7 QUALITIES OF AN ELEGANT WOMAN | How To Become a Woman of Elegance | WOMAN OF ELEGANCE

What do you think it takes to become a true lady of Elegance? Is it the ability to observe dining etiquette or the pace and tone of your speech? How To Become a Woman of Elegance? Well ladies, there are many pinpoints that indicate whether you are indeed elegant or not.
This videotapes you 7 essential traits that will enable you to level up to the Elegant, sophisticated and classy lady that you desire to be.
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[@DominiqueFrancon]

Thank you for this video. I first became interested in elegance as a personal refinement pursuit at least 40 years ago while in military service. I made a commitment to be impeccable in my uniform. While having an impeccable uniform is the standard of military service, I really took it to heart in other ways. I remember an incident while interacting with a group of other enlisted personnel. After a few minutes of conversation, one of the men saw my sleeve insignia and said, “you’re not an officer?” I said no. He replied, “you carry yourself like an officer.” That was a high compliment! This gentleman’s words stuck with me all these years. Being committed to elegance in all that I do has served me well. I may not have the most elegant wardrobe (could use improvement); however, I am committed to elegant behavior and class, which is the more important aspect I believe.

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you for sharing your experience! It's so commendable that your elegance exudes through your work and life. Keep it up💜

[@chinyereawa3678]

Thank you for sharing your story. You’re an inspiration

[@pbjt2396]

Always! A monkey in silk and a monkey is rags is still a monkey! 😅 thank you for sharing :-)

[@sabamisghina7076]

Keep going keep going . I love elegancaaaaa.

[@ServantStatusMinistries]

What’s interesting is how your story reminded me how we had history classes on how Females Marines were taught how to wear their uniform with proper stockings, make up, and how to eat properly and that was apart of basic training 20+ years ago. When I went in the Marines they stopped teaching all of that…even the new uniforms look similar to the males’ uniform which is sad and happened when I got out. There’s a difference between being like one of the guys to literally looking like and acting like one of the guys…and in the Marines if you aren’t watchful you can lose a lot of your feminity.

[@Trex7124]

Never be afraid to walk away from someone that disrespects your boundaries. (They will never respect you if you stay)

[@lvettesonai]

Prov. 31:26 are words to live by for an elegant woman. Always. 💖

[@TheMinistryofLove]

YES ❤

[@mariafitts]

Elegance is a behavioral thing more than a dressing up thing

[@danilaroche1156]

I agree. I aspire to becoming an elegant woman. I get a great deal of flak & envy from most women for this. They seem put off because I dress nice, am courteous & kind plus I get alot of attention from men. Now mind you, I'm quite modest. One thing is I can be a blabbermouth. I don't mean to interrupt anyone but my personality is very outgoing and vivacious. I'm quite exuberant. Any suggestions?

[@user-bw2zt5jd9u]

@@danilaroche1156Blabbermouth is the opposite of elegant! 😂 You’re even cutting it close with “ vivaciousness”. And that can be attractive , it’s just not an elegant trait.

[@thedukeofmech5425]

Although I am a gentleman-in-training, and there are key differences in the nicer behaviors between myself, and the fairer gender-I enjoy listening to your videos as it gives me a sense of what traits should be mirrored by the ladies I meet, and what differences and nuances to look out for. I am able to understand things with as why I should be so open with praise and compliments, but why I’ve never heard the same in return from ladies I meet and greet. Thank you for these videos!!

[@AstarteElviraLyana]

What channels to you watch to learn gentlemanly quality? I'd like to know for the reason you watch this one - what are men being taught and what should I be able to expect?

[@danarichardson4708]

Thank you. I'm 51 and still learning.

[@adamshort1953]

I am 47 and single, are you available?, lol

[@applesnicolle5144]

Notice elegant Vivienne here actually says “going” instead of “gonna”! Classy🌸

[@blueazura]

1. Show Appreciation - Don't forget basic pleasantries like "Please" and "Thank You". 2. Keep to Time 3. Listen Attentively - Look the person in the eye. 4. Be Kind & Considerate 5. Silence Speaks Volumes - High class elegant women are not talkative and loud. Silence gives an air of mystique that is intriguing and attractive. 6. Dress Elegantly - Dress for the right occasion and dress for your body type. 7. Be Trustworthy & Accountable - Stick to your words and live up to your promise.

