The Death of Andrea Mills ¦ What Actually Happened?

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Andrea the mom of the Family went home to be with God on 8-19-19
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[@kirsten9729]

Hi Tom. I am a medical student. Thank you for sharing your story and perspective on the health care you received. I will keep Andrea in mind always and try to learn from the emotional interactions you both did enjoy with doctors and times you wish you would have been treated differently. I am striving to be an empathetic and compassionate doctor; you and Andreas story will help me in the journey. I am sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing.

[@loriadams7724]

NORML it seems it’s rare for an ER doctor to actually care about a patient’s pain. I have been sent to ER by my neurologist for migraines that have lasted 2 weeks, and the doctor, and even the nurse, has accused me of just drug seeking. I haven’t been to ER in a few years now, no matter how bad the migraine, and even if my neurologist has told me too. I’d rather suffer at home, and at least keep my dignity.

[@Rin-th6hk]

@@loriadams7724 I've always had pretty bad experiences in A&E (the British equivalent of the ER) so unfortunately this seems to be an international issue. I've always had great experiences with my consultant and specialists thankfully, but it's incredibly frustrating being told my pain isn't as bad as I know it is. it must be even worse having to pay for healthcare. Im sorry you're suffering, I hope it eases x

[@loriadams7724]

Erin Young thank you for your kind reply!! I am doing well, and I pray you are too. 💜❤️

[@MrsKash543]

Kirsten thank you for listening, really hearing him Kirsten. I wish you all the best with your studies may you always have a kind loving heart ❤️

[@jessicastrong6006]

SOOO Sorry ! May God Comfort You All As a Mother Would Comfort A Child.

[@Avabliss]

I waited 2 years to watch this. I didn't know if I could until now. I used to fall asleep to her voice when my babies were little and I couldn't sleep. Her folding laundry and talking....it soothed me. She was a stranger but at the same time a close friend. She was so gentle and kind and funny. I haven't heard her voice since her death because it hurt so much, even now. Your strength and faith are beautiful. She would be so proud of you and the kids.

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

Thanks for coming back to watch :)

[@aubriellerivera6098]

I just landed on some of Andrea’s videos in the last days and admired how organized she was. I clicked into the comments section and noticed several people commenting how she is with Jesus now and that struck me because she is so young and seemingly healthy in these videos that I saw and even mentioned subtly the possibility of having more kids in the future so I knew she was young enough and healthy enough to consider future pregnancies and hearing that she had passed away didn’t make sense to me. This sent me on a rabbit trail and I clicked onto your channel and scrolled down to the videos and quickly saw this one. I sat and listened to the entire story and I cried as soon as she needed to hear the doctor come back in and repeat to her again the news that she was dying and how she wanted to go home to see her kids. I couldn’t stop crying all the way through your video from that point on, as a mother of four myself. Andrea and your family and your KZbin channel all are completely unfamiliar to me but this story just tears my heart apart and I can only imagine your kids going back and watching her videos just to see her face and hear her voice. Her video on Let’s Talk About Kindergarten she goes through her scrapbook of Asher in his kindergarten. My oldest is also named Asher and he is starting this curriculum this year and that’s the whole reason I landed here on Andrea’s videos and her story. Tom, and Mills family, I am so sorry for your loss. I know that there is a gaping hole in each of your hearts that can never be filled. I pray tonight, even though this is apparently 4 years later, that your hearts will find healing and joy in Christ and that the memories of laughter and happiness with Andrea keep her alive in your hearts in the warmest and most comforting ways. God bless your family.

[@elizabethglowacz5615]

This is so crazy, I haven't watched the channel in a while, I didn't even know she died....

[@tess1166]

Elizabeth Glowacz ik i only have watched a few like three years ago!?

[@emilyhogben3928]

Same

[@ldk1348]

Same

[@atticusfinch4266]

I only found out because Jamerril mentioned her grief.

[@clockwinder2924]

Me too, I used to watch them all the time then I got so sick and nearly died and I stopped. God spared me, for which I’m very grateful, but now I’m well enough and have returned to this channel and I’m so very sad. I’m so sorry for the family’s loss. I know she’s in heaven, but she’ll be so very missed. A beautiful lady and a beautiful family. God Bless.

