!, Mark, in Dallas.

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Hard research by those four, fine, upstanding academics😁😁😁 Loved it, as I always do. Thanks Pea.

[@Offon_A_Boondoggle]

OMG! This video cracked me up! 😂😅❤ Concerning your graph…the X axis needs…expanding…in case you haven’t heard, 70 is the new 50! ☺️

[@leavinforadream]

All of these years, I have always said if God were to give a chance with another Filipina that I promise Him that I wouldn't blow it. But the years have come and gone and I have gotten older and never once did I would ever be considering moving overseas. Now I am ready for another relationship AND I am definitely moving overseas! So naturally I have the insecurities that you mentioned in this video and the ones in your videos from the very beginning. You nailed them ALL in this video and put me at ease. I am reminded of the hotel clerk and the American expat in Taipei, Taiwan, who told me to relax as I was on vacation and I wasn't here in the U.S. and didn't have to nor need to be anywhere. I can remember just standing on a street corner and looking around at the people and buildings and street signs and billboards in Chinese and being astonished that I was even there. It was then that a warm blanket of peace of mind, happiness, and contentment enveloped me. Thank you, Pea because of this video, I have that same feeling as I type this and have finally flushed that 'stinkin' negative thinking'...! I'm going for it! Plotting a course (already laid in) to Dumaguete/Valencia, Negros Oriental, Philippines...Cap'n Pea....Let's FLY...!!!!

[@RoyGJones-bd7jw]

Come single, don't meet girl online and meet that girl at the airport, come alone, fix your new life first, then you can chase chix, get a safe to put your important paperwork, cause when you go to the restroom, she will steal your money or worst

[@bokusimondesu]

Your advice is applicable to most relations in life! Good one. Loved the outro 😂

[@sharhune2735]

Hello Pea, hope your getting more rest and seeing your family.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Shar! I’m still unpacking, so mom will have to wait just a little longer 🤣👍

[@Bipolarintrovert666]

ANOTHER INSIGHTFUL VIDEO 📹 😊

[@DaveOneDay]

Ok pea 100% your face is slimmer. For me it's a feeling a belief that THE ONE IS WAITING.... That alone is good enough, at least it's something to give hope. As far as " she's after your money "... that is something every man in the US over 35 already has dealt with . I think self appearance if something each judges of there self... (50 is the new 30)... getting "old" is bettter than the alternative 😅... Trust,Honesty,Loyalty....Find those 3 things and everything else will fall into place... Great video ✌ pea

[@silas6328]

I'll do you one better: there's no such thing as "the one." At least not until after you've found her. No one is perfect and so no one is perfect for you. Love is not something that happens to you, that's just hormones. Love is a choice that you make every day for the sake of the one you have chosen. You choose to love her imperfections, or at least love her in spite of them, and you trust her to love you in spite of yours. Be picky, but the fear of choosing a good woman that is not "the one" is irrational. Choose well and she will BECOME the one. She is a whole other person so she will annoy the crap out of you for years, maybe decades, and you her, but "love covers a multitude of sins."

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You can find her, Dave 👍👍❤️

[@BasketballTall]

Wow Pea!!! You covered it all. You are extremely sharp beyond your years. You might get an honorary doctorate degree in the USA. Your mastery of the western language dialect is perfect. The way you speak English, all Americans would think that you were born here. I think you felt that during your visit here. 😃 I’ve become a senior now and have had a very good marriage for 40 years. I’ll love her till the day I die. But, I enjoy and love your content. You tell the beauty of your country, and I find it very interesting. I get to see other cultures through your eyes. It’s great. Keep doing what you do Pea, because you’ve become a star in my eyes. Others sees it too. But always stay humble, and thank you for sharing your art to the world. May God continually bless you and the Filipino nation. 🙏🏽😊

[@tryscience]

listen to the Pea :) she knows what she is talking about !

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks, Try! I sure have listened to a lot of you folks over the years 👍😊

[@tryscience]

@@TheFilipinaPea You are my number one go-to person for wisdom on the Philippines 🤩🤙

[@jredb1]

Pee, you are freaking brilliant. Thank you so much for breaking down the fears. I truly am grateful for your efforts. You truly are a treasure. Wow! ❤My name is Junie. I love your videos. They are so so super informative.

[@charlescox2840]

You survived omg I am so glad and surprised to see you.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’ve survived typhoons, power outages, and crazy viewers like Charles, so nothing can stop me 🤣

[@mwbgaming28]

7:06 I see you're also a fan of the original series Having been in the Philippines for almost a month, my biggest concern about living here is the reliability (or lack thereof) of the power grid, how hard it is to find an apartment with air conditioning, the lack of seatbelts in cars, and the fact that most food here is unrefrigerated (something that has made me sick for almost a week so far) So you're very right, no chance in hell of me moving here permanently, but then there's also the issues of bringing her to Australia, as you discussed

[@michaelellis4935]

Good morning ms. Pea! Always love your wisdom and humor. Can I have you cloned? Maybe not as good as the original but oh what a catch❤️❤️❤️

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’ll make sure we’re so identical that you can take your pick 🤣🤣

[@SPENJERE]

Very nice video, thank you. Oh and I just love the names of your doctors and researhers hahaha . 😉

[@brianscovern68]

Hi Pea! I never had yellow fever because I love the brown round! lol😅

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Either is acceptable! 😉

[@brianscovern68]

@TheFilipinaPea When you pulled out the sponge at the end, I almost lost it! To funny.

