Aaron Doughty: Why Empaths & Narcissists Are More Similar Than You Think | The Higher Self

[@AaronDoughty44]

thanks for having me on brother! Had a ton of fun with this one! to clarify too when when Danny and I are talking about an empath the context of the video is talking about what is called a "codependant empath." someone who feels energy to such an extent that they cant discern what is their energy vs what is others.

[@Naturehealingperspectives33]

Love your work! ❤ this episode is 👏

[@FzaraCool]

Aaron you always touch my soul 😢 keep it up...tis the time for healing.

[@kharysmaharris449]

as a self-sufficient empath with avoidant attachment and dismissive attachment how does that compare to a co-dependent empath?

[@FGTL247]

I like seeing your collab videos. Should do one with teal swan!

[@newparadigmlifestyle]

I appreciate this so much. Specially because I know about the knowledge you know "Bashar" and I didn't know before how to process this. Beautiful conversation

[@crazytechnogirl]

WOW this was the wake up call I needed, I relate so much to being the empath and dealing with narcissists. I definitely need to take accountability for my role. Thank you for the knowledge!

[@Tania_888]

As an empathic fiesty latina, I tend to struggle a lot with control, over extending my help and boundaries. My mind is blown away with how much programming we Latinas were fed to be the perfect caretaker... but we never learned to take care of ourselves. 🙏🏼 Such a good episode.

[@cynthiab2517]

I'm with you girl... I also come from the Mexican heritage and the programming we have been given. Just now learning at 42 how much I gave to others and not myself..

[@Tania_888]

@cynthiab2517 I'm Mexican as well! I am planning on going to visit this August and learn all of my ancestor's chismes. I still have two grandmothers who can share some some wisdom! 🙏🏼

[@michaelkelly5356]

I’ve been watching him for like 5-6 years, his energy has changed so much it’s been great to see him grow🔥

[@catshouse6192]

who?

[@Tara_Seehofer]

Yesss totally agree - we all are always evolving, sometimes we recognize it and sometimes we do not 🩷

[@KathiOsborn]

@@catshouse6192 I think he's referring to Aaron🙂

[@Michaelpeterscoach]

Agree. He feels very sovereign. Very embodied. It’s great to see.

[@ToshanaHR]

Yess... Agree.... 😊😊😊

[@zathenhcambidestem-iliv2464]

I think Aaron was sent to people like myself to give us the tools to turn our lives around, to thrive. His experience reflects some of my experiences, but he found a way out of the woods, into wide open spaces. I need to finally find a path to expansion and Aaron is showing me the path. I am so grateful for you xxxxxx

[@janeukraine]

The frame technique. The zazen practice @12:27

[@JazzMota]

is not a game, cause you never loses, is a flow, a mindset, an aura, a presence, freedom

[@7msjster]

I resonated so much with this. I'm a crone from many lives ago. I was a graphic artist by trade, then was a body builder for a decade (great experience, it grounded me). Then I spent the rest of my working years as a hairstylist. Little did I know that I would be working on their crown chakra. This is where I received my real education into the spirit world. I have never charged a dime for a healing. Now retired my biggest joy is still coaching. Spiritual coaching. God has always brough me people. Plus, one of the reasons God hired me is because I will stop everything if I have to see to a situation. It's been almost 25 years of service to God. It's been a great run. Great Video gusy

[@rammar8126]

Omg this is food for the soul. I have been in a dark place for days and was struggling on how to get out of there, on my way to my job this morning (driving) I decided the first spiritual video that I can click on it that I’m going to listen to, “and I bet it won’t do anything to calm my anger and sadness” and guys you made go back to the light 💡 thanks ❤

[@jromeo8247]

Aaron helped me on my journey of awareness. If you look at his older videos, he looks totally different. He has elevated not only his inner being but also outer being❤

[@cindykenyon8754]

Wow…wow…wow! This is SO amazing…the focus on the truth of this dynamic (‘narcissists’ and ‘empaths’) and peeling away layers that I haven’t heard articulated before … he is spot on. He’s helping me to carve out what I’ve felt and couldn’t totally put my finger on when it comes to my part in relationships I’ve experienced…he really ties it together in a way I can understand without just making a ‘judgment’ about the other party, which helps me to see a granular description of how to embrace accountability within myself as a path to healing…and a more enlightened understanding of moving forward.

[@tonirobinson1118]

I’m so thankful for Aaron!! He helped me the most during my spiritual awakening in 2017! He is so down to earth and relatable!! This one is great!!! Thank you Danny!!