[@pick3tywiTch]

Ugh... 2 years later, I still go to her videos for advice. She has such a sweet, innocent, beautiful soul. Miss you, lady.

[@Marthacraftsandmore]

RIP Andrea Mills, a very special woman indeed.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@MadiCee1]

She was such a wonderful Mama. I can't figure out how she found the time to do everything she did. She was so patient, creative, and kind. Rest in peace, sweet Andrea.

[@mommycraftsalot]

I'm sorry for your loss.

[@christyinthecarolinas]

I lost my first baby. She was stillborn. I can't imagine losing a child and then losing your soulmate. I'm praying for you. You are a strong man.

[@speakofhisgrace]

Jesus will restore everything in his divine perfect kingdom. You need to get a kjv bible. Death is defeated by love. For the true believers of 1 Corinthians 15 1 to 4. God bless you all.

[@rebornsnuzzles2573]

I worked Emergency and ICU for a few years. The hearing is the last to go of the senses. Even after someone's heart stops, they can still hear for four minutes, until brain death occurs. She could hear you. She knows she was surrounded by love.

[@dorothypierce715]

You did good by your wife! I was watching the California vacation video today from 2017 and where she said ‘I find him so sexy because no matter how tired he is he’s still driving and taking care of us. He always takes care of his family.’ She adored you Tom and I know you adored her also. I pray God continues to bring comfort to you and your kids. God Bless you!

[@katiecarnahan538]

My first thought was you don't need to explain to others what happened, it's not our business and people are nosey. My ending thought was, I appreciate you documenting this for your babies for when they are older and want to know what happened. I so love your family and my heart just breaks for you. Continually praying for you guys.

[@teenabump5433]

I think Tom is honoring his wife by sharing what happened to her because she shared her life with social sites because everyone would wonder what happened and where did she go? I can't get over how he held himself together so well while he told his story about what happened to her.

[@emilyhogben3928]

Cancer is horrible. It has no limits, it often gives little warning and it leaves a person's loved ones to deal with its mess. Love to everyone

[@patriciabarnhart1886]

On behalf of every spouse who has been there, we understand the frustration, the terror, and the numbness that fogs your memory in places. "Tommy" is making Andrea so proud that she chose him to be the daddy of her children.

[@CynHatmaker]

Amen... RIP Andrea

[@sandiemom8888]

I couldn't agree more. Your such a great dad. Recently due to a dentist screwing up pulling my tooth. I got an infection that lasted 3.5 months. Four rounds of antibiotics, the ER, etc. Never so sick. My youngest who is disabled had to come on the ambulance with me and stayed with me in the ER forever, freezing as their air was way too cold. My son's father would not watch him, would not bring me to the hospital. Many times I have and still do collect bottles and cans for medicine. My point is I was and am always so stressed out because all my son has is me. I'm a mommy to 8 all but 2 are grown. The ENT office thought I'd have to have a 4.5 hour surgery under general anesthesia due to this. I got so scared because I said I couldn't as I have no one to watch my son. I can only eat mostly a liquid diet now, which has caused me to loose too much weight which I cant affird to loose weight which caused my iron stores to be low and me anemic. Which caused me to faint and my little boy found me. Which again is scary. So you, Tom may think you can't do this or it's not how Andrea did it but give yourself a pat on your shoulder. Your kids have you. That is such a comforting feeling as a parent and for your children. My son and I have watched your channel for a long time. It warms our hearts, your doing good. I asked all my subscribers to pray and told them about your go fund ne and asked them to share it. Which eventhough I was so sick. Made me feel good that I could do something to help all of you. The just if my story is your giving your children the best gift knowing they can count on you. That your not collecting cans and bottles out of garbages for money. I know your in pain and I cry watching you get teary eyed, I say cry, it does not make you less of a man. God bless and Much Love.

[@LW-tb3cz]

When you said Cyrus' name I was crying with you. I am so very sorry for your losses.

