5 THINGS THAT HAPPEN WHEN THE INFJ FINALLY ACCEPTS THEIR MIND-BLOWING NATURE

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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Join us today as we uncover the five mind-blowing things that unfold once the INFJ embraces their extraordinary nature. INFJs possess immense potential, not just for the world, but for their own selves too. However, the biggest hurdle lies in fully accepting themselves. It means proclaiming to ourselves, loud and clear, that we are beautifully different, with no ulterior motive of seeking validation from others. We know our worth, our capabilities, and the positive impact we have on others. It all boils down to acceptance. Easier said than done, right? Well, buckle up because today we dive into the magical realm that awaits once you truly embrace your authentic self. Wave goodbye to those alternative plans and should-haves, for an incredible life awaits in this newfound realization. Let's journey together!
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[@Wenzes]

What are some of your mindset shifts that happened once you accepted (a part of) your nature?

[@williamriversiatse835]

I stopped dimming my light for others and stood in my power, I'm like a Lighthouse now, lol

[@1nONLY_DRock]

I become more confident and sure of my actions.

[@TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd]

Stop to be co-dependent. I might come across like one (the way I present myself, mainly being cheerful) but I became an expert at door slamming if somebody is proving themselves to be evil like for instance, instead of taking me 3 freaking years to door slam, I take only 3 hours. This is a gift to not be co-dependent any longer. I might not be perfect but I am way more adapted to what I believe to be the "kali yuga" period of humanity.

[@dkny2yj204]

That I can't go on a date with you. So I must ignore you.

[@stevenchan7537]

see things differently and plan and do the things matters to you.

[@kathrynswantee1274]

I am an artist. I was told many times I should get a 'real' job. Once I accepted who I was and became proud of it, so many things happened that proved them all wrong. I now run my own gallery/studio, illustrate childrens' books, do frequent commission work, teach 5 art classes a week and more... I decided I was not willing to settle for less.

[@FirehorseG]

Fantastic! Well done you. I love happy endings 👏😊.

[@ruthbeberman8082]

I started painting at 70 and got in a gallery at 77. She is so right!

[@riyajacob2909]

That's awesome 😎

[@riyajacob2909]

​@@ruthbeberman8082, Wonderful.Happy for you.

[@lindateuling7862]

I'm also an artist( and a musician) and that's "real" work. And it's worth it. 😊 ❤

[@corporaterobotslave400]

It's difficult for us INFJs to strut our stuff, but it is necessary for other ppl to actually SEE who we are and what we can do. There will be insecure ppl who reject us outright b/c we threaten them. But don't let those pathetic souls stop you. SHINE, baby, SHINE ! ! ! ! ! ! !

[@ONLY1THEORY]

I've dealt with this so much in my life, im finally ready to just be me in the totality of all that I am.

[@TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd]

1:22 #1 Grief 4:05 #2 Start appreciating who you are 6:08 #3 You finally know what to do. Your strength is your vision. 8:52 #4 You start building self-esteem around who you're becoming 10:24 #5 You finally tap into your potential

[@blaiseaimee7098]

The problem is the more I accept my nature (which does bring me more happiness) the less I can actually "function normally" in the "real world". I have been in a continuous cycle of "surviving not thriving" my whole life :(

[@nancysmith8626]

I can really relate!

[@Monika_Daddarwal]

that is the cost of being happy, bud. but, for me, I don't mind this cost, it's honestly too little. bs it is, for me, it's my life. and it's my duty to live it fully. the joy of being ourselves is too beautiful)

[@kimpykimpton6138]

I have accepted myself even though ALL of my family members.. including my son.. have rejected me… I am totally alone at age 70 but I am happy everyday because I know who I am!!

[@akferren1]

You’re a brave and bad ass woman❤️

[@andreahunter7281]

I spent 25 years in a narcissistic relationship because I was afraid to be authentic. I have hardly any contact with my 3 children because they never got to know the real me & I am finally having to face being alone at the age of 56. I have a feeling that I'm going to find out that I love myself just the way I was meant to be! 😊

[@seamusburke9101]

​@@andreahunter7281m in the very same situation and the only sad part for me is my children don't want to know me for no good reason other than the lies they wer brought up on.

[@PenelopePitstop0078]

Hi INFJ sisters ~ being rejected, emotionally abused or “cancelled” by your grown kids is a horrible phenomenon of our generation. Many of us strived to love, provide for and give every opportunity to our kids; to be a better parent than we had. We practically worshipped our children. Yet, when we try to transition with them to a more equitable/reciprocal/2 adults relationship, and stop allowing disrespect, cruelty or manipulative behavior, many of them can’t handle it. It took 4 years for me to train my brain to stop constantly thinking about my two sons and why they’d treat me so hatefully and cruelly. Worst of all was how they cut me off from my 4 Gbabies. It all JUST about killed me. But today, I’m mentally, physically & spiritually GREAT! I turned my attention towards ME, other young people who welcome & appreciate my Mama Spirit, cause it’s HUGE, so I have a few new children, spread across 3 countries! I put myself OUT THERE into the world by traveling & by taking up a physical sport (rope & rock climbing). I know it is incredibly painful to be rejected & abandoned by the very human beings that you poured your every possible resource into. But, if you loved & raised your children well, no one, not even an all powerful god, can take this away from you. You did your job, now go, get out and fiercely seek your EPIC INFJ life ~ you have earned it❣️

[@petervervaene5301]

It happened in an organic way, sky rocked my own business but never received some kind of appreciation for it. In reverse got a lot of jealousy.