[@allisonkessler17]

Oh God, this explains a lot. I knew I was experiencing a repeating cycle, but you finally told me why!!

[@Zach-sg5uu]

It seems like in constant self-defense people who suffer under narcissistic parental control or any kind of consistent abuse of narcissism. Tend to have some narcissistic traits because of it! I wish they would just leave me alone permanently!! Narcissist will never change and will never stop trying to control you! It’s certainly not a funny situation like many people seem to think!

[@ToshanaHR]

Amen to that!!!!! ❤❤❤

[@blessedn4614]

Change takes place when we put in the work to heal...conscious awareness is key here. Noone is forced to unless they willing to. Love the podcast❤❤

[@SelinGuzel-ge3xt]

How amazing to see two of my idols together giving a speech about something I’m struggling at the moment. There are no coincidences 🥰❤️🙏

[@carmencolonhome]

Feel it to heal it, that's what happened to me on Thursday and Friday breath work at Awaken! I still am wrapping my head around it, but I was forced to go through three things from my childhood that were absolutely terrifying but I kept breathing through it and breathing through it. These are things I couldn't even talk about out loud without just freezing, I just tried to block it. I wasn't able to talk about The breathwork sessions even to Gabe until Friday night. But since then I can talk about it over and over and it's like it's not in me like that anymore. I had to feel it again so I could heal it! Love this Thank you

[@bkb2012]

❤ The first shall come last, and the last shall come first. ❤

[@chrisbanisch]

Holy hell this is so good! The part about the need for attention is wild. And, a pattern of being sick for attention. So WILD!

[@Cookiedesigns254]

Seriously!!!! My mother is this way! Always “sick” to seek sympathy from others 😭

[@crazytechnogirl]

didn’t waste a single minute! such a great listen

[@AssertiveTarot]

NOT TWO OF MY FAVORITE KZbinRS / SPIRITUAL COACHES IN A COLLAB 🙀🤯🥳🥳🥳🥳💜😍

[@MerariBonova]

Exactly 🥹

[@theresaduplessis6010]

Me too​@@MerariBonova

[@theresaduplessis6010]

ME neither

[@MonicaAlvarado19]

AARON became one of my faves now for sure! This was an amazing episode, thank you guys! 💚

[@FGTL247]

" 32:47" what your not aware of, runs you'!

[@tarulitambunan9556]

Thanks for this conversations. I just found out that my daughter is an Empath. We have no idea how to calm her emotions for a little girls who just lost her daddy . But this conversation help me to have step by step taking my daughter to understand that : don't TAKE anybody's emotion become your emotion.

[@marisaayala6860]

I loved this and learned so much! Thank you!

[@sandybrooks5580]

This is one of my FAVORITE episodes!!! I can’t explain the amount of clarity that came from this episode! You guys just raised us all to another level! I’m so grateful to both of you and this collab! And @aarondoughty44 you have THE best laugh! Thank you both!

[@andreajohnstone9269]

Thankyou for sharing. I also think empaths also go for unavailable men may be no narsistics... you must learn your attachment style .. I think and know that many of us go for people like our parents.. it could be a wounded female or a wounded male as they feel they need to fix.. its very interesting and complex relationships.🎉🎉

[@lraejo]

Well I have a show business so this is weird. He’s exactly right- when we abandon ourselves as children we develop role selves to get our needs met. This is called enmeshment trauma. The problem is - we can lose our “selves” so much that when we statt to breakdown we realize we have no idea who we are. I think this is what many of us struggle with. Even after a years of therapy , emdr, meditation etc I just discovered the break down of this phenomenon. Literally having to find our authentic selves in our 30’s/ 40’s. It’s like starting all over again but it’s extremely difficult…this is why we have imposter syndrome etc!

[@lraejo]

Shoe**

[@NOMTpodcast]

I just met this man in the here and now. Loving the vibes my friend.

[@claudiawilliams-BEYOU]

I love Aaron he has changed my life ❤️ Thankyou brother 🙏🏻

[@nataliakmiecik7254]

Love this ❤ explanation of empath - narcissist , as an empath I can confirm all this ….

[@engidategegn]

big respect for Danny Morel

[@LissaRes]

Oh my God. The missing piece. Thank you Aaron SO FUCKING MUCH!!!!!

[@CSLKauai]

Powerful stuff! So many nuggets. Also, good to meet Danny. I follow Aaron and now I am introduced to another fellow traveler. Keep it up guys. I am sure our paths will cross.