[@mamamesha317]

How far along was she when she gave birth?

[@mamamesha317]

I got chocked up also 💜❤

[@Bethanymsings13_]

I lost a family member due to something VERY similar. Her placenta detached and it shuts down your organs. She was only 31. So sorry for your loss. Andrea was a wonderful mother, wife, and friend to all of us on KZbin.

[@rebornsnuzzles2573]

Andrea had metastatic breast cancer.

[@elizabethw.1527]

All this time later I still cry when I see the hurt in your eyes, Tom. It's so apparent that she not only had a huge impact on all of us, but the greatest to you and your beautiful children. Please know that she is being remembered.

[@mississippimimi9393]

Tom I have been in your shoes it had been 9 years come November. The last thing my husband said to me was don’t forget my cloths thinking he was coming home, he died 24 hour later, It will be very hard but it does get better with time. Love and prayers for you and the family. Sandy Poole

[@SuperBamamama]

There are no words that could possibly help in any way, so just please know how sorry we are for your loss and that we love your entire family.

[@robinright825]

This has to be the most heart wrenching story I’ve ever heard.

[@mollydelacy9007]

ikr he lost his wife and baby girl sooo sad.

[@teenabump5433]

This man held himself together to tell how he lost his wife.Iv only seen a few videos of before she passed away though they seemed pretty happy.

[@rachelday9585]

@@mollydelacy9007 baby boy

[@1whocs486]

Me too

[@1whocs486]

Oh the baby 2

[@elleamo92]

it's crazy how all these doctors make people wait for so long in such a critical condition and wasting time when every minute matters. they should have done ultrasound of her abdomen (liver and gallbladder) asap instead of being focused on her blood pressure. (I worked as a nurse in Russia, that's where I am from, I guess here they use different protocols). I am so sorry for your loss, it's heartbreaking.. I wish Andrea took care of her health and had gotten checked earlier to prevent this disease, but I guess she started having symptoms when it was already too late, cause cancer doesn't really hurt at early stages .. RIP

[@melissamooney2866]

Tom, it sounds like everything that could've been done for Andrea was done. Don't let comments from strangers make you question the decisions that you both made. You were there, they were not. God bless and keep you and the kids. ❤

[@lorrainem8234]

You did what you could, Tom. We don't always understand God's ways but we know that God is in control. God bless you and your family ❤ and thank you for keeping the channel going.

[@sc00b3rt]

My father flatlined several times. He said it was unbelievably peaceful. Words could not describe what he was experiencing. He had others there to meet him. He felt something pulling him back. His grandmother who had passed so many years before him told him it was not his time. When he came back, he was a bit upset that he was here and not there. His purpose and mission were not realized until he was older. He told me, never be afraid of dying.

[@micheleb9810]

This comment is long overdue. As difficult as I'm sure it was, it was very thoughtful and generous of you to make this video. I, for one, appreciate the the chronological description of events leading up to your dear wife's passing. I thoroughly enjoyed her videos and and am pleased to see through your more recent videos that your beautiful family is thriving despite of your tremendous loss. Kudos to you, Tom.

[@apronacres7292]

may our loving Father give you peace...

[@monicakittleson1468]

Dear brother I have been a widow for 26 years my husband was killed in a plane crash my two daughters were 3 and 11 when he died If it wasnt for the strength The Lord Jesus gave me I wouldn't be here today when you think you simply cant make it one more day cry out to Him for help He will surely help ! I lost my brother Father and Mother in less than 3 months 2 years ago It still hurts so bad somedays but Gods infinite comfort is real ! Iam praying for you and the children everything will be alright stand back and see the mighty hand of God move !

[@patriciabarnhart1886]

Monica Kittleson so sorry that you have experienced such great loss, especially that close together, Monica🙏🏼

[@diannthomas7849]

Oh man Monica. So much sorrow for one person. One day at a time with God's shoulder to lean on. God bless!

