Lord help me with this journey it gets tough to watch a love o e slowly tear them self up
@angelayablonski4346 Жыл бұрын
Same here
@nancystinger7393 Жыл бұрын
I understand it’s so heart wrenching
@Quartzone61456 ай бұрын
❤
@jenbready46784 ай бұрын
Yes it’s awful.
@calisnelgrove7486 Жыл бұрын
When I quit drinking on my own (2.5 yrs), ZERO of my friends or family supported me. So, I started again. I know what relapse feels like now. Part of me wanted it to kill me so they'd all realise how much they didn't support me. I've just booked an appointment with a treatment center for the first time ever. I am terrified. Thank you for your videos. I sure wish I saw them a couple of years ago.
@alexism.7712 Жыл бұрын
I hope everything works out for you. Good job for taking a step in the right direction. 👏🏼
@annamariaiannino981 Жыл бұрын
Lots of love to you, I support you 💗
@thabiletsunyane204011 ай бұрын
You can do this and we are with you in spirit❤❤
@jacquelinehunt77949 ай бұрын
They can’t do it for you but they should support you. But you need to recover for you.
@liviwilde7020 Жыл бұрын
👋So true Amber! My son's addiction impacted my whole family😢
@MountainCoffeeHouse2 ай бұрын
I have fallen in love with a man who is an alcoholic. Some is self medicating from an abusive childhood some is cultural. I do not come from that world and very rarely drink. Your videos have helped me understand him more and help him on his recovery.
@lulujanuary Жыл бұрын
🤚🏼 My husband took his own life. I was with him 12 years, it was 3 years after his death that I realised he had been using cocaine the whole time. I had no idea at all and was very naive. Our home was associated with his job, so I had 3 days to move out. I then found out we didn't have savings, we had £70,000 of debt. It's been 6 years since he took his life, I'm still homeless, paying off debts and unable to work due to PTSD. So 18 years of my life have been taken so he could put some stuff up his nose to feel good for a while. I have a lot of anger. These videos have been a god send, I'm understanding the nature of addiction and getting some closure. I'm also using them to quit my weed addiction which had recently got out of hand. Thank you for making them, you've helped me see a positive future ❤
@PutTheShovelDown Жыл бұрын
I have so much respect for your strength and courage!
@lulujanuary Жыл бұрын
@@PutTheShovelDown Thank you 💕
@nancystinger7393 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry you are going through this . Addiction is horrendous and changes life forever. I pray you find healing and a happy peaceful life .
@tictactoedias1908 Жыл бұрын
Hope everything turns around for you , wishing all the best towards your healing..... you deserve it and owe it to yourself ❤
@lenorepaletta92673 ай бұрын
Hugs. I don’t think society understands how addictive weed is. People think it’s harmless. I call it a highly addictive toxic dangerous drug that can lead to violence or psychosis.
@blessedbythebest6227 Жыл бұрын
I had to sit in my apartment alone and had famiy bring me food while i took myself off of Rx Fentanyl patches after. 11 yrs. because i began to use hard street drugs and got caught by my Dr. and was suggesting treatment when he cut me off but i was tooo proud. I wasn't really ready for end of life meds for a health condition (multiple Sclerosis) and i was too yound to realize the gravity of heavy opiate dependance at the time. Fentanyl dependance had me in seizures in front of my young children when the meds were not taken as prescribed. I was so ashamed of my addiction but ready, really ready to beat this... i can now address the "street use Fentanyl "epidemic here in this small hometown of mine and really help others see the possibilities of recovery from this (i hope). We finally have a wing at our local hospital for detox that they didn't have at the time of my detox. I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS
@Rigde345 Жыл бұрын
I found you when I was wondering about my aunt who suffers from addiction. Thanks for giving me a better understanding.
@PutTheShovelDown Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@charisserandazzo87866 ай бұрын
👋 Amber thank you so much for sharing your very valuable knowledge! My 33 year old daughter do two beautiful daughters decided to smoke crack. My older daughter and I just started naranon meetings because we are so sad. It's only been two months since this madness started, and our family is really missing her. I text her at least once a day. Sometimes she answers me. But when she doesn't I get scared then I get mad. My emotions are all over the place. Soon I leave for vacation and i am scared and worried. I send her your videos a lot. I hope she watches them. Love you and loves your videos!They are so helpful!!
@briepower82265 ай бұрын
My 25 year old daughter started Crack 4 yrs ago. I'm still unable to accept it. I can't let it go. It is sad. Like I'm going to hear she's passed at any moment. I cannot be happy until she is. Do the meetings help?
@victoriacortina7715 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful video Amber. I pass along your name and youtube channel to my patients.
