THE ULTIMATUM is the worst thing I've ever seen...

[@nowayjose2001]

Conspiracy theory: netflix is creating different hypotheses of how love works and eventually will release a show that explains the true meaning of love

[@tylorstreett7824]

Did...did Netflix create The Tinder Swindler as part of this experiment? Long game for sure

[@pranjalsingh3998]

Well Edison did test 1000 elements before coming to tungsten so...

[@suethao9705]

CRIIIIiiinge

[@HopeCasias10]

@Netflix GET ON IT

[@HopeCasias10]

@@tylorstreett7824 Netflix is in it for the long haul

[@chrismas7590]

Seeing people my age stressing about marriage and having kids stressed me out.

[@Emmerilla_]

mood

[@sincerelyjae]

Same, like I’m 24 and They’re making me wonder if something is wrong with my life

[@SBSF04]

Please, don’t stress! Many of those early 20s marriage by 30 are divorced and wishing they would have given a deeper thought to marriage.

[@ElvenHeart457]

Your fine. I am 24, almost 25, and I've never even dated anyone. Everyone progresses at a different pace.

[@jaxenaz]

I’m 24 and found this crazy

[@tsifirakiehl4250]

You know what I think would be a good idea? If two friends fake a relationship to go on one of these shows and just act as crazy and dramatic as possible to get their 15 minutes of fame and get paid.

[@alyaperez1440]

I'd honestly love to see that rather than having these guys

[@DircyaT.Rubino]

The two of you should do that;?your dynamic is ☝️🔥! Quick question: Are both of you old enough to get on the show before it is inevitably cancelled?

[@tsifirakiehl4250]

@Dircya T. Rubino I’m twenty, so probably. 😁

[@DircyaT.Rubino]

Yes! I’d volunteer myself, but I am only sixteen.

[@geminiemeraldunicorn]

I would genuinely love to watch that show lol 😂

[@lifewithrena8186]

Alexis was SOOO offended that he didn’t find her attractive to him he was basically like “your not my type” and Alexis was like “HES A HORRIBLE PERSON” lmao

[@jaida9468]

haha true. he said "im not attracted to you" and she later said to everbody "he said i am not attractive". to be honest he is an asshole as we later see

[@EbbNFlowHer]

Facts

[@laurawalker546]

she couldn't believe that someone would find her unattractive or not his type. she's just very lucky to have found this patient man

[@angelinaoliver5587]

A pure psychopath bruh smh😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@englishcenterhaar9379]

She behaves like a narcissist.

[@swastikaganguly2924]

Alexis was so offended by Colby being respectfully honest she just held a vendetta the entire show. She was so chaotic under the guise of being 'real'

[@samuelchan9501]

I'm with Colby on that one. She is very... how do I put this, unattractive

[@OpulentWife]

Yes she was bitter

[@OpulentWife]

I don’t find her attractive either, but to be fair Colby’s gf Madlyn isn’t attractive either

[@-Fallen_Petals-]

She made me so mad lol. In the reunion the one person I wanted to say "yeah I looked back and wow I was toxic and psycho" was her and she DIDNT!! Even Rae, Randall, Colby, Jake, April, etc almost the entire cast admitted their faults

[@logangantner3863]

@@-Fallen_Petals- It's because sHe GoT tHe riNg

[@Wico90YT]

These people are far too young for this. They needed a bunch of 45+ demanding their 15 year live in partner commits.

[@GriffinZambia]

Dont read my name!!..

[@ElixirSpice]

But then the contestants wouldn't be young and hot.

[@izzywoods794]

They most likely be a lot more rational and a bit less hot. Netflix wouldnt but id love to watch it. They could shoot it dramatic like Young and The Restless🤣

[@locomadman]

It’ll be the hit of old folk’s homes everywhere!

[@Elysion404]

Ironically, 78% of them look 35+++

[@ccaroline_27]

The show is essentially a long and unnecessary way to do things you could easily do without a tv show 😂

[@GriffinZambia]

Dont read my name!!..

[@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley]

That's how all these types of shows are, lol

[@Sahil_bhatia506]

arent all netflix show like that

[@royeltheroyal]

But it's for our entertainment

[@locomadman]

Or a really clever way of avoiding having to do anything for the length of time it took to film this series; either/or.

[@ElixirSpice]

If I sat down with a guy and he said within ten seconds that he could never see himself married to me I would leave the show out of embarrassment 🤣

[@izzywoods794]

Js but the producers probably cut it like that. It didnt sound like he had just started talking

[@DirtyPrancing]

So loyal he's practically throwing hands

[@EliSoza23]

😏😂😂😂

[@ebrandt9698]

I'm sorry, I just can't see myself marrying you.

[@msbreshine]

One of the first things she said to him earlier on was basically "money is everything in a relationship". So yeah. He knew lol. And then it that scene Alex showed I'm pretty sure she prompted him about if he'd choose her to move in. He was being honest not leading her on. And then she got into it with him the next day by looking for a reason and took "I'm not attracted to you" as, "you're unattractive" and then keeps saying he's an awful person XD It was wild.

[@Rachdubberz]

This was the most toxic and uncomfortable show out there currently and I need 10 seasons of it

[@bluemouse_draws3694]

Bitch 15 max 👀👀

[@naomib8083]

@iKandy it’s a joke

[@Darkshizumaru]

@iKandy Some men just want to watch the world burn.

[@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460]

@@naomib8083 Went right over her head. 🤣😂🤣

[@lexinicole4317]

False. Milf Manor is the most toxic and uncomfortable show

[@anikaborger562]

Lauren Pounds called Netflix out for lying about her age on the show, as she's listed as 26-years-old when she is really 30. So I wouldn't be surprised if they did that for other contestants

[@randomgirl4038]

Why tf did they do that? Like what? 😭

[@ByeByeBelly]

It said she was 29 in writing underneath clips of her when she was speaking etc

[@magaritaavila8535]

All the contestants look 5 to 7 years older.