[@beckyparker5661]

Just wanted to pop by and say I'm So sorry to hear about your losses x

[@sarahcollins4555]

I’m so sorry for your loss how great the pain I’m so sorry praying and thinking of you. You’ve stayed so strong they are so very proud of you

[@tayajaneway]

Like someone else had said, I too still watch Andrea’s old videos. It may have been two years but it isn’t the same. Andrea had such a kind and generous way about her. I miss her exuberance and her spunky spirit. R. I. P. Andrea, we love you.

[@djmerrell9644]

I'm so sorry about Andrea's death, I didn't know about it until today. I've been thinking about her lately even though I haven't watched her channel in awhile. I just looked this up because I wanted to tell her something... When I was watching her channel, I was also pregnant with a little girl and I watched her "girls room" episode. Andrea was inspirational to me about raising a large family in a loving, simple way. I wanted to be like her. During the video, she said one of her daughters name was Eden and I fell in love with that name. I now have a 2 1/2 year old named Eden, after her daughter, which also reminds me of the loving way Andrea mothered her children. I've been meaning to get this in writing to send her this message, but I didn't know about what happened to her. So, I wanted to let you know that your wife reached deep into the hearts of those she influenced for good. Prayers for you and your family. (Thank you Andrea. -Janet)

[@emarm100]

I can’t believe you can remember all those details. You were in shock, and probably still are. You are doing amazing. God bless you.

[@luvangelmyers2731]

Ellen MC 🙏🏽That’s how you know it’s real and true

[@loispoe4849]

This is so heartbreaking Tom. I’m sure the heart of your home is badly missed. I’m thinking of your family everyday and always look forward to seeing your next video. Thank you for telling us the facts.

[@miranduri]

I had not watched the videos for a while so it was a shock when YT recommended this video. This is super sad. Please accept my deepest condolences. Many blessings to the family.

[@lizmunt9116]

Sad story Aaaahhhh. God be with you all. R. I. P. Xxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxx

[@amymarie8999]

it took me 3 years to watch this.. when she passed it shook me to my core and I didn't even know her personally but her sweet gentle spirit and wonderful homeschool and mothering touched me so much. thank you for sharing about your beloved wife. I haven't watched your channel much since she passed, to be honest it just hurt too much. I pray your family is doing well.

[@mileenamills1527]

I love you dad. I know Andrea must have been shocked and scared. It happened so fast. There was really no time to process things. But in a way that’s a blessing. Our minds can be the most frightening when they are left the time to think. And unfortunately doctors have failed so many people on a daily basis that many people have given up on them. I’ve met so many people who’ve lost faith in doctors. People who were left to save themselves. But Andrea left a wonderful legacy and lived a wonderful life. She lived more in her time then most people ever will. Because she was a woman of action. I know she’s still with you and wants you to be happy and carry on her spirit in her children. ❤️

[@rachelday9585]

Hi Mileena!

[@teenabump5433]

Andrea had the type of breast cancer that shows few symtoms and they seemed like such happy people and from hearing the story it seemed to happen so fast and while i am sorry for Tom and his children i think it is kind of a blessing that they didn't have to spend long periods of time waiting for her to pass away.

[@aflou7144]

Are you one of their kiddos? I'm confused why you called him dad, but then didn't refer to Andrea as mom

[@rachelday9585]

@@aflou7144 Tom is her dad. Andrea is not her mom. He was married and had Mileena before he met Andrea.

[@aflou7144]

@@rachelday9585 oh neat! I didn't know that, thank you!

[@kimmarielesso3670]

Tom, you will never know me. My story is unimportant and I never even knew about Andrea's channel or your family. During the last week or so of Andrea's life, God started putting all kinds of channels in front of me and they were all desperate requests for prayer for your dear wife. I started praying for her and watching this sad tale unfold. All the while I had the sense she was headed home to heaven and that I should get to know you and the children. I believe I've been assigned as a prayer warrior for you all, so just wanted to let you know. I pray for your family every day....for all manner of needs. I pray for your heart, your devastated heart. Your trying to move forward caring for the kids while being lonely and while grieving. I can't say I understand; I have no words of wisdom to impart, but brother Tom, I'm here. I care about YOU and I'm praying for you. Please don't misunderstand my words. I only want you to understand that God cares about your needs as well as your children's and He has assigned people (I'm not going to egotistically think I'm the only one) to have your back in prayer. Stand in the Hand of God dear brother...You are loved!