[@akferren1]

I’m 52 and I’ve always known I was unique and different..I was called an indigo child.. now I love being me.. it’s not always easy dealing with people who feel the need to fit a square peg into a round hole but I understand it more now than ever and although it gets a little lonely at times I stand taller in my Truth and I’m less likely to feel like an outcast

[@livesremembered8698]

It has been a real problem for me as I was trying to fit in for the sake of our children. It hasn't worked. I find that many people I have met in recent years drive me up the wall with their shallow, fakeness.

[@BlackjackMain]

Life for me would've been so much harder without all these infj resources, I'm 22 and I've greatly developed myself and my consciousness level cuz of it

[@MsDDutch]

When people tell me that i'm not normal. I always tell them, "i'm not supposed to be normal". So don't expect that of me. But these video's do help me to recognize where my pitfalls and energy drains are.

[@laurie6644]

When we worried about who likes us, we forget to ask ourselves if we even like...them. I figured out that sometimes there are people that I don't actually like

[@blueturquoisett8448]

Knowing that you have to be alone at certain points of your life was scary for me. I am finally over it and ready to spend time with me. 😊

[@avoiceinthewilderness9864]

I have walked alone for the most part rather than follow the status quo. Stull struggle with having to turn my intensity down to make others comfortable. People can't handle me being fully, 100 percent me mostly at work. I prefer to be on my own with my free time because I can be all me.

[@aled9998]

Wenzes-you are absolutely brilliant. You have just explained my life as a late-booming INFJ so, so perfectly here! I thank God for the wonders of the internet where such life-changing information can be found for free🙏. I listen to a lot of different influencers on U-tube, but I would say that you are definitely in my top three. Always so articulate, insightful and deep when it comes to our lives as INFJ's. I see you as coach, confidant and cheerleader all in one. Never stop what you are doing for us . Blessings from Wales...🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🔥

[@jennifergodwin29]

When I leaned I was an INFJ I was so excited to finally have answers about myself I had been struggling with. Then I went through grief and a difficult time realizing exactly all that you stated. Step 2 was so amazing once I started accepting and embracing me. Then step 3 came and I had a direction. I felt like I had “taken the trash out” inside of me and I felt really good about that and a path to go. Very empowering. Step 4, the self esteem is building!!! And compassion for myself!!! Feels so good and calming and grounding. Step 5… walking it out now. I’m excited for what’s to come. THANK YOU so much for this video.

[@TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd]

Wenzes is such a good teacher because not only she is very good digging inside herself in order to find the gems about INFJ but to be honest, I have no idea of where she is coming meaning, she is so young - I mean by that she is younger than myself - to have come so far already, this is quite an accomplishment by itself. I am subscribed to other INFJ channels but nobody teaches me personally like her!!!! Wenzes you are absolutely amazing! Thank you for being YOU!!!

[@shannon2228]

I'm 55 years old and I am just now figuring out that I really don't give a shit what other people think about me and I am very smart and sweet and kind and if anybody don't like my opinion they can kiss my butt LOL I love you thank you for all your❤ videos

[@misakiizome7852]

oh god, this really spoke to me. I found out I was actually an infj after mistyping as an enfp for soo long. I kept changing my personality over my life so many times that I forgot who i really was. i was dimming my light to make others feel better because it felt like i was being arrogant, but no-- i was scared of my own potential. i was always scared of being myself. i wanted to fit in so bad that i lost myself. I am unravelling some hard childhood trauma and it is very hard, but i am getting there. this won't be an overnight thing, but i am definitely starting my healing journey all over again. Thank you for taking the time to make these videos

[@DonTrump-sv1si]

IFNJ characteristics seems to be closely correlated with Indigo soul characteristics.

[@illiterate_reader]

I appreciate the reminder. Now that I am very clear about the narrative someone has about me, however flawed, it is not my problem. And it doesn't change the facts about me, thank you!

[@alexvamco9658]

I'm INFJ and recently find out to how to easly connect to Ni, what I do is 3 simple steps. 1- Result: think about what outcome or solution u want. 2- Question: As Scott Morgan said, Ni expresses easily when questioning, so question yourself how to get to that Outcome u want. 3- Bloom: Be a Chameleon, Think about categories, data, actions, steps, pros and cons, etc. I hope this is useful for someone... If it worked for u let me know and share.

[@user-qu2hg1mb5z]

Rather be disliked for who I am than liked for who I'm not exactly as an INFJ I give up on this bad habit

[@raft115]

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[@user-qu2hg1mb5z]

@@raft115 thank you so much for your support even though I barely know you

[@user-rq7ow9uc8w]

Hey I just wanted to let you know that I am on the road to self recovery. I am putting myself first in my life and I have moved out of the place that I was never really happy. I have begun to make the change that I am letting me be the true me. I am so grateful for finding you and your video they have done so much for me and I really can't explain it, but I feel the happiness coming in and I will be happy with my new life. Thank you so much for everything.

