ARE YOU AN INTROVERT? Signs and Traits of Introversion and How To Be Better Socially

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@Becksnnc
@Becksnnc 7 жыл бұрын
Don't confuse being shy with being introverted. They aren't the same thing. I'm an introvert but if I have something to say I will say it. I won't be scared to speak up like a shy person would.
@stephenolder4552
@stephenolder4552 7 жыл бұрын
For a lot of extroverts, the idea of recharging by yourself is just too odd of a concept and they have a hard time comprehending it, so they just assume you have to be shy. It just makes more sense to them that way.
@vaibhav5502
@vaibhav5502 6 жыл бұрын
But which side do shy ppl fall? I think introverts.
@charlottekohnen2200
@charlottekohnen2200 6 жыл бұрын
CastleFlameGal same
@joanna271
@joanna271 6 жыл бұрын
CastleFlameGal same! I can talk but I can’t start conversations unless someone starts it ;-;
@stephenolder4552
@stephenolder4552 6 жыл бұрын
@Moody Fuck "eww" grow up. Besides, im just pointing out why i dont think extroverts understand introverts. How am i being pretentious? Or is it pretentious to you because you cant relate to it? You also seem to have an immature perspective on introverts by just brushing them off as "loners"
@saasmeister9945
@saasmeister9945 7 жыл бұрын
introvert is not shy always extrovert and introvert both can be shy , this is fact
@n.m.dimmick194
@n.m.dimmick194 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This is one of the most frustrating misconceptions about introversion and extroversion.
@HowToTop10
@HowToTop10 7 жыл бұрын
When someone feels comfortable is not shy. But introverts are comfortable less time than extroverts I think
@alrisyadamir2491
@alrisyadamir2491 6 жыл бұрын
shy in introvert mean when u canot staring your friend eye..I think that...
@vasiliuu3461
@vasiliuu3461 6 жыл бұрын
Im an introvert but im not shy. Well not that shy.
@jadeisla5421
@jadeisla5421 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy extrovert, I like ppl, and I like gang ng out with them, but I am super shy, like my friend asked if I wanted to hang out, and I almost had a panic attack....fr!
@kirstenaudreidejesus4115
@kirstenaudreidejesus4115 7 жыл бұрын
Personally, the best way to set aside introversion and be better socially for me is to talk to other introverts. Most of the time introverts actually want to talk to someone (just not a large group of people) but just don't have the courage to.
@firstgoldnamelastgoldname6802
@firstgoldnamelastgoldname6802 7 жыл бұрын
To start a conversation
@meltingice5697
@meltingice5697 7 жыл бұрын
True, my friends are really quiet and serious..hahaha.and pretty weird, we always talk about murders and serial killers and stuff.hahaha
@Ninja-iq2xt
@Ninja-iq2xt 7 жыл бұрын
Kirsten Audrei De Jesus Hahah, yes maybe u r right..
@-mokerly-5984
@-mokerly-5984 7 жыл бұрын
For my life, starting to play an MMORPG was what made it a lot better. To play with and talk to so many nerds like me all over the world... The joy... it's overflowing. Besides, many of them also read fantasy novels, and first time in my life I actually have someone to talk with about books.
@luckyowl10
@luckyowl10 7 жыл бұрын
Kirsten Audrei De Jesus exactly, sometimes Introverts can make some of the best talk partners... if they feel like talking(hard to know) and if you take it sloooow...I discovered this because I like to talk to everyone (and no, I'm not cool everytime, I just like meeting new people and learning new things from them) 😃
@jessicavelo22
@jessicavelo22 7 жыл бұрын
we dont need social life. we need true relationships like friends and family
@charnjitsingh3365
@charnjitsingh3365 3 жыл бұрын
hmm
@navita_farmah
@navita_farmah 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly its very hard to handle society
@charnjitsingh3365
@charnjitsingh3365 2 жыл бұрын
@@navita_farmah damn right
@ioanna3222
@ioanna3222 2 жыл бұрын
Sexless girls without boyfriends have exactly the same attitude. Maybe it is a coincidence
@christopherscott5152
@christopherscott5152 Жыл бұрын
True
@svartdraken
@svartdraken 7 жыл бұрын
I am an introvert. I know that, and I love it. I feel like it's a precious thing... When I was younger I wasn't happy, I wanted friends but I was unable to socialize. Now, when I look at other people, I feel lucky being myself. Nice video anyways, perfect to start a rainy Monday morning (I love rain, it's very relaxing)
@cruj2255
@cruj2255 7 жыл бұрын
Rafal Iwanczuk OH MY GOD Finally someone understands the beauty in the sound of rain!!!!!
@jiyunotsubasa2150
@jiyunotsubasa2150 7 жыл бұрын
13_3_4_6 I'm an introvert too, and i like rain as well... except when i'm on my swimming class
@jennifer4589
@jennifer4589 7 жыл бұрын
same.. but I like it just the way myself
@alrisyadamir2491
@alrisyadamir2491 6 жыл бұрын
try to get sosialize because u live in in this world not alone, how people help you when you don't care with them..so being introvert is good but don't forget if we are sosializm...
@invinciblenowyt
@invinciblenowyt 6 жыл бұрын
Rafal Iwanczuk I always love coming home knowing that it is warm there with my two cats who don’t judge me. I love it when it rains and I’m at home. IT IS SO FUCKING RELAXING. With most communications (like at a checkout or getting a ticket on a bus) I get nervous and stumble on my words. I get scared when people recognize me in public. I also LOVE music. I want to live in japan as they are literally vending machine heaven and have tiny apartments in city centers.