[@TheeLifted-Bodhisattva]

💕

[@kathymyers7279]

Kim Marie Lesso wow. So obedient! This is the Body in action! holding fast the Head.

[@karizmacharles4510]

Kim Marie Lesso What a sweet, caring Sister-In-Christ you are!!!!!!! I also believe The GOOD LORD sent you to these channels as a Prayer Warrior, as well! I never seen or heard of this channel, until right now, But, I wish I could have got to see this amazing woman. I will keep him and the children in my Prayers, as well as you, too!!!!!!! *GOD BLESS!!!!!!!* ♥️❤️♥️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@daisythomas8354]

Amen amen amen

[@tesscraftsmore9117]

I am also praying for you and your family! I don’t know you, but I can see the hurt in your eyes and my heart breaks for you all. I know this is a hard thing to go through especially when you have children. I pray that you will find peace in this trying time in your life. I pray for your whole family and may God bless you !!!

[@waytoson]

I just realized this is new and your loss is so fresh... Omg..your strength to be able to share this... Bless you even more

[@maryreynolds5310]

I look at your eyes as they are so sad darlin’, I feel your heart’s pain...I want to reach through this screen and give you a long long hug. God Bless you Tom.

[@kristielael2670]

What a precious pic at the end. RIP Andrea.

[@tammyhanson7843]

Oh dear God give this family comfort.

[@ruthodom593]

I will be praying for you Tom. I lost my husband 8 years ago and I still remember his last days in vivid detail too and the small comforts of being able to say “ I love you” that last time....May God continue to comfort you. ❤️

[@sarmajere2866]

You tube recommended your video to me randomly tonight, and I felt as though something pulled me to listen to your story. I’m struck by your composure as you share your story, and your clear compassion and love for your wife and family. How terrible that the last ER was not allowed to do more to help her, though the doctor who tried sounds amazing. How strong the two of you were as you went through this. I feel like I’ve been changed through hearing your story tonight. Thank you for having the courage to share it. My sympathies on your loss as well. Someday you will all be together again! Much love to you and yours.

[@Nt3zone]

I lost my mom from cancer at 27 she was 62. That connection between mom and child is so strong even in death the bond is still there! Look into the Brca gene. My mom passed from Ovarian and I learned all about it. You did an amazing job with this video something like this is never easy...she is SO proud of you all!!

[@strawberryseeds]

Andrea was a very special woman and I’m glad she created her KZbin channel because it let everyone see how kind hearted she was. I hope you and the kids will stay strong, close and keep some of her traditions going.

[@lynetteeaster1541]

She was so low keyed with her children!!

[@princesseleler5515]

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 May Andrea Mills Rest In Peace and in Heaven ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 🙏🌈✨ I’m 19 with no kids but I’ve been subscribed to this channel since I was 16. I loved Andrea and the rest of the fam so much. I always binged watched her videos. I remember in August I kept checking to see to see if any new videos were uploaded. And I started freaking out after weeks of waiting, I knew something was wrong 💔 my heart is still torn I miss her so much, I did cry after the first KZbin update and I even made a Facebook just to get updates!! Thank you Andrea, Tom, and the rest of the Mills family for sharing these videos and letting me be apart of your life for the last 3 years (and many more I hope 🙏💕) In my young life I learned so much from Andrea and when I become a mother I will implement some of her ways. Fly High Andrea 👼🕊

[@spaghettiplease]

You guys are in my thoughts & prayers, I'm so sorry for this loss. I've been watching you guys for a few years now and you are such a kind family. She made a positive impact on this world, that is for sure. All my love for all of you

[@kristydee4998]

Oh Tom, my heart breaks for you & the family. Andrea was so special, she will live on forever through you, her children & these videos. For years to come she will continue to teach countless people everything she has shown in her videos. She may be gone from earth but she will certainly NEVER be forgotten. People like her are so rare & I feel lucky to have “known” her. All my love...KD❤️

[@jessicalee7801]

She was such a precious woman.. i didnt know her in person obviously but you could just tell she was so sweet and just a kind soul....