[@gloriavis]

I never alter myself.

[@notthatvashti8127]

I have come to this realization and I say, I'm going to be me even if others don't like it. I also say if that bothers you then go kick rocks! : ) Thanks.

[@Erika-yy8ry]

It's releiving to know myself. I am stunned what all is going on nowadays. Made an experience yesterday. Great.

[@SkyCloudSilence]

My problem has NEVER been "accepting myself". My problem has always been being accepted by others. Then I realized their acceptance didn't matter.

[@user-zu2st4xg2c]

I found out my inner power a hidden potential if you will I'm multilingual as an INFJ I see that as my superpower

[@katiehass4666]

When you emphasized the point about externally observable facts, I just stopped and laughed because that is the hardest thing I have had to learn over this last year. Go slow to go fast but you have to actually go.

[@scunningham7173]

Oh that has made me chuckle... I can So relate! 😂

[@meganmck1473]

Finding this channel has been a gift... "I felt like I was behind a glass...", wow! Another gift of reconciliation, another acknowledgment...freedom. Grieving is an important and necessary piece too. Blessings & thanks!

[@gloriavis]

Im a taurus perserverence. I never alter myself for others to like.

[@NamanSaxena]

As an infj i would advice you to add timestamps in your videos to increase ingagement and audience retention . Keep it up ✨

[@avalonarkka5938]

Hey Wenzes thanks needed this. I would love to join the bootcamp if only the money that was supposed to be in started months ago. Like you said I'm on my way. Really on my way, just waiting for the bucks to fuel charge it all.

[@theepitomiclife4170]

Congratulations for following your dreams no matter what. We are stronger than we think and visionaries😍

[@samwong108]

THANK YOU WNZES. I practice tapping into my potential daily.

[@RememberTrueStyle]

Thank you Wenzes!

[@grababundoberni]

Oh! You answered a question I had about myself! Yes, I have something to grieve...

[@amrutak4945]

Thank you so much for this video 🙏🙏 Just what I needed to hear

[@jakubbednarczyk259]

I am 29, I fight with what people tell me is depression induced by alcoholism. Though for me the it seems that my mood is induced by others. There are people who simply make me feel happy and needed, and cause me to want to live on, because I feel acceptence from them, because they don't care what's wrong with me, and focus what was/is good about me. Am I INFJ?

[@INFJSpanishcoach-gv6jb]

I have gone through grief

[@lindateuling7862]

This list of five items merits a lot of reviewing. I'm doing it now. It's been my experience that they're a way of life. I've found myself often going over these ideas anew when starting a new project or deciding to tap into another part of my potential. In the past I didn't have these principles in the excellent order that you put them in here . But the mental discipline I used strongly supports what you shared here. I'm starting a new project now, and I really identify with this message! 🙂 I need to commit myself to keep these principles in mind at all times.

[@di380]

I do believe I am mentally strong and I finally accepted that 😄

[@meenatchi9552]

now i am in my accepting phase

[@helentaylor6375]

Thank you Wenzes😊

[@belladonna2104]

Your story is really motivational Wenzes

[@ujjwalsharma4453]

Thank you mam! Thank you so much 🥰

[@carolwest6095]

Thank you👩‍🌾

[@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142]

Willing or able ? I was good , and then the narcissist came along !!!!! 4:27

[@stephenfegely]

Queen 👸🏻

[@michaelstokvis2692]

Coach: what would you're best advice in general for a infj-a. in finding friends and love. currently in a blackhole and can't find my way out.

[@melancholiusmonkey-mann5749]

I would like to speak with you one on one. Is this possible?

[@francesbernard2445]

How believeable is this video when it used to be understood that Charles Darwin was believed as being in the ENTP category instead during the year 1999? Who according to Wenzes was Charles Darwin when it comes to the OCEAN theory of personality instead. Why do so many people theorize to no end what kind of personality someone has whenever their opinions on how something works differs a lot from their own theory about the same instead of only asking them questions about that in order to get to know one another better while learning together more about the world? Like when a guy like Galileo may have been offering his own theories when asked about what the Antikythera mechanism may have been used for while sailing the high seas looking for adventure. It is cruel when telling someone that they will for their whole lives be having a hard time because of their personality. That is what I got told during the year 1999 with the 'consolation' that my ENTP personality was like what Charles Darwin had too. Does anyone know today what personality type Saint Paul had? All we know for sure is that he was conscientious while being able to admit when he was dead wrong. So dead wrong he needed to change his entire lifestyle while constant risking his own life when telling people the truth without expecting to be paid for doing so.

[@SamsonPavlov]

❤️❤️❤️

[@udoncat]

💚💚💚💚💚💚💚

[@TM.M.d.M.-xv5su]

MaLe or FeMaLe . take it stride .

[@Accelerator_Lastorder_x]

Jey?????¿;Do you underss😮

[@lilredheaded1]

Thank you for creating and sharing!