8 Devastating Red Flags You Should NEVER Ignore! 🚩

8 Devastating Red Flags You Should NEVER Ignore! 🚩
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Hi Guys! Welcome! In today’s video, I’ll share 8 Devastating Red Flags You Should NEVER Ignore!
A relationship is supposed to bring comfort, peace of mind, and anything else good you can think of. The person you're with should make you happy, not sad. Always look at how your relationship is going because it will work better if you try to grow it.
#OliviaAlexa #redflagsinawoman #relationshipredflag #neverignoreredflags #relationshipdifficulties #relationshipproblems #redflagsindating #relationshipadvice #redflagwoman #redflags

[@OliviaAlexa]

Hi Guys... I've been making content like this since 2015 and I want to thank all of my supporters. Especially the ones who have been there from day one.

[@TheLokoViejo]

Girl stop disrespecting your fans no using a decent mic…😂😂 besides that, great content

[@KCNYC]

Great videos, but the audio needs leveling and compression. Look into getting a Shure SM7b mic, it will pay off with more views. Thanks for your content and aspiration to make this world a better place!

[@MoeFro78]

Keep ya foot on their jelly bellies till they spit up Popeyes chicken sammiches.... 👀🤣👍🏿🤸🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

[@fabiansmith5860]

I want you📌✍🏾

[@beastprime7668]

Lack of accountability? 🤔 🧐 Sounds like I'm hearing stay away from modern women in general 😆

[@brandonsmiles4672]

The 8 red flags 🚩 1. Disrespect 2. Lack of self accountability 3. Lack of commitment 4. Effective communication skills 5. Judging other men 6. Jealousy 7. Lack of empathy 8. Attention whoring

[@tamuman93]

Thanks Brandon

[@brandonsmiles4672]

@@tamuman93 you’re welcome my friend

[@ANT1714]

Damn the last chick I talked to had all of them

[@oldwhitedude69]

​@@ANT1714 if see even see one, more will be revield with time. 😂 Any one these are deal breakers.

[@drleo6409]

Attention whoring , that’s a good one sad but true. See it all the time.

[@coopergary2129]

Dam, you know dating women in this day in age is bad when another woman has to actually sit down and explain this much bad behavior from the women in our current society...I'm 42 and never thought I would live to see the day that it got this bad...women want to move like men, but yet behave like children smh

[@mr.dennis5503]

You can thank Steve Harvey (and a few others) for women trying to be like men! His book encouraged women to "think like a man", and now we encounter all of these women trying to act masculine, and thinking a man is supposed to be "alpha enough" to overcome their "masculine energy!" I'm not coming home, after dealing with work, traffic, and everything else, and get into a "Johnson" measuring contest with my woman! I value my peace FAR too much for that!!

[@coopergary2129]

@@mr.dennis5503 Major Facts My G 🎯

[@DMoney3000]

​@@mr.dennis5503 I agree. Steve Harvey screwed everything up by trying to get on the good side of Women by sharing his personal advice to his daughters on how to empower their Womanhood and relationship success by thinking like a man. The absolute WORST seed to plant in a Woman's head is to have her to think like a man. The current outcome of that advice brings us to the current division between black men and women. Sad

[@zeekthe4-5]

Shes definitely a 1 of....damn near None. Lmaoooo

[@joshuasjericho3915]

Amen 🌹 🙏 Mr. Cooper Gary

[@mypov4343]

"I did nothing wrong"...one of ex's final statements. Stay away from those always wanting to be the victim blaming others! I finally did :)

[@andrefranklin2346]

Amen

[@hybridmultimedia6436]

God bless you and yup they are terrible.

[@dm7744]

Shit will drive you crazy literally

[@dm7744]

Mine told me she didn't need to work on anything about herself and everything she did was because of me

[@hybridmultimedia6436]

@@dm7744 yup! Ditto mine!!!

[@RareLoyalty3]

Respect is everything. If you don't have respect you don't have nothing.

[@airthrowDBT]

Men would rather be respected than loved

[@johncandlewick6561]

@@airthrowDBT Id rather trust and respect someone than love someone. Trust is everything. Trust needs respect to happen.

