Acceptance, Thank you.

[@kendire6135]

Jesse my man. You are so lucky to have accepted who you are at such a young age. I'm 51 and so many in my age group did not. You are correct when you say it is unfair to those to whom you involve just to "fit" in. You have started your journey and it is going to be a great journey in this thing called life for you. And yes you are normal. Just do me a favor and keep doing vidoes for those who started or need to start the journey you have embarked on. All the best.

[@helloskittysuprise]

ur pushing 80

[@frozenbaby2004]

Congrats, dude! Being Gay is as natural as living. Welcome to the community. Your friends will not leave you!

[@NylichAna]

your true friends will not leave you. :)

[@davidhafner3304]

Jesse, You are a perfect PERSON in every way, Great job at just being yourself. DONT CHANGE A THING

[@VotreAmi]

I think with any big change or moment in your life, time is usually what makes it easier.

[@LaurenceMartin4pix]

cutest video moment ?? . . . 2.55 . . when you say you realised you were different in middle school . . . and that smile comes across your face !!!! . . . ha !! . . awesome !!!!

[@91lutz]

In 2011 I wasn't the same person. I was always depressed. I couldn't keep it a secret anymore. I came out to my cousin & just like your sister, she cried cause she felt the pain I was in. I am a cancer survivor. After coming out to my cousin, I felt this great amount of weight come off my shoulders. I then thought to myself, "if cancer didn't stop me, why should I be afraid." You're cute Jesse. Everything will get better with time(:

[@rogerinatl]

Buddy, you are SO going to be alright. I'm amazed at how quickly you're comfortable in this "new skin" you're in. Truly impressive and evolved. If only every kid who is struggling with his/her sexuality or gender identity had your sense of self. I wish they would all find your videos and take strength from what you've overcome! Hang in there chief. You're not taking baby steps...you're taking huge freaking leaps...just like Superman.

[@johndobson8075]

way way late, my apologies,. THIS IS SO FREAKING INSPIRATIONAL, kudos to you Sir... I today watched all your videos, so young yet so many life experiences, I take my hat off to you. Memories are forever. Hugs from UK (lost my partner some years ago, mid 30's) .. and as many have said, yes, PLEASE keep posting when you can - we need you in our lives..

[@michaeltr74]

Just what to say that I have been out for some time now and I have not been the best person that I can be. But watching this video clip has reminded me that being truth to myself and the people around me is the most in portent with ever, and for that I thank you

[@ianclough9857]

jesse you are an awesome guy , as your down to earth ( no bullshit ) type , good luck man , ian , melbourne , australia .

[@kennelson6399]

Hi Jesse. Not sure but somehow stumbled across the vid of you coming out to your BF. You are one super nice guy with a loving heart. I just subscribed and now I'm your 42,064 subscriber!

[@bobbysnyder6301]

Take as make time as you need to come out you don't need to rush into it. Everyone have their own pace. Stay strong.

[@zanadu4]

Jesse, man that was such a sincere video, and good luck and stay strong.

[@dougflewellen2940]

You are a good, worthy, and valuable person. I am an old man who had problems coming out in my life. In some ways I still do, even though I knew I was different when I was only 5 or 6 years old. I did not come out at all until I was in college, more so in the last part of my Air Force enlistment, and not fully until I was 50. Too much of my life was.missed. I am so happy to see you and others being able to come forward. You are an inspiration to me and others. I wish you the best life for your future.

[@jarvintorres608]

Hey man hope ur doing well! Just saw your videos & subscribed right away, very encouraging. We're not alone and it's never too late to let our true selfs shine! A big hug bro!

[@pauldu7927]

you are strong and have a good shape. You will be happy and the brilliant future is waiting for your coming.

[@teakwood9]

You are a great guy

[@heckyeah]

I turned down the audio so I could watch this at work and just admire your arms, dude. Seriously... majestic.

[@heckyeah]

No, but really... Very happy for you, man. Your spirit is amazing and genuine. I hope you’ll continue to share your thoughts and such on KZbin. 🤘

[@lugnut4848]

Dude U are totally Normal, Get out there and Live, Love & Laughf!

[@ccfan81]

Congratulations on your comming out Jesse!

[@richgenther3519]

Proud of you buddy! It IS ok to be yourself because who you are is awesome, beautiful, and unique

[@maverrickman]

your such a sweet guy i use to be like you before it all went to hell. watching your videos gives me hope, hope that i will be a sweet kind handsome guy again hopefully soon your not alone 1 out of 10 were here for you jesse

[@jenniferlinville2801]

Jesse, as a mother of two young adults about your age, I'm so proud of you. The courage it takes to put yourself out there like you have is overwhelming to me. May God bless you on this journey of self-discovery. You're an amazing young man.