@sanketchikalge6647
@sanketchikalge6647 7 жыл бұрын
but why it is BAD being an introvert...... why do i have to change ???
@aldieb07
@aldieb07 7 жыл бұрын
Sanket Chikalge no need..try to improve your social interaction tolerance limit..just so that u can do well in professional life(presentations, interviews) n romance..(generally girls acknowledge boldness) it's cool to be an introvert. choose a profession that suits your style...read " quiet" by Susan Cain
@markntr
@markntr 7 жыл бұрын
Sanket Chikalge I wonder the same thing.
@HowToTop10
@HowToTop10 7 жыл бұрын
Good - Bad, that's just labels. If you don't want to change, don't ;)
@miketrabulsy556
@miketrabulsy556 7 жыл бұрын
Sanket Chikalge im an introvert and i totally love it im a 17 years old man who learnt psycology i say for me its positive to be introvert cuz ur gona be successful in ur busieness.u can make money easly have fun alone u wont need any one no one can hurt u and u can have love ......baiscly the lifes prioritys actually so i say its good to be an introvert dont change
@Reddles37
@Reddles37 7 жыл бұрын
Its bad to be too introverted because its hard to be successful by yourself. You are always relying on other people for stuff and if you're introverted that can be a problem. For example, even though I got good grades I've had some trouble getting things like letters of recommendation because my professors didn't know me very well and I never took the initiative to do any 'networking'. Of course you don't have to become completely extroverted or anything, but you'll generally be better off if you socialize a bit.
@Taebooty-y6k
@Taebooty-y6k 7 жыл бұрын
I am proud of being Introvert and I don't wanna change it!
@noorsabah1766
@noorsabah1766 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@kimanhchung8372
@kimanhchung8372 3 жыл бұрын
The same, we love our life🙂💜
@ioanna3222
@ioanna3222 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah right, be proud that you will die alone in your mommas basement listening to that shity Taiwanese boy-girl music group BTS
@indridcold8433
@indridcold8433 5 жыл бұрын
I am as true an introvert as can exist. I have not had any friends, nor a girlfirend since 8 August 2000. I work third shift job completely alone. I have not socialised with anybody since 2000, as well. I now only interact with humans in a manner that a client would interact with a service provider or a merchant. There are a lot of benefits in having nobody in your life. I would recommend social isolation to anybody. It is far worth the loneliness experienced. Being social in the 21st century is antiquated and no longer necessary. It actually hinders us more than benefits us.
@ChronicleLiving
@ChronicleLiving 7 жыл бұрын
We are all unique and special, whether a introverts or not! Life isn't fixated for only one kind. Excellent video!
@60secondsuccess39
@60secondsuccess39 7 жыл бұрын
I like the new animation style, it feels more like a story than a lesson. Glad to have you back too :)
@ImUrPlatypus
@ImUrPlatypus 7 жыл бұрын
Wow how do you only have 20 subscribers?
@60secondsuccess39
@60secondsuccess39 7 жыл бұрын
Flying Fish Everybody has to start somewhere! Feel free to leave a comment or a like on my video if you enjoyed it :)
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 жыл бұрын
+60 Second Success Cool channel, I got your email, I'll check you out!
@joepvandijk
@joepvandijk 7 жыл бұрын
Could you please tell me the name of the intro song?^^
@zhonginger9572
@zhonginger9572 7 жыл бұрын
How to make these animations? what you guys using? Please help. Thank you
@rainless3728
@rainless3728 7 жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert and trust me this sucks more than anything! I just wanna change myself and enjoy the world like everyone do 😞
@luckyowl10
@luckyowl10 7 жыл бұрын
Natsu dragneel 1. you are "born this way" , so you can't change and sincerely you don't need to change 2. yes, you can improve your social skills with enough courage, time and patience from a more social-open person 3. but the best thing you can is embrace your introversion in order to be one step ahead of most people. As an introvert, for example you are better at observing and taking good decisions. So you read much more things about a stranger than most people and are selective enough to not meet toxic/bad people. All you need to do is to try to socialise with the people you consider ok and use those extra details to spice up the conversation. I hope it helped you!
@igniaxii3099
@igniaxii3099 7 жыл бұрын
Final Fantasy I'm an introvert but i love discussion and presentations so public speaking has nothing to do with introvert or extrovert
@mayonnaise11
@mayonnaise11 6 жыл бұрын
Well idk bout u but i love that im an introvert xD
@doriangray1935
@doriangray1935 6 жыл бұрын
then you're not real introvert. true introverts enjoy being introverts!
@furreedhiba3572
@furreedhiba3572 6 жыл бұрын
Fuck yes!
@ProlePatrolMusic
@ProlePatrolMusic 7 жыл бұрын
dude im such an introvert, but i still hangout most of the time. it drains me out when i hang with people and i feel more energetic alone lol
@lei2092
@lei2092 7 жыл бұрын
"Get comfortable" when you're awkward af 🤔
@alexanderSnilsson
@alexanderSnilsson 7 жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert by heart, but I didn't learn how that means I need to adapt myself to the world I live in and embrace the benefit of it, until I read the book Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking. Really is a Great book ! Have a great day everyone! /alexander
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 жыл бұрын
+Alexander Nilsson I'll have to check it out!