[@ByeByeBelly]

@@magaritaavila8535 not really, most of them look like 25

[@sourcandydoll]

Especially for Alexis my gawd

[@haileyguinn5770]

Alex can't stop from hysterically laughing every 5 seconds and I love it

[@AxxLAfriku]

I have fewer than 1 friend in the World. That's right. Everybody disses me for making bad videos. I think they are perfect though. Who is right? My dissers or me? Which side are you on, dear haik

[@bi.fruitsalad]

@@AxxLAfriku u good? 💀

[@realestsienna]

@@bi.fruitsalad no he wants views

[@georgeandriopoulos1418]

man its actually the most entertaining part of his videos

[@ujjssjsjsjjsjs8061]

@@AxxLAfriku you get no bitches

[@JayFolipurba]

They made a show where strangers get married, wanting to prove that love is blind and you can commit to someone without establishing a connection. So naturally now they make a show where engaged couples get separated, wanting to prove that even a connection established over years isn't enough love to commit to someone. makes sense

[@JayFolipurba]

And it's the same team of hosts, the ones who are only there because they're known as being married xD But seriously, in most cases, over a year or two years isn't enough to know if you want to be married to someone. You shouldn't get married unless you've known each other for at least a handful of years and know you can probably go the same amount again. I'd say don't get married before 5 or 7 years have passed

[@tylorstreett7824]

But the couples that started aren't engaged. That's the point of one of the pair issuing the Ultimatum, to take the next step of engagement...and to gain IG followers

[@draconicpeasantsheep]

omg i wanted to mention the same thing about that stupid blind marriage show. god my parents are watching it religiously and it's driving me nuts. AAAARGH

[@Lil_starling]

Are they partly ripping off married at first sight

[@Mila-Nova]

@@JayFolipurba that isn't always true. You can be with someone for years and never get married. I have known people who knew each other for less than a year and have been married 25+ years. It's not always about how long you know someone

[@hali_55]

This show is the most unhinged mess I’ve ever watched…I loved it.

[@GriffinZambia]

Dont read my name!!..

[@TheKillerMB1]

ikr. most of the time in these shows you can root for 1 or 2, but in this its kinda hard to root for anyone. maybe april but still kinda hard sometimes

[@kaligirl9521]

This is the best description

[@beatm6948]

@@TheKillerMB1 at first Colby, and then he started getting on my nerves. Then the girl with the tattoos but she's gone now

[@TheKillerMB1]

@@beatm6948 yeah exactly

[@savanthebanan]

I literally looked at myself in the mirror for 5 minutes questioning as a 25 year old if I in fact look like a baby or if that Alexis girl in fact looks like a 40 year old NFL players trophy wife who goes and spends his money at the country club on the weekends and have come to the conclusion that I am NOT the problem 😭

[@Ashsams]

🤣

[@YouTubeCensors]

Can't lie with a name like Savanna I honestly have no problem imagining you as her clone.

[@savanthebanan]

@@KZbinCensors LMAO OKAY THAT MADE ME DIE 🤣 haha I totally get with a name like mine that you probably think I'm a white valley girl from California, but I'm in fact a Puerto Rican/Filipino and I very much look my age, swear on my left toe nail lmao. You're hilarious though I respect a good burn 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@gigggiii]

@@KZbinCensors 💀😭

[@coffeejelly1590]

Oh my god I never found anyone else with the same last name as me! This is so weird and cool at the same time.

[@bluebird1914]

You know what would be a better premise than this? Right just imagine: "couples" get picked and compete in tests to see who is the best couple, but here's the thing, they're not couples they're enemies. So the whole show is basically pairs of enemies trying to pretend to be the best "couple" in order to get some sort of monetary prize.

[@mcpheefan21]

This is a way better idea than any couple reality show that's ever been made.

[@bluebird1914]

@@mcpheefan21 Thank you! Maybe if I email Netflix about it they'll be bored enough to make it a reality.

[@speteelie]

That’s already every reality show cause reality couples just hate eachother

[@bluebird1914]

@@speteelie Yeah but those couples don't even try to pretend that they like eachother.

[@elizabethification771]

This would make a great fanfic

[@TheRealGuywithoutaMustache]

Relationships are complicated. Just like the "plot" of these types of shows...

[@azuretv3354]

dude are you a comment bot?

[@anbu1325]

@@azuretv3354 No, I think it's a person, just commenting on lots of videos.

[@Tabth3778]

you're everywhere

[@CorbCorbin]

@@azuretv3354 There are more of them, with Moustache

[@jarbincks6715]

bro lives in the comments

[@mauve9266]

But Alexis being an agent of chaos even when she wasn’t even on the show anymore, had me dying😂

[@mini8129]

What was that Batchelorette party??? Why did she have to do poor April like that

[@kaldurskipper6821]

The fact that she was so upset over Colby not thinking she was hot when she should have been focusing on being engaged to the apparent love of her life😂

[@jeffk3368]

@@kaldurskipper6821 I wish Colby just mentioned that Alexis' money hunger is a huge reason she was not attractive. She just believes that he doesn't find her physically attractive, which is true, but there is more ugly beneath the surface

[@kaldurskipper6821]

@@jeffk3368 True, but she would have tried to turn that against him too. There was no winning. She liked him and wanted to be liked back. If he said it was become she sounded like a gold digger, she would have said that he just didn't want to be a man and provide. The way she consistently brought up how he was a "bad person" for just not being attracted to her, in my opinion at least, showed there was nothing he could have done other than say "I like you too." She'd have always found a reason to be mad

[@SohiHien]

@@kaldurskipper6821 and he didn't even say that to her at first! He let her down rather politely and only after she aggressively confronted him again after his polite rejection did he bring up he didn't find her attractive to which she went even more nuts. She is a horrible person inside and out.

