Sexuality and Gender, A Social Experiment | Full Documentary | Genderquake Part 2

[@pwetty4r4]

imagine outing somebody and expecting them to apologize to you. Good grief marcus....

[@kam6718]

and as a feminine gay person you'd think he would understand that was messed up from the start, lord😪🤦🏾‍♂️

[@p0shiee844]

Apologize for ignoring marcus

[@Dipandpip666]

@@p0shiee844 No he had every right to be annoyed. Marcus didn't even realise what he did wrong until he heard about how terrible things had been for Romario growing up. You don't need to know someone's traumatic past to understand you should never out someone. As a gay guy I hoped he'd know that only you have the right to share your own information. I felt like he was projecting his own struggles with trust and not realising that not being honest about cheating is veery different from withholding that you're trans for a bit.

[@lucassg2810]

@@Dipandpip666 agree, when your cheating you are fooling someone and betraying them, i dont think romario is doing that, hes actually just being himself and he would have opened up when hes ready

[@sam-fv4ps]

He shouldve said im sorry you feel so insecure with yourself that you felt the need to out me.

[@kip5040]

tom wanting to be educated is soo nice, hes such a precious person

[@crtv9727]

Yeah I know like he might not understand everything but he wants everyone to be happy

[@Zer0TheGhost]

I love that Tom is the one person that I thought was gonna be the biggest problem and he turned out to be one of the sweetest with Marcus being the snake 😂👌

[@milothephoenix258]

@@Zer0TheGhost I knew Marcus was gonna be problem off the bat because he was like so closed off on gender and made comments in the beginning

[@martinae8601]

Ok, all it takes for a straight man to be wildly liked is just not being a dick, he might get a bit too much praise there... Or maybe we're just so used to straight men being dicks, that anyone acting slightly different makes us applaud it...

[@Unintelligentful]

Martin, the majority of oppressors are straight men. If you don't reward the small improvements in society you arent going to see much improvement. Things happen slowly, and actually, when straight men on TV speak like this, it validates it for other straight men too. It only has positive effects and here you are, being negative. This is a you problem.

[@AlinaWinnie]

the straight guy (forgot his name) is so respectful and willing to learn about his housemates experiences even though he came into the house having not been exposed to trans people very much, hes a great ally and so much more respectful than marcus who is a remember of the lgbtq+ community

[@xxxxxxooo3270]

this !!!!!

[@FM-er6xy]

Himbo,,,

[@jamiepape147]

Sadly this is a real think and not just him

[@rmdlgarcia]

Marcus was the only one who protected the girls rights to not be lied to in the 'safe' house. It doesn't matter if Romario used drugs or lied, consent is about knowledge, Romario was in the middle of a rape and the only one that protected the girl was Marcus. Romario went through a lot of pain as a child because she didn't know the truth (her mother loved her). Hopefully she learns from this experience. No relationship can start as a lie. There is no telling how she would have felt about Romario if they had started as friends that were honest with each other. She said she still sees a good looking man. But she also still sees a liar. Romario blew it on his own.

[@KarlSnarks]

@@rmdlgarcia I agree that transgender people should disclose their identity before they jump into a relationship or have sex. However, saying he was raping her is just a ridiculous statement as he did not have sex with her, and iirc they didn't even kiss. I do get the girl's reaction though and she shouldn't have felt like she overreacted. Marcus still wasn't in a position to out Romario though. Also, why are you talking about Marcus and Romario when this comment is about Tom

[@mirrors87]

I think Romario has absolutely nothing to apologize for. You don't out somebody and get into other people's business like that. I would also be livid, let the man take it at his pace. It is obvious that he would have to tell her before they potentially got into bed, and Marcus might now have ruined what could have grown into a nice relationship had Romario been able to do it his own way at his own pace.

[@alfa2324]

👍👍👍👍

[@havannaknight9310]

As a trans person myself I agree sometimes it's about safety and feeling comfortable enough and ready way before sex.

[@katrinavillacarlos2263]

The way Romario comforted Marcus, ugh >_< the white tears got me hydrated. Romario was the bigger person in this situation.

[@localgrandparent1007]

As someone who was outed that escalated to bullying this broke my heart and left me in tears

[@gavieahh8969]

And I don't think that the other guy understood that someone from the bar could have overheard his saying that and killed remario

[@lyras.9752]

“When do I get to be a man?” That just broke my heart 💔 You’ve always been a man Romario And always have been It’s just who you are

[@chosenstrong9539]

Girl

[@PastaWaterIV]

@@chosenstrong9539 oh wow, that was sooo funny. I cant believe someone could come up with such a unique and new thing to say. /s

[@chosenstrong9539]

@@PastaWaterIV ;)

[@twentyoneeilishes5313]

I feel the exact same way though. The only thing I’ve ever wanted is to be a cis man, just a regular guy without all the baggage of being trans, but I will can’t have that and never will. It fucking sucks, and I’m still somewhat in denial about it because if I ever fully accept it, I don’t think I’d have any will to live left. I’m fucking exhausted.

[@PastaWaterIV]

@@twentyoneeilishes5313 cool username and profile picture!