@aldieb07
@aldieb07 7 жыл бұрын
me too😁 it really made me accept myself as I am. I used to think why can't I be normal😆😆
@jackchatham3947
@jackchatham3947 7 жыл бұрын
I didn't find that book helpful at all. All the case studies were about successful, white collar people that I couldn't relate to.
@Crambull
@Crambull 7 жыл бұрын
Do you have any interesting takeaways from that book?
@LittlebigGladiator
@LittlebigGladiator 7 жыл бұрын
I just bought the book from your comment lol thanks for the suggestion!
@phiology1983
@phiology1983 7 жыл бұрын
I just received my Bachelors of science degree in Psychology and minor in Biology give me a thumbs up :) oh I'm an introvert as well :)
@gxp958
@gxp958 7 жыл бұрын
what college you went to? and tell me HONESTLY as an introvert, if you liked it
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 жыл бұрын
+Phi Ology Awesome! If you are looking for a job... ;)
@phiology1983
@phiology1983 7 жыл бұрын
Hmm maybe. The university just hired me as a research associate, maybe later haha
@phiology1983
@phiology1983 7 жыл бұрын
University of Dallas. I like it =)
@fade2black244
@fade2black244 7 жыл бұрын
Wow, small world. I'm introverted too, in Dallas.
@cristina5018
@cristina5018 7 жыл бұрын
Introvert here. I like being alone. I have friends who wanna meet up every once in a while, but I would pretty much prefer being alone and at home. It drains me so much to go out and mingle. But I have no problems with work. I earn a good amount of money despite it being a job that requires very minimal human interaction (and I feel so lucky to have found this job). And I love it. I love my current lifestyle. I feel more alive than how I was when I was forcing myself to be more social. I'm happier now that I've embraced being an introvert, being who I truly am. I thought that I would never find love like this... but I still did. And Im glad I stayed true to who I was. Because I met a guy who loves me for me, not being someone who pretends to be fun in front of many people.
@DEFIB7
@DEFIB7 7 жыл бұрын
Woah, you made a video all about me? I'm flattered!
@Netherzapdos
@Netherzapdos 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve always thought i was antisocial because of my persobality. But i realized i wasn’t, but instead i was “differently social”. I heavily enjoy talking about the small things in life, scientific things, things that are usually not supposed to be brought onto a deeper level but ended up bringing it to that level kind of thing, y’know? :d and the thing is, it’s hard to find people who think like me
@ioanna3222
@ioanna3222 2 жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as differently social stoopid. You just have to admit that no one likes you and wants to be near you
@omodrip1558
@omodrip1558 Жыл бұрын
It's asocial, not antisocial.
@mookamoka3
@mookamoka3 7 жыл бұрын
I'm so introverted that I've never needed a test to tell me so. This video is by far the best description of not only introversion, but also of my own personality that I've ever come across! It's sad that there are people (my own girlfriend, a HUGE extrovert, being one of them) that confuse inward thinking for selfishness or narcissism even though I'm the type of person that will go out of my way to avoid stepping on people's toes 99% of the time. It's probably not a good relationship trait to only think about theories or ideas all the time, but it doesn't mean we don't care. It's just not instinctive to reach out to others first all the time :(
@traditional-g8h
@traditional-g8h Жыл бұрын
I am an introvert and love doing things alone. But I also want to have few friends. I don't. And that becomes a situation and makes me feel sad in my life. I need to love and embrace completely my personality and the right people will come. I hope so.
@TheArtofInternet
@TheArtofInternet 7 жыл бұрын
Animations were really cool in this video, good job. I'd also definitely say I'm an introvert (which I already knew) but I'm also not afraid of talking to people I just am not a fan of most social things haha.
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 жыл бұрын
+TheArtofInternet maybe you're an ambivert :)
@TheArtofInternet
@TheArtofInternet 7 жыл бұрын
Practical Psychology it's possible!
@tomaszantochow8391
@tomaszantochow8391 7 жыл бұрын
Funny, I'm the other way around! I am always nervous around new people and my social skills fail me in situations that I have never encountered. But once I get comfortable around people, I love hanging out with them, going to parties, etc. But sometimes I also like being alone or staying home to game (even if that is still to a large degree social interaction if you play online, which I do). I guess I'm something like a shy ambivert :D
@bbs2183
@bbs2183 4 жыл бұрын
Introvert can be very talkative if they want to.
@casscat7
@casscat7 6 жыл бұрын
I'm also an introvert, and almost all of what you described is very accurate for me, and one of the things that stood out to me is how you've mentioned that introverts are different from how they're commonly portrayed. Which is ever-so-certainly true. It's also difficult Especially when there are a lot of extroverts in my family who don't understand my introversion at all. And whenever I'm quiet and rephrasing my words in my mind before I speak in the best and most thought-provoking way I could, they get angry and take it offensively. They think of me as rude, a "victim", doesn't listen and that I'm ignoring them. When in reality, they don't get the truth at all, and those flaws they falsely perceive in us is exactly what they're doing. It's a pain a lot of introverts have to deal with -_- I know that was completely off-topic and all... But I just felt the need to get this out there for some reason... x3 But of course, thank you so much for this video! ^^
@HowToTop10
@HowToTop10 7 жыл бұрын
I like that you don't do just mainstream topics but you get in detail in your ideas. Good video man :)
@adrianops7
@adrianops7 7 жыл бұрын
Such a good video, thank you. There are so many people out there that misunderstand us, introverts, as full of ourselves, arrogant, unfriendly, when in fact we are just shier and quieter. The world as it stands is quite challenging for us, introverts. Just like you, extroverts, we are just trying to make it through life, we just have a different way to see the world, which is not better, or worse than yours - just different.