[@shewygirl]

I’ve been here since the day before she passed when one other lady that I watch on KZbin asked for prayers for her and this breaks my heart... I am so so so sorry. Thank you for sharing her story 💕😇🙏🏻

[@katecox4339]

Oh my goodness I am so sorry for your loss. I had never watched your videos but this one showed up in my feed. I am now watching and crying my eyes out the video where she talked about her mother’s passing. Your family is very strong and I just wanted to let you know you have my heart and are in my thoughts and prayers for strength to get through this pain that will never end but will subside.

[@rosey4exclaim]

Thanks for this, Tom. It's my opinion that our death stories are just as important as birth and health recovery stories. It's important for us to talk about it, and I'm glad to see how healthy your family deals with death. I remember even before Andrea died she said you guys talk openly with your kids about death, and it's good to see her own death was no exception. Much love and further healing to you and the family.

[@nancyletteer3170]

God bless you Tom I cannot begin to imagine how difficult telling this story has been for you. I believe you have answered any questions we might have had. Thank you for letting us all know how it happened so darn quickly. I just can't believe how in less than a week her functions decreased. You and your family are in my prayers. I think you are an absolute wonderful dad. The kids really looked great last night game night. Hope Asher is feeling better today. And also hoping things went well with Knuckles. Thank you for keeping these videos going I absolutely love seeing your family.

[@jksatte]

Thank you for sharing this with us. I can't imagine how difficult this must have been for your family. I'm so sorry. Peace be with you all. Janice

[@jenniferendres2063]

I'm so sorry! I watched your channel for a long time and got busy, and had not watched for some time. I was always in awe of how much she did, how organized she was, creative, patient, and open to sharing your life together. I did not know she had passed till now. Wishing you and your family healing, I can imagine how much she is missed. I am a nurse and work with many families at the end of life, the young mothers are always the hardest to see. Sending you and your children love.

[@KJeske8274]

Tom, I still have no words. I think of Andrea every single day. I think of you and the kids every day as well. You all feel like family to me although we have never met and I mourn Andrea's loss so deeply. It's clear by your online "family" that she was special to so many of us.

[@theresas709]

Thank you for sharing this. Life is so hard. I'll pray for all of you.

[@jasminemarie2639]

I haven’t watched in a while and I’m so saddened to hear she passed. Sending prayers for all of y’all. This is so sad and I can’t imagine the pain y’all went through. She will be missed dearly 🙏🏻❤️

[@naomim5015]

I'm so so sorry for your loss. I stumbled across your channel to watch Andrea sew a backpack and then subscribed. It wasn't until I scrolled through the videos that I saw she had passed. I was shocked and so saddened. My condolences and prayers for your beautiful family.

[@janshrum7286]

😢😢😢😢😢😢🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼. Oh Tom...... I’m sooooo heart broken for you ...... no words ...... only groaning in prayer for you . You have been through too much 😢😢😢😢😢🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@michellebeebelewisfrith1544]

God bless you for being brave to walk everyone through this again.

[@jacqueemills4202]

Thank you for sharing Tom. I was crying right along with you. If you ever need anything, just say so. ❤️

[@PrroudGrandma]

I’m so sorry to hear that this happened. What a heart breaking turn of events for your family. I first came across your videos looking for videos of small houses with lots of beds & found the video of your boy’s room. She was a tremendous blessing & I know she’s watching over y’all today!

[@rachelcompton4625]

Thank you for sharing this Tom, You all did everything you could do! So sorry for this great loss.

[@pattitruit3745]

And also, that is such a beautiful and stunning picture of her that you chose for the thumbnail ❤️ she was beautiful inside and out ❤️

[@ums00750532]

My heart is with your family! I really enjoyed watching her and the amazing things Andrea did for her family! I’m so glad you are keeping this channel alive for her! 😔🙏🏽

[@lisasecula4274]

I'm sorry for the loss of your wife. It's such a big loss for your family and so personal. It's brave of you to share your story, and helpful to others who have experienced major losses.