[@hannaasinmontana7126]

Marcus saying that "he is so believable" like he isnt a real man.... honestly disgusting and transphobic

[@simmonewatts693]

You saw it like that? Idk honestly, he believably looks like a real man to me frfr 😭

[@p0shiee844]

He saying it like you couldn’t even notice he was a trans he looks like a male as in is transition was good

[@zelpazz]

He isn't transphobic and he is the most woke person in the household. He knows that cis and trans people exist but most importantly he knows that non-binary and all of that shit ain't real and that's why I love him. He is so smart.. Only thing I didn't like about him was when he outed that trans guy but otherwise he was the best

[@Emil-lf3no]

@@zelpazz You have a terrible standard for what woke is.

[@littlegothgirl8869]

To be honest, he IS damn near unclockable. I get you shouldn't judge a trans person by their looks. I thought that was a compliment though. Lol

[@annieangel97]

why does marcus seem exactly like jeffree star

[@imv333]

Lol this is exactly what I was thinking about

[@jsecrest5606]

I kinda think Jeffree maybe transgender. Not sure.

[@alecxanderthegreat]

THISNSHWJHKWHW

[@myapapaya2317]

fig&plum kitties Jeffree isn’t transgender. Or if he is he isn’t out yet. Pretty sure he isn’t trans though

[@igiveup5585]

Yeah a snake

[@user-rh6yl2bb4q]

I absolutely loved this series, but I feel like it revolved mostly around certain people, (Howie, Campbell, Charlie, Brooke, and Romario), which had good stories and stuff which made the series interesting, but I would have liked to see other characters like Dan, Saffron, and Phoenix, which I thought had awesome traits.

[@noahpr4843]

I totally agree I was a bit disappointed. Otherwise the series was awesome though!

[@user-rh6yl2bb4q]

Noah PR yeah I agree!

[@potatoyoutube9225]

Gali Nussbaum Are they going to continue the series?

[@user-rh6yl2bb4q]

Potato KZbin I don’t know! Good question though, I hope they do!

[@flyingrover9022]

They owed him that birthday redo...

[@emfaye23]

i wish there was more screen time for the nonbinary people. I could sense something happening between Tom and the one nb person ("you left your laptop in my room last night", cuddling, etc) but we never really got to see that happen

[@constantblathering4196]

THEY SNUGGLES DURING TRUTG OR DARE AND I WAS SO HAPPY 😭😭

[@markfoster1520]

Years later, she's a single mother.

[@emfaye23]

@@markfoster1520 oh that's really interesting i didn't know that

[@PiDaBliw]

Wait what? When? I mean which time stamp :( I can't find it

[@Boutlandish]

Srsly. What’s their @ 😭🤍

[@lek4422]

markus really said “i’ll hear you out” then proceeded to cut romario off every 2 words before leaving.

[@jade_idontkare7481]

and had the nerve to ask for an apology

[@Unintelligentful]

Dont forget he called him a dick first lol

[@skyenby9247]

He's the type of transphobic guy in the LGBTQ that people are talking about. But it made me so mad that some people were protecting him because wtf he legit outed Romario. What is Romario was in danger and he just made him scared because now people know who he is

[@neverever3922]

What the straight dude said at 8:00 is completely valid, he's very open minded yet its completely fine to have your own preferences when it comes to genitalia, if you're not attracted to something that's natural. Yet like he says, he recognizes that a woman is a woman.

[@ellajulia162]

Yeah, love Tom. He acknowledges that he doesn’t really understand stuff and asks questions and isn’t mean. He just seems like such a sweetheart 💜

[@KarlSnarks]

I don't think anyone (except a very small portion of the trans community) will judge him for having dating preferences. The dude is such a wholesome cutie btw.

[@glx333]

It happens tho... Some people still think it's transphobic.

[@mikaelastefkova]

I completely understand him ✨ I'm a lesbian and I can totally imagine dating a trans woman (she's a woman after all 💗), but I can't imagine having romantic interactions with someone when it comes to opposite sex genitalia... Not because I find it weird or something, just because I'm not attracted to it, if you get what I mean ☀️ It's nothing against them^^

[@geminiwolf0077]

@@mikaelastefkova Yeah, I get what you mean. I'm non-binary. And, I don't care what genitalia or if they look like a "man", "woman", or "non-binary" and that includes intersex people, kind of like Brooke(she's actually my type, I'm kinda envious of her looks, not gonna lie). The only thing that I really care about is who they are as a person, and while I don't have any genital preference, I do prefer my partners to be on the bigger side like my body is. I've never once in my life been attracted to skinny people. Like, I can't imagine myself with a skinny person. I tried dating a skinny person, but it just didn't work out. They cheated on me, but they're missing out :) I didn't feel anything. However, Jack Black and Melissa McCarthy? I'd love them even if they did some gender bending(I'm aware this term might be offensive, and I do not mean to offend). I'm a non-binary amab. I don't want bottom surgery, but I want hormones and top surgery. Everybody is allowed to have genital preference. I just happen to have a body size preference. I'd probably only wanna date a trans/non-binary person because they have a connection and understanding of what it's like to be in a world where conforming is the only thing that seems to matter in society, and that they can empathize with me on a deeper level that a cisgender person never could.

[@ani-8323]

As a white cis gay I apologize for the people among us like Marcus, what he did was totally unacceptable and revolting, at least they ended on a good note

[@josiefigueroa1754]

You don’t have to apologize for something you didn’t do, it wasn’t white cis people it was Marcus.

[@Emil-lf3no]

You don't need to apologise for other white cis gay people, but I appreciate the gesture

[@lsdmolelekki]

Straight black male here. The whole outing made me want to cry man, like you can clearly see that they are not yet comfortable or haven't figured it all out yet. Now Marcus has taken away that important time and journey. I had to stop for a week before watching this episode just so I can stop being that angry.