@Skovorodnikof
@Skovorodnikof 7 жыл бұрын
You've passed fmediocrity channel. Even you guys are both awesome, you've crushed the pressure of being second in the market. Gratz.
@jiggmin1234
@jiggmin1234 6 жыл бұрын
Being alone is the greatest feeling in the world. I get drained very quickly when around people.
@elijah24567
@elijah24567 7 жыл бұрын
I am an introvert but i'm an exception to talking or riding a bus when i'm spoken to i answer the best answer that i can muster but most of the times when i'm the one in need i actually think what to say, how to say it over and over again until i spent 20 minutes thinking to a 1 minute action i feel that i must not screw and bother somebody else in a bus or public transportation i'm always on guard even when wearing earphones(classical music) i'm always on constant alert when i it is time for me to hop off i think a mile(figuratively) before how to do it, which part of me moves first is it the hand or foot or do i turn towards then stand up when seated etc the nervousness in me (60%- on transportation & 89.90%- when talking). Now i am applying in a fast food chain and hope that i can overcome this trait which admitedly i love for most of the times. Plus i don't know how to i guess its called small talk people so most of the people i know i classify as casual or business acquiantance specially in school but i do have friends those that came to me much to my surprise. I love the feeling of it that somebody will actually ask how are you and give advice and aid etc.
@TheSilenceIsBroken1
@TheSilenceIsBroken1 6 жыл бұрын
Being an introvert is difficult because often times we get caught up in our own minds and tend to miss out on what's going on around us. This is usually very confusing to people on the outside looking in, as we don't always communicate everything that's going on in our world to them. We're also very selective about the people that we choose to socialize with. Meaning that if we do talk to you then it's because we've observed your behavior and noticed some of the common characteristics that we share which brings us comfort in socializing and befriending you. Overall, being very selective as to who we choose to socialize with and what we say to them makes it difficult to connect to others and maintain relationships with them. We're aware of this, which is usually why this isn't on the top of our list of priorities to begin with. With that being said, if you can relate to some of my thoughts (being that the majority of this people are introverts and are experiencing the same thing) and would like to further discuss this matter or are just looking for somebody to talk to, then follow me on social media, send me a message and lets be friends. IG: intro.vertical Facebook: Darnell Pierce
@L4UR4RU4L
@L4UR4RU4L 7 жыл бұрын
ambivert here! best of both worlds, i guess.
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 жыл бұрын
+laura True!
@HowToTop10
@HowToTop10 7 жыл бұрын
Lucky you haha
@luckyowl10
@luckyowl10 7 жыл бұрын
laura it may or may not be the best of both worlds, but it feels quite good to have a good time alone and with people. 😊
@gazepskotzs4
@gazepskotzs4 7 жыл бұрын
to me it feels like the worst of both worlds, my thoughts and feelings always seem to contradict
@Marvin-rz8py
@Marvin-rz8py 7 жыл бұрын
laura ya I took a test it said I'm a public introvert and private extrovert so I'm an ambivert too I guess
@pelosuelto70
@pelosuelto70 6 жыл бұрын
I like being an Introvert. My family gives me the hardest time for keeping to myself. They're all extroverts and have plans every weekend, while I just stay to myself and the few friends and "trusted" family members I have.
@randyzeitman1354
@randyzeitman1354 7 жыл бұрын
Please... what do you think of this way to describe introversion (vs. shyness). • Introversion is (degree of) ABSENCE OF DESIRE to socialize. Introversion is rooted in managing (external) stimulation. • Shyness is (degree of) DESIRE TO BE ABSENT from socializing. Shyness is rooted in managing (internal) fears.
@Coty_Lee
@Coty_Lee 7 жыл бұрын
While I am definitely an introvert and prefer spending time alone than with friends all the time, I find when I'm romantically involved with someone it switches for that particular person. I'd rather spend most of my time with them than on my own
@Atypical_Typo
@Atypical_Typo 7 жыл бұрын
Coty Lee same, but it's a double edged swords my friend... use to do that and For 5 years I was with this girl until I found out that she cheated on my with her co-worker. Her reason: "he likes to go to places with me and he's not afraid of talking to other people. You are a really good guy, but you are too boring and I don't understand how you can live under a monotonous routine like that." Yeah like that's a good reason for cheating... because of her I can't even talk to women anymore, thinking they are the same and if I try again I will only end up betrayed again. That's what you get when you date an extrovert. My point is: don't act like your girlfriend/ boyfriend is a "savior" and don't forget to take care of yourself too in a relationship otherwise you become "addicted" to said person and when you loose them....God have mercy on your soul...the pain becomes unbearable. Luckily I have been single for 2 years so I don't feel that much pain anymore, but I can't love anymore either...
@Coty_Lee
@Coty_Lee 7 жыл бұрын
Yep I've definitely learned more to grow into my own person after a painful breakup. I feel much more confident with who I am now than before. I don't feel as dependent on a girl for happiness anymore. That doesn't change that I still strongly desire companionship but I think I'm far better now as a person
@luckyowl10
@luckyowl10 7 жыл бұрын
Coty Lee exactly, Introverts are not forever alone types of people , they just like spending time just with close people instead of close and unknown people.
@MasterJP28
@MasterJP28 7 жыл бұрын
Wow that sucks! I'm sorry to hear that. As an introvert, I over think to the point that when I meet a girl I'm afraid something like that can happen and just walk away saying "it's not worth it."