[@airthrowDBT]

@Pedro Mesquita 100%. I realize in past relationships I've been 'loved' but not respected sometimes. I'd rather be respected and not loved any day.

[@ezecskornfan]

too right, people that hate themselves can't love themselves, and by extension they can't love anyone.

[@Newseason8]

..."you don't have anything".

[@hoop6988]

The red flags: 1. Disrespect 0:17 2. No/lack of self accountability 1:08 3. Lack of commitment 1:46 4. Poor effective communication skills 2:48 5. Judging other men 3:36 6. Excessive jealousy 4:02 7. Lack of empathy 4:59 8. Attention whoring 5:46

[@christianbenn316]

& playing the victim

[@edheldude]

My ex: 6/8.

[@rp7r54]

@@edheldude SOME MEN SAY THE SAME STATEMENT

[@user-vz4fm9uo9q]

It’s sad that us guys deal with crap on a day to day basis, then you find another chick and she is no different… stay single fellas keep your money in your pockets and stay single, do not let them move in with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@CdubbLDawgs]

Lack of empathy. I would tell one of my exes about how depressed and battered I felt, and why I'd been acting distant and she said, " That was cute," and then proceeded to tell me a story from her past that had her depressed. Basically, she tried to 1-up my trauma and completely disregard my feelings to circle everything back to how she felt. Never again.

[@paulcolin-fj9ns]

No woman has empathy for her partner important to have good platonic friends because for evolutionary reasons it seems women switch it off. It's normal for things to bother men too

[@luckymasina4239]

What I hate the most is when someone does not want to take accountability for her action and instead play a victim.

[@calvinstrate3695]

Exactly and it's the truth we get blamed for everything but they don't take any blame for anything they done and it's sad .

[@SymbiSpidey]

Exactly. Any time they cross a boundary or say something fucked up, it's never their fault, always the other person for "making" them act that way. Like wtf are you not supposed to be an adult? How can I make you do anything you don't already want to do?

[@christianbenn316]

That,s a total red flag.

[@christianbenn316]

That's another red flag

[@landojr2383]

I've been on ALOT of dates the last 3 years so I must say the consistency of females saying their ex(s) were toxic or when asked about their ex they automatically get triggered and just started snapping on a rant was off the charts alarming. It's very RARE they have anything good to say about their previous partners, also they usually explain things in a way as if they did nothing wrong and nothing was their fault.

[@jyoungspins2200]

I'm actually "an ex" sort of speaking....she's in a whole relationship with another man...I wanted her to be with me but she chose him if you will. Wrap your head around this...she invites me over a week ago, we eat, talk...then the lights went out and we were in the bed making love - haven't heard from her since that night...she told me prior that she told her current "boyfriend" about me - not sure what she told him but...I was just all up in her a week ago..my mind is so confused at this point because she hasn't called me since that night but said she will "when she has time"...whatever that means...I'm sooo confused about her....she basically cheated on her man with me...I don't get it.

[@kristinaworthy1574]

Exit you’ve already gave the th0Tee Sea men now she wants more men in the sea

[@kristinaworthy1574]

you’ve won !

[@GuardianAngel..]

Yeah it’s almost like their under some form of mind control where they all share the same narcissistic hive mind collective consciousness.

[@Areolainspecta]

​@@jyoungspins2200 She used you and ghosted you my boy. When she reaches out again, dont accept the call or respond to her texts and messages

[@emptyemptiness8372]

I am a 56 yr old single dad of 3...just me and my kids....I sure wish someone sat us down 40 odd years ago and told us this.

[@257.4MHz]

Dude you won. You got 3 wonderful new people who are awesome.

[@MoeFro78]

You're correct. I've seen many women I know who has ALL of these modern women type issues. While they're talking I'm thinking to myself IF SHE DID IT TO THEM, SHE'LL DO ME THE SAME. I separated myself from them and they don't get better, they get worse

[@airthrowDBT]

My ex who I got hung up on because of her beauty was telling me all about how she just suddenly left her ex bfs and never looked back one day. I told her 'Sounds like you'll do that to me, then'. She said no, but wasn't really strongly trying to deny it/reassure me. Guess what she dropped me and never came back home as soon as I got covid. It made no sense.