[@Queen-rl2uo]

You can’t apologize for another human being

[@KarlSnarks]

As a white cis wizard I apologize for all white cis wizards who fought at the side of Voldemort ;)

[@yondermileslimpey3892]

Howie had all the girls like 😍😍

[@xzantria6664]

Me too mate... she had me going 😍😋🔥 as well...

[@thousandmilespeach8518]

Yes me too😁🔥

[@luciabachiller4828]

Yass 😍😍

[@sam-fv4ps]

Howie had me going 😍😍😍😍 she's drop dead gorgeous.

[@emiliebhowmik9131]

Yo we could literally start a Howie fanclub 😂

[@siphesihlemahlangu9812]

Romario’s background and journey explains why he is so reluctant to say he is transgender from the get go and why he is still not proud to call himself transgender. That much trauma to the point of suicidal thoughts and being kicked out would have a great impact on someone’s self-eestem and identity. Romario requires a comfortable space to speak about it and he was still getting to that point. MARKUS WAS SOO WRONG FOR OUTING HIM AND THE FACT THAT HE ASKED FOR AN APOLOGY🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂 he did apologize later but I didn’t understand why he was crying as if he was the one who was hurt. Also really PROUD OF TOM’s OPEN MINDEDNESS! For a heterosexual man to really grasp these realities so well and not be transphobic or homophobic, THAT’S THE STANDARD.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@luisacampos3893]

he was crying because he felt ashamed and sorry, he felt bad

[@chilenapromedioRU]

It's understandable Romario didn't want to tell his background story, but it was wrong for him to try to pursuit a romantic relationship with Philomena knowing the way she thinks yet still hiding essential information to actually construct a trustworthy relationship. It felt even misogynistic. I understand Romario has endured trauma and abandonment as a child by his own mother, but that doesn't give him the right to deceive his love interests.

[@Aspen.Denney]

Wow: Charlie looks so much like her mom.

[@shinmoda]

Facts

[@madxheza5555]

I want a full series of genderquake. I could watch those for years

[@that1randompotato576]

Same

[@felsjo02]

Yes 🤩

[@danyelPitmon]

Honestly I wouldn’t mind being on that as a transgender woman I think it would be kind of cool to educate people because I’m also a disability advocate as well

[@daliacanseco3983]

Marcus said in the last episodes to let Romario speak for himself yet he outed Romario. Then he asks for an apology after disrespecting someone’s identity. I would be defensive too, Marcus should stick his nose in other people’s business. 😠😡

[@rubybaker1466]

exactly! marcus wanted romario to speak for himself after they fought, yet wouldn’t let him speak for himself when it came to his own gender identity? i’m disgusted by his behavior, and romario doesn’t owe him ANYTHING

[@absurdist_666]

No way! He shouldn't stick his nose in ANYONE'S business!!!! Are you good?!

[@rainetopia7130]

@@absurdist_666 I do believe it was a typo.

[@itsarsa262]

Romario was kissing with the girl that does not share the same idea a bout sexuality. So he kinda went overboard with the manipulations. I just have hard time understanding how nobody judges Romario. Marcus was not the on gossiping about his scars. And what he did was 100% right telling that girl what is going on. You need to recheck your thinking. I am not saying that Marcus is perfect. But Romario is guilty as well.

[@rainetopia7130]

@@itsarsa262 Absolutely not, my friend. Romario doesn't seem to like thinking about when he was a girl and only wanted to be known as a boy. That is perfectly fine. If he felt uncomfortable and would rather forget being a girl, then he has all right to keep it a secret. Marcus has absolutely no right sharing a secret that isn't his. Point blank. There is no defending that. He did something he shouldn't and was and is getting crap about it. The secret was not his and was not given to him. It's a secret for a reason.

[@Voytasss]

This Marcus is the worst representation of a gay men in this show when it comes to personality. This makes me sick how he treated Romario.

[@xiaui556]

The sad thing is that, he isn't a one time case, unfortunately that is a lot os prejudice of the gay against trans people.

[@sxndra.y543]

what i got from this video: lesbians get more girls

[@lexvt3551]

Lmao😂😂😂

[@raylol4291]

damn i’m still waiting for mine 😤

[@sxndra.y543]

@@raylol4291 it will come trust me

[@tmystery9505]

We do 😛

[@Ari33sa]

honestly I'm a straight woman, but howie was dropdead gorgeous.

[@joenimarien1535]

Marcus, not everybody is so open about like you are. Go being extra somewhere else... If he (romario) doesnt want to talk about it, and be open about it when he wants...what is his right...than let him be. Marcus that's called respect... again...it's not your call to make.

[@celestebamoree368]

Charlie looks like her Mom... BEAUTIFUL and the fact that they’re remortgaging for her is Super Amazing and emotional. I love her parents!!!!

[@emilytrott]

It really is beautiful. That is the way all parents should be, doing what they believe is the best for their child. My parents were the most loving people you could ever meet. They were always there to encourage and assist me with the things that I became interested in. Well with one exception, my being a transgender woman, which was really quite a new thing for most people in the mid to late 1960s. Maybe they did know something about it because I can remember my mother saying once that I was a good looking boy, but that I wouldn't make a very attractive woman. Anyways they did their best to dissuade me, knowing that I would have a horrible life at that time in history if I were to start living as a woman. They did that out of their love for me, and their wanting the best for me. I think that if we were doing it all today that they would do just what Charlie's parents have done.