[@faithharris7173]

This dude laughing at the show having the dumbest things ever makes it better than it needs to be. But seriously though if you have to go on a reality TV show to see if you wanna get married or not, you should probably break up then and there. Its not gonna work Edit: Well... I'm glad I'm not the only one who's questioning this show

[@callycagney7665]

That one woman wanted to skip the question about why they love their partner. Like that is a clear sign

[@faithharris7173]

@@callycagney7665 I was hoping Alex would've done the "BIG OL' READ FLAG" marching band when that happened cause my brain immediately thought of that. LIKE WHY ARE YOU TOGETHER IF YOU CAN'T ANSWER THAT QUESTION?!

[@callycagney7665]

​@@faithharris7173 Oh ya, that would've been perfect. If my partner couldn't even say one or two things about why they love me it would raise so many flags. I get some people aren't great with words but I would even accept one word answers.

[@faithharris7173]

@@callycagney7665 this whole show... why does it exist- oh I forgot they need money and are desperate. Honestly this show is nothing BUT a bunch of red flags. God everything about this show... just... NO NO

[@callycagney7665]

@@faithharris7173 They need all these bad shows to get people in so that they can get money for the good shows on the odd occasion. For every good show there is 5 bad ones.

[@SohiHien]

I wish Alex had talked about all the crazy stuff Alexis did and those AWKWARD as all hell proposals when they were picking their new partners. Good god I wanted to jump out a window from the secondhand embarrassment. That one guy suddenly proposing to his original girlfriend after being rejected a few times by the other women was the saddest thing I have ever seen. And she then said yes! 🤦‍♀

[@bigbearkat2010]

And I'm pretty sure she just said yes because she also got rejected. It reminds me of an old Seinfeld when Jerry tried getting Elaine back together with her ex. One of the points Jerry made that Elaine and the ex agreed on was that clearly no one else could stand to be with either one of them.

[@madalynorozco2324]

THIS SHOW IS INSANE! I'm a 4th year psych major and the amount of times I've had to pause it to process and psychoanalyze every single cast member.....is absolutely uncalled for💀

[@alyaperez1440]

what's the diagnosis?

[@itzelmontalvo6645]

Please make a video about this, it could go viral.

[@madalynorozco2324]

@@itzelmontalvo6645 that’s really nice of you to say but I feel very unqualified to “diagnose” people.

[@YouTubeCensors]

Can't couch analyze people. If he did he'd be doing a poor job at it. Given the Very possible TV editing going on, to name but one major reason.

[@madalynorozco2324]

@@KZbinCensors So true!

[@reneegaberielle9131]

All I got from this show is that everyone who’s on it NEEDS to be single and work on themselves. Neither of them are ready to be in a relationship, let alone MARRIAGE AND KIDS 🥴

[@Monie71793]

💯🤣

[@johnsnow04]

I am on episode 3. Lot of them aside of few like both blonde beaches(male and female) are pretty mature for their age and say pretty grown up stuff.

[@-Fallen_Petals-]

Too late, Colby and Madlyn got married and she's 6 months pregnant on the reunion, 6 months after the show 😭

[@lifewithrena8186]

Madelyn is preggos with colbys baby lol

[@reneegaberielle9131]

I know I saw the reunion and was shocked 😂

[@MaxAethon]

At this point Netflix must know these shows are trash and they're just producing them as sitcoms, right? Right?!

[@fireblade295]

Nope. They just throw literal shite at the wall and see what sticks for their tiny specific audience.

[@Avatarmariz]

This would be a good plot

[@callycagney7665]

Netflix knows people love this kind of garbage. Whether it is genuine love for theses shows or hate love these shows it doesn't matter as love or hate these shows are popular and get people speaking about Netflix.

[@radhiadeedou8286]

They make what people watch and people love hate watching garbage, that's how we have a kissing booth trilogy and 2 tall girl movies

[@CorbCorbin]

Yes, it’s cheap as hell too. That is why there are so many of these shows. It’s low risk.

[@theresaduenas4087]

It’s found out that Netflix lied about some of their ages, Lauren just turned 30 and she said she has no idea why they lied about her age

[@Elysion404]

I can believe that, I doubt most of these people are as young as Netflix says they are. Maybe for April and a couple others I can believe it but, most of them look like they're mid to late thirties, and that's me being generous.

[@theresaduenas4087]

@@Elysion404 April’s filipino though, so I could also believe her to be older than what they’re saying

[@Elysion404]

That is true, but I do think that she and her boyfriend/fiance/ex or what have you (did not see the conclusion so I've no idea where they are right now) both look and feel like they are in their early twenties.

[@msbreshine]

That actually feels like it makes just a little bit more sense AND seems really stupid, pointless, and pisses me off lol.

[@beatm6948]

That makes a lot of sense

[@georginak5836]

honestly April seemed to care more ab being a mum and having kids than who she would actually end up with lmao. I felt kinda bad that she was always pressuring jake.