[@TimStruckmeier]

Thank YOU, Jesse! Just by being true to yourself and doing what you have already done, you have made a difference for others and most importantly for yourself. I'm happy for you and very proud of you.

[@irahubbard]

Thank you for sharing. I think i can say this on behalf of all the other viewers, but we've got your back. You're part of this awesome and caring community now, and its awesome to see how great people like you are a part of it!

[@PeBoVision]

There ya go dude...I've never subscribed to a "personal reflection channel" before, but after watching this (the second of your videos I've watched) I felt compelled to show my support with a click (sorry, no bell ring, I get enough notifications for a few lifetimes). Continue to be brave...forgive the cliché, but it really does get easier (I came out before the first Star Wars came out, so you're doing it in a much more accepting time). Just accept AND BE TRUE TO yourself and the rest will fall into place. I have great confidence that life (and love) will be very kind to you as you move forward on the adventure that everyone on this spinning marble share. You are not "different" you are simply you. And that's not different, it's special. Props and heartfelt respect.

[@VeneTiglao]

You're helping me a lot. High school's been tough on me so far. As a closeted freshman in an environment where everyone is seemingly bullish and not accepting, I find it very hard to come out. I guess, I'm just trying to save myself from verbal abuse and bullying. But you are helping me a lot. Thanks man.

[@onelanguage13]

And now you are contributing to the journey of others, thanks for your experience and insight.

[@BeckhamBelieves]

Jesse, you are an amazing man. Be proud of you, I don't even know you and I am proud of you. I can already tell I am going to follow your journey and support you every step of the way. Someone like you will find the most in life, happiness and love because you think before you step or speak. I look in your eyes and I see the fear still there, but it's minimal compared to the hope and strength. Handsome, noble and intelligent. Husband perfection.

[@dawgeral333]

Everything is gonna be fine! You're well on your way! I was 16 when I told my folks...and they were really cool with it. I'm nearly 60. It's the only way to go!

[@kathleenschell453]

Oh honey, our differences are what make us special! You have been so brave and I commend you for not living a lie. Honesty with ourselves translates to honesty with others. Respecting others starts with self respect. You are amazing!

[@demiiiigurl]

Dont worry it will get better ive been out for 2 1/2 years ummm and ive had so much support and family and friends and im glad that I came out I feel a lot better about who I am ... and im still trying to find who I am so stay strong bud it will get better and u have a family that has your back so :)

[@darrellrussell658]

Yes Jesse we need to support one another. Because I am just beginning the process and I am 47. I need the support just like you.

[@davidoran123]

Jesse, I have been out since i was 18, that is 41 years now...it does get better. i live with my husband on a little horse ranch..You are a wonderful person with much to experience. Enjoy!

[@russell5942]

love your sincerity man! Good luck to you, your journey will be wonderful

[@brendancampbell4963]

I think it's super-awesome that you have made such a huge leap for yourself to come out as gay. It takes lots of guts. I also think it's super-awesome for you to make it so public because it can show people that "gay world" isn't so one-dimensional. Often people, especially young people, tend to think that "gay world" is strictly flamboyant and gender-typically effeminate. By making your experience so public, you can show people (especially young gay guys) that gay men don't have to fall into that stereotype. They can be "jocks," too. Of course I'm not at all trying to insult any gay men who happen to be effeminate or anything, but just as "guy world" can seem excluding to "unmanly" men, so too can "gay world" to "not-gay-enough" gay men (I have a friend who has actually been told that he isn't gay "properly"). And I believe that you embody that message of greater inclusion, and even if it's not intentional, it is quite awesome. So thank YOU.

[@RoulinBrooks]

You're right in that it's going to be a "long" journey, but not necessarily that it's going to be a "hard" journey. I hate to be a nerd, but here's a quote: "You've just taken your first step into a larger world." (Obi-wan Kenobi). A happy life stretches out before you. You deserve it.

[@amcardino21]

We're here for u, Jesse! Take us with u on ur journeys and adventures! 😀😀😀

[@mikejrexec]

Your personality feels like a long time friend. Great quality to have. You'll go far in life.