[@shivashakti4261]

Marcus is a narcissist who wants everything to be about himself. Im so sorry for the victims he hurt.

[@knomesarecooliguess5928]

Shiva Shakti Marcus 100% should have handled the situation more thoughtfully, and should have though about the ramifications. However, I don’t think that automatically makes him a narcissist. But, once again that in no way excuses his actions.

[@Abstract852]

@@knomesarecooliguess5928 Everything he said was about how it affected him, there wasn't any consideration for Romario...if not a narcissist extremely self involved.

[@l3x5555]

Jefree Star*

[@PnoMonies]

@@knomesarecooliguess5928 Text book narcissist AND who made that queen the honest-police? lol

[@LunarEleven]

How are people so quick to judge?! Are you psychologists? "Text book narcissist?" That's not a call you can make based on someone's behavior in *one scenario*. I'm not defending his behavior but you don't know what was going on in his head. Being stuck in your own drama sometimes is HUMAN- so all you know for certain is that he's a "text book" human being. He seemed to connect to the situation and didn't know where to draw the line between his personal experiences, and another person's decisions. I can see why it bothered him, though- it bothers me that he kissed her without telling her, too! He had good reasons to express concern about dishonesty, but then it should have been left in Romario's hands to decide. Please don't just label others!

[@jennarush9731]

OMG they need to do an American version of this. This is the best thing I've ever watched. Loved every single person. They're absolutely wonderful. 🥰

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

My queen My dream My sweet heart My love of my life I Love 😍😍 Love ❤❤ Love 💑💑 Love 💏💏 love 💋💋👄👄👄 Love 💍💍 Love 🌷🌷🌷🌹🌹🌹 U u u u u u so so much forever really i like u my queen

[@sres0]

What I liked more about it is that you can really see the more conservative participants grow in terms of openness and just trying to come to terms with something that they've never had to deal with before and even defied their views in some way. It's lovely!

[@rat3350]

I loved everyone except 2 people haha- id love to see an American version and id love to be on an American version 🤩

[@escalator8969]

gretbones teehee whos the other person you disliked? I’m assuming Markus is one of them. Is the other one Filomena?

[@madalinapuntea6383]

If they did do an American version I can only imagine that it would ether be super chill and everyone would be cool and accepting or it would be drama filled

[@emmalouge123]

Every cis white gay man needs to learn from Marcus. You're outing of a trans man of color without understanding his community or experience and then painting yourself as the victim because you faced some consequences for your potentially deadly actions.... That is just the hight of privilege.

[@xiaui556]

PERIOD!!!!

[@Abstract852]

Especially given the context of the show. It's not like Romario is being super secret about it or he wouldn't be willing to be filmed on a show specifically about these topics. Marcus is just a self entitled knob.

[@nataliravn]

This. 👏

[@tabitha4048]

YOU’RE RIGHT AND YOU SHOULD SAY IT. Being gay doesn’t make you the king of oppression. They have so much privilege and can be just as transphobic and racist as straight white men if not worse, because they feel like they have a free pass and can hide behind other’s homophobia

[@KarlSnarks]

Not sure what other cis white gay men have to do with Marcus being a dick? Like not everyone with the same random identity labels acts the same. His identities have nothing to do with his actions, except for him being cis (and not understanding some things about being trans). I assume you're one of those people who sees everything through the lens of identity politics, and if so you're part of the problem

[@bernardfarquharson3275]

Dan: I'm not asking for everything, just asking to be seen. Everyone: So true. Everyone's mother: Yes Everyone in the house: ABSOLUTELY Producers: Ok give Dan 10 minutes of screen time.

[@raafjansen8488]

Great to see Markus apology. Also amazing conversation between Romario and his mother. Also great to see Brooke speak at her old school and see the teachers listening. I believe everybody grew from this experience. Great show, enjoyed it very much.

[@florjean965]

I absolutely love this show: the concept, the participants all help make it an insightful show.

[@neddyconstant5816]

Part 2 Yes Time 3:55PM Fri 6/26/20

[@taylorwhitlock2320]

I loved this. I just wish they would have focused on EVERYONE not just a few. Every person involved in the show is beautifully amazing and I would have made friends with everyone. I feel like we only got to "meet" a few of the people.

[@lauren-ww1ip]

I wish they included more of Dan, Phoenix and Saffron!!!

[@TinVelascoShortFilms]

We need more episode

[@KarlSnarks]

Dan was the bald one right? They had such a warm chill vibe going on (also, totally cute)

[@hastyink]

@@KarlSnarks no Dan had short black hair with bangs

[@mmmint2688]

That's the one I am interested in the most

[@ObsidianNyx]

Marcus had absolutely no right outing Romario. None whatsoever. All the more so because HE ( Marcus ) was reflecting his negative experience with an ex onto an innocent person. As a gay man, you'd think that he'd know and/or understand that outing someone, be it their gender identity, or sexual orientation, can at times end in terrible circumstances that can not be undone, nor taken back. There are members of the Trans community who have chosen to live a life of stealth for various reasons, a major one of which would be for their personal safety. Something that we should ALL be entitled to regardless of gender, sex, race, and so on. Walking down the street, getting a cup of coffee without anyone batting an eye, etc. Trans people have lost their lives time and time again to situations similar to this, and I won't say all, but quite a few of them have in fact been outed by gay men. Just like we've seen here in this series. The same gay men, mind you, who've more than likely experienced that same exact fear of threatened personal security at some point in their past, current, or present. It's frightening how swift some people are to throw others under the bus despite knowing all too well, from first hand experiences, that those tire tracks leave permanent scars.