[@kendallevans4079]

You are what gives foreign men a bad rap!

[@ARedMotorcycle]

@kendallevans4079 No, you are. He's only joking.

[@brianscovern68]

@@ARedMotorcycle Yep

[@sitchintruth]

Pea, I have been watching your videos for a couple of years now. I live in Canada and had a awful experience with online dating a Filipi a there. I resonated with this video and want to know if you would like to hear my story.

[@theking1446]

Hey Pea. 20 days. I will be there. Forever. Taking the plunge. Nothing left for me here. After all that I have been through, just tired is the struggles. At least there i can struggle under the hot sun and beautiful beaches. Maybe with a Filipina will feel sorry for me. 🤣🤣🤣.

[@secretagent86]

Will not feel sorry for you, will be attracted to u

[@harveygault1911]

chuckling and shaking my head, Pea, Pea, Pea, You just cannot chillax for a short time. I do believe this is an updated video of some things you have covered before. However that is a good thing because of all your new viewers. Your hard work and professionalism and your humour is greatly appreciated young lady. I will leave on this note, God has a sense of humour. The proof is when He said there are good women in every corner of the world. Then He made the world round. 😂😂 Be blessed my friend and take care of yourself.

[@rogeliolopez4883]

The one point I would suggest is do not take your Filipina to the US if you are planning to completely retire and servicemen don't even think about it you might get lucky and have no problems or you might get bamboozled badly.

[@tommysanford586]

I am going to start right off and say you handled and explained the topics you chose very well. If this is going to be the result of one video a week, it is a good choice. YOU ARE RIGHT.

[@wayneONvolarte]

Like You Straight to the Point.😊Honest Peaple Rock🎉

[@metalbath7902]

Lol... the first 3 minutes explained my life here in America perfectly Pea. Know that you're work here is going to make some Filipina a very happy woman some day because I'm a good guy guy and you're information (and a couple others) have convinced me to come there to try and find a life partner. 💯

[@johnsheakley8836]

I've been watching your channel for over a year, and I have watched almost every one of your videos. So, I have thought about, felt, and experienced discouragement and skepticism from others in every topic you mentioned here in this video. You are very thorough. And you must have good support on Patreon. This was well-thought-out. Thank you, Pea. I can add a thought/fear about storage of possessions that will remain in the USA. The least expensive storage fee I found is about $400/month for a unit 10 feet by 40 feet by 9-foot-tall with outdoor drive-up access. I have courage; mountaineering leadership since high school and overseas missions since college. I remain optimistic.

[@CB4basser1]

Nurse peeeaaaaaaaa❤

[@shughl1]

The Pea is the best! This video gave me some great insights. I don't know if I'd ever get the chance to visit the Philippines but if I ever did, with these videos I'd have a great tool kit for the ladies there.

[@MrTreeman1979]

i can care less is she's in it for security, im down for a equal understanding relationship that might just grow into something more

[@keithandes2804]

Great points Pea!! I'm sure you have heard of or even experienced most of your points!! Appreciate you touching on these issues!! Guys just listen to these points, some don't have these issues but some do!! 💛💛

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’ve definitely listened to many guys describe them, yup 👍

[@PedroAlves-lm9lj]

Thanks for the video Filipina Pea!!!! My fears are all based on all the experience I have and what and who I faced. 9 out of 10 philipinas that I met and who are living there were golddiggers, even the Godly ones!!! that is factual evidence! I heard all the stories and 9 out 10 that I helped was a lie!!!! keep in mind that 185 houses were built in Davao which was a legitimate request and a Messianic brother who needed an eyes operation to be able to work was legit and I feel blessed to be helping!!! I fear God, not people! however who I seek must be godly regardless if she is European, Asian, or African!!! I prefer Asians, Philipinas precisely but I have to be honest, from all the Philipinas that I dated since High School, even when I was not godly at all, I noticed this about them: Jealous, secretive, passionate, loving, caregiver, liars, cheaters, only 3 that I knew that they were wife material and I regret not loving them as they loved me! one in particular, was a workaholic, taught in a private school, also run her online business, she was very ambitious, she kept the Shabbath and on Sunday she taught the Bible to children! she was the only Catholic that was not an idolater 2014 I met her in Toronto while fighting for custody of my little boy! She did not need me at all! She made around $3500 CND per week from her business and at least $1000 CND weekly from teaching! I left her because I was a totally idiot!!!!!!! her kindness, her patience, her humility, and her qodesheness, holiness, qodesh means more than holy, means committed, dedicated, set apart from the world. 3 out of 60 and 1 super catch is rare!!!! I fear that i love to easy and give too much to the wrong people and the best i let her go.....Filipina Pea my standards are high and I do not lower them for anyone however I have been homeless, I been rich, I was raised in a home similar to the one you were raised in Leght . .... I wrote something in 2019 and asked our Heavenly Father for the woman He sent to be my wife to say those words and I would know that to be a sign. Until then I practice Celibacy,....