[@CaptainA4Equality]

Jesse, Your Sincerity and Total Awesomeness makes it seem like You are a long time friend so, glad that you feel better and are such a great example to those of us that still need some time.... Thank You, Peace and Love Bro

[@ikebrower2896]

YES that is what i have been using KZbin for for the past week, i finally stopped denying who i am and i have started to watch these videos from you and others on you tube, everything that you said in this story is my exact situation with my high school career but i am planing on coming out to my friends and my family over the Christmas break and i just wanted you to know that you and people like you on KZbin have helped me so muck,.... so thanks to you also

[@paulmchalegrand]

Best of luck Jesse. Now that you have made the first step I reckon you'll find things get a lot easier and move a lot faster than you expect. You'll look back a year from now and say "wow I never expected to come this far". And just a little confidence boost - you come across as a very attractive person. Lots of people will want to support you.

[@davidwmnet]

Good for you man, be who you are and who were created to be, YOU. It gets better, Jesse, you'll notice it in your videos how much you'll change and be more confident and ultimately happy.

[@kcribb1]

It's liberating and empowering at the same time when you begin the process of coming out to your friends and family. As a subscriber, I'm excited to watch your journey....

[@TheUrbanHEB]

My heart goes out to you man, I'm going through the same thing right now in my life. I came out to my best friends and they accepted me and loved me so much for it. I've started coming to my family and they have been nothing but supportive. It's definitely a life changing experience because you feel free and honest with everybody and mostly with yourself. It's still a process but it's warming to know that there are others out there going through the same experience. Good luck man, take care.

[@jasonmajeski79]

I think what you are doing is great. It will help sooooo many people with their own coming out processes and give them a virutal pat on the shoulders every now and again.

[@gyscloete83]

Hi Jesse, nice to see the mountain lions didnt get you. Keep up the video making and remember around every corner there is someone willing and able to support you in your journey, even from South Africa the support will come. All the best and proud of you.

[@jackking3001]

Much Love Jesse! A lot of people got your back! You have a BIG family now! Shared your video on our facebook page, Unity, Love and Light Ministries. You're an inspiration to me, and many many young men and women out there!

[@tonbarrla]

Way to go Jesse you seem like an amazing young man and I promise life will fall into place, just know that you are never alone. I have been out since I was 15 and yes times were very rough because I grew up in a very small town in Kentucky. Stay strong and always look to the positive and again always remember you have a huge community out there that are behind you and for you 100% much love and admiration. Hugs from the USA

[@brianellson6454]

hi jesse just been watching your videos on here for the first time really enjoying them. then came to the ones about what happened to your boyfriend I'm so sorry for your loss heart breaking to watch and hear you speak of him your eyes show the pain of your heart they say time heals and memories stay with you for ever wishing you the best in life that's yet to come

[@chrislion2108]

Congratulations on coming out. I waited a LONG time to come out--and it's been a LONG time since I came out. It was one of the best decisions I ever made. Life if full of ups and downs and being gay is no different. You're very courageous and you have a really good head on your shoulders. There will be some tough times ahead--but that happens to everybody. I'm really proud of you! You're going to have a great life--enjoy it!

[@jwgordon1969]

jesse Kicking that closet door open takes an enormous amount of courage .. I hope the love and support you deserve comes your way .. best of luck .. I'll look forward to your video uploads cheers

[@jonathanpatton6028]

As an East Coast Canadian, thank you. I very much enjoy your videos. I look forward to future ones :) I wish you a life filled with love and happiness, buddy!

[@idanlevy9096]

It's interesting to see you now and earlier. I feel like I'm in the phase of you in that video, I came out 2 months ago to my family and I'm still working on accepting myself. I feel that even after coming out, you actually need to accept yourself even more, because you don't hide it and it's not an easy ride for me. I hope I'll be happier as you in the recent videos, thank you :)

[@AtomSmasher78]

Congratulations on accepting yourself! You seem like a good guy and it's great that you can acknowledge all of who you are. Good luck on the road ahead!

[@PTulini]

You should be very proud of yourself, Jesse! You're doing a great thing. This has inspired so many people inluding myself. KEEP IT UP

[@pauldu7927]

Big HUG!!!!!!!! from China

[@narutosergia]

Don't say different! You are so special and brave for tell the true and open your hear to yourself. So milions guys do not caming out cos have afraid. I fell so stronge in watch your videos and make me move on. Tks. You are a hero so many people.

[@clairstaton6308]

I am so proud of you!!!! Your courage to move forward. I will be thinking of you being happy! Your at the top of the hill now. The ride down will be bumpy,but you can handle it! Much love to you!

[@Kale1hawaii]

When we learn to accept ourselves we also learn it simply doesn't matter what other people think! Be you your true you

[@NigelBarr]

Surround yourself with people that love you!