[@Professional_444]

Did Filamina deserve what she got, then?

[@knomesarecooliguess5928]

This was beautifully said ! @ObsidianNyx

[@graycl0ud]

i wish we got to see more of the nonbinary folks in this series

[@waitaseq8833]

There are 3 nb , 3 trans women , 1 trans man , 1 lesbian , 1 gay man , 1 straight woman and 1 straight man ,, chile

[@graycl0ud]

@@waitaseq8833 ik but basically all the screen time went to the trans women and the trans guy

[@vilmalyck06]

@@waitaseq8833 there where 2 straight men, and they probably mean that the non-binary ppl didn't get as much screen time as the others and for a show like this it did a very bad job at showing what non-binary is/means even tho that was it was for, this show was for educating but how could you learn if they didn't let the NB speak on camera

[@chilenapromedioRU]

@@waitaseq8833 What does Chile has to do with this? And there's 2 trans women and 1 intersex person who identifies as a trans woman.

[@jessandlydiatrask2046]

Transgender woman are woman no matter if she has any of surgeries or not. My fiancee is a pre op transgender woman.

[@ImLiterallySoup]

i don't know if you're the person in your pfp but if yes you're both litteraly so gorgeous

[@jessandlydiatrask2046]

Damian Yes thank you. My fiancée is on the left and I’m on the right..

[@chocobro3198]

Agreed. Though, would like to add this applies to any transperson, so transgender men are men too, regardless of being post op or not.

[@luxie2155]

They should do a reunion show..

[@crtv9727]

Well idk if they can right now since covid-19

[@rinlila6974]

that one gender fluid girl got like no screem time, that's kinda lame for her

[@ladykim7905]

She’s gorgeous too🥵

[@aniyahwilliams4562]

Gender fluid person* not girl

[@rinlila6974]

@@aniyahwilliams4562 gender fluid refers to the gender. Girl refers to the biological sex

[@1800caina]

@@rinlila6974 yea thats not right lol shes not a girl whatsoever because of her genitals. thats the point of the show

[@sssnipercat_7687]

@@rinlila6974 come on bro, seriously? Your so wrong

[@theupwardspiral1580]

"I cant take the drama!" *laying on the kitchen table* hahaha that part makes me laugh every time. I mean...same thats my feelings as well. Lol

[@sandyae92]

Marcus saying Romario was "so believable" and that he "needed to know" makes my blood boil, he needs a big dose of minding his own freaking business... the Karen potential is strong in him

[@itsarsa262]

Fact that you say is like that feels like you are taking it personally. Romario manipulated girl that does not share the same opinion about sexuality. What Romario did was not just a bout him. Romario's insecurity does not make it right for what he did.

[@sandyae92]

@@itsarsa262 imo the "experiment" lasted a week which usually is not the amount of time it takes to get comfortable enough with someone, especially given his background... If he really liked her I understand why he would want to see how things go before opening up ... If he had let things go further without telling her then I think I would share your opinion, but it was less than a WEEK. Also I think that what I found infuriating was Marcus' entitled attitude and then trying to play the victim But again it is my perspective and I think it is interesting hearing how you perceived it

[@itsarsa262]

@@sandyae92 I mean i agree with you completely it does take long time to get comfortable with some one. To even say something like that. But does is make it ok manipulating some one in to kissing with you? Just because he's insecurity i mean girls said it he self she felt misled. And it she said it nicest way possible. I mean she was not judging him maybe because of environment she was in or maybe she just really feel this way. But no matter what is shitty thing to do. I think you are over empathizing with Romario. Marcus did tell after the kiss, i feet that's the reason he told. But that was not the care he did it for the wrong reason. I don't think doing it was so wrong. And he should have given Romario chance to come out clean by telling him if he does not tell her he will.

[@jamesthezemnian753]

@@itsarsa262 romario was not manipulating her. They kissed. They are full grown adults and its just a kiss. It is their business and especially Romarios to tell her. Given his statements that he doesnt hide being trans he would have told her. But you need a quiet private place for a conversation like this and there was hardls the time

[@MsDudette21]

@@jamesthezemnian753 He didn't tell her he was trans knowing she'd have an issue with it. That is deception. They were also filming a doc about gender identity and he took his shirt off which showed his scars. What did Romario expect? He knew if he told her from the get go she would have rejected him, and rightfully so. That's why he got so mad at Markus. Cuz now he couldn't keep getting away with it. You can't start a relationship on a lie. There's a reason they don't talk anymore.

[@julianna1919]

Awww ramarios back story is heartbreaking

[@lanis57]

I think thats why he trans..

[@LuckyBadger]

When he said he forgave his mom, I cried so hard!

[@stevans79]

I was left when I was 6, then people would say I didn't have a mother. I moved in with her when I was 9, when I immigrated.

[@madisonthompson8984]

Wait is nobody gonna talk about how the enbies didn’t even get a fkin catch up spot at the end?! 😱

[@vilmalyck06]

I thought that as well, this was a show to spread awareness and educate ppl but then just not include non-binary ppl? do you know how many ppl who don't know what NB is and this show did a terrible job to show what it is/means cause they barely got any screen time.