@mountcook1550
@mountcook1550 7 жыл бұрын
I'm actually an introvert and I found myself in your description. I just want to say your voice is the most comfortable I've ever listened to. Your videos are amazing keep it up buddy :)
@dreanne1588
@dreanne1588 7 жыл бұрын
I love being introvert, I there is nothing wrong about it.. And knowing that you are an introvert help a lot as to what you want to be. Staying as you are or be more social
@MrRgarcia2010
@MrRgarcia2010 7 жыл бұрын
This was an awesome animation and an even better simplified explanation on introversion. I myself tend to be more of an introvert but am more of an ambivert. I don't mind being around too many people (in a group) and can definitely give a speech in front of many. I do like to spend my free time alone and will even dine/explore alone. Funny thing is that people really believe that I have mountains of friends (because I am outgoing) but don't know that I am reserved and gear most of my conversations towards the other person. Anyway, really informative and entertaining. Thanks for posting.
@nathanielsharabi
@nathanielsharabi 7 жыл бұрын
he's right guys. liking to be mostly alone doesnt necessarily make you an introvert. my gym teacher once explained that we tend to think we are introverts cause we compare ourselves to the most social people we know. in reality its a spectrum where statistically you dont fall on. he said "if youre running in a race and having other people beside you pushes you to go farther and quicker. I dont believe youre an introvent. and you arent held back by it if you are an introvert. just flex your social ability like a muscle since it is a crucial skill we all need at some bare minimum"
@igniaxii3099
@igniaxii3099 7 жыл бұрын
Natanel Sharabi Introversion only means that you like time alone and you want to have a few good friends instead of many friends. I'm an introvert and i'm proud of that. I like to do Presentations in front of people and i love discussions
@fast45light34
@fast45light34 7 жыл бұрын
Lol, I have literally every single trait from that list. But I know well that I'm an introvert
@HowToTop10
@HowToTop10 7 жыл бұрын
Knowing yourself is great, no matter what you are :)
@gxp958
@gxp958 7 жыл бұрын
Everyone! have a beautiful day!
@L4UR4RU4L
@L4UR4RU4L 7 жыл бұрын
Gods vs Sheep thank you! the same to you!
@MrNemesisNuke
@MrNemesisNuke 7 жыл бұрын
Gods vs Sheep Lol tryna get dem like?
@danilodeugenio9984
@danilodeugenio9984 7 жыл бұрын
Gods vs Sheep Thanks!😘
@gxp958
@gxp958 7 жыл бұрын
Greedo no lol, i just think it's important for people to know that there are humans that want to others to succeed ya know. 😏
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 7 жыл бұрын
Gods vs Sheep You too Torr
@crazy20081000
@crazy20081000 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the help. Love the new style
@kvthe2nd903
@kvthe2nd903 7 жыл бұрын
Tip 7. Use anonymous chats to train your social skill without consequences.
@kvthe2nd903
@kvthe2nd903 7 жыл бұрын
LagiNaLangAko23, take on your Russian cap and spread the revolution. I roleplay as a communist revolutionary, so that I can always find the ones who are up to finding the real interesting conversations.
@thunderdrake13
@thunderdrake13 7 жыл бұрын
Lol problem with that is chatting online and in real life is very different
@HowToTop10
@HowToTop10 7 жыл бұрын
And that's what you doing right now I guess ;)
@chanuppuluri8726
@chanuppuluri8726 7 жыл бұрын
This was very helpful in my childhood up to a point. It can be hobbling after too long. Practical experience interacting in public is key to making this fluid and picking up on social rather than verbal cues. I'm still working on that myself. Every time I mildly offend someone, I do tend to run for the hills, though. "Where have you been for 3 months?" Oh just busy... with family... and work... I was swamped... (I'm the sorriest? Please forgive?)
@lagardiennedutemple3976
@lagardiennedutemple3976 7 жыл бұрын
This kind of videos gives me more confidence, in the way that I always felt myself very different from the others. thing that have a real positive impact on my personality. thanks a lot 😊
@geminix365
@geminix365 7 жыл бұрын
0:46 Missconception, I like working on my own, staying at home and spending time alone. And those things have nothing to do with how open you are to socialize.
@Call0fRudy
@Call0fRudy 7 жыл бұрын
I have a small suggestion that many would appreciate; when you reference other videos throughout your current videos, it would be really helpful to put an annotation at that time linking back to the referenced vid!
@samimohsin1776
@samimohsin1776 6 жыл бұрын
I am an introvert, and i don't need to be a social person, because i don't see any reason to be like you, it is like you are saying to me, why are you happy, be an unhappy person like me, why, i am the happiest person on the earth, when i am alone, and play my instrument, or draw, or in my shop to make a furniture, so why i have to be a social, and waste my time with talking, in a time that i don't like to talk or to have friends, to go parties, all of these things are just wasting of time at least for me. it is like asking you, what color do you like, Red, no no you have to like mine, because most of us like Yellow, then you will be good, or see a beauty from your corner, and think that what you see is just the best, what others find beauty is not beauty but bad, so being Introvert is something that most of social people can not understand how it is beauty, benefit, tranquility, freedom, far from bla bla bla, this guy has done that that and that, she argued yesterday with that girl and bla bla bla. what a pathetic people you are. learn the most important thing in this world, and it is, Be just who you are, and let others be who they are. that is the beauty of life.
@xotinny1150
@xotinny1150 4 жыл бұрын
This speaks on so many levels. I'd rather learn from you than from the content.