[@fredrose9285]

Tom, I am struck with how good a dad, husband and keeper of the faith you are. You and Andrea did your level best, in this most trying, shocking and unfathomable circumstance. We will never know, or have the capacity to know, the reasons things happen as they do on this earth. I know God is well pleased with you, His good and faithful servant. Though the road is not easy, you are shepherding your kids and re-working systems as needed. Thank you for sharing this information about the events of August.. It was a precious gift to us as I cannot imagine how painful it was for you to go back in memory to tell that story; it is greatly appreciated by all who love you, Andrea and your family. Godspeed, Paige

[@mhfl7514]

Thank you for sharing this difficult story. ❤️

[@angiewallace1596]

So sorry for your loss. It must be very difficult. Thank you for sharing your pain and your memories. Praying for you all.

[@boomingbubblebus1470]

I just found this channel, how heart breaking, I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for keeping this channel here I am a new subscriber, 40 and looking forward to having my first baby someday soon.

[@StaceyAllen6063]

ah Tom my heart goes out to you all. This took a lot of courage.

[@bethenyauker4727]

Sweet Andrea, oh how I prayed for a different outcome. I am so glad you are not suffering with that pain anymore though. I can't even imagine, breaks my heart to think of you in so much pain. You will forever be the standard of how a mother should be! Thank you for being you and teaching all of us.

[@dianabanana9474]

Thank you for sharing this tragic story of the death of your beautiful Andrea. I'm still in shock and am so sad she is not with us and I only know her through this channel. I can't imagine what your loss is like. I just don't know what to say. My prayers are with you and your family. Andrea will always be in your heart and all of us who knew her one way or another. God Bless!

[@LucyQuinn94]

I haven't watched your channel in a few months and so seeing this video appear on my homepage today has left me feeling so surprised and sad. This is so ridiculously sad and I am so sorry that this has happened. It goes to show how fast life can change. I found it hard two years ago when I lost my father (at age 23), and that was after a year of suffering, so I cannot imagine how difficult and heartbreaking this is. I know it means very little coming from myself but I am so very sorry to hear this.

[@saridawriting]

Thank you for taking the time and talking this through with us, Tom. I think of Miss Andrea often and I miss her voice a lot. Love you Mills Family! ❤️🇵🇷

[@mandic9240]

Oh how I miss her. Thank you for sharing these details with us. I remember turning on my notifications so that I wouldn't miss a live and praying so hard for precious Andrea to be healed. I know it wasn't the biliary cancer but I did have a friend who died from it. It took her within a matter of days. She was pregnant with triplets - one of whom passed away due to the cancer. Thank you again for making this video. I know it wasn't easy and I teared right up throughout most of it. Thank you, Tom.

[@carolcarol3938]

I have never seen your channel before or ever watched any of your videos, but came across this and started watching. I just wanted to extend my heartfelt sympathy for your and your family's loss. It is hard to lose anyone, but for things to happen so quickly is terribly sad. Blessings from Carol in Australia

[@nancygraceh5232]

I just came across this video and started watching. It really touched my heart. I am so sorry for your loss and your families loss. I will be praying for you and your family that God will give you all strength and comfort through this time of bereavement.

[@tishagful]

Thank you for sharing what happened in such detail. Your openness in sharing what happened humbles me to the very core of my being.

[@danilove5235]

I hadn't even heard that she wasn't feeling well at all so I was blown away, and thank you again for sharing so much with all of us!!

[@ravensweetheart3419]

Hey Tom...I have been watching all my other channels I watch and every stay at home mom or home schooling mom's have all mentioned the sadness they have with her gone. I wish Andrea knew now how much she was admired by other KZbin channels and Followers she had. Just goes to show what a amazing person..wife..sister .. daughter and mother she was! Every one is so proud of you Tom! Praise Jesus 🙌🙏!

[@tired_buthappy]

Tom, you are so brave and so strong. You are selfless to give us this closure. I appreciate how painful this was to share. We are all still praying for your sweet family. You are amazing, you are loved.