[@ConniJo]

Why is nobody talking about how Tom just stood in the kitchen buckass naked except for that itty bitty apron 😂 I was scrolling through the comments and nobody prepared me for that 🤭

[@weirdscience369]

I wish we got more of Tom. Straight men can be a dangerous demographic, but most just mind their own business. They can be awkward about what they think they should/shouldn't say, but they mostly just don't care about what other people do.

[@lefishe3721]

Ikr ...he was so nicee

[@that1randompotato576]

@@lefishe3721 right! Tom is so sweet to everyone and he wants to understand them more...we stan 🙂

[@KarlSnarks]

Sounds like gay men and women can't be dangerous, we are though, be warned XD Yeah, Tom was such a wholesome cutie. Also, the bald gender-fluid guy had a good vibe going on as well, even though they didn't get much screen time (like the other two non-binary people)

[@kyren5333]

I was shocked listening to Charlies story. It's crazy to hear how people perceive themselves because when I look at Charlie I dont see any of the flaws she was talking about. I know those surgical changes will make her feel better in the end. But I think in this moment she looks gorgeous!

[@junenovae]

"it shocked me because he was so believable" ... what do you mean?! that he was believable as a real man, but he's not?

[@magdahlinasoudah709]

As a transman, I know how dangerous it is for someone to out you as transgender. That is FOR US to decide. And to think marcus was expecting an apology is ignorant and disgusting. He is a man. More of a man than cis men. All love for Romario ❣️

[@chilenapromedioRU]

It's also dangerous to not be honest with your love interest. That could end in tragedy.

[@niyaounchith321]

1. Tom could totally get 👏it!👏 2. Markus; prime example of someone who lacks emotional intelligence. 3. Howie could totally get 👏it!👏 🤣🤣

[@sandyae92]

Marcus trying to spin this into him being the victim and saying Romario has "issues" because of how he reacted is manipulative and narcissistic...it was NEVER about him

[@teramonte7077]

ROMARIO: YOU ARE THE MAN!

[@Nowaynoway50]

Romario obviously wasn’t ready to come out as trans . Every person is different and do things their own way and at their own pace. I feel like someone who once came out as gay should know that. There isn’t a specific time or age when you should tell people who you are or what you identify as . Some people come out when they’re 60 . Some people have children and are married and then something just clicks and they come out . Just because you came out when you where 15 doesn’t mean other people should too

[@knomesarecooliguess5928]

Nowaynoway this is a good point! I just want to add that it could be possible that Romario didn’t want to be labeled as trans, because like they said at the end labels can be decisive. Meaning that, he recognized that he is a man that was born as a woman, but just wanted to be referred to as Romario. I hope that one day well live in a world where there won’t be labels, or at least live in a world with inclusive labels.

[@blondecat666]

Marcus is despicable.

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I love u forever I like u am alone 😙😙😘😘😘💑💑❤❤❤❤😍😍😍😍🌷

[@chosenstrong9539]

@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz ???

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

@@chosenstrong9539 hi how are u ??

[@chosenstrong9539]

@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz I'm good, how r u?

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

@@chosenstrong9539 i sm fine where ftom u

[@Jurnicurn]

markus pretending like he outed romario by accident is just sad.he cant even own up to what he did and he espects an apology. good thing he came around in the end.

[@Benzaroo23]

I wish they would call Brooke intersex

[@crxheart7190]

I mean it's really up to her what she wants to be referred to as. She's said she's trans multiple times so I'd assume that's what she wants to identify as. Some people that are intersex prefer not to be called trans and some do! It's really up to her :)!

[@Noa......]

She is intersex. But she identify as trans...

[@Tea-ql4ok]

@@Noa...... in a way she is both

[@faylannam6124]

In public no transgender is safe where I live. But for those who are ignorant and don't want to be educated who are usually cis male or cis female , transgender is the easiest concept for them to grasp. They believe that it is impossible for an intersex human to exist. I am intersex in that I have estrogen and testosterone. I was altered at birth. I have had 7 successful, but complicated pregnancies. I wish I was still intact and am more male. I do feel more male and live as a male. I just cannot afford and insurance denies transitioning so I live my life as positive as I can. So yes Brooke is intersex. But, intersex is the crack the lgbt community does not want to accept. Remember also that sexuality and gender are two different issues.

[@yuribarcellos6553]

Intersex is not a gender, it is a genetical condition. She was assign male at birth and developed female secundary sexual features during puberty and then identifying herself as a woman, therefore she is transgender.

[@Noa......]

Markus outed Ramarios, and does not understand that he made a mistake that could be potentially harmful. He is selfish, and only cares about his values. And the others are no better.

[@absurdist_666]

I understand about Markus but how are the others no better?

[@knomesarecooliguess5928]

I think the others were confused, but they definitely played a part in outing him as well. However, I think Markus knew that Filomena didn’t know much about the trans community and so it affected Romario and Filomenas relationship even more than it did with the other people in the house( but that’s just my take on what happened ). Also, I’m not completely sure is this is true, but when Romario revealed his scars in front of some people on the beach, maybe that was his form of seeing if they would accept him??)

[@petra-zb4zp]

howie is so hot i’m wheezing

[@allisonderosa8708]

Mother n son talk got me crying my eyes out...