@zodiacfml
@zodiacfml 7 жыл бұрын
For success, there should be no preference of one over the other. One can be the opposite trait if the situation calls for it. It is mentioned probably twice in the video where a person can be fluid between the two. The worst thing a person can do is stick to a trait for too long even if the opportunity or situation calls for it.
@blankearth5840
@blankearth5840 4 жыл бұрын
“Men are not disturbed by things but by the view which they take of them” -Epictetus There is nothing wrong with introverts, all the answers lie within us
@oliviasoria7535
@oliviasoria7535 Жыл бұрын
Introverts ARE NOT SHY. We just consume more energy in social activities so we tend to avoid them when possible
@itswyke
@itswyke 7 жыл бұрын
Do people really need a VIDEO to know they are introverts ?
@stephen2414
@stephen2414 7 жыл бұрын
WYKE exactly what I was thinking. If you're old enough to understand the video, you're probably old enough to know what personality type you are.
@thunderdrake13
@thunderdrake13 7 жыл бұрын
I think most people know whether they're introverted or not, but have a hard time accepting it
@HowToTop10
@HowToTop10 7 жыл бұрын
Well, the video has more than that. But yea, good point
@LxstinNeverland
@LxstinNeverland 7 жыл бұрын
It's mainly for stupid people who don't know what an introvert is, or that they exist. It's for extroverts to also understand. See, I had a friend once.. She was a major extrovert. Then, we didn't really know these two words. But she always wanted to go in public, I always wanted to stay home. And she just couldn't ever understand why. If she knew today that I'm an introvert, and she understood what that means, everything would make perfect sense to her.
@thunderdrake13
@thunderdrake13 7 жыл бұрын
Monica Shantel Man Im glad she's no longer around you. I don't know you that well but you seem like such a self centered and toxic person to be around.
7 жыл бұрын
dude you put a lot of work in your videos. I need to raise the bar.
@Jon_N_Dunks
@Jon_N_Dunks 7 жыл бұрын
i cant tell if i just have low self esteem and poor social skills or im just an introvert
@MrCooj92
@MrCooj92 7 жыл бұрын
I'm like half and half I'm often outgoing and I can be very sociable, I'm not shy. but I do enjoy alone time and am completely comfortable not interacting with others
@amkateb7
@amkateb7 7 жыл бұрын
good job, I really appreciate the effort you have put in this video
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 жыл бұрын
+ahmed el kateb Thanks, that means a lot!
@GB-ic1im
@GB-ic1im 5 жыл бұрын
Being an introvert when everybody around is an extrovert simply... sucks! Why are you so quiet?! Can you relate?
@introvertreed6009
@introvertreed6009 5 жыл бұрын
I can relate. Sitting there not saying anything, listening to gibberish talk,then when you say something your voice is drowned by their noise. I usually find a way to escape before one of them says "you're so quiet," " you're too quiet." This usually happens at work with my extrovert co workers,that's torture.
@your_opponent
@your_opponent 7 жыл бұрын
Recharge-drain phone theory is perfect metaphor. I'm an introvert trying to be extrovert, but still I recharge when lonely and drain when socially.... This is hard to change for us.
@Merbzii
@Merbzii 7 жыл бұрын
i took an mbti test 5+ years ago, and resulted: "INTJ." watching practical psychology has helped me relate more to the "ambivert" personality depicted in this video.
@smileforever4374
@smileforever4374 4 жыл бұрын
I am an introvert but I enjoy being an introvert.. I love te be with myself only and not to talk to other people it feels more peaceful and relaxed.. it’s not that I don’t like to have any human interaction but I really do need a very less amount of it.. I don’t ever want to be something else I only want to be myself..
@martianmilktvofficial
@martianmilktvofficial 5 жыл бұрын
before watching this and learning what an introvert is, i actually thought i had a problem. basically everything you listed in this video applies to me.
@EnDERP
@EnDERP 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for narrating this time
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 жыл бұрын
+EnDERP No problem, you can expect it from now on :)
@luckyowl10
@luckyowl10 7 жыл бұрын
I'm an ambivert. It can sound like heaven to love social events, but also solitude in the same measure and want both from time to time. But the thing is, if you need both, then you must make time for both and be ambitious enough to get better at both, because you're not extremely good at any one of them (you feel nervous in social events when you know almost nobody and can get bored like hell alone). But this is what I love most about being a ambivert, I see life like a continuous challenge and enjoy whatever this day may be. At MBTI I scored extremely extravert like 90% , which is quite not "ambivert" but a test can never be 100% true so I'm happy with it. My personality type is ENFJ "The Protagonist", which is close to reality and other types which describe me almost as good are ENTJ "Commander", ENFP "Campaigner". Find joy every day!
@sanketchikalge6647
@sanketchikalge6647 7 жыл бұрын
it feels like home in this comment section 😅😅
@KindyBlossom
@KindyBlossom 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@rishikeshmusale6379
@rishikeshmusale6379 7 жыл бұрын
thanks for making this video it really made me feels good as an introvert
@ImStormFTW
@ImStormFTW 7 жыл бұрын
I've not watched it, but you know it's gonna be a good video when it's uploaded and made by you 😁
@gxp958
@gxp958 7 жыл бұрын
hi
@dutchnetherlands9519
@dutchnetherlands9519 7 жыл бұрын
Gods vs Sheep Sup bruh
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 жыл бұрын
+ImStorm
@ImStormFTW
@ImStormFTW 7 жыл бұрын
Gods vs Sheep Hi! :D
@ImStormFTW
@ImStormFTW 7 жыл бұрын
:)
@maxg9165
@maxg9165 7 жыл бұрын
Great video mate, spun me out a bit when i relized i had every trait in your checklist.