[@todd7756]

You sound like a real catch.

[@PILearning2LiveAgain]

Anxiety comes from what ifs, and insecurities. Depression from regrets and chances missed. Take the leap, rejection only hurts for a little while, but wondering what if hurts for a lifetime. The pink/peach dress looks great on you.

[@paulstan9828]

😁👋❤ Hi Pea!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hi there, dear mister Paul 👋❤️

[@jamesberner6040]

Wow Pea u nailed it...Great job...Have a blessed day....

[@xerxes666]

Pea stays looking beautiful 😍!!❤💁🏾‍♂️🇺🇸🇺🇸🌈🌈🌈😻😻🍓🔥🍓🔥🍓

[@abaldguycreation]

This young woman becomes more beautiful with every one of her videos. Yes, I am simping for the Pea.

[@louhightower4141]

She is so talented!!!

[@wrp108]

I've lived with and married Filipina women all of my adult life. ❤ I found a woman online and just spent 4 months with her in NO near you. I am returning for at least a year in two months. We have 4 teens who are very kind and who love me. May! Instant family, who I love ❤️. I love my palangga and she loves me. She was a widow when we met. I didn't want a woman under 35. I wanted a woman who had life experience and some wisdom. I hit the goldmine and I am a happy minor. Thanks Pea, for setting the record straight and telling the truth with kindness. God willing bless you, Pinay sister 🙏🏼 ❤️.

[@astra6712]

Spending the rest of your life sending money to the parents in the Philippines

[@TheFilipinaPea]

A very real concern, yes! 👍😳👍

[@Mr.Gibbs980]

Magandang Umaga my friend 🙂

[@Zero-ry2rc]

Cheaper than alimony.

[@wayneONvolarte]

Or Ya could stay in the West...Hey have any of ya seen any on e in a retirement home?Their eyes,😢The best I've seen while doing Construction was Assisted liveing,😮😢😮😮I am not going to say any more❤

[@wayneONvolarte]

:(😢😮😢

[@rockstarM5542]

Love the Pea ! For sure 😮 💕

[@francoistheron1913]

You kerp me active with my imagination on philipinas❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m very happy to be responsible for that 🤣🤣👍❤️

[@francoistheron1913]

Nice😂😂❤

[@haroldwalls6591]

Thanks, Pea, for the "there there" soft touch. I am making my first journey to "paradise on Oct 2, and have already received my fair share of plusses and minuses. I feel more confident after watching this episode

[@xWhitechapelx]

For any life changing decisions, research and planning with a lot of effort. A pretty face, can hide the worst demons.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It sure can hide an array of horrors! 😳😳

[@xWhitechapelx]

@@TheFilipinaPea More than you will ever know.

[@noahcount7132]

Your KEEPING IT REAL approach to the potential joys and sorrows (pleasures and pitfalls) that we're better off to be aware of during our journey through Life Its Ownself, earns you a gigantic gold star and heartfelt thanks, Pea! ⭐❤

[@michaelcohen7343]

Nightmare ! Say goodbye to your money!

[@Bring4rth]

Just wanted to tell you Po I have been following your channel for a couple of years now and I find your video very inspiring and very helpful. They have boosted my confidence tenfold to Emigrate to your paradise Island... Thank you so much much from the bottom of my ❤. ✌ & 💞 I 🙏 that day by some miracle I will pass you in the street and be able to thank you personally for helping me achieve my dreams bcz of u you are helping me along my transmission to a life I have been wanting to live since the day i first Landed in Manila Airport 2015 Xmas Day & never wanted to return to 🇬🇧🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿... Since my Experience of feeling love and freedom I have never felt I belong in England it doesn't feel like my home land any longer & again returning in 2018 just confirmed to me. I believe my heart and soul truly belongs in the 🇵🇭✌💯💞

[@robertp.7090]

LOL, faster than tribbles in a grain silo, great video and superb ending!

[@dancrawford174]

The gentleman who wins your heart will be a very lucky man! You are a precious gem! Keep up the good work!

[@ignatovsky]

One of your best videos, Pea! Excellent work talaga!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️👍

[@benlaw4647]

Thank you Pea ! You nailed it with the fears on dating a Filipina ! I can't think of anything else i would add . I loved the research at the end , definitely got to the nut of matter, i know your team of researchers worked HARD on this ! 😂😂😂...Appreciate you always dear. Good night and God bless. 😊😘💝🙏

[@victordelagarza4330]

I am picking up what your putting down. Good job P

[@jannarkiewicz633]

You are doing fewer videos but I will say this is one of you best. Not that you make bad videos. You were so spot on.

[@thomassnew1053]

I must say you are looking fantastic. Enjoyed the video. Thanks, Tom in California...