[@Benzaroo23]

I love Charlie’s parents

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I love u I l8ke u Am alone welk u merry me ❤❤😍😍🌷🌷💏💏💏💏👄👄👄👄💋💋💋💋😘😘😘😘😙😙😙😙😙💑💑💑🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹💍💍💍💍

[@KarlSnarks]

Also, they're both so gorgeous (I'm totally crushing on the dad), wonder Charlie turned out so pretty.

[@lena_ace]

Everything aside, like ... what's going on with Romario's hair in the back there? 😂

[@Inputdonutz]

So strange!!! 😆🤣 maybe he doesn't want long hair because its to girly for him?

[@TK-mx4ld]

and the sideburns! the rat tail i can rationalize but the sideburns just seem so random, yet it works for him... somehow

[@feliciamavuma745]

It doesn't matter where are you who are you, your gender or sexuality, we all find Howie atractive

[@Inputdonutz]

I'm surprised that guy wanted an apology when he was in the wrong. I'd be angry as well! Not his place

[@christelle8572]

Yes, agree with that... HE was the one to out Romario without him giving his consent to do so and the guy was the one expecting an apology ? He looks like the type of person who likes to give himself some kind of self-importance by creating dramas.

[@emilytrott]

Ali Sha, What struck a chord with me was when Marcus (the one who did the outing) said that he was only speaking the truth. This reminded me of my best friend, a cis woman, because she too believes in telling the total truth and let the chips fall where they may. I don't condone Marcus, but his trying to always be truthful is probably a result of his being lied to by his unfaithful partner. He shouldn't have pushed for the apology though, especially after he told Romerio to say his peace and not accepting that. The whole situation was sad. :(

[@allisonderosa8708]

It was cool that dude apologized..but I dont blaim razareo for being pissed still..you shouldn't out. Anyone...Period..

[@heehoohomosexual750]

Marcus straight up outed Romario, and instead of making things better he forces drama. Disgusting.

[@gamzee3610]

Turns out when people are around other people who can understand, and empathize to the experiences they've been through their outlook on life improves.... who'd thunk But for real friendships between lgbt people are super important. Speaking as a transmasc person, my gender dysphoria vastly improved when I became friends with other trans men. Any advice I have to young lgbt people is to reach out to other lgbt people it'll help so much with internalized self-hatred and shame

[@jessicarenae5107]

*No wonder Brooke is so strong!! She's been through a lot to toughen her up for sure!! She seems like the funnest, most amazing person!!*

[@pwetty4r4]

So happy Charlies parent are going to support her, thats some grade a parenting right there!

[@farahkl7780]

😭😭😭😭why does this have to endd i loved this show ! And i loved Howie

[@frogman3155]

WHO IS GOING TO TALK ABOUT HOW MUCH OF A TALENTED DANCER PHOENIX IS

[@TK-mx4ld]

YES!! Such beautiful fluid movements attractive!!!

[@vibrantvibes9953]

I feel like the capability was there but haha😅 just needed good choreography

[@havannaknight9310]

I would totally love nothing more then to be cast in the American version especially if it's centered around the black community I feel we need the most help an understanding with gender and tolerance of diversity.

[@junenovae]

But Brooke isn't really transgender, she's intersex... right? Am I not understanding this correctly?

[@ScoutOnly]

Perhaps Brooke just wants to be labeled as a transgender woman.

[@s.a.8548]

She is intersex but sense she grew up thinking she was born fully male (even going to an all boys school) she also indentifies with transgender.

[@kaitlink2004]

June Novae close. People with XXY chromosomes are biologically male, just with a chromosome disorder. The extra X adds feminine qualities, but does not make a person to be both sexes or in between. So, no, she is transgender, because she started out male. It is pretty much unheard of for someone to be not mostly one sex or another, and biologically non-binary.

[@angrydonutface7420]

She's both.

[@callingallgoddesses9477]

She’s both... having an extra sex chromosome is called intersex. However...she transitioned naturally (hence the term trans) often, intersex individuals go on hormones or undergo procedures to counteract what naturally happens to people who are intersex during puberty. Some individuals who are intersex don’t always have both sex characteristics present (it could be internal or purely hormonal ) however she does. She identifies as a trans woman bc she has zero intentions of altering her physical body and that’s really truly who she is if that’s who she says she is (: hope this clears it up a bit.

[@EstelleLunei]

I love it that they didn't use Brooke as the token intersex. She was referred to as trans, and that's it.

[@chilenapromedioRU]

She's an intersex person and that's much more intersex. She identifies as trans woman and that we must respect, but being intersex is much more interesting.

[@Taylor-xo8nv]

I love how everyone found a way to be themselves uniquely and still hold room for every other reality. It left me feeling hopeful.

[@yuntingzhang7237]

27:14 Howie to Campbell who's just wearing a bra: "are you just gonna..like.. are you gonna wear a vest? ... OKAY." LOL

[@neverever3922]

Hilarious

[@sheashay17]

Campbell was a freaking riot, looovvvved her! 💖

[@tatsleo9022]

Tom is officially my favorite straight white male

[@KarlSnarks]

Quite a few straight guys I have been friends or friendly with had a similar warm and chill vibe like that going on.

[@MereMusic78]

Neat group of young people. We need more of this front and center.