[@glendapeglau4694]

So many insights. So relate and I thank you. Love to hear more of Aaron's insights on empaths v narc

[@balamxe2024]

Amazing interview and very good insight regarding the Empath and Narcissistic dynamic. Thanks! I finally understood my part of it.

[@Maryamsjoyfullife]

Great episode! Thank you!

[@rammar8126]

Of course I’m going to watch this video again ❤❤❤❤

[@cindykenyon8754]

Me too!!!

[@margishah8960]

Amazing video Danny!! I am an empath and I got so many insights on how to work on myself.. 😊 Aaron, you have decoded this dynamic so well! Hats off!❤ Aaron, could you please help us with a video on flame technique that you were talking about? I request you to show us by you doing it or someone else doing it.

[@TheJazzie44]

So so true! Vulnerability, understanding & feeling safe

[@sherylhokianga2649]

I Struggle 2 Say Them 3 Little Words!. If I Didnt Tell My Hubby I Loved Him!..Believe It Or Not!..Its The TRUTH!..Its Different 2Day As Hes Dyin..He Not Only Broke My Heart He Broke My Spirit!..But, Im Still Here!..He Had 2 Go In2 Pallative Care Home...And, Wat I Thought I Had!..All In His Name!..The Only Thing Im Guilty Of Is Bein Loyal 2 The Bone!..Jealous & Possessive 4 No Reason!..My Way Of Gettin Thru It 4 So Long Was 2 Isolate Mycelf Away From Social Conections Due 2 His Behaviour,😢!..Less Dramas!!!

[@christinaherren]

I really needed to hear this today. Thank you!

[@Spiritual.l8t]

Love this episode so much clarity to why I keep attracting narcissists in my life thank you guys for the enlightenment

[@FzaraCool]

I needed THIS 👏👏👏 Aaron always hits thr spot.

[@alexcolley2619]

Next level from start to finish. Thanks for your refreshing way of looking at the world. A few days away from my 2nd ayahuasca journey led me here 😊

[@deeclifton808]

Thank you. Something just shifted into place.

[@Cookiedesigns254]

I hope to see Aaron on more podcasts! His message truly changed my life! ❤

[@Natali-Unicorn_Vibes]

I’ve learned that what I’ve always been searching for was always within me! Thank you for sharing! 💜💫

[@CelestialLuna888]

Divine timing!! 🙏💖 Thank you with my heart full of gratitude!! Namaste! ✨

[@SRTsoulsessions]

Love Aaron! Please have Teal Swan on your podcast.

[@FGTL247]

Wow I just asked him this too!

[@claracriera]

Thank you both for this amazing podcast! Made me reflect a lot and allowed me to see where I am and where I still have work to do!

[@akashiclove]

Wanting is wanting.

[@lisaw6219]

Damn, dude dropping truth bombs.

[@jc-is9oq]

So true Aaron, we do have that throat 2 crown chakra activation! It’s so easy 2 meditate & be in the out of body for us. Gr8 explanation 4 it!

[@Karisbarlowe]

Your beautiful for sharing and helping this world 🌎 ❤

[@colleenbucks4385]

Thank you so much for this ❤

[@SRTsoulsessions]

Mediumship is a lot different than EmpathS. As a medium you will feel Spirits and have to leave a room, trust me

[@mamathemeat]

Mediums can have the same issue with spirits yes..

[@oliwiaoli9322]

Ahhh what a beautiful conversation, my heart if full, thank you Danny and Aaron❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@reikimastersharon]

Glad to see you guys collaborating together, I love it! 🌈💜🙏😊

[@audreyba]

❤ Wow ! Thank you guys! 2 of my favorites reunited!! It’s so amazing, that exchange you share with us. I am grateful ❤️🙏🏼

[@deenabryant]

I will be on your show soon Danny love your work ❤❤❤

[@ketaarde632]

This was good❤! Great connection with you two! I would love to see you bring @kylecease on your show! It would be magical!!!

[@Cookiedesigns254]

Omg hell yessss!!!!

[@RumiRose12]

“I’m man, I want look good” 🤣🤣

[@KamoheloMapeshoane]

Robert and Aaron thank a lot,so much powerful infor , Aaron u drove the concept of money home and I understand.