[@chloeperson2704]

Well I could tell she cared but I think she just didn’t want all there time together to be wasted so I’m sure she was just trying to lie to herself for a while but she got someone in the end who wanted the same things as her

[@wellingtonuzamere3511]

If my girlfriend was to ever even bring this idea up I’m definitely breaking up right on the spot with no hesitation. This show is basically showing people giving a pass to cheat on each other with and if you feel like you have to go this far to save a relationship that relationship is definitely not the one for you run as far as you can this goes for men and women

[@robertbeisert3315]

Take it from a married man: the wedding is one of the most stressful, least fun times you're likely to have in your marriage. You spend months and months planning and budgeting, writing invitations, getting your shit together, and then it's a whole day of pictures and sweating. Get married because you want to formalize your commitment to love and cherish one another, and for literally no other reason.

[@alisaurus4224]

I think marriage is important because of the legal rights that “piece of paper” brings…but you can get that with 2 quick courthouse visits (one for license, one for ceremony). A “wedding” as in a huge stressful party is completely optional, but it’s obviously the only part these people want (And the rings, which are also not required)

[@heylilahey]

Our wedding was one of our most favorite days ever. And it was a big party. I loved it and my husband, too. We regularly talk about it and cherish the memories. So it’s not the same for everyone.

[@alisaurus4224]

@@heylilahey i enjoyed my smallish wedding (about 50 guests, at my parents’ home) but i don’t remember a lot of it-it was a whirlwind and we were exhausted at the end-but that’s what photos are for! Also my mom was way more stressed about the planning details than i was. I didn’t have a ✨vision✨ i was trying to execute, i just wanted to get married, and we have been for 14 years now!

[@SasukeUchiha723]

(Havent been in any relationship in my 28 years of life) I would straight-up only get it registered and done... No wedding here, and even if I want to, its just parents, grandparents, cousins and friends (select few) only......

[@legerdemain444]

Weddings are horrible if they're traditional weddings. Just big boring expensive days. Me and my husband didn't do any of that, we had 40 people total, went out to a secluded beach and had a party, come if you can, wear what you want deal. I'd shot a deer earlier that week that we had on a spit+, made a heap of good food, bought plenty of drinks. Boombox, bonfire and semi-legal fireworks. Was a pretty good night.

[@Karools_Scribs]

Your reaction of Gen Z being 25 was my reaction when I, a 25 year old, found out I was a Gen Z.

[@asummersdayinawintersnight4585]

Exactly people keep going back and forth between being a millennial or a gen z

[@sleepyote]

I refuse to accept I'm gen z

[@grumpycat2092]

I am 25 too, but luckily not a Gen Z, since I was born in 1996 :D I am such a lucky bastard I guess xD

[@ashwinidesai4051]

@@grumpycat2092 Same here. I was also born in 96. 😂😂

[@opheliami3268]

Samee but I'm not complaining tho, better than being a millenial 😂

[@faithstrickland350]

Alex really popped off with the truth. All the people are young, barely when with their partner, and desperate for the title/wedding/ring. Half of them don’t even like their partner. I hate this show so much that of course I binged every episode

[@abigailhale8773]

7:25 "can you explain why you love Zay?" "IDK can we skip that question?" 🤣🤣🤣

[@ohkaygoplay]

HOLD IT. The 25 year olds are Gen Z?!? They're still, like...Babies. When did that happen? *sobs in Old Millennial* I'm gonna go drink coffee straight from the pot, have a giant sized chocolate bar to gnaw on like a woodchuck, and watch the Star Wars original trilogy in my "Sorry I'm late I didn't want to come" oversized sweater.

[@sleepyote]

They're in their 20s? I'm in my 20s and I can't imagine getting married yet, you don't really have to have everything figured out by then. People really trying to speed run life.

[@kennedythedford9102]

Exactly. I’m still learning how relationships ( platonic and romantic) work!

[@VisceralCarbon]

They’re in their mid to late 20s it’s not that far of a stretch.

[@Shadeadder]

Me reading this comment as a married 23 yro: 👁👄👁

[@izzywoods794]

Same! I was freaking out (im 24) after realizing they were all my age😂.

[@NaliaDanger]

Dude I'm over 40 and not even thinking about marriage yet

[@ricardobjj24]

If my girlfriend didn't like me enough to get married then why force it and go on a TV show in front of the world to make us both look stupid

[@tyrant-den884]

Money.

[@izzywoods794]

Exactly. Im hoping they all are just doing it for self promotion and money only and arent actually basing their life decisions on this show

[@locomadman]

$$$

[@DirtyPrancing]

Denial?

[@wendiwasden7088]

Money and exposure for sure

[@KieranHaines]

This show is so trashy and I demand 10 more seasons

[@VisceralCarbon]

Yes it’s a car crash, that I don’t want to look away from

[@lillybethford1915]

KieranHaines, I agree.🤣😆😀😅

[@tinam6128]

I approve of those who will volunteer as tribute for my entertainment!!! 🤣 a MESSSSSSSSSS!

[@jbar85jb22]

Lmfao you're not wrong

[@LauraK483]

After watching this whole dumpster fire of a show, I NEED to see Alex's thoughts on the finale where literally everyone made decisions that were against everything the editing in the last 3 episodes had been suggesting

[@troywright359]

Madyln was likely pregnant before which is why she accepted like that

[@sarahjuarez1433]

This is a very, very bad case of extreme jealousy. And if some of them do get back together.... this will always be on their mind. And cause more damage than good in my opinion. But like Alex said, "why be here?" If you feel the need to see if being with someone else. To help you figure out what you want. Than... why be together??? Find someone else that's willing to give or want the same as you.

[@pulse4140]

I love how that was just 10 minutes of Alex laughing at how dumb this show is

[@marce.t8732]

Watched this show with my wife and I'm so glad Alex called out the camera guy, too. Also, appreciated the cringe and hysterical laughter on this video, because I had those exact same reactions too

[@Scorpiofrfr]

How on earth have you not made a video Euphoria yet? You would tear it to shreds, Alex.