[@sacredmommyhood]

I can only imagine how difficult this video was for you. Miss sweet Andrea so much! We continue to pray for your family.

[@CCBear-jc6lz]

Thank you for sharing Tom. My heart breaks...the tears fall. I’m sure it’s not easy. You have been so open....more than we may even deserve. The love for your family that I have found in my heart is genuine. Bless all of you....and may each day bring a little less hurt....less...never gone.

[@thejazzybug17]

I just found her videos and was wondering why she hadn't posted anything new. I am so sorry for your loss. Lord bless her, you, and the kids.

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

Thanks so much! The content isn't quite yet what it was, but getting there as I learn to get a grip on this new life. Welcome aboard!

[@justme2059]

I’m so sorry about you and your families loss!! I just came across your channel when I was searching peasant skirts. I have been binge watching the organizational and sewing videos.

[@billybabee7996]

Tom, thank you for sharing this difficult story with us. We share in your grief and heartache. Andrea in her short life left a lasting impression and blessed many lives with her videos, beautiful smile and lovely laughter. She will be missed.

[@missybowling5865]

Thank you Tom for explaining everything I know that had to be so hard to relive it. I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine what you and your family are going thru. I'm so happy you have continued to make videos. I have watched your family for a long time and as a mom Andrea's videos gave me so much help. She was a blessing. Love and prayers for your family. ♥️

[@shaben1998]

Thank you for your bravery in telling of Andrea’s story as well as your story. May there be many blessings for you and your family. Much love and many prayers for comfort for you and the children.

[@boohoo5750]

She is with you in spirit. May you find peace of mind, so sorry for your loss. Bless you for sharing your story.

[@Fray14318]

Thank you so much for sharing this. You are so brave. She will always be missed.

[@just__celia]

Thank you for sharing this with us. I know it's still very raw and painful. I can't imagine how it must feel to relive those last few days. Much love to all of you! Andrea was a special woman and she lives on in all of you.

[@gailjones6925]

Im just finding your channel, I’ve been watching the new ones and never new the story about your wife. Thank you for having the guts to tell us about it, I appreciate knowing your story. I’m sorry for all the pain from losing the baby to the sadness you and the kids are going through. I’m gonna leave it at this, you were a fine husband and you are a tremendous dad! God be with you all 😢

[@joleneplourde9885]

Dear Tom, Thank you for sharing Andrea’s last few months with us. As hard as it was for all of you to go through, it’s a blessing that she didn’t suffer longer than she did. She didn’t even have time to accept dying but she was prepared in away.....all the videos she left you and the kids will help you through this. God bless you all ! Hugs, love and prayers!!

[@FosterChicken]

Tom, I'm so sorry for all you've been through. You are chugging through for your kids sake and it is helping all of you to carry on. I really admire how generous you are sharing your family and even your grief with all of Andrea's followers. Be well and God bless.

[@Dranma51]

Thank you, Tom! I did have a lot of questions and you answered most of them! I miss Andrea and her sweet smile and her vlogs! But you’re doing a good job and she would be proud of you!

[@Donnachain]

I am so so sorry for the loss of your wife and baby. I can't imagine your grief. I will pray for you all. :(

[@StephXoXo92]

I am so sorry for you & your families loss. I haven't watched the channel in a while and I'm now just seeing that Andrea passed. Sending many prayers your way. I can't imagine the pain you and the family are feeling losing her and a child together. If these videos are helping you cope please continue to make them. I still love watching all of Andrea's videos she was a wonderful Mother! Prayers for you and healing and thank you for all the videos.

[@chereederry7939]

Thank you for sharing this incredibly difficult and intimate experience with all of us. I have no words strong enough to empathize with you.

[@pamela1844]

It’s very rare that I’m at a loss of words 😔 god bless you and your children Tom. Such a beautiful soul she was.

[@rosiereed6552]

Your video came up on my suggested feed tonight. My heart goes out to you and your family.

[@LeonieAbi]

I'm so so sorry for your loss of your wonderful wife and sweet little baby. You're so brave and strong, such a heartbreaking video xx