[@lessonswithdelmi4495]

Thank you for creating a bulleted list.

[@707tich]

Define talkative? I speak clearly and assertively and I’m well read. I’m not softly spoken as that’s not my nature. But I’m not obnoxious like oh my gosh!, or Over excited like HEY HEY!!!

[@1981Anood]

Many thanks

[@christinenabanja582]

@@707tich àaaaaaàaàaaaaaààaà

[@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071]

Your hair and makeup are ALWAYS applied in a lovely fashion. You're a great example. I'm learning a lot! Thank you!

[@paulvanloh3174]

Hi, Vivienne. What you are doing is so important! These days, there is an over-riding trend to let down the standard and just be "comfortable". An appeal to be more refined, thoughtful of others, and well- mannered is always needed! So, thank you! And.... You look so lovely with your hair down!

[@brianja26]

I took a lot of notes. Thank you ❤ I’m 30 and I have a two year old looking up to me. I’m in outside trade so this was much needed. “May God continue to bless you.”

[@myrticeharris3126]

I truly appreciate your messages. Never have anyone shared with me so much wisdom not even my mother. She did not know how to part this information to me. A person cannot teach what is not known to them. I have made this a part of my regular agenda to listen at you.

[@Yahsprincess]

I absolutely love your content. Thank you so much for all the effort & work you put in as a Godly woman. It’s a fresh breathe of air to see women out here still valuing the concept of elegance.

[@DEARTETE]

I also love her channel I made my daughter watch it

[@annettehubbard5069]

Absolutely love your eloquent teaching on etiquette!! And more so, since it’s Biblically based!👍🏽😊

[@missn111]

You are a gorgeous and truly elegant lady. I just came accross your channel and watched your latest videos. They are very informative and you are a great speaker. This one spoke to me in particular, especially the part about speaking with grace and kindness... lol. Something I would like to master as I am often too blunt and direct. Just wanted to let you know that your work is appreciated! 🌹💜

[@msbellamy07]

Your channel pleasantly appearred out of no where. I would have never assumed this to be a need in my life. However, now that I am hear I will not stop watching. I accept each and every challenge in every video

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you. So glad you are staying :)

[@csm92459]

I once heard it a story about a very highly placed British Duchess who always knew, and greeted, her hostess' BUTLER by name. Also--in personal and professional applications--praise in public, correct or reprimand in private.

[@haika9398]

Vivian, thank You very much. You are blessed with divine beauty; in spirit, mind, and body.

[@deborahmuricho3079]

Wow, this is very educative content. I just discovered and immediately subscribed to your channel. Keep up the good work of helping us to become better version of ourselves.

[@kittiesinthecity9333]

Thank you for providing such well thought out and balanced information! Your suggestions are time tested and essential for any woman who is looking to be her best self! I just subscribed and can’t wait to learn more!💖🌸😊🙌🏽✨

[@tralaritralarajiju2652]

I just can't resist follow your content🍀 I have been searching this kind of deep ness about elegance for ages, like a hunger to know about it and translate to my real life Thank you soooo much!🌸🌸

[@marieumeh4283]

Thank you for refreshing my etiquette and speaking skills.

[@alcudiababe1]

I agree with everything that you are saying 💯 I agree kindness should be placed in high value and treating others well not talking down to people, not being condescending - and these are all great qualities to have but realistically I find other people aren't that nice and not that way inclined. You have to be a very, very kind person to embody those traits and there are people like that out there but that's for someone who feels that they should be kind to other people regardless of how others behave. Without trying to toot my own horn that's me, I am kind and I know this because people have prompted this to me as if it's my greatest weakness "but, you're too nice." I've been told. "Other people don't think like you." I, like to see it as a strength but others find and think they can take advantage of me and growing up, I know people aren't nice. There have been some exceptions and especially women who are classy only converse or want anything to do with you unless you are of refinement, otherwise I find they do look down their nose at you for not measuring up. I understand that the energy you put out into the world is what you get back but apart from a few exceptions, people aren't that nice. They will gossip and talk about behind your back. Friends, who you think are friends were never really friends and I've found the reverse is true, people who aren't condescending and gossipy are the natural down to earth humble people who perhaps aren't refined who, when they select you as a friend you have a friend for life not a "friend" that makes you look good for five minutes but will dump you when another elegant looking woman comes along.