[@mewesquirrel6720]

I thought he did already 🤔I honestly remember or I dreamed he did😂

[@chimchimsjamkookies4242]

Maybe because it would get demonetized very easily, he's avoiding.

[@notasinglesoul1179]

@@chimchimsjamkookies4242 thats why

[@barbiquearea]

Or maybe he just hasn't seen season 2 yet.

[@LeonardoRivaldo]

coz euphoria is wayyyyyyyyyyyyy out of what he does and it is a VERYYYYYYYYY complicated show and i can easlie say that alex would never joke about the things that the show talks about, which for some ppl can be like stupid but for others is very hurtfull so, that is why

[@thelazyanimator7994]

The awkwardness of this show makes it so hard to watch

[@MayaParker01]

1:50 this picture scares me. Why is he licking her hair???

[@JC_Cali]

This is one of the funniest drags Alex has done for a show in a minute. Where he focuses on the girl's reaction to her boyfriend's saying he's ready to marry her is HILARIOUS 🤣🤣

[@nukiesduke6868]

The worst part about reality TV is it normally always has the worst people imaginable. Then we wonder why everything is the way it is these days.

[@blauespony1013]

I mean, would normal people go on a show like this? And of course producers will pick those couples who bring the most drama. It is all about creating drama, isn't it?

[@eternallustformedusa4844]

i refuse to believe alex has a physical form and isn’t just a 2d character

[@shadow-ska3435]

Katya, thank you for this encouraging testimony. I have recently stopped chasing people and was shocked to see that so many people in my life don't trully care for me but are circumstantial acquaintances. It's painful to see and a bit lonely. I will keep looking to God and ask him to let me see people and situations from His perspective. I'm looking forward to a time of peace and joy in Him.

[@Frosti69]

First video I’ve watched from this account and I love it. Editing, character movement, the jokes 🤌🏿 beautiful

[@chadpickett8154]

The level of anger that i got every time Madlyn said absolutely anything. Sometimes there a person in a reality show that's just the worst, but she went beyond that lol. I hated her so much.

[@izzywoods794]

I roasted her face and way of moving to my bf the entire time we watched😂. It was like stress relief

[@mauve9266]

I honestly couldn’t believe she said yes to Colby in the end 😅 I for sure thought she’d say no after that last night but I guess we didn’t see everything

[@locomadman]

What.. why…. Huh??? Wait a minute, wait a minute, back that up; the show features a woman that makes you irrationally angry, and you watched it anyway??? Our man Alex here has found a way to make mad bank off of his suffering.. And you’re doing it for free? See, I have questions. A lot of questions. Like, all the questions… 🥴

[@chadpickett8154]

@@mauve9266 SPOILERS!!! lmao I'm only two episodes in damnit

[@chadpickett8154]

@@locomadman woah woah woah back up, there's nothing irrational about it 😂 she's the fucking worst

[@rachelm2657]

Not all people who want to get married just want a wedding. Sometimes they want the committed relationship and the perks so to speak like being the power of attorney etc.

[@cj5803]

No kidding, but he obviously meant some people on this show just want the wedding and not the marriage

[@erylaria398]

You can have a committed relationship without assuming legal responsibility for another adult though. I feel like when a lot of these girls say "i need a commitment" what they really mean is "i want you to be financially responsible for me so i can quit my job and shill diet smoothies on instagram teehee".

[@mandisaw]

True. I think people have a lot of confused ideas of what marriage is & isn't, both good and bad. [This might include Alex, actually...]

[@rachelm2657]

Yes that is true of some but legally being connected has other advantages for both members then I want you to take care of me. For example, if my husband is in the hospital I am the next of kin. If he deploys I am his legal wife and get all the appropriate information. As a spouse if I have to move with him then they cover my progear in the move. We have access to each other's health plans. There are many advantages that are not financial and amazingly many married people still keep separate financials. So are some looking for that...sure...are most people that get married? Not sure I can agree with that.

[@rachelm2657]

Totally agree that is some people's want to get married is to have their day and wedding. You can tell when those people make the day about me not us. You can see where they ignore fights with their spouse. Are married people going to fight? Heck yeah. But if you can't have a disagreement on what the invitations are going to look like....maybe you don't need them.

[@crasicatlady]

So, you're under 25 years old, your relationship is shorter than a fridge warranty, and you're giving an ultimatum? Good luck with that. The shit keeps hitting the fan in this show, and I'm here for it.

[@Hireiuta]

"Shorter than a fridge warranty" 🤣🤣

[@Jen_nifer99]

🤣🤣🤣

[@VolumePerfection]

Not a fridge warranty 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@animeshbhatia4950]

I laughed so hard on your comment. Thanks, I needed that today

[@oliviahamilton8654]

The concept you are describing at the end is called the "Relationship Escalator" people on the relationship escalator Date to Get Married to Buy a House to Have Kids to PTA to Have Grandkids etc etc. It's a thing we talk about a lot when we do talks on Consensual or Ethical non-monogamy in human sexuality classes. Often when people are on the relationship escalator, they are not actually paying attention to the relationship. They are not actively nurturing or participating in the thing, they just check the box and move on. The concept of the relationship escalator often also heavily reinforces toxic monogamy.

[@mariemagmandeln]

Love to hear Alex laugh like that :D

[@asarishepard8171]

first off the bat, lets get out, Alexis is NOT 24. whoever was typing the font for the show meant to type 44.