@haramarhara
@haramarhara 7 жыл бұрын
everytime I get out and talk to people, I feel like talking to NPCs and just stand there seeing like, "press E to interact."
@ravirshankaram7754
@ravirshankaram7754 Жыл бұрын
Introvert have confidence much more than any extrovert but just they don't make it public
@TheCharismaAcademy
@TheCharismaAcademy 7 жыл бұрын
Practical Psychology just passed FightMediocrity in subscribers! Congratulations!
@TheCharismaAcademy
@TheCharismaAcademy 7 жыл бұрын
Goes to show that hard work can pay off ;)
@businessmastery8748
@businessmastery8748 7 жыл бұрын
He was close for months! so good
@TheCharismaAcademy
@TheCharismaAcademy 7 жыл бұрын
Motivation for the rest of us!
@zzulm
@zzulm 4 жыл бұрын
And don't feel fake when you are going out of your comfort zone to be more social, it can be another side of you that others can understand better and it can still be you.
@ministerofnothing240
@ministerofnothing240 7 жыл бұрын
I'm always not really that sure when they say how do you act around other people because when I'm around my friends I'm more extroverted but around other people I always keep to my self and not talk as much or avoid talking to anyone in general.
@popcornfilms1
@popcornfilms1 7 жыл бұрын
Like everyone else in existence
@kwtf564
@kwtf564 7 жыл бұрын
popcornfilms1 i love you
@piperman9870897
@piperman9870897 7 жыл бұрын
Love your videos dude. Really well made, easy to follow and dead informative. Cheers for sharing.
@dezaraefreise6499
@dezaraefreise6499 7 жыл бұрын
I am an ambivert but I rarely hear anyone talk about it, and I don't know anyone else who is...
@creasor2478
@creasor2478 7 жыл бұрын
I'm a motivated, confident introvert :), used to be a bit like this before i got my confidence back
@adamharb9233
@adamharb9233 4 жыл бұрын
I just like to be alone tbh i like to eat by myself and watch movies by myself because i feel more comfortable that way. I have friends but i rarely hang out with them only at school. I try to talk to people but the conversation are too short. I like being an introvert but i wish i was like those people who have thousands of friends and would call you to hang out. People rarely call me to hang out or text me, maybe because i decline it lol
@blankearth5840
@blankearth5840 4 жыл бұрын
“Wise men speak because they have something to say; fools because they have to say something.” -Plato
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 7 жыл бұрын
DON'T TALK TO ME, I'M HERE TO TRAIN. Any of my people here?
@melodymurtaugh2275
@melodymurtaugh2275 6 жыл бұрын
Okay first of all, introverts are often not shy and they can be some of the most social people you will ever meet. They just prefer solitude because they genuinely enjoy it and they recharge that way! People drain us!
@sanyammalhotra58
@sanyammalhotra58 7 жыл бұрын
It is always idiotic when people say things like introverts are more smart or extroverts are more friendly. Introversion and Extroversion is differentiated on the basis of "Preference to stimulation". Introverts have low stimulation environments like their own bedroom or a quiet cafe with books as their preferred stimulation zone, while extroverts like high stimulation environments. It does not mean introverts are shy or less friendly, or more smart. Introverts can have better tendencies for being smart because they spend a lot more time with thoughts and books, but this doesn't guarantee that an introvert shall be smarter than an extrovert. I lie mostly on the introvert side of the spectrum, but I do know people who like to party all the live long day and can beat me in life philosophy or chess any waking moment.
@LxstinNeverland
@LxstinNeverland 7 жыл бұрын
Sanyam Malhotra I'm so glad you know what the difference between the two are. Many say "introverts are shy and can't be social". No, being social has nothing to do with it. It's how we recharge, that's what makes us different.
@humairasheikh9203
@humairasheikh9203 5 жыл бұрын
Really wonderful information, very well explained and presented. Thank you.
@BharatKumar-dc2el
@BharatKumar-dc2el 7 жыл бұрын
I am proud to be an introvert.
@shwayne9864
@shwayne9864 7 жыл бұрын
thank you!! this video really helped!! I'll definetly try your tips.
@shamierahkendricks5722
@shamierahkendricks5722 5 жыл бұрын
I'm A Proud Introvert
@DallasfanTen
@DallasfanTen 6 жыл бұрын
Introverts can be extroverts but only in spurts. The key is all about recharging. Read a book etc limit socializing until your batter life is full then you can be as extroverted as the next person. But keep in mind that you have limited battery life. Rinse and repeat. Extroverts on the other hand "recharge/gain energy" by socializing.
@sanjaydalmia18
@sanjaydalmia18 5 жыл бұрын
I'm trying to open up so I try to speak whenever there's a discussion going on. But I always end up saying something extremely stupid so now I wanna go back to being quiet. Jeez! Help me!
@g_mcp3962
@g_mcp3962 3 жыл бұрын
same 😔
@aneeshasb5485
@aneeshasb5485 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@MrSheymie
@MrSheymie Жыл бұрын
Introverts love communication and relationships, but prefer one-to-one communication (which can feel more genuine to the introvert) over group socialization (which can feel less genuine to an introvert).