[@sigso87]

Hey Jesse I really like this video. When you said that you could not date somebody you were not attracted to because it wouldn't be fair to them says volumes about your character. I am so happy for you! Take care

[@redny08]

This was very, very, very well done. It's people like you that inspire the heck out of me..what a brave, heartfelt and positive message. Please make more videos and let us cheer you on in this incredible journey. Your best is yet to come!

[@infinityotto]

My props to you, Jesse. I've seen a couple of your videos prior to becoming one of your new subscribers. I have to say one word: INSPIRATIONAL! I truly believe you are at this moment in your life making a positive difference for a lot of LGBT and Q youths around the globe. This journey you're on - the one you've mentioned previously - you are not alone. We are all there with you, bro - in spirit, in our prayers, in our thoughts. I can't wait to see you "bloom" into a beautiful human being. PEACE

[@rockstar2879]

Thanks man for doing what you're doing because you help others more then you know. Take care of yourself and I wish you the best.

[@larrykarl]

Jesse.... so happy to see that you have to terms with yourself. I was in a beautiful relationship for 30 years until my partner passed. We were very young (21) when we began our journey.. We remained faithful for all those years and had a lot of family support. Many said we had the best relationship of any of the families they knew. Take care and best wishes.....

[@mikro07304]

Jesse, You are making the journey we all make in coming to terms with our difference. Of your success I have no doubt. Be strong & proud. I know you won't have any problem finding guys. I hope you find the love of your life & fulfill your wish for marriage & children. Please remember the kids who aren't as lucky as were you in school. I was touched deeply by your raw & honest emotions. You keep making these videos.Best wishes. Mike Roszak

[@powi83]

Congrats to your step out of the closet! It took me years to do it, so you have my full respect! Good luck on your journey and I wish you as many kind and accepting people around you as possible. It really gets better once you have come out to yourself :)

[@hiddenmindboy]

i'm proud of u ,mate ! u are now more encouraging me to be like you . i will come out to my best friend soon , stay strong

[@Bostonboi80]

Coming out takes a lot of courage, and I congratulate you for that. You seem like a really cool guy. Coming out wasn't easy for me either, but once I did it, I found a lot of support. Keep the videos coming, they're awesome!

[@tht2323]

Stay strong! You have a very long journey ahead with many amazing and wonderful people and events in it. Thank you for sharing this journey with us.

[@thebatman2992]

I would be honored to be part of your journey. You are a nice guy and I hope you can reach your goal. You will find a friend in me. GOOD LUCK MAN!!!!!!

[@ScottRosenquist]

I know you say its going to be a long hard journey but I think you'll find its not going to be hard and it will be awesome! Nothing feels better and more liberating then being who you are! Keep up the videos man!

[@XxlivinwithitxX]

Dude you're awesome! Never give up, and never let anyone get you down.

[@JustinSmith-qq5gd]

It's great your able to be so comfortable with yourself. I hope to get to that point one day. I can't imagine coming out to my family at this point.

[@caractacuspottsAZ]

kudos and a thank-you for having the courage to add your face to this issue. not only is it helping you, but it is also helping others come to terms with themselves. it's good to see the human side rather than a sad statistic in the news. one day, we won't need any of these coming out videos anymore. one day.

[@brucass93]

hey man, yr doin good, youve crossed the hardest bridge, self acceptance, & yr helping others...thats wondeful

[@Farmster08]

You are awesome, Jesse. Your videos are amazing. You have a great attitude and you seem like a pretty kick ass person. I wish you nothing but the best of luck with your journey. And I hope you continue to post videos so we can follow the journey with you. The courage it takes, not only to come out but to share it with the world, is tremendous. You are doing a great thing :) whether you realize it or not, you are going to help so many people with your bravery. Best wishes

[@donm4752]

I have been watching all your video's .. I am so proud of you as a person . I went through all this when I was young, and in those days.. was not as easy. there was no youtube.. but I have to say.. after going through several hours of coming out vids.. I am so happy to see there is a medium for people to watch and help a person accept who they are.. You are NOT the only one for sure.. there are lots of us.. IT GETS BETTER..

[@asmABC123]

wow- u went from 160 subscribers to more than 42,000 __ u must be touching lots of ppl's lives in a positive way_ keep it up. LOVE the way you say 'about', 'out', - the canadian accent adds to your rugged handsomeness_ the muscles r nice 2. good comments about not hiding anymore and not being scared__ thanks 4 sharing your journey with us- u should combine this with your coming out video-

[@LuckyPhil0666]

All the best with your journey amigo. The coming out process is going to be uncomfortable with some people but you are gonna be fine. Thanks for sharing your story. Seeing your vids is gonna be a big help to some of the younger guys coming up behind you. I sure wish youtube was around back in my day.