[@Richard-lh3te]

If she’s 25 then I’m Beyoncé

[@theesewage7193]

🤣

[@rahullkumarr-u9b]

@@Richard-lh3te if you are Beyonce then I am Jay Z 😀

[@xelthos2051]

Wow, this is just so bad. My sister-in-law would be appropriate for this show, she dumps every boyfriend after 3 months if they don't propose and she's so obsessed with being married before she gets to 30. Also can't believe any of them are actually in their 20s, they all look over 40 except about 2 of them.

[@mandisaw]

What reasonable person proposes before 3 months?? You haven't even seen the person in a different season's fashions/shoes, let alone mood LOL

[@Ashsams]

She’s still gonna be single at 45 using that brilliant strategy. No one wants to be pressured, especially at 3 months. That’s wacko 😂

[@lisah8438]

@@mandisaw I know a couple who met in September. Became friends in October. First date in November. Brought the wedding dress in December. Engaged in February. Bought a house in March but they are not going to live in it until after Summer. (I could be wrong. I don't know how house purchasing works) Getting married in May. Wooo. Oh and they are under 26. She got a graduate degree in something that has to do with technology. He is a law student. That blows my mind but they are good together. That is too soon for me though. There was no ultimatum needed. They both were just like hey lets get married.

[@mandisaw]

@@lisah8438 The proof is in the longevity. It's not impossible for folks to recognize "the one" right off the bat - have a coworker like that - but the issue is whether or not they will remain a good match as they both grow up. Main issue with speedrunning marriage, is that you haven't had time to see what each other are like outside of the infatuation stage, under duress, etc. If relationships were just about the fun times, everyone would succeed at them 😅

[@mandisaw]

@@lisah8438 There's also the possibility that they are in the camp of "marriage is good for business". You see that fairly often when one person is in law/medical school, or a PhD program - the other person is going to support them, financially, and presumably the idea is that they'll start a family, be a professional couple, etc. Sometimes it works out, but othertimes not so much - "First Wives syndrome" and all that.

[@LadyKnightMare]

I swear most of these people want a wedding not a marriage. And if your partner keeps asking and pushing you to get married when you’re not ready, for whatever reason, that’s a big red flag to just leave. Marriage is a big deal and their not respecting your boundaries. My Grandpa actually asked my Grandma to marry him but she wasn’t ready and you know what he did? He accepted that and waited for her till she told him she wanted to marry him. They stayed married the rest of their lives! If you keep pushing for it that just shows that you shouldn’t get married.

[@mandisaw]

True, but if one person's looking for marriage [eventually] and the other is "I never want to marry" then waiting ain't gonna square that circle. Sometimes you need to know when it's time to fish, or cut-bait.

[@erylaria398]

Like. Marriage after 1.5 years???? I've been dating my partner for almost 5 years and i love him but, buddy, I'm not assuming financial and legal responsibility for another person?? No interest in that AT ALL. We can have a party or ceremony or something at some point but I am not interested in being legally BOUND to ANYONE. And I'm 32. I can't imagine getting married at like 24, wtf. At 24 I was living with two room mates with substance abuse problems, drinking gin all night, literally rolling around in paint naked. I didn't even have my master's yet! The US is certainly... a culture that exists.

[@queencleopatra007]

I feel like if you have to issue an ultimatum about getting married, then that already means you shouldn't be married to the person, at least not right now. Why do you need a reality competition to tell you that????

[@MacyPooh196]

I think it’s extremely toxic that there are shows that kind of encourage division between the couple. Maybe talk about your relationship like an adult?

[@jenniferwojcik5510]

My husband and I dated for 5 years before we even got engaged and then waited another 2 years to get married! If you truly love someone, you're not in a hurry to "put a ring on it", you're just happy to be with the person and enjoy every little moment together 💙

[@Shadeadder]

I mean. That depends on the relationship, though. My husband and I were not satisfied to just date for years on end, because the concept of marriage was incredibly important to us, in part due to religious beliefs. We're much happier now, married, then we were when we were dating for four years (we wanted to get married at year 2, but we needed to finish college first). So...yes, you can truly love your SO and still be impatient about wanting to get married. I'm glad y'all figured out what worked for you, but not everyone is content to only date for five-to-seven years, and that's not a reflection of whether the relationship is developed/healthy/"true love".

[@lilly_ann]

Not necessarily, dragging it out may be a sign of not wanting to commit to a person. It doesn't take a man 8 yrs to know he wants to marry a person.

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

@@lilly_ann I disagree tho. Your already committed by being boyfriend and gf. Literally marriage doesn’t change a thing but the label you have and the legal stuff

[@lilly_ann]

@@Blueeyesinthesky that's not a real commitment 🤣 go to any court and say you're someone's girlfriend and see what you get

[@lilly_ann]

@@Blueeyesinthesky go to a hospital in an emergency when your girl/boyfriend is sick and say you're a boy/girlfriend and see what rights you have on deciding over the health of the person. Gf/bf is not a real thing

[@gianna526]

I'm so glad he added the little bit at the end. It's such a nice way to wrap up the video, and it feels so personal and chill.

[@Potatoypotato]

I've seen the opposite. People dating for years and never even thinking about marriage and then being surprised when 8 years in they decide to look into getting married and they have drastically different life goals and values and then are facing whether they get married in a relationship that's doomed or just break up and have lost the last 8 years

[@christianhardtofind6349]

How can anyone watch this and still wonder why I want nothing to do with dating and marriage?