@jmcowart301
@jmcowart301 7 жыл бұрын
Everyone has heard of these. And yet you throw in "Embrace the Nerves" with No follow on. Are you kidding me? Yes, I'm what you might call an introvert. I love my cave. I return to it as soon as I can whenever I'm forced to be out in the other places. I see my cave on a mountain, and I'd just as soon throw rocks at anyone trying to get here. So, yes. An Introvert.
@eevviiee4618
@eevviiee4618 6 жыл бұрын
I'm weird, when I'm alone, I'm super quiet around strangers or people that aren't really my friends but when I'm with my friends I just become super outgoing and "fun" like I get this boost of confidence wth
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 7 жыл бұрын
Who's the lady in the thumbnail for research purposes my good sir? 🤔
@Epic4reelzgaming
@Epic4reelzgaming 7 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Olsen I think
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 7 жыл бұрын
Epic4reelzgaming 🔥😈
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 жыл бұрын
+-Tom - You guys know how to find names so well, I'll have to find someone more challenging next time 😂😄
@Epic4reelzgaming
@Epic4reelzgaming 7 жыл бұрын
Practical Psychology what's the song that plays in the beginning and the end of your videos? its relaxing
@sanketchikalge6647
@sanketchikalge6647 7 жыл бұрын
Epic4reelzgaming is she introvert too??
@blakeriley8829
@blakeriley8829 7 жыл бұрын
Introvert doesn't have a negative connotation. Most geniuses were and are introverts so I take pride in the label.
@vedvartak9915
@vedvartak9915 7 жыл бұрын
I can easily make friends but i prefer being alone on my room... so what am i? introvert or extrovert?
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 жыл бұрын
+Mr. Awesome ! Ambivert!
@vedvartak9915
@vedvartak9915 7 жыл бұрын
Practical Psychology new topic to learn about.. will let you know if i find stuff that satisfies me..
@rafiq6521
@rafiq6521 7 жыл бұрын
Wow cool... i just found the right word to describe it:) thank you
@vickils9571
@vickils9571 7 жыл бұрын
Many of the individuals you named were believed to be on the Autism spectrum, also, many individuals who label themselves as introverted actually have anxiety and if they get help for the anxiety find they enjoy being around others more.
@anvitachandra1075
@anvitachandra1075 7 жыл бұрын
I am also an Introvert I have problem beginning or continuing talks with people am not really close to CAN U HLP ME PLS?
@LxstinNeverland
@LxstinNeverland 7 жыл бұрын
Anvita Chandra That's normal. Introverts do not find any reason to waste time in small talk with people they don't hang out with most times. We only select a small group of friends, and we call it good. We don't need a party to be social, or content with our circle of friends.
@blacksharkswimmer3729
@blacksharkswimmer3729 7 жыл бұрын
Don't let it get to you. No biggie
@wizfaai6089
@wizfaai6089 6 жыл бұрын
Introvert and ppl who have communication disorder is two different things. Please don't mistake this! Im confident to talk but rather smile at least if it just for idle talk.
@ApplepieFTW
@ApplepieFTW 7 жыл бұрын
MBTI has been debunked... It's almost completely meaningless Other than that great vid
@hyrakeshi
@hyrakeshi 7 жыл бұрын
I'm totally an introvert and feel the most comfortable while i'm alone at home or in my circlesBut i don't have problems with socializing and i think no one would think i am an introvert the moment he meets meThat's why i think the battery idea is the most fitting :)
@ritznavarte7416
@ritznavarte7416 7 жыл бұрын
what is a "friend"? is it edible?
@feanordunoldor7889
@feanordunoldor7889 6 жыл бұрын
I think it's a Pokemon
@baileymcbride18
@baileymcbride18 5 жыл бұрын
I think it’s a type of plant
@skynard83
@skynard83 5 жыл бұрын
I think the person who made this video was trying to be funny when he said friends
@avaangel777
@avaangel777 5 жыл бұрын
what type of food is it?
@KD-wz8tp
@KD-wz8tp 4 жыл бұрын
I love who I am, but who I am isn't understood by most people. An ideal work environment isn't easy to find. Being introverted is both lovely and difficult.
@everzamora9031
@everzamora9031 7 жыл бұрын
can you make a video about AMBIVERTS..thanks.subscribed
@KyxLimitless
@KyxLimitless 6 жыл бұрын
Ever Zamora yea I’m both
@utkarsh3708
@utkarsh3708 6 жыл бұрын
They are worst
@shorx9199
@shorx9199 5 жыл бұрын
nobody cares bruh
@Primape92
@Primape92 7 жыл бұрын
Would you mind doing a video explaining in-depth what an ambivert is? Based on what I've read on it thus far, I find I identify with that of all three of the terms fully. But I've also read that ambiversion is not even a certified official label.
@theusa9789
@theusa9789 7 жыл бұрын
Video is awesome but I already knew that
@PracticalPsychologyTips
@PracticalPsychologyTips 7 жыл бұрын
+The USA :D Thanks for the support!
@diogenesdacynic8656
@diogenesdacynic8656 7 жыл бұрын
why is being an introvert negative? i wholeheartedly agree that i am an introvert, i dont use it as a negative label however, but as a tool to foster further understanding of myself. Regardless of social interactions or success, Ultimate happiness comes from within....
@lightning1055
@lightning1055 7 жыл бұрын
Its not negative. Any article with any merit will tell you introversion is not a bad thing, and they have their own benefits. Also, very few introverts give a shit about being social. Their entire video is garbage. Not a single ounce of merit in the entire thing.
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