[@MoeFro78]

@@airthrowDBT yeah.. you called her out big time. I love when broads like that give me a blueprint on their character. She told you in so many ways you can get her ratchety side too. Let's you know to abort mission and head back home

[@airthrowDBT]

@@MoeFro78 There's a saying, let her talk long enough and she'll tell on herself...that has been the truth 100% in every relationship I have ever had. They tell on themselves all the time and don't even realize it if you just pay attention and don't ignore red flags. At the time this girl bragged about leaving guys, I already was deeply in love so it was way too late.

[@christianbenn316]

& you stay away from such women

[@christianbenn316]

​@@airthrowDBTwhat a major red flag.

[@Sonny361974]

I love to see a beautiful woman educating men on women’s mind games and control tactics. Thank u Olivia.

[@bbqwithnellyeats2208]

😂simp

[@davidlucasmachado2831]

Exactly...SIMP BETA

[@incogspectator3042]

Here's your reward lol 😆🏆 *Reads trophy* ("Simp")

[@illmatic826]

Nigga have some dignity lol it’s ok to thirst follow but let’s not act like she’s discovering the wheel here lol

[@Sonny361974]

@@illmatic826 First of all Jody, stop disrespecting Nas ‘s masterpiece album and change ur name. Secondly she is educating men on women’s cheat games. A lot of women always blame men for everything, respect that Olivia gives us the answers to women’s psychological tests.

[@saldoom]

She's exposing the 90% of women, we gotta shelter this lady and keep her safe.

[@Foreverdensword]

Pretty much

[@JamesThomas-bj8ih]

I’d say 65 % even 70%

[@justinhicks5680]

I totally agree

[@marcusmvpgoat1236]

@@JamesThomas-bj8ih99

[@drivescene6747]

@@marcusmvpgoat1236agreed

[@StudentOfLife365]

Also men, be careful when woman try to be deceptive when giving you an answer to the longest relationship question. They may say 2 - 3 years, but fact check that in asking, "Has it been a consistant 2-3 years or has it been off and on..?" Because that matters and says alot.

[@troyhughey4791]

Facts! Facts! Facts! Olivia, you must catch a lot of hell from other women for dropping these gems. The last woman I was with had at least five of these red flags smh

[@ebrimajallow6845]

this is a crash course for me. I literally was able figure out what decisions or mindset to adopt instantly for past and current relationships with women. This women right here is dropping gems that will save alot of men from devastating relationships mistakes.

[@ljj734]

I've never heard a woman I've dated or any guy I know date a woman who say they were wrong when they actually were wrong. Being accountable is such a rare trait for many people.Olivia is a Treasure

[@bluewaters2829]

Spot on!! Very good video Olivia!! So many women any more are damaged from childhood trauma, which manifests into adult chaos. They are emotional and mental children. They won't address their own issues and will project those issues into the man they are with. Unfortunately I have first hand experience with most of the items you spoke of in your video. It boils down to accountability and the ability to grow from those traumas, but most won't, perpetually living in the past.

[@CanIVent41Sec77]

The biggest red flag to me is when my literally now ex didn’t like the late Kevin S. Couldn’t say anything good after his death almost made me feel like she was happy he died. I just feel like most women not all don’t have the room to change themselves, but want a man to change his whole world for her or at least that was my situation I’m really dragged from this relationship and I’m glad during this relationship I started learning. It’s a blessing that I now just found you momma Olivia bless you ten fold. I don’t even wanna mention that attention shiinzzz

[@jarrelljones1483]

When she said “I Believe” instead of “I Feel” this woman is a keeper lol keep going Queen you are gold

[@turneround4real]

I love Olivia Alexa. She’s always on point and educated. We need more intelligent women like her

[@DonaldMeyers-v8c]

Protect this gal at all costs. Shes a national treasure

[@tystevens456]

You are out here saving lives sis. We need this to being family first again.