[@KamisKisses]

Anyone who is focused on the Ring and the Wedding, that's not going to last. Marriage, like any committed relationship, takes WORK. And the 1st woman is way too selfish (me, me, me) that's a red flag band. Also, if you have any doubts, you are not ready for this jelly lol

[@starcrysis23]

Idk I want to marry my bf as like a grand jesture. But like not legal marriage because it unnecessary and linked to money in a lot of cases. Just like… gestury marriage with like a ceremony but no paperwork. I don’t need a piece of paper that says I’m in love with the person I’m in love with. Although it will suck not to be able to take his last name (not as an ownership thing, his is just cooler than mine)

[@mandisaw]

@@starcrysis23 This is a US-context, so I don't know if it applies to you. But you can change your name to whatever here, you can take his, he can take yours, or you can both take a combined/hyphenated last name, all with or without marriage. Also, just a point, but legal marriage has a lot more repercussions than just finances - a lot of things just automatically apply to spouses, like medical proxy, insurance, and parental rights. It's definitely a big decision, but you both should at least know what you're eschewing.

[@mandisaw]

+1 to that. So many folks focus on just the wedding... smh. Getting married is a legal designation, with responsibility, and maybe a party, like getting your driver's license, or turning 21 [US]. But whether it's a good or a bad thing going forwards is up to how you both handle it.

[@filmsbysonam2323]

the best part of these videos are hearing alex's laugh with the black screen it gets me every time😭😭😂

[@NyGeL_Derey]

These shows just show us that there are worse people than in our lives

[@edsp666]

As someone who is 24/turning 25 this year, I, too, cannot believe I am gen z

[@WarmongerYT]

As women we have biological clocks. You're not supposed to be wild in your twenties and be with 20+ guys & then decide oh now that I've let everyone have me, now I'm ready to "settle". Marriage is supposed to be having a life partner to do life with& make experiences with & to create a family with/& u become family. *As women at age 30 our chances of becoming pregnant dramatically start to decrease, and our chances of having a baby with down syndrome or other issues dramatically increases, and continues to increase every year thereafter. Hence why so many of my fellow women are ending up alone lonely, bitter & either childless or single mothers. I mean do u think a man who is in his 30s & has financial stability is going to want a woman who's in her 30s who's been with 15+ other guys & only has a few yrs left of being fertile best case scenario (obviously plenty of women can and do get pregnant in their 30s but it actually is the exception not the rule & Did you know that pregnancy at age 35 is considered & literally called *geriatric pregnancy*?). Or is he going to want a woman in her 20s who hasn't been with a bunch of other men & who he can build a family with? Anyway it's sad that so many women in the last 10yrs are falling for this mindset that their 20s are for casually dating & wasting their precious time sleeping with random guys. It's hard to expect a man to respect you when you don't respect yourself. I wish more women would value themselves more ❤️

[@knightsoftheroundpeople2676]

netflix canceled I am not okay with this...FOR THIS??????

[@patriciaa4451]

I've been trying to get through this show but the cringe is almost physically painful. I fast forward every time Colby is on. I literally can't.

[@alyssabrown-carleton6173]

😂😂😂😂😂 and he was the one that had 2 girls wanting him. Then they both end up leaving. Then later on I'm like they dodged a bullet lol

[@beatm6948]

I liked him at first. Then he started getting on my nerves for an unknown reason

[@QUEERVEEART]

i liked him first episode but then i HATED HIM the most out of anyone except nate. he was such a baby that refused to take responsibility for his actions and he treated madlyn terribly!!! ugh

[@cowmooves4057]

@@QUEERVEEART To be fair... Madlyn wasn't exactly a prize herself. Neither of them are best, but they kinda deserve each other from what I've seen so far 🤷🏾‍♀️. When the show first came on the biggest red flag I had from Madlyn was that she was so quick to trash talk her bf to people she barely knew and immediately began thirsting over other men. I also noticed in a later episode that they both seem to have a thing for name calling. She called him a "F*cking loser" and he called her a "dumb*ss".

[@cowmooves4057]

@@QUEERVEEART **Spoiler in case you haven't finished the show** Also when she got mad a Randall and started cursing at him because he didn't want to have s*x with her... That didn't sit well with me.

[@sleepyote]

I can't believe this show is an actual thing lmao.

[@ddjsoyenby]

"toxic relationships the show"

[@tacooflove6175]

“Marriage is like currency, you get up every morning to work just as hard for it.” Also this reminds me of the dating show “next” or “Blind date” that were on mtv.

[@ddjsoyenby]

yup except without marriage.

[@rosebarbov]

You HAVE TO DO A VIDEO ON THE LAST EPISODE AND THEN THE REUNION !!! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE .. it is a real rollercoaster of WTF 😂😂😂😂

[@starsantheoriginal]

I started the date with letting the person know I wanted marriage. I wanted a partner. I never dreamed about the wedding and ring. I dreamed about the bad times, the working together towards an amazing home and marriage and partnership. Building something together. To me, marriage is a commitment and it takes a certain level of fortitude and dedication to commit to it. I agree with your end points, but I knew from when I was 17 that if I dated, the intention was to find my forever. That was the goal and if I didn't see that, I couldn't stay in the relationship as it was a waste of time.

[@mandisaw]

That's fine - better to be clear and upfront, so both of you know if you're actually compatible or not. Same with kids, overall lifestyle, city vs country, all those fundamentals...

[@bluebird1914]

It's good to be upfront and honest about that stuff. It's why I don't even get why this show exists, like maybe it's just me, but I even ask my friends what they think about marriage and what they think about kids, and I'm not dating any of them. So I genuinely don't know how these people don't think to ask these things.

[@justforthevibes3290]

She sat there for 5 seconds. Couldn't stop laughing

[@caravan7543]

Never stop doing final thoughts after the video, it gives me something to listen to while I look for what video I'm gonna watch next

[@membou]

I think if I were in a relationship with someone who genuinely enjoyed watching stuff like this unironically, I’d have to make an ultimatum of my own. 🤣

[@bogib8113]

This shows you that peoples minds sets have changed so much. It’s like a pair of shoes or car they want something for a couple months to maybe years and then go somewhere else but also maybe have another pair or car they take for a little spin.