[@dchrysostom]

Beautiful lady…thanks for another great video 🇨🇦🇹🇹👍🏾

[@akinyiwambui]

Yes Vivienne the book is very informative,thankyou.

[@nancyssonni8365]

I came across you today and wish to continue being part of your journey I wanna blossom into a refined elegant woman.... I have also subscribed🤗🤗Thanks

[@707tich]

Define talkative? I speak clearly and assertively and I’m well read. I’me always told I speak well esp by those who are older in age 60s/70s from wealthy background. I’m not softly spoken not as that’s not my nature. But I’m not obnoxious like oh my gosh!, or Over excited like HEY HEY!!!

[@user-hg4gw3ng7n]

DARLING MS. A I CAN JUST LOVE ALL THE ELEGANCE IDEAS YOU DISPLAY AT ANY TIME I BE JUST LEARNING ALL THE MORE. . THANK YOU LADY.

[@rkogilavani]

Enjoying your contents, all the way from Malaysia 💗

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

You and your message are just lovely.💕

[@srividya9238]

Love this video and your advice 💯💋💞

[@kalyaninetha9784]

Thank you for such an informative message you bring to us, this is somthing unique and so motivating to be the best version of yourself . I'm glad I found your channel couldn't resist to subscribe. Love from India.💖🇮🇳

[@TimewithLydiaThePharmacist]

I just came across your channel and I love it. Well explained points. Thanks

[@Momo-lv4kn]

I like your natural look, beautiful.

[@ankundasheebah4761]

I love you so much Vivian. Yo doing a great Job. U have changed my life tremendously

[@hillarylenavarro2673]

Even when I try to kindly and lovingly approach a friend about a problem, I still End up being blocked or they get overly offended :/

[@pbjt2396]

Always keep your Grace and elegance, despite the response you get from others. Maybe they don’t have a lot of experience with confrontation, so maybe you can guide them through it. Maybe they are simply not your friends. It is up to you to be discerning. Good luck! 😊🌸

[@EbotTiku]

I am 30 & changing the trajectory of things

[@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071]

Thank you for this video. Each one I view, I learn something new...something very useful in helping me become the lady of elegance I so much desire to be. Again, thank you.

[@alungakabuasa]

This is so soo good

[@scolajoseph3959]

Thank you Vivienne for the inspiration.

[@DarnisaDavis-ec7pu]

Thank you so much for all your advice ♥️🌹🌹🙂

[@rosettadenton2876]

Thank you.love your makeup and skin.🙏🌹

[@TechKeenah]

Thank you for all you do for us ❤❤❤❤

[@ifunanyaokonkwo943]

You see that point number four. It’s very difficult for me. The volume of lashings i receive from angry 😡 customers sometimes really affect me. So bad that It I am mentally stressed 😥 and I tend to respond back. Which makes my response to be a distasteful... I honestly don’t like getting angry overboard. Thanks for sharing this beautiful message

[@PrincesaDeDios74713]

Hello Vivian. Thank you for your videos! May you please do a video on maintaining elegance at the gym?

[@brendacrawford5744]

I WANT YOUR ACCENT!!!!!! Pls teach us that 2!!! Love I t!! If not I'm moving to London!!! Wanted to live these since the twiggy days !! I was the "black twiggy" at TCU( FR WORTH) DESIGN MAJOR

[@lessonswithdelmi4495]

💕 thank you Ms. Vivian.

[@joyamenpryce8979]

Thanks very much for this video, it informative , educational and very interesting. It enlighten my darkness, I appreciate it.

[@mamatrex30]

Please keep on going, you are truly amazing!.😍😍😍

[@nancyssonni8365]

You are very beautiful and powerful Thank you for this piece

[@srividya9238]

Please make video on how to set boundaries

[@ebonyantm4589]

I'm hoping you are well and healthy and saying prayers for you miss beautiful

[@ngohideabuul4508]

Thank you ma, God bless you.

[@olivialindsey942]

Hello, could you please do a video on how to be elegant when you are a single mom. Elegance eludes me when I am running around with kids. Thank you

[@brendacrawford5744]

SO "GIRLY& LADY LIKE"!!!

[@thedecorlifestylecenter4853]

Thank you so much for your advice. I immediately subscribed to your channel. I have a struggle with speaking on camera and I don't know if that's why your channel was recommended by the algorithm. There is one thing that concerns me, the reference of the queen and princess Diana ( who I also admire). Is it that we dont have enough women of colour for us to use as reference? I think our young women would benefit greatly from having someone that looks like us and embodies all that you speak about as a good motivator. Let me know your thoughts. Great video overall !