[@lastking804]

Thank god I got out my old relationship with my ex Watching this clips made me realize she for the streets

[@glyslay4102]

Some of this red flags are very popular in modern women behavior it doesn't mean what relationship is spoiled

[@breakthroughs]

I must admit I've made mistakes in relationships and I hold myself accountable for my actions

[@jasongates-]

(The end) "If they don't respect their self, how can they respect you?" True. "Love your neighbor as yourself." So, if you hate yourself, and you love your neighbor as yourself, you hate your neighbor.

[@wokemagakilluminati5558]

Just stay single fellas! It's the best financial decision you could ever make.

[@christianbenn316]

Sure right cause you never want any red flags popping up again.

[@BRR236]

Her cocktail goes for 16$

[@Moshuun]

Just got done with a woman who was this WHOLE list, minus 2. Sheesh.

[@TheRealJasonJayV]

Love your vids, & the part about women not taking responsibility for their actions is the perfect description of my ex who not long ago hit me up trying to get back with me, but I'd shot her down, cause I hate experiencing the same rerun over & over again. Anyway keep that grind up & stay blessed 💯❤️

[@DEMETRIUSblaze]

As someone with anxiety, and neurological condition that cause nerve pain more when stress is added, thanks Oilvia for video shinning a light unafraid comfortable in own skin sharing informative truth.

[@OthelloBlaq]

I love finally being able to have these as part of an organic flowing narrative. However trying to find a woman with only a few of these traits is more than a little challenging and finding anyone man or woman without any is extremely unlikely. I personally would love a video on what might be a base for acceptable limits or combination of these flaws and how to navigate them. 🍻

[@g-man3093]

I’m looking now and that is the issue. Having none of the red flags. I like to look at it as one of degree. And some possibly being more dangerous. For the example a woman using social media to promote themselves might be something they can put a clamp on. Being jealous is really really hard to get rid of.

[@Jaguar2kicks]

For me, it was respect, accountability, and actually all of the above for my ex-gf. It was brutal, made me to the point where I fell into the trap and started arguing. “I’m an adult, I can do whatever I want.” Yeah, made us broke. But it was my fault, I enabled her I guess.

[@georgeg2369]

Protect this woman at all costs 💕 she is a national treasure

[@fender1000100]

Why because she's telling you want you WANT to hear to pay her bills. Damn fools. Simp City is REAL.

[@Fabian6980]

You're a blessing for these weak men out here thank you for doing your part this is a real queen right here. In a society that's focused on tearing down masculinity and feminizing men you as a woman value real men enough to go against it because you understand we need men just as much as we need women keep up the good work QUEEN

[@SpinDoctor91]

It's funny how the ones who lack empathy always wants empathy from others

[@mayormack2765]

You Told The Truth!!!

[@Trump145]

Thank you for more of that great advice Olivia. I went on a date with a young lady about a month ago she was in her thirties and that last one you talked about attention-seeking. I noticed that in the way she dressed. We went out one time I was very uncomfortable she kept wanting to take pictures of herself and she kind of dress like a hoochie mama. So I promised her I would take her to the range the next day I told her just dress casually we're going to the range no that didn't work she wore more of this hoochie-mama shit let's just say I haven't seen her since then I don't call her text her or bother her not my type too many red flags. Even on a first date she was already talkin about staying in one of my spare bedrooms in my house major major major red flag.

[@erniet]

This is one of your excellent videos. Every man should keep it as a pocket notebook. 💯. Ignoring these signs means you are asking for trouble and unhappiness.

[@airthrowDBT]

I've at one time or another ignored every single one of these red flags, men, this is quality advice here pay attention it will save you a ton of time and money and life force

[@lifutao3446]

Not the hero we wanted, but the hero we needed. Thank u Olivia!

[@Thmusic7]

Thank you for your videos. Very insightful. I think many of us ignore the signs it's because we are lonely, thirsty, and hurting. Certainly none of these reasons are good reasons to get involved in relationships. It's been two years for me, and though I missed the presence of a queen in my life, I will not settle.

[@jaobidan2358]

Too many wicked queens out there, my man.

[@CyaCrypto]

My lady you are always on point. Please don't stop your content.