[@maccamacca7787]

I'm a bit mad we really didnt get much with the nonbinary people. As a person of the nonbinary umbrella myself it sucks to see that they didn't have much screen time and it wasn't enough for them to be noted at the end and it just sucks because they also seemed like cool people. I feel like everyone was supposed to be the main character but the nonbinary people just turned into a small role with a few lines. If they end up doing something like this again I hope to see that they include everyone a bit more and push out **every single person** not just everyone minus a few.

[@cody1935]

Yesss I really enjoyed this but I wish it was longer and had parts and the time to give everyone their own focus Saffron is such a cool name and their hair was so coollll

[@nathitaxo]

Maybe they werent that interesting and didnt give so much drama

[@cody1935]

@@nathitaxo Kinda sucks this whole thing was just drama either way I'd have loved to see more of the nb folks

[@JV-cz7db]

Maybe they didn't have much to say lol, since they seemed a bit more introverted

[@Memenator]

Markus needs to mind his own business and get a hobby.

[@lou2330]

Charlie’s mother looks exactly like her 😱😱💘 11:18

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

Am single 😍😍😍😍❤❤❤❤❤🌷🌷

[@XercinVex]

Am glad after hearing about Romario’s family it finally REALLY sunk in for Marcus why it was such a big deal that he did what he did and he never do that again.

[@ceruleandream972]

Romario’s experience with family is literally the nightmare of every trans person, honestly so proud of him for persevering and for being able to forgive in spite of all that

[@dontpickonme]

Dan: "The main thing for me is just recognition and respect" Me: "Wait, were you in this house the whole time?"

[@m_t3901]

What a fantastic documentary, enjoyed it greatly. Everyone in there has got a cool personality as well.

[@ashleybish0p]

It's so heart touching to see how supportive Charlie's parents are. When they said they took out a mortgage on their home to pay for her surgery I was like WOW♡ ......and Markus is such an instigator!! There was ZERO drama until he opened his mouth. It wasn't his place to disclose such information.

[@wonderinggayze]

can this just become a series. i enjoyed watching multiple individuals with different backgrounds and ideals come together and get a much better understanding of/for each other. The outcome of educating one another is a beautiful thing.

[@sydneybeaa]

I have a huge crush on Howie, like she is the exact woman I would want to be with

[@KarlSnarks]

I'm crushing on Tom, Charlie's dad, and the bald genderfluid person at the same time. I have a problem XD

[@neverthesame7887]

I'm a straight woman, 59 years old so I was raised with much less tolerance. However, bless my late father who taught me ( a lot through example) to treat people with respect because that's what's most important. We are all really the same after all--just people--on our own journey through life. I do believe that through acceptance and understanding, the fight for acceptance for the LGBT community can actually happen. The group of people filmed for this documentary were phenomenal: courageous, loving, and mature beyond their years.

[@leakypfaucet]

*me skipping thru every part with Marcus in it*

[@tabitha4048]

As you should

[@__Ibot__]

Samee

[@dressagegirlkae]

Are any of them Bisexual? Not just casual, but all the way out. We've made it to the second episode so I guess not.

[@Liessssssssssss]

I mean, almost all the girls who went in straight were turned bi by Howie, and honestly I can't blame them

[@mans_a_he]

Romario's story is heartbreaking. He has to deal with outside factors that make it impossible to live a happy life and then deal with constantly asking himself when can he be a man not trans. It's deeply heartbreaking💔

[@thefuture5386]

Romario's brother is FINE!!!

[@Cbgart]

OMG YEEEEEEEEES

[@TwitchDarling69]

So fucking fine!!!!!

[@AlmaMariaRinasz]

Charlie is the spitting image of her mum- both gorgeous and what great parents too! 😍

[@camilorico5361]

outing someone is violence .

[@anemic666]

Honestly.

[@stinkyfaeries]

Punching someone in the face is violence. Outing someone is damaging.

[@LindCreations]

Tom is such a sweetheart. His open minded willingness to learn is just amazing :)

[@smallyinski]

I love how Charlie's parents put the needs of Charlie over their own or they treat her needs equal to their own... It's so lovely

[@secretlyamazing]

Charlie reminds me of "owwwww Charlie bit me" 😂 as a kid

[@kimberleebenton1969]

When a random recommendation sends you down a full rabbit hole and now your on IG finding every cast member... thats how you know it was quality.

Do you have their Instagram? I would like to see what has been of all of em.

[@ane9813]

28:11 NOT TRANSPHOBIC MARCUS SAYING "SEGREGATING" 😭😭😭

[@mischara]

marcus saying: "i felt intrigued by romario not telling me he's trans" feeds so much into the dangerous narrative that leads to so many trans people being murdered, cause cis people feel tricked by them.

[@Alexis-ox7lj]

Can yall do this again? XD this was so refreshing and really heartwarming. I wish the best to everyone involved

[@inmerguevara810]

Howie is getting the most action out of all the people in the house 😂😂😂😅

[@charnyc377]

i loved for how supportive tom was of the others in the house!

[@waydefaavae5515]

I love this Show it's wird the first day they were try to notice each other but the last day it's sad like they had so much fun n look like real Family gathering the way they out to support one another with their pass but thanks for sharing this with us who watches KZbin everyday 😂

[@waydefaavae5515]

N Tom is cute 🙄🤗😍

[@PurpleHandkerchief]

„She listend - and that’s all I needed.“ Good thing to keep in mind for every parent ever. Just listen!

[@reddistone]

That one girl with the pony has spoken one sentence in the whole experiment