[@ZachariahGreggs]

Jesse, I just saw your story. It broke my heart to see the pain and sincerity in your post. I hope in 2020 you are well and continue to know that you are loved and accepted 😊

[@MyLocoMundial]

Thank you Jesse that you share your journey with us, hope you will still make videos like this. I wish you all the best, take care:)

[@meandmymouth]

I love you for your mind, body and spirit. Not necessarily in the same order !

[@moonshinesecrets]

Thanks for sharing such a personal and vulnerable experience with us. You will touch many hearts and lives. You are heroic. I'm happy coming out to your best friend went so well. He is a true friend indeed. Best of luck to you on your journey. I've been going through the same thing since last year and keep kicking around the idea of doing a video blog similar to yours but a little broader in topic. You have inspired me with your simple, raw, honesty. I'm going to just go for it now! Thank again

[@119RWD70]

I recently subscribed and I am LOVING your videos! I'm glad that you are coming to that place of acceptance! And I am so proud of you for choosing to share your experiences here! I'm sure it will help many out there! I had a hard time accepting myself at first too, but I came to learn that hiding your true self and being ashamed feels FAR worse than anything that could happen as a result of telling the truth and being honest! Hiding steals more from your soul than the negativity of others!

[@carlosarzate4002]

I feel you. I just came out last week to my best friend. And let me just say it is so liberating.

[@essex2guy]

Hey! What an awesome coming out story! you have inspired so many young people and made them feel that they are not alone. You are an amazing person and your words and actions will help so many. Keep up the good work and bless you. You deserve all the happiness in the world. You Rock!! Lots of love and support from Toronto. Ray B.

[@ytlm]

You seem like such an honest nice guy. I wish you the best man, keep doing videos like this and keep us posted, you deserve the best! :-)

[@JesseDukee]

thanks man, you really inspired me to start doing this!

[@sambubrad]

love your videos. it's refreshing to see someone with a big heart these days, and lots of courage :) kudos and hugs

[@ernestmac13]

I sometimes wonder how my life would have turned out, had I came out in high school, or in my early 20s, rather than wait till my early 30s. I can tell you from experience that, some people are ignorant & narrow mind, so you will just have to leave their stupidity at the door or on the web browser, & not take it personally. By finding family & friends who are supportive, you can be the confident,self assured person you want to be. I am out to my friends, coworkers, & it has been empowering.

[@chadcook6077]

Love your videos! Congrats on coming out! It really does get better with time! I couldn't imagine being any other way, but out and proud. There's no better feeling than not having to hide who you are anymore! Wishing you the very best!! =)

[@danielkim668]

hey Jesse. I just want to say that your videos are very inspirational. please be yourself and keep up the good work and know that your work inspires ppl like me. so thank you

[@MILESRUN777]

Jess stay true to yourself! Went through some of the same things u are now having to face. Coming out in a very strong male macho family was not easy for me....but I finally did. I knew I was gay at 21yrs but did not accept myself till 23. Then at 28 I finally came out to family. Bruise up but still kicking. Still on a journey....probably till I die. My prayers with u and everybody else like us.

[@dennis2008ful]

Jesse watching your video made me feel good just dont fall for all the B/S that goes with it you sound to have a good heart let that be your guide WAIT for the right one you wont be sorry.

[@johnnyohness]

Well here I am again Jesse. So glad you feeling so good. Bet you sure sleep better these days. I know this is late because I just discovered your first video. Can't wait to see more.

[@davecubero3474]

Congratulations for your coming out video. If some one try to make you feel a bad person for this just ignore them. They don't know what is an experience like this it is. Enjoy life and be HAPPY no matter what or who. Hugs; Dave from Puerto Rico.

[@nicktr2008]

Jesse, you seem like a great guy. Just know you're not alone in this. I made a video about my own coming out story. Your coming out story was very inspirational and I know it's probably helped a lot of people. I've gotten lots of emails from people saying how much they were inspired by my video. When I first watched your video I couldn't figure out where you are from with your accent. Now that I know you're Canadian, it just makes you that much more awesome :)

[@Zbastida]

Congratulations. It is more than ok to be different :) And its ok to babble. Keep going on your journey of self discovery, for when you make it all those teens will see that life is worth fighting for. Thank you for sharing your story. Hope to see more from you :)