[@ravereviews2552]

Damn you're so on point, I had this girl in mylife and she did all of these things damn.

[@masterj4777]

This woman is educating men on a master level and I love it 🧠👨‍🏫

[@largefactory]

Talking about your ex is a red flag in itself for me. If it comes up in convo that’s one thing, but if they’re always bringing up their ex, you’re done son.

[@dmburns555]

My Ex Fiancée Who Was Latina Displayed Every Red Flag By The End Of Our Relationship This Queen Mentioned.

[@Hennesseyautoreviews]

I heard you loud and clear when you finalized the details with “ RUN , don’t walk “!

[@Awizdom]

2:14 “you have to go off of absolutes and certainties” 💯💥

[@moebetta9572]

Appreciate you getting straight to the point

[@bhuvansharma7974]

commenting for the KZbin algo boost. Great channel!

[@DMoney3000]

Thanks Olivia for dropping these gems! May God continue to bless you in all of your endeavors! 💯❤️

[@ashtonhammond1302]

Consistency is key with wisdom daily. Focus on the process and keep the right things mind. No emotion everything is mental.

[@coreyct86]

All great points. ❤Gracias amiga. Especially #2 accountability. I see this in families members 😒

[@waynetheentertainer]

The part where they jump from relationship to relationship is called monkey branching

[@alejo2791]

Great information! Like I school my nephews and younger cousin. What she said with regards to respect is so true; she has to respect you that is non negotiable. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship; for it to work there have to be three components for it to work : one communication, two honesty, and thirdly most important RESPECT. Always be a gentleman fellas but stand your ground respectfully. Keep doing your thing Olivia we’re proud of you, God bless. 🙏

[@zenferg]

Here's some advice men Stop trying to figure them out and suddenly you'll figure it out.And while that's going on get out there and GET dont LOOK for every Atom of joy you can in life with appreciation because it's short.

[@richardtorres109]

You ran across my feed and I found you compelling and refreshing….im older n have come to that wisdom you expound for a while now…As a man, to speak to these themes doesn’t come off to well..but a disinterested woman speaking the truth is powerful…keep it up…I appreciate you…ty🙏

[@nickjenkins7050]

Damm Olivia…once again you nailed it

[@4GivenbyIam]

I always overlook the flags and get hurt in the end. Not anymore and because of this 7:04 I self prioritize my future happiness....

[@kaydahumbleguy6923]

We need protect her at all cost. Dropping good knowledge

[@whitneyharris533]

Your energy is amazing 🤩 ❤😊

[@richardkaiser1795]

You’re loved in so many ways and you already know why. Keep speaking your truth sister ❤

[@TSixSix]

Unfortunately all 8 bit me in the ass at one point or another 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@drizze2488]

Thank you so much for this video, you inlightened me and made me realize why several of my past relationships failed or didn't work I'm single right now and will remain this way until the one for me comes along 😊 thank you again

[@evaldowhitehorne3387]

This is great. A lot of these women have all the red flags you described. It’s sickening knowing that majority of females my age group has most of these. Gotta be mindful of them kings💯

[@jaydagreat_253]

She back 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@UnitedWeStand2020]

You just described every woman I have tried to have a happy and very loving life with for the last 50 years. I have given up looking, because every one of them has led me to that dead end road to grief and mental stress. Going on 70 years old, It's just not worth trying to find real unconditional love anymore.

[@stevenlawrence5733]

Women have terrible texting social skills especially on dating apps. Talk to me in the form of a complete thought when you start a conversation with me. Hi Hello Hey How are you I'm so tired of the cheap social breadcrumbs to get my attention

[@dorneeeuring6103]

I believe I’ve spoken on this before but I want to say Olivia you hit the nail right on the head and in the future I will definitely be paying attention to these red flags. I’m going to rehearse them and practice daily to watch out for these types of signs. Thank you and God bless you.