@PutTheShovelDown Жыл бұрын
Thanks Victoria! That would be awesome 😁😁😁🥰🥰🥰
@kennethparker65908 ай бұрын
I stopped drinking alcohol August 21, 2022. I think so differently now
@moneiciazavalsa2707 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been impacted by both my kids and x husband
@loric3455 Жыл бұрын
Great video as always. Wondered if you could make a playlist of videos that family members or friends could refer to share with their loved ones with addictions that does what you suggested by starting out slow by gaining their trust then building to a video like this.
@PutTheShovelDown Жыл бұрын
That’s a good suggestion, I’ll work on that
@jeanniej9110 Жыл бұрын
This is important work! Everything you say is incredibly helpful!❤
@PutTheShovelDown Жыл бұрын
Awwwww, thanks Jeannie!
@judisamoisette1258 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you soooo much😊
@PutTheShovelDown Жыл бұрын
Right back at ya. Thanks for watching and especially for leaving such a sweet comment.
@gracielasaenz21285 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your effort to help people, I really appreciate your effort. Sending love 💕. Your are helping me , I have 67 days sober and I am doing on my own because 9 Years ago I did go to a very expensive treatment and I quit for 4 years, now I don’t have those resources. So you are my resource. Love you 🥰
@user-nk7ek5gi8e Жыл бұрын
🤚my husband over dosed and passed away.
@Elaine-xd2fb Жыл бұрын
👏yes that’s me Amber
@_____tbrdgrl____3449 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this presentation today
@PutTheShovelDown Жыл бұрын
It's my pleasure
@angwi44 ай бұрын
Thank you for concealing me. Thank you for making this video(s)
@lisabrown26347 ай бұрын
This was the best introductory video.
@brandongarland8811 Жыл бұрын
You rock thank you 21:52
@PutTheShovelDown Жыл бұрын
Thanks Brandon! 😁😁😁
@ric54037 ай бұрын
These videos give me hope.❤
@PutTheShovelDown7 ай бұрын
😁😁😁
@blessedbythebest6227 Жыл бұрын
Your videos save lives..truly😊
@tinaandfam4751 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for these videos
@PutTheShovelDown Жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@kaymccarty434311 ай бұрын
Yup I'd run out of hands✋️✋️✋️✋️✋️✋️✋️ Far back as I can remember
@Quartzone61456 ай бұрын
I'm being affected by it now breaks my heart my partner has an addiction. I love him very much and can't do anything to help as he doesnt want to quit
@lisabrown26347 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@fmalone73485 ай бұрын
🙌 12 yrs watching my son destroy his life
@Touchdown123 Жыл бұрын
I love this channel!!!Do you take insurance?I would like you to be my therapist because you understand what I’m going through ☺️
@PutTheShovelDown Жыл бұрын
Awww thanks for the positive feedback!!!! 😁I don't do counseling anymore but I do offer short term coaching. But I don't take any insurance. Here's a link to learn more in case your interested: www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/strengths-based-assessment I also have several online recovery courses, in case that's a better fit.
@ellencornell1731 Жыл бұрын
👍
@PamAlcott-nz4kg2 ай бұрын
My sister died from her addiction
@kristariggsrichard5 ай бұрын
My qualifier ruined my life and my family's lives. Devastating.
@NancyHolderSTUDIOSАй бұрын
?My alcoholic hubby left me 20 years ago, then died of Covid but I have several friends who are very enabling but do not recognize that they are part of the problem. Is there anyway I can help them move towards getting help?
@ritahugelmann46163 ай бұрын
👋
@HouseofTherapy2023 Жыл бұрын
My son 46 yr. his employers, his daughter, his daughter's mother, his entire family, HIS SELF...Our neighbors, our courts, people he damaged their property or hurt...
@user-xi3yj7pj4q5 ай бұрын
🖐
@amylambert2401 Жыл бұрын
🖐️
@jacquelinehunt77949 ай бұрын
Can people really live a lot longer if they stop drinking alcohol with liver disease.
@juliematalus7395 Жыл бұрын
🙋🏻♀️
@rosarioquiroga8300Ай бұрын
👋🕊🙏🏼
@rosarioquiroga8300 Жыл бұрын
🖐🏼
@nancystinger7393 Жыл бұрын
✋My son recently told me he would rather commit suicide than go through detox . I asked him if he feels that he can get to the other side and he said it doesn’t work like that Is this the fear talking . It sounds like he defends the drugs which are fentanyl and meth . I don’t know what to do I keep open communication with him no shaming or judgment.
@theresaseals26211 ай бұрын
👍🏻👍🏻
@angwi44 ай бұрын
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@marycarlson920611 ай бұрын
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@hi2bonnie9 ай бұрын
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@lisagore3147 ай бұрын
❤
@OutToTheWoods3 ай бұрын
👋👋👋👋👋
@ErinRichardson-pi1lx4 ай бұрын
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@MountainCoffeeHouse2 ай бұрын
I have fallen in love with a man who is an alcoholic. Some is self medicating from an abusive childhood some is cultural. I do not come from that world and very rarely drink. Your videos have helped me understand him more and help him on his recovery.