[@Adriscreationsphotography]

All I have to say is wow I am pretty sure my brain finally clicked!! I get it now

[@c_stad]

Whoa!!! I needed to hear this, great content on this podcast. Thank you 🙏🏼 🔥

[@mariopineda3895]

Love the teachings

[@CamillaCoachHarris]

WOW…I needed to hear all of this

[@jr10toes]

The similarities are interesting. Does everyone fit in one of the two boxes?

[@amawordie7801]

Thanks!!

[@nicolewaltemate3425]

Danny do you have the name of your psychic??

[@sylviaduncan6663]

I understood what he saying about the energy

[@Beckywiththegoodhair9]

"Narcissist" has become a buzz word. As an older person, let me tell you that almost everyone today is a "narcissist". In the 90's there was this big movement, all of the influencers at the time (on TV) were interviewing "experts" who told everyone that they are special and that we should advocate for ourselves. We were passing out trophies for kids who just showed up for sports. Everyone gets a trophy. Now I see generations of self centered, butt hurt people who cry because of every perceived bad thing that happened to them. If you think I exaggerate, look at people who have survived throughout history who experienced far worse, for example, holocaust survivors. Not one of them went on a podcast to whine and whimper. They were so glad to be alive, everything else was easy. If you want to change your life, put your phone down. Be kind. Help others. Prioritize yourself, yes. But prioritize yourself ONLY, that is why you all feel so disconnected. I'll be attacked for this comment, but Idc. If it strikes a cord with you, it's probably because it's the truth.

[@brittanyann869]

Is this the same as the anxious-avoidant dynamic and the “twin flame” thing?

[@Theowlhawk]

Brilliant video ❤thanks 👍 😊

[@peterdeneke8401]

I keep on having job problems of not been good enough and getting fired. I get abused by bosses and narcissistic friends, women..

[@robsonman976]

One more piece of puzzle❤ Thank You for everything You do for Humanity❤ Love & Light from Ireland

[@mayhtoo3576]

Awesome!!so good talk show,AAron&Higher self,very interesting conversational healing concept,so beautiful,thanksss!! Congratulation!!😮❤😊😊😊😊😊

[@Zach-sg5uu]

Both of my parents are controlling narcissists!

[@deenabryant]

Heyyyy Aaron ❤❤❤

[@Zach-sg5uu]

Meditation never worked for me even when I tried my best to do it for two weeks!

[@mayhtoo3576]

Super podcast talk show,thank you sharing,yesss!!very tranfomative of 'frame tech'❤😅

[@mayhtoo3576]

Stylish coverage

[@ptcosmos]

26:58 I love your channel and your audience, I'm gonna comment on ALL your videos for years until I reach your level of subscribers.

[@dawnmaestascowell6930]

Love from Portland Oregon

[@hilaklein4087]

I am a healed codependent empath .

[@silviasantos1624]

Loved it

[@priscilamorais7729]

So true!

[@famzini4424]

Who is your psychic Danny?

[@dewamadebagaskara7999]

My mom really controling me, about my money, about all my stuff, my life, my dad is a people pleasure, my brother look like a NPD person, my bos grandiose NPD and now my girl covert NPD, wow .... How do i stop it? Help me,,,, please i really want a healty life 🙏

[@heartliss]

Bashar said they’re pure energy and it is also a successful space colony

[@Jtech55]

@19:30 Lmfao 🤣🤣🤣

[@heartliss]

Let me think who I love more Jon leguzamo or Aaron doughty now relax pls

[@AssertiveTarot]

Please collab with Activation Vibration (Heather) as well!!! ❤

[@SRTsoulsessions]

🙄

[@newparadigmlifestyle]

I have a question, would it be possible that knowing this knowledge is a Justification for an empath?

[@SibaniPanigrahi-v2z]

Yes, Awareness with knowledge makes life more better

[@heartliss]

They said it’s about to be good vs evil essasani vs tall greys

[@godzillamanstreb524]

So good, ty both….attuning to the safety of my own body 🤍

[@NOMTpodcast]

Aren’t we all co-creators? 😮

[@vanessamckeefry2837]

We are infinity, is to serve with the heart and God will lead to the right life purpose it is to leave on the moment! When you spread love and gratitude everything follows in place excellent post cast love it yes guys 🙏✌️🙌💕

[@heartliss]

I just saw the blue j Flouro blue and my dog sparkled orange

[@uranusterra579]

Codependency doesn't equal to empathy; you should have clearer definitions.

[@kovenmoore9314]

I. 'm not a narcissist.It's the I kept the iron rod.It's my job so I suffered my whole life.God said well stuff.Have him suffer.Then we know he'll do it