[@chadmorehart7511]

Thank you, you have put so many things in perspective. I hate to hear some things you say, but all are true. There are so many man bashers out there especially on KZbin and social media, it is nice to hear a woman speaking truth and logic and being real, thanks again 🙏

[@rohitmenon2268]

I can totally relate to this, from my recent breakup. Gave my 1000% to hear that its not good enough, and that I shouldn't be friends with my ex, a person who I respect and is still a good friend. After going through this video, she had all the red flags mentioned, and I just let my emotion replace my logic, all because I wanted to be there for her and be together. Her trust for me went out the window long back, any interaction with a woman, even if its a colleague, was a problem. No acknowledgement for the efforts I made for our relationship, always talking about all that she did and how I don't sum up to it. Now I realise I was babysitting a volatile child and not being in an actual relationship. Thank you for making this video, at least now I don't regret our breakup anymore. Should have seen these red flags coming.

[@77Catguy]

Wow--absolutely brilliant on so many levels that all guys interested in a long term committed relationship need to watch and consider 100%! Thanks for your trying to to facilitate honest and bonded male-female relationships for the benefit of us all!

[@darkphoenixaresryu]

These are relevant red flags to avoid. I married a woman with these flags. Needless to say it ended in divorce. You are telling the truth.

[@DoubleJuriy]

useful words a must say! And you quite charming person! I like what you doing! Keep going!

[@Bxl19]

This is something no guy shouldn’t never ignore if you see a woman like this run like forest run

[@guntertorfs6486]

As a kind , empathic man , but still masculine , the lack of empathy a lot of women display in dealing with (good ) men on a romantic level , especially in the beginning , is the thing that bothers me most.

[@chronicdoggy8812]

I’d love to have an intellectual conversation with olivia on a rage of topics, not just regarding women. You can tell from her articulation alone that she’s highly intelligent.

[@nickfba]

No accountability seems to be the one I come across most

[@legitdoctorate1607]

I needed to have discovered you years ago! However, I am exceedingly grateful to have found and heard you now!!!

[@scarsfrmgrindn8529]

BIG FACTS SIS AND I SEEN ALL THEM SIGNS AND TOOK BACK CONTROL OF MY LIFE AND MOVED ON TO A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT STATE

[@christianbenn316]

You have every right to move on & never look back & have zero contacts with her.

[@travismcleod256]

I would like to thank you for bringing to the world, because some people need to hear it especially coming from a beautiful Queen

[@duromusabc]

You just described to the T how to avoid a narcissist woman , both overt and covert narcissist women - excellent video ! Narcissist women display all these 8 red flags

[@christianbenn316]

& you stay far from such women for they are cowards.

[@davidcarino7546]

Olivia I love you you are on point you're very open being a woman that has open mind and Open Heart Like You Do your thing honey all the best David

[@tjbohmier46]

Awesome job!! These 8 Red Flags are fire and you presented them so well.

[@mikebell2750]

Love your videos and shorts, thank you for sharing your insight/wisdom.

[@jakehill2010]

I absolutely love Olivia's advice! So on point

[@40VIRGIN40]

Learned a lot from this video.

[@JohnPaul-ny6el]

Had me forgetting it's Monday. That sounded like a soft toned sermon in church on Sunday.

[@justjames7809]

Amen sister

[@Cowface]

As someone who is currently divorcing someone with a lot of these traits…. I 100% agree.

[@supremealphamusic]

WOW! I’M MIND BLOWN! THANK YOU!!!

[@gregpowell7679]

This really opened my eyes. I just left someone who had all the red flags. I'm glad I stepped away.

[@odd02]

Kinda scary how most if not all the points you brought my ex did at some point during our long relationship. 😳. I sure did have the blinders on.

[@edwardsampson7668]

You're an AMAZING woman . GOD Bless You 🙏✝️❤️💪🏻💯

[@EmaculateMusic]

Yup. Hit It On The Head Everytime. 💯💯💯

[@openworldgaming1976]

I really enjoy your content Olivia. I really wish I knew a lot of this before I married my ex. There were so many red flags, yet I was too young to see them. I've avoided so many bad women since. Your content helps keep my decisions in check, as well as my kids safe from another violent woman.

[@SuperiorFitnessSB]

Your best video this far. I trust that you’re a woman with the gift of wisdom. Thank you for sharing your gift.

[@jaso144]

Great one Alexa. I might have to check my own self for one of those.