[@vinicabeauty5247]

Thank You for this video. I love you 😘

[@lorettabretney3817]

Thank you for all what you I'm doing for us you are such a wonderful person I just sat watching your video about 2 days ago and I find it so interesting and I will always follow you may God bless you❤❤❤

[@eshjane]

Thank you!!

[@jsssaggu5068]

Thank you so much for valuable knowledge.

[@marvlyneba5106]

You're beautiful!! Love your carriage...thanks for the tips

[@msniki7103]

Thank you for your videos, I love them 🙏🏽♥️

[@justsewit_tk5477]

I complimented someone after her community had been through a natural disaster. I had also been badly affected but what she did wasn't towards me but her neighbour. I told her she was a great neighbour and she took great offence to it. She was offering her bathroom to her neighbours whose houses had been destroyed and because MY neighbour had a portable bathroom and wouldn't loan it to us or even allow us to shower after our own home had been destroyed by the same natural disaster, this lady opened her home and I thought that was a very loving and generous thing to do. Instead, I was called rude and I was blocked from her social media account.

[@Kcddia_]

This is interesting Work is in progress

[@hl2921]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom and kindness. 💛

[@diananagami557]

Your videos make me feel like a new person,,,thanks and God bless you

[@florencemuya2803]

I'm gonna scroll down, go through all that I missed. Thank u

[@aisakat90]

Can you make a video about elegant women's attitude. I mean how should they react on problems or worries or how are they gonna deal with low self esteem. Thank you ❤

[@terraiznajem105]

❤thank you

[@carolinew6095]

Lovely video! Thank you so much for sharing your experience and wisdom. New subscriber

[@glorytothegod10]

Excellent speaking with beautiful smile ❤❤❤

[@MsWill813]

"Blessed with a gift of gab" :D That was the most elegant way I have heard it described. We have a saying "vaccinated with a gramophone needle".

[@zoezanyoh_]

You’re so inspiring. Thank you for this.🤍

[@Asteroscopus]

Speaking of complimenting women, you have an amazing smile 👌🏼

[@Sona77.]

Just wanted to say you are so gorgeous!

[@1981Anood]

We need a lecture on how to be angry in feminine way. Yes we are ladies but still humans need to be angry sometimes.

[@deirdreryan1671]

Great video! Thank you.

[@sassyperry6382]

You are wonderful!

[@n.prameelaapnanu9624]

Thank you for your content.

[@ponijewi4680]

I always wait on your new content 🤍💯

[@ayotmisticka3768]

Very refined content Vivianne.. thank you.

[@sherylachieng4660]

I love everything about you vivian

[@oksmaiman8261]

Starts at 2:55

[@Yieldedtojesus]

Thank you 🙏

[@MessagesFromAGoddess]

I absolutely LOVE you!!!❤️

[@anastaciathomas1215]

I love your content and I hope to see more from you.

[@Dididiane11]

Thank you so much sister

[@filomenaalviar9311]

Thanks

[@molelekoaseroto1881]

Thanks for your content

[@chitobiobaku7831]

Thank you

[@maameesialaska908]

God bless you for what you do. Glad I found your Channel.

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you so much

[@maameesialaska908]

@@WomanOfElegance You are welcome 😊🙏🏾

[@susangray45]

We appreciate you ❤

[@peterpiano5462]

This is very thoughtful and relevant, Vivian Abaena (I hope I spelled your last name correctly). Thanks a lot.

[@BecomingIrresistible]

Excellent!! 👏👏

[@swoopmeup4its2l8t]

Thank you ❤️ 🙏🏿

[@franciscamapitsomatsoha5732]

Hi Vivian! While I highly appreciate your teachings, may I please be advised which shops sell your book?

[@shelleypenn7577]

💐

[@abbypearlempire]

Lovely content

[@itslivvyg]

Hi the links on your site aren’t working for me. Is there a direct link to the handbook?

[@WomanOfElegance]

So sorry about that. There was a technical glitch but it should be working now and you should be able to download the Handbook now💜

[@itslivvyg]

@@WomanOfElegance thank you so much! I love your videos looking forward to more 👏🏽

[@snacksleep9991]

Firm but always kind