[@deebee6390]

This show made me cringe so hard. Every episode full of cringe and pain

[@GriffinZambia]

Dont read my name!!..Dont read my name!!..

[@TheMarslMcFly]

Bro wtf is with all these people?! They're all in their early to mid 20s and desperately want to get married?! I'm 23 and don't even know wtf to do with my life ._.

[@lilly_ann]

And that's, you

[@JST03]

I'd heard about it and immediately thought "that's kind of a pointless show" 😅. The gender of the person proposing doesn't matter, but if someone doesn't want to get married, it's isn't always out of fear of commitment. That's something y'all should talk about and if it's that big of an issue perhaps just split as hard as it may be. Or if all else fails go to Netflix 😅. They rly have a hit or a miss.

[@Dargonhuman]

Yea, marriage is supposed to be a big deal that requires lots of deep, serious discussion, consideration of a variety of factors like career, family and financial goals, compatibility with your partner's family and circles of friends, compatibility with each other, and so on. It's often not "fear of commitment" that keeps people from getting married but "fear of committing to the wrong person".

[@iSango5050]

I literally grew up jamming to the end credit song of the 1998 movie “Mulan” and I STILL said “oh hey it’s the guy from Love is Blind”

[@clairekookoo]

I loved this show. So did my partner. It was so messy & dramatic. Pure evil at times really. Was it a good show? No. Was it entertaining? 100% yes

[@shoshanaloomer]

The squeaky laugh every time someone does something stupid(basically the whole video) is hilarious

[@3dstuff654]

Always love it when you upload, I've been catching up with your and Kelsey's doin the devil's tango, you guys are hilarious

[@phoenixdzk]

9:10 that moment jolted me out of my senses! She sat down for two seconds!

[@mini8129]

The clip is edited. She told him she's attracted to him and sees a future with him and then he responded saying he doesn't see that happening

[@ashleytyraisaacs]

Colby kind of seems like he’s convincing himself that he’s not gay

[@pepperminttree]

whoever created this show let their intrusive thoughts win

[@AnnieKhurana]

I have been following this channel for a while now and it's the first time I'm commenting here, solely for the end portion on the point of marriage and how odd it actually is to dream about the perfect wedding when the relationship is what really matters at the end of the day, ring or no ring. Good points made my man!

[@crisper2159]

I love how Alex's videos are 99% laughing, wheezing, and making fun of stupid people. It's great. Truly. Perfect.

[@avo1590]

netflix just never stops. like bruh who is giving them these ideas 😭

[@Ohmargod]

Just watched it with my wife (see the irony?) and the thing that batfles me the most is that these young folks are in 2 year long relationships and they’re thinking about marriage?!? Why? They don’t even know their partner well enough, didn’t go to a decent amount of drama together. Theyre really immature sadly.

[@shanewallace2564]

It's weird how every reality show is about taking people and putting them in a completely unrealistic situation.

[@EMPchan]

I dont comment often, but I just wanted to say Alex, never Feel bad for having sponsors ! If it allows you To keep making content and you are not taking shaddy sponsors, you do you man! Keep up the good work

[@devinlaurier2224]

i love how this whole video is just alex laughing at the weird people on this show lol (love the new animations and video style!)

[@neroyuffie]

With everyone ( or at least every woman) in the show being in the early or mid 20s, it feels like they're pushing the message that "you have to get married before you're 30". Maybe it's just me. I'm pretty happy in my 10 year relationship with my partner and we don't really have plans to get married any time soon. It's nice not having that kind of societal pressure.

[@HoneyBunRoad]

Randomly came across this and I AM HOWLING 🤣🤣😅😅 your run from from 6:55 to 7:17 having a miserable week cos I’m sick but oh boy this revived me!!

[@teeklives]

there’s nothing wrong with marrying in your 20s as long as it’s AT THE RIGHT TIME!! if there’s any pressure to get married, of course it’s not going to work out 🤦🏾‍♀️ and the honeymoon phase of these brand new relationships are not enough to make a decision to LEAVE YOUR PARTNER 😭 idk i’m 24 and i’ve been with my husband for 9 years now - but it works bc there was no pressure to get married, just a random whim

[@wolfsmaid6815]

agreed. We got married at 26 and 28yo after being together for a couple of years and me being pregananant so we thought we might as well make it official. ^^ I think the best phase to get married is your mid-20s: that way you can still have kids and have the stamina to run after toddlers, but your brain is fully developed and you know what you want more than you would have at 18 or 19 or so.

[@therailfan8947]

Netflix is so bad that it’s hard not to watch what they produce. 😂

[@callycagney7665]

Which is the angle they're using. No matter if the stuff they make it good or bad people watch it to see if it is actually good or is it that bad.

[@therailfan8947]

@@callycagney7665 yeah, for sure.

[@babayaga4295]

I love how Alex is roasting shows. Do it forever

[@ddjsoyenby]

he will.

[@vansprinkes]

With every Reality TV show like 90 day fiance or the Ultimatum, I always am left wondering what poor cameraman just has to sit and watch this unfold?

[@ciani2396]

In your early 20s you haven’t even been outta high school more than a couple years and are probably not even done with college.. wtf are these people who have only been together for a year or so, giving their partners any sort of ultimatum when the American civil war lasted longer than some of them have been an adult?

[@rutajanu1929]

Colby Kissinger has been married to Madlyn Ballatori since 13 May 2021. They have two children.

[@47896285pgdfzgnd]

Hey Honey, I know we've been struggling with the whole marriage thing BUT I just heard